Episode 345: Coal Diggers (Feat. Aaliyah Jay & Romi Chase)

love Kia BOUTIQUEH in the candle. Yes, I know y'all have a lot to say about these war around couches, but these pillows make us feel brand new. A lot has happened on these couches. Let's not talking about that while we're here. We're here, so today it's all about content creation and we have some very established content creators with us, and so let's start with you, Romi. So let everybody know who you are. Um, Hi, guys, I'm Romi Chase, plus size model, UM, social media influencer and

an independent content creator. Okay, we have your vagina here, so people, just my first personal stroker. It's called stroker. I cannot say flashlight because this was not made by the flashlight company. So it's called a stroke stroke stroking, stroker stroke it for you. So we were having a conversation about it earlier and we were trying to figure out the mold. Is it just of the outside or do they actually go in and take a molder inside. But I think I figured it out by looking at

the box. So just like the outside of what your vagina, the mold is. It's just molded into perfection and the exact replica of my vagina. Okay, so vagina, yes, my vagina, my pussy look like okay, I said, inside is like bumps and stuff. Yeah, that's for you know, for the pleasure textures. O. So you have to get you know, the ultimate experience. And there's all different kinds of packages,

right that you can get with this. Oh yeah, there's you can use this separately and use manually, um it's just a stroker, or you can purchase it together with kei on, which is like the new technology that will provide the automatic experience. So if you put the toy into the key on and push some buttons and adjust a limp for strokes and speed, it'll do the job for you. So basically, Jack, you off cheating or I don't think so. I mean, what's the difference between this

and Jack and all? Really? I mean it's your vagina, but my vagina. Really, what you see now, what you feel technically is an exact replica inside from the beginning, internally introduced a Lea j before we move in for this Alea Ji. Hi. Now we know you from your tutorials on makeup and now you're also relaunching your clothing line. Yes I am. It's called Twisted Saints and so I just launched my first collection a couple of weeks ago and it went really well, so I'm super excited about that.

Thank you. It's huge, Yes it is. And you gave me here just a cute so you're a good walking billboard see your whole look. Thank you. But yeah, so I'm a content creator, so I'm trying to transition into being a full time fashion designer. Nice okay, alright, I love it. But we're here to support and help you. Now, cheating is that cheating? You think? Like? Okay, say your man had you know this particular romi Chase Stroker Stroker, would you feel weird about that? No? I would not okay,

it's an open mind. Yeah, I'm like I'm into that. I took my boyfriend at the time to the sex store and I tried to get him to get one and he was not with it. I'm like, this is fun, Like you just think about it, like if you I assume you guys have dill doos, right, But yeah, cheating, I don't think so, and you can. You can definitely buy a male Points start deal though, like yeah, so, I mean I don't see how that's you know, cheating. Does anybody use deal? Those are the people use vibrators right,

sort of vibrating? Yeah, I can't get into vibrators. I don't know. I don't know what it is, but it just like I need, I need, I need a real thing. Yeah, like I need. Have you tried to dick and vibrator combo? I haven't. What is it? Should I vibrator while you're having sex? Okay? I tried the vibrator and didn't care for it, Like it was just it felt good, but it just didn't like hit the spot, So I just never use it again. So it didn't make you orgasm? But you tried it only ones? Yeah it again shot

you come every time either. Okay, let's be clear. She it's supposed to write. You might have to get a different vibrator. You know, you might need a little more vibration. I probably got to try him out and just experience. Okay, all right, So I want to talk about some things that you'll have been putting on your well, let's get into some history first. So from a year from Poland and you were an English teacher. I was before I got into adult and people should tell you to cover

yourself up? Did it? Um? As you can see, I'm very busty, very thick. That is definitely not a beauty standard in Poland. Poll in Poland, in order to be considered attractive, you gotta be skinny, with blonde, skinny girl, no boobs, no hips, blue eyes, all that. So I definitely didn't fit the standard. And like I got a lot of ship for it. And then you know, I got into teaching. I was bullied a lot then I got into teaching, and that was the one situation was crazy.

This kid, he was fourteen years old, maybe one mus still, he said, I got a boner when I saw you at and I was I was a teacher. This is horrible. So I called the parents. The dad came and instead of like, you know, teaching him a lesson, he literally knocked the ship out of him right in front of me. And then my principle. Instead of you know, taking my side, I was dressed appropriately, he body shamed me. And you know, there's a lot of different things, but yeah, I just

teaching wasn't for me. Um. Not only you know, the treatment all this stuff, but I just I didn't feel good having to follow the curriculum and always have to clock in and listen to somebody, and I feel like I'm the leader, Like I'm a leader my nature. So you know, I quit that, like I'm more of a totally totally and so I quit teaching. And then you moved and I moved to the States. Yes, and they actually didn't love a thick girl here. Yeah, that's exactly

what happened. And I came to the South. My first city I came to America was New Orleans actually, so um, I stayed in New Orleans to stay in Alabama for a little bit. It's just all over the South really, and so I definitely got a lot of attention, and I was like, you know what, fuck it like, let me just try to like register like Model Mayhem, one of these you know social media. Just put myself out there and see what happens. And I got a lot of a lot of responses, and like shortly after that,

I was just like sucking. You know, let me just a girl use with you guy. I love it. Okay, we gotta gotta make that money. Especially, it was very hard for me because I wasn't a freshman immigrant. I didn't have my green card yet, so I couldn't get a legal real job. I had to hustle. I had to write. So that's how I got into content creation and I got into fetish wrestling and all that kind of stuff. Yeah, fetish wrestling. As you know, I'm a

big girl bbw um. A lot of men are into seeing a big girl's wrestle and abuse scrawny guy that you have, any screwny guys, you want her to wrestle and I need you to a couple. Okay. So I was. I was meeting up and humiliating very small, scrawny guys for eleven a hundred pounds for money. And they love it, literally, they love it. They had they had a chastity cage on during that the wrestling thing and everything. Why do

we love being like humiliated? That's crazy, it's mark I feel space right here, Dan, Yeah, do guys love that? I feel like personally, I think it's because of like the standard role of a man in society is to be the boss. I have to provide, I have to take care of things, and you know, they want to feel vulnerable to every now and then, so they definitely like this big dominant woman telling them what to do.

It's kind of like that, you know. It's just for the same reason why female CEOs CEOs and entrepreneurs like to be you know, choked and fucked hard and stuff nominated a lot of time. I'm not like that, absolutely. I love just about giving up control. Yeah, you want to know what it is being an entrepreneur CEO. You have to really be like in your masculine energy, so when you can be submissive, you want it like all the way. Like I'm really just not learning that. Like

I'm just not learning that. Like I'm like super masculine. There's like no guy that has ever made me feel like I want to be submissive and just like I just want to be like a little bitch, like you get safe enough where you're like take control, taketure, do whatever. So no one's ever made you feel like that, I mean at times, but then it gets to a point where I have to be like I now I got a boss up on this thing, like now I gotta now, I gotta get rough because now he's playing with me.

And then after I get that way, I can't go back. Yeah, it sucks. That's just like s She's doesn't give people a chance. Man, That's why she did that vibrator one time. I don't go back, go back girl. Really, Okay, I need some recommendations of like the ones that I need to get because I don't. We're talking, Yeah, now what's going on with you now? Because like you said, you are a boss, your entrepreneur. You said you have a lot of masculine energy. So what kind of guys have

you been dating? Are you single? Now? Who? Um? So, yes, I am single. That's a new thing. Yes, it is, um freshly new to like a couple, probably like two months now. So I'm at a point where I'm trying to figure out what I like really because I feel like everything that I did, like I don't know I kind just want to try something new, you know, like I just want to do something different, try something new, go this way, go that way. I just want to

just have fun and explore. Really, so like being single? You like being single? Right now? Yeah? I really do like it. I love it. I absolutely love it. And why did y'all break up? Um? Really, I just felt like I just wanted to think about myself this year. I just want to have fun. Honestly, I've never been single in my life. Yeah you do, and you might be private about your relationship, but everybody knows you're in one.

I've never been single in my life, so this is really my first time being single, which is so crazy because I'm twenty seven. Like I should have been single a long time ago. But I'm like at a point where you know, I don't have kids, I don't have no husband, I really don't have. The only responsibility I have is me and if I could keep that for however long I can, I need to do that. Yeah, Like, I'm not about the rush into nothing. I'd be seeing stuff happen. I'm just like, no, I don't want to

I don't want to go there. But you said you want to have kids in two to three years. I saw you post I did say that. I didn't say that. So you got about two to three years to live after being a life before a time of sun dance, you could drop these babies. Yeah, I mean maybe like two to five. Let's say to the five. Yeah. I extended it because I'm actually having a lot of fun, so I right, need more time, right, Also a serial

relationship person, right, I'm always in a relationship. And I was just single for two years and it was good. I got I had a lot of time to reflect and like really like work on me. It's cliche, is that sounds, but it's really a thing. And um, when I was um, when the when my guy that I love so much because I'm so in love, yeah, my boyfriend. When when the situation relationship fell into my lap? I feel like I was ready, you had clear the slave. Yeah,

I feel like I was. I was ready, And I feel like being I had just moved back to Atlanta and a single for about two years years and just you know, doing me and not having any like you said, no responsibilities, no nothing to you know, look forward, look

after or anything. And I've really had a clean slate, nice to be a little selfish too sometimes because it can be really stressful to be in a relationship when you're arguing all the time or when like you gotta be like man, it seem gonna be mad if I do this, Like you know that's stressful. What is so stressful? Like, I really I've never had this much fun before ever in my life because I'm always worried about like the

person I'm in a relationship, making sure they're okay. Like I'm a cancer, so I'm super sensitive, and I'm like always in love. It's like I don't know, I've just never been here in my life. But I'm really excited. I love you. It's really my selfish year. I swould have God, Like eight minutes unto the New Year, I

realized it was two. I was like it's two, like and I literally started shaking, and I was like, okay, wait something like I gotta I gotta fix myself, like I have to think about myself this year and just put myself first. And said, you knew you were going to relaunch your clothing line at that point? When did you decide that? Um? So I was working on it for like six months to a year and so it just so happened that it just like all happened at

the same time. But yeah, I've been working on that for like six months to a year or so, it just happened. Well, me, what's your situation, what kind of guys are you attracted to, and what kind of guys that you would chat And sometimes it's not the same thing. Okay. So first of all, I'm single right now, and it's very hard for me to find a man now because

of what I do. Man just either don't take me seriously or they just assume that I'm a whore and they you know, they immediately turned on the freak mode. They're like, oh yeah, let's get like slow down. Okay. That is a problem and also problems to a lot of men are not okay with what I do. They're not okay with the you know, d MS that I'm getting and the fact that I entertain men for free sexually, that I show myself naked for money. They don't like that.

A lot of them cannot handle it. They get possessive, they get jealous. And then on top of this, I just I have I feel like I have pretty high standards. I wouldn't say it looks wise because I really don't care. And I know a lot of people say this all looks doesn't matter, but it really they don't really matter to me at all. What matters to me is do you have your ship together? Because I cannot do stupid

and I cannot do bomb. Okay, if you and that doesn't necessarily mean rich or whatever, although your only fans as cheap man, please keep out. Yes, Okay, it does say that, Harriet. Now that okay, please don't waste my time. Okay. Now, when I say that doesn't mean rich, I don't mean broke and dusty. Okay, let's just get that it's different, because you could be you can, right. My point is I want the man to have to be ambitious, to

have a plan for the future. Like if you're just temporarily switching jobs and just not doing too good right now and and all that, that's fine with me. You don't have to pay my bills. I do very well financially for myself. I don't need you to take care of me. But I do need you to be ambitious and have a plan for the future so I know that we can build together rather than you just you know, being a what if he was like, I don't want you doing this anymore, no more, then you can go

funk himself. So I'm not I'm independent, I've always been. And the man that's not given he can leave me. I can leave him. We can. You know, everything can happen. And I built this business myself from scratch. So this is how you met me. You knew what I was doing right, and that's exactly it. I mean, you see a lot of men like they fall in love with a stripper and all of a sudden they're like, oh,

you shouldn't do it. You knew what I did right, So you were either okay with her or we cannot do that because I'm not about to give it up. I've come work too far, fair enough, so listen, I've made that mistake before. Um but I used to be a stripper. I used to work at Magic City and I quit because my excident want me to dance anymore. And I I mean, we were together for eleven years. There was a few breakups, but a total of eleven

years we were together. And that was the breakup that I had two years ago when I moved back to Atlanta. So clearly it didn't work out, but I regret giving up my freedom. So one of the main mons. Yeah, so one of the main So one of the main things that I'm so grateful for is that I gained I regained my independence and in a in a bigger, better way than I had when I was a dancer. So I so important. Thank you. And now she's been flourishing.

So I love to see it. I love it you tweeted something out And I want us to all reflect on this. Age brings wisdom. If now that I'm older, I don't know what the funk I was doing when I was younger. I see my younger self as a crazy person because when age comes experience. But let's reflect that some of our young craziness so that we all know were not alone. Definitely, We're gonna start with you, younger. What is something that you would say when you were younger,

was crazy that you did? Drinking? I don't even remember my twenties. I was drunk every day, like no, literally, Um, you know, when I was younger, I started stripping. I started working in the strip club, not stripping, I was bartended. No, I was waitress in the strip club, not a bartender. That life didn't even exist back then. But I was a waitress and I was drunk from then, and I'm seventeen years old. I started a seventeen working in the club.

And then as soon as I turned eighteen, like just maybe a day later, I started dancing, and I was drunk every day dancing. And then I stopped that. I had a baby, so I stopped drinking for a year, and that's the only year I remember. Did you feel like that? You? Yeah? Please? When I used to work in the strip club, I used to go as soon as I walked in the door, no matter what shift it was, whether it was a day shift for a night shift, I go straight to the bartender and asked

for a double shot of patrone. And back in the days, they used to give us, and this is a long time ago, I used to they used to give us Like you asked for a shot, it was a big It would be like that cup, yeah, filled with patrol, like it just maybe a little space in the top of the cup. So I would split that shot. I would get a regular shot glass, split it into four shots and take four shots right there before I even got dressed. Yes, And then right before I got on stage,

I would do it again. I would take another four. By the end of the night, I would drink a whole bottle of patron by myself, for sure. And I was a teenager. And then after I had my son, you know, I probably, like you know, I did the family thing. I took a break from the nightlife and I started working. I started modeling. I started working in the entertainment industry and working in the clubs as a bartender.

So I was drunk all through that. And then when I when the modeling thing worked out, I started making money from modeling. I was drunk all through that too, So yeah, I think it was funny. Remember I don't remember, but yeah, I definitely could agree with that. I look at my younger self, like, why would I do that? What were you thinking about when you tweeted that out?

Relationship stuff? So like, like I said, I've never been single, so I was always in a relationship, always got a new guy you mess up by And to me, now that I think about it, like that's crazy, because honestly, I feel like I didn't realize how much I didn't know myself back then. Like I was just doing stuff. I was just outside with this guy, that as a guy having fun. If you mess up, get out my face. Blah blah blah. I'm want to the next And I just wish that I took time for myself back then.

But I mean, everything happens for a reason. I'm doing it now. Did you ever have like an overlap when you would get out of my face and somebody thought y'all were still together? Yeah? Publicly, Yeah, yeah, I definitely had that. Um they all think that still to this day because they were like, she has a side, dude. Yep, they definitely said that, but it wasn't a side dude.

I have broke up with my boyfriend at the time, and like I said, I me onto the next, Like it's yeah, like it's not that hard to get a guy in like a couple of hours. I was just onto the next. And it just happened that I was dealing with him for like a few weeks and then I got back with my boyfriend and it kind of like it was like literally like a little overlap when I got back with him and I was like pushing

him out the way. Yeah exactly, I was put him out the way, and then like it was just it was a lot so did you tell your boyfriend at the time when y'all got back together, like while we was separated, I did. He literally knows he knew everything, Like he knew everything I did in my past, everything that like everybody I was talking to. He knew people I was talking to before we even got in a relationship, Like he knew because you told him where he knew because he knew. Did he ever throw it back in

your face? Because you know, sometimes you tell guys stuff and they use it against you know, he never, he never threw it back. Like we had like a really like good conversation where he told me like everything that he did or who he was talking to, or like what he was doing, and he accepted that. You know, we just had a good conversation. Didn't make you mad when he told you what he was doing. No, did

you ask do you want details? Because you know, sometimes we'd be like, okay, so what was this, like like how did you meet? I was like how did her ask? Film? Like how did it feel? Like what was she doing? Like what was she doing this? And he told me everything and it was just not funny. I was literally like laughing. I don't know if I could want to

know all those details. I don't think I know because I don't want to picture it because now I'm visualizing you would so before, you know what, I obsessed it for a break right well during the break and like before yeah, before we got together, Like right before we got together, he told me everything. But if it's happening during me, now I'm obsessing, like, don't play with me.

Like and I feel like, is he gonna be honest because like, let's just say yeah, man was like okay, so we was on a break, you sucked this other guy? What's he better than me? What if he was better than him? You're not gonna say yeah, No, I'm not gonna say that. Yeah that's I mean, I'm gonna tell the truth, but I'm gonna just, you know, water it down, like, yeah, well we did this, but it was nothing. I'm not pointing in my life it was better. I'm gonna just

be like, well, you gotta say it. I'm not gonna say it, but I feel like we need to say yeah, because I mean, don't be cruel. Now, there are men who are into humiliation. They want to hear how terrible they are and how this other guy sucked you so much better. They like my God, but maybe that makes them do better. No, they just they like the accumulation party. They like to be humiliated. They like you. They want you to tell him that they ain't shipped. They never

made nobody come in. That's disgusting. You wouldn't touch it. It looks like a fucking triple a battery. Oh that's they like that. Okay, No, But the reason why I'm saying that was not God damn No. But yeah, I mean the reason why I'm say and that we should be honest it is because men have such a minimal understanding of like how to be with a woman. Like all they know is like porn, and obviously porn is not real. We're acting in these videos. I'm not a

porn star, but I do content that's adult. I act in these videos. I moaned, I you know, exaggerate, I talk sexy, the bad girl to bag. It's not even a secret, you know, it's all out there. But I'm just you know, I'm just saying, like a lot of men get it from porn and they don't understand how to do this. And if you don't tell him that he's sucking up, he's not gonna don't have to tell anybody was better, you know, but if he wants to know if he did okay and he didn't do it,

he just because okay, let's be honest. I don't know about y'all, but I've had definitely had situations when I had a hook up with somebody and he's bragging about how he's gonna make me sque over the room and push push, come to shove. He's rubbing on my left flab for like seventeen minutes and there's nothing happening. He's like, you fucking didn't be that, because if he doesn't know that, he's going to continue doing that. I usually know if

he didn't make you come right. So that's what I'm saying. We should be honest. Maybe not don't be don't be good old, but like you'll be honest, like if you didn't like. The guys who like humiliation are normally the smaller dead guys, because whenever I see the humiliation, it always is the guys with the small dick that seem to like it. Yeah, honestly, like a big dig guy.

Mostly I do have, uh currently, um have some fans that are not small, but they convinced themselves that they are so tiny they want to have the small dick. They are into a lot, so they want their the white man. So they want to see me with like a black guy, and like tell them that and the black guy, like my body is made for the black guy, Like the black guy is the only one that can fuck me. I think they like that. What is that about?

I think again, this is about giving up control a lot of times, a lot of times these first of all, a lot of times these guys come from like you know, maybe trouble poems, and sometimes they have like a very responsible job and they have to do a lot, like they work a lot, and they're lonely, and sometimes they are just so burnt out and they've watched so much porn and they they just normal porn doesn't do it for them anymore. So they start looking for crazy stuff.

And then and they start searching for p and then they start searching for like some vomit play, and then all of a sudden they're into like some some even more crazy, you know what I mean. So yeah, it's it's kind of like that crazy that you have to say no to. That I had to say I don't do vomit. Um, I don't do like Scott, I don't. I don't poop on people. I don't. I don't do pooping videos. And that was so one thing that I

do not do is race play. So black man reached out to me wanting me to call them the N word. I do not do that. That's that's about I definitely say no to that. There's no amount of money there was. There was a guy who offered me ten thousand dollars for it, and I said no, I did you want it on camera? Yeah? What if if it wasn't on camera? Know, I just wouldn't because this is just something that I just don't agree with. Like I don't care. If I don't care, If I don't care, I'm not gonna vomit

on you, I don't wait. But like stick your finger and you could do that because nna, lie, I'm not I'm not her. I've never thrown up on a guy. But to do it you paid. I mean, I mean not to get paid. But if my guy is like, I throw up on the deck, I'm gonna be like I honestly, this is this is pretty basically there's way crazier things than people are into. Right, That's what I'm saying. I don't think it's like crazy a sprained ankle fetish

and like what do you do? You put bandages on your arms and legs and act like it hurts so bad and broken legs like role playing anyway legs like a yeah, it's it's it's the first aid kid fetish. So like the guys into like the texture that and then he wants me to like act like my my my wrists are sprained and my ankles are broken, and like I can't move if I can't do anything. I kind of get it this kind of stuff, but that's

not as bad as throwing up. I still that I feel like, maybe not not as bad, but it's it's weird more heard dolf. What about a baby like that? Has a guy ever wanted to pretend he's a baby? Oh yeah, adult babies? Oh yeah, I love those. Those are also I do a lot of mommy dome stuff as well. So yeah, like a mommy dominatrix like come to mommy. It's like, oh, Mommy's titty, and oh come here. A baby boy liking you know, let me breastfeed you. All that kind of stuff so yeah, that's like I'm

sting into this with an erection right now. Like adult babies that he dressed up at the baby foot the Enormous woman. I don't like doing that life cam life life cam, adult baby stuff because a lot of times they will actually pope in that diaper and they try to show it to you and I don't want to. Al Right, baby dragon, like you dry, like you're not really a baby. It's like enough of this content creation. Have you ever dressed up in the bedroom? Um, yeah

I have? What were you? Uh? Teacher? Nice? Yeah, I was playing. I think that's so fun, Like that is so fun, Like to act like you're like shuffling through the paper is great in the test and then he comes over and he's like, lifts your skirt. I think that's fun. That's cute. Made sound cute. Yeah, Like he's like, hey, like did I get a and just like put it in. I think that's fun. So that was your idea or his idea. It's hard to convince guys to do stuff sometimes. Yeah,

guys don't want to dress up. They don't want they want to see you dress up. They don't want to do anything. Yeah, just lay there and yeah, I went to the sex store a couple of times and the guys are just like, what's going on in here? Like get me out of here? Like it's so immature, but yeah, it was my idea. It's so immature, like I wish these nikus will grow up. But it worked out. It definitely did. Did he like it? Yeah? He did. It was really fun. Hopefully I can find a guy that

yeah into all of that. How is your Valentine's Day? Um? It was kind of regular. Literally, I didn't really do anything like I kind of just wanted to be alone. I had like eight guys asked me to be there Valentine and I said no to all of them. Nobody was a good prospect. No, I just know I didn't want it. I don't want it. We have a gift for you you. We want you to give it another shot, okay, Adam any sent these and we want you to test this out. Okay, So it's pretty and we know you

like pretty things. Okay, period? Is this a delto at the end because look it looks like it right. Yeah, listen, I feel like you gotta give it another shot. You tried it on time. It didn't work you're very open minded. I'll give it a try. Times say, girl, all right, now, let's talk about some more things that you guys have um posted. Now this is something more about like real life and friendships and all of that. But Alga, you said, whatever shitty energy you people are on, stay on it

by yourself. And that is so true and that's something that we've had to learn, like to remove people with shitty energy from your circle. So what made you decide to post that? What were you going through? Um? Honestly, you know, misery loves company and people who are going to try to suck you into their ship, and really like, I'm trying to stay aligned so that I could receive my blessings this year, because if you get off tried, you're not going to receive anything like the stuff that

God has aligned for you. You can't receive it if you want somebody else's element and somebody else's energy. So I try to protect myself from things that are not sent and good favor and people who prey on me and not pray for me, period so period. So I'm really like that, I'm not I want to know what.

I'm kind of like firecracker type of person, so I could get out of character very quick, Like I used to be the type of person who would just explode, like super explosive, like you say something to me, like we're fighting, and I'm just not going in no more, like say what the hell you want? Like I don't even give a funk anymore. Like the worst you could do is just cut somebody off. That's going to hurt

them more than you exploding. Some people like that reaction, Yes, they really, and that they want you to get out of character because it shows them that they have some

type of control. And I learned that this year. I'm working on control of my emotions and controlling what I respond to, Like you can't respond to everything even if you want to, no matter how bad you want to, no matter how right you want to be and how much you want to be, Like no, because this happened, you gotta just let it go on angry Island by yourself, literally like Arihan literally, like you're not gonna get nowhere, so these people like they could stay with the madrasses

over there. That, yes, Roy, how was it for you? Right? Because you went through a lot before you came here, and you were embraced for your curvaceous figure for being a BBW. So was there ever a time that you felt like, I don't know what I'm about to do with myself since I came to the States or just before that, because I can't imagine how difficult that is.

Like you said, you went through a period where you were a teacher, where people body shaned you until you came here and learned how to be empowered and to feel embraced and loved. So what was that period of time in between though? Because you moved, like you said, to New Orleans, Like what made you even move here? I couldn't do the nine of five. I just I'm not made for that. I'm meant to lead and be

my own boss. And I always knew this, but like you know, the way I grew up, they always taught me to, you know, go go to college, get a good job. You know that the standard stuff, and like nobody taught you that you could, you know, maybe do something else other than just go get a job and work for somebody and you know, slave for the rest of your life for like twenty percent of the money. And so I just I always felt like there was something wrong with that. But I didn't know what's because

nobody taught me so. Um By the time when I was when I finally figured out that I was done with that teaching job, I was like, I got one shot, Like I quit my job, I have a little bit saved up. I gotta go. I gotta do something. I've always wanted to come in to America always. I mean, it's pretty much like every European person's dream to just like at least come visit, because this America is so glorified on TV, in your the movies, the music, everything.

You know, they always like feed us like these these American things. American, This American American means is good. You know, that's how we feel. Um. So I came here and I was like, I gotta do something like you know, so, like I said, already, I didn't have a great card. It takes a long time. Now, it takes about two years to get your papers, and during that time you

cannot get a legal job. You couldn't married somebody, right, well, yes I could have married somebody, but you still wait, you still can't take you know, they got I watched every single UM spin off and I followed all the blog pages, so you can't work without your social security, You can't, you can't do anything. So I had to hustle. Like I said, I had to do the fetish wrestling. I had to do. How did you even get into that? Like?

How did you find out about it? You know? So once I started getting all this attention from men here, I hopped on Instagram and like I started getting followers like out of nowhere, because somehow it worked. That just it started working out for me. How long ago was that? That was three years ago, So it just, you know, I started getting all this attentional these d ms from it, and I didn't know force because I've never experienced anything like this, you know. So I was like, funk it.

I gotta do something with that. So I registered on Model Mayhem and I put a little portfolio up online, and you know, started advertising myself that I'll do some gigs, like I'll do some boudoir shoots and maybe like a little fashion shoot, maybe like a glamour shoot, maybe like a you know, then from there, from there. It's actually an interesting story because this guy that originally hired me

for the fetish wrestling thing, he lied to me. He told me it was a documentary about like like you know, women like empowered women, like learning, like self defense and all that. I was like, I didn't know because I didn't know who else going to wrestle. I had no idea, but I was so desperate for money. I needed to pay bills. I didn't have money at all. I didn't have a job, no money, living in the shitty neighborhood,

shitty house. It was terrible. So I was like, I gotta pay these bills somehow, And I definitely didn't want to, you know, go sell my vagina or I didn't want to do that. So how how else, you know, can I do that? So then I went and I did the fetish thing. Um. Yeah, as soon as I got there, where is this documentary? How mauch did they pay you for that? Peanuts? It was like, I think it was like four hundred dollars for like two hours or something.

So it's very Now it doesn't sound bad, okay, but for what it is, it's terrible because he obviously filmed it and he resolved these videos and still sell them, you know, because he at the time didn't know any better, and I needed the money, so I did it. But this at the moment I stepped in. The moment I stepped in, I saw the guy. I was like, wait a damn minute. He's four or eleven, he about ninety five pounds. I know this is a fetish. I've seen this, I heard of this. I did it anyway, and then

I later down there, I did a couple more. He paid me a little more later, and then I just you know, then I just realized that he was lying, and I was like, all right, fuck you. You know. But by the time I got my social I got my papers, I had already figured this out. I was like, this is what I'm gonna do. This is how I'm gonna do it, this is why this is gonna work. Next thing, I know, I put some savings until I registered an escort, and I was like, funking, I'm going

all in. I just took myself with my own money. Yeah. Let me I say this. When is the first time, even with a black guy, first time I ever black? I think I was. I was about nineteen, okay, but I said that was in the you know, there was in Poland. I was in Poland. For some reason, I don't even think about black people in Poland because there aren't any. I'm I mean, I could be wrong because

I've never been. He was a basketball baby, so yeah, definitely because there are none are I mean, the only city that you will find black people is more So much is the capital and it's mostly just Africans. They have a big community there. But other than that, Africans athletes. Yeah, athletes. But that's what happens when you when you don't when you can't make it in the States as an athlete, you go to Europe. So it was like the reject

like that, you know, basketball reject from America. Literally it is. That's exactly what tarant It didn't make more. Yes, they got kicked out of the right kick out because that happens to ye because yeah, they so they are terrible here when they go to Europe and they're a star then so that's crazy. Yeah, the basketball player was my first It was interesting. It was interesting, Yeah, it was I enjoyed it a lot. I'm not gonna let hilarious.

And I really didn't have much experience, like sexually then it was like nineteen I've probably been with maybe like two men like before. You know, So was he great? No, he was not great and not at all. He was not even a matter of fact, it was one of those that was bragging about how he's gonna, oh brag, but he didn't didn't do that. But it was stick exactly. I was just about to say that you gotta be careful for them. Yeah, thats an like. Yeah, I think

it was mostly about aesthetically. Just look. I probably just was attracted to him physically, and that was probably the biggest part of it, Okay, joining it rather than anything he looks good. He sucks, but he looks good. It was probably move mostly that at least it was fine. You think you could teach a guy how to funk. Yeah, you can definitely tell them what you like. You can tell them what you like, but do they listen? That's

the part. A lot of the guys something You're right after had a guy or two somethings, so he listened. A lot of guys don't listen because they feel like you hurt their little ego and stuff. Yeah, and it's like I've tried to teach a guy and it's like like you're not even like are you hearing me? Wait, God, did you try to teach them? I'm so curious, what

do you mean what you said? Okay. I tried to tell him, like, you know, I like it like this, so I'm like a passionate lover, like I like a lot of like slow sex, and I like to just make love. And he just wanted to just like like you're gonna get your No. Literally, I hate that. So I tried to like tell him like, okay, do it like this. Even in the moment I was trying to tell him, and he it was almost like I wasn't even there. What yes, it was like I wasn't even there.

I'm like, no, do it like this? And he just kept doing what he was just because he was being selfish and he was going hard like that, and you're like, chill, you know what. I like to call this When men do that like this is almost as if they're using our body to masturbate. No literally, seriously, like, what is the difference between you just dragging not even if you could give a man some tips in the bedroom, what are the three of the tap tips that you would

give on how to be better in bed? How to be better in bed? Okay? First off, why are you like when you're eating it? Why are you going mad hard like you don't got to go mad bads, like you don't have to do that. Yeah, like take your time and be soft, like our vaginas are very very delicate. We're delicate women relaxed, go easy, like they don't got to be all at like so that the last literally like you hungry, sir? Did you eat it? That's one, And then I think the next one is four play.

A lot of men don't know how to do four play, Like you can't just whip your dick out and shove it in there like like they're like twisting nipple and then try to stick it in what n No seriously though, like they really do that, which is so crazy because it's like I just feel like men just need to relax like that, take your time, take your time, like that's the words they relax. That's it, yeah, exactly. And then I guess the last one would be I don't know.

I don't know the last one. I just feel like they're just the last one referred to one and to write do you like him to like look at your eyes? Yes? I love that. I want to be talked to. I want to be I like passionate. I was about to say men aren't passionate a lot of men just like you said, I just want to go in. Yeah, And they don't even understand that passion is something that women crave, like we crave that in sensual and intimacy, like we crave that. You don't don't want to know what though,

they don't care. They don't care that we crave it or not. They know what they crave and that's just a pussy for a second period, Like that's what they crave. And that said. But I mean, it takes a special guy to do all of that stuff. There's they're out there that's sex you ever had? Um, I don't, I don't know. Um looks down you like the most. Is there anybody that like you stay with because the sex was so good that you like stay with them longer

than you Absolutely? Um. It was one long term relationship that I was in and it was like it was really crazy. We had a lot of sexual chemistry. Um, but he was like a dumbass and I just stayed around, And honestly, I even stayed around like after I took my feelings out of it, Like I took my feelings out of it, and I would just see him and you know, at that time. Once I took my feelings out of it, he was trying to make it work,

and I was just like this guy is weird. I'm like weird, but that yeah, I was like so annoyed with him. But I was like, you know what, I'm like frustrated right now. I just need a little quickie and I'm gonna just go home. And they just sat. Could he still call you to this day and I have a little something, just a quickie. No, absolutely you hesitated for a second, though I did. I did hesitate, but and that's because, like you know, the central chemistry

was really really there. But I'm like, seriously, when I say, like this year, I'm really like in my element, like you gotta be are ill negg to get with me, like at this point, because like I told you, I've been in so many relationships and I've just I've dated like a lot of a lot of different men, and now it's like you gotta have this, this, this, this and that to even deal with me, So like what is this, this, this and that. Mentally it's like a

mental thing, like you got to be mentally there. And that's why I say, no, he can't call me because I know he's not mentally there. I've spoken to him and I'm like, okay, you're on the same thing absolutely, So in other words, you upgrew him. H Literally a lot of people sometimes guys are bad for business too, because I feel like, if you're with the wrong guy, it can't affect you negatively so much that it affects you handling business absolutely. I mean yeah, because if you're

in like a bad relationship, you're exhausted. Like these people are exhausting, they're relationships in relationship with you know what I'm mean, Like, if they're just bad for you, you're gonna just feel drained, tired, the motivated, and just like you don't want to do anything, you know what I mean. And like a lot of times people mistake that for depression, but the moment you cut them off everything, it's you know, you are a bad vibe. And like people literally people

get on pills for that, people getting therapy. They're like, I'm so depressed, I'm always tired, I'm angry, I'm a bitch all the time on neck and all along. It was them. It was that person you know that was draining all your energy. And know that happens so much. I mean, how intimidating is it for a guy to

be with you? Because you said you're desensitized before we started this about talking about Dick's about talking about that you like people send you dick pis that they want you to rate so people might feel like she's seen it all, she's done it all. Um, how intimidating. Um, Well, men are scared of me period because I do take dominant approach on my only fans, on my social media.

It's not easy to impress me, Like I said, please for you, like okay, something that's worked for you that you've been like okay, yeah that There has to be this mental connection. There's no way around it. You have to have your ship together. And if you tell me something and I can sense that you have a plan that you thinking fifteen steps ahead, thinking like a boss, I funk with that because I cannot. I cannot do bombs. And I just a lot of people like are so

complacent in life. They're like so like a little check. Yeah, Yeah, I'm me. I don't stop. Like I've made my first million, I'm trying to make another one. How do I make five next year? How do I make ten in a couple of years, you know what I mean, launch the toy? What's next? You know what I mean. I'm not waiting for this to sell and see how that goes. I'm already working on something new about of retweets to everybody's amazing. Yeah. So I'm just always like trying to figure it out

and and build a comfortable life for myself. And you know, a lot of men they don't like that. They're intimidated by that. They're scared of me because they feel like they can't impress me. And time you've been impressed, probably maybe a few months ago, it wasn't too long ago. I get impressed all the time, Like I tell me

what it is that what it did impress you? Like, so people know it's it's just the way the person like presents themselves themselves, like if they're well spoken, and they again they think before they talk, and like they're independent, Like you know what, I cannot stand people that are like, well, I can't do it. I can't do it. It doesn't work, I can't I can't text before I give you, before I help you solve your problem, come to me and tell me that you tried ABC and this didn't work

in this pot. It is personality somebody who was like this can't work that because they do that to you too, they'll be like, oh, that's never gonna work on time. It's really hard for people to be vulnerable. That's a that's a really vulnerable spot and like that's really hard to be in, Like dead serious. I learned that like last year. I'm like, damn, like my ego is crazy. I gotta at least be honest with myself and just say it because you never know what could come out

of that. But that's like a really hard place to be in. So yeah, I kind of get it, but it's like it is, it's really annoying, like super annoying. Yeah, Like there's so many men that just you know, this happens all the time. This literally happens every day. They're like I want to check you out, I want to fuck you, I want this, I want that. And let's say there is like a list of things that needs to have that need to happen before that can even

become sidered. But they never they're never going to do that. They're gonna it's not gonna work. Why are you asking you about b if you haven't done a right. It's always a process. I need to see you put some work in. So yeah, that's really small egos. Yeah, so that's really what it seems from too, Like they really feel incapable, and you know sometimes you be trying to encourage them and they don't like that either. Like sometimes guys have a problem asking for help. For sure, let

me ask you, this is your wife's tenders Winler. I didn't watch it because everyone would tell what happened Valentine's Day? He said, what, me and my boyfriend watching it together. Honestly, I think that's that was badass. So everybody should why the story, But you know, you still see itself. It's interesting. This guy had ale echo system. The reason he got these women is because he was bringing them on a private jet flying them out. They thought that he had

so much money. They fell in love because they were looking for love. They were on these dating sites, you know, trying to find a man, and they think titching. I hit the jacket all had. His dad is like a diamond, He sells diamonds. He comes from this rich family. He did put them on a private jet at first, you know what I'm saying. So he had, he did have money. He had money from them, so like let's say I use money from you to pay for the how money

from me? Swiler? And then like but then after that, right, you start feeling like, oh my god, because then he would be like, oh my security guard got beat up and they're doing this, and then and then you're feeling like I have to help him. And I'm thinking to myself, what if I was dating somebody They treated me so good, did all this ship for me, and then they sent me a picture of their security guard beat up. I'm

thinking the dad owns this. I'm in like bloody yeah, and I'm like, oh my god, he needs my help, and now I have to help him because that I got to felt for. And yeah, that's what I'm saying. I shout out to every guy who else pulling me on a private joint. I appreciate you, God bless you, but don't call me when your enemies. I after you about credit cards, that's crazy, Like there's a limit to how much money I'm not like taking out a line of credit. Yes, And they were taking out loans like

payday loans and line were doing that. They were getting like users on there got AMEX cards, it's x Carna. Think if you get some money, money, like okay, you know what I got you? Like they were taking dollars like a day, like he was spending like crazy. He was like ten thousand here, twenty thousand there. Because they also thinks he's rich and he's gonna give it right right, that's o D literally Now. The one girl got him back though. She sold all his clothes. Okay, somebody told

me that. Yeah, he thought that she was gonna give him the money and she played wait, so she was like in his house. No, she told him like once she hit the fan and she was like, you need money. You got Balenciaga, Gucci deal, let's sell it. Problem. Every money was a label. Yeah, she kept the money. She worked in retail fashion, so she took all his clothes and cleaned him and pressed them and put him on eBay and sold them and kept all the money. That

was crazy. But I feel like this ship was battery this guy. The way this guy put this whole funk when he did how they felt, the way he did this was genius. Like you know what I mean. The way they can't come after me if I'm scamming her she's given me money and I'm paying for her with her money technically also got to make the money back, right like, and I'm like, now the one lady sold his clothes so she can get some of her money back.

And I heard that he had went to jail for like how long he went to He got sent this to like fifteen months and went to jail for like four months now right because he got an agent now and a podcast. He's trying to do a dating show. He's actually charging charging and he's charging people for like online classes with my classes on how to be a swindler my level. I'm going to ask the ladies here, have you ever used a guy just for money and got him to give you many times? Now it's Monday,

and I'm wearing my Magic City hoodie. Okay, yes I've used money. Bad about it? Absolutely not. No, I have to be the odd ball and say I haven't. Me neither, I really haven't, and I'm actually mad about it. I'm I I've never looked for someone to specifically use it for me money saying all right, I've never met somebody and thought, yeah, I'm gonna specifically use you for your money.

It's them they're like, oh, let me buy you this that if you guys do do that taking something from someone that you know you don't like she took that nor you know what does wait? Okay, but I'm just saying I felt, Um, you know, I feel bad because I know I'm not gonna give him anything in return, even but that's they're bad. I'm not asking for nothing there, I've never asked anything. They're offering it, and I take it, you know, And that's your fault because you think you

could buy your way into the pussy. You can't. I feel I feel like, first of all, men like to throw around this term gold digger, gold digg at this gold digging, that old pussy is expensive. Pick one in your budget, okay, because speaking because if you're not paying for a prostitute to fuck you, you're paying for your girlfriend's dinner, her nails that use women and get women to pay for ship for them, right, Yeah, that's that's a lot less coming. I would say, like the standard

is the man taking care of the woman. You know, whether it's right or wrong, I don't know, I don't care, but you know that would you pay for dinner? Like absolutely well? Half these guys that's out here screaming gold digger, ain't got no gold to dig that's a that's really the gold diggers like money, they don't mind, but they got the guys who got the money, they don't mind if you guys they don't have it. That and guys that remember there was like he kept buying me stuff.

I was like, I don't want it. I had to be like stop good, yeah, I don't want to, right, And you don't feel bad like I did. I didn't want it because I didn't I was gonna go out with him like right. That's what it becomes problematic because a lot of times they'll like try to spoil it was and then start really scared. I wasn't really scared,

but he would you know what it was. He would be really like nasty too, you know what I'm saying, Like you know how guys get angry when you don't want to talk to them, Yeah, and then being mad like you're not talking to and I'm like I don't need anything to you a huge red flag. I'm yeah, so I don't need that, and let's be clear, like I could buy it. Guys will be like, oh, I can't buy you anything that you can't buy yourself everything

you want, you just go and get it. It's like, yes, I remember one time Max got me at Chanel bag for Christmas. I was like, oh, this is so sweet. And I opened up my other gifts and he got me H and M shirt and it had Nikki on it and I love Nicki Minaj and that's the gift. More. I lost my mind, like literally, it's literally the thought that counts. Yes, it definitely is. It was a shirt. Yes, true. Yeah.

I used to live in London. But coming back to like them, you know, use the man for money, I don't do that anymore because again I'm running a business now and what I'm doing this is a service that I provides. I I'm not scamming them for money. You pay for something that I'm offering your diaper. Right. So, but when I when I was you know, well I was in college every now and then I had to go to England or somewhere to get a job, like a little summer job, get some on you because it

was it was hard financially. So I lived in England for a little bit and I went with my friends and we were in it like this room it was. It was terrible, just terrible. But anyway, we had to host, we had to rely on men, like paying for our food, Like we were so broke to the point date with you that I couldn't afford food like guys, so we were literally I definitely have done that, and they I was younger because I was hungry and broke, right, and

then you know, get and then somebody. Okay, but but I also wouldn't have gone on a date with somebody

that I didn't like at all. Yeah, okay, no, yeah, I didn't do that either, But it was like, let's just say, my standards weren't that high, just like alright, guy moment right, and then you know, I would get him to pay for like my Oyster card which was for the subway, and then you know for like a little dinner here and groceries there and paid the rent and like I had too because I feel like we wouldn't. We were not before we got a job, because the way we went to England, we didn't have a job.

We just flew to England, but is out and we got man. You know, it's crazy men it's harder for them to do that. Like as women, I feel like we can go to the club with no money. Yeah, you come drunk and you eat. Like, I can't do that. Literally, they got out a little bit. They gotta do the thing like what would you do if, now that's your single, if you were in the club and a guy was there and you were like, oh, you're gonna buy me a drink and he was like, I'm gonna be honest, like,

I don't really have it like that right now. I've been having some financial difficulties. Okay, so two things this happened. I would respect that, Okay, Like honestly, I can't, like really, you know, I can't do that right now because this is not that respect that. Yeah, like I respect that, Like, okay, heard you. I would respect it too. But I'm like, all right, I wouldn't respect you like this, But I

had somebody to do that to me before. Recently, Yeah, with a hookah fucking hooka, Me and my friends went out. He bought one hookah and he goes, I'm like, yo, you are in another hooka. He's like, no, I only got money for one. I'm like ok And then and then and then was literally running me down the whole night. Some pussy like Oh, I'm like yo, Like you're in my face, like literally like saying that. I'm like, yo, like you know that's a bum, that's that's broke and dusty,

Like what broken hook? He like, give me twenty of that? What's the little things you put in the testaments? Give me twenty for this. One who goes like that is not okay. Let me tell you why I wouldn't respect this, even the honestly reason why. It's because if you don't got to like that, what funk are you in the club? And why are you hollering at me? You don't I'm

sorry you don't have money for a drink. We're not talking about rent, We're not talking about like big drink, right, you have bigger problems if you can't, you can't, like what are you celebrating? So are you this right? Are you saying that you're homeless? Because if you don't have fifteen dollars or whatever, I'm sorry you. Maybe you need to get your priorities straights hookah at It depends at

my club. It depends if you get the pineapple. Okay, we're just between thirty and sixty dollars, Yeah, like a like a hookah spot that's like a specialty anywhere from like thirty to a hundred and ten dollars. When you go with your friends, do you pay for everything since you got money like that. No, I don't pay for everything, thank god. But they definitely like pitching. You mean my girlfriends,

your girl Okay, yeah, no, we like pitching. I would pay for everything, though I have done it because I'm like, you know what, like I haven't been outside with my girls in a while, Like I love them, Like, let's just live it up tonight. No, whoy, you worry about nothing. Let's just bust it up. So I do do that sometimes, but not all the time. Angela feeds us all the time.

I love that, you want. My friends are like super stubborn and like they have really big egos, so they don't even want me paying for them, Like they don't want it. They're like no, like what this Like, I don't want that because they knew me before I was who I was, so they really just try to like make sure that they don't want to use me. But I'm like you, I've always been I've always been like

super generous with people. I remember when I was younger, my friend went to law school when we graduated, and I really wanted her to come with us to Miami. I paid for her trip even though I didn't even have it like that. I did that too, but I was like, I want you to come like that. I love that. I did that too before. I love it. Well, listen, I really appreciate you. This was really fun. And you know what we're gonna do when we do we get

to keep this. Yes, maybe we'll give this away to one of our Google boys, Yeah, to one of our listeners. The guy for are so mad we're not giving it to y'all gonna do a giveaway. Yeah, we're gonna mail this out to someone. This rummy chase they got to do to get it Stroker, right know, they got to subscribe the Yes carry it and I gotta subscribe to my YouTube channel, right They getting their makeup to subscribe to a lip service YouTube channel and exactly and Twisted Saints,

let's talk. What does that name mean? So it just means that you're just a twisted person, like you're just in this world that's us on this podcast right now. You're just in a twisting world, just being yourself and just honestly, I'm trying to create this whole like universe where people could just do what they want, like really just wear what they want, do what how they want, not care about judgment. I care about when nobody else thinks. And I kind of wear really like kind of crazy

outfits sometimes. So I'm trying to put that esthetic into my word. We love it, We love how you Thank you cute? Thank you well? And are you going to use your vibrator? Yes, I am going to use it. Got to let us know. I'll update you guys. I'm gonna could you said it felt good, but you just yeah, it was good, but it just didn't like do like you didn't come from it. No, oh yeah, I mean you definitely got the orgasm crazy at this point that the dude, I thought that could be a good addition

to the Twisted Saints family. You think so like a fashionable vibrator. Imagine that it is pretty. Now, it's pretty. If you did like some pretty ones, it is pretty. The platinum edition, it is pretty. It really is outdate you guys on that, all right, we're gonna be checking for that. Yeah, you're gonna do a vlog about it? I will, and of course brot me taste. Thank you so much. This is your first time in New York, Sol, Yes it is. I'll help you have a good time.

Shout out to Laney Spies and through our girl Miss Laney. We love you. And um, this was fun. Yes, it was so much fun. Thank you for having me. Thank you so much. I have last. I really didn't have a last. You guys ready to go wrestle? Yeah, let's go wrestle. Let's I mean, I need a wrestle man that you have the body slam And I'm serious. She's like, I have some puny ninety eight pound man for you to slam. Literally, don't lift service