Episode 33 Ft. Havoc From Mobb Deep

how to make the best sex tape ever. I know you can give us some tips on things you need to do to make a great sex tape, some tips on how you gotta know how to hold the phone. Angles. Angles, angles are great, Yeah, I think, um, to make a good sex tape, you should switch it around. You know, sometimes you should hold the phone. Sometimes he shall hold the phone on. That makes a really good one. So you can't just put a stable and like and that's right,

And that's what I was gonna say. Next, a stabilizer from a stabilizer. Yeah, and um, like get really close as close as possible, twig. Yeah, that makes a good sex tape. And the A and the guy should shave also, you think, yes, yeah, like you shouldn't manskap because it makes your dick look bigger. It's true. Um, I think that good sex makes a good sex tape. Correct, that's very true. You gotta show out. That would be my tip. Just make it good, you know, with Kim and tape.

With Kim and Rag tape, everybody, Um said it was bad, but I didn't think. I thought it was good. It was kind of boring. I'm not gonna lie you think. So. Did you watch your habit? I watched some of it. It was she was a little dull. She was just laying there and then you know what I don't like. I don't like when people seem like they're putting on

Like she didn't seem authentically right. She was like it seemed like she was you know how say stuff because you want to seem like you're doing a sex tape and you want to make somebody come me like, oh my god, suck me hard until you come. It didn't seem real to me, Like do people really say that like that? I say these things like that, but she didn't seem into it, and then he kept spitting on her pussy, so I kept thinking she was dry. Yeah,

that's maybe that was just something that he likes. I don't know, it seemed dry because I didn't hear no squish and no macaroni and cheese. I'm saying now and go. Space was saying, if you're pussy dry, spit on my dick and put it in. I mean, yeah, that's what it is for. But don't you feel like then you didn't do your job if you have to spit. No, not necessarily, because the chick might just be whacked. She might just be one of those people. Wait, so her

pussy is not wet, so she's whacked. I mean, maybe you're I mean, I'm definitely not whack because I'm going into easy, you know what I'm saying. So if I can't get you a roused, but I didn't roll with you. They always say that there's certain in a relationship. Somebody's a giver more than the other person. So you would say you're more of the giver. Definitely, definitely, you know,

I'll go all out. So we were talking last week about four play and how a lot of times guys don't do enough for play and how important is that. That's if you don't give a funk about this, you know what I'm saying. That's that means if you don't care, wild waste time with full play, if you don't care about the chick, you know, just sticking in the business.

I think there's different kinds of four play, Like before sex, you could do a lot of making out and rubbing and things like that with all sucking, you know what I mean, or spitting right, And I don't think the guy necessarily doesn't give a funk about you if he's doing that. I I mean, if if the guy is like, all right, come on, let's go upstairs, take your clothes off, all right, call them right there. That's just let's just get it. And all situations don't call for four play though,

well I agree with that. Yeah, sometimes you're in the backroomtime you just want to just get crazy and be like, you know, it's just right, but you have to be that that is, the four players have to have happened some type of way, because when you get to that point where you need to get to it, then you run on the phone text messages that like that something stimulated your mind, the once you want to have sad No, And that's like, that's what I was saying, Like when

I pull up to the house and I'm weaking already, right, just what to be a waste of time if you started trying to suck your toes and yeah, like but you know she might dry up. But are you a kisser? No? Not really really no, so you never feel like yeah, making out of so much. I mean, you know, I'll do it, you know what I'm saying, but not willingly. No, willingly. If you know, then I'll turn it to him. Okay,

that's nice. He adapts to whatever situation. Robert Liquor. Yeah, what if she's like, hey, I just need I want you to suck me in my ass? Then she's getting all right? Would you do that to somebody that say, the first time you have sex? Or is that something you build up to? I mean, it depends on the person, you know what I'm saying. Like, some people, if you just try to suck them in their ass, they're gonna

look at you like you crazy. I definitely look at you crazy, Like that's what used to what do you think? It's a difference between now and like and back when myb deep was you know, when you guys were out on the road all the time, and I'm sure it was a lot more private, Like there were times you could do things and you have to worry about it being on the ram, you have to worry about it being on Twitter. You don't have to worry about being

on the blogs. And nowadays you feel like you gotta be careful, super careful, you know what I'm saying, because nowadays, like you don't have a chick and bring them over your crib and you think they're using the bathroom. They's sucking taking pictures right Snapchat, you go to the kitchen and now they got pictures in your bedroom. Is just crazy. So you don't got no defense after that, questions do you take take their phone? Oh god, oh my god.

But you see, that's why you shouldn't be messing with girls that you gotta worry about things. Like some people bring but some people that you think that you know that you like cool and you build a report with them. Some people can really you and they'd be fucking psycho, Like, holy ship, I had no idea. She was like, you had some sychic experiences? Yeah, what's the most psychic thing a chick. Every dude go on fucking uh Twitter and post some of my private pictures. Damn like that, like

you'd be sending out dick picks and everything Twitter. I'm super paradis is out there is out there. Dick picks aren't that interesting anyway, not at all. But when you have a girlfriend is bad. You don't put your face in it. Yeah, no, no face, no case. But when it's your girlfriend, your girlfriend knows your bathroom floor, she knows you, she knows your dick. Yeah, you know. I'm talking a live be dying for my Buddha sent me a dick pick, Jesus, I don't. I'm dick The mail

he sent me dicking to me. He didn't send me a sick pick, but he sent me like a bol he sent thee yeah, like his boxers. And I'm just dying, like like just just just send it, just sending it. Because a guy sent out a pick, I'm not gonna

ask for it. Let's keep it real, dicks, Like, can you tell that's my man's dick if you get a picture, I mean if it was a guy, yeah, somebody that I'll been with, and let's he has like a very like noticeable birthmark or a certain type of I'm not gonna know, I'm gonna I would know, I would know, I would know, I could, I could tell dicks apart, you think you can identify your man's dick in a dick lineup, especially the yes, guys that I've been in

serious relationships with. It for sure, not even I don't. You could put guys in the lineup that I've been with and I'll be like that one, that one, that one, for sure apart, I'm very up that you can. Thusies are like faces. They all look different. They have similarities, but they all look different. What's better? Like people was like, oh, she got a fat pussy. I'm always like, what is a fat pussy? What does that? Why do guys like

fat pussy? Because they look good? They just look good and they feel like com so cushiony right when your hand. It's nice. And to have you ever seen a pussy even like, yes, yeah, of course definitely for sure? What makes the pussy ugly? Roast beef? Too much roast beef, A lot of hanging, a lot of hang time. What do you think much? As a man, I think pussy looked pretty in general like but like in my in my definition, pussy has like way too much hang time

and like ys and maybe like um hair bumps. Maybe some guys like or too much hair or not the right you know, just hair bothering? You? Are you old school? You don't mind a little puff, but it got a smell clean, can smell like piss, like pussy out of here. You don't want pussy? Oh my god? Have you Have you ever woke up next to you because I know you had some fun times when you were younger and not even remember ship. No, I never did that really and been like damn, how did she get in here?

I never did that. Have you ever sucked somebody and regretted it and been like, damn, she's terrible looking in the light. No, you're lying. Yeah, I don't regret, like you know what I'm saying. Like if I did, I'm like, You're never just gonna do it again. You never had to sneak a chick past your friends like, oh man, I don't want to see Definitely, definitely, definitely like let me get whatever. Have you ever been so fucked up that you couldn't get hard? Damn? Don't lie because you Yeah,

so you had stuff you couldn't get hard. I've been nervous. You've been nervous to the point where, like I probably what would make you nervous about somebody? I know guys getting nervous. I mean just like if he went somebody for the first time and you just you want to go, You're nervous, like, damn, I gotta get busy, I gotta

show out so much. Just be nervous. I've had guys um for the first time have sex to me and I could tell they're nervous, like the shake it and they're like, damn, so that really I've had guys, Yes, I don't think I've had that experience. You just don't know, because he would say he played it off. But I've had guys that they finally get to sleep with me and they're like, I can't believe this, this is soul.

I can't believe this is happening now. Stephanie, you were telling me about somebody that you know that hit you up and they were asking you about dating. They've never been in a relationship. Yeah, somebody hit me in the d M and he said that he never had a girlfriend before, and he's just wondering how a woman would feel about dating someone that's never had a girlfriend they have. How old were you when you had your first real

girlfriend slash relationship? Because I feel like a lot of guys they've dated and they fun girls, you know, but they don't consider somebody their girlfriend. And that's a whole another level. How old were you are you say when you were in your first real relationship? Damn nice? I mean you know, that's the hood. You know what I mean in the hood. You know what I'm saying. You

hook up with somebody. Yeah, but I mean like a relationship, like, hey, that was a real relationship, Like I used to spend a night in a crib atten good lord? So you how were you when you lust your frativity? You don't want to know that were you? So I would assume it was an older girl. Was she aversion too? She probably was like sixteen? It's illegal. Wow? What was your first time? Like? It was fun? You know what you

were doing and not. I definitely didn't know what I was doing, but you enjoyed it and I got that little tinkly special feelings, so I know, so it was going on. He probably lasted like two seconds five Do you only do it one time and that was it na every summer after that, every summer because it was because I was in Kimp. It was like a sleepaway kid. She must have been like a counselor somebody give him

some paper so we get spit his gum out. We can you know we could hear that and the like he's holding it in his hand all right now, How aggressive do you think um a guy should be? We were talking about this earlier, right, and Stephanie likes her men aggressive. I do, they like my matter, But what

do you mean aggressive? Like when their first meeting you, Like, you know, when their first meeting you, because you know they always say that persistence overcomes and sometimes you don't want to date somebody, but you end up like doing it because they're so aggressive. Like a guy will never hear from me if he's not aggressive with the calling me or texting me, because I'm not even if I like you a lot, I'm not going to reach out

because I don't like rejection. What do you think I think that um aggressiveness can be a guest, a gift or a curse. It can help you and or it can hurt you. It just all depends on the situation and the whole um. There is a such thing as being too aggressive to the point where it's creepy and you're like what right? Or aggressive can be like oh and that night when you're actually lonely and like all right, let me hit this guy up. Yeah, the one that's

been trying, let me finally give him a chance. So yeah, well, what do you think? How persistent? How aggressive are you when it comes to dating? I'm pretty aggressive, you know what I'm saying. I'm really aggressive, because I mean, you got to show the other person that you want to funk with him. You don't get fat to relax, I'm saying, mouth. Yeah, Like routinely, I curve. I curve even if if I'm interested. I curve at first, like just to see where it

has had it out. Because if I curve you the first time and you're just like all right, whatever, you don't really want that, it's like you don't really you're not really trying, you know that. But if I curb you and you're like, no, no, you can't, you can't curb me, No, it's like I can't because we don't want to act like we just did it like so easily. You know, challenge though, right, definitely, definitely because there's no challenge at first. I think she's doing this with everybody

pretty much. But does it matter to you? Yeah? It madness because what if you starting and start liking the person, You're gonna hold that against them for the rest of the relationship that they were so easy, right, Yeah, But they always say that sometimes you can meet somebody and hit it off right away, and what does she one of the homies back in the day, Does that matter because it seems like the circles are so small it doesn't really matter one of the homies or just somebody,

you know. If it's just somebody I know, then't don't matter, right, But if he it depends on It depends on how the homie treated up right, right, you know what I'm saying, Like if he was treating up like a piece of ship and really don't give a funk about it and he expresses that yeah, face daily. Honestly, if a woman got treated by that like that by anybody, they should not go next to the circle because the circle knows circle. But strange ship happens. Man, you fall in love. Sometimes

they just change that. People change the girl up too, because you were kind of I'm sure you were kind of a slime ball as well, so she got to forgive you as well. I wouldn't say I was a slam boy, but you were a rapper or you are a rapper. I'm sorry, but I'm one of the good guys. This guy all right? Now, what if the first time you have sex with somebody is whack? Do they get a second chance? Yeah, they get a second chance because they could have been nervous. Right, do you ever feel

like you've been whack? Probably? Do you know right away? Like how you know you'd be like, oh that versus terrible? Do you know right away? Like because after you to the bathroom and just be like you gotta cop of plea? What do you say? I don't say. I was about to say usually they don't see anything they said. I just want to explain what happened when my sex is whack. I'm like, listen, we gotta do it again? How can a girl have whack sex? Though? Can not? But there's

just there. Yeah, there's some times like you just don't like you just you just not it. It's just not there. It's just distracted. I can't say that I'll be even on wach sex in the past couple of years, but I know the best of us for sure. Why what was whack about it? I slept with this one guy a couple of years ago, and um, we were drunk. We were so drunk, and just nothing was working. Nothing was working, like like the liquor, like having me a

little dried up. And then like we like kept hitting our heads have bared like it was just bad, bad, but we we tried again. It was It was a lot better the last few times, right, for sure. Yeah. One of my friends were telling me she had sex with this guy was terrible the first time they had sex, and then like a couple of months later she did it again and she was like, Wow, it's amazing that

it was so much better. I can't believe, you know, I didn't know I would ever give him another chance after that first time, because sometimes you only get one shot. I was in a serious relationship with somebody who the first time we had sex it was awful. It was so bad. He had to suck me like seven times for me to be sad and side God in the

same night. It was like seven times, and it was just so bad and I curved him for three years after that, and we still friends, and I kind of will be like like, he will trying to be like, what, so can we hang out tonight? And I'll be like, my mother's calling me. I'll call you back, if you know what I mean. But then we ended up the next time around. It was good, all right. Now, let's

get some questions off at the Instagram. How do you deal with a long distance relationship where you can't see the distance ever being removed and you are both a different paths in terms of marriage and kids, but you've been together for more than seven years, so it's hard to let go. Let go and be friends. You just gotta see each of them more often. I don't see why it's impossible if you're in a long distance relationship and you'll decide you want to be together, what's impossible? Right?

Like why can't somebody move? Yeah, the other person could move, or you can't get another person somebody. I was in a long distance relationship and I'll eventually moved. Yeah, somebody gotta move, that's it, or it's not gonna work and I didn't plan on moving, Or what about when you're dating like an athlete and he doesn't play in the

same city that you're you're in. No, this is not personal, but I'm just saying you have to And if you're a year for that person and you guys care for each other and it's genuine, then you have to adapt to your situation. I had to make it work. Yeah, I think that you could make it work. Which is, well, he's on the road a lot. He ain't gonna playing exactly, he ain't gonna forever. Out somewhere I heard was it for you to maintain a relationship being on the road

all the time? Right? It was? It was kind of hard because you know, when you're in the music industry, people don't trust you, you know what, smad girl. So do you think a woman has to be like, Okay, I have to understand what he does and every now and then she got to know what she's sawn it up for, you know what I mean? Like, come on, you know, I mean not just rapping, but you know, entertaining sports figures. You know, anybody travels, And yeah, I

think he gets he should get a couple of passes. Damn, what about can she get some passes? Yeah, she could get That's what I last week that most guys wouldn't say that, But that's what I was saying last week. You know, Um, for for God to date me, he needs to understand my lifestyle that there I might there mayn't be times that I'm traveling a lot. There there might be times that I have to be out a

lot in the nighttime. You know, like you have to just understand that to be in a relationship, even just dating me, like not even a serious relationship, would you rather be with the girl who's in the spotlight or somebody that nobody knows it's low key? Somebody that's low key. Of course, that's just the way I'm just like sometime it's fun to have like that power couple that I mean, you know, either or for me, but I would prefer

somebody low key. I used to say that I prefer somebody low key, but right now, at this point in my life, I would prefer to date somebody dot and understand. You not understand my lifestyle. Who understands that there's groupies as male groups, says film group bees. You know what I mean? All right, Listen, everybody, a male group is probably worse than female groups, even for guys like yes, yes, they want to smoke with you, they want to be out with you, they want to call you, they want

to tell everybody you they big bro. Al right now. Healthy need had a question on Instagram. Um he was saying, teach women and give tips on giving good head, not that thirty second bullshit. You first, first, your first. You have to enjoy. You're good at what you enjoy doing. So if you enjoy giving head, you will be good at giving head. If you find pleasures necessarily though, you

could enjoy it but not be good at it. I would think, and you know what a tip for the ladies giving you know, to have to give somebody a blowjob. That's a long blow job. You don't relax, don't go too fast, you get get yourself take You gotta switch it out and can't stay doing the same thing switching up from switching. Don't don't use both hands at the same time because you're gonna get tired. Use one hand, use the other one that made two at the same time.

If it's gonna go yeah, hand, I'll start slow. You don't you know the ball? They only the hit you know you can have like they're like you. Because I want to know I want to know how true what they're saying is. So they're saying, switch it up. They're saying, um for the long haul, don't go too bad your time with it, don't use both hands at the same time.

What else I would say? They're pretty accurate, right, Yeah, just sell little guys like guys like when you start slow and then build it, build it up, you know what I mean. That's patient and you can't leave the balls out. You have to get the ball from immediate thing. Some guys are ball people and some guys. Yeah, some guys don't want you to touch the balls. That's because they're too sensitive, because they're crazy. But what's your balls like having? They can touch you can touch you, but

don't be Yeah, miss texticles are like Faberge eggs. You gotta treat help, be careful, and you know, you could go a little harder on the dick than the balls, don't. It's not the same. That's just saying because the last clip service that we did before with Miles, he was saying that guys like to have their balls like kind of I mean, not their balls there, I'm dick kind of rough, right, and they like to be nibbled on sometimes. He said that true, because I don't know if that's true.

It depends on the person. Everybody likes what they like, a little nibbling, a little Yeah, depends on the person. What do you like if you feel teeth? How do you feel about that? He was like, that's cool, really not, it's always taught, you know, no teeth, not through the whole motion. But give me your hand right when you come in your mouth, and then you can kind of like with your teeth a little like greeves a little,

a little graze. Yeah, I think that's never was about to put my hand in her, my hand, like, give me your hands. We got farm. But you don't go that far all right now. Another question that we had that people were asking was about would you be with a woman who didn't give head at all? She's childish? Yeah, I wouldn't last long, really long. A man needs need. No, that was that important. Yes, sorry, it's it's a call to the whole situation. Yeah, what period. He just don't

get n exactly. He gets a hand, jaw handed maybe ain't know what if she does, ain't know, and then she get a gold star. But you still got something to be at the choose between antal and oral both. You have to pick one or the other. I guess you know I like to do the access, so give me then I'll take it. Okay, so't it's greater than oral? Okay, Now Nadine gets said, who gets up for the rag? That's the question. Who is for the rag? Whose house is it? Yet? No matter whose it is, the man

got to get up for the rag, sweethead. All right, the man gets up for the reg I think, let me stop getting up because I know, does you know I get a rag? Make a sandwird? You get a drag? Baby? I mean, when it's in my house and the guy's guests in my house and he's not really used to being there, I'm gonna be like, babe, you want some water, let me get you a rag. Right. But otherwise, you know, if it's somebody yours, if it's his house, what if

you're at a hotel. If you're in a hotel, he gets it, you gotta go get it and make sure that what did make that don't come back with no yeah I did is disrespect and if if he did his job right, your dad in the battlem you can't get out. That's when he who sleeps in the wet spot. All right. Now here's another question from Elsie musician. How much, if any, difference in attraction and status did we choose the cute person with less over the beautiful physical person

with status who has twisted motives? So what's more important to you somebody that is um good looking but doesn't have a lot, or somebody who is who has a lot of a lot of status and everything, but doesn't look that good but he has bad motives, so it doesn't even matter if he looks good. All right, listen, good looking but doesn't have a lot or a status, but not that good looking. I'm not really a look type of person. I think that my looks are good

enough to compliment us in anyway. So I'm gonna go with the person that got to going on versus the person that look good. Okay, your attraction is more about what's got he's got it going on. That's more attractive somebody that is successful, because then you can learn from that person. You know what I'm saying. But are you going? You can always? You can always, you can always buff them rough edges. And you know, y'all know what money do to people? Would make them look better. You can

always foush, you always buff them rough. I didn't feel about having a public relationship like posting your women on Instagram, AM, and I don't do it. I'm not into that. I don't do it because because it's like a million haters out there, people jumping out the woodwork. As soon as you post your girlfriend up, yeah everybody. What if she's like, why you don't want to post me? Yeah? And I'm gonna tell why. It's like, because do you want this

relationship to last or don't you? As soon as I post your pictures, you know it's over after that, Like it's tag me what about taking her out to the club and stuff like that? And I'll do that all day. Man, You're just not gonna put no pictures on anything, pictures because you're supposed to keep your relationship private. In order for it to work, you got to give it a fighting chance. At least get five years in before you

start posting program. At least I agree with that. You know, I was public about my last relationship and I regret it. I totally regret it. I totally regretted. It was an embarrassing fund up situation. But do you think if he was the right guy, maybe it would have been on that wasn't really the right But I still I fee

like we we have waited to do that. I feel like you should give it at least a year ever sale foundation, Like let us be exactly where if if we get any any negative reaction from people, we could just look at each other and be like, whatever, baby, we knew that was gonna happen. Yeah, that was my That's kind of leading into my question, like what if

there's a marriage involved, like not relationship. You guys are married and I didn't want to post the wife for vice versa are married with kids and and don't post that ship at all and nobody knows. Is that weird? That's smart? That's smart because nobody's in your business. I mean, when you have a family and kids and everything, that's I don't know. I don't know how you can hide it,

but you don't. I don't feel like, but if a woman don't you feel offended, like damn, let these bitches know you have a Yeah, but if you're confident in your relationship, you don't need no post. What I'm saying like, you with your relationship, you don't need a post to put the standpoint. Like when I'm dating somebody and they're like, oh, you don't never post me up on your Instagram, I'm like,

all right, this relationship is over. Now. What if you're dating somebody and you're dating somebody else, do you tell them what? And so if you're dating to people and you are you just with me or are you dating other people? What do you say? It depends on the type of relationship you have with that person. Like if you're trying to build something with the person, no, don't tell them you're sucking somebody else. But what if they

find you don't believe? I think you should be honest from the gate because then you know, down the line, they'll they'll love you for that. Because listen now, having if you were dating a girl and she told you, okay, you know, but we're not in a relationship and yes I am dating somebody else, does that make you feel like I don't want to sunk with her anymore? Doesn't make you feel like, damn, I gotta try to win her. Yeah? You want her? Yeah? And then plus you respect the honesty.

You know what I'm saying, So you know, down the line, everything is about honesty and transparency open book. So if she asked you, and she asked me, and you would be like, well, yeah, I'm dating other people. I'm gonna tell the truth. Like what does she ask you specifics? Do you get into specifics? So you know, I'm not going to get into specific So last night when I try to call you and you didn't answer the phone, well, I was sleep, I was sleep. I'm not gonna lie.

I'll tell the truth. I told you be like, well I was sucking somebody else. I'm not gonna say I'm not gonna say fucking, but I'm just gonna be like I was chilling with somebody. I'm not going to rub it in their face and be like, yeah, you know, I was sucking somebody. What makes your side to settle

down with someone? What makes you decide to settle down, Like what makes you decide it has to be the person, Like if they that that person that fulfills your needs and they fulfill every aspect you know that you need, like you know, cooking and on your side, trying to build you up your back bone, and somebody that you don't want to let go, you have to settle down with him. So you have to Stephanie, what was you gonna say? Where was I We were talking about dating

two different people and the competition aspect of it. I just feel like if a guy tells me like, yeah, I'm sucking you and I'm sucking somebody else, it's more like for me, it's like I'm not good enough for you, like like you're bugging. I don't even want to focus you no more. Let me tell you something that just happened one of my friends, and I want to see

what you think because we had this debate about it. Okay, So she met this guy, she started dating him, and then he told her that he had met a female before they met. She lives in another country and she was she was coming to visit but he didn't want to can but this this was before he met her, before he met my friend. And then he said he had a girl coming to visit. He wasn't going to cancel her trip, but he was just giving her heads out, just say, you know, this girl is coming to visit.

This is before you have a friend. Really, she to stay in his house. She was staying with him and everything, and it was something that was pre playing. He was like,

I can't make her cancer. The trip girl was coming from Hawaii and she had started dating this guy and he had a girl coming in from Hawaii and he told her, like, I have this friend that lives in Hawaii and we planned a month ago for her too, and she had probably been seeing for about two weeks and he was like, a month ago, we planned for her to come visit, and she's coming this week and she's staying with me. That happened to my friend. But it's kind of like, I appreciate your honesty. This is

something that happened before me. What is he supposed to do for me? It's like, listen, I don't I'm not asking to counselor trip, but book her hotel and that's it. If you're gonna make a girl, she can't stay in your house and or you should like, I don't want to know that that's not your man. If it's not my man, it's like, no, no, it's a turn off. I'll probably stopped working with him. She did, Yeah, exactly,

I'll stop working. He was like, you can have that and when you're done with and I just feel like there's so many men in the world you don't have to put up with things like that. You know, That's how I feel. What do you think having as a man in I want to hear this from a man's point of view, because I was like, well, he was honest. He told you the truth. He didn't have to. He could have just went missing and made up some excuse, but he did come to you and tell you the truth.

This is something that he had planned before he even met her, and it is kind of respectable that. Okay, I did you know, make these plans with this girl. I don't want to treat her like ships. But at the same time, you know, I mean, what does that mean he has to cancel the trip? Right? If you like the girl, if you like to feel like if he doesn't cancel the trip, that he still has feelings for this girl. If he doesn't cancel the trip, he's still and you're and if you're like, oh, I understand,

you're allowing him to to like somebody else. You're allowing him to stay with somebody, get to know somebody for however many days they're going to be there, and you know, so long for them to want them more. But at the same time, we haven't even known each other that long. But it's promoting a bad habit. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Early, I'm like a write bull. How fun. Don't call me no more because if you got hurt,

what you need me for exactly? Like one good it was nice, But then maybe he'll be like, well, damn, I shouldn't even tell that real ship. But often that happens when you like, yeah, I was honest, and now I could have just lied and everything would have been okay. She wouldn't never know. That's why people lie because we feel like it's easy to hurt you. And if you know, you know, if you don't know the truth, then it won't hurt you. So people lie. Yeah, but it's always

going to come to the light anyway. Yeah, better the truth if the shoes on the other foot. For me and I started, I met somebody knew and I had and I really liked them. And I had this person coming from Europe or wherever they're coming from, and you know, I already planned it, but I like this new person. Um, you know I'm gonna cancel it. I'm gonna curve the person coming from out of the country because you know what, that's not my problem. If you still want to come,

then you come. But just know that I found somebody that I like, so I don't know hand to hang out with you. Yeah, because if a chick confronted me with that, she's gonna have to cancer that trip. And if she don't cance for the trip to you don't really funk with you like that. Yeah, but it's so early in one it's hard to say. But this we

building the blocks. This is the building foundation. If you can't do something dramatic for me right now, you're not gonna do something dramatic for me down the line, you know. And it's early, like, let me see how you do this, and you know what, and if if the guy canceled the other girl for me, it shows like he's going beyond for me. You know, he's doing extra for me, he's doing more. But then at the same time, he doesn't know where your relationship is headed yet it's still

super early. Yeah, so he just canceled the trip, give the other check excuse real quick, what happens? Check? And then you know even a bit and come later, she's never coming home, right all right, now, let's talk about this. Somebody sent me a email and they said she said the guy that she's been dating for the past ten

years has been having her. He told her that his child support was seven fifty dollars a month, but she found out it's really only a hundred and twenty one dollars a month, and every two weeks she's been giving him two hundred dollars out of her paycheck to help. Okay, wait, why is she giving him money to pay his shold support? Yeah? I asked her that and then she emailed me back and she said she said they did it over ten years and just this past year he's been having some

financial issues, so I chose to help him. See me that he never asked me for help before. He took advantage of her kindness. But they've been together for ten years, so that's nothing to take lightly. No, no, and that's a good reason for her to help him. However, he should have kept one huney with her on how much it was. Once he inflated the price of with the with the child support was then he was betraying her and taking only a hundred seven dollars that you know,

child child support goes by what you make. If you don't make nothing, you're only going to pay a buck. Would you ever ask a woman for help or with that being her for for your pride? Never would I ask so for help, not for money at least would you feel weird if a guy asked you for some money for some help, even if it's somebody, that's something, Um, it has happened to me, and I don't let them live it down. I know I might be a as soon as we got to argument. You forgot you all

me a thousand dollars. I don't even let it. Yeah, and I just feel like, um, me myself as a woman, I don't even really feel comfortable with guys doing a lot for me because I've had guys do a lot for me, and they always, oh, if it wasn't for me, you would to have this, If it wasn't for me, you wouldn't have got that. I don't like that, so I don't. I don't really let guys do too much for me. I'll accept the gift here and there and

things like that at a trip blah blah blah. But as far as the guy like paying my bills and doing things for me, nah, you said you don't let a girl even pay for dinner. It's hard for me. You know what I'm saying because I like to take care of people. So like if I'm at dinner or something like that, and you know the woman wants to pay, I really don't. What if she wants some need some money for something. What if she's like, oh, you know, I'm having some problems and I can't pay my rent.

I hope somebody, Oh that's nice, not now ges. What if a guy asked you for some money, girl boy, but it's somebody that you love, they've had some hard times as of late. What g why are you looking at me? I just roll my eyes so hard. First of all, not to discredit any man and where they are in life or what they're doing, but just me personal and where I am in life and what I'm doing. I'm not going to put myself in the predicament to be around or be with somebody that's gonna need me financially,

because even if you are going through hard time. First of all, I deal with grown man. I don't deal with children. So a grown man has something to fall back on. A grown man has saved, a grown man has invested. A grown man has put those blocks in order to wears the when he has a bad day where he has a bad time. Nobody knows it because he has something to fall back on. If you like, well,

I just put a house. I spend all my money doing the down payment to do this is and that I just needed, you know, a couple of g This is where I come from. And I don't know if this is I don't know if this is just you know how I was taught, um, you know, and as a young adult. But when it comes time to make a significant financial purchase, you cannot spend your all on

that significant financial person. You should have enough to make that significant financial purchase and have the same amounts still in savings or still at least at least close to the same all done. Now, I'm not gonna lie, but my house I had to put down. Your house is one point a lot of money I ain't have shipped for a little while. Yeah, sometimes you make those sacrifices. Yeah, but you're not a man. You're a woman. You're a woman. Here's that catch twenty two. It's different for a woman

than it is for a man. The same way a nigga to go out and sling his dick all over the United States and he's the man. But if I post think my pussy across Texas, I'm a hoe. Then if he went and spent his money on everything, on his home and everything and he don't have nothing else to back that up, if he down for three months, nah nab. I mean for me, I'm very independent, you know,

I do everything for myself. But I'm very generous, you know, I um, I give, you know, I give what iut asking i'd like to buy my guy, and I agree definitely guy. As far as a guy like asking me like, hey, can you help me pay my rent as more? It just sound crazy. And I also felt like you should have some other people you could ask because I never had to ask him in like where's your homies? Where's your homies? That your father? But what if like he has family members that he had to help out and

it was extraordinary? Said, if it was an extreme case and I had it and I really did this ship, listen, if it was a stream case and I had it and I really could be there to help him, then yes, but I gotta pay a hospital bright. But but if it's just some bullshit, then no, because you should be able to cover the bullshit. You should have something on the back burner for the bullshit. Yes and listen, jay Z said it. Most chains is cool the cop, but

more important it's lawyer fees. You can't be out here spending your money on frivolous bullshit and then when some real ship come up, you're looking crazy. And as a man mistakes, that's true, but as a man, a grown as man ship be able to handle that having Like I had to ask my girlfrin, people ship happens, and people just make mistakes, especially financial mistakes. We all had. I've made financial mistakes. We've all made financial mistakes. Girl. However,

there's that catch two. A man is supposed to have his ship together financially, and a woman is not supposed to be a home That's all right, So I have let me ask you this. If we're talking about money and all of that, what's the best gift you ever bought a woman? The best gift for ever board a woman? I would have to say a call d D Daddy. That's good, that's great. That it BMW. Yeah, that's nice, that's nice. That by my own BMW just now for my birthday myself. A BMW is a brand new one

because you had one. That's clear, that one got ready, that one got a new one birth say, that's an investment. Yeah, it's definitely seen it. That's an investment into your future. Though, I would assume, like if you buy a woman a car, you're like, Okay, we're gonna be together fever for sure. I mean not forever. But you know we don't be together this weekend. You're gonna drive me around the d

have other niggas in the car. You know what if you women to car you that's for a ride from the airport and she say, nae, that's why you gotta keep the call your name just joking, I'll just joking. But she will have some you did put it in her name, Noah, for sure. You said she'll have some issues. She don't have some missages. She don't pick me up for the motherfucker. Import Like they're still hard not to be paid. They could not be paid, they could get repoked.

How honest are you with women when they ask you about like you know, things about your past and all of that. Are you a bedroom talker? You know how you lay down in the bed and they're like, you know, with guys, they tell you all they ship while they lay down with you laid up, man, you'd be like, man, I hate prodigy. Man, oh I don't, I don't. I don't. I don't do that. You know what I'm saying that

I definitely don't. You know. As far as talk, we could talk about like, you know, excelling, you know what I mean, and achieving more, but I won't talk about my personal business too much to just anybody that I'm laying in the bed with. How hard is it for you to trust somebody? It's really hard, you know that. It's like it's super hard because people have arterial motives, you know, so you know, you might tell somebody something and next thing, you know, like Tony, other people know

what I'm saying, it's just crazy. Would you ever write a book? Yeah? I was in the process of writing a book. You know what happened. I'm still writing it, you know what I mean. But it's it's going to be pretty good. Like what's it? So? Is it like a memoirs type of thing? It's just a book just uh, describing my you know, my first forty years of life. Just do it or not even or some like you

know mom deep ship. But everything leading up to that and then beyond, what are some things about you that are going to be in that book that nobody knows yet that nobody knows. Uh how much I like art, you know, like you know, the paint and draw and stuff like that and stuff like that. Now that's a nice game. That's a tough for gift to give somebody if your day you pedro are artistic in other ways than what they're known for. Yeah, that's true. Yeah, so

that's not surprising. Is that something you feel like you can make money off of painting and drawing? Pretty it's a hobby, you know what I mean? I know eventually if it's would be like, man, I bought this painting from hat. You can make so much money, you know, we can start a gallery. Are you good? Though, I would say, so, we got to see some work. I'll show you some work. I'll show you some work, you know, because I can say I paint and drawing it shouna

be wacked. What about? What are some other things and what made you decide you should write a book? Because I'm sure proud of you writing his book, which, by the way, I enjoy that kind of sparked me off. I enjoyed that a lot that that spark that that's because I never thought about writing a book. So when he wrote a book, I was like, oh, shoot, I should write a book, especially because he probably said a lot of ship about you in there, and you were like,

I gotta refute some of it. Yeah, at first I felt like that, but then after a while I was like, you know, that's his story, So I mean, I want to tell just my story and not have it being uh dictated by whoever wrote what, because we all have a different story. Like we can all talk about the way something happened and you'll recall it a different way

than somebody else would recall it. But you know what it made his book grad was that I thought like he said things about himself that were like kind of embarrassing that you wouldn't necessarily want people to know. See, like, oh, he gotta be telling the truth if he's going to say about coming from the suburbs and you wrote his rhymes and stuff like that. Talking about all of that,

The book was pretty good. It was. It pissed a lot of people, but it wouldn't have been a good book if it wouldn't have You know, it's supposed to do that. Are you concerned about pissing people off? Uh? Some fifty fifty and fifty fifty. I don't like to piss people off, you know. I'm kind of you know, confrontational, right, But in order for the book to be good and honest, you are going to piss some people off. Sure, you know what I'm saying. The honesty is definitely going to

piss a couple of people off. All right, Well, we're looking forward to that half fire along. Are you with it? I'm like ninety percent thing. Oh it's almost done. Yeah. Yeah. The name of the book is called The Solid Partner, so it's going to be pretty good. Oh ship, you think you're the Solid Partner? Yeah, you have some wild time. You feel like you lived your life and like you're good now. You just everything's calm because listen, you used to be out and about in these streets. I'm not

gonna lie, and I don't want to. I don't want to say it. What now I was gonna say Back in the day, I was young, and I used to see him in the tunnel all the time, wilding out. I wasn't even old enough to be in there. Truthfully, of course, you weren't, but I used see him in the tunnel like every single week. Now where do you go? Do you say, Hey, I don't want to even go out because too much it be happening. Yeah, I don't. I don't. I'm like a homebody. I don't go out

like that much. Only if every once in the blue moon. You know what I'm saying, Because I get enough going out when I'm on the road on tour, and you have to when you get paid for it. Yeah, I'm on tool like ninety percent of the year, so right, let'skeep it and Stephanie, we don't go out if we don't have to. Yeah. No, I don't go out at all unless I'm booked. Right, It's like very rare for me to go out. You think that's just like one

of my friend's birthdays or something like that. The clip scene is so different now than it used to be. You think that music like and everything the way it is nowadays is um You think like back in the nineties was way better. I wouldn't. I wouldn't say it was way but it's just different, you know what I'm saying. I think the kids are enjoying the music this out because we don't have ship like the Palladium, the tunnels. We don't have stuff like that anymore. Just suck it up,

you know what. I don't know how the close scene was back in the days, but the music was definitely, definitely way better in the nineties. It was more substance, you know, it's more it was more hip hop. It was more of a variation, you know what I mean. Now it's just like one sound, right, that's it there in New York sound. Now, it's not a New York sound all. I don't think a lot of room for it.

It's not a New York sound. It's just New York artists, uh emulated and the sound this out today and sound making it a little different, but it's still a trap sound. As far as women, what's city would you say has the best women? What city? If you had to say this city that women are happening looks definitely giving you a dirty look already, Like I have to say Madrid, Madrid. He left American as American women, and we're not doing it for him. Why Madrid though? Tell us why I've

been in Madrid one time? Different like white girls they white. They seeing Spanish people are white, like that I'm Latino. You know, I'm I'm Latino. You know what I mean? What's still happening about girls in Madrid? That we could bring some of that here? Mean the yeah, the whole it is just crazy, you know, the little what do you mean he's like to buy like, give it some specifics that we know, what are we doing wrong? Here? Friendly? A little bit more friendly, you know what I'm saying.

A little down to earth. Yeah, that's how I feel about the Southern man. I feel like the Southern man hospitality. Yeah, it's so nice and it's so cool understanding because here in New York, you know how y'all do if you try to kick it, and I feel like you'd be like, I feel like the men from New York are like, they want you to baby then they want they want another mother. They want you to do everything they mom did New York. New York want to be like, they

want you to baby them. They want you to go get the rag, they want you to get the New York biggest. I lived in the South for ten years and the Southern hospitality is a real thing and a good Southern boy. It's amazing. It's a good thing. But I'm with a New Yorker now so now, but I like the New York because I'm Puerto Rican. You know, I like to get abuse. She likes to fight, choke me up, not physically, but she likes to argue. I don't really like you, dude, No, I don't. I haven't

had to argue, haven't. I have issues with Stephanie where we'll go someplace and the whole time should be outside on the phone arguing, And then now when I sue, the end of the argument should be like where the fund is? You got right now? I'm coming there. But that was when I was in a bad relationship, a very bad relationship. I ever had an argument in months? Are you argue? Having? Like? Hey, god, no arguing. I changed the subject so I can't trap you into no

damn argument. I try not to get into an argument. I try to switch the subject. You ever got into a fight with one of your boys over a chick? Nahas? I definitely never got into a fight with one of my homies because I'd be like, fuck it. I would like fun both of them, for both of them have fun. You don't ever have no like competitions like hai, I'm gonna take this girl, because I remember being on the road back in the day, you know, when I was working,

and I've seen all kind of crazy ship happened. You never had guys be like, Okay, I'm gonna take this girl from his room and oh yeah, they do the robbery. But you know, if you could do that with the the chick is not worth it anyway. That's a fact. You ever was wanting trains and stuff like that, You ever ran a train in the nineties, was running that. I've seen some incredible ship, Like really, I didn't even think a girl could take that much like niggers like crazy,

that's a lot. That's soretness. She's dead right now. In my last her, she can't do a little more because she's hurt. Vagina. Yeah she saw from that. It's one RP to her. Would you participate in that though? Would you be on the line these days? No? No, no, I mean back then and you did, like of course you feel like you have to be first, or is it okay, let me get my first first, you know, because after that I'm out of there, right Like, I

don't know. You ain't gonna say, guys, are you trying to be number seventeen first, and did you ever look at those girls like if you ever saw them something like hey, you remember me? You all ran a train on me? Ever ran into them somewhere else? They act like they just regular, like nothing happened and what's up? Like I want to test. I used to want to talk to them and just ask them like why did

you do that? Like you was d before Drake. You don't have a nothing nothing not that they did, not not to try to talk out of it, but to actually what did she get out of that? Like I'm curious, like going on in your mouth, like like you know exactly, like did you come. I fight with the thought of having two guys at once. I fight with that, Yeah, you said that, it's the idea of it, especially when I think of too like bombs guys that I've already been with that the same time. But I couldn't. I

could not get myself to go there. I could, but you could think about it and get way I think about it and getting gorge for sure, But as far as like taking that step to let two guys suck me at the same time, it's like that, No, I couldn't. I couldn't. God, God, knows. I couldn't, she said, knows, God knows. Like one guy is enough, Like that's enough? What the most girls you've been with at one time just too damn he wasn't having like kind of orgies?

Did you enjoy that? Because some people say that it's just too much working, like too much thinking oh where am I going to come? No, I enjoyed. I enjoyed it, just to say that I did it, Like you, do you mean to be able to be like, yeah, I did that? Do you feel like whatever woman you're with needs to be able to have three somes? Because a lot of guys who say, oh, I can't be with

a girl who doesn't like girls. I mean, I probably could be with a chick to like chicks maybe, but you know, I'm kind of selfish when one yeah that's what I'm talking about, she's like, not me. Well, you know, I think they wouldn't dabbled in sharing is carrying it.

But if you were with a girl and she was had another girlfriend with that bother, you now, as long as long as that other girlfriend is not fucking taking us some whales and involving a nigga without me knowing, you know, because that's the potential probably like right there, like okay, yeah, you gotta now, let's do exactly and that's definitely gonna happen probably like she could go on, but could she go like on a girl's vacation with just her? Like are we going to the Bahamas? Yeah,

you can do it. That's just give me free towns two weeks down back. I just feel like the less people involved in your sexual relationships to safer they are. That's true, you know what I mean, It's very true. You're bringing other people into the room, you're bringing in their germs and the and they're having their harpies. You understand. Hevy, thank you so much for joining us on. I don't think he was going to really do it. It wasn't so bad. It wasn't bad at all. It wasn't I

enjoyed it. We don't want you to go home again in trouble. We don't like that straight all that was listenings. Thank you so much for joining us. Thank you