Episode 21 ft Paul Wall

I didn't give a buffer today. Now, usually we start to show off with the tip. We give people tips on how to do different things. Um, so today's tip is how to cheat without getting caught. Now, this is you just kind of revealing your secrets and mind you, you might get caught for this, Okay, but Paul was like, I don't know, I got some great tips. Okay, all right, well it's it. Let's hear him number one, don't cheat because he's happily married. But I mean, but if it

was your friend, you know what I'm saying. I'm sure in your day you've cheated. People get caught up cheating through social media. First of all or just not being careful or cautious because they think they're not gonna get caught. The moment you think you're not gonna get caught, you let your guard down and you do something to slip up and get caught. So, you know, I find the

best ways that don't cheat. But I definitely have homeboys who cheat, and I see what they do and what they go through, and you know, to stay away from social media is the best way. You tweet, yeah, and even that, if you tweet or post period, then the people you're cheating with gonna comments comment yeah. And you might not post no picture with that person, but they

gotta picture with you from three weeks ago. And then your your love one who you're not supposed to be, who you're supposed to be faithful to you, you're not supposed to be cheating on doing some investigation clicking on their picture and they seeing, oh man, what she was doing with them two weeks ago where I just come from. You know. So definitely, staying off of social media is the best way. That's a great tip to not get

called cheating. Tracy with your tip, well, I'll be transparent with you badly like it In my younger years, I used to be a little bit of like an affair a holic. Okay, so I cheated on the edition. Yeah, I cheated on everyone always had a backup plan to the backup plan. I don't know. I just backup planning to my backup. Yeah, I was eating on the person that was cheating. Yeah, gosh, but I don't know. Lust

was like my compass for a little bit. But I would say, if you're gonna be a professional cheater, you want to be successful at this business. Um, the first thing you want to make a lot of money. Yeah, your side piece, you need to put your best friend's name for them in your phone. Yeah, but then what if your man is like, oh, you're not gonna answer, let me pick it. No, no, no, no, no no, girl. They are never supposed to call. Everybody has like job responsibilities,

you know what I mean. And that's a side that you don't call. Now, ch CG. I'm gonna go one step further and say you should not put you should have a fake friend that doesn't even exist, that you're always hanging out, right, person doesn't exist. But you know, yeah, but my girl, Samantha, there's no Samiantha know that because what people do, especially if you're an iPhone, they just go to search and they'll just type like keywords or

how I'm trying to tell you right now. I mean, that should really be a cautionary tale because to be like Sincere, I would never suggest cheating because what happens when you finally shed that old skin. You can't trust anyone because I still considered myself a good person even though I was just cheating, And then you look at every good person with a side eye and you're like, I would have told that lie. You know what I mean,

So don't do it. Well. My number one rule I would say for not getting is to make sure that the person you're cheating with is aware that you're in a situation, because sometimes I think you try to lie and say oh yeah, no, I'm not messing with that person, and that makes the other person mad. You gotta just be like, look, I'm just tell you what it is. Right.

The problem I seat though, is it a lot of times the side piece or whatever that you you tell you they know you in a relationship and they act like they don't care, but they're still the sense of ownership,

but they want to own you. As there's you know, so they'll do things to your significant other, the one you you know, your your gal or your wife to let them know cheating, Like they'll post pictures of me and bathe or some stuff like that where you get back to them just because out of spite they want to let them know. You know, the mind of that person mind. You know that's my wife. Okay, you know that. But the easiest way to get out of that is

you find someone else who's in a situation. And you guys are both flash She says, I'm leaving my husband for you. She's going on to Twitter, right and then bring you into it. I'm leaving you for God. I have at Paul Wall baby emotions is lit that Oh my gosh the best answer. All right, good, that's good advice doing cheating, But realistically people do. Yeah, you know, so you know it is. It is what it is. But those are some tips for not getting caught cheating. Now,

let's talk about slab gud. Now, obviously I know what a slab gut is now, but when I first saw this, I said, oh, he said a whole album, thinking that his penis is a god. I got that slab with me. So what makes your penuts so godly? Never see it? So you gotta paint the picture with your words before you're into that. What's the slab gud to you? Oh my gosh? Okay, so I have amazing this term? All yeah, all right, so I gotta give some visuals. Tell me what's a slab god? All right? A slab god wears

boxer briefs. Okay, back, first of all, okay, because you have to like tempt me, you have to lure me. So we can't just get to like the balls and the pubes and the actual shaft. Not yet he has on boxing briefs. No teddy whities, no no, no no, no, no no no. What if the guy had on teddy whities? And I'd be questioning a lot of things probably. And then also, like I think everything down there is pretty manicured. I don't like a man to just be like, I

don't know, pre pubescent. I need to see some hair. Okay, so you just want to trim a trimp like a caesar. Yeah, that's a little fade, okay. And then when we get to like the actual like girth and length and all of that good business. When I talk about the balls yet. Okay, we gotta start. Okay from south to north. You were playing the drums. Oh my god, Okay, I do like balls. It's only like freshman human women who don't really like balls.

Like if you see a woman who looks like she's forty and she was like ball, she's probably really just an eighteen year old who just looks hello older, because real woman like balls, Real women like balls. Yeah, that's a T shirt all right? Um? Yeah, I mean as long as they're fresh, you know what I mean, everything is point. You don't have to peel them off his die. God, have you had to do that before? Now that's that wing? Yeah yeah, no type of moisture down there. But they

can flap a little bit. Okay, that's fine. Yes, are we ready to move up? Move on up? Okay then okay, I would say, I don't know as far as like with I like more he was, but you just it okay, no, no, no, let's just stop. No no football. Oh my gosh, I'm never gonna be upset with anyone else. I'm not gonna have a snap back. Okay, but I guess what is that? I don't know how many how many of this is

that in diameter, Yeah, that's the diameter. But I think it's more important to have like stickness than anything else, more than yeah, more than like but I don't want you know what a tall, skinny penis always is a little awkward and weird getting stabbed. Yeah, and it looks like it's like more edible or something. I don't know, it's strange. It just I don't know. I just don't

start thinking about sex. I either think about like it's going to pain me, like you said, it's like a knife a dagger, or yeah, exactly what I was that Jack mass P Now we call him Jack Messp because he said that he said masturbate so much when he was on the road that that was the nickname that he got. It doesn't my nickname. Baby gave me Jack Masterpy right because he was always and now you have face times so amplified. Let me you know, I know

this is a question. I've never asked anybody this, but I've always been curious, do you um when you masturbate? Do you do you get your testicles involved on occasion? You know, there's different varieties and variations of masturbation. You know what I'm saying, you guys stroke their balls. You know, they say I've seen this before. They say that, um, if you stroke the balls or things like that, it's supposed to uh prolong your nut. So you don't want

to do that when you're masturbating. Well, you know, for me, when I was masturbating, it was like I'm just saying, but you know, part of it is, you know, sometimes you know you just want you're jacking out because you're trying to get a nut. But also you know, for me, it was like training. Well, I'm okay. I sometimes I would in the beginning stages of my sex life, I was a quick draw, so it's like, man, I got

to get a little better on this. So you know, in your masturbation stages, when you're practicing and when you feel like you okay, you're time to slow up a little bit or do something to just so that when I'm in the bed, when I'm doing my thing that this is like practice. So when I get to that stage of the game when it's game time, I ran through the drills so many times to practice that. You know,

it ain't no difference to yourself. But don't guys like that, because like everybody different some people like like the people blowing their asshole. I don't like that. But ask some people anytime you have some guys come in there and ask them do you like your asshole being licked again?

Some will some with some freaky they would admit, you know that that I didn't heard, you know, through the I didn't met several girls, you know, before I met my wife, so I didn't have a lot of people offer several things that made me raise my brows, like hill like for you what I mean some guys like for you to pinch their nipples or I don't like that and their nipples. I mean, I'm pretty traditional when it comes to my sex life. Some people might say

I'm tad pruf, but I don't like none of that nothing. Man, I don't nothing involving the women. Just can't squeeze them together. Like like I had a motivo, you got a home We got a home boys where we used to hear rooms until we actually what we used to hear rooms about want of homeboys. He would go to the strip club and he would give people he would get the

strip as women to jack him off with their feet. Wow, that's next level, you know, you know First of all, your feet got all these types of germs back to you, all kind of things. Your hands, yeah yeah, your mouth, but you know your mouth. Yeah yeah, I'm not saying any mount on my people. I didn't. We didn't. We didn't seen or heard of all different types of variations of weirdness that I'm not really into. So, you know, be In offered several things is not I'm good on

all of that. But you know some people are into that type of stuff. So what's what's experimental for you? Like, what do you consider he's out of the box. Yeah, I'm pretty I'm kind of proved. Do you masturbate in front of your wife? Yeah? She might ask me too sometimes do you guys want to? I don't feel like doing it. You just go get your stuff up. But you know me, we do our thing and we you know, we we don't like to do nothing too too crazy, but we're not. She she's a freak. She's not like

all the way proved. She's not a slupt type of freak, but she definitely a freaking for you. She's a sluve for me for real. So is there anything that she would ask that you would tell her? No? To uh, if she wanted to blow in my butt hole, I tell him, no, she wanted me to blow in her butt hole? I tell her no, you don't blow in your wife's butt hole. That's blasphemous. What about just licking the peripheral not the butt hole? Now? But is your wife? Yeah? Sure,

is my wife and it's a butt hole. Some people into that, some people that I'm one of the ones who's not into Chris Wall You know what, you gotta ask girl. A holiday anniversary coming up, I just had some stuffing. Oh my god, Brown. Specially if she really wanted you to do it. You can't tell your wife

no for something like that. If it was something that my wife wanted to try and then she just was either curious about or she had a fetish about, or something, I definitely would try because there's no way I would let her go try with someone else. I wouldn't let that opportunity even be there, you know. So and the same with her with me. If it's something I asked her to do, I'm sure she would do it, you know, if it was something like that. But we you know,

we kind of on the same type of level. We're on the same lane with our level of prudeness and level of freakness, our freaky improved. You know, Spectrum were in the same spot. Now, let me ask you this. So my friend has been married for quite some years, right, they have kids together and everything, and she has never

told her husband that she really loves an'tal sex. And she's scared that if they do it now, that he's gonna be a little freaked out, right because all the time we've been together, I never knew you like this, So she's kind of scared to tell him. I thought about that too with my wife in it. Um, I wonder if there's something like that that she don't want to tell me because she's embarrassed, or she might the thought of being embarrassed and she didn't want to turn

me off. But you know, but we talk about things and I tell her she know if it's something she wants me to, but I try. You know, that's my baby. So I'm gonna please my baby, and I'm not gonna let no one else please. You know what I'm saying. It's the same way with me. If it does she tell you out, huh did she tie you up? No? What if she said listen let me tie you up right, her sexy voice always looking like, don't get if she wanted to do it, but she like she would be

like into something with man. I don't care if she dressed up like a nurse or something like that. But she might be like, hey, I got this nurse costume. I would dress up like a nurse today. But you know whatever if yeah, not too like I ain't like, I ain't nothing no butt hole related things. But if she, you know, had some ACTIVISTI and she bought a code and all over. But I might go to work. That's what it takes. Oh, you may not ever be able to eat that. But again, what about but could you

guys have a three now? We ain't never had no three? I'm too jealous. I don't want to have no. Three something with my baby. Man, I don't want to share it with nobody. No, I don't want the other woman my baby. You know I don't. And I don't want the thought or the opportunity of another woman to please my woman better than I can, or in any type of way, in a sensual type of way, or in uh eating a type of way, or anything period. You know, a girl might come along with some hitting tricks of secrets.

Did I'm not privy too because I'm not a girl. You know what I'm saying, I don't want none of uh not not just that though, but I don't want nobody else, and I don't want to share my baby with nobody else. Do you guys at poor together? Not really? But anytime something like that come on, you know, we get right to it. Come on, come on, and then you see a sex scene in the movie or something. Uh so we don't we don't watch point or we're not flipping through the point channels to the point section

of a direct TV. But you know what I'm just saying, like, if something like they come on and you know, we start getting turned, we're gonna get to it. Now. You said that she'll get excited about the nurse uniform and something, but you don't really get excited about that, So role playing all that is not anything that you're really into. Yeah, not really, not not really. M M. What about so you don't dress that? What about lingerie? Are you into that?

Her wear in lingerie? Not really? Like my my my baby looked beautiful, you know, Um, so I like looking at the naked with clothes on she wears certains five X is to look good with one of my old We got one of my old shirts in the clouds and she could put it on coming out of the showers. She gonna look good in it. Five exerts. You know, when I look at that, I look at different things, like sometimes Okay, it's like, uh, you know, if you look at a woman in lingerie, that's definitely sexy. So

my wife and lingerie definitely gonna look sexy. But I look at my wife is just being that type of beauty or sexy. She looks sexy anyway, So she's gonna look sexy to me no matter what she's wearing, even in a bottom. Does she go to sleep with her hair rabs with a bonnet? What you mean? Yeah? I mean she she went like she puts someone right here. Sometimes you know when she get head on something and you know, I might take it off into me a little sleeping and we get do it your wake up

with something. No, I mean, it's not like that's a turn on for me, you know. And no, I'm not saying that. I'm not and I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that man, baby put on that five yeah, I'm coming on. I'm on the flight home. Baby, make sure you got that five bases like no, maybe you got an activist on now and nothing like that. So you know, definitely if she wearing lungeray shes gonna look sexy,

it's definitely gonna turn me on. But you know, I mean, it's not like something that put on that lunge ray sexy lungs ready for me. She gonna look sexy to meet and whatever she's wearing. Pictures like your penis and stuff to your wife, slab God, because because you know, the phones get lost all the time, they broken and upgraded or updated. You turn your phone in, you gotta upgrade. You never know, you know, the forensics pozone. You know

the police. You watch some crime shows. They'll show you they can find some ship on your phone, whether or not you deleted or not. The slab ain't gonna be no. You know, she'll try to, you know, send me something here and we might face time I get down with them. But I'm not gonna be sending no pictures none of that. Even even in man, you know, there's always that conspiracy theorists in me where I'm like, man, they might be a secret hidden penis, but goes on and I don't

know shame or embarrassment. I mean, part of it is man embarrassed. I wear clothes. I'm not walking around here nikkel. But I'm not a shame like I'm I'm a little you know, I'm a little tellby I gotta but I'm not a bear. I walk around my show. I'll keep your hood, you know. I don't know. Now you lost a lot of that of weight. You does your penis get bigger when you lose weight? Because I've heard that, you know what I was, um, I was, I was

thinking about that when I had to search you. I was like, that's one of the qu She was like, bro, keep it real with me. You know, I don't want it to go down. I'm not trying to go down in those sizes in my waist, you know, and down there down below you know, I'm trying to, you know, shrink my I'm trying to lose his weight, but not down there. But what actually happened is, you know, all type of everything else around you know, that's stay the same,

but your legs shrink up a little bit barely. Yeah, you look, it might even be bigger, I don't know, but differently look big. But you perform better now, right, Like it's a better so because I'm not how to breath sweating all on top or she ain't got you know, I'm not raining down on it. Sweat You girls when you have such with somebody and they get super sweaty, Yeah, it's like you gotta just like swapping field and then as the fat as a previous fat ass as a

previous sweater. This is like, you know, you think about that when you're in the middle of when you pump stroking, you're thinking about, Man, man, I'm sweating. Man, I ain't trying to turn her off. You know you cant, but not because I'm sting very different all right now, let me ask you this, um, Can you remember before you got married everybody's name that you ever had sex with? I don't remember too many of them in all period. Damn.

First of all, I was a while ago, the years and came since sinceing, Um, you know me and go every now and we'll see people that we'll be like, damn, did actually did we can't remember? Do you remember the number? Though? I don't know. Me and Tracy were talking about this because I was like, I think a lot of guys might not remember, like all the women they've ever had sex with, the remember their names. Maybe they never even knew their name right, But I'm like I can name

every person. Yeah, there's never been a person that'd be like, I don't know, I can't remember. I feel like most women are like that, and most guys are like I don't remember everybody. Yeah, well, I mean before I got married, it was different, so I did keep track because I might see him again, want to smash, you know, or you have to put them on the phone like under the city, but they look like this type of the

people change. They look for this. You know, you might put something like oh the girl with the gap on the teeth of the girl and talk with live or something like that. You know, I don't know. It's just something to make them now just means something to make them specific to them, so you remember, oh that's that person, you know, or the girl about a rating like she's a three. But if late at night and nothing right now.

But when I you know, when I meant my white people was like oh little other girls didn't matter to me, not like they was, you know, like I just didn't care about them, but they really just didn't matter. Because I meant, you know, if you if you go from even if you go from dating beautiful women, you go from that to Dayton Beyonce, you can't be like, man, I ain't worried about them. I gotta be honest. So I got my Beyonce, you know. So I'm like, man,

I ain't worried about any of the other girl. But the funny thing be how girls be lying on me? Harby girls? Did you know? Because it is some girls. I don't remember almost any of the names, you know, because it's the time go by, and I ain't you know, and I'm not saying ten thousand girls. I just don't remember. No, it's just the house. He was a high number or a low number. I don't know. I forgot because I made a point to not remember because I don't care mostually.

But a girl that was terrible, like and you knew she was terrible while he was doing it, but you just you end it already. What's the thinking that goes on behind that? I always wondered, because you know, as a female, I don't know what guys think, because guys sometimes it's a variation. Sometimes it's a well, she's terrible, so let me fund the ship out of it so I can show what I can do. Sometimes it might be that doesn't make any sense, Okay, you're gonna pick

up her slack. Okay. Sometimes because the other thing, too is if someone's terrible and then it's over quick, they might talk about you and he was terrible, you were terrible to you. They you want to always do. But I mean terrible looking oh um, I mean yeah, I didn't had a couple of else you know where I was. You know, they teens when the alcohol where off. You look at their pictures and you're like, damn, that's not what I remember. You gotta sneak a path, you gotta

sneak and pass good and everything. So what what was your morning after a ritual? Then? Like how did you get the girl out? But I would say this is I ain't know in the whole history of my life. I ain't never lie to no girls for no pussy or you know, dog them out or I'm on own your sweetheart. Yeah, yeah, I am real talk about you know. I mean I would never you know, and you know, and to answer your question, you know, sometimes too when you when you have six. Sometimes it's just the purpose

of a conquest. Sometimes it's you just horny so you don't care. Sometimes you know, it's all different variations of things. But you think ugly girls because somebody tell me ugly girls fat girls too. I heard they said ugly girls because they just be going for it. Yeah, because you know, for whatever reason, a lot of ugly girls take pride in that. When I'm ugly, but I'm gonna suck the ship out of here, hate for that to be my pickup line. I'm gonna made that my description. Or I'm

ugly but it's got raped bad. People like crushing it to be your friend. Hey, I'm ugly, but I have like So is that true? No? I think that's a misconception because when someone's beautiful, then you expect for them to also be beautiful in bed. When someone's ugly, you don't respect for them to be good in bed. So it's like the level of expectations is a lot lower.

Because for the longest time, I could never picture Beyonce giving head, like being nasty, like she wouldn't do that, yeah, because I was like, she has like a halo over her. I just can't see any nastiness card from her body. Is that nasty? Don't come on, that's okay, not nasty, sorry,

but I mean like really sloppy filacio. I just couldn't see like her slapping in the face or something like, yeah, like that doesn't do that Beyonce causing some hilarious but yeah, now I can see how you can say that though. That's interesting. Yeah, like we can see Rihanna doing that because she's like yeah, she's more like forthright about it, you know what I mean. Like with this last album, not Beyonce put out then I was like, okay, and she made marriage really cool, you know what I mean.

Like I think it's taken a while from marriage to just be and especially just long term monogamy in general. That's what I salute for so about jay Z because okay, obviously though anybody married Beyonce, he nat on him and that you've been not fun that though, But you know what I'm saying, But someone like rappers, you don't hear rappers talk about ragging about being married. To be proud of being married or be proud of you. You've always

been very proud. Yeah, but part of that is because I've never seen nobody before me do that, you know, and I didn't know, you know, growing up as a child in a dysfunctional household where your father left you when you were six and he was addicted to heroin and you ain't seen him since then. And you know, part of that was something I always wanted. I always longed for a wife that would be with me. Tell him in the Great Boy, I always wanted to be a father to my kids, not just you know, uh

baby daddy, you know. Um, So this is something I always dreamed or pray for, I searched for, I asked God for, and so when I got it, you know, it's not something I'm gonna take lightly. So I'm not gonna suck it up behind being horny and trying to smash him by that something like that. So you know, see, just to see jay Z come out, and it's of course, like I said, it's it's very easy when beyonest your wife.

But you know, but still it don't make it any less, uh, you know, it don't make my salute anymore any less to him, you know, because I'm I'm proud of someone in wrap is doing that, someone the hip hop is doing that you're always the one of the first people. I remember being super proud to be married and being like, yeah, you know, my wife is that every and Bumby too. I feel like Bumby always been really proud of his wife and proud to be married and everything. How did

you know that she was the one? Though? Um first, when I first seen him, love and first sight, hands down, without a doubt. But you know, it's still like a process. We eating through, process of background checks, makes year she ad been running through. You know what I'm saying, Yeah, make sure she's not gonna cheat on me later, things like they see the type of background she comes from a family, because a lot of times you see someone's family, you can see, you know how they was raised, so

you know what they're about, you know. So it was like a venting process to make sure that she's the one for me, but also to make sure that this is the right time because maybe I called her too late, maybe I called her too early, Maybe she called me too later, too early, you know the same thing. So it's just like, you know, I knew without a doubt when I seen him. When I first seen it was just those feelings and I didn't seem beautiful women. Before

I've seen women and I thought was just fine. You know, this was a different feeling where she was beautiful, but it wasn't only just the beauty, it was just the sole connection. Without even speaking to her, I could just feel some type of connection drawn me to her, you know what I'm saying, And so I knew then, you know,

my first metal Now. I always say one of the main things to maintain a relationship is to be able to argue effectively, because no matter what, you're gonna get to arguments, of course, but there's an effective way that

you can argue. You want to argue and beat the ship out of your wife, or you know, arguing social media or oh my god, or arguing I've never seen you go on social media and get crazy, not for her, nobody, you know, not even just wife, you know, relationship related, but just in general, just because that's the that's the new way to do things. Whatever you feel at the moment,

you let the whole world know. You know what. I come from a different, uh generation where you know, if I feel something towards somebody, I'm gonna tell that person. We're gonna work it out our own way. And if we put it out there. We're gonna put it out there. But I'm not if I have a problem with somebody, I'm not just gonna go straight to Snapchat or straight to Instagram video. You know, I'm gonna address the problem

first and try to get past it first. Well, I mean, okay, I know people will be mad that I say this, but I always feel like in relationships and men have to um the truth of the matter is that as women we are Oh is that stefanily or marriaging? I can't see if the light of my face you comes in your seat? Up? What up? I knew I should have telled stephaniely the wrong time. All right, so listen since since you're a little out of it, and Paul Wallace here and he has to leave in about fifteen minutes.

What does it mean to you when I say slab? God? Slab god? I don't know what is that? What does it means? Something? But there's a there's actually if you you know, because also in the in the cannabis world, a slab or wax is called slab. You know, when you're smoking waxes you smoke, you know, they called a slab. Also in the in the just the drug world in general, crack and you cra you got slab crack. You know.

So slab means several for the car in the automotive world and all in my world it means some different. You know, what means something for the cars we call in Houston, we fix our cars of a certain way. We call them slabs. But you know, in the lip service world it means something else. You can have a slab of meat. That's what we you know, that's the new you, the slab god and you as a slab guy. King if I really thought your album was about ya,

I was like, yea, like that. There's congratulation music about having sex inside cover. Gonna be crazy. He set me up, but looked like a calm noom everything. I'm using that term all the time now though, I'll just so you guys know, slab guy. So you show he wasn't with a slab guy last night. You know, you know, I'm a little bit of a sex strike right now. But hopefully the next guy meet is a slab guy. Now listen, and Stephanie also masturbates a lot. Sods u He they

used to call him Jack Masson Pete. We gotta think of a nickname for you. Oh ship come one. But at least he's honest about masturbating a lot. A lot of these guys being like, oh no, no, never on this show, you know, even on this show they're like, no, I don't really need to do that. I just call a girl. It's just fun. It passes time to me. Do you get backed up for real? Like? Does that really happen if you don't release? To be honest, I didn't thought about before, like if I'm stressed out or

I can't sleep, it crossed my mind. I didn't before Jack off right quick. Maybe that help and relax me, you know, But then you didn't even need Dannex. You could have just no. I did DAX and I yeah, two early I went sleep. It was like eleven thirty. I woke up, like, what has happening to my hours? I did? I feel like I slept nut uh huh No, I'm not gonna lie. Last night, before I went to sleep, I did. I took xanax. I don't usually do drugs, but I felt like I needed to RELYX happening yesterday.

I just had so much nonsense going on. It was like the never ending story, like I had to get up and pay my bills, and then I had to go to the city. I went to Brooklyn, I went to Queens and then I went to stand. I was in every borough yesterday New York City. And then finally I got home and I looked at the time and I was like, you know what I got shipped to do, So I'm just gonna take the zan X and go

to sleep. So I didn't see like the worst day though, No, No, it was just really day was Stephanie is a real problem in life? Is she don't have no license? Yeah, that's exactly problem, and like did you could never be a slab guy? A license license? A good lin. There's a lot of people in New York don't got a driver's license. Nobody in Jersey doesn't have a Like nobody in Jersey doesn't drive. And you know whatever, I take Uber everywhere and it's cheap in Jersey, but it's really

expensive in New York. And I just took oh my god, what I took a driver's license of driver's tests excuse me the other day, not the driving test, like a lesson. And it was in the dark, and I didn't have my my glasses on. So I'm like driving like three line mice in New York City and it's like seven pm, so there's so much traffic everywhere. They have road tested

sound wild. Yeah, like it was just like lesson, you know, not, Oh my god, you were one of those annoying people and everyone No, And I literally because I can't see, like I have bad vision, so I couldn't find my you know, I got instead of getting the driver's license. There's moved and moved to the city. Then you don't. And I would say, you're a lot of ubers. No, but you know what, but what am I supposed to do living in the city? Train? Yes, train, regular pedestrian

go through it. It's actually fastert And I know you say you take the train to take the train, and I know people recognize you on the train. Agel. You can't tell me that they don't recognize you on the train. I just make you. I don't feel as safe because I don't want to get caught out there in the picture. Are You're like no, but you know everybody Mayor Bloomberg takes the train. Yes, and he's very rich. Yeah, it's just quicker. It's quicker. Solution. Moved to the city because

it is hard living in Jersey. Or you gotta get your license, so you're working on it. I'm working on get your partner a girl or guy. And I don't want to say assistant. Would just get your friend like that who can drive you around? Oh like carpool and no, I've done that. And you know my I was a personal assistant at one time. My boys, he hired me a driver. He was like he was, No, he hired me a driver so that way I would never miss any of his call being on the train. Okay, okay.

The driver was The driver was like a major COCD. He would come pick me up high and drunk and I'm like, I'm like, this guy's gonna kill me. Get our boy read real, ain't gonna do that. We're gonna take you. You got a driver, Yeah, yeah, we got it. We got you, We got you. Looked up. Now I'm going to get my license and I'm gonna get her to get a nice bascar and I'm probably gonna crosh it. I mean, and then you missed. In the beginning, Stephanie,

we did tips on how to get away with cheating. Oh, I need those tips because I'm the worst cheater ever. Everybody knows every time I cheated all my ex boyfriend I got cord. How did you get caught? Um? Well, I think in our relationship. You know, um, you know, I'm not the type of person to look through people's emails in their phone or social media, so you thought do that to you? I feel like as that he should have that pay that same right, you know what

I mean, But he didn't. I hate when you get cut cheating and people go through your stuff and then they try it's something You're gonna find it, right, That's what I used to say, See, that's a real cheater. But I feel like you have to follow your intuition because people will always be like, oh, but you shouldn't have been looking through my stuff privacy and try to make that balloon there cheating exactly, And then they say, but what if you wouldn't have found anything? What will

be fine? Right? You would never have out of sight, out of mind. I just feel like right now I'm currently not I'm not dating, and I don't I don't want to date. I don't have that like feeling to want to date. I'm so I'm kind of over it like, I really don't want to get to know new people. I don't want to I don't want to get the trusses up or a guy. I'm saying. I'm in the

same exact stag. I'm like, I don't want to waste my outfits on these my outfit I might have something to do, like I might Angela might invite me somewhere. I might use an outfit and then no. Stephanie is newly single though yeah, yeah, I'm I'm I was going to get back together. Her boyfriend to jail. Yeah, my boyfriend I went to jail and we're fighting. We're just fighting.

As somebody that is in a very successful marriage and relationship, what advice can you give somebody like Stephanie and somebody like Tracy who says they feel like they don't even want to get dressed up for these guys anymore done, they don't even care. The whole relationship, dating gang all that even just sucking. It's just a lot of bullshit, a lot of smoking mirrors. Um. But but in a relationship, old man, I know, without a doubt, man, it's gonna

be tough. If you're not faithful, it's gonna be tough, and I just always felt like I could never expect my significant other to be faithful if I'm not being faithful cheating on them, and I expect them to be you know me because I deserve it, you know. So uh, I think definitely, uh monogamous be a monogonius and monogony is definitely a big part of it. Um. But you know, other than that, I feel, you know, because it would be a lot of bullshit, but I would here. I

just said, I feel you, I wouldn't waste outfit. Also, sometimes we're drawn the people who are unhealthy for us, So we did get caught up in things in situations that if it was just a normal, healthy person, we wouldn't be going through this. But that's how it is, you guys. For me, like like I like from gods to be able to relate to the way I grew up, you know what I mean. I like, I like a real nigga, this girl, that's what I like, all right. But you know, and with him, I felt like I

felt like that was my final stop. I didn't have to cheat because I was very satisfied in my relationship. I had no desire to look at anybody and any type of whatever job they had or whatever job they didn't have. I just had no desire, like this was my this was my man, this was my final stop. And now he's in jail and he's more like God had levy of life. So it's on me. But a lot of I know, man, speaking from knowing lots of people who go to jail and knowing you know who,

it happens when they in jail. You know what I'm saying. He's himself. Yeah, and he also he also probably don't want to you know, because when you when you're going through jail, you feel selfish to say, man, wait for me. You feel selfish. So he probably you know, maybe he loved you that much where he liked man, I don't want to hold you back because it's a lot to ask. Man, go ahead and do that. How long is he in jail?

For only two years? It's not I was just I was just get jail googling him because you can, like jail, google a person and what comes out like a jail prisons. Yeah, it's like a prison. Well do you know it's like a jail, sir. And I could see where he is, you know, like and it's set his release date because he doesn't want speaks to me. He hasn't spoken to

me like a week a lot of times too. That'd be the easiest way is to go by yourself and to get through it is just to put a wall up around the whole outside work, because if you try to stay if you try to stay connected, then it just makes it that much harder because you've got to go back to isolation and you just remind it's like if you if you did ass broke and then you go to the rich neighborhood and you see how to reach people you know, live and eat and just discard

all kinds of things, and it makes you just feel that much broker. You know what you like, but it makes it really hurts me because I feel like, you know, um, it's kind of being selfish of him for him not wanting me to be in his life while he's going through this. Because I am down. I am with it, like I'm okay with going through this with him. It's only two years. But what do you think she should

do in the world. If you really feel like he's going for you and you feel like you really love him, then you see that he's doing this just because it's hard for him, and you know, he might not realize that it's hard for you. He in his mind he's thinking he's doing what's best for you or what's what's easier for you. So if you really love just stick with it. Though, man, don't you know, don't get with nobody else while you're going. But how am I supposed

to do that if he's not even reaching out? Yeah, he's completely knowing you. I don't know. Maybe send him some pictures with name, you know, don't put your name on, and put some put his homeboard name, so he's gonna look at it. You open it up and see you and I guarantee you're not sucking nobody in prison. Well, I mean, I'm just I'm not saying that. I'm just saying, if you want to invest in somebody that you ain't gonna be your husband, Las Vegas. I want to Lolas Vegas.

I didn't make him happy and he told me. But the day before I left, what he was like, oh, what are you doing? And I'm like, I'm traveling tomorrow and he was like, let me tell you something. If you're gonna be traveling and living your life, don't expect to hear from me. Wow. That's understandable too, though, because you know, I mean I look at it all from both sides, Like I wouldn't want my girl going to Vegas, you know, because we're happening in Vegas, thing in Vegas.

If he was here, right, you would have still gone to Vegas if you wanted to gone in Vegas. But definitely definitely without a doubt. If you in jail though, without a doubt. The worst of the worst is going through your mind of what's gonna happen with your girl. You know, she gonna you know, he might think you're gonna meet Tray Songs or something or I don't know the time. You see what I'm saying. So you're like, it's easier to just to put an ultimatum out there,

ye residency there. You know. I just feel like, you know, at this point right now, I'm trying to get over that situation, but I don't really want to start anything else. I don't want to get some know, somebody else. I don't want to. You know, when you first start dating somebody, you put that first um, that fake person belter, and then you know, you get to know somebody for real with time, and I'm not in the mood to do that. But you know what, honestly, wait, Paul has to go

because he has other things his I'm sorry to keep you. Yeah, keep it going, just pause for a moment. But I want to say, slab Gud is in stores now, so you could pick that up. Yeah for sure. You know, always been a fan of that. I missed it. I'm sorry, and I felt like he can really help you, you know. Yeah, you know, I give some advice, just pray that some

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in law to him and give it to try. You know what I'm saying, if it's meant to be to be you, I should hold him down. I mean, if you don't know him. Yeah, I don't know him or your relationship. I think you definitely should write a letter because I don't think he's going to tonight and send it back. You know that. You know, then you need to get on My new app is called slab Gud. You can find some of the best guys on it. It's coming through from g I'm gonna search the hash

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