Let's seen what's up? What's up? Slip service. I'm Mandel Lay, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Laria, I'm a Bien. I don't know what seggression we were hoping he was going to sing it like that. Okay, let's just see. It's here with us and we're excited to have you a star on the rise. Stand up Tomato for having me. So we've seen some of your videos, which some of them we are topics of discussion here on this service. We know you like getting tied up? Yeah, I just got it. Yes, yes,
do you like getting tired of? So? I like to tie people up? You ever tie somebody up with love, love, good vagina? I like to tie Okay, I'd like to tie them up and run his pockets. But okay, so, how many of you have been tied up? All of us right now? I've never been tied up before, God, at least not for a sexual situation. Have you? Why were you tied up? Then you got kidnapps? Now this is funny, but when we were kids, like, we used
to tie each other up for man hunt. So when you got caught, you get tied up for man hunt. Kind of game. Yeah, you get tied up to like the lamp post and you have some weight there on. So all your team members got caught and everybody got tied up and we never played that game. Have you been tied on bench? Yeah, but more like a handcuff situation, that's the same. Yeah, perfectly. You remember the first time you got tied up? Yeah, he was all right. It's
a lot of trust involved in that though. To be honest, I was really horny, so it didn't matter, Like, I stay here, I don't care what happened because what did he pull out his Instagram live He'd be like, okay, let me hear you, and how did that happen? Did he recommend it? Like, yo, you know what? We should try it? With? It? Your idea? I think, remember I don't remember how exactly came a boat, but I do remember how we did it, but I think it was his idea. And I'm really kinky, so I'm not gonna
reject to be honest. Now, we have a lot of people asking us these questions, right because you know, we got the parade coming up here in New York. Everybody's going to carnivals everywhere. People be having issues with their man dancing with other women. But it's also a cultural thing, right, Like people go out, you listen to some reggaees, have soaked up some calypso, and you're supposed to dance and wind up on somebody. So what do you say to somebody that's like, I don't like that my man does
that he has random girls dancing on him. The insecurities and just have some fun. I personally don't believe you, not because I think that when you're at a party or at a party, especially if your significant others there, like you should be able to have trust. But it's a difference when you know your mind is all over roaming off, having sex in the clothes, get me done. When you're just normally just rating, it's different. But there there are levels to be honest. But at a party
you just have to be mindful. So I saw a video like that. Some guy was dancing. He was down there on the ground, okay the girl, I'm on the ground, and he looked up and seeing somebody with a camera, he jumped up like, yeah, but you're in a relationship though,
do you pay? Are you mindful of that? Actually? No, I'm not in a relationship, but when you are like if you're no, no, no, I'm really easy going, as I said, especially when it comes on too parties on carnivals at least, I mean, everybody is dancing at carnivals. But as I said, it just have to be mindful because even me sometimes You remember when I was in a relationship and I was dancing and I bend over in that six thirty position and my birfriend was cursing,
like what are you doing? But I mean it was just nothing. It was just me having fun. And on top of that, the part the male who I was dancing with was gay, but it still created he delivered some problems. You feel a little Pokers said. You ever feel a little poke when you dancing with somebody? You feel something like, okay, do you know honestly, I hadn't really dance on anybody nowadays because you know, we really get crazy being the fact that you know, I'm not
an artist. But the last time it was probably too small. I don't know, man, this size matter for me. No, really no, because I feel like if I'm with a person and you know his dnis already small, I love that with genitals as long as he treats me good, he's honest, respectful everything, I will deal with him. But if he's cheating on me with that small thing, it's like, you gotta pick a struggle. You gotta want to give
away either or what I'm supposed to be getting. It's already small when you give it all the way, What am I gonna get? Right? You get me? So its size doesn't really matter. If your personality is a hundred dead, I'll stay with you forever. If he has a big dick, can you cheat? Because it's enough to go around, and it's more thinking about the big dick I probably call him energy is more forgivable. Honestly they are because you know, females really do tend to attract to the bad ones
to the whole party. Try it's just always the bad ones off the good deep. Yeah, it's harder to let go. Yeah, those bad guys they know what they're doing well. They act bad because they know they got good dicks that they know they could get away with doing it. The little bit guys are so nice, but that can even be crazy like me, I'm probably don't know, threaten them to chop it off. So you're doing it all right, So we're gonna find out what kind of person you
are in the bedroom and you're gonna answer, uh these questions. Okay, would you rather be on tap on bottom on top because I'm dominant? Okay, dominants ladies avien on tap around bottom. I like both. I think it depends on how I'm feeling. Like, if I'm feeling very lovely, you could be on top of me and make love to me. But I am dominant love Who've never done that in my life? But you're answering one of the questions. But I'm your anti sexually so and I'm a little freak, so I like
to kind of, like, you know, take charge. So I like both. Depends Um, I like I'd rather be on full force alright style, throw it back. I think for me, it depends on the person. Like it's some people that like I have preferred to being on top and another I might have three with but actually because some of
them can't really do nothing right. Yeah, and yeah, it also depends on the person you're having sex with, right, because he ain't great, then you gotta take you he's like average, Yeah, you gotta like may masturbate on you, but you over here. When a guy has a really big dick, is better to be on top because you can control how much you're taking. Because guy's a big dick, said to kill you like crazy, make sure you can't
walk right. Actually, researched the size and length of like the inside of our vaginas, and it's like four by two, like two by four or something. So if you got like an eight inch dick, you know what I mean. I keep if you research this, But if he has an eight inch dick, like you know, you're feeling that and sometimes certain positions are uncomfortable, so you gotta kind of like yeah, but as long as you get us
wet enough, anything can happen. I think yeah, because you like but even like when a guy has a big dick and like your universe is right there, if he could like slide past it or you know, go under, as long as he's not like bags, like straightforward, it's okay. Do you like when you can't? Do you like it? When you can't walk after? I don't you'd be like, yeah, he did that. When you can't like it when you can't sit after like from like you like the girl
you haven't lived? That would me is like swelling. But know you yourself, right, you want to play standing up by the bathroom? You can't squat alright, So if you had a choice in the bedroom or on the floor in the living room, which one would you pick in the bed? In the bedroom or on the floor. Are you spontaneous anywhere in the house? Well, you didn't mention my op show. I think like outside outside, you can't do that anymore. I chance, see you what because people
aren't that you can't do that. You can't do that anymore? Anything to do that outside? Did Jamaica? Well, yeah, because we have a lot of bushes, you might end up on some social media. As I said, we have a lot of bushes. Okay, it depends on where. But what if you get what if there's bugs and the bushes you don't be taking just to take some fun bites. Do you have some certain bushes that you know where these bushes when not not shamore lady, They got a
sham lady. It's just pure Marca Marca when I say it's like thorns, but I get scratched that for some dick normal grass, I mean near the trees, you know, just make us lovely. Yeah, the hobbit dot figure about it, like, oh, there's a lot of nice outdoors out there in the bush. He's like, it happens said that you will go in the bushes and someone else is there before you. Damn it big, you can find one little park. No, it's
big everywhere he goes bushes? All right? Do you like dirty talking in the bedroom like where he actually talks, or do you like this moaning? I like moaning. It's it's just something weird ship like stop stop saying that. They say some things with this tone of voice doesn't hurt me on the moaning. What do you ladies say? Dirty talking and moaning? I feel like, um, I don't mind a few things, you know, like a few things like oh damn the pussy good is it's the biggest thing.
You gotta think about it like a thing. When you having dirty talks, you can't controlling, so they'd be rumbling all the like and unless you unless they're gonna write down and say this and only save that. And from a guy it's sexy like his a man moan, it's sexy. It's like like a crow. That's one thing for me if we fucking and you don't moan like that's not attractive, you know, like quiet sexy. Yeah, I don't like quiet sex. I'm the type that's gonna ask you questions like do
you like this? So you talk my pussy is good? First, like he's what if he's like it's cool, it's cool. I mean I've never had one of those. But I also know how to like, You're not gonna have a full blown conversation during sex, right what are we doing? But you know, I like a little I like a little talk in a bed room. So what if he says, is this the biggest thing you have a head? And it's not just moan? If he says that to me and it's not, I'll be like, yes it is. Yeah,
that's the biggest head. And our liars liars what you call about the sex to like you calling liars, So you gotta say yeah, I say, yeah, what the hell we're fucking? I don't want to ruin it everything di and obviously not because I want to have sex. Like what I'm saying. If you moaning to the point where you're showing him like yeah, this dick is big, I can't even talk, and then he's like, you're gonna keep
sucking you like, yeah, I cannot tell a lie. It's the second biggest thing I ever head I love you that I probably did as you won't say I love you back now if I don't love them, and we're like having sex and guy, so you're telling me got the biggest dick and the best dick. But you want me telling you I'm not voluntary. What if he's like, do you love me? Like I let let us do it out? Yeah, so what happens? Okay? See, yeah, you're having sex in the bushes and the guy says I
love you? Do you love me? Well, you're asking me there before we're fucking we basy, fucking you're not gonna ask me that to be honest, to be honest, more like you say yes to be honest, I would lie. We're like I would more like to see. It's because many of the guys that I corns and cons with I have Okay, so you love them all? Yeah, I love easily. But I can call you a really really easy And that's what I feel like. If you're asking me if I love you, we have to be at
a point where it is appropriate to ask that. You could be drunk that's not true. Sorry, some guys are crazy. Yeah. I just came up with it though I was telling Stephanie I would just kiss him. Yeah, that wasn't everything, because then you can't position turn around a pillow. What if he asked me? I think that's me being so happy that I'm like, oh my god, baby, you love me? Yeah? What if I think that? But what if he asks you again? Because then now you gotta suck his dick.
Yeah yeah, I'll just put my fuss. I'll feel like I love this sick. Yeah. That's all you got to say, is I love this dick that they really want to know? Maybe? Well, I love this? Now? What do you prefer drunk sex or sober sex? High sex? Okay, it's high sex that I'm drunk. Good answer. You do what I'm doing through you know, I'm like vomit. But high sex? Oh my god, clothe nine. Yeah, yes, it is agreed. My favorite was the last time you've been in a relationship February? Okay,
that's not that long ago? Like what happened? You ended it or they ended it? Cheated me? Ship? What's your enemy? The fucking nerve? That's crazy? Why would you do that? Now she got one over on you. You feel like that mistead that that's the ultimate portrayal. Why do you pick her? All people guys are dumb because they could get away with bribe fucking somebody else. But if it's the enemy, you know he was gonna find that out. Was he managed you or something? Couldn't be No, no,
I'm saying, like, what would make him? No? She actually I knew the person. An't know, but I know she she's pretty. I would ask him like you sure, you have sure? And he'd be like, why would what then would I do that? Are you crazy? Oh? Have you? Oh you're looking stupid, but a little How did you find out for yours? How did you find out? I went through his phone and do everything. Don't you know he's supposed to delete those immediately? Oh he tried. You
look at she had another phone. The messages were coming in. I'm seeing everything. I know you went crazy because you like to fight. Yeah, we've seen it. Turned it out that happened and I phoned out. You know, he was in the bathroom at the time when I was us and reading his other phone while he was he was texting in the bathroom, so he came on to be like I love you, baby, and I'm like, I love you too. And then I went in the bathroom and I'm talking to myself like, should I fucking hope? Should
I curse you? Like, girl, my career is going well, don't funk up your career? What should I do? And then I pulled myself a bubba blave, been in there for hours in there, I came out and you know, I don't know what the funk to do with you? And then I started and everything just but that's the frustrating part, is like should I keep it to myself and figure out to say it or do I say
something because you got me fucked up? No, I was thinking if I should keep it to myself because know that I know the password, that you don't know that I know the password, if I should go three or phone more. I can't keep so I know people who could know for months that somebody's cheating and keep right there. The same thing happened to me though I had back
in the days of my son's father. We had a sidekick and I was signed it to his a oh well, and I'm seeing the messages as they're coming in and I'm like and I called him. I'm like, hey, what are you doing right now? And he's like, UM, nothing, And I'm like, you're not talking to nobody right now, you're not texting anybody right now? And he's like, he's like no, And I'm like okay, and I hung up the phone and I was just like, I'm concerning you.
And when he got home, I went crazy. I kind of hold that that's a good thing to randomly call you do to say, because that he don't know what you know, what you're doing right now? Just call him right now, what you're doing right now? You know, text nobody. We're looking around even if you don't know nothing. When he came out and I had him and I through the phone on him like looks like that all so how long was this going on before you found out?
A year before? Damn? And he was in your face telling you know, I know, all right, that's the funk up, that that's what trying to make you look crazy because I'm like, you've been lying to my face for so long that is crazy. I couldn't even do that. He probably feels so stupid right now. I don't think so, you don't think so I think you questioning him because you said a year, So like when did you start
getting suspicious? Like Sun's not going like saying with her specifically like with him, I mean they work together, you have it. So why was she your enemy? Oh? Because it was some ship with my baby father? Okay, she liked the same type of person. Is not actually she's like related to Okay, so the whole family thing and you know it's too much by Yeah, it's you know, baby mother babe father drama, except mine is it's different
because my baby father don't even have my numbers. So you know, it's really about it, like you can communicate on copy or not. You can talk to me no day. It's maybe at in time they ought to get better because obviously I don't want it to get better. I'm good. I think that's how the bearing should be. But you don't talk to each other like what the fund is there to talk about? Like child? You know what? It was like that that and then hang up. It was
like that. But if you're not taking care of my child, then we really don't need to. Thank God, you're taking care of your child, damn it, I tell you in the commercial together, So how does he feel being a little star now. Oh he loves it because when we were on the street, everybody's calling him and he's like, hey, at you see Kirk. He loves it. Yeah, a celebrity. I'm actually thinking about putting him in acting too, because you know the commercial and stuff he did really actually, yeah,
he did a great job. He did he take over and over and he was like what almost two at the time. Yeah, that's amazing and it's good to start them young, you know. And he probably loves seeing like what you do and come into watch you performing like that's my mom. Ye he saw me once I'm performing, but he always be singing my songs though. All right, now, would you rather have sex in the morning, in the afternoon or at night night? I love darkness, so you
don't have sex with the lights on? It kills about I don't know who likes that. I like, Stephanie, I knew it, you know. I mean when I say darkly, I mean like dark with yeah this romantic lights and candle lighters and sexy. I think that's my favorite in this room. I'll be like, yeah, yeah, well he did it too bright got a part. Yeah, this is poor, Like anytime I'm doing the lights on when I'm having
kind of action. The first time you have sex with somebody that you gotta start with the lights on so you can look at his dick and make sure there's no like, oh yeah, I know you do. You have to look at it. Yeah, it ain't a weird bump or nothing like that. I'm serious. You got it in the dark. You still light You gotta take your phone up and be like hold on to Like, if you saw a bump someone's dick, would you be like, wait, hold on a second, what's going on? Would you ask? Yeah?
He said, doctor the girl hare this one right. I was where he had like a skin tag, you know what the skin head of little piece of flap of skin had like a skin tag like some people get them on their necks and on their faces, like I'm under their arms. It's like a little section flap of skin were It's like a weird extra grow he had and listened. This is a true story. Ship. I went and I looked at it. We weren't even like going for sex. No no, no, no, no no, no, I did.
He weren't even going for sex. But he was like talking up his dick. He was like talking up his dick and all right, let me see. I was like, all right, let me see it. And he pulled it on. He had like a skin tag on the side of it, like big was it? Though it was a skins. I saw it. It was like an extra penis and I was like, I didn't even look at the dick. I was like, what's that. He was like, oh, you know, it's like a beauty mark, a skin tag. All right, I gotta call it. I mean, we heard see what
it is. It's like the same color skins like it was. It was just too close to the area for me comfortable. But what would make you say no? To say, said the last minute when you're about to have sex a small dick? You just said it was okay? Yeah, But as I said, I mean because really and surely majority of the men's men ideal with I mean, wee feelings. But like if we're talking and we're flirting and then I see a small dick's over, I feel like I'm
gonna be wasting of a giant. You're not gonna enjoy it. You know you're not yet, so I don't have to take it. You know, people will you flirt with you know, we see things before we get into it. You gotta wear some great sweats so I can see what you work away. But okay, so what us is a turn off? Beside a small I've never I've never been with somebody in their dicksting like sch magma, s magma. You know how some guys who like I've heard men say like, oh yeah, like she put her put her pants on
her pussy, like had a funky smell. I've never experienced that with men. But how about funky jiz? Well you won't know it's it's too late that Yeah, that means he's not eating right, happen to you like like come with sour or something. And I was like, oh my, damn me, he's not eating. That means he's talking about eating right, damn you. But it's what you eat exactly, It's what you eat because if you eat a lot of junk food, vegetable stuff like that. He has so
funny that he will smell the day after. Let if you have sex in the nights and you wake up, you just have a little smell. But like you're supposed to pee after sex, so you know, yeah, mean, when I'm saying When I say a smell, I don't mean it doesn't have to come from the dick, like it could come from his mouth. Yeah, he could just but what is his day? He's your shower. It's your shower, real fast, he's your shower. If you have a lunch day, you better take a out. You know. It's the disgusting.
And I will never talk to a guy if I see this, if he has like plaque or like, yeah, he's got his teeth clean, I'll be looking down, yeah, like he dirty. Everybody listening looking at their teeth right now, that's harder, that's harder. Yeah, you can't just get that out with a tooth, friend, and that makes you a rough stink. Yeah, it makes it like the cutest guy will be disgusting teeth. How do you not see that? Or right, what about his feet? What if he got
like that black shit under his se like fungus? I don't I don't want to say his feet. Think you ever been with somebody they take their shoes up you like God, No, that's New York. I walked into the room and like I pulled old fans close and I could smell his sneakers. That's crazy. That's disgusting. He was an athlete. You dirty as out enough some older reads, Oh my god, put stuff out? And so does everybody
think nighttime sex is the best majority. I don't mind having sex at any time of the day, but I think I'm more aroused at night, all right with me? I wake up soul horny morning. Sometimes I wake up that morning, I pull out the vibrator and I'm like, Okay, I can start my day. See, I got night Like at night, sometimes I can't. I gotta get up to it. I just feel like because I'm just not like I'm too relaxed if I come before I go out into the world. Yeah, it's just like I'm like, all right,
I want to go to sleep. But I think for me in the morning, like sex is not like my number one, Like, once I wake up, I'm not horny. It's good if you don't have to be anywhere. Yeah, morning sex is good when you have the day off, you don't gotta be anywhere till later, so you could
sleep in and relax. I in bad. Yeah, And I feel like if I'm having sex at night, if it's before the shower, it's good, But after the showers, like voice of a shower in the morning, in the morning, in the morning after, because I take a shower before I go to sleep, I can't sleep with I'll taking a shower, Like I literally can't sleep. I can't, I can't.
I have anxious, I have anxiety. The stage clean after, you know, but you know, after seven hours of sleeping, like the pussy was marrining and all night, and so it'd be ready to go in the morning. But I think for me this morning, I need to get this to pussy. You see, I think for me in the morning, you gotta turn me on in order for my pussy to get At night, my ship might just be like already, well, yeah,
it's like nighttime for me. Like guys, like before the shower, like you know, I got all the juices from the day, I'm ready to go. And that's like I don't care, Like I'm the type of girl I don't need to take a shower before I have sex. We could go wherever. But after the shower, we're like I just watched everything. Oh, I just clean. Yeah, like me when I having sex,
like I'm nasty. So if you're not clean, I don't even really want to touch you because like if I'm really like especially if I obviously I funk with you like that, if I'm having sex with you. But if I want to be nasty, you have to be clean. Yeah. I don't want to lick your neck and the shy Yeah, salty balls, I don't want none of. I don't like having sex. After I take a shower, I feel like we gotta work, we gotta do a lot. I'll babe, babe, you like many grandpa guy, the guy should be clean.
But do you'll lick nipples? Yeah? Yeah, Yeah. I feel like a lot of guys don't like it, Like my guys always like, nah, I'm not with that. I feel like guys love it. I think guys like it everybody. It's true because I've been with a guy that really love it like that with me him calm, and the next one he's like, he's like, did he have big nipples? No? Worse my tongue be so first key and tired everything because of old tiny Yeah I had that eracing nipples. Yeah,
that's exactly the problem I had. Like the guy couldn't come unless you play with his nipples and they would go so long, like fucking racist, and he made me want to vomit because I'm like, he's just like my nipples, my nipples, and I'm like he would say that, He's like I'm just sick of him, Like I did you have a titty? Fuck him? Shut up? I wish I
had it, Dick. I probably would, or I could exactly wrote it how long did you have to play with But that's probably why they was so big, because they kept getting Africa out they have you know, when they dragged it out, he probably was masturbating with his nipples. Nipples right, It's the thing. I really cut him off. How long did you have to play with his nipples? Before he It wasn't even that alone. It was just the fact that I had to do it, and I
think I had to out. It's like, but you did it, but it looked normal at first, and then it was like the first time I did it, I was like, the funk is this? It was like go go gadget nipples was like his fingers like it really was, And I was like, this make getting sick. Like you got some big, biggest cities. Are there things that you're do in the bedroom that you don't really like to do, but you do it? Because your man likes it. I'd
have to think about a circle. Me. I feel like, um, not currently, but then you have done something some strange things, yes, yes for sure, like even the the licking, the nicking, the like I had this one guy like there was only two ways to get him hard, eating pussy or licking his nipples. That's it. Otherwise you're that deal. Yeah. But other times when I didn't feel like my pussy and I'm there looking at is this how or not? If he's eating your pussy and jerking off how he
eats your pussy? Is that hat? Why are you doing I want to do that? Yeah, I wouldn't mind that. I would mind either my guys. But if he's jerking off like to get himself even more rousing dawn, and then you're gonna fun. Maybe you're like like if you are laying down and he's like eating your pussy and he's like kind of jerking off because he just is
so horny, and then he goes to funk you. I don't find that wrong that if you eating my pussy and then you're jerking off and make yourself come, then you're crazy, Like what are they doing with I mean if they get already. It's like he was doing that because it's falling off, like it's going down, so he needs to get him back. It seemed like us, like when we're kissing our stuff, are we're staying with our class. I would do it because of them, though, Like I
would do it because of the dude. I wouldn't do it because I'm like, let me, because I wouldn't make him do it. Maybe he's doing it for you. I just feel like, what are we doing there with each other? You're going to be doing that. You're eating your pussy, you know what I mean? If he's pleasuring you're eating your pussy and he's just like does a couple of strokes with his hands just now, you know. I just feel like I think for me, I would be like, okay,
like you really you really in the mood? Would you ever? Probably would have gotten masturbating in front of you, joking off in front of you. If I'm If I'm not attracted to me, I wouldn't have a problem. If I'm not, that would be even worse. Already, Like I was in a room with a told of my cousins and friends and everybody in there jacking off and they did a
circle joke. I'm just there like so it didn't bother me. Wait, hold on a second, I'm so lost, just like cousin, my cousin whatever the room because we share the same room, okay, rich stories like one room was different, five of us, even one big room, different different beds, everybody watching blues. They jerking off. It's like four meals. God, I might be like I could share here about you what you're doing over there. I was like, come on, yeah, we're about to go jerk off in the room. We just
played with your pussy in front of you a guy. Yeah, on FaceTime or something, but not in real life, I mean life quite time. I think I've done it. And he said, you tie him up and playing with your pussy. I've seen it in real life, like exactly, it's a tease like I'm sending in real life with my guy where I'm horning up and he's laying next to me and I just start playing with my pussy. Like obviously I'm not gonna make myself calm, like I want you
to find that, but like that might be awesome. You just coming you be like all right, d I would be ready to have sex even after I made myself coming. That's a totally different come. I'm after beating in front of a guy if he doesn't finish, if he's finished and I'm not finished, okay, somebody got to finish this job. I feel like, just for me, there's certain things that
turned me on before sex. Like if I'm if I'm morning, were laying down watching a movie and I just started playing my pussy, I might tell my guy like, let me see you like, jerk your dick once or twice, and then I'll jump on it, you know what I mean.
Just it's just something sexy of seeing a guy like with himself so you can see how to do it for him, because different guys like different things, or just or just I will like, obviously I'm not gonna be like, oh, jerk off, like jerk off and then make yourself come in front of me. No, like I would be sexy to me and then I'll like fuck you after that, you know what I mean. So have you ever had a man change your life for the better? Yeah? No, quick sexually or generally in a row, just change your
life for the better. So tell us, oh, like with my career, okay, I mean I got you a dating no that you like change your life for the better, like put you on some ship. I'm apart from no, no, not that nobody agreed you. No, I agree to myself. I got it because I always worked on my own always. But sometimes guys can teach you things, because I think the best relationships of where we can teach each other things.
And sometimes there's things we're not aware of that A guy can come in your life and be like, you should try this, so you should do this, and have you been here? No ship? Well, I'm always the munchier one. Well, my son's father brought me some boobs, he bought me a life bone. I gotta. I felt like, um, the person I was with the longest, Like I felt like he did for me, like he helped me with my career. He put me on the mash ship I didn't really know about. Put me on the restaurant so I don't
know about took me places I ain't never been. So I felt like that was dope. But that's hard because then you start comparing people to that person I feel like, because you're like, well he's not able to do what this one was, Like, I feel like that would be my problem with somebody like you leave why because he was a cheater and disrespecting about like disrespectful to you know, you could cheat on a low versus like yeah, no comment, and she would make excuses for him all the time.
How do you know what I'm talking about? You know how you've been trying to tell your friend but after a point you can't. It's like they gotta just go through it. And she'll be like, well, he ain't come home, but I know he would never. I'm like, no, no, no, that was very early on, because I don't say that don't come home. Ye, that was in the very beginning,
like that was like the first year. But after that that nik knew better than that he might have been cheating, but he dies like, look it was it had to be better and whatever he got sloppy. I can't tell nothing no because I know I don't like that. You made it seem like I hadn't nigga, that wasn't coming home for me. No, no, But I'm saying even if like in those times that that happened, yeah, but in the beginning, early on and at the end too, at the end, but at the end. That's why I left him,
you know what I mean? Just so just think about that on the next thing that you're not nothing else. That's not what I'm not comparing him per se, but the things did you get what I'm trying to say. It's not like, oh, I want another nigga just like him. That's like, man, this nigga did this, this, this, and that. You know, that's how it ends up being. You know, but does you feel like sometimes guys you stuff for you, but then you'll be feeling like they did it for everybody. Yeah, yeah,
because they probably did. Like it wasn't just me. He did this for me, but then he also did it for all his other bitches too. Yeah. I was just having He asked me, um, he was like, how much is the most guy I respect on your shopping And I was like, all like sixty and he was like, oh you you were in love with him, right, And I was like, No, that wasn't really special to me because we had just met. You think that I didn't think that he's done that before with somebody else. That's
just like a regular day for him. It's just it's that impressive. It's different than when you are together and buy you something right. That's more important, girl, even if even if if it's three thirty dollar gift, it's more important than not sixty shopping Frances. I like guys that treat even like ship, but they treat you good. Yeah, yeah, yeah, like you'd be like the chosen one, right, you know it?
Like I remember one of my ex boyfriends when I was younger, the girl after we broke up, he studied it as other girl and she hit me up and she was like, i'na did he value you every value stuff? And I was like yeah, and she was like, oh, I guess he wasn't doing nothing for her. But I like guys know how to treat We said the standard, because there'll be one dude that's a trick for one girl and then ain't spending dying on that ding on all the girl. It all depends on a person and
what she wants. I feel like a guy's gonna do for you what you require, and not just that. If he wants to funk with you, he's gonna do whatever you require. If you require him to to be there for you, like emotionally and give you time and he really wants to be she's gonna give you that if you require him to take you on vacations and buy your gifts, and he's gonna do that if he really wants you should know right right right. But see something like I'm hungry and you tell me go get something
to eat something? Fuck you say let me bring you something for some woman would say that like Okay, I'm hungry, and I'm like and then ship like you want something to eat because I'm about to go get me something.
So that's it's kind of like they'd be testing the water still, you know what I mean, because I'm pretty sure they went in mind a trip watch that they're probably waiting for a bit to do the same thing, to play with my nipples on his flight with my nipples, right, my nipples do whatever, And that she didn't see him. It seems like you're torn. Do you want to be in a relationship or do you enjoy being single? I enjoy being single? You do, yeah, because I work better too.
You know, I have a free mind because when I'm in a relationship, I overthink. Like when I say overthink, I'm like, I wonder what he's doing? Why is he online and taking so long to answer my message? Like that you did say that overthinkers over love. Yes, overthinking is crazy, like that is my biggest issue, but I can't control it. So when I'm single and more free and more happy, I look better. That's what I look better. I like, I look better when I'm single. So yeah, whatever,
relationship stiff, Yeah I look good now. But when I'm when I'm saying, you're like, how you do whatever you want? So what kind of guy would a person have to be to tie you down? Just having And I don't mean to tell you what be funny because once you have me laughing would always keep me happy. So once he's giving me jokes every time all the time, it's
like I hardly have room for sadness. But what else though, because he can be funny, but he might fail in all other areas like did you don't care about it? But I don't think else, just even emotionally, like he could be funny but he's detached or he's emotionally unavailable where he's not like present, Well I think, oh no, that's different. If he's just funny and detached, then you go and just be my friend, right yeah, yeahs coming out right? Yeah, that's circus. So really and truly is
just the personality. Be happy, be funny, be happy. You have a happy spirit too, because when I'm around you and I'm overthinking, you can be there to be like, oh no, it's not like this, it's like this whatever. Go out on dates because I love to go out and stuff happen some time. Yeah, vacation, all that stuff. I like that quality time. I love to play games to like cards and stuff like that. I'm sure guys have always liked you because you're a pretty woman, But
how do guys approach you different? Is it different now because now you're a se uh international star. Everybody who have ever been with I'm always the one to have to be looking at them like they always feel like I'm above them. Are the ones that look me, Those are the ones that I don't want. The ones that don't look me and look at it stupid to go over there. Hey, my name is everet me. That's how it works. Like from ever since, I have to look everybody. I feel like I feel the same thing with me.
Like a lot of times I get with these guys and they're like, oh, you're Stephanie Sastiago, Like oh, because of who you are and it's always coming up. So what happens is I end up gassing them. I end up like putting them up on this big pedestal and gassing them up like no, you're the best with nothing like what you're doing there, like you're just amazing, and that as a backfiring because then I'll be having to
bring them back down to earth. Yeah, yeah, it's true because they get to much confidence with you so down baby talking like that. You prefer fans or people who don't really know you like that. I mean for people who don't really know me like that. You believe that though funds, I can't really tell if it's real because they're so frightened you get me, so I can't really tell you if they really want to get to know me and love me. What really did just around me
because they love me so much? As a fun, have you ever made up a name? Like when you met a guy that is saying your real name? No, no, no, no, unless I'm actually in front of him and I'm just saying that my name is actually when actually standing right beside That's about it. Do you believe it when a guy doesn't act like he doesn't know who you are? Well, really and truly, everybody who I talked to that even tries to talk to me like that. Majority of them
who asked really don't know. So I've never been like, so what do you say? Do you tell it all? Like my name su see him whatever, Go subscribe to my page from the Instagram promotion. Getting me a little bit of that in my album always works too, always works because they too start to become fun there. Goddamn right, Spaceline, Just so you know, so what's coming up next? Question
like when is the album coming? Well, we haven't had a release date as yet, but right now we're just really focusing on Blessed because it's not it's peak yet. Yes it's hit in the Caribbean and in Jamaica, but I want to take it to higher HIGs so that when I walk on the streets in New York, everybody's asking me for a picture. Did you know you want to Tiger on the song or was it like a label recommendation. It was like a brainstorm everything, like we
were bringing something a couple of artists. Tager came up, We sent it to him. He loved the track, he did it. It was I like it. It's a good record, and I like that he's on it because it makes it seem more natural versus you're trying to go for like a huge name just to kind of raise the bar,
you know, but hit he does, it's a mixture. It was just like really done so all the time, you know what I'm saying in a sense of if he was organic, like he has fire songs, but like you could have tried to reach for like a drink or a bigger name, you know what I mean, Like it just fits well because he's ophiself. It really fits well because he's working. And what makes you feel blessed nowadays? Well, just looking where I was a couple of years and
know where I am. I've just been in the industry just for three years, and I'm even here with you guys, honestly. So I have to big up all of my support us, everybody that has been supporting me, especially the DJs, because if they didn't play my song any all about shangings and everybody out there wouldn't even get to hear it separates ot apart from social media, So I just have to pick up every single body. Was just the life
I had before, not being able to know. Sometimes I would be there and I was like, oh if even Oxiden today, But I had to stick up some chicken back. You get me and know that I have. I can get my own place. I'm taking care of everybody in my family. I can eat what her at once. That's blessed infinitely. Any part of Chinese too, write like Korean. Okay, so she's Korean and Jamaican. I'm Chinese in my subrection, and she ain't got a check off and a round
with her cousins, noting she wasn't checking off. But I said, I grew up like a money still really really wrong. It's like they didn't even mind me, like thinking about you. No more check, no more check being anything like that. Literally like yo in the room with a lot of niggas my dogs. It's probably intimidate if you guys to talk to you with all your male family members. Though no, no, no, no no. They don't be trying to shut people down. Now.
They probably didn't say intimidated by me alone. Said I like leiga, so you can't play certain games with me because I would fight you. We heard, we know I don't know what you're talking about. Look that fight come up with you Google girls. But you know you saw anything see blood. I don't know what I saw, didn't I saw? I witnessed account. You know if they say no face, no case. I didn't even see myself. She's right here on live service. I've been watching and see it.
Thank you so much. We really appreciate you for coming through, thank you for having writting and blessed. We're happy for you, and we're excited that you actually took some time out. We love seeing you perform and seeing everybody's singing along, singing all the ways and know the thing that you've gotten. And it's been pretty quickly for you, because you know, for some people it takes so long for them. Against the point that you're at right now, I know, So
how do you stay grounded? I just have the passion for the music. It's like even if I wanted the stuff, I couldn't because every single day I have to be singing our song and I have to say it really untruly the bush because even just a couple of months ago, I couldn't sing, just a couple of weeks ago, my own fox, I couldn't sing four months. What happened? I had no use? Well, I still have it, but I had to do vocal training and stuff and now, so
that was really really hard, Benifactor. I love music so much, but to even show you that it's because I love it, I still held out. And I didn't choose to, you know, turn my money and do some real estate or something. I still held up and listen, man, my boyfriend is going through some problems right now. He'll come back soon, and he's here against U. I was like, oh, yeah, it is. And what about people on social media thinking that you're a lesbian. I mean they can think whatever
you know. All they need to know is just I'm an informniac. Okay, and orgas sexually it is what it is, okay. Oh and then we had a question. We always end the episode with um. Last week we had a question you have to guess which one of us did this? Which one of us in this room was an Avian? Stephanie, Loria or me went on a went out of town with their ex boyfriend's friends. Were their boyfriend's friend were their boyfriend's friend? If you had to guess, she looked
at me. That's really soul? Why is it me that everybody? Yes, it was actually step is real sexual? Is it ever okay to date to your boyfriend's friend? Um, my date? Has he still my boyfriend? Because then I got two boyfriends? So which one is the boyfriend? Just because you his friend on me, that's your boyfriend's date. Um, was he your boyfriend at the time when you went out of town with his friend? Yeah? Okay, so that's what you just said. But no, we wasn't like together like that.
It was just cool. But because the way that he reacted, we broke up or whatever. And then eventually I ended up talking to the friend. Yes, the way he reacted to the way he act kind of got me more interested in like not more, but interested in the front because at the time I wasn't even thinking about the front. Like you guys been to a hotel together? No, like I went on vacation with him and his family. God
you there. We were both supposed to go, but his ship was sucked up, like he didn't have no passport. That's not my my farm without your girlfriend. Yes, you are supposed to miss out. You were friends, so you were like me and him were friends. We used to hang out, did you his friend? Not when I went on the trap, but after like, yeah, I don't know. I didn't I don't like Okay, so you can't say nothing about April Joe's and O Marion a little fist.
I ain't got no baby. I ain't lying either, because when he asked me, I told them like yeah, because the dude ended up telling me because I didn't want to mess with him anymore. So yeah, so when he yeah, it's that good pussy now damn naked still on my line and that was mad years. Okay, so it is okay to to funk with your exes friend, No, it's not for me. I mean, like I just acting okay.
If I have a best friend and she's sucking with like my ex, I have no problem because I'm not going to prett my friend or some nigga, especially if we broke up. But your friend shouldn't do that to you. No, I mean I wouldn't mind. I personally would. You wouldn't mind because if I leave a nigger, I don't have no feelings for him. I'm telling you that. But your friends shouldn't do that to you. That's how I said, unity dick, Yeah, but this is what I'm saying. I'm
not doing that to my friend. It's totally different. Guys you didn't care about Yeah, I didn't care about I mean, it just was over, you know how, Like it just was what it was. When he got so mad and reacted the way he did, I was like, what the funk this Nike is crazy? Like I didn't it really, I had no intentions I messing my friend at all. So would you mind if your boyfriend went out of town with into your home girls? Yeah? But I was also like a child, you know, I was a child.
I was a teena know. I was like, yeah, like nineteen, So would you do that now? Now? No, I don't know. First of all, I don't even have time to take off to go and nobody, no motherfucker, I have like a career. I'm not chasing by no nigger, no friend, I'm not chasing no dick. No, it's just coming to me. Or I'm busy anyway, I have time, like I rather focus on myself. But yeah, I did do that ship like I don't give a funk, Like we don't care.
Go ahead, talk girls summer all right, Well, thank you so much again, And that was great that you guess that it was because trouble friends shot I don't drink. I'm a smoke. You gave us these shot you gave us these blood shot glass es, Shancia. Now I don't feel like these are authentic promo items. Shows up, you got your got your shots. You'll remember me that she gave you these shot glasses and sad to come here
to drink off the you guys the boat. I'll come back half away when you when you get me back here, half awe, when you get me back here. I agree, prefer listen, pries. I would. I would easily vomit when I drink, like even three percent alcohol, will hate me like I'm I'm telling your next man to tie you up and force you to have a shot because and you want to have a shot though. Yeah, we'll do one for you, all right and see it. Thank you so much. It's seriously