Episode 29 Ft Rotimi

on Instagram. But on Instagram, you know how girls post pictures of their cleavage and all that. Now guys are posting like their picks. So you don't think that's sexy. No, I don't think it sucks if you're sex if you got a sexy body and it's not, you know, it's a nice print. I don't like in the mail. I don't want thick in the mail. And I don't want dick in my d M s. And I don't want to dig on my timeline. I don't want it just in your mouth. I wanted in my mouth here all right, Now,

we always start up lip service with some tips. Alright, so today's tip is how do you cheat and not get caught? What are some tips that you can do? And I know everybody in here at some point it's cheated, So how do you cheat and not get cart road to me? What's that with you? Well, I'm not in a relationship, but I can say in the past, in the past, damn. What is the way that you can make sure you don't get cut cheating? How do you

cover your tracks? Burner phone, burner phone. That's a whole new phone, a whole little secret situation, too much to keep up with. I'm not gonna lie. I've had a couple of secret phones in my line. So where do you put the phone? And you're you just leave it somewhere like and then like the panties draw or the trunk of the car, the trunk of a car, yet the phone in the trunk? When you okay, burning your bat line slat line, bling stephanitily with your your tip

on how I think you know? If you don't want to get caught, you gotta get race everything. I always got court cheating because I don't race any like my boy, My boy. My boy actually uses snap dam because he knows it disappears, you know, like yeah, like even like no, like if you write somebody and it disappeared, it goes down in the dam. Well, you know they say the best place to hide something is right out in the open. Talk about it. I'm not cheating, but I'm saying, but

you're having the past. Yeah, of course, all right, So you're saying, what do you mean by that, I don't know. Open. I mean when you try to go too hard and try to be too suspicious and try to like go too hard at covering something up, then that's when you get caught, you know, when you don't gotta lock your phone and you feel like you don't got nothing to hide. Man, you know, so he doesn't go through your phone if you've never had somebody go through it when you yeah,

I've had, So that doesn't really work. That ship my phone going through. I mean, you know, you live and you learn, okay, and that's a terrible tip. Doesn't work, Sarah, what about you tips? It's really bad attitude that can cut. I mean, I think the erasing is the best one. You gotta make sure the face no tice. Yeah, you gotta make sure also that they're involved in something too, so they don't try to come back. So we're cheating on each other person. Yeah, you both each other's side piece,

so you don't have nothing to lose. Now. The only thing I will say about erasing stuff is sometimes it's really obvious that someone's cheating when you go and look at their phone and there's two messages like we're having on everything that was on your phone? You here, how many people you cheating with it? You only got two

people left? You know what I'm saying that if you delete everything and there's barely anything in your phone, like okay, I know your phone was going off, or if you delete phone calls and you're like, okay, they hold it WHENY calls and I only see seven listed, that means sometimes cheating with too many people, you gotta calm down. That's too much, alright. So those are your all your

tips on how to cheat and not get caught. And I would say another tip on how to cheat and not get caught is to make sure that you cover your tracks ahead of time. Sometimes. Yeah see, I was just about to say that you could you know, you got a block people throughout certain times in your life.

You use that use that the iPhone block and a lot of things days for a couple of hours if you aren't cheating, and make sure that person you're cheating with is aware that they are the side piece, because then they can help you and like, you know, if they're not a hater. The blocking thing is new man. You know I've been. I haven't been in a serious relationship like the way I was with my son's follower for so long that you just were in a serious relationship.

But you know what, Ralph, I wouldn't block people. I would put people on do not disturb. That's the kind of the same thing that is okay, forget it's just kidding. I've never used that in one of those questions. How many women want out of tend How many women do you think cheat? Um, I've only ever cheated twice. It's not like a reoccurring thing. I would say probably about half, and they deserved it. But I think women cheat for different reasons than men. A woman might cheat because she

knows you're all about to break up. So a lot of times women will go and find somebody to kind of distract them so that they can have the strength and the courage and the things to do so they can break up with you. Also, sometimes women because they know you're cheating, so maybe sometimes it makes them feel better. You know how that tip things? How? What's the percentage of women you think cheat? Um? And I think when you get older? For I think I think half. I

think guys cheat more than girls girls. What wrote to me? Would you say the percentage of men to cheat? I e. Eight? Not nine? I think I think nine. I think kidding, I'm kidding nine nine point one. What have you ever cheered and gone? No? Never, you're caught now got caught, but you cheated. Okay, So you're good at having your tracks is basically what you're saying. So what are you that makes you really care? No? But so how do you cover your tracks? You should be giving these tips? Oh? Well,

one thing I did was the blocking. I did that then before I had the phone, I had two phones. And then um, it's like a drug dealer with it, okay, and then um, and then I switched the names like I put a girl. I wasn't the fourth first name you ever used Lisa? Wait, you made the girl's name Lisa. Why don't you make it a guy's name? Oh? So I think you said, who was a girl? I cheated? No, no, shout out to Lisa and now you know, you know what I'm saying. You change the name, changed the name

you guys name, God forbid. Should go through your phone and see Peter texting you like I miss you. Nick. I used to talk to this a y'all last night. Man when you me and my credible, it was the thing was like no, no, no, So she knew I was in a relationship, so she would just always just call me so it would just be my boy. Yeah, it was like she was down. See, And that's why I said, it's important to tell the other person because

then they'll, you know, you give them the decision. But when you don't tell somebody and they get mad if they find out you're in a relationship, like oh yeah we had a girl, all right, that I'm blast it's a headache. That's a headache when it happened. So you

just trying to avoid all that, like the situation. You can be ru than that and still look you for that, sir, because most men they had just put you in a situation and for you to figure it out once the goddamn shi hit the fan, and I just feel like if a guy put you in a situation and he allows you to make that choice, then I mean you better off in the morm one. Some people might say if a guy cheasing you and or it doesn't tell you, that means he really cares about you or all. No,

I'm saying like you, I'm not saying cheating. I'm saying or if you wanted to side and he doesn't tell you, man, just you know, I'm saying, if you like side piece like the Stipe pie, should know what she getting herself. Like, if you're dating a married man, you should know he's married. He should He should give you that much respect to let you know what you get yourself into. No important. Now here's another question we're going to discuss, and we're gonna start with you with this one. G as she

gets herself. Yeah, man, it's handy, strong, I know, be a big girl's holiday, Hennessey. That was the coke. It's not that type of Some people have TV deals here. Okay, Now let's say that media. Now Sarah and I n Sarah's streets in Atlanta. And now we were discussing this earlier about people putting people people on blasts and social media and um, whether or not you should do that. Now, let's discuss what you said since first, well, let's say what you said, and we're gonna let g tell her story.

But I just feel like it's not everybody's business, Like if somebody does something, let's say, for example, my son's father, you know what I mean, if we go through things, that's between us, you know what I mean, And from the outside looking in, everything's great, and for the most part it is. But everybody has issues that's just not for everybody else to be talking about. Yeah, I might call him and cause him out or come see whoever, but I'm not going to put that on social media

for everybody else to know. So you're not gonna be like, stop calling me, trying to see me, stop stop telling me you love me. Christina Milian did that is what she's that girl? All right? Now, what I was saying is this, Now I've I've never put anybody on blasting

social media. But I also feel like if you're telling the truth and it's your relationship and you want to do that, you kind of have the right to do that if somebody messes up, as long as you're not lying about what happened, and you put it out there. That's really just you know, you got to just chalk it up. If you cheated on your wife, you cheated on your girl, and somebody exposes you and you really did it, you can't be mad at nobody but yourself.

I understand you're saying you wouldn't do it, But I don't really fault anybody else for that, because you know I've never done that. I mean, I'm you know what, who knows? I just never have. I can't say I never would now, G. I was, I'm I'm very emotional, okay, and I was going through an emotional state and I posted some things about my relationship. Now, I didn't go into detail. I'm not gonna lie. We was screenshining that

and putting that in the chat. Like wrote, I going into more detail about that situation with you guys on the show, more than I have on social media. However, I had posted on about it on social media, and I'm just gonna chalk it up to me being emotional and everything I said it was true. I ain't on you, nigga. Let me tell you what G wrote five hours ago. She said, for those of you all who want to know what I'm doing and where I've been. My snap

is Gez McGuire. I really only post my dogs, Tyson and Maggie at hashtag, the estate with the family, and me managing the dances at Vandity Grant. Oh and when I'm coasting live service, I post that too. I'll be sure to post me teaching and let them sweech this Saturday as well. I had no idea there were so many of you interested in my little life. I thought y'all stopped carrying back in October twelve when I stopped stripping hashtag misshow me the money? What was that about?

Because man, people just always want to be talking and blabbing and typing and behind keyboards with all of this she this and she that, and y'a don't know what you're talking about. And you know, maybe if you fall at my snapchat, because I pull more on there these days, and then you will be able to have a more better insight on what I am. So when you do decide to talk about me, you can speak the truth. I don't mind you talking about me, just know what

you're talking about. And I'm so open with mine that it's not really hard to figure out where I'm at and what I'm doing. No, I'm not stripping. I managed to strip club. There's a difference. You know. It feels like you were getting some hate though about your relationship and you wanted to address it. Yeah. I mean, you know it's gonna happen, and it is what it is. I'm happy, he's happy. We're happy. Alright, happy. Now what's

Jared take on that road? Timmy? I mean, I think it's petty, you know, I think, you know, especially people lying and take the time to fabricate situations. I think that's stupid. But I feel like if you if you had a situation with somebody where you're actually cool, this should be a level of respect there too, you know, to not you know, bash or do anything. So I think it's corny and I think it's just a cry for attention sometimes. But if it's something that needs to

be said that will help other people, then okay. But in terms of personally just been dead and that's stupid. All right, Well, took about you for a second because you know I'm gonna do this alright. Super Head posted about you. Yeah, and she said I've never seen a man go on vacation while the mother of his dead child hurts so badly or sing knowing he had a hand in stifling the breath of his own. Alright, So now what happened with that? Where you shocked when that

came out on social media? Yeah? Yeah, very you know, because again, like this is all so new to me, you know what I mean, this part of my life. So when things are fabricare I've heard so many different things about different situations, and that one just happened to stick. That's just you know, not really what it is. So it's just a shot. You don't know how to handle it. How did you handle it? I mean again, there's nothing you can say to something that you know of that wild.

So it's just just my team was just like like just don't just don't nderstand her, So you didn't hit her up like bit stopped, Like let's give him somebody too much attention and too much you know, power over the situation. Did you know her personally though? Yeah? I knew her. Yeah, knew it. Yeah, you don't have no video, We're gonna see it. That's the thing. It's it's you know, I'm not gonna I knew her for sure, but in

terms of you know all that, it's just crazy. We were talking about this downstairs before we came up, and g what did you say about about super Head. It's not too many nickers that meet her that's gonna turn down her sexual advances. They're not gonna turn down that super hid. They they're gonna test that. My fat their mouth is legend theory. What anybody saying? And would you yeah, Mr Marcus Wright, So you know if somebody that is named super Head, you're not gonna turn that down. I mean,

I mean, it depends on who you are. I did not say, no, you gotta get it depends she's looks give us so, looks hot, she looks good. Hey, he's got some friends. Were on Instagram are Yeah, so you'd be seeing all kinds of crazy po No, yeah, she posted it, but she's really like cool, Like she's in my comments, so she's cool. Yeah, but I don't think now. I know. Wayne had some issues with super mentioned a

new mixtape he did. On that song My Name Is, he called her ancient and tired because she keeps speaking out of turn. I feel like like we all know you you know, you dealt with him, so that was your time. If you're still dealing with him whatever, But if he's going through something with somebody else, that's not really your place. Everybody keep asking me why I don't speak on it. I don't know what that man is doing.

Like we speak about our child. You're not gonna go on there be Like he's for everybody, right, he's community property, right, even though that you know, you may feel a certain way, and nobody's saying we don't feel any type of way, but it's not your that's not your business. Right. You're not with him, so it doesn't matter to you what he does. You don't ask him. Do you care? Like now all three of you have children, Timmy, you don't have any kids yet that you claim, But does it

bother you? Like when you see you know your child's father going through any type of drama, do you step in, do you say anything? Definitely? No, whatever drawing my child's father is going through, he can deal with it on his own. That's none of my business. I don't I don't never. I don't even care, no, because I I mean I he and I are over. We've been over for years already. So it's like, you know what you

put yourself in that situation. As long as my child is good and it has nothing to do with my kid, and nobody's disrespecting my kid. Your problems are your problems. Minds are mine, not what do you think? Well, personally, Um, my dad's father passed away years and years ago, but I feel like taking it if he were still alive and we still had a relationship that we had before he passed away, I would not get myself involved in

things that wearing my business. But if he asked me to insert where he asked me for my opinion, you know, because we were that close. We were more like friends at the time. So I can see him if he was to get into something with his you know at the time girlfriend where his other baby's mother to say, you know, would you would you think? You know? I wouldn't and yeah, and I wouldn't just yeah, but I wouldn't just jump in and assert myself. Weird, wasn't my business?

What about you, Sarah? Do you say anything about all this? Yeah, because we ain't be having a lot of drama, you know way, and you don't tell him like dude, you gotta chill out. No, if it doesn't involve my son. Then there's nothing really just to me. How do you feel about dating women with kids? I haven't. I haven't, you never have. I'm not. I'm not now like I'm not opposed like you know, feeling somebody like that, But I haven't personally know how he's His birthday just passed

by the way, happy birth. I love sagittarious fun. They are cool people. Now, if you were dating women who had a child, how important is it for you to like, when do you think it's appropriate time to say, Okay,

I want to meet your son or daughter. Oh when we know we're like serious serious, I wouldn't want to meet you know, the child early because anything can happen, and then I don't want not necessarily from me, but for the child to see different people coming to you know, the mom's life and you know, remember, oh my mom had this friend and this friend and his friend. So until like my daddy's on power. How long do you wait? Like?

How like? So sometimes females we think it's serious, but it's like in our head it's not really that seriously. You got can kind of wait sometime. How long do you wait, m um? Like, what's a good amount of time? For you to be like, I'm serious. Do you'd be like, look, it's just me and you girl, You're gonna be my girl? Like, how do you know what's serious? Do you do? Like

the serious? Because I just sat here and kind of thought back on how long I've made God's weak and I had boyfriend's instantanea and it just felt right your daughter right away? No, not me, my daughter, but like I've had relationships, like I fell out of one relationship and into the next in very short periods of time. I always make I always make people wait to meet

my daughter. How long do you wait? I can't really put a time stamp on me, but I know when I feel comfortable enough to bring that person around my child. Usually like what was the earliest weeks or months? And you know what you're doing? So how much time I spent with the person? And now your jode has grown?

So like your instance, when um, when I first met Track, even though we were never you know, intimate or anything like that, but when I first met him and all of his centred songs, When I first met him and all of his people, I was around them every day, um, for about two weeks straight before I bought my daughter

because it was so many men around. We were in the studio house, and you know, even though um, you know, Delante was there and you know, we're all family, it's still like, my daughter is nine years old and it's like six men in his house. Like, I just didn't really feel comfortable bringing her around until I felt comfortable each and every single one. And I wasn't having sex

with any of them. But the fact that I was going to have my daughter around all of these men and influenced by all of this was you know, what's going on in this house? I just really felt like I had to know for sure that there was environment I wanted to her to be in. And years later we ended up moving into the same house together. Um Troy Taylor, which is her which is trades um mentor ended up being her golfather like to this day she called some day it so and all of that came

from you know, way back then. But I just that one particular situation just stuck out to me because I remember, like, I'm not about to take you over there. It's just too much it going on. And it wasn't even nothing bad. It was just too many men that I didn't know. I'm just needing and that's your daughter. It's really weird to bring your like a daughter around. About you guys, if you don't know, I think for me, I probably it probably takes some months month at least at least

I'm only considered my kids meaning one person. And it was two years. And yeah, I still got cussed out for that. I was with rom I never with my son, and he's never my my son, has never my my son. That was that a conscious decision? Yeah, because my son, I felt yourself. We were fighting a lot. You know. I wouldn't bring my son a or right now, you know, And um, I just feel like, you know, if I'm gonna bring my son into somebody's life, they have to

be permanent, you know what I mean. Me and Rath was so up and down never never yeah you um he wanted to meet my son and I told him, no, I've never brought a man ever around, not one of my guy friends, nobody, no man to my son, never, not even one. The only reason why I considered it is because he lived in another city and was asking me to move to that city so we could get closer. And obviously my kids are a big part of that decision.

So I'm like, if I'm gonna move, they have to Yeah, we have to see how they get along, how you can even deal with kids because he doesn't have any. So but yeah, it didn't work out getting serious. So that's a good time it was. Yeah. Yeah, well Ralph he kind of had an idea that he wanted me to be around his kids, and I was like, oh, well,

so you didn't want to do that. No, I didn't want to be around I don't want to mean nobody in your family if I don't know what's going on, Like seriously, I don't like people, like how many people have you really brought around? And also because I just don't want people being like, oh what happened is that I don't want to bring anybody around my family and I don't want to meet anybody in your family if I don't feel like this is like my man, you know,

because what's the point. I mean? I felt like Ralph was my man, and I yeah, that's my man, and I love him and I still love him, but you know, my son is just it's way more precious than relationship. It's just that's very sensitive material for me. You know what I mean. Now, let me ask you this because I remember you posted a picture of Ralph from one time on Instagram, but it wasn't like a full picture, it was just a picture of his face. Did you delete it? No? I got like three pictures of Ralph

on my Instagram. I haven't deleted them, even though we're not together. I haven't deleted them because I mean, it's a timeline, you know what I mean. That's it to me. When you date a girl, if y'all break up, do you delete air off Instagram? It was a part of my life, you mean, delete the pictures, Delete the pictures. I don't post pictures though of my relationship. But I totally unfollow you. And it's not because I'm sorry, and Charlotte, it just helps me get over it because if I'm

not seeing your face, I unfollow your friends. I had somebody, the same person, his nephew hit me in the d M like you gonna follow me with the you know, and I'm like, it's nothing personal, baby, It's just like I kind of a picture of him and I saw I'm okay, I'll pass on your vacation with the new bitch. What g what do you think unfollowed and delete, delete everything everything, y'all. Listen, I'll be at my feelings, y'all. I'll get a pass for that, like for real. No, um,

I don't. I don't think I've deleted pictures of us. I don't even really post a lot of picture of us. I don't think I delete the pictures of us when we broke up, but I did unfollowed and blocked him from following me. And then after we got back together, then everything was cool. But I unblocked onto his friends, and I mean I blocked one of his friends and that person is still block because he pissed me off. We're like, he pissed me off, so he's still blocked.

But um, yeah, sometimes you just gotta, you know, to try to create closure. But you know what I because you know we really be back together. What you can't do. You can try to block the person, you can try to not be around the person. You can in your mind say that person who is coming to earth. But what you cannot do is you cannot make yourself all out of love back. If you love somebody, there's no off switch to that. You just can't turn that off. And I tried. I tried to make him the fucking

scum of the earth. I tried to make my worst enemy, and deep down the side of my little teeny hert I still loved him, which is why we back together. So you can't now what if he would have not wanted to be back together. You think there was nothing he could have done to make you not love him anymore, when you really he did a lot, He did a lot, but there was nothing he could have did he did, he did a lot. Oh, he did a lot. But

I don't know. I just when you really truly love somebody, even if you don't get back together, I feel like you always love them. I agree let him get away with a lot of things. I might saying, never really truly love nobody, because I definitely have this, I know, because I definitely felt like I might have thought that I, you know, was and you know what difference to be in love and love? Yeah, that's right, you know, definitely like I could love somebody like Okay, I love him.

If he, you know, died, I'd probably be upset, but I probably I'll be like Dan, that's sucked up. You wouldn't go to the funeral. It depends. You might I feel like, you know, you love somebody when it hurts, when they're out around when it really hurts. But I think that's also being accustomed to somebody too. Sometimes you're just sometimes it makes you real shitty, and you so used to them and them between you shitty that you

just used to it. And I've had breakups where I'm I'm like, all right, whatever is over, you know, leave it to God, and then other breakups that I'm like the thought of the person just brings me to tears, and I'm just my broth thinking about them. Deny, call me all right? Now, how many details do you want

to know about somebody that you're dating? Now? I'm talking about this because the guy was telling me about, you know, how disgusting he used to be, And he told me hystory about how he had sex with the girl in the room with other guys and he didn't take none of his clothes off. All he did was unzipped his pants, pull his dick out, and a girl right there for of his boys in the room. And I was like, I don't know if I wanted to know all the

information and all those details, because that's really disgusting. And now I kind of like you're cooking at the sideways? How much information do you want to know? Ro to me about a girl? Like if she's like, yeah, you know one time in college, these guys ran a train on me and everybody people came on me, and I would have to I want to know that. You would want to know that, yeah, because I don't want to deal with it. But it was too late. What if

you already was like you always day? But yeah, what have you? Fall? A little girl? And then you'll get so like she's comfortable enough to tell you anything and she comes out and tell you she got gang bange and what is it? Call certain things? Certain things, certain things you don't have to say, certain things you don't need to know. But ms of like especially in the industry, the industry small, so you don't want to ever look stupid. You know, you need to know. I need to know

certain things. I need to know maybe who you've been with that I might know so I don't walk into But she's like, yeah, a couple of times I fifty you wouldn't want to know that? Oh yeah, you know what I mean? If I'm if I'm in love with yeah, and she should she tell you right away. She waits, She needs to tell me that right away because she knows the relationship between That's the same thing fifty came along.

So you've been doing with her then fifty came along, and then you're like, oh and then you know if you do that? Laugh? Yeah, Oh you mean like I would have to know? Yes, I would want to. Would it be a deal breaker? I don't know he was going to get the role man who knew it could be? She helped you get the deal. Damn. If I'm already all in, then I just have to get over that. Yeah. Would you go and be like like, I know you my girl. I haven't talked to him about it happened,

but you know, yeah she was good. He would say that, he would say that. Let now, But that's a good question. I think I'd stay I stay still if I was in love, Yes, if I was just planning and I would take you. What if he was like dash your girl? Okay, that is a different conversation. So yeah, But I mean that somebody's past matter. If it was five years before she met you. Um again, if it's people that I know that I'm not informed about it like that, you know that I know them, you know what I mean.

I feel like that's important, so especially in this industry because maybe she want to wait until you fall in love and until you after. Like, I feel like the industry is small. We're talking about industry like it's a it's a small group of people. Not everybody is in the industry. So I feel like you like, don't I don't want to know anything. You don't want to know anything, And I'm taking everything to my grave unless it comes down to it, like all right, listen, I was with

him a few times, you know what I mean. Otherwise I'm taking everything to imself. You don't want to know because you don't want to tell. No, I don't want to know. I don't want to know. I don't for me, whether it's in the industry or not, I don't for me. I don't like know when who your ex is. I don't like know when you used to funk with x y Z girl, because it's expecting you want to know step that he used to do. Maybe not, but when

if he was like man, I remember one time. No, because like, if you're telling me, oh, I had a threesome with this girl and we went row, I'm like Yeah, I don't need I don't know. Yeah, I mean, I don't ever mention names like I want, but scription of a person that i've been with, and I don't because you know what, when I find out when I'm dating a guy, when I'm working with a guy, and I find out other girls that he's been with and they don't match up to me, it's a turnoff. That's a

lot of things. Yeah, And and I don't No, I judged him. I judge it. So that's why you don't want to like this guy. I'm this guy I was dating. He's working with this girl. She has like green teeth. Her teeth are bad, as she's been all for it. Gon have bad teeth? She do? She got a nice body, her body is all right. She's a cute girl, but her teeth are bad. Don't given crazy about zensel hygiene teeth. Yeah,

she probably gives amazing hit because you don't. If you don't, so you would let those green teeth on your pens exactly and kiss your answer you after you were kissing the green seat. Nah, it's a total turn off. I don't even exaggerating. God Like, in the club in the nighttime, they look green said, she being a club. Yeah, I've seen her in the club a few times for years. Though for you, she always had bad seats like she's

known for. I get that. Why does she get it fixed because she broke damn, But I mean whatever, you know, she's a nice girl, she's cool. But I just don't think that a nigga that I don't think a nigga that sucks me should be able to get his zick harse because I got seat for clean mouth, Like no, but sexy mouth is a big part of sex, you know what I mean? You know, kissing, sucking, spitting, all of that is you have to have goods. That's what hodgen to even be considered somebody that I would even.

You know, that guy asked you questions about your past, though, Are you gonna be honest? Are you gonna it depends on the questions. If he's like, alright, stuff, did you sleep with this guy? And I did sleep with him, I'm gonna be honest. I'm gonna say yes. If we're in the same room and he doesn't ask me no a lot he says anything, I'm not gonna blow it up. If you keep it up, I'm gonna keep it load

because it's weird. And if he and if he does tell like, yo, you know I know her and he approaches me about it like did you do this, I'm gonna be like, yeah, see, I'm the other way. I gotta tell you the first he's jumping the gun. You might you might play forget away with it, damn played with because you know what these guys in the industry,

they sleep with every girl and each other. But you will be sitting you will take a picture with the girl and posted up on your Instagram and you think that you guys are friends and they will not tell you, like, hey, you know friend, and she ain't gonna tell you. And she ain't gonna tell you either, So why should I?

Why should I? If the guy blows it up, I'll be like, yeah, it's pride though, Like if I find out like I was in the same room and you knew that I had, Like, it's a possibility that he can tell me that and he comes out he's petty I was with that, and you girls should tell if one of my friends at that bathy and you know, you know one of my friends had that issue though with her man because he found out about a couple of guys that she sucked and he didn't. She didn't

tell him. He found out through other people, and it damn They broke up their relationship because he thought and she felt like, well, that was ten years ago. You know that I didn't really want to when I fring out my relationship. I was very clean and came clean with everything that I thought he may have found out, because the last thing I wanted was for somebody to tell him. I ready to tell her much did he respect? And even know he respected the funk out of me

for that? Like her Man used to be like, you know what I like about Gig is that a lot of these girls out there holes but they don't admit it, and they don't suck this person, and they try to act like the angels. He was like, Gig is straight up blunt, tell you I did this, I did that, I did this. She's rear with it. I don't never think that they're not gonna tell I'm gonna say this story. I don't care what I did. You're not telling me in your whole past. I'm not gonna tell you mind.

If it comes up, I'll be honest about it. But otherwise pictures. I'm not talking. I was talking to somebody and they're not friends, but they have the same profession. So I let them know, like, Okay, I used to talk to this person and we like actually dated that with each other. So once night we're out in the club and it was like lue to day weekend in Atlanta. We were in the club. I know exactly who we're

talking about, the other one. You were there and the old one walks to the new one while I'm standing there and he was like, oh, yeah, she used to be a my thing, but it's okay, you can have her now. And I thank god I already told him because he was like, and so what bro like now? He looked like, that's you know, that's a little disrespectful. I'm saying. Crazy. What I'm saying, that's that's that's that's

what's what I'm saying. I have faith in all the men that I've been with, and I don't think that they would do me like that. Catack. I have faith in all of these If you had a few drinks in them, nah, that's not okay. He's still not okay. He was wasted. You know how to get down? You know what you know what's annointing when you tell a guy something and he bring it up all the time. That's why that's mine. Let me tell you. I told my hext boyfriend about one person in the industry who

I know specifically has slept with everybody. He slipped with all of my friends. I'm like, we toss him around in the industry. Girls passed him around, and he's like that and he's an amazing thought. But I told my ex boyfriend, and I'm telling you will be arguing all what you're gonna do. You're gonna call x y z oh, this one's in sound, You're gonna go hang out at

his party. Now. It's like, all right, now, I'm just gonna keep everything to myself because you do Instagram stuck, Like, if you find out your guy used to date somebody, do you go on the girls Instagram just to see No, Because I'm telling you what turns me off and makes me not want to funk with him no more, right, because I'm like, look she's a cornbo Look she got green Seve, Look she doesn't like her kid. Look, look

this is Cereble. Now listen, we are all getting ready for the holidays and a lot of major things coming up, such as presents. Okay, now to me, we know you trick a little based off of your mix tape. So if you start dinning and woman, or let's say you've been taking a like three girls in rotation because you're not, you know, tied down your single, do you buy them presents? No? Dang, not even that little for the holiday. My thing is this because especially now, like in terms of time, I

make sure they're around, make sure around. So if I'm in Atlanta, I'm make sure I'll bring you out so we enjoyed moments together instead of just a gift. At this point, it's more. But a gift makes a moment nice. I'd rather have the company and then enjoyed the time together. What about the holidays? What if she's like, y'all talk all that. What if she got you again, she come

up with a president? Why don't you feel terrible? Yeah? No, I wouldn't because I know that when we do it, I'll do a nice little dinner, I'll do massages for us, I'll do all those type of things that you know. He said, I'm always getting Christmas. But okay, so no presents for nobody. This year. I reserved that for my girl. But in terms of time, I like time. I think time is really important. What if it's not your girl yet, but somebody you really like, um, then it's different. Yeah.

I probably a little something, a little something. So let's say it's holidays. Is somebody you've been dating for like three months, you like her? What's the what's a good amount of money to spend three months? Like a two that's good for It's not in my budget. I think that. Um. I think birthdays are more more important for a gift Christmas. For Christmas, you could get away without getting again. Now, the worst part is when you started dating somebody right

and their birthday come up before yours. That just happened. I got yeah. But see, and another thing is is when they have more money than you and they have everything, and then you got to kind of have to get creative. So I, um I threesomes are free most of the time. Freesome freesome. That gave him a freesome No, But um I set up a massage because I was just like, you know, thanks, that's a good thing that people always

eat a massage. I think it's dope to cater to somebody that you would be really dope if massage lessons and give him a massage. Yeah, I mean you could do that would just lead to sex though, and then it won't feel like like four play. Yeah, nothing wrong with that alright. So his birthday came before you, so you you thought of something specially to do. What do you expect for your birthday now? I don't know, just be cree. I just like thoughtful gifts, because the best

gift you ever got, like thoughtful. Um. I got a watch for Christmas and it was It was funny because I didn't It was my first it was my first designer watch. Like I had never had a nice watch. I want a nice watch, and in my head I kept thinking I wanted one, but I never said it Outli before baby he knew it was cool. It was cute. Yeah, I'm gonna get Stephanie and watch because she'd be late. Yeah, I need one. I need one bad now. I think I think I'm gonna get a watch for my birthday

from the new guy. You're speaking, not that new guy from the guy, because you're like, I'm single, So I have mad boyfriends I have are single, but your good friends fake boyfriends and they fake boyfriends like, I'm sleeping like one guy and the rest of them are all like nuddies. Yeah, they're like like one guy that you're sleeping with, that you're going out with that the guys like say he hits you and remember next you know, I'm like, baby, you know I can't get no better

than you. Where I'm gonna go through Bay where I'm gonna go from here? But she is single? What if he asked you where are you last night? He Um, it doesn't matter. I'll just be like I was home. You lie, but I'm not sleeping with anybody else. I'm not even spending I'll be home all But you tell a lie. You're supposed to tell a lie that's close to the truth. You can't say you was home if you was out. No, No, if I'm if I go out,

I'll tell the truth, Like because I could. If I go to dinner with another guy and you say I wasn't, I want to have dinner at tal That's it what I mean. What if he says, yeah, who would you go with? Who would you go with? I wouldn't he and see that I Detroy? So I was with Angel Philly travel. I got a private jet, I hope be like, you know, my my best friends are pregnant. I have a couple of best friends that are pregnant. So I'm like, you know, we want to eat the pregnant girl. You

know they're gonna instagram. So worst is if you allow you to a whole story to ship just start santing fay. So you know my friends and pegny, so one of them they would it broke, so we have to go get the food to go. I went to and I ended up with destroy all the little How well, so what is that good amount of money for the guy that you're sleeping with to spend on you for the holidays,

for the holiday, for my birthday? Because my birthday is coming, I don't really expect the Christmas gift because I don't really buy guys Christmas gifts. Like I have a child and he's really expensive during the holidays. So it's like you discuss it, like just so you know, you don't gotta get me a gift from Yeah, I do. I do, Like, don't worry about getting me a gift. I don't buy anybody gives about my grandmother and my son, okay, or you know witnesses. Yeah, and a lot of times. It

don't still give me a gift. It's just don't expect me to return the gift. All right, I don't go for your birthday, I got you, Valencine's Day, I got you. But Christmas that's all for my sons. Thank you. Let me put us some music and give you a lap, then exactly, I'll definitely do so. How much money would you expect him to spend it for me on my birthday if we're sleeping together, I don't know, it's not I don't really care about how much the gift, cause

it's more I like sense a mental value. And I was like, you know what I mean, like giving me money guys, that's that's like, that's what guys do. Like, Oh, here's three thousand dollars for your birthday. Here's five thousand dollars. There's a couple of rocks, you know, Like that's like, Okay, I don't pay my bills. I don't pay some bills. You know, maybe I'll go buy a pair of shoes.

But it's just money in the bank, you know. Not rather somebody buy me something, you wouldn't rather somebody value something and give you money. Though, isn't that more? No, I would rather than buy me something to give me money. Money is like every day I get money every day. That's special. That's what I mean. Do you give girls money? What if a girl asked you for money to pay her bills? What if she was like, hey, boo, you

know things a little You know what I think? Like, no, no, no, no, no no. You don't want to date a girl who can't pay her bills Because listen, I know girls who guys give them money, And I'm like, how does that happen? Like do they ask for their mouth and ask for so if the girl asked you, you say no, yes, run run? What if it's not a lot, But if she's like, yeah, I gotta get this Brazilian waxes seventy dollars. I know you like to don't got no cash for you?

I don't take credit cards? Yeah? What's like? What if she's like you comes back to you in Jersey, I need gas money and told money. No, that's crazy, it's a little crazy. But would you do it? It's not a lot, it depends how depend on what kind of cars she has, A big takes. But if she if she asks you like Hey, I need three thousand dollars to covering around bows this month. No, no, like, girl, go get a job. And I know that's the party.

Everybody can't go host the damn party. Like everybody looks like no. But now I think that's I think that's corny. You know, it's like really bad and doesn't want that. No, that's stupid, and I feel like you're trying to use me. So it becomes a different conversation. Now look at you differently. But she's like, this is so difficult for me to ask you. And normally I usually don't do this. What're the first time doing this? What is she stuck in your dick? And she looks at at you and she's like,

and it's really good. And she's like, I need somebody anything, anything, anything you want? Don't please you may chook? You want me to win? Are to you? And then said, but you'd be like what I don't remember that? That was right? What about g Yes? Do you ever problem just asking for some money? Now I'm as Jesus. Views on money is different. I think because I was a stripper, So money falls out the sky. What did she said? It just falls out to right and magic city, the money

fell out the sky. Guys are supposed to pay for ship. They are, but pay for what everybody? No, no, no, no, no, no, not everything. But there are some things that if a god knows you need it, and he should just provide it if your tracks is falling out and he's not like boo boo, let's get that tightened up. So you expect the man to pay your rent. No, come to my own rent. But let's just say that I get into whatever situation. Let's say I get locked up, damn G.

Not just saying I get locked up, you're not. I'll be having a weed in the car. So you know, I get locked up and the man and I'm sucking. I call my home girl and she she's like, all right, I'm gonna call you. I'm gonna call you, dude, and we're gonna get this bail money. And he goes send

that bare money. Right. No necessities, things that I really really really need, not something I should be able to provide for myself, not something that I should be working for myself, but things like if something was to come up and I didn't have it, then the next the next best person that's gonna make sure it's there is the man. I don't spread my legs were and if not, then I'm shutting my legs. Pepper. Now, what do you expect for the holidays? Like, say you've been dating somebody

is fairly new. Is he supposed to get you a present? Because this is what's fairly let's just say it's three months. Yeah, that's fairly new. But it's you know, something that's a little consistent. Yeah, I think I think a president at three months is a nice gesture and then got to be not a brand president. I don't think it's a necessity. I wouldn't be mad. You know. That's kind of the moment, you know around that time. It's like it's only been

three months, or it's been three months. You know, that's kind of like a fine line across. So I wouldn't feel type of way if he didn't give me something. But if he did get me something, I would love that. I just wouldn't expect for it to be nothing. Create like I don't want to roll except three months, you know I do. I mean I would, but I'm not.

After three you look at him differently. If you did give you a role, I would think it was fake like wouldn't make you like somebody more than they got you, like an incredible present. It will help. I mean it does help. And I fired like, let's say, um, we're in that metal place that you know we're not kissing, we're friend zone, but there's like a thin line that you might could be my boyfriend and then get to take Yeah if you say, if you get all right,

you're like, we might. We might if I can't even be friends when people they accept the gifts is sometimes when you accept the gift a big gift to prematurely than the guy that gives it to you expect some pussy in return, and then we just not. At three, I said premature, No, guys are buying that guy to get me the jeans and ast me spend a night with me wearing some jeans. It was like, can I stay with you? Nigga? We should have bought a hotel

room for tonight. We're talking about that today. Um do so if I pay for you to get your nails done, I'm getting the pussy. No, because you don't they last longer? Do you judge a person like off based off the first time you have sex with them? Because I feel like sometimes you can't really tell. Now you can't. You always got to give it the first time, Like the first time can be all so much pressure. The first

time you gotta juste. But I feel like the first time it should be one of the best times because you're feeling is to each other, like you get just it's new and it's thrill. Thrill. There, I give you the thrill. And that's why it's a let down, because you've got too much hype behind it. That's why it's not much pressure. You gotta give them a second chance. Bad first experiences like you bested too quick, or you I'm Nigerian, so we're just a different breed of mine.

We go, we go. But now I think I think you gotta get somebody a second chance because so many we don't know each other. I don't know what you truly like. You know, you don't know what I really like. It's bad, I'll definitely give them a second not even bad. If it's bad. If it's bad, then though, but if it's like, oh that was cool, Oh it's cool, it's come better, it could be better. But then it's like it becomes chemistry, you know, you know what makes the

girl whack in bed. You just lay like a starfish and just don't do you just stay there like you know, and I like and I like talking. I like, you know, choking and like that so well you want to know that that you'd be scared to do that because you don't know if I like it. So different things, you know what I mean, you like her to choke. You know, I like choking, and if you don wouldn't know, I don't know she like it. I don't she wouldn't know

if I like doing it. You know, different things right here. That's the worst thing. That's the worst thing about the first time for me is that, like I got a coach. I'm like, you put your hand on my face, damn out yourself. Take it easy, you know, like I have to put my hands guy's hands to put it int. You got it? Yeah, I definitely do for sure. That's the only part that like I could do what all went sleeping? When somebody knew the girl has tracks in the hair? Do you care about any of that? As

long as it looks good? She'd be like, don't put that ship like that. You're right, Stephanie, you slap the shower. It's good. I like that ship. Hello, I like it. I'm like trying. I'm like taking the guy's hand and I'm slapping myself harder with his big man hands, like I like the rough ship. So it's hard like is no no, no, especially drinking, like drinking moments like I mean, I'm getting hampered out of my face. I don't want to get you choke like like choke that. I don't falling.

You know, I don't wear a weave and this is I wear. I don't put fake hair in, so pull my hair like wrap it around your hand. Yeah, I like that all the time. Slap set me back. If you slap me, I may be like I like it. You can go no, but I mean you can't, Like you can't slap slop me in morning sex, you know what I mean. That's the stuff you're doing the nights exactly. You know, like the morning is more of a passionate thing. You know, like you're going to kiss each other, but

you're not because you're scared. Can he be like you sucking? I don't like that. I like bitch. I call I curse a lot in bad like I say a lot of motherfucker's and ship like that. Yeah, but don't call me. Don't call me a whore. You can slut, you could get away with? What about yeah, like my slut? Exactly? What if he's like, you can dirty little homeless bitch, I'm like, what kind of playing? You're right? You know

what I'm saying. I don't know where you're gonna be like, yes, like dirty because I'm so I'm so crazy about cleansiness. I don't like dirty. Don't call me. Don't mean it that way though, can't say so? Yeah? Does that sound better? Know what kind of quanta reaking? Man? Are you sleeping? I got it? Ain't in Spanish in high school? Thank you? I know a lot. No, Like, there's something I think a guy could get away with slut, slut bitch, not horror, not ho No, no, I'll be like, wait, who are

you talking to? Hold on? If it does? Would you stop it if it was good? If it was good, I might doe like curse after wait till you call me like, can we talk for a minute? And what about you with a gunny clause you are home or a slut? No? I like my bitch, you know, like you said you put in front of it, not my hole though? No, not my whole that's horrible slut right, like you can get on avoit with my little slut,

little napping my lasty bit. Wait wait, the guy I asked you, like, has they ever been like so, what was little Wayne like in bed? God? A man? Guy have asked you? Don't know that. They do ask some really ridiculous questions about him, but not that. No, they's just be like, you know, can you still listen to his music? Like what the bills of every don't you every word? He no seiling soup? What if you are making love? And he puts some like how to love

or something that weird. Oh that was like like if you're if you're having sex and that actually has happened before. Of course it has. I'm not gonna lie. I've been in bed with a guy and somebody got slug what comes on on the radio and sometimes you know, I'm telling you the one I told him that man, we got like music Choice, music Choice playing in the background and boomed the guy and we just had an argument about if I should go see the guy because he's

in town. And then we're like we've been a gather music choice. A picture of him and me sucking as dick. I'm like, you change the chance na. He was fine, he went what about My friend was like, yo, what are you doing when when there's two guys in a picture that you slept with and you slept with them both, you just more than one guy in the picture that you slept like like you right? Since that double chat, I'm gonna double you know what? The industry is small.

That happened, But what if the caption is we don't suck some of the same bitches. I'm not gonna like it. Like you know, I followed two thousands of people I didn't see. But it's not just an industry. Let that industry thing go. Like when you was in high school, if you was in the band, you was sucking the color guard. If you was on you know, the football team, he was sucking a cheerleaders. You stayed in your circle, right exactly? I agree to me. Have you had a

lot of threesomes? You have? How does that get set off? Now? I've had a couple of people tell me that they're trying to figure out how to have a threesome. Do you suggested or do the women suggested? It's been uh, half and half, but I'm usually with somebody who wants to do that, so she'll get another girl. She'll be the one that said, oh she's pretty, let's bring up back. Could you date a woman who doesn't do that or do you think that's in the sense I don't. I

don't think. I don't think. I don't. I wouldn't want it in my relationship because then it causes a lot of issue because it's insecurity sometimes, you know what I mean, and my boys dealing with that now actually, so he's like yo, like, well he got caught texting the girls. That's one of the rules, right, so it kind of communications. I don't want to deal with that. I don't want that as a birthday, give nothing. I just want that that's just fun to you know what I mean. That's

not a girl. You could be serious with this what you're saying. No, I can't be. But I personally don't want to do it because it just calls dance. You don't even want to really do three sims in a relationship, not in relationship in terms of everything else. Was really she was cool with it, like you followed the rules, you were respectful, You wasn't on your homeboys ship but you know what I mean, and I would I would

never bring it up. If she brings it up as a let's do it, then was something she wanted if she wanted to do I'll never bring it up in a relationship. I think that's too much, right, I agree with that. What about you, Sarah? What do you think if a guy asked you to do with three sim?

Are you with it? I've done it before, But to me, we have to be in a really serious relationship to be able to have that trust to where it's no insecurities and we're not tripping, you know what I mean, Because you can't just do that with anybody that's did you want to do it? Or did you do it because he wanted to do it? I wanted to do it. I mean I didn't bring it up, but it wasn't like he course me or like I did it for him, like because if you're doing it for him, then that's

all kinds of problems. Yeah. That's most of the time too though. Today. So now, if you are having three sims in your relationship, is it okay for you to be with the girl without him around? Okay? What if he's if he's okay? With it. Do you want to do it or does he need to be involved. I'm learning to just girls like that. It's got to be okay. Yeah, it's a sexual thing. It's like four play or toys

or what it's like, know proper? Yeah exactly. Do you remember you saying you all were looking for a girlfriend? Is that's still true? No? No more, she said, no, I was just talking shit. You know, I'm a ship talker. Um, it would be something you know, to let to, you know, to make this is the thing the guy is going to His eyes are gonna wander his you know. So I feel like if you dangle it in find of him them, he won't have no reason to leave. But no,

it doesn't work. You know that don't work. But it's just still to tell you can have three sims in your relationship. Well yeah, of course we haven't since since we got back together, but it's been a top of the discussion, Like all right, and we're back on track. Can we get back to you? You know, we like to collect them. We like to have three sums when we collect passport stamp. So maybe we might be going on the trip, so when we can make that happen. But other than you. Is he about that? Like? I

feel like so that's that's a good question. Do you want to know the girl so that you can at least know what type? When? Not when I've indulged in foreign relations saying that I can call it you import it. I just never went in like I'm gonna let that girl do everything to me, And I'm not really gonna do much to her but a little tinkle tinkle. I'm not really gonna put my mom thing like that. You know, I'm gonna let her do all the work. So that's

how it works, Okay, that's how you'd be safe. What do you say about that, Sarah, because I could tell you had some Do you know the girl? I just I'm like her. I just just want to know and make sure she's okay. Like, I don't know what you'd be doing when I'm you know what I'm saying. I mean, you really never know anyway, but I would like to to at least have been around you a few times.

I feel like I'm a good judge of character, more have a sense of I mean, I got you know, I'm same as having a one nice man, right, that's not really I never have to see this bitch again, and I know she'll never see my nigga again. That bitches in the Dominican that I mean, I would prefer not having to see the girl again versus it being one of the home girl t V and aids in Dominican Republic. I couldn't even imagine having sex with somebody over there. I couldn't pre yourself. No, I don't even

want your mouth on me. No, you can still get her bees with. You can get all types of ship from your mouth, and you can get all types of ship anywhere, New York, anywhere. I just I would have way too much anxiety to do it in a foreign country. Oh have you ever had a scared like a condom broke and he was nervous? Nervous sho. Don't you know when it cond of breaks? Though you can't feel it now if you drunk as hell, Sometimes you feel like she might have broken on purpose. Now, I was in college.

I was like in college, and we were just yeah, it was just a wild, wild night, and so you just didn't I don't even remember that. I just opened it. I was like, oh, she is a hole in this ship right and comes nowhere in here tested Yeah, you have to of course, you know, but it's just yea, she's like, I ain't taking that ship. You feel like you've got to be more careful now though, I mean you know obviously now you got hit song on the radio, you're on power Hit Show. Do you feel like now okay,

things have changed up a little more? Of course. Of course, my team, my circle of the people I deal with, like not dressed with bitches with with everybody, everybody, everybody, Like I'm I'm focused, especially now there's two cruise over time to like play around. He thinks better for you to be single or would you rather be in a relationship. Um, I battle that. I think right now for me to

be it's best for me to be single. But ideally I would want a relationship so I can just focus on what I have to do and just focus on one person and just have some money that you know understands and it's cool. You believe in monogamy, Yeah, I do. I do. I do. It's hard, I mean obviously, but I believe it's something that I would truly want. Yeah, because I've heard people say monogamy just isn't natural. Um well, again,

like my family is Nigerian. So I have uncles who have three four wives and they look at me like, yo, me, what are you doing? You your fine boy? Yeah, I should be so like he's like, what's wrong with you? You know? So? And I'll tell him about one person and he'd just be like, yeah, what's going on? So it's just different cultures believe in different things. But I think I think you mean, I think honestly, it's harder. I think it's harder for a man to do it

because that like nature naturally we like options. But yeah, you know what I mean, that's just instinct, but it's a conscious decision to you know, not make that decision. You know, that's when you let love win and all that stuff, all that stuff. So, yeah, it's different. Don't that make you want to download that mix tape right now Wednesdays Timmy music dot Com. Yes, row Wednesday. But

it's I think I would prefer that for sure. So if you get in a relationship when we're talking about this question, how soon do you start posting or letting people know? Which would you post post? I wouldn't. I wouldn't. What if she wanted you to, She's like, listen, all these bitches leaving comments. You need to let these bitches know you are in a relationship. Do you say, my girl, this is my girl that always it on a low and I want to protect it. Man, everything else is

to the people. You want to keep it sacred. I think when you start posting up your lover on the internets, when you're sucking it up, it's the worst decisions. That's the worst decision because once people start knowing your business, that's when when you're when they start hating on and then trying to talk keeping it to me last week, Yeah, I feel like she said, yourself, as long as you can, I'll be more greater. So it's natural to be excited

and want to share that you're happy. But in the world that we live in right now, you can't do that, especially in this business, you know what I mean, in the industry, like you, I regret even me being in the industry and my ex boyfriend not being in the industry. I regret posting him up on the internet. I regret it. I liked it. He got more followers. You know, it's because once girls started because you know, I'm a look for a guy, you know what I mean? Angela you're

a look. You know, you're a look. No, not even trying to flex, you know. And you know, girls, you you pull out this guy that nobody ever seen before. Now she's with you. Girls take answer to like, oh, he's talking with him. He must be let me check for him. He must have good dick or he must be rich. Right, he's amazing, you know, Like, let me let me say Stephanie's due from her. Okay, we take her man exactly, you know, and that's just stuff that

that can be avoided. But to me, what if your girl is like, so you're not going to post us like you're just not gonna act like you have a girl? What if it's her birthday? She's like, I can't get an Instagram shout out? Why do you want that? What does it have to do it with? Maybe she wants people to know you have a girl, But why does that matter? Why? I don't know, Maybe make it feel more's conversation. I got her followers people, I'm saying, why

is that? Why is that important? Why is that important? Do you understand? Like people are paying attention to what's happening, so it becomes a different thing, and then they'll be like Are you ready for that? Are you? You know what I mean? So it's just why why do you want that? Just at the moment. But when you guys are always like, oh, you don't show me no love on Instagram, that you'll stop all these other niggas promoters you post up that's a female trade, but you don't

post me. I've gotten that, Oh my god, But I do. I do think it's respectable to to let people know you are taking right have a man you don't have. Some don't have to know who is exactly. I agree with that, but then people, I'm trying to figure it out. Y'all can figure y'all can look y'all can there? Well, you let anybody know about your situation that you never mean it, and I'm right away when who was? Yeah, what made you decide that? Okay, I can do that now.

I think he kind of wanted me to a loon. I really do. And I still don't. Like I don't post a lot of pictures of us. I never really did. Um. In the very beginning that relationship, I would never say who he was. I would always just call him Mr Big and tex. Yeah. Think I'm careful, Um, but I think It was probably Air three where maybe like two years and it was his birthday and I added him on a birthday post but the imposed a picture. But

like I added him. I think that was one of it was like out there that that's who I was dating. But damn um, I never did you feel like that made other chicks win him since we were all talking about that. Yeah, look, they know the type of bitch you are, they know the type of moves you're making, they know the type of man that you want to have, and they want that and he could be a piece of ship. Nigga, who's going to jail? And girls are

you're talking about? Not just that bit, just love a man a girlfriend if he's capable doing that for her. Stephany has said previously she don't even want girls to know. Like we were like her house and she said, oh he's all right, he's not that good man. No, if a girl access me like girl, it's a dick. Good outside comes first. Fine, it's okay, I love him, want to be like it's amazing, but you don't want nobody

to know. I don't know what each other about. Girls like do you be like man, I had the most amazing pussy last night. Guys to do that, and I do, like with my best friends with your boy, what if that girl tends out to be like serious later, do you feel like, damn, I shouldn't have told him no, no, because now they know why he's sprunk. And then my friend Mary guy, and she had told all of us in the beginning, She's like, man, he's dick is so little. Every time I see them together, I be like, man,

I feel so married, like a little dick guy. You know, we'd be in a group chest like damn. Do you see how she swears she's flying a little bickus a little. They look happy, but it's dick little. That's why sometimes you can't tell people stuff like that though, you know, you gotta keep it teased right that you listen. I've had guys that I know talk to tell me, you know, yeah,

I'm doting this girl. Whatever I with her. She a hole, but whatever, And then they end up three months later, pret and you'd be like, ship, that's the same girl. I mean, what is the whole nowadays? Anyway? What see? Okay? That's feel about it. I feel like this brings up the Amber Rose situation with the sluptwalk right because you were you were very you defended that campaign, well, the actual campaign, you know, because I just aware derived from so and I and I do think it's good that

she bought attention to it. People donated money, you know, toward women who don't want to come forward about being raped and stuff. So do you feel like she was the right person to be the face of that? I think it would have been great for her to team up with somebody else, Yeah, because for me, she made the slot walk all about slut shammon and what it was about. It was about that, It was about that, but a bunch of all the things too. Yeah. Yeah, And I think that the message got lost and a

lot of people didn't understand where derived from. Because it would have been great, and she would have teamed up with somebody that was completely opposite of who she is that could spread that message, or somebody that is a voice that can say, look, you know, I was raped and I reported it and I was treated like I was you know, like it was my fault. It was what I had on. That would have been powerful to me to have somebody walkers for right, But that message

wasn't that message wasn't delivered. But what is the definition of a hope? You could define what the hoe is. I just feel like it's the reason for why you're having sex, Because you could be somebody who just loves to have sex. But if you're out here and it's for some status, some attention, some money, um, some other things. So I could sit at the table and the club with you and your yeah for some like yeah, that's that's just doing too much. Alright, what's the definition of

a home? I mean that Handy got me a little out? Um, I agree. I'm not gonna tell anybody what you said about Handy earlier. Yeah, she said, handy help you getting the ass said wow, maybe I'll try that. I was like, don't do that. You know, it isn't heney that makes you wrote, I don't know. I may sundy you guys, that's my work for me, alright, we're what's the definition of a well? I agree? I mean, it's all about your reason. It's it's about your drive, it's about why

you're out here being as crazy as who are? Like, are you doing it just for nothing? Are you just to be fucking like? Are you doing point this? Fucking if this fucking is getting you to where of life, then you shouldn't be still she gets you somewhere like but you cause that's the ope, just for sure, for sure? What's your definition of the hell? Stephanie? Sorry? And I was like, is a woman who has a price on her pussy? She will suck you for a handbag, She

will suck you for somebody. She will fuck you to get her for free. That's okay, No, they hold sup. But that's a different that's a different level. Now, if you're just dating and you know, um, you sleep, you sleep, and you know you're sleeping with somebody, and you know you're sleeping with that one person for a while, and then it doesn't work out and you end up sleeping with somebody else, you're not being a hole. You're just testing the waters. You're enjoying their fruits, you know what

I mean? But I another hole of a woman who's married as she's sleeping for nigga for a hand bad sucking water nigga because she wants to be a bartender, you know what I mean? Like, I just want to be purpose. It makes you a hole? Yeah, I just feel like, yeah, I like, But if you're saying you're hand sucking and you ain't getting nothing, but you if you're sucking and not getting nothing, at least have emotions

in it, you know what I mean. Be with somebody you like because you're having good conversation with them, you're going to dinners with them, you're getting to know each other, and you end up having sex. That's that's a normal things. But when that's the way you're supposed to be sleeping. But if you're sucking because you got drunk in the club and you and you're hanging out at the table and you bounced with the security and you got sucked in the back of the of the van, you know

what I mean, You're a hole. You know what I mean? If you're selling pussy, you were in your homegirl and friend you're sucking your home girl's boyfriends left there from a man wrote Timmy, Yeah, Timmy, Or if it's a one night stand? Are you judging? No? Because I feel like to answer your question, I think energy is though. If you have a certain type of energy chemistry is flowing, then you can't judge it. I judge how what happens

after that, So that's what makes me judge it. But the actual notice like we're vibing, we're having a good time, and then just don't when it goes down. I think a woman or a dude that just compromises their morals over and over and over and over again sexually, they just I don't think man could be hold because they have A girl can definitely be holst. They are super I could be promiscuous, you know what I mean. But it's like it's so empty. It's so like, you know,

like a deep passage that just got passed around it. Yeah, that's to save the home. Yes, I think like a thing. The term term, the term, but I think the meaning is the saying said they could be bitches. But I think, man, it's it's okay. It's a lot of you know, I know we live in a world where everything is equal and you know, woman, but I think, you know, I think it's I think because a man's you know, because

a man's general organs are on the outside. You know what, it doesn't matter, it's still the laz because I know somebody who celebrity celebrity chicks. Because then you know, there's definitely yes in this industry, male groupie niggas who want to suck these girls because of their status. That's a true he's a hole. I say what I think the home is, and in my opinion, I think you can do whatever you want to do is you're safe in

your single right. I think a hole with somebody who fo say friends man, that's supposed to be your home girl and you're sucking her man or her husband, that makes you a help. You're home if I can't leave your home guy, If I can't trust you around my man, then you will help. Are you at home? If you're fucking with your ex's friend, y'all not together no more? You're done. But they're cool separately, like you didn't know you're friends. I mean, listen, you may not have necessarily

met them person through him, you know. But I think stuff like that happens all the time. I'm not talking about Yeah, I understand each other's number. They hit each other up once in a while. I'm not sorry. I don't think that makes you do, especially when you're If you're not with him no more, you can you know, you can't help, like you if you're it is popular, you know, he knows everybody what't you definitely can't help.

Put you in you know what I mean, what are you supposed to And if he's taking you seriously and he really cares about you, any guy that's with you when he cares about to you not a home to him. You know, best friends and that's bad. Read like five five years apart and you meet the best friend five years later you were the best friends. That means he went, hell, didn't just meet him? If if we got really stating, then if I've never met your best friend, no no, no, no,

it's the best friend. But you see him five years later, you broke up with his best friend five years ago, unless you chronically do that. Yeah, this might make you hope. You're talking about how particular situation's thinking a little. He was options he wanted to. Yeah, So what I'm saying like, do you feel like, do you feel like if they're still best friends, would you do it? Okay? Oh yeah, and they throw that best friend word around loosely. I'm

talking about real best friends. Well, young ducks say that, do you throw a brother around? Oh that's growing swam. But yeah, the last night, I really I really just think that like if you dudes and you don't have no morals to care about like friendships. I just think, really, what makes you can I think you can sleep with whoever you want. Just be safe, right, be single, don't have a man and running all crazy and buck wild.

But as long as it's as you're doing what you want to do and it ain't affecting nobody or hurting nobody, you're good. Yeah. I agree with that's all. I agree with that. Okay, okay, all right, well still winning? Yes, girl, listen, I think that phases going out divorce. They get in sidelines, they get Yeah, that's going out. That's not the regular chick is getting that too. That's just you know, ho

was on the company thin the good girls winning. I'm not saying the good girls are winning, but I think the holes played themselves. I think the in the peasant girls who ain't holing all winning. Yeah, I think the girls who got it like, look I got my all car, I got my all house, I got my all jaw. I'm not gonna to be tied to paying for my own ship. Sometimes we're like I'll be like, okay, do I gotta keep my own che bags? More like Monica said,

the real one has always been in right exactly. Yeah, but it do feel good to know that like I ain't you know, I could buy my own house, my own shoes and own bags and everything. So all good, All right, well, well to me, thank you so much for joining us. I've been trying to get him to come up here for a while. I thought he was nervous. But you you had the dam when it was starting again. We started back up in May. Okay, we feel, we feel we film it right now. We're halfway through filming.

We end filming U March, okay, so you back up in May. The mixtape is available now. Yeah. Music it's um. It's doing very very well. UM. And we just found out that Lottos the number one added song. Song is super catchy. Thank you and the video if you haven't had a chance to see the video. We were talking about debating earlier, do you consider yourself a singer or a rapper? Because you do a little bit of boat right?

What I'm saying if the thing I thought I heard you play some stuff before and I thought you were rapping, he's the thing. Maybe it was somebody else on their rapping, yeah, probably probably, but now it was I sing so and I love that because the curiosity of of like, yo, can he really do this? Is he dope? For real? Is what's making people tune into really yeah? You know, and then they here and the I'm like, oh that

was so so it's a blessing man. Yeah, but it's it's true, true armlet's be taking his shirt off and stuff. You know. That's yeah, that's nice. Could you do? What would you be? He wasn't in shape? Me? Yeah, I don't. I think, I think, I'm I'm I think from now on, I have a certain Stanzard of where a guy's health should be. I I no, I want my guy to have a nice body right now. I want the tone chest. And just found something out. No, I mean not to talk about, but my ex boyfriend's body, he was frail.

He didn't he wasn't he didn't have an athletic body. Okay, and I think my body is pretty awesome. It looks good with an athletic body. Site the good in pictures right on video. Does that matter to you, Sarah? Skinny or in shape is cool. I'm not with the chubby either. I can't do that. But I don't mind if you're like super skinny. What about a big No, I just said I can't do or frail would have cant do belly,

I can't do nothing. Or maybe once we're together for a long time and like we grow old and I get fat too, then that's quite together. Not when we first getting together. What about you doesn't matter. I mean, I don't need like nobody builder, but I don't want fat Albert either. I'm about to definity my whole life to my fitness. So like I need my man to be a beast, I need motivation, you know what I mean. I'm a slacker right now because if he's three years, no,

but I'm dedicating my whole life to my fitness. And three years I haven't gone. And I'm sure there's one in your building. So you bet there's a luxury resource. I light bow and I die it. So it's not like I'll be eating burgers all the time, you know what I mean. So I I you know, you give one, give and take. I'm dedicating my whole life to about fitness. Yeah, and I'm gonna I'm gonna document my struggles because I

know I'm gonna be ruggling in the beginning everything. And yeah, I have a personal trainer, I have somebody recording it, and I'm gonna be like Dad, it's gonna be hilarious. It's gonna be really good. I'm gonna cry. Yeah, I'm gonna give up, but I will. I will drink once in a while. I'm not gonna give up drinking forever because I'm gonna not smoke weed anymore. So I need some kind of vice. Are you gonna smoking cigarettes? Yeah,

I'm gonna stop smoking cigarettes. I'm just gonna stop smoking cigarettes. And just a couple of days I've already started to prepare for that's ten me. Just like whatever, I'm gonna a lot. That's a lot. I'm gonna stop pork. I'm gonna stop already stopped. I ate my last meal out Peter. Yeah, like that's gonna feel like Jill Stephanie is crazy for the record, right, No, I have somebody that's gonna prep

my meal. So I'm not gonna I'm gonna try not to eat all side, but I'm not eating I'm gonna eat meat, so I'm just not eating run meat and I'm not eating pork. I'm gonna I don't even met to pork, and I don't need seafood. That's not hard. Yeah, all she eats this chicken, chicken in vegetables. Yeah yeah, oh yeah. We had a dinner with Chef Rob and they had to make chicken just to me because I ain't eat the rest of the stuff. Yeah I didn't. You have plenty of food. I had to fight you

for your pieces, but all I had was chicken. Now I don't appreciate if I'm at the table there's seafood. You had fault you bouge, know what I'm saying. Yeah, all this other food to choose from. You want my chicken break? I was like, do you want some chicken? Because I just till me nice? He said yeah. I was like, I remembering me. Thank you so much much again. I mane, I'm seven in Santiago. I'm Maguire and our special guest co Ho Sarab van Hey Sarab lip service.

Movie back next week. Happy holidays and make sure you get a great present. And remember this. No such thing as being a home unless you suck my man, and then you're