What utlift Services Time for woman on Top. And today we are doing a very special Delian toast to a woman who was a single black mom from New York City, Paula McCarthy. She's the owner of Y S. S water Works. It's a spring water bottling plant in upstate New York. And she's the first black woman to own and operate this type of water business in the entire state. So she actually acquired the water plant and aquifer uh in
October during the pandemic. That's really big. You know, we gotta show love to our assisted and make sure everybody know that they on a top. Yeah, and you know the main thing is this right, As you know, water is always valuable, and some major water companies have actually been trying to buy her company for twenty her property for twenty million dollars, but she said she's determined to keep it. She values the importance to black ownership and
natural resources. And this all happened and I love a sorry like this very organically. Now, this happened because she had a series of unplanned events. You've seen kids selling water, right, but she was buying these pillots of water for her twins, and she gave them sixteen hundred dollars to sell these palets from b days during the pandemic. They called their company the New York Water Boys, and they were selling
their palets of water on the street. Then they worked their way up to selling palaces of supermarkets and bodega's. They also made home deliveries, and then they actually became successful enough that they got a pancheck selling what it is twenty one supermarkets. So at this time, water was very hard to find during the pandemic, and she looked at this is a way to fund her nonprofit. It's
called Youth Saving Society. That's why it's wiss water. So she also, besides being a nurse, was teaching financial literacy and workshops to youth in schools on her days off until COVID hit. So I love the fact that she's into financial empowerment. She wanted to teach her twins just to empower themselves financially. And then she took that flifted and ended up buying an aquafer, which is where you
can get water from. So she said she was able to raise a hundred and thirty thousand dollars in two days. Fat crazy, So shout out to entrepreneurship and shout out to Paul McCarthy, the owner of Why says, whatever a nice Dlian toast to you. What's happen to let's service.
I'm Angela GHI, I'm Stephinite in Santiago. I'm Larrya and today been doing a specially just checking in episode because I know there's been a lot going on during this pandemic and we're always into doing people, but we never have a chance to just check in with each other, so I feel like that's important. I see you with the y'all really just fancy for this. I'm on a honey, I just want to add on, Yeah, you look like you about to do a video detefinitely. I don't know
what she got on? A dr jacket hat, the bags in the background. Girls on, have y'all changed your style like during this this pandemic you think you've changed your style permanently as far as like what you spend money on? Um, even though I was wearing a lot of sneakers before pandemic, but now she's like high heels. I've been like, I've just thought about it. I haven't brought a pair of hot heels and months and I used to buy heels all the time. Yeah, I can't even remember the last
time I had to wear a pair of shoes. I'm also not going to the club or nothing. I've seen uh somebody and lived the other night and it was just crazy and I was like, yo, when when was this? And it was like Sunday to those videos from Live too. I'm not doing that. Yeah, And you know what I realized too, Like I used to waste a lot of
money on clothes and bags and things like that. I think I bought one bag this whole time, and that's because I had a gift card to Louis Vutton and that's the only reason I bought a bag, because someone had given me a gift card for my birthday. And it took me like months to even go to the story and buy it. So I finally even and brought I bought a little piece of luggage. It's cute. I was just thinking about it the other day, like, Damn, I got all these bags. I don't even go nowhere.
That's the bad thing. You're spending money on stuff that you don't even you can't and even get to where I do feel like I've picked up or maybe a worst spending have it since quarantine. I'm gonna tell you why, Because one, I'm saving money from not doing other things, and then I'll be feeling kind of bored, like with my own personal life because it's like I'm working, working, working, I'm like, well, what can I do to make myself happy?
And it's like, uh, these this nice little bag, or yeah, I'm gonna buy something nice, and you know what, Glasses have become my go to thing, especially I see and has makeup artists already when she gets to work. I ain't there yet. We are a year too, so I'm I'm wearing glasses because I'm not trying to show my face looking all tired. So I always say, yeah, this is break up this interview, I mean not this, but these episodes when we wear glasses, they're like they must
not have their makeup done. God, I should have bought us some glasses today because I did not get my make I've done today. It really looks like I did it myself, but it's not. I gotta learn how to do that myself. Now, I want to ask you guys. You know, obviously we're looking at a lot of things happening on social media, and one thing that came up is having your man shaved your vagina. Obviously we've seen Tyree's doing that for his girlfriend and posting it on
social media. And I know, I didn't you know somebody that had a one night stand with this guy and he's a celebrity. And she came back and told me that he had a fetish and he asked it if he could shave her vagina. And I don't know if he wanted to do it because she was harry or if it's just like something he likes to do. But people have fetishes like that. I'm like a loss for words.
You can't shoot my vagina. The only one time I've had I tried because it was a disaster when I was pregnant, because when you get pregnant, I thought, while you can't even reach in the right places, you can't see. So I asked right before I gave birth, I told my on his father like, all right, you have to do this, And it was ashauster. I ended up doing it myself with a mirror. What do you mean a disaster? It was ebshasting. He just didn't know what he was doing.
I was like, bro alright, forget it. He was right scared. I was. I'm not scared to lest somebody shape it because they might what if they k what if they like nick your your hood or something. You know, when you shave, you know which way your hairs go. You know what I mean? And which way to shave in certain areas, Guys, I would never let a guy do whatever. And what if you get an inground here? That's it is the word, you know what? At one time, I'm not gonna like it. And I think I told you
when this happened. My nails were long and I was had them like really plainty. And so I was watching myself in the shower and you know how you like open up your vagina and Washington side, Well you're supposed to. I scratched this ship out of myself. Oh my good, go it, oh Andrew. And then I don't I wear my nails short. Just recently, just in the past couple of months, out decided to put crelics on them, and they got a little they got long, and I was
consistently scratching myself with those fucking mails. Frustrated. Yeah, that's why I took the wolf. I think they were beautiful like you know, no shape God brus the girls that know how to do it without hurting themselves. But I was really hurting my souls, well my name like that, just because mine grow. So it's not because I put a crelic onto. I'm just used to the length. Like right now, these are shirt to me. Yeah, those are usually usually my nails are really long. But I broke
ontide cut them all down. And but like I don't scratch myself with them because I'm so used to it. I know how to move, Yeah, how to be used to it? Because I how do you how do you clean it? You go like that, like how do you clean? You just had to be gentle. You just gotta go you you go in there and just be gentle. You can't be rushing and jamming that thing. Like yeah, And when it comes to the shaving situation, I get wax up to have mad bumps like that would leave raizor
bumps and that would be torture for me. So I would never let nobody shade me. And I'm definitely not letting the nigga wax me, Oh my god, definitely not. I would not let him wax me. Imagine all right now We're gonna do a little game, so get your little shots. Have you ever did we sign up for this? Okay? Have you ever missed work to spend time with your man? If you did, you gotta take a little sip. I mean you're lying. No, I'm not. I don't play. You
know why I have. That's some made me realize it was time to leave him alone because he was arguing with me, and we were arguing so much. I just didn't go to work, and I was like, you know what, it's probably not a good relationship for me to be in because I was just so he had me up all night the argument, and I was so tired the next day I just couldn't even make it. And he was arguing with me from the night before until like
four pm, so I missed the whole day. I'll be crying at work before I miss work, Like and I've done that before, Like I've been mad, fucked up, but still had to do what I had to do. And I think, like when I'm when I was younger, of course you had the guys that I was always you know, I was being dumb with the oh, I'll pay whatever you make so you don't have to go to work. But those are bullshit jobs. I didn't give a funk. I'm like, I don't. Yeah, I ain't gonna rest school. No, like,
I'll give you twelve dollars an hour. I know. Have you ever paid a guy's bills? You know, guys will pay for some stuff for you, But have you ever paid a bill for a guy? No? I'm not you know what so I know this one, but I'm gonna tell you what happened. It was in my name, and he went to jail and didn't pay it, so that doesn't really count. Like who else was gonna say he was in jail. You also told me about a guy who his license off and you had to pay his
life bill. I did not say I had to pay his life I said that I was at his house. I was at his house and they came in turn his power off, and I called him and he was at the studio. He was like, well, just give them the money, and I was like me, I'm like, I'll just sit here in the damn He like, and it was it's in Miami at that it was like a hundred degrees. I was like, I'm not giving them ship. So I did that in that house like until my ready to go, and like that was the last time
I've seen him. Yeah, I wouldn't pay that ship the funk I look like the last time you've seen him because the life was out. You couldn't see nothing. I couldn't see that nigga, And I should have been seeing him in the first my fucking place, somebody, Steven, and you pay somebody's bills. When I was a teenager, I used to pay for my first boyfriend to live in the whole town. So yeah, I was like seventeen eighteen.
How long I was like seventeen eight teen for like probably like a month, you know, like three weeks until my perread came, and then we will fight and I wouldn't see him for like two three weeks and then we will get back together, and then my period would come and we will break up. It was just so weird. It was you know what I'm doing while you were on your period? Yeah, Well, for some reason, whenever I would get my period, like we it's not he wentn't
tell me. I know, I know, crazy fight with me, Like you would just start fighting with me and I'll be like all right, like I'm not gonna pay for you to stay in the hotel by yourself. So even though I didn't end up giving the money to stay by myself, a few times, for sure, goodness, for sure. It was my first boyfriend. I was like seventeen years old. He came up one time, you know, one time another
another thing. I defited this guy, the same guy. He told me he was going through something rough and he needed to borrow some money. And I was making money, you know, I was. That's one thing about me. Always found the way to have money on me, you know, right, you see this girl? No, but so so he's like, oh, like so I gave him like three or four hundred dollars, right, I gave him like three hundred two or four hundred dollars. And I was like, all right, I'll see you later.
I went back to the block and I bumped into him, and can you believe this man hat on a pair of fresh up towns. He went and bought up pair sneakers, went up pair sneakers. I was like, really, you're going through something and you went him without a pair of sneakers. I was so mad. I was so fucking mad. I'll never forget that ship what about you. And I don't
think I've never paid anybody's bills. But I remember one time I left this gotten money because he said, oh, I had just um came back and I was on tour. I was working at Woutang at the time, and I said I had catch on me, and so he knew I had like a bunch of cash. He was like, oh, let me borrow five dollars. I'll give it right back to you. And then I never got it back. Uh cheerfully. He died, he got killed. That's a good reason not
to have to pay someone back. Yeah, back, Like I knew when I was younger, I had to slow my role on having friends that had too much money because I was really cool with this boy and he like, he's like, has money because it's Pomps his richest. Fuck that we went somewhere and he went shopping and was like, oh, ship, I don't have my card, but I'm talking about legit. This person had paid for mask stuff, then mas stuff. He like, can I just use your card real quick
for like a thousand dollars? So to me, I'm like, oh my god, a lot. That's all my money in the world. So I was in college. I'm like, that's all my money in the world. What am I gonna do? But like I couldn't say no, because like this I'm talking about everything used to come out of pocket for everything. Don't you out this motherfucking never gave me that motherfucking money back. Man, Remember the Pursuit of Happiness. Remember in the Pursuit of Happiness, I never saw that. Oh you
gotta watch it. There's a scene where um, the dude Chris will Smith character, the boss asked him, like, or has him paid for the food? I think it was like he paid for the food, but he didn't have no money. He was like living in you know, I sheltered with his son. But they didn't know that. So for some people it might be like yeah, no big deal, a hundred dollars, but for other exam yeah, but he didn't want to say anything, so he ended up having to like use his all. You know, this is an
interesting story. When I used to work as serious, right, and this is when Bob had first just got signed and his manager be rich this is my guy. But back then him and t J and he he had said this public to be of course, I don't mind saying it. But after I interviewed them on serious, I interviewed B O B. We went out to eat and at that point they had just signed, so they didn't
really have it like that. And so be Rich tell me like he was going through all kind of financial stuff and I was like, let's get another round of drinks, and they were paying for it. But I didn't tell them to pay for it. I guess they just felt like they had to. And he was like, and nobody else wanted to drink but me, So I felt bad, but he told me later it was because we just
didn't have it like I didn't have. Yeah. So you know, sometimes you don't know people's situations like that, and we've all been in that situation, because I have to say, I'm sure we've all been broken at some point. Yeah, for sure a couple points. I was pretty broken my twenties, man, right, I wish I was twenty one. I wish I was twenty two. I'm like, damn, I was stupid and I was broken, Like, no, I don't want to be that.
It's I feel like I had my times, like it would be like I would be real good and then some shot will be it would happen, and then I wouldn't be good, and then I'd be real good again, and and then some ship would happen and I'm doing bad like and then you just gotta keep picking yourself up out of the situation. But each and every time I will say that I've come back from anything, I've always come back literally times ten or way better than I was even at the time before, you know what
I mean. So I think that sometimes you do need those down times to kind of like even get yourself together or push you to work a little harder or even sometimes humble yourself depending on the person to be grateful and they're grateful. In those times, you get like you start turn fold. I had a good time when I was broke. I remember, like, people'll be having birthday dinners and you'll be like, I don't know because I
can't split no bill right now. So I would always go like at the end and be like, I might just come back at the end. And that's when you don't have to pay for everybody, you know, because sometimes you just pick from the table at that point and I don't even reply the seafood that's the expensive stuff the menu, so you're not feeling just drink like a fish. No, not back then, after I didn't have no I didn't have no money, so I really didn't like if I
was gonna have a drink. I always used to drink like an Amaido sour, and I would have one drink because I couldn't afford it, and so I would go buy at the end, after everything was the I would buy a drink like from the bar and then walk over and be like, Okay, I just want to make shot came by and said because I couldn't do it. When if they was like, okay, that's gonna be a hundred dollars, I'd be like everything in my bill listen. But let's just say you are at a dinner, right though,
and there's somebody's birthday, and there's twelve of y'all. Let's just say, and you come late, you sit down, and you don't really eat anything right, and you just get dessert and a drink. Should you still pay the same amount as everybody else? If you don't, they're gonna talk about you. And I've definitely had to do that more than one time before, and that ship as whack as fuck.
You'd be like, how am I paying two hundred dollars and all I had was a fucking and then it will be the birthday person, like I know the round like two bro, you listen, I pay for people. I definitely do so I'm very but I think I'm very um aware of that. Like I always, I never really try to overorder things, especially if I know I'm with people and I don't want to. Like I have friends that I know I might have more money than them, so I don't want to order stuff and then make
them pay for it. Like if I do that, I know I'm gonna pay for it. I will never be like nicety for you two now you pay for it. I wouldn't do it. People do that ship drink all you or I want ninety people talk. You do that to a nigga. You don't do that to your friend. Yeah, I wouldn't do that if I went to that to a guy. Maybe you know I've done it to plenty. And let me tell you. Remember we was in Atlanta and I will bring my own bottle to and hide it.
We have bottles. We was just in the snake regions. Talk about something. I'm not gonna lie always full. That's why it's like I'll be having a bag next to me, and then I'll be looking at me, like if I go on vacation, because they already they charged so much for drinks at the pool, right, it'd be like eighteen
twenty dollars plus gratuity, trust and believe. I will get a bottle of some top shop liquor, have it in my beach bag, and I order one drink, and then that's you know, that's anymore as a genius, what you're talking about. I just need a lemonade, and then you'll be mixing a lemonade, because look, you make you a drink as strong as you want. You know, you got your choice of preference of whatever you're drinking. I think it's the smartest, most logical thing to do. You're already
paying to stay there. They don't need twenty dollars every drink. What's one drink and du nothing you need several, So bring your own bottle. You'll be fine. Just keep it low. Genius, have you ever known that your man was cheating but kept quiet about it and didn't confront him right away? I can't even be quiet. I wish you as soon as I find out. Sometimes I wish I held it down me till every time. Right, Why did you say something? I just can't hold it in. I know one of
my friends, she's holds it in for years. Yeah. Yeah, she got home homeboards passwords, so she see all the ship he do online at hotel meet ups, all kinds of show, know everything, and never say nothing because she don't want to below her spot and lose the passwords.
I see a half of clue, y'all. I'm coming right to this us and it's now, but it's sucked up because sometimes you suppose to build a case like I'll be coming with a courtas of paper like yo, this, and he come with yeah, he comes with an easy excuse and then you could just slide or another of that. You gotta be quiet and wait at least to build your legitimate motherfucking case because it always has. You gotta drink, so you gotta take a step because you haven't it
to be the case. You haven't. Yeah, you haven't told right away. No, I'm saying that I don't do that. I've I've wished that before. So what did you do that I want to hear? It is? No, I've definitely not said anything at first, just to like gather up
all my evidence, because it is true. Sometimes you tell somebody something right away and you don't know for sure, and you know they're going to just deny it, deny it, deny it, and so but I can't hold it for that long, like like Stephanie said, I do know people that have held it for like months, and I said, nothing, I can't do that. I can hold it for maybe
a week and that's it. I remember one time I didn't and then a seizure and then make you hate them, right because sleep like right, like you ever seen that clip on Instagram that the lady walks out to the guy and slaps him. But I him I did it
because we were going on vacation, right. We were going to Dominican Republic, And this was the first time a guy was younger and he was he was like twelve years older than me, and so he was taking me on vacation and I had never, like you know, gone on vacation like that with a guy before, and so um I found out he was cheating on me, and I was like, I'm await until after the vacation to
say something. So I went on the vacation, and it's I realized from that that's why I'll never go on vacation again with somebody who I don't really like like that, you know, because the whole time, the whole time I was there, I like hated him, and then I kept making him get super drunk, so every night he would pass out, and I try to have said to me, So every day we would like go out and I'd be like Marty Train, smart drank smart drinks, and then he would get drunk and pass and then I would
go outside and be chilling by myself at the pool. Oh my god, So when did you When did you say something? As soon as we got back, I never spoke to him. I saw him again, and then you just let him go. No. I told him. I told him that I knew, and then he tried to say that he wanted to propose to me if I would take him back and forgive him. And I was like, I'm okay, always shying that sucker ship, Like why you
didn't just do right? Why do you guys think women that like that's gonna always work on a woman, Like we're so desperate to get married, Like I don't want to marry you? Are you cheating? I don't even want to go anywhere with you, So why then do I want to marry you. I didn't even want to be with you on vacase. I just wanted to be on vacation. I just wanted to be on vacase. But they did backfire. So you won't do nothing like that again. Never I would,
because I just it's not fun. Like I know some people, some people could get fluid out go away with a guy and not really like them, just to enjoy themselves. I can't do it. Yeah, the worst being on vacasion with a man you you're not, you don't like. It's like sleeping with the enemy. Yeah, Ida tried that ship one time. I learned my lesson. I made the dude sleep with pillows in between us, and he was so
mad that he started treating me like shit. He downgraded my ticket because we were both first class coming and like because I put the pillows to me. That was a little petty though, let's be real, but I lined the pellows up like a wall, like a fort, and he was so he downgraded my flight. Um, he started being mad, mean, like just so not the first day, but it was like the third I guess he was like, all right, bit enough is enough? He trying knocked my fort down and I was like, nah, like this is
I'm good, like you stay on your side. And then that's when he was just over. He started treating me like ship and I was glad because like where we were staying with all inclusive, so didn't matter. I was like, oh, drinking and paid for already, stupid bitch, that's fine, I'll be all right here. I wonder how guys feel about that. Like I wonder how guys feel when they spend money on a girl and take her like out of town and then she puts pillows between them. I wonder if
they feel like, why did you come? How just that I was coming to give you pussy? You asked me to come on vacation and I said okay before we came. Period. Yeah, I didn't know pussy was the exchange in this motherfucker like you just said that I want to go, but I can I can respect that. He didn't try to like force anything. He just was an asshole and that just made you be like all right, you know, yeah, I mean he tried to he didn't try to like whatever.
He tried to make a move that night, that last time, and I was like, he tried to lean in to kiss me, and I was like, oh, like I almost had a heart attack. It's crazy because Angela, when I tell you i'm talking about, you're gonna be when I know it is okay. Yeah, I thought I was gonna die, okay, like literally because even when he asked me to come. This is the six Ship we like used to go out to eat and stuff like that, but he had never really made no move on me. So I'm thinking
I'm about to get my own room. I'm swere like he just trying to have me be around so he could look good. That's how I really took it, to be honest. But then when we got there and I was like, okay, he's keeping his front up a little too hard. The same room, like the fellows are necessary, all right? Now? Have you ever accidentally gone on a date? Why? Everything's me? Oh you I don't think I've ever accidentally
gone date? Yes, I definitely have. You know how somebody like you're going out and you think it's just a friendship type of thing, or you think it's a work thing, and they're like oh, let's go grab something to eat, and you in your head you're just grabbing something to eat with a friend, or you're just like, okay, this is a good connection, you know, let's sit down and talk.
Because I'd be going on like girl, I guess girl dates all the time, but when a guy does it, I feel like you should be able to do the same thing right in the line of work that were I should be able to be like, but yes, it has definitely happened to me where the guy has like came to get me and was dressed up and I was like in sweats, like I thought we was going right down the street. That's on me if he come to get you as a date. I was at work because that the rule. That's what I think, Like, I'm
not getting in the tower with you. Yeah, but if you're at work and then like I'll come get you. And it's like not that far because it was only a few blocks. I was like, okay, cool, I'll come down. Like to me, I look at things, you know, I have a lot of guy friends, so it's not a big deal to me, Like I don't look at it like that. So I'm just thinking, all right, cool, this is a good connection, Like we'll go grab a drink, talk about what he has going on. Because I always
assume first. I always assume that people want to talk about work or like business stuff. I know other people first think like he's trying to holler. I think. I don't think that right away. I think that right away. And that's why I just a boy going out with guys by myself, because even if I don't think it's a day, they probably think it's a day. Some people get besides theirselves. Like I definitely had people that I thought was my friend and they thought we were dating,
and I'm like, why would you think that? Like, at no point I thought we were cool, Like I talked to you about other people, but what happened with me was fucked up. It was real fucked up. So I have met two guys in one week, right, one at the airport and one at the club. It was a while ago, so I didn't realize, but both of them had the same name. Like but I didn't realize this because I don't really know the first guy. I just took his number real quick, put it in there whatever whatever.
So I was out with my family and um when my nieces and I get a text and it's from the guy. Not mind you. I meet the guy the night before war, so naturally i'm gonna think it's, you know, the last guy that I met, because it was the very next day. Either way, he was like, I'm gonna come pick you up. This just that and the thirst. I was like, okay, cool. I'm like, damn, he's like really you know, going forward, moving forward with trying to talk like this, this is moving fast quickly, you know
what I mean, first yesterday, now this. Yeah, the person pulls up and I'm like, what are you doing here? So I'm thinking I'm talking to the nigga at the club and then nigga from the airport. You're like, oh, like but this was so crazy, No, it wasn't. This was so crazy because because like in my mind, like I'm I think so crazy, I thought I was being set up. I'm like, oh my god, do they know each other? And they but no, all along I went and checked. I was like, these stupid motherfucker's have the
same damn name. So I was stuck on a date with the guy that I gave my number just to get away from me, Like you know how something as you do. That was like, I was so mad you conversation went thinking you were talking the other dude, and then by the time that one hit me, I didn't even want to talk to him no more, forget it
already put in my work. Yeah, it was a fucking disaster and I really had to go and like we went to eat, but I was just like, this is like I had nothing to say because the whole time I was just stunned, Like with an idiot, I am sitting here with the wrong that's hilarious. It's not Let me ask you this. Have you ever let yourself go in a relationship to the point where your man was like, uh, what's going on here? No, Stephanie itself, skinny, I can't
even see that happening. I can't like they'd be falling off. I'll be like, damn, all these I still look good. What happened to you? Do you say something to them? Yeah, I be like, oh, look at this, just like that, I still look at what the fund happened to you? What happened to you? For real? That has happened to me with a couple of different almost, I think almost for all of my relationships. They get fat, stopped dressing right,
like they get too comfortable. Yeah, I mean while I'm still shopping and doing surgeries and wearing a waste trainer. Like boy, I mean people looking good at some But you said it like that was working out with you. I want to kill you. She was like, yeah, I'm still getting surgery and he's just sitting their ears. Okay, was like, I'm working out. What if he was like
heop me up at your doctor. What if he said, help me up with your doctor, I'll be like, all right, just both come over here with a fat What if you did it on Instagram? Now like flex? What goes on Instagram? Body saring it like he's like, yeah, yeah, I'm getting life. I'm getting like my baby sent me to the doctor. Yeah, how would you feel about that? And we'll probably break up because I wouldn't feel very good.
That could be good. You're like like that's a good like YouTube story, because then you could be honest to like I hugged him up and my doctor so bays going right now to get right, be about to get his abs put in. I'm weak if he comes with a butt though, that ship would be funny as out there was a little extra. Women ever look at stuff more than men, don't you think, Yeah, of course I didn't leave him, Um, I pet you. A woman have more of a chance of getting left single if they
fall off, even if through a depression. It's not even their fault. I'll end up alone. A woman will stay with her man. He's a fat blob. I had to I had to tell my ex that he fell off with sex like we would have it. But in the beginning, it's like this nigger going to flip you around, do this, this, that, and then there. And then it got to the point
where he's like, you do all the work. I'm just gonna sit here and sit here, and I'm like, no, like and then like, and then he would blame He's like, yo, like, you know, I gained weight, so I felt a little bit uncomfortable, but I'm like, nigga, your dick still works, though, Why you can't? You could lose weight if you was moving like you was before. All right, you aren't sweating, and let's work this out, work that a little extra out exactly. It still feel like guys did get sweller
when they gain weight. I don't know, but they definitely seen bigger when they lose weight, yes, because then you can see it. I don't know, I think it bigger. He got abs now and now his dick is bigger. You never had to have a conversation with somebody that there dick fell off. Um, it's a hard thing to say. I wouldn't say your dick fell off like that. Of course that's the sounds crazy. It sounds crazy from jump like regardless of up, get up, pick it up. But
I'm trying. The thing I mean, you know what sucks is that, Like I know how to come in sex, so I know I could do certain things and I'll definitely come, and so I can always be okay. But it's always better when they like go above and beyond. But I also know because I work a lot, and i'd be kind of lazy, so I don't mind that I could just make myself come and be good with that, like with him. You know what I'm saying, Like, I
know what angles I need to be at. I know a positions work for me, so it doesn't bother me that much if I get to come, but sometimes it's disappointing if I don't, and I have an attitude after I'd be like asshole. Really, really, that's what you're wasting
my right all right now. The last thing I wanted to talk about is, I know y'all have to see this story about this guy in Japan and he was dating thirty five different women at least, right, and he was doing that because he wanted them to buy him present. He gave them all like different birthdays and they were buying him things. When you came until we added up, it didn't seem like he got that much ship. But anyway, he's actually now in trouble for that. It's a scam
and it's um fraud. Which do you think that's fair? Right? If you meet people, you're dating a bunch of different people, you're not in a relationship, but they all buy you presents. You may implied about your birthday, But do you think that's a crime. I don't think that's a crime. No, that's stupid if he's stealing it, like, oh it was my birthday, so are wearing your credit card? But otherwise it's not a crime. I don't think it should be
a crime. He shouldn't go to jail for it. And I definitely feel like hilarious, Yeah, I think the girls you're dumb if you're buying an expensive gift for somebody that you can't even verify the damn birthday. You've never seen that id or nothing? Yeah, nothing like with family or nothing like. I'm not buying a big expensive gift for somebody that I don't really know like that. I'm doing that for a nigga I funk with like otherwise you just checking on nigga is like, but a lot
of women do you do that? They did say the scam, though, is believed to have netted nearly one thousand dollars in cash and gifts. That's not a lot m So what did they suing him in civil court or something? They're saying it's fraud, So that's not right broad So would that make it a federal crime? Oh it's p I don't know, but yeah, have you ever have you ever used somebody to get a gift? Um on my birthday?
On my real birthday? No, your fake one. I've never used a fake birthday to got a gift, but I've definitely used my birthday like, oh, it's my birthday, I want you to. I need something for sure for somebody. I probably wasn't even gonna talk after my birthday. Yeah, I've stayed with somebody to get a gift, Like, I know my birthday is about to come up. Yeah, break up with him aster birthday pass, and if he don't get me something good enough, then that could be a
reason to dump him. Like, and it's just more so because I'm over that person at that point if I'm thinking that way, because I'd rather just not deal with somebody that I don't like than to do it from something material, because I have too much of a bad hattitude and I don't like someone. So I'm not about to be miserable. I can't even hide it with my facial Yeah you know, I'm not being miserable for no
damn gift. But I will stay with the niggada I'm with until my birthday pops up on Christmas and then be like, all right, it was worth it because at least I left out with this. Oh yeah, well listen, like, I'm staying with him, so yeah, because that sucks if you break up like right, but and you know what that sucks when you start dating somebody right before their birthday. Yeah, you'd be like, that's a guy from Japan. Don't believe that let me see. I saw the story on Instagram.
You gotta show me. All you getting from me is dinner, like if we first if we meet early on and it's like nothing secure like that, and it's your birthday, Uh, we call feed you cheeseburger. Yeah, I'll feed you. That's about it, because I was gonna eat anyway, and I feed the people. Now, you know what, now that I think about it, you know what I have done. I have known that I was about to break up with somebody and butt them like a nice present before I broke up with them because I felt bad and it
being like a parding gift. Yeah, because I felt bad, Like, I know we're about to break up, so let me at least get them like something nice so I don't feel so bad about it. Okay, when I'm not talking about anymore. That's really nice, Angela. I've never heard of anything like. That's actually amazing. That's a good karma, you know, Yeah, Because I remember I dated this one guy and he used to buy me gifts all the time, and I used to be like I told him because I knew
I wasn't gonna end up with him. I actually told him like stopped buying me things because it's making me uncomfortable. And he used to buy me stop all the time. So before I stopped talking to him, I bought him like a nice present because I felt bad because I knew I wasn't going to toull him anymore. But I kind of felt like it was a little partial payback. But like the stuff he already brought you so many things, it's like, here you go, erme's handkerchief and what notes
for for your tears when you're crying? But it's over at least. Do you feel like y'all have met the person that you're gonna marry yet? No? Me neither. I don't know that would be married, get married? He said, No, I want to get married. You're confused if I am gonna get married one day, I don't think I'm met the person now I'm gonn to marry. If I marry anybody that I already know, I would be shocked. I was shocked, like, wow, I can't What if it's somebody
from me a past that comes down. Let me bring the ring back, right, um, somebody from my past? Like I tried that, Remember I tryed that like two years ago? Oh yeah, that went, that didn't work, That didn't work. It worked for like a week. It worked for like a week. We got it. We we got back together from from our past, and then we got engaged in that week and then it was over the week the
following week after. Because that's a Nicki Minaj dead. So I think of stuff like that, like she really married somebody that she used the date back in the day, right, That actually probably feels good when you're as famous as she is. When you don't know who you can trust, you know, but I don't. I can't trust them either. That was the comfortability that I found with the guy that I was dating two years ago, as that we didn't have to get to know each other. We know
each other for forever. So it was like we just skipped the whole beginning part of the relationship. But maybe that's bad. No, of course I was horrible. Like in the movie Casino, Remember she couldn't leave that guy alone even though she was Yes, she could not. It was like Larry or Leading. I feel like every woman has that guy in her life that like he ain't ship, but he can come back around and like squirm his
way in. Yeah. But that guy, Yeah, you don't usually marry that guy dressed with him and be like like in the movie back all right, Well, listen, ladies, I'm glad that we had a chance to have our little catch up because I do feel like during this pandemic, you know, and I know Atlanta there's no pandemic, so Laura, y'all is probably out and about, but I know says I'm in the house. I just went back to the station. I wasn't going to that motherfucker. We did our first
in person interview today, Oh damn. But I just wanted to make sure we catch up because it is important for people to like be in contact and have these little fun conversations so that later on tonight y'all could be like, all right, I feel like a little uplifted from talking to my girls. Yes, we messed. She's recovering, she'll be back. Yeah, it's just work. Oh okay. I didn't know what it was. Oh it was, it's done to work. She was like. G was like, I'm out
of surgery. I'm like, oh my god, what because her face is gonna be swollen, So you know how it goes, that's gonna be me in a couple of weeks too. Damn the two top filacial queens on the show. Just you getting your teeth done to gotta keep that out right. No, she's not even getting her teeth done, just done to work, but just not yeah yeah, okay, alright, well, good luck and thank you all. Friend. It's a little check in and to keep our spirits up. And here is it.
Toasts you. I feel like I drink to everything, but I always drink to everything, chaired lady, I love you guys. I'll be drinking even if it don't pertain to me. I'd be like, did that, oh yeah, alright, by yeah