Episode 215: Wack Ass Jordans (Feat. Sir)

think they using shots fired. No, but seriously, congratulations. So it's now officially cuffing season, right, that's correct, That's correct. So what you're gonna do? I mean I'm coming of course. Alright, So you cuffed already? Are you ready to cuff? Okay? Good?

So is that a basis of some of this album? Yes, I know a lot of this is like past experience and you know, people that you know the things that come as I've done a lot of traveling over the last like three years, and a lot of shows and stuff like that, and just you know the things I see kind of you know, help you know me paint pictures and stuff like that. But a lot of this

is personal experiencing, you know, it's it's growth. Really, It's it's hard to talk about that kind of stuff, but it's it's the perfect stuff to be honest about because a lot of people can relate and you know, even though I'm in my situation, it doesn't mean I can't relate to somebody in a separate situation. Like this song is still Blue with Jill Scott was I really like, but do you think that everybody at some point in their relationship it just gets kind of like dough. Yes,

I think that. You know, that's the most important part about a relationship is finding ways to keep it fun and you know, keep your interests where it should be, you know what I mean? And like still Blue is definitely a grass is Always Greener type song. So that's the picture that I was trying to paint. And with miss Jill, she made it easy, hurt her flow. It's like forever, what was the longest relationship you've ever been in?

I'm still currently in it. Um it's going on two weeks. Really, all these other experiences happen, don't act like you been in rough relations relationship is good now because you choose for it to be that way, you know what I mean. I think we've learned a lot about each other and about other people, you know what I mean, through our past experiences, and the respect is just way too high, you know what I mean. So, so was it like was it like is already with in Amana? You here? Girl?

Thanks for every daily? Was it like an on and off situation at some points or but you still counting this fifteen years? Or was you together the whole entire time? No, it was definitely on and off at the beginning. We've been married for ten so you're married. Yes, marriage is tough out here. No, I mean, it's what you make it. Like anything else. Man, If you if you want to be happy in your marriage, you will be. If you want to make your marriage and miserable messy, you will,

you know what I mean. It just depends on what you want. But don't you think that happens like at some point things are? It's inevitable, right in every relationship, especially when you're together for a long time, there's gonna be points where you feel like, I don't know if I want to be in this. There's gonna be points where you feel like this is boring? How can I spice it up? There's going to be points, you know, It's just you have to go through those things, right.

But it's like any other relationship, you just got to choose what you want. You know, a lot of people don't want to be in relationships that they're in, so they do things to, you know, destroy I feel like guys do that more than girls. I feel like guys who want to break up with them they don't want to break up with your lady. I'm gonna hold my tongue because it's four on one now. You know you

got this all right? Now, I'll just say, man, I think that you know, there's two sides to every coin, So you know, men are guilty of I tell people all the time, I know what type of the guy, you know what I mean, And at certain times I can be an ancient ass nigga. But I know a lot of women that you know, kind of mirror certain things that I do as a man to you know, irritate their counterpart. And I've seen some really like vindictive things from women, you know what I mean. And I've

also seen some really vindictive things from my homies. Trying to get back at you know, their you know, love or whatever. And but about yourself, have you been vict I'm a Scorpio, so I'm like, I'm you know, my work in life with But but the thing about us is we're also like loyal to the core, like to a dolt fault. Yeah, oh man, now, but you know, it just depends on the person. I think. So, what have you done that's been vindictive? Like, give me an example.

That's something that you've done. Broken windows? Yeah, just a not even trying. I wasn't trying to. I wasn't trying to. I was like trying to get a vacuum. This was a long time ago. This is probably like trying to get something, you know what I mean. I was banging my hand on the window and cracked the whole ship. Why was there a vacuum in the back. Did you replace the window? Yes? No, no, no, we were at

I mean we were at peace real quick. That's the thing. Man, Like I'm over the top when I get like angry, but I'm also very peaceable on the other side. So I try to like make up for my mistakes, you know. So I'm like I broke him into then I bought a new washing machine right the handheld joint? Yeah, what'd you intervene if you saw like a domestic situation. We've been looking at all these men doing crazy ship. So let's just say, because you know, sometimes people just want

to mind it damn business. But let's just say you're walking out to you, you know, you don't know what happened, and you see a man, you know, putting his hands on a woman. Yeah, for sure, no question, no question. You would help, definitely. I mean I would at least diffuse the situation you're intervening. Don't mean I gotta be physical with him. But if I try to separate the situation and he doesn't, you know, accept it like he should,

it might change things. But that all depends on the situation, you know what I mean. But I'll definitely like diffuse the bob call thee no, not right away. And now you're gonna be careful. Sometimes the girls start beating you up for touching him. Listen on my way here, I was walking down the street and it was two younger kids and they was arguing over the phone and with the phone, and he snatched her phone. So a white

woman came running over, like is everything? Okay? I was Stevie Wonder because I already know how to go, you know what I mean. He was either gonna slam that phone or something was gonna happen. But that's not none of my business. You's got to read the room for sure. Once a white woman's involved and walked up. Yeah, domestic, you can't tell me if you have ever had somebody grab your phone. Have you ever had your wife grabbed the phone out your hand? No, nothing you could do.

Somebody trying to steal my phone, and then my wife she trying to steal your No not a girl, no no, no, no, no, not no relationship. I'm from the hood. Somebody then like try to push me in the bushes and take my phone. Shut out. Yeah, I'm from the hood to I got mine. Back in the days, they snatched my next toll ran twine you are did you pick them? That's it. Back in the days, when you lost, the next time, it was over. That's what the man. I remember the next time,

and that's it. It's like the no key to flip phone days. And you have to remember they had the smart beat where you had to beat somebody, but you had to pay. No, it was not noting sense. Every time you think he was rich, they you had to pay to text them. Yeah you No, guy ain't never tried to take none of your phone. Yeah that happened to me. Oh my god, date a boyfriend prepare? Yeah, yeah, somebody I had a guy grabbed my phone running the bathroom and locked the door. It's no, he just read

my iPad. Oh that's even worse because they get to take their time. You know. The worst is when somebody and he locked the door to the bathroom and then I can't get in and I know you have my phone and you're trying to bang on that motherfucker. They know you did. It's so corny to me, Like if you do something like that, I'll never look at you the same. Yeah. I have a question for y'all. What do you think because I'm married, right, what do you think it is about like married men that like women

find interesting single women. Probably they figure you're a good guy because you're married. That's the biggest problem I running too, is is just women that you know, say things that show that they don't give a fuck, you know, always want somebody else's toy. Oh my god, I need to do more evening shows, okay, and not just that. Sometimes people want what you sometimes want something with no strings attached. True, now I can see that, and I don't got to

worry about him no strengths. Some people just don't. But that's not how it work. I think the average woman doesn't want to people to marry. I didn't say that. No, that's that's what I'm talking about. Statistics. But we're not talking about statistics. And this is just a question because I want a female perspective. I know all my home were talking about this all the time, like what is going on? Some people like a challenge some of that, I mean people some people probably just feel like that's

her problem. And and for you, sir, you're in a different situation because you're also a celebrity. So you're married and you're a celebrity, but just married. I got homies just married to go through the same thing I go through. Is on different levels, and it's different people coming at you, and it's all different situations, but they're probably on tender like why are all these women hitting me? And snapshot? But I felt like even a girlfriend, I don't even

like when a guy. If I got even a girlfriend, it's I think it's different. Yeah, but I feel like karma is a big part of the situation for me. So I felt like, you know what it is, I went through something really really bad that involves somebody knowing that my guy at the time was in a relationship. So I think after that, I felt like I was getting on my karma for whatever bullshit I might have

did because he was in a relationship. Because he was in a relationship, you know how you get him, how you lose them, That's how you made him, It's how you keep whatever is the same ship. So I just felt like after that, I'm like, let me try to my best to find out, really, trucker, you gotta did because the nigga lie act like he's single at the Dollar Bell. Is there anyone who is nder the impression that they've seen that relationship somebody I've been on that

as someone in a relationship with you. You do you have a girlfriend? No? Does your girlfriend? No? She's not your girlfriend. Like, because you can date a guy not even know he was in a relationship. It happens every day. I remember I was dating a guy and he came to me and was like, so I just want to know it's just gonna go somewhere, because if not, I gotta tell my wife. He was going to propose to another woman I didn't even know dating somebody was, but he was like, but before I do that, I just

want to see what's gonna happen here. I was like, you should go ahead and proport Yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna even marrying her if you got a question if something is going on with you, because then you know. He was a nice guy. But I couldn't stand the way he dressed. Like he wore clothes but huge logos on them. And this was back in like in the day when it was like what brand it would be like Mecca? Oh yeah, I was like, actually like the

baby blue, baby blue Mecca. It was offen names like you you know, because he worked and he wears but he always has suits. But terrible to know it and you got it, guys, and pass it in your my dad wears type of my dad has an excuse. He has the age where he can do that. But if you're to wear an Italian cut, you might as well to go to the park a lot, even if it's homie.

For sure, we gotta fight h and G warehouse type situation to take it to the cleaners and get it fitted, and it looks like you gotta get a tailor doesn't want to get it fitted than you paid for some cute little suits from and that you could finess, you know what I mean? Like it ain't that bad up in there well a while ago, but fit so ill And I was like, and then bad ship bast shoes really are a big deal with bad shoes? How bad shoes? Yeah, Like it's just I was like, it's just just to

bother me? Is that superficial style is a part of everything? Like if you ain't with wear and that's problem, right, I hope you're not interesting to speak to you or here you or anything. Now speaking of being superficial, right, let's just say you're since you're married, But let's just make a hypothetical situation. You're with a woman and she decides that she wants to get some surgery done to her body, some plastic surgery. Do you think she has to consult with you first or can she just go

ahead and do it? I definitely would appreciate her consultant with me, depending on our relationship, you know what, I mean, let's say my wife asked, you know, it, was interested in it. She's gonna consult with me, and not not just because I'm like, I'm that type of dude. I'm like everything. It's just we got that kind of relationship. If I'm gonna give, you know, somebody in my family five racks, I'm going to talk to her first. If I'm gonna give somebody in my family forty dollars, right,

I'm gonna tell her first. You know. I'm just saying, like, it's that type of thing where it's easier for us to be like, yeah, yo, this is what it is, and she knows me if she said, yo, baby, I just want to get a little tummy tuck, a little lift a little here, and then like made me go do your thing, you know what I mean? And sometimes those things that hurt for women to talk about too. No, I agree, and baby, they made their mind up already. Sorry, no, Nor,

It's okay. I'm every single um yeah, y'all know, I got plastic surgery. Every single surgery I've gotten, I've consulted with a guy before I did it, a guy, the guy, the guys guy I was with at the time because I um my First, the first time I got a surgery, I was with my son's father. I was getting my boobs done, and of course he was paying for it, so okay, so he had to console him. And then

I did the Brazilian Brazilian but in Miami. Yeah, and of course again I had to console him because he was paying for But if he wasn't paying for it, would you have words we were living together. It's it's like they don't when you like this. It's like more about the money. He want to change yourself, you know what I mean? Because if somebody's in that state of mind where that's what they want, you know what I mean, it's gonna it's gonna help more than it's gonna hurt.

You know what I mean, I feel like and I don't feel like me, you know, having an attitude about it's gonna make her feel any better about herself, you know what I mean. But if you didn't want her to, what would you say? I mean, I say, I love you the way you are, and you know, hope that she believed me, you know. Um. Speaking from someone who has also had plastic surgery, we hate when people say you don't need you didn't need that because he didn't made your mind up already on what you want it.

But it's not about what you what you think is about what I want is my body. I think that's what go ahead after you know, I know what I'm saying, like fight if I want to, Like yeah, alright, But my son's father when he got me, he says, he got me the surgery because he was tired of me covering them up, the tide of me holding them. He could tell I was uncomfortable. He knew that it would make me feel better about myself. That's why he even everything I need, any surgery he bought me. It was

because of that. Anybody don't do it. They always start with no, you gotta talk to mentor you gotta open up their mind. Yeah, well yeah, I was even my life. Well I was single, so you didn't console with the motherfucking verse. Well, my ex was around when I got my breast done the second time, and he tried to convince me to go bigger. It was very doing. That's interesting to me. It was very new in our relationship, Like it wasn't even technically inner relationship at the time.

We had kind of just started like kicking it. So I didn't like consult with him, but I just told him, like, yeah, Thursday, I got an appointment Dr j Offer and get a little retouch on. You got your pussy done. It didn't say nothing, Yeah, but that's not surgery. What is that? I got laser rejuvenation, like stuck a laser in and you know that's not surgery. But you was going to say something, and you said you was gonna remember, so I would love to hear what you had to. I

gotta have a boy. My wife paid for it. Three sixty. I've done to that, Drake say, I mean, I was gonna say self image is important. How you see yourself is the most important thing. This is like you can't see past this, Like all I see is what's coming out of my fucking eyes. I don't know what you're looking at. I don't know how you perceive me. How I perceived myself is you know what I mean? It

gets me in this room. It makes me confident enough to be in front of you guys, insane with y'all, y'all sitting here feeling comfortable right now because you look in the mirror like boom, you know, so you know I think like, however you perceive yourself, it's very important if you need a little augmentation or you need some changeup. I ain't gonna hold that against you. As fat as

this table, I was like anyway, wasn't you See? I went from a d I was always thick, Like when I was a kid, I was small on the top, like I had little boobs and a fat ass and big dies. But yeah, but after I had my kid, I turned crackhead, skinny. My eyes was gone. That happens, you know, girls get fatter, I guess skinny. I turned into a crackhead after the baby sucks everything out of

me breastfeeding and eating vegetables. That might swear yeah, but no, but it's not the way you wanted because I hadn't

get a nice ass before I had my son. I was a stripper before I had my son, so I had muscles, you know, like, but then I just sucked out, like I just turned into it that by like everything, and I swear like a pregnancy everything went bad, Like I felt like my body got really skinny, my teeth started hurt and everything, just like you really give life to the kids, you really knew and it takes a lot of my hair fell to get back. When did your teeth? When did your t my tea? I love

to see I got something. Luckily, I got my seat. I went to the dentist because I'm always on top of my teeth, even before I got the Vende years, I've always been on top of my teeth. So luckily I went and I got work done before I got pregnant. But they went bad. I ended up having to do a root canal everything after my son, they changed color and everything. Being pregnant is no joke. Do you guys

ever have surgery that you regret having done? Like anything done? Well, y'all know, I got illegal bud shots and I don't regret it. No, I don't regret it, but I wish that I did it before b b L. And even if there was a b BL, I was a hundred and ten pounds, so yeah, you know what I'm saying. So you know, I wish that I would have not done that and went the safer route, but I mean it's in there now, so right. I don't regret the

bus shots. I loved them. There was a period of time that you remember, There was a period of time that I love get you. I got skinny, I no, I remember want everybody where I did a surgery and I got myself. I know what happened was the Brazilian buttlet expired. You know what I'm saying, like, yeah, yeah, that's true. Yeah, so it goes again because I'm a small person, like I'm not like, I'm not a thicker person.

I'm always lean, you know, like long and lean. So eventually I was gonna lose the weight from the Brazilian but lift, so the ass was gone. Everybody thinks I got a surgery to take it out. No, when they left what I did? I got bus shots. Damn, I can't live with all that. Listen to me for forty days and lost water and yes, unhealthy there like I saw it. I no ask no money. Nobody wanted to book me a no party, so I wasn't had no likes on it. He's like, let me put this ship back.

I mean, I'm glad. She start something about money. I know you mentioned money. You said you wouldn't give forty dollars without talking to your wife about it. Do you talk to her about how much money you make for things that? Yeah, so you'd be like I got this for this and like does she work as well? I mean not to getting that four days ago? Did you want her? You want work for me? And she tells you like not much? I mean, I just wonder if everybody shares that in a relationship like this is much.

It all depends on the relation. Like I said, we've been together for such a long time. But it's not like anything I would keep from her. She was with you before you had she was with you before you had ship. Yeah, old people at this point you couldn't even ask about You couldn't even imagine we had a great time. You couldn't even imagine starting over with somebody

who don't even know you know. I tell her that all the time, if if she ever leave me, or if you know, some God forbid we ever like break up. I'm never gonna get in a relationship like that. It's tough out there. When you see other people on social media and the relationship drama may be heaven with their

new relationships starting. We'll be looking in love for like two hours and then like you go okay, I'll say, like two rows of pictures go down to like the next one, and it's like you come back gone and it's a single, You're like, it's over ready, And then they they'd be posting those deep subliminal you know, happy like you're talking about me right now, we're actually talking about somebody else because I don't know who, but yeah, you've done it. But then yes, all those pictures get

him out of here. Gg will post a picture where she is standing there look like and say some subliminal ship. It's been ten years for me to learn myself and now I made it winning pound sign, she's it, nig get money, bigger pounds. But can you imagine like having that social media drama, like you're so lucky you don't got to go through that ship. Oh my god, you know what I think? That like you bring the hell into your life that you want, you know what I mean.

And I've learned my lesson with that on a small scale, you know what I mean, Like just like having to deal with just the thought of her being with another nigga and that type ship and me like breaking up with her and seeing her like going out and having her fun and that type of should have fucked me up. And that's how I know, Like I ain't even I ain't with none of that. She with somebody else in you. That's what you do. That's when he broke the window for the back. Give me that. She messed me a

bad man, And I think that's that. We've been great ever since. She proved her with the one, You're not the only one. Got to give a guy a taste of his own medicine. We never want to, We never want to be with another guy, but y'all forced us to give it to y'all, y'all force us, and then it's then it's a hell and everything. Oh my god, the whole world ended. Do tell me what happened. He was living in the jails. I was living with a

whole bunch of my homies. I had my brother and his girl living there, and it was just haling my house. I was stressed, and I was just projecting it all on her, you know, just young. I was like twenty two at the time, or twenty one or something like that, and I decided, I was like, we ain't gonna be together, and just you know, basically like almost cussed her out and was just exactly like being stupid and got upon

and left and moved to Hollywoo It. I moved to like Hollywood and Cherokee, like right on the boulevard and just was wilding out out there on drugs, on all kind of ship and spent like six months by myself suffering. And then my mama came and moved me back to Inglewood and like had me in my own little you know, hole, so that I can like get healthy again and get my mind right. And you know, during that whole time, we were broken up, and I found out through my

sister that she was going out with this nigg. I ain't gonna say his name, but she's going out with this ni not even thank you, thank you because without you, you know what I mean, I wouldn't have figured it out, you know what I mean. But yeah, you know, once I found out, we talked about it and she was like, yeah, not really is whatever. You know what he did, like his gesture, his gesture was like he bought her a pair of James. He brought her some SHOs ya ya.

So she brought the show them to me, matching. You know. I used to look at them shoes every day, like just waiting for her to get she wore them, like twice of both times she wore him like I was just uncomfortable. She's like, what's wrong. I'm like sucking nothing, you know, like that type man, Like, yeah, I was lost, bloodshot. She could see right the tongues out of them. Now we got rid of those. Yeah, I forget it was whack No, But I definitely a long time ago man.

And that's why we operate different, you know what I mean. We're honest up front, and if we're not, you know what I mean, the consequence. I don't know what that looked like yet. Did the relationship change once you got on on like things that are popping, because you have to be aware of those things too, because the dynamics can be different. Yeah, but it's adapter die and you know what I mean, that's what anything I feel like.

And I feel like I'm good at that, and we're good at that, and we communicate and if we don't, you know what I mean, it's a problem them. So you know, as long as I'm you know, always keeping the lines of communication open, I'm coolchi And I think that goes for anybody. You know, relationships work on that. That's that's the biggest respect to show. And then communication. You know, I've been talking about this all month, like respected everything. Yeah, that's on some hood ship, that's on

some business ship, that's on everything. Like you're walking down the street, you're looking a hand and his ire gonna treat you different than wic for sure. They need both, you know, they go to their hand and hand, you know what I mean. There's two sides to that coin. You know what I mean. You got enough respect for somebody, you're gonna be willing to communicate, you know what I mean? Respect definitely is first. For sure. I like to think

myself as a wise man. I've been through a lot of ship man, so you know I wear it proudly. I don't like running from my past or anything like that. And you know, I know what I'm about, and I know what I'm focused on right now, and it's definitely not sucking up my relationship. All right now, let's talk about something, and y'all all got to answer this question. Nobody could say nothing. The question is what is it okay to lie about how much money you make? M

I have a question for that to who? What is it okay to lot to who? About? To your significant other? What is it okay to lie about her weight? Somebody here pointing about point them out. I think line is uh. Sometimes it's okay, though, and that's why you gotta answer the question you ain't gonna give. So it's okay to lie, by the way, so okay to lie about how much money you make lurial? What is it okay to lie about? Honestly?

And I know maybe people are gonna disagree with this, but I feel like your relationship with certain people like who you fucked? Nah, not even that, I mean your friendship sometimes y'all need to let nobody know how cool you are. That's because they take it the wrong way. People don't understand because I'll not have a lot of is that guys that I've been friends with it since I was young and I never sucked them, never nothing, never thought about them that kind of way. And I

felt like a lot of people wouldn't understand. I just don't give a funk to like express my relationships that that is really good. Thank you, guys. I'm dumping jumps to take that advice. I got that the hard way a long time ago. Yeah, what you get it thrown in your face? I was sometimes, oh, okay, I know what you're talking about. Don't need to bring it up. But okay, um, Stephanie, what do you feel like it's okay to lie about um smoking cigarettes? I can kind

of agree with that. Just rush your seat, put sue paste on your hands, you know what, some lotion on, spread yourself. Nobody's gonna know. I just don't smoke that much. Cut it down like a year ago. Man, if you haven't smoked that one cigarette, since it's okay to lie about this when drink. When you quit and then you drink, it's like it fires up. You want that nicotine boosts, you want it bad. Smoke a not that that counts as a cigarette. I mean this tobacco is the same thing. No,

I don't count that a cigarette. You got men like people. You say you ain't addicted tobacco, woods, then I mean if I are. I'm not saying raw cones and papers because I'm like, but I just think that that's I don't like to smell me personally. I think sometimes you know you're smoking a white paper and to go out it smells like burnt out a cigarette. To me, I can't stand that depends I smoked rice papers, so mine is smoothing. We don't have that. You just bought a

fresh pack. We'd be so mad when we all we only got papers. I gotta stop a cone or some some just burn too fast, even if it doesn't give me everything I need. Next time I pull up, I'm a roll, y'all a real joint. So y'all can really smoke a joint because somebody's rolling on some bullshit? If because I and everything? Okay, but not with the Coppo pre rolls because it's a blunt. But the other one is just that's the difference. The Coppo one is a blunt.

That's the jones. You know that every one and is regular paper. That's why you hate it all? Right, Now, let's see what Let's see where you'all morals is at. Okay, so let's just say, break up with somebody, but you use his Netflix account? Want to have some funny? Do you you're not just gonna let me go that easily? Do you still use the account? Can I answer for that's patty? If you so? Listen. When I went back to my house to pick up all of my things, I went to watch TV, and my my and my

daughter's profile was no longer in the Netflix. The TV that's not the both of our names are going right? Just how about how about this race? He didn't change the password, So what the is the point of that. I'm gonna tell you what the poin. I'm gonna tell you what the point because when he had to pose over there, you don't want them to go to watch you goddamn Chelsea Handler's documentary on Netflix, and okay, the same reason why that's enough broke up? But I didn't

hadn't moved out yet. I still was living in here like you, petty. But the password, that's how you know, starting to go and which is why I live in Atlanta. Netflix account but I Netflix, Actually my AX was using my Netflix account for like two months. I mean, this ship is like seven dollars one everybody, why are we talking about talking about it? Was on the other foot, Yeah, I'm gonna use this for sure. I think, Um, I think I have broke up. I broke up. I stopped

talking to somebody that I never even slept with. But he had um he had gave me his star's password or his HBO pass. It's lit right now. So last season, so I was using his I was using his password, and then he changed the password on me, like a thought for like two weeks. But it was all good because, like I said, everybody the whole hood used my Netflix. So I'll just called somebody up and got the it

was Netflix. What matter. When I was living in that apartment in Englewood, they have free WiFi in the building. I was like, I'm never not that ye yea it was. She was, what about if you're telling yourself like that? She was like, no, no, not got nice parts. I know that. Yeah. See I'm from the top side. I'm from a nice parts where all the houses are. And she like that. I mean, what is beautiful in general? Like you go to the bottom over there, it's kind

of more like beautiful part of a wood. Not know people who live in Anglewood, but I know Inglewood, New Jersey is very nice. It's Inglewood, New Jersey. You what about it? It's you, right, and you guys break up and her cell phone is under your name, under your account, that's different. That's business. But I mean talking to other boyfriends. No, I've let it go because I don't need to be the neig. That's like going back and trying to like be like, hey, yeah, can I get the text message

from that second account? To the last on your credit card. Nothing enough, but you gotta right, that's true. She's right, I already already know the rules to the game. That's something that you know, my wife established. Like if it's over, it's total separation, like it wasn't though, Like you know, that's the last conversation we had, and that was probably like eight nine years ago. You're like, if it's if we're gonna call it quiz this time, I'm like, I'm

doucing you. You'll probably never see me again. I'll probably hit the corner if I see you walking down the street just to avoid your or just move to whole other states when you don't for real, you know what I mean like that? Yeah, I right, child Camp. You know, do you ever have a flashback? You know how like as women right when our guy dates somebody else, even if we're on a break, we still be bringing that ship up years later and thinking about it. Do you

ever still think about it or bring it up. No, I'm not paying I'm not paying it up. I don't know about them, so he don't us. I don't ever bring up other bitches like I feel like it's such a waste of my time. Yeah, I don't ever do that, you know, but guys do it to me though they never let it go. You find out one little hand of me talking to somebody is never as a never ending story, I'll never get an under it. But me,

I I don't do that. I don't bring up other people like please a bit, I wish you a bitch? Was that special for me to be saying her name? That's a good way to think of it. I swear to God, that's a good way to look at. Don't ever do that. I mean when it's happening at the time, I'm a bad, dirty, dirty dirty dirty And then you know, once I let it go, once we're already back to okay. You know, everything is fine, We're getting along. I'm not bringing up and I'm not ever bringing up another bit.

But if you find out things that you are lied to about, so like say that saying or the person he was dating lied to you about specific things, you're not gonna bring it up. And you found and I find out later Listen, I'm good and had an abortion, and you just found out, like, oh no, a guy, a guy I was with, a guy was we had a whole secret baby I had I found out because I found that sherman's cards in his house. He was responsible, right, he had insurance. And I didn't bring it up. I

didn't bring it up. I didn't bring it up for you would have searched this house. No. No, I was making toast and it was the regular like a toast. You know a lot of women will be like, bib baby, have nice thing. No, I don't ever look through my man Sex City City and carried down and she found the box and she was like what is this about? And it was like boy scout member and he was pisted us out. I've been like, you're a care boy scout. Have you ever cut anybody going through your stuff? No?

Years ago? Never? Never, never, never, Because I mean I'm I'm pretty straightforward. You know. If I'm on bullshit, this out on the table, you know what I mean? So so so funny. I keep pitching you breaking the window and then they get in the back. Oh yeah, it wasn't like I like that. Mom. I was like, yeah, it wasn't. I was like trying to bang like it was a driver.

He was trying to I don't know my own. I was just trying to pull her through that We're not violent over here, like, yeah, let me burn it up. I know it is how to hear. Sorry, I'm straight. I got like a wife beater under this. I knew it was gonna be like this. We had to change the name of wife beater. Yeah, I don't think you know, there is a second name. It's called sling shot. But I think that's really like that, right, that's a one. You had a tank tops a girl, Ye, exactly, that

guy singless thermal. So now it's just earlier you talked about, right, girls liking men that are married, Why did they find some women? Would you tell your wife if like certain women, that maybe somebody she knows was hitting you up? If somebody no, no, no, I think if if that happened, I'd take that as disrespect for sure, you know what I mean. Like, and I give her that because she

hasn't really had an opportunity to let off. And I know she wants one, you know what I mean, not like that, not like that, but she I mean, she's ready for that, for that type of disrespect, you know what I mean. Yeah, But y'all, y'all be surprised. I was at the Homely Big b birthday party last week,

and I brought my wife. Of course, we're just supposed to come in there real quick, takes pictures, get up on and of course the album had just dropped, so people were all walking on you know well, and this one girl in particular like decided to like walk up and like tell me something real close in my ear and like put her arm around and Kelly, I put all the force into her arm. It was like, yeah, yeah, down, No, that type of should happen to me all the time.

And you don't know who you're standing next to until she puts her hand on your chest and grabs your brazier and pulls you out the way. And then I'm like that's Kelly, and she's holding your brazier while she's shaking your hand, you know what I mean. Yeah, I don't think I'd be with anybody else, And she wasn't like that should hurt a weird ago, Like I'm sticking with you when I got arm and I'm walking down

the street. Were friends, I know, nine times out of ten, and somebody come at me and try to like get up in my space, It's gonna be awkward in general, just because I'm with you as a friend. To my wife next to me and somebody getting that close to me and her not doing nothing hurt her. Oh yeah, she hit her with the hardest shirt. Also proud id. Next day, I was like, hey, you see that. You see that? Yeah? Yeah, in my lifetime for my boyfriend.

And it will be an issue if they got bad intentions, but a lot of them just be drunk and be out of and you know, sometimes they don't know you. You give them that pause, and she definitely like once I was like, this is my wife, she was like, oh hello. And then Kelly, that's one thing about her. She's like when she shakes your hand, even if she ain't mad at you or nothing, she's already gonna give you a firm handshake. But once you want that bullshit,

it's like a big grip. It's like some whole other. Like I'm trying to like, has a woman ever tried to approach you for a threasome? Kelly ain't playing that ship. I believe that. And like I said, man, we had

this conversation earlier. I think we both talked about it so much, like me and her just on something like, you know, just having conversation and it's never gonna happen, like on both sides because her thing is her thing is you know what I mean, if it were to happen, which it never will, what you never will, you know what I mean, it would be meet her and a dude, yeah and you But that's that's her stipulation and for me it's the other way again. You know what I'm saying,

but you know that, but that's what I'm saying. Like, and that's where She's just like, there's never gonna be another woman in our bed period. So the only way that's gonna happen is another nigg And I'm like, man, that's not gonna happen. So that's our staleman. And then we go to bed angry, nobody sucks and we don't talk about six months you like that ship get name. So yeah, so yeah, we definitely had the conversation. But we've never been approached by anybody. And I don't think

I don't know. You see Kelly and you you meet her, and you know she's a different type of woman man, and I respect her. I wouldn't even like put it to me. You gotta be careful because girls be acting cute like the girl who talks all up in your ear in front of her, like you never might. She might come up to you and be like, oh, no, I was trying to talk to you, you Kelly, your

head butter, that's what you don't know. Yeah, go ahead trying to I think that's one of her biggest pet peeves, somebody trying to play the bullshit, because she gets you can see the bullshit what you're looking for, you know. So yeah, I definitely know she ain't with that ship. Somebody's gonna get beat up traveling as much as you do. Do Do you have to talk to your wife every day? Yes, it's important. It's important for me, just for my sanity.

I get home sick and like that, I'd be tired of it, to be honest, And not that I'm tired of you guys. I love this is but like we'll be on the road a lot, and even were like you're doing shows and like just sitting down with people you've never met over and over again, it gets tricky, man.

And like going to labels and like going to like these like uh DSPs and stuff like that, that's the worst because those are like revolving doors where every time you sit down it's a new nigg is sitting in front of you, like, yeah, this is the new VP and this is the new head of this. From that and you're like, hello, okay, hello, how are you doing my album? Hello? How are you doing here? Tap Dog is very draining. Do you guys have children? Do you

have children? I love children and my wife always talk about it. But you know, we we were privileged enough to like be able to take our time and make that decision. A lot of people get tossed into that. That's a blessing because your life. Do you go on? Was the last vacation you'll take together? Cool? On my thirty birth day? For five days? It was gorgeous, man, it was lovely. How's water skin was jes skin on the water And she doesn't swim well, she swims now,

I don't know how to swim. So she's been learning, like she's we went to classes and all that said, she's doing really good. Is she from? She from Jamaica? Okay, well from Jamaica, she from from San Pedro. But that's not just not just you know black people in America, like black people, a lot of black people that just don't swim. This show I don't know if you guys heard of it. It's called Adam ruins everything. Have you seen it? So what Adam ruins everything? He? Um, he

explains facts or whatever. He said that, Um, the reason why a lot of black people in America don't swim is because they segregated the swimming pools when they first when they first built them, when they first made public swimming pools in America, they segregated them. So finally when they when it was allowed for black people to come swim, the white people were like no, they closed on the pool. So since then, it's just, you know, they never got

to see why. I don't know how to swim because when we was growing up, my brother took swimming lessons at the why and I wanted to wash cartoons instead. And then when I went to high school, I just didn't want to get in the pool. So I kept saying I had my period every time they tried to because you had to. Yeah, I had to swim because you know, the ships came and took our ancestors away and turned us in the place the water Again for me, I'm not a slim Well, then that's not like swims.

Her brothers used to dive off the high dog. It was babies. Yeah, we got listen. I grew up. My grandfather had an in grandpool and his nice house. That's nice. And and I knew how to swim before I knew how to walk. Well, I grew up in Brooklyn, and we don't really have in New York City. We didn't got to camp. I feel like everything I asked the camp, we didn't have camp money. Know the camp was creaty. You gotta do some research. Yeah, we everybody had Listen,

everybody had a free camp. We have the money they sent you away. It was yeah, they had that free three week camp. It was called Camp on Nita. It was all girls. I never live. I'm pretty sure it still exists. So for people that don't have money like that and live in New York, me and all my sisters called camp needed. You want upstatesbody that ain't need? Oh need? It was white people a bit I need

to learn. My daughter went to Wendy Gap. It was like some sleep away camp that was like affiliated through her house. No, no, she got throwing in the board. The baby my grandmother had and why would growing up and once I was old enough to say that, I didn't want to go anymore. I stopped going, but I would go like every summer in my life, you know, as the kid. And then my dad when my daughter was old enough to go with my dad, my dad would take my daughter every summer. I haven't been since

I was like fourteen. How did you learn how? This one? The jesse Ons Jesse Owns Park is like the big hood pool. It's like the only Olympic size pool that I know of within like ten miles or anything. Y'all should go Jesse once two hunh. It's like causing like a dollar to get in there. That give you a little ticket. You go, put your clothes and the thing

had a hook on your ship. You're getting Jesse. And they had two diving boards that had the diving board that was like three ft off the water and then they had the Olympic diving boards. So we were younger, my mom used to take us to Jest to just have us first of all, swimming across you know what I mean in the deep end. That was big. That was huge to be able to make it from one side of the fool pool and you know an Olympic pool is it's different than that backyard pool ship. It's

like a good like something. I think it's thirty ft and something like that and it's like twelve ft deep, so you know, yeah, we uhould like jump off the high dive and like all types of ship when I was younger, you know what I mean. So yeah, like we were in King Coo, I jumped off like a thirty foot like high rise or something like that. Yeah, into the water. Yeah, David's or whatever. I don't like that.

I'm scared of that. I feel like once you hit the water for something with me, I'll be in Miami and you're on the yard and you go out to the sand dunes and I don't jump in, And I'm for sure adventure is like that water from Dolphins and you might see a manatee. But you see in Florida, seen in that part of the water. We've seen water over. Now, let me ask you this, how much do you believe in relationships with no strings attached? Is they're really such

a thing? No? Never, That's why the situation ship, it's not a relationship. People get ghosted all the time. So people love to like say no strings attached to ship like that, But if you're in a situation where you're trying to sun on somebody or you you know, y'all take it that far, there's already feelings involved, or at least that's me. I know, I'm not ruthless enough to just be like, I'm just gonna fucking like you're keeping.

I don't don't work like. That's why I don't do that type ship because I'm emotionally attached to Yeah, So you know, I already know if I'm like going to put that energy into something else, they're gonna feel some type of way after I'm done, because I'm not. I'm you know, I'm going in with the gust though. I just lived my life like that, so I don't even want to ever put myself in that type of situation.

I was thinking about this song That's why I Love You right, because that feels like a no strings attached type of relations exactly what the song is portrayed. But you see how many people relate the love that song. That's crazy. It took me four years to build up the courage to even put that out, Like people like to what what kind of attention? What kind of attention do you think I've gotten off of that song? Along right situation. That's crazy, man, big dog? What's going on? Man? Hello? Damn?

Maybe he butt out you. He probably did, sway, I love you man, I'm on a lip service man, cool man. That's cool. Oh he did TECHNI he said you're good? Oh how budded out him? N? I was just kidding. At least he called you back. Yeah, that's nice. You're gonna text me what we're doing an interview? He's like that some important tell him Larry. I'll said, Hi, that's my brother. Um. It feels like we fell and went

the house. I know it's out in here about that, but yeah, so you said we were talking about that's why I love you? Right? So have y'all ever been in a relationship there was no strings attached when you just have sex and that was it. I'm fresh off of a ten year relationship, newly single, and I've been having sex with someone and you know, in a relationship,

and I don't want to be in a relationship. You feel like you love them though you have feelings, and when you when you fun, sometimes the feelings coming in and go away. Open that door. It's so happy and I'm about to die. Yet I believe that you can't have that type of thing if both people are on the same page, on the same page situation agree. Sometimes you just meet people that are just good for that.

I think what's important in that though two is like you, you kind of have to be single, or you have to be like as honest as you possibly can with who you need to be honest with. You know what I mean. But it's always best if you're single. You don't want to be in a relationship trying to be like, yeah, this is no strings Dutch baby, of course. I feel like it's better when you're not around that person, not much like if y'all live then the way or something

like that. I think because the more you're around somebody, the more you start to care for them. I don't care who it is, you're gonna catch failings. If I'm around you all the time, I'm gonna eventually start to care more for them or feel more away. That's what You're gonna be annoyed or away from me. But then if I'm annoyed, you can't even get me in the room with you. Like I'm the kind of person that's like you annoyed me get the funk, like I can't

be annoyed. Could you fun with somebody that's stupid? No, damn no, there's so many. There's so many stupid people too, just a lot of them. I'll say that at loud proudly. You know what I mean, just because I live based on logic, you're there are delusional people, which is to me, it's not you're not stupid, because there can be people that a books, smart and all that ship. But you know what I mean, they're just and not just common sense, just just sense about like what's real. And you know

what I mean, what you know what I mean? Like, oh, I'm a singer, you know what, I'm gonna be an artist one day. You know, I got these two, these three songs, because that's how you know, that's how goofy people have seen when they don't get it, you know what I mean. And it goes to relationships, it goes to everything, like girls falling for the bullshit, niggas be on bullshit, and then niggas falling for the girls that

be on the bullshit. Everybody be like and a lot of things is like the imagery of things is what sucks people up, Like what you see on Instagram and when you look at Twitter and people posting and this and there, you're like, yeah, I like that, and then you meet that person in person and different, just different. Man, it's crazy, no substance. I don't care about that. I think that knowledge is attract Like somebody that's knowledgeable, has

wisdom and stuff like that. I think that's attractive to me because even if you could put me on the certain things or you know what I mean, I think it's something about that that's just sexy to me. But if you're like dumb, because I feel like people mask the dumbness. So when you first meet them, you're like, oh, they look good. You like them when you're attractive and and that's just that. But the more you start talking to them is when you find out they're dumb. You

don't never know in the very beginning. But like with me, once I found out you're a certain level of them, and I'm just like, get the you're not. I can't, I can't do it. That's really takes a while. Sometimes you know you might be with somebody for them need four or five months for you? What did you say? Right? No? But I like, you know, you know you think that you want to be with somebody who's really smart, you know, and I and for me to say that I don't

want to be with somebody dumb, it's a lot. I smoke a lot of weed. That's like saying a mouthful. You know. Sometimes I feel like I'm seeing myself. I'm just airy as fuck. But I was with somebody who was so smart, like this guy, He's brilliant. He was like my encyclopedia. I didn't need spell check, I didn't got Google, nothing everything I needed, Like, but he could be a Jeopardy champ. Seriously, we watched Jeopardy. He knows

all the answers. He's brilliant. But that's not me. Yeah, I'm smart, like I have common sense, but at the end of the day, I know I'm still like a neangral thal like it. But you know, my my lady makes me way better, you know what I mean. She helps out a lot. Like I felt like I felt like being with him kind of made me stupid. It literally like I stopped forgetting I started forgetting how to spell words, like I found like everything. Yeah, I was

so difficult. Depending on himself was just like I felt like if he wasn't around, like I'm calling him, like, so what time does the DMV close? You know what shows everything? So I'm not gonna fly. After he and I separated, I was able to like get back into reading. And he was like leading you to the war you started. You forgot where the water was. You knew he was just gonna lead you to the water. I've never met anybody like that. Where's the water? You feel like? Women?

I use you this smarter one in the relationship. Yeah, like a medium. I like a medium. I like him knowing some ship that I don't know, me being able to teach him to balance for sure? What would you rate yourself on the scale of one to ten in bed if you were being honest in what are of my life just having sex? On a scale? Like you know what I mean? You know what I mean A little littler now, I mean it starts to care. So I'm gonna give myself a ten for show I care.

And you know I'm carrying weight, so it ain't like I'm walking in there, you know, ashamed. I'm walking in confidence. What was your number? Yeah? I was Jack. Yeah, you don't sound like a tending now you know what I will say? This was to be working with sounds heavy. We don't want in my relationship because we know each other. So we're going to it with a game plan. And they're like we just like, you know what I mean, We can't just be like exploring each other's bodies. No,

in there, like you know what it is. You're never lazy, Yes, yes you can wait year. You can be lady. He has the right to be lazy. They both have the right another. At one point for that nine nine we're taking one star. I'll say she initiate more. No, I'm definitely the initiator for sure. But we talk about it's like it's like it's sucked up because when I wanted, there's always things that can stop things from happening, but you wanted. Oh yeah you healthy, nigger, You're fine. I

know your your blood pressure is all good? That yeah, exactly what your blood pressure? Yeah, you know what I mean. So I'll never get no passes like that. But what's the worst you've ever been? Like, can you recall the situation when you were like I need to do over? No, I can't say that. You've had it off night for sure, not but not like where I've been like so often I've wanted to take it back. No, he never couldn't get hirt what No, I don't have those issues. It's

like fourty year old nigger issues. That's happening from happening. Yeah, Oh, you're taking jobs that you haven't probably getting hard. It could happen, if happen. Sometimes she has a problem getting hard. Maybe I'm not that I didn't you you you never come to quick at some point. Yeah, I can't say I ain't done that the wait wait, I look, I want to know how long you're here. You didn't even put it in. But how are you feeling about the

reception of the album? Because everybody's excited about it. It's way better than we could have ever expected. Man. I mean, we always go into this, me and my team just knowing that we're confident in it and knowing that you know, we we hope it's well received, but you know, us being confident is one of the most important things. So I feel like by the time it was time for us to release it, it had been like a month where we were just staring at the same stuff ready

to go. So when we dropped it and people responded the way they did, it was just all joint man, We've just been chilling and having a good time. Man, it's all love. I think we like they said forty million in the first three weeks so far, just on streams and stuff like that, and I don't like crazy And I'm not saying because you're here and nothing like that.

Once we knew because the album is literally fire and like you, I mean, we have a lot of artists come up here and I'd be like, okay when it come out and I probably ain't listened to it, but that like, yes, ship is don't repeat for me. I ain't even gonna hold you. You got some amazing features on that. Man, I'm proud of people that you put me on too. That. I was like, who is this? Yeah? Where you finding new people at two Kady Bone. Shout out to Katy and she's amazing. Shout out to a

Little Way Man. Shout out to die of course man, much respect him, Miss jim Man taking her time out of her busy schedule to just bless me. Man. That was amazing. And it's a car everybody else featuring one right, I said, I'm saying check the teep, no, but really, congratulations. I'm glad that the album came out that we love it so much. It's really good. It's a vibe like when I'm in the house chilling because I don't have a lot of time at home, but when I am,

I'm like, Okay, what am I listening to? So I definitely been listened to beginning to say yes, absolutely, So what's your favorite song on that? It changes day to day just because I'm all in my babies, So I think right now it's Mood. We've been playing there on the most. Like Mood is definitely like it's the jam, it's a field and the car is one that really like blessed us with that man shout out to him.

He he's definitely the mastermind behind that. Him and cow Banks and uh, I just I just wrote some verses. Really I feel like and you know, put everything together and you know, kind of put it in the right place. But you know, I know that it takes a lot more than just me to make things like this coming together. And I'm definitely like happy to have the team I god and the people around me that helped me to

kind of like make this ship work all right. Well, this is all very inspirational and for people that have been in long term relationships, they always go through the break up period. Trust me, I work with two guys have gone through manythings throughout the course of our ten years being on the Breakfast Club, and I've seen a lot of ups and downs happen in their relationships. But I think it's inspiration to see when people can go

through it and work it through. But the question is when you'll take a break, do you have to say everything that happened during that break? I don't think we did, but we did. We didn't have to, Yeah, we did, definitely, And you know, like me, I wasn't. You know, a lot of people thought you you think you're gonna break up with somebody and it's just gonna be like flying at you. And guys, you learned that it's a cold

game real quick, you know what I mean. And when you start, when you're looking for it in the wrong places, you're gonna find it and it's not gonna be what you expected. So I learned that the hard way. And she had an easy time because she's beautiful and she's kind, and you know what I mean, she's something. You know, she's a catch, you know what I mean, She's something

to admire. So she had it easy. All she had to do is walk down the street, but asked, I'm the nigger walking down the street chasing her, you know what I mean? So with devil? What made you realize she was the one? My bullshit? Just you know that

that situation in particular kind of set me straight. And just you know, we've had thousands of conversations, man, before we got married, where we kind of just you know, we know each other too well, and we respect each other too much, and we love each other each other way too much too. You know, let anybody else like me. I'm really possessive. I know that about her, you know what you know? So you know, I just know that, you know, I'd rather be with her than without, you

know what I mean? And you know, whatever I gotta do, you know, it's it's you know, it's not easy, especially the position I'm in for sure, But you know I've had years to like work on myself, and I think I'm I'm much more mature than I was when we first got married. And it shines through. She trust me. She know I ain't don't know bullsh She know I take care of my business and I ain't got time for the bullshit. We're making way too much money for me to be out of here. The album she loves it, man,

I don't know not. I think it might be. I think she likes New Sky, but you have to ask her. Okay, all right, well, thank you so much, thank you for coming. You guys appreciate it. Before we go, I want an actual question. I'm scared. How about y'all? I'm nervous? Am I the only one excited about our tour? Oh? My god? You checked us? Scared to say? Now? Yes, Lift Service is going to be on tour and we kick it off on the October Twentie and Philly where gis from.

And Julie she's excited. We are going to be at l A two by the way, maybe we can get Can we call Julie and yeah, hook it up. I know some people that know some people gosh, but yeah, So we are excited. Lift Service our first ever like for real nationwide tour. Yes, yeah, so thirteen cities with live nation. We're excited. I'm excited and we have locked in some guests already, right, A lot of good guys, are we saying? Anybody I know? We're doing g Herbo.

We got what I found Lucci, We got Barnes coming, I watched Jazzy, We got who am I super super super Man. We have a lot of people. Man, I can't even think, Oh no, New York is gonna be special. Yeah, so anyway, I mean, but make sure you'll come check us out on tour. You can go to um take a mess to that common Live nation dot com and make sure you go listen to sar this album chasing some of you guys. It's the perfect time for that because it's cussing season. Man. Megan said it was a

hot girl fall. So Lucy, what you you gotta name the fall? What is it? Damn what you guys do because they're saying like yeah, no no, but he gotta make up. You could have a good It could be already. It's season. It already has let your fall, Yeah, like you know what? And pussy Autumn. Somebody cut up glorios I read that was service