What's ladies, It's time for Woman on Tap with Delhian to kill us. So we are going to give a toast today to my angel Cody. Now, she has a new documentary out is called The Third Strike, and it follows her. She works with her all women's team of attorneys and they're working to a free men who have and women who have been in card serrated because it's a third strike rule. So basically, these are non violent drug offenders who have been sentenced to life in prison.
So far, she's gotten over forty people out and she's one freedom for seventeen federal prisoners who have been unfairly sentenced to life without parole for drugs. That was all during the ninety Days of Freedom campaign. You know that because after Kim kardashi ain't got behind that. She was using her own money, right, because it does cost money to actually get these things done as an attorney, and
she was trying to get this funded. Nobody was really coming on board to help, and then Kim Kardashian stepped in. So I know people would say Kim Kardashi into credit, blah blah blah, but really what she did was bring more attention to the work that my angel Cody was doing.
So I just want to give a toast to her and make sure that everybody checks out the Third Strike documentary as she works with the Decarceration Collective that's her organization to make sure that these people who are serving life sentences without parole for non violent drug offenses are being treated uh and getting out because it's important. You know, they haven't done anything wrong. It's the third strike. It could be just a marijuana and now you gotta go
to jail for life. Meanwhile, people who've done way worse things are getting out before you, which is ridiculous. And you know, when you watch the documentary, it also shows how that tears people's families apart once they are released, or what they go through while they have a loved one that's in prison that's not there to hold it down in the household. How families suffer because of that. So we want to give a toast to you, my angel,
for all the amazing work that you have been doing. Cheers, Cheers, What's up? What's up? Is list service? I'm angela Yee, I'm Jig mcguarire, I'm Laurial, and I'm a little you know, is definitely like one of the members of Live Service already. So and it's sound nice to see you. Good seeing you too. I know it's been it's been some time, ladies, but everybody looks amazing. Y'all look good. You look everybody. Remember I'm in Philly, in Atlanta, I'm in Baltimore. You
know good that damn Mountain technology. So let him know. How is everything gone with you? I know you know, last time we talked to you on the Breakfast Club, you talked about a lot of different things that was going on, and then we heard your song, you know, Heartbroken, So let's get into it. I released my single broken Heart or my Daughter's Birthday February one, and I did it at a time it was just like, you know, the pandemic was going on. Everybody was on the house arrest,
everybody was on punishment. Everybody knew. Here. If somebody could say, oh, I went to the pandemic and I ain't go to nothing, that I want to know what you had and are you bottling it up and selling it? Because everybody that I know that I personally know, emotionally and mentally had the light like yo, you didn't know what was going on for me. From my standpoint was we were literally
on tour. I had three tours set up. It was like set it off, Feminine four, and then I was doing a little mo show, just doing shows and stuff, and it was like literally booked for the year. So when we got the cart, they was saying, yo, you gotta get back, you know, to the East Coast. I was in l A. We were shooting me and the Femine Forward Girls with Heather Lowry and am Read. It was it was like a lot of us. We were
literally shooting the cover for the Femine Forward Vibe. And I've been going to l A X for over twenty years to go to the airport and nobody be there. I thought the world was coming to it. And and I'm gonna tell you I was scared. You know. That movie was that movie where they shot in l A where the world came to it, And I was like, oh my god, my luck is so bad. I'm gonna be the one that just tell my kids I love them.
But butet when I you from l A still had to fly to New Orleans because they was like, well, we're gonna still do the play. Set it offline and I'm just like, well, they're talking about the world's coming to and everybody needs to get around their loved ones. Everybody wear mask spray. I didn't know what was going on, so it was like, we're gonna halt for two weeks. Two weeks turn to two months, two months turned to
six months, six months turned to a year. So in between that I still had to be little mo because for everything was virtual. Then I became a virtual school teacher with my kids. That was the hardest part of it all. We got a lot of kids. It was like because my older my older daughters, I have one that's eighteen in college and one of sixteen that said old honists, so I literally don't have to worry about them. But my twelve year old son, my eight year old son,
and my five year old that started kindergarten. When I say I look at celebrities on social media, were like, how come their kids are so good at mins? Beyond deem it time. We was literally in therapy at the beginning of the pandemic as well as still continuously. You know, um, you know, you just have your meetings and follow ups. Because I was like we're close and were family, but we never been this compact and kid go nowhere. You
know what's crazy about all of that? Right, because you talked about your kids, you talked about work, but what about you personally? Because obviously I know, like little Mo, you always have seemed so strong to me, like outward me just everything that you've done in your life and that stil woman. You know, not seriously but like we don't really hear you too much as talking about like your vulnerabilities. And like we said, you know you did have a broken heart, So what was that like during
that time? Because the pandemic did also give us a lot of time to just think, Yeah, the pandemic and my broken heart. Honestly, I use this time to heal. And this was the best thing that I could say happened to me in my twenty years plus being a little mouth. Because since I was fifteen, I've always been on tour my uncle if John p. Key, so I taught on the gospel circuit while I was in high school. I used to bray hair during the week and going
toward during the weekend. Then after that I went to New York and I told with Guru and Primo and his team when they did Jasmine task. So I was seventeen eighteen nineteen on tour. Then after that I went on told missy Ellie. Then after that I was told everybody else. So I literally my ass down for twenty something years. So having to sit down for a year, you I'll have a baby and be out before the six weeks shots, so don't let nobody and I never
chanced to sit my ass down. But when it got to the point where I had to sit down, I got to know myself more. What I like, I'm glad that I'm single. I'm glad that I'm no longer addicted to opious, Like this is a blessing. I'm getting my glow bank, so that healing process, like I needed to take the band aid off, so the wounds and the scars and everything that actually heal, because it's one thing to come out of something. But then you know you're
just like, Okay, I'm not doing this no more. It always has to be something to replace what you're taken away. So if you take away something negative, it has to be replaced with the positive. So honestly, I'm like still healing because they're still triggers. I'd be like, nah, yo, I'm still with the ships. Right at the end of the day. I know how to conduct myself and I know how to carry myself more. And now I know what my hand calls for, so I expect more because
I don't accept everything anymore. There you go, Well, what was the finest job when when it really takes you to leave? Because I remember watching Celebrity Rehab, I mean Celebrity um marriage because it's like, yeah, people marriage boot can and I lifted. I watched it religiously and I didn't even watch the show before that, and I watched
it because of you mainly. And there were certain things that happened done there right now that like when we thought we were like mo running you know what I mean, and you stood and even after you even got shown certain things, you still stood. So what was the final thing that you just was like, listen, I can't take this no more. I'm leaving. And how did you stay so strong to stay away from this situation? Well, I've
been whe I was leaving. But when you're filming that house, ain't no where you could run to literally in the middle of no where. Your phone, don't your work out there. You literally have to stand in that kitchen by the door with the wildfires because its office is back there and it's cameras everywhere, so I had nowhere to go. But honestly, that was a great part of my life that showed me, like I had to say to myself, buch,
do you know who you are? Like, stop acting like you gotta pick up trash up the street taking home and clean it off and act like it's a treasure. You feel me, that's the only thing that come out from you. Ain't gonna go through that ship bit. Like I had to really have a heart to heart with myself, And when I looked back at some of the footage, I was like, oh, no, I know I was hot, I smoking hello week because to me now the clean,
the sober, the lidi me, nah, it's not happening. I know, the alcohol everything played a fact and me just being so nauseou like okay. I basically honestly, when I look at it, I got my check, but I didn't have my respect until I stood on like okay with the show. Because after that week we did the Breakfast Club interview, Everybody's like, well, I thought everything was I was like, no, was fighting in the car for we got there, but I had to the show had an air, so I
had to put on a front. But I was like, I'm tied a front tick Like I feel like he was so bold, And what I'm talking about specifically was when he was on the phone talking to another woman and tried to say it was like becausin or something like that, but he was buckled because he knew that the cameras was right there. What do you think, Like, did did y'all ever talk about that that made him think that what they wasn't film in at that particular time.
I think that because you're in there and when you it's almost like a pandemic. You can't go anywhere, so you forget that. Oh shoot, you think that because y'all rerap production for the day, you'd be forgetting that them cameras is everywhere. You think that, oh they don't have it on us, because it was so much going on in the house, you honestly forget. But at the end of the day, you gotta know the blind spots because everybody was up to some ship. But don't get caught
looking at my whole nigga over here. But yeah, that's all I'm just like you don't know you're on the balcony and not you not to balcony. You gotta know how to you mean. But at the same time, it was like I knew what was gonna I didn't know he was gonna play out or pan out. But when they presented me with the information, because the way they were so I would say sensitive to they knew what I was dealing with. Now, doctors would pull me to
the side and dr ish literally. So he said, as soon as you realize who you are, you're gonna change the world and it's gonna start with gets. And I was like, Okay, what do you mean by that? They was trying to say MO like, oh my god, we can't tell you to leave the situation, but we can encourage you to love yourself more So, I honestly was thinking I was loving myself because I was like, well, I get my hair done, I keep these nails, did I keep these brows? Wax? I keep this COUCHI you
know what I'm saying. Together, I didn't you know. I was all living. But at the end of the day, was just like inside a broken heart and you're trying to smile through it, and you have kids and you still have to please the world, but you don't even like yourself or the image that is being put out there. It has to be everybody has a breaking point where
you like, enough is enough. And I'm pi that I had my enough is enough moment before y'all be like damn, like more was like before I lost myself, before I went to fire. And that's so too, because no one can make you leave when you're not ready to leave. Anybody could tell you leave him, and we've all done that with our girlfriends where we're like, why is she
still with him? She need to leave him. But until a person is ready to leave, it no matter what you say, and even even in work relationships, like I'm watching a lot of things play out right on social media with people in work situations where it might be you know, harassment, it could be abusive situations, and it's really hard when you don't have support and you feel like you're by yourself if you try to do something.
This person has so much power that nothing's gonna happen, and you can speak out and say whatever, but nobody is gonna be there to be like, you know what, she's right, and then you do speak out and you get attacked and people act like something's wrong with you, as I just feel like and I remember you said it was just a breaking place where he's actually spent
on you. Yeah. The day we got back from the West Coast August twenty six or seven, twenty eighteen, because the show came out in twenty nineteen, like we were like as soon as we get back, because the kids haven't seen us for like thirty days. My daughter said came down, my niece that came down, and my nieces, my twins. So I was so excited for me to be there. And it's like as soon as we land, we're having a family day. Everybody was hyped up lending kids.
We still went out, but that person ain't show up, and so I'm just like, Yo, what the hell going on? Like this this weird? Like bro, we all have the details because they give you a couple of days before you fly back home to like kind of get back to yourself because it's honestly, it's so intense. You're just like, yo, I really need to breathe. So when the family day was just with me and the kids, I was like, Nah,
that's unacceptable. And I was like I still have the audio because I had to play that in the municipal court in Philadelphia, because when I got my order protection and I had to do it in Maryland, like the case worker was like turn it off, like she could? Is that bad? Like somebody to like not even like talking this spitflyer. You'd be like, I'm like, but like one of those like a huge yeah, I'm so sorry you had to go through that, and I'm I'm glad that you're on the other end of this now and
that you made it through. And let me ask you this when it comes to filing or because I held sometimes we are so reluctant to actually like go and do things like that because we don't want to involve the system, right so and it needs to be embarrassed, you know, because life changed for everyone With me, I could push through. I didn't bid divorce through this my third final. I'm done with all that. I don't push through. But I always like, damn, like what effect doesn't have
on my kids. I see all of these shows that come out and I'm just like, oh lord, I hope I'm not damaging my children by bringing I'm thinking I'm bringing structure. But I'm bringing bullshit around. So I was like, no, we cut all of that out because I'm glad I did it when I did, because wherever you're around, you will become kid used to act a certain way, very smart, very great kids. But they were just like so, I don't know. It was just like I don't know if
it's the North Philly grip. I don't know what it was. But my son was getting it a lot of fights at school, and I'm like, yo, that's with No, that's not how that you are. And he goes to a great school. He went to a great school. Hard for that, Like going out like that, they're gonna automatically label you as a problem child, and that's not That's not how I'm raising you. So I'm glad I pulled my children
out of it. And some of the things that I found out after the fact, all I gotta say is to God be the glory that we made it out a lie. Thank God? Did he every time I apologize. I mean, like, after all, once I got my protection from abuse, that's what it's called if BEAUSEI he's not allowed to contact me once my divorces final, lot, he's not allowed to call me contact. I don't want no apology. That's between him and God. At this point, when you break a vow, that's between you and God, you ain't
gotta say sorry to me. A lot of people will try to, you know, smooth it over. I don't have. If y'all know the trauma and stuff that I went through, I don't even want an apology. I don't want anything like when I say I purged that whole situation. I don't remember what he looks like. I don't remember anything from that stag. I totally let that ship go. If that man died today, it's not like I've been, oh, yes,
doing the cabbage patch. I would be like, I hope that his affairs are accepted and the law takes him and you know, accept whatever the case may be. Because I used to think that I was saving a lot of females because the people used to be contact with me all the time, and I'm like, damn, call me. Is this a booking or is you just trying to get emails at all types of stuff? And I'm just like, y'all, but this is weird because I'm trying to say, if y'all from what they when I say leopers don't change
their spots. If you beat my ask beat yours. Two SIPs and that's not that's what you get, But that's what you get for thinking that you were so right. This is what I got. What happened, man, good, thank you. I don't want them. What what about thousand rumors like with because there was like other men that there was rummors around that with that ever panned out to be true because I know you said you found a lot
of stuff out. After all I gotta say is I'm so this is what I'm gonna saying, because I really don't speak on that. All I'm gonna say is I have a clean bill of health at the level up and the glow is lit. God, I let that go because trust me, it could have been a different outcome. You're like, man, I didn't even know this person. Now, you don't know who you laying by at night or you know what. I was fighting my own demons and
fighting everybody else's. I really not saying I didn't care, but it was like it didn't resonate to me how much it was honestly deteriorating me and bringing my stock down. You ain't working up my bag. No, No, now, let's let's move on to some fun things. Yeah, since you know we got and obviously you know, we want to make sure that you're good. And I know that was part of the conversation because I know that helps a lot of women, right, A lot of them men have
been going through a lot. So I appreciate you being really open to discuss it and talk about it because I know people look to you and they're like, Okay, she went through it. Maybe I need to get my affairs in order to Ever since, like before pre pandemic, even up until now, people have been going back and watching the old interviews that I did with y'all, and they were like, at first, I'm not gonna say I
was ashamed or embarrassed. I would say that I was slightly afraid to put it out there because I was like, I was receiving so many so much black lash of stuff. I was like, damn, I don't even mean it like that, Like I was getting a lot of backlash for stuff, and I'm like, my heart is pure. I never intend
to offend. Now, I know that I'm not for everybody, but so many people there was like I hadn't followed you because I didn't like the way he was taking I saw on the theead of the have come back because they were like, I did not know that that's when you were going through. And now I see so the doors that it's opened for me to discuss my healing process and the brokenness that I'm letting golf because I can't fix. Once your heartest broke, it's just like, uh,
you just know what you'll never deal with again. So I literally had to get down to the broken down part where I couldn't call nobody. I was out of favor, cart like I need you to come get me, like I was out of that because it was just like this, all you're gonna do is go back. I had to get to the brokenness, place of brokenness where I had to ask God, Okay, what's going on here because it's obvious I can't do this by myself. Get me out of here, and I promise who you got I? Oh
my god, y'all have no idea. Man, it's not real. I want to give you a hug. I want to give good again. Plug. Well, we love you, We love you so much. I've been there, Like I just want to say, I've been there, so I know how you feeling. You know what I mean, I've definitely been at a place like that. And then it's also you don't want to talk to anybody about certain things because you do feel ashame to do feel embarrassed about. And I think it's because you know yourself great deep down inside and
to to let somebody that's not great come. And I have daughters, and I'm like, if somebody just like I would be calling the lawyer right, I'm going in. Isn't it crazy what we deal with but don't want others to go through. It's it's just it's crazy. And that's why I like, like I said, even seeing you, I'm like, it's not Mode and Mode that I know what a
damn they're knocked him upside the head. So that's why I had to ask you, because yeah, look at all of us on here well, because we all know each other, like we all know all this stuff that we've been through, and that they were like, man, I gotta take a drink on that shout out telling that it's five o'clock somewhere and it's gonna be right here today, and you feel like, wait all done, didn't I'm sorry, didn't you tell us when you came on lip service last time?
I feel like you said something about cause you've been married before three times and you said three all total three strikes. I'm out. But wasn't it then they all last the same amount of time or something something? You talk but this one I did that five years because I didn't want it to be six six no more? How do how do you guys be trying to holler at you now? Because I know that some of them DM sppen I'm focused. When I say I'm focused on my glow, I don't even I don't even want to
be in a relationship right I'm not. I'm not you know, some people are irreparably damaged. I'm not damaged and I'm not broken. I'm not bitter. I'm past that stage. Like I'm still at the place I'm like, no, I want to really get what's due to me because since I came out as little more, I was always attached to some nigger like yeah, like it's time for me to shine by myself. I don't want to be attached like. I don't want that. I don't want that for me
right now? So them about that, that's so and it's coming Savage Heart. That's that's my new lass, so broken the thing. I love that Shanna Start. I'm just waiting for this one feature to send their vocals, and they just had a Saul drop on Friday. I'm not gonna say who it is, so I'm just waiting for them to send Ja Cole. I can't tell you. I can't tell it J Cole or me Goes because they all dropped Friday. There's a couple of people that dropped Friday.
We're messing. Somebody already have one feature on it. It's called Shining Star, and it's like, but we're gonna do like different, not part like how just super Woman Part one, Part two, Part three, well part one, Part two. This is gonna be part one in part two, so to be Shining Star Part one, and then they'll be Shining Star Part two because I just think if all three of us was on this record, it might be lit.
So we'll see. I'm just waiting, but I'll tell you talking about this Fatman school point that's gonna be upbeing Okay. I love that it's right here is a ladies anthem. It's Superwoman and Forever on steroids. It's like a blend of the time. I'm not playing with this gun, you know, I just selling it right now? Yeah, yeahs what's this all? Six come back and was like literally it's like I
knew you. That's a large actually sell a bit because it's like, what's PARSTI you always like you stay with you a man, like you said, but you know it's dope about you in a good way though, Like mostly you always see like guys putting on, like in the industry, putting on women. So it's like we know Karuci because of Chris Brown, whatever the case. But in your case,
it's like you put the guys on. And that's rare because we've seen a lot of artists date a lot of guys that we didn't know and we didn't give
a funk with that. But that like, oh that's the most Yeah, that's what was man and that's what we called them too, That's what and that's that's an identity crisis that a lot of these men will suffer with for the rest of their life because identity outside of being little most that yeah, like because I always try to push them to a position where like get your
mon identity but it's like I get it. But at the end of the day, one thing I have learned to is, whoever you loving, humping or doing anything, we do not post it on social media because soon as you do. But this is sure everybody, guys, you are an absolutely coming even if you I see, like, it's so devious and so strategic. Now I saw somebody post a hand and somebody zoom and they can fight. They can fight. They zoom in and you can see the reflection.
Mulatto posted a picture. I can do that, but we're not Wait, that's hilarious, glasses, Like what's that. I'm looking at your reflection right now? They're looking at the background and be like one little thing in the background and that's the same slipper together. That's hip. But I peeked too. I was like zooming, and I was like, you know what I'm saying. But I'm just like, people are really so here. You won't see you ain't gonna see me out. But I've really been falling back and just getting a
tune in and touching myself. Like I realized. I was like, yeah, I really loved myself. Speaking speaking of loving and touching yourself, right, whoa. So now that you I singing, it's probably the longest you've ever been saying. Oh, how frequently do you masturbate? Um? Honestly, not a lot, because I'm to the point I had
enough sex and kids, like I'm I'm still fertile. Then when it comes to me, I know I'm a swampio so I'm a sexual that it's like it's it's like it's leg So I don't even honestly for this year. Probably once that's it. Yeah, it's not even I'm not even on that tight time because I know one thing I know about myself is once I get in that zone, I'm in my bag and I'm like, no, I don't need any distractions. And one thing I know with me or distraction distraction distractions that one time was that in
the bathtub, are you like using toys? Are you watching? I don't use no toys because I just be like, what if I'm a person that I feel that my luck is so bad that I joy and I'll be the got rigg of mortis or something like, because I've heard of stories where people stuff don't done tightened up and they had to go get it search fully removed so I'm the person I'll be on like I'm just
now bo started going back outside. So and I don't even do it in the house because I'm like one of my kids beat a bust and they wait till I'm like when the road and hit a couple of what do I have cossa? Me gooes daddy on because YEA need him deadly on too. We got you said in particular day, that's what I had. I had one shot because I had to drink the whole penny, the whole panthemony. I had a letter called it and I'm like, that's now sexual this and I just put on what's
the name of this? I put on one of them sites and I was like, oh, ship pin high what you know? You know what they like? You know what kind of point I hate? That will make me be like, okay, this's just ruin everything. It might sound bad. I hate when like and plint fucking people are women are lactating? You ever see that nips? I've never seen that because now they have it itemized where you could type in certain things or they'll say oh this is what's like
their shows, And I'm like, people have fetishes? What is angela logic that you see, I don't you have like a homepage and the most copy of the videos, so you'll be like, what's that and you put it out in that milk square and you're like, okay, just my favorite.
Yeah I'm Carus and now where are you going? Because you said point hubbits now for you, so put me on and yeah that But it's this, it's the specific couple that they just lit the teams as te something like that, like the girl, like the way that they roll play and they black and I used it one of those I usually don't watch black peorn because I'm just like black people were so sexual, Like I'm like like, I'm like they're really having sex, like nobody let me
see what it's giving. But teams see like he'll be it'll just be like we're just watching the movie and she gave me some bomb match sloppy. If you don't come in thirty seconds, then you ain't real. So I love you gotta learn some new tracks? Are you learning new tracks? Yeah? The way the world is going, old school humping is not the way. You gotta do something real. And you got you a new boot and you've been
getting it back in child. You go ahead. Oh no, I'm about to start taking yoga and take a swimming classes because I haven't been flexible, so I haven't been doing anything to open endemic, just you know, just watching my way that started this cleanse because like everything is opening back up. So I got a gang of shows coming up. But I was like, wait, I'll be seeing people that be twerking and they'd be school and I was like, who's knee scooting? Yeah? I don't. I can't
get fun. I can't funk with it either. I'm like, damn, my wash because I can't do this ship on the ground and they've been doing or what they boot booty cheeks. I'm like, my what don't need move like that? Somebody? Does anybody do that during sex? For real? I think you're supposed to working. Ain't nobody's working in school ground that this can do? Right? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah yeah the crime baby, that hurts my knees. I'm looking at a lie.
I'm really good at like doing stuff like that during sex, but I can't do it for too long because and then you'd be a boy because they don't want you to stop, and you'd be like, man, I gotta stopped riding to pick up on my tippycod that's what they removed. But you're gonna be getting just two minutes out of me and then right that that, don't you feel like a failure like me, I'll be like, damn, I gotta quit Like this baby, you can't quit. You can't be
a quitner likes to make it. See then I started one need damn pep one foot up. I have my feet a foot So when I try to do like this, my one time my foot fell asleep. I was like, you're that cramp in the art of your foot. Yeah, get a childly horse to that motherfucker. I'll be the first to say, I'm warr crazy. But what if okay, yeah, okay, cool. So when he can't come back to back before, what yeah,
what if he can't come back to back? So like theay you make him colm and you think like all right, it's about to go down, and he's like, oh no, I need like another hour. No, let's get let's get us a nap after that, let's go to sleep. You know people like I do me all night. No ch'll I taket my melotonin. I love him? Melaton another flighty I popped me a MELI I call him my y w melly. Oh no, I don't call it that, y'all. I love him because I feel I feel so bad.
That's another thing. It's just like damn, like I'm so glad to just still be alive. I'm in the four point old club, so you feel me. It's like so many people that are younger losing their lives and like they won't have to get the these conversations and experienced these kind of things, because like the life is really just what happens when you kill your two best friends and drive around with them for a few that's deep. Well that's what happened allegedly. Okay, well let's move on
from there. Not wearing it on that. Yeah, I don't want to talk about this Bill Gates situation. I am fascinated right with Bill Gates and his divorce from Melinda Gates. And they're saying now that he had like a relationship with one of the employees in the office and she wanted it. She wanted his wife to know. I wrote a letter allegedly that she wanted the wife to read. Now, have you ever been well, you know, you've been in
relationships your whole day of life. But can you imagine being like the side piece, knowing this man is married and then wanting to write a letter to the wife. Whose fault is that? Because I feel like that's a man's fault if he feels like he gives you that much power to make you feel like you have the right to want to like send a letter of the wife to read. So I want to know what I would do. See, they paid for so long and the
bitch wrote the letter. Okay, since I'm still getting the billions, like you ain't getting no check, So she weird for that and don't sleep. Melinda probably had her side do, but niggas ain't writing no letters too much, Like if you would be aside, that's what you're supposed to do, say sit aside. These people be empowering these people on social media. I don't know she wrote the letter on loosely if she like, that's the audacity for me. So I'm just like I would be like if she really
tried it. So that's between her and God. You knew that man was married, so you gotta give an account for that. But he's just factful. How you cheated at work? Like where how are you? Like do we go to work?
Like from being like he had to because he tried to message too many people at the company, Like he was asking women on dates and he was like if this makes you uncomfortable, just don't respond, and bitches was ghost to him like something, you are a billionaire, girls just ghosting you super whacked Like bitches like I don't even want the money fun this nigger Like that's like that's crazy to me. So it's like no matter how how you go up on the financial letter, these niggass
just have audacity. Bill Gates have the audacity like you messed with somebody that's at your company, Like do you know that these chicks is did turn around time? As soon as soon as you send a d M, they're like, oh this they got slid you feel me? Like that mean Harvey Weinstein, you got sucking Donald Trump. Like it's a lot of guys in power, white men especially I'm saying just white because there's black man Like yeah, majority, They use their power and they get over on certain
things and then people are scared to say. Women are scared to speak out because they know these people are so powerful, you know, and she obviously wasn't scared because, like you said, he must have gave her the bag some kind of thing. Melinda, you get what I'm bad, Like like as a woman, betch if you don't get the funk out of here, you and that nigga, And it's just like running my money at this point, like
now she just about the cash out. But when I was reading some of the things that Melinda said, like I have empathy for the white side because it's just like you saw this man at his lowest. Now he gets a heavy bag. You know, popped out three kids for this man and then all of a sudden he talks like, yeah, we're going several places. And you said, and y'all like seventy like that, you know what. I was just looking at Jeff Bezos right and his ex wife now m Cantie, she's married to like a school
teacher in Seattle. Now that's how Yeah, because Milenda gonna have so much money she does, I think Melinda gonna get a black man, like how Chris Jenna did she gotta do that man didn't go and live her best life and boot is going to be gagging. Jam. She got a whole private island that she read it out for all of them to go and her significant other. They said, so supposedly they've been divorced for a few
months now, right, uh, and just finalized already. It was probably I think it was for their kids and their kids significant others to go to kind of stay away from the press. And I have to deal with you know, well, if you watch, I need to write home no bit. If you need some friends, club, Melnda, you welcome right up here on lip service. Girl, listen the idea like everybody else was doing last week or two weeks ago,
they were slidding and now. One thing I also want to address is a lot of times like women decided to come forward and talk about the truth of things that have happened to them, but it might not happen right away. You might wait, if you much, you might even wait some years before you feel like you're in a space to be able to do that. And I see a lot of people chiming in like why now,
why did she wait until now? Why didn't she say it right away when at first happened, And just as women to explain what it's like when we've all been in situations, I'm sure we have right where things that were inappropriate, with some things we might not ever talk about, but if we decided we wanted to, we have every right to do that whenever we should want to do that.
Am I right? You're absolutely right? And so I just wanted to clear that because I hate when a woman speaks out about something that happened to her and experience that she had, and that people being in the comments like why are she talking about this now? Why is she saying this? Why didn't she say it before? And they'd we kind of don't believe you or they shame you. You know, I've been a victim of that as well.
You know I wouldn't say victim. I've been a part of that because you know, you'd be like, what that happened to me there? Well, why are you saying there? You cloud us will be like, no, I had said it before, but nobody was paying attention. And they're always signed yourself, but they're awesome people who you're just like, wait, why are you saying in there you had? They're are some situation where people had amful enough time. This is what I always see on social media, be like why
are you telling us? Go tell the cops. And then let it come up like they have a lot of people who haven't even filed a protection from a boose or restraint in order, but they'll go right on social media be like, y'all like this person, well, this is who they really are, be like, yeah, he was the devil himself, he was the spawn of saying. But there was a lot of people I told people about and they don't want to listen. They thought I was hating,
they thought I was camping. But I'm just like, okay, but we now heard it is to go to the
police too, Like a lot of times, I think id issue. No, I do think that's an issue because in a way, like in our community, I felt like we always been talking going to the police as former snitching regardless, right, so you're gonna be called a Snitcherlly'll be looked at a certain way now, I know saying people that have come out and been like this person has done something to me, and people are like, oh, that bitch, that la la la, and they'll turn against the girl like
as if she's not the victim, and you just automatically make her the issue. And that's why we need to change that narrative. But the people is deciphering between the real people and the and the capitalized the cloud chases, and that's the that's the thin sketchy line because I've personally seen being in this music industry and I'm just like, that's wrong. But I knew. But being quiet though, because yeah,
that ly is none of your business too. It could get you wrapped up in do some style, some bullshit that you ain't gotta know you're kind of quiet about it. Yeah, So it's just like I realized I pay attention to my own stuff. So whatever happened to me, like when I first started talking, Oh, when I came out about the opio Oh, you're just trying to cloud chase because so I was like, no, I'm not. That ship is real. If I can show you the receipts of how much
you was spent, I want my money back. I wouldn't have never in my life if I wasn't going through depression and anxiety and so many things like I wish I would have what it was then then I want to spend so much personal money and I could have got help, but the police, I said, don't make us feel safe. You know what I mean? This is a community of where when I think of the police, I think about getting shot, killed, beat up, all kinds of
things that's negative. So I've had things happen and a certain particular incident that I could think of that maybe I should have went to the cops, But I didn't. You know what I'm saying. I felt like I told who then does it feels like it's out of your hands? But I felt like it happen right. But I feel like I told who I needed to tell that can handle the situation best for me. You get what I'm saying, And the police wasn't it at the time. I feel
you because everybody don't want to snitch into me. Snitching is. People are blowing that word out of proportion. They're giving it too much. Snitching is, if you like, remember the lady that peek out the window and know everybody's business. So the media is the biggest snitch because people do stuffing just like, oh you that. But when me, even when I went to file for my protecial views, I didn't just go to the police. I didn't just go I called my lawyer first and I told him what
and he told me exactly where it goes. Anything happened to me in the interroom, so I covered my basis. So when I went to the police, thank god I am who I am, because when I got to the front counter, I was walked right in like the lady was just like And what was crazy was the lady who actually had to do like give me all the information because you it's so many it's you don't just go to the police, and it just first day I after trying to find a person, people give up. Then
you have to show up the three court days. But just donna be showing up. I went to every every single Yeah, I listen, I've had to do that too, So I understand you. I had to get every standing all that it's not a game, and then you got a sitting court and watch all these other things and see what everybody else is gonna through family court. It's serious and I'm going to go through that. In Philadelphia. In Maryland, I had to go a reinstatement because it
had lapsed in the In Philly it's three years. Now here is I go every year. A matter of fact, I gotta go next week to get it updated, which I'm not playing. It shouldn't even have to be like, yeah, I mean you just have to. But now they have it, Well, you don't the blessing in disguise and you don't have to actually go to port. Now you can do it virtually,
So that's the blessing. So really, honestly, if under the set of my voice, if anybody's going through anything like because not only the police part, that's honestly the least I would say mentally draining when you put yourself out a situation, whether you were sexually assaulted, verbally abused, Like I'm seeing what people are doing. I'm just like, oh, y'all, y'all just now knowing that person is is is off. They made right, but I see what people are spiraling. Yeah,
and they don't want to get help. So after you do the police report, or after whatever steps you take or you come clean about a situation, you still have to go. I suggest everyone see therapy or do yoga. I'm doing yoga and everything. I am not playing with my mental health. No, that's good. G's been doing that yoga all the time. I always feel like she'd been on the almost everyday basis. At least you want to know what's crazy is I was saying, because I'm a beginner.
So I told the lady, I said, please don't be having me to do I don't know how to do. She was like, no, it's not like that. I was afraid at first. I walked in and I was gonna just I try to play it off, like, oh, this ifice is cute. How much come on squiding dog. I was like, I don't know. When you sit like this and stuff, I want to learn, and she was like, you don't have to, and she said, we have more intense ones. But what you be again, Me and my
sons are doing yoga together. That's how. And you go at your own page. You do what you can do, and you do it. She did a little now my stand just now I saw you because I like something about peace. You can't. You just gotta wait for it. And when that thing come, you don't want to compromise it for anything. I'm at a place of piece that I'm just like, damn, I waited my life for this, So sad, I'm almost a hundred. You got plenty of time and then you know you're gonna be you know,
whatever goes on, I know you learn a lot. That's all we can do. Right, It's learned from the things that didn't go the way that we wanted them to. But again, now you know what you don't want, and I feel like that's just as important as knowing what you do want. Yeah, back, we love you, Mile, how do you? And I know you know you got daughters, your daughters, but I said, what did you say to
them about everything? Just out of curiosity? All right. So my oldest daughter, Heaven, she's eighteen, she was just like out time. Yeah, And with her, I was like, well, I don't want you to make mistakes. I mean she was like, my I don't even think like I'll make those same mistakes because she was like, you never like you used to really take everybody in and you really
thought that you could help everybody. So that was my nurturing spirit if and I look back, I was like everybody that I was married to came from a single mother houssel. So I felt like I could be that nurturer that you know, I knew what they was missing. But I realized you can't help people or help people that don't want to be helped or healed. So I was giving so much of myself and not getting in return, not saying that every day was a bad day, and
none of my relationship. But it was just like dad, when you start realizing you're giving more than you're getting in return, like, no, I gotta cut it. And I never thought i'd be divorced three times. So I told my daughter. She was like, well, I'm probably not gonna ever get married anyway, probably maybe when I'm forty or fifty. And she's just like she's just different. She was like, I'm chasing my bag. I ain't going to turnt and
Cacos and Costa Rica. Like she's a total and I'm just like, yes, I love the way she thinks, super smart and she knows like she's not gonna make those mistakes. Now. My six year old she told me one day we watched something and she was like, about time she's pisces ah, but she's she yeah, it's just like she was like like the way she is, she like, oh, we were just waiting on useless. Like they're so they're so strong, and I'm glad that even though they can feel, your
kids know what you're going through. I didn't do a lot of things around them, but I had enough sense in me to know that even with the pills and stuff like that. Don't do this around there, but you know, don't do anything to the point where you're gonna embarrass your kids, because you know what. I just started watching Um Soft White Underbelly, and I was looking and I looked at the girls that were thirteen years old that were prostitutes, and I looked what happened to the girl
Amanda and people. I'm just like, damn like some of them come from good homes. So you really have to keep your children close because you can give them the best life that you think is possible. But the way that their chips may fall, the cars that they were dealt, you never know what's gonna happen, so you can There was what the girl man that her dad said, I spoiled her. I gave her everything, But once she got a rent in college around a certain group of friends,
that's when she started to decline. She got on drugs, smoking weed that led to crack that honestly led to her dying on Mother's Day. But she was clean, So you feel me. It's just there's certain things that I've been attracted to and really been studying, maybe because my daughter's study psychology in college I'm just like, really like, I'm glad for their path and I'm staying stern with them, but I'm I'm I'm being a mom. But I'm also like,
you know your friends your kids, it's not your friends. Yes, you need to know what's going on in your kids, like and your kids do have the right to know what's going on in doing And I'm just glad for that balance that in the stakes. Yes, because and I told my Didlem last night because we was watching it together. If nigga try it is a period to tell me stuff because they was like, my, we know how you get. And I'm just like, I don't play about y'all. I
was molested. I'm glad my daughters have been molested. I was running the streets, I was outside and that's not not what was raised. So that rebellion, I'm so glad they didn't have to deal with that. So even they will go through things, but I want to make sure that I'm there for them like I was there for everybody else. There you go, Well, we appreciate you so much as always low And do we know when this
album's coming? It will be this year. I wanted to come out on my birthday because I honestly, the single is gonna drop. See how what if I'm allowed to talk about? See you allowed? But I just believe, just know that this thing is gonna be on the tissue in a couple of weeks. So we're gonna drop them next single. Then wait a minute, that you have another reality show coming out? Oh no, no, no no, what
is there nothing the to say? You are? You have a sitcom, you have a drama coming and it's a performance. That's okay, I've been That's why I'm cleansing because I want to be a certain size in ten days because we feel you filming in advance and then they edit it so it should be coming out. I think like, so my next single, Shining Star, will drop then and every month I'm gonna drop a single then release the album because this is my this is really my twenty
first year being a little more. Yes, it's like artists legal, so yeah, always legal. Now okay, you're here for it. I cannot wait for I think you know about It's always good. We're just be having a conversation. They kicking. Let me know it's for the lash on. I had yeah, push it back a little best alright, but let him out. Thank you so much, and let's serve this