Episode 200: Lip Service Live Part 1 (Feat. Khadeen & Devale Ellis)

of check up and noble. I don't fu guy, I'm not I'm not got make my drinking. Please make a drink. Hey, what's up y'all? How are you guys feeling? So we are excited. This is our first time ever in Sony Hall. We love this venue, right, it's not amazing and we're

gonna have a good time with you tonight. You know, we have some special guests, but there's a lot of people in this building that we know and love and some people that were just excited to see y'all come out in the rain and support because we know there's a lot of things you could have been doing. You know what they say, this is a perfect weather for fucking, fucking damn you. I thought it was the lip Service Live. I was gonna say for sleeping sleep. I see why

sleep when you can fuck? Or are you going? Yeah, Stepanie, I like sleeping a love. So you know, we are trying to make this show very interactive, and we want to know who you are tonight before we get started. So where's travty yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo. I see him, He's over there. Yeah, I love Trav. Let me tell you something. Travs main go. He calls Breakfast Club every morning. Somehow he manages to get through, and he, thanks to lip service, thanks to the Breakfast Club,

has been getting end list dick. Okay, oh god, you appreciate that. So we want to find out a little bit about you. How many people in here are single? How many people like are in relationships at even how many people are in relationships but he's not okay, A lot of y'all. How many of your are single? And he's not okay. We're just trying to do a poll because we have a lot of questions. How many people in here have cheated before? What was that? Over? Man?

Y'all proud to beat some cheat and ask, motherfucker, ain't you proud the bed? I just sucked another nigga dick yesterday right there? Okay, okay, so all the cheatings, can y'all raise your hand for a second? Much? Trap? Bring black man raise their hand. Black men don't cheat, Yes, they do, trapp echell a lot of them cheating. Ask mother, I'm a black man in cheat now trap right here?

She raised her hand in the front. So we want to hear your cheating story and we want to know if you got caught you're a cheating Let's go what's your name and what's your name? And why you cheat? Why did you cheat? My name is Rihanna? And who you cheating on? Girl? My boyfriend? Or four years with a coworker? You had a work bay and okay, so what happened was, yeah, you can't have what's his house for his birthday? And he woke me about him my sleep and he had broken my phone and pretty much

I was like, what's this. That's not why you cheated, That's how you got cut, that's but why did you Why did you cheat? This is not a jeopardy. He wasn't. He wasn't doing nothing for me in the bedroom. No, just in general, he wasn't doing much for me. So so what the Workbay do that was so special? That got him some checked down travel, making more money? Cars? Houses? Damn? Why are you there? Are you with work Bay? Now that work bait right there? Okay, no, he's moving over

that far like, No, that's actually her boyfriend. Hold on, I know we got a nicket that cheated in here. Happy June, y'all, Happy June teeth everybody. Okay, we need to see somebody else you cheated. We just want to hear why, because we're curious. They say that men and women cheath for different reasons, and I want to see if that's true. She's grabbing air and ship me tell

us why. She ready to tell us why to see what happened was stand out so we can see you cheating, everybody, But you know, the story about to be juicy when the heaven when you start to see what had happened was let me tell y'all, so how much time you got? No? I just get in um. So I was with a dude. That was Mary talking to the Mike you know how I won't be too loud. You don't Puerto Rican, I could be head loud. How long me do it? Anyways? Um?

So I was with a guy for four years. We got married, um and he went on a nine month deployment. Let me find out he liked white girls a lot. Thinking I wasn't kicking the rim. So when I found out, you go all chick pregnant. Damn. Okay, that's not cheating, that's what get that. That's revenge. I feel like y'all wasn't together. I took him back. I took him back like the loving the wife I was. And then I met Justin. But you were married and they were married.

I was married. And then I met Justin, and uh, Justin, this man just put it in just a marriage and they never says it was a Justin. Come on, just you know what I'm saying that I was like I had. I felt like I had to get what he got. I had to live my best life too. I mean, I wasn't in Dubai, but I was in Virginia living my best life. Did you get pregnant? But then it's the lover, ok he didn't make you feel better it's it. Okay,

it's it. It's the sex amazing. It was girl four years amazing, because there's nothing worse than when you're cheating the sexest whack. No, then I'll be like can. But by the way, that doesn't count. If that happens, yeah, that doesn't cheat. This sex is like that. All right, So we just wanted together. Is there a guy who cheated? I just want to hear with the guy's reason because it feels like, oh, we got a girl that's saying right here, right here, she's the one that I've been saying.

Get the mic though, Why why you cheat? Brother black man? I already know because I was tired of the bullshit. That's why I cheated. And I don't get I don't feel bad either. It was fun and fun. I felt a rush. He was exciting and renewing, and I would do it again. Ladies, you look beautiful to I have a great show. That's right there. It was a rush and I'll do it again. Alright. So men and women do to for different reasons, alright, So we are going

to get the show started. Um. First of all, I want to give a big shout out to our DJ DJ t J She is an amazing fresh out of college by the way, and she's been DJ since she was super young. Didn't y'all like how she knew all them throwback songs and everything. So she's an amazing DJ.

Know I do what I do? Come on now, Okay, give them your Instagram too, so people could follow you because we're about to blow her up to all you all ready for it's a complicated I'm sorry, but it's underscore DJ underscore underscore, t J got so conflict to score d Jane Underscore underscore t J. Hey, Troy, Okay, got fans? I know that's right, she got fans in the front row, all right. I just want to say, this would have been an amazing pace for a lot more guys to come out too, because I see a

lot of women in the building. Every every live show was always a bunch of single guys, single girls. I went really weak. But ladies, girl, y'all know why guys don't come because they're scared of the truth. That's true.

You ever get an argument with a guy with your with your boyfriend, and as soon as you bring up something valid that like makes you look good in the argument, he want to just not talk to you anymore, or like in the conversation, I hang up on you because they can't stand the truth, all right, But we're here for the truth tonight, right. So we had one of our fai evorite couples and you might have seen them on lip service already. Are they up here? Because I

can't see ship. This lights on and I can't see Are they no? Not yet? Other than I we got the one minute. They probably having sex in the grade. It might be. I'm gonna ask them when they get up here. She liked the way you want to see little Boyer isn't going on in the corner. Any of y'all ever got called having sex on camera? Camera like on an elevator, there was a surveillance camera. Surveillance camera, no, like no, but on purpose camera. Yes. I was about

to tell a story. It's not story time yet, not yet. That's your story, g oh man. We ain't got enough time that many takes. Yeah, no, but my story is that, um, there was once upon a time when I was having sex with somebody's man. Damn. I said once upon a time, that story time for real, Once upon a time, and not long ago. I was exactly that's what I thought when she said that I ain't want to go. So he that's how I'm sureing my Well, y'all already know

I just turned Ford. Hold on, y'all heard about the extra, all right, okay, Um, so I was dealing with this guy who had a woman, and um, we recorded ourselves and it was on the VHS tape. Oh yeah, you know that was a long time. I never heard of it was she popped the tape in and and saw and saw us having said so where's the tape? Now? Oh lord, oh god, Oh she destroyed it. Yeah, okay, now that was me. Yeah, she destroyed it. I would have had copies made. We would have been on X

videos right now. Well, you know what, I ended up getting pregnant about her, and that's not doing the father. Oh and let me tell y'all so we get right, the plot sickens. So they were together. I knew they were together. Um. She went to the same high school as one of my best friends, and I used to get out earlier than they did, so I would leave my school and drive over her school to pick her up. She was dealing with his homeboy, and that's how me

and him hooked up. But I knew he had a girlfriend. I knew she went to the school. Um, So fast forward, I gets pregnant by him. She doesn't know who his daughter's mother is. He just she just knows that he has a baby by some girl. Um. He passed away, unfortunately, five days after my sister's birthday, and she found out that I, the girl from the tape, was the baby's mother at the funeral. Damn, damn. I ain't never heard this story, y'all. I'm not gonna this was her, this

was the I'm going back to my Reginald. For some reason, all of g sex stories have to do with somebody dying. I did not to him my daughter's father, black widow. There's always a funeral, all right. Well, on that note, let's bring out a happily married couple who devel then Ellen doesn't call a couple right down, mail down right, Okay, sir, your story or you just want to know if y'all was sucking in the green room. Possibly Okay, y'all, see how short that skirt is, right, you know, but they

tails long? Though I thought you were on the Keyno diet. You're drinking. Um, this is KEYO, like that, pass it off, contain you need a drink? I would love one actual we got we got saying lemonade works. G hook it up. Please, we already know G hook it up to drinks because if she goes, she's gonna fall asleep. I'm at one point five, so let's get this show a week show

where okay, okay, now listen. Since we started off talking about drinks, one of the girls up here just had an incident recently where they actually threw up in the middle of sex. But then they just kept going, who do you think it was? Why? Why? No question of whether it was one of those you were guilty or a little I'm like, damn, I just told her this in the bag. I just so heard it. You can't nothing. So what happened doesn't like this is so embarrassing your

nose too? For John, that's what happened, Like it came in my mouth and it went through my nose and I just swallowed it. Oh yes, ma'am. I know he got going and were you giving him? I told him I stat it, but he didn't. It didn't get on the batter swallow that. I don't know. I don't think he was as drunk as me. I get drunk off for two cups like her, were you giving him what happened? No? No, we were fucking and it just happened. That's what happened.

And listen a little stopping me right, Yeah, he didn't get on the battery. It was like in my nose. I could smell it. But yeah, I was like, baby, I was like, do you smelling? He's like no, no, no, I about you said a little vomit won't stop you. What about a little blood? Uma? If you're not to run the red light? So this is the thing, right, I can't see blood on my dick, Like I'm like a hypochontract. One time I almost passed out because like we was doing it and then you know how you

can smell the iron, Yeah, yeah, I always know. I was. I was. I was in my joint like I was like and I was like, I was like, when your parody is supposed to come? And she's like maybe sometime today. So she turned the light on and I saw a blood on my dick and he had such a weak stomach, like he can't everybody know that rag? You know about that rag on the bedside. You got the rag that you keep where you bring it with you when you're about to do something right, and then after its beat.

Sometimes that's weird is clean around. But they're married, so then the issue is making sure our kids don't get to the rags, right, That's what I mean. You might forget and think it's a clean rag, and you're like, I did a video about that, right, because Jackson used to go into the cabinet and get clean rags to do flag football. Right. So Jackson comes in one day and he got the rags hitting in his belt and I'm like, yo, what I'm telling you about getting the

clean wags. He's like, but these ain't clean though, No, And I was like, cracks ain't not clean. He was like, I got them right by the side of your bag. I stay out of my rug right now, stay out of my I pulled the rag out. The ship didn't even move. It was like starts. It was it was stip it was stimp like stars. And then he was like, what you used those? Wash your hands? Take a whole shower that sweaty, sweaty. I gotta I gotta wipe my sweat. Then I wiped my forehead with the rag looking at

me like you wipe your forehead. I said, it is more than enough of this stuff, and all over the place. You're like, it's my stuff. I got a sacrifice from my kids. You know. Now listen. Okay, So now let's say you guys are in bed. CoDeeN. I'm sure you swallow spits sometimes. Can you kiss him without brushing your teeth after that? Why? Why that it really looks at me like that's a snow. Yes. No, that's when you

put it there, when you exchange it from your mouth. Okay, swallow, not like she's gonna spit it in your mouth, but it's gone. No, he's worried about remnants. No, no, not at all. And I care if what you taste like, not at all. I don't know on this pouch, but I am not interested in that. Now it's all her, she and she got it. I love that that's the difference between men and women, because we don't mind tasting ourselves right, because y'all tastes good, y'all good, like you

know you do thing you do. I don't think I taste good. But why do you think she would want to suck your dick? If you don't think it tastes good. She because because it's a scientific fact. You always got a scientific everything. To her, she tried. She trying to kiss me one time before, and I was like, wow, right, she hits me right on the floor, trying to put with him, knowing that he doesn't like it. So I'll

go in for the kids. So he'll be like, you know what, that don't come the worst exactly, Keto, come, if it's not all come, does not taste good? It all doesn't. I don't know what I'm tastes funny. You gotta cut him off. Yeah, to the doctor, if sometimes to the dog. He's not eating right, he's not drinking water. He has hydrated, hydrated, she said. It's something that you always say to me that when I work out a lot and I'm not hydrating. She always tell me, like,

you taste bitter, yeah, salty. So I try to drink a lot of coconut water. Yeah, because coconut. I appreciate you for that, vow, thank you a coconut water. You know, if he SIPs on the do say, do say water come to taste like do say? Probably isn't bad. I mean, but he was eating man meat downstairs for well, you know, like hendy dick, do say dick. It's a little stronger. So let him keep drinking. You might have a hell of a night about him. Let me just stay sure.

I checked from my I U d strings first, because nobody trying to have no more babies, so I'm gonna check from you know. That's how we got pregnant. The second time we were having sex and I was like, yo, something right, I can feel y'all U d She's like, you're not supposed to feel like I said, I could feel it. And then she was like, I think I'm as to take it out. I want to have a baby. And then she took it out. Am knocked that ship right out. Facts, Now, listen, that's how then, that's how

you're talking about curfews. Yes, So if you're in a relationship or you're married, should you have a curfew? Is there a certain time that man consensus act that hand up like suckets. There was a very strong yes right here right here. It was over here somewhere came from this way with the curfew though. See that was one of the questions that came up on our podcast on a listener letter. Right what you're looking for I can't even see. But it's like women in here. Yes, ain't

no man agreeing to no curfew? Brof do you want to call the curfews out because the name? It's about the word an appropriate time that you should have y'all ass in the house. Nah, all right, let's be honest. Yes, Joel in the house at three am every single night. But let's be honest, right, y'are not working with this ship? Huh? Hold on ya, Like, let's let's be honest. Right, we're talking about New York night life, right. Nobody gets into the club until after twelve thirty. That's the fuck? Am

I supposed to be home before three o'clock? I just got to the club at one. It takes me forty minutes to get home. So what am I going to walk in the club gonna go? Don't you know? I'm relative? I mean, I wouldn't call it curfew, but be in communication with me, like, you shouldn't be out till three, four or five in the morning, and I don't hear from you that I'm worried texting. I need to be face timing. I need all that because guess what if you do it? We already know what's gonna happen. I

tell my man all the time. Lead by example. Okay, we're also worried, right because we don't know be mad. Don't worried like I'm mad, but what happened? But at the same exactly, I don't want to send text message over and try some ship with you, right, So I would have been Google set your name in jail because it find my iPhone. I am so happy here with a lot of women right talking about communication? Right, what happen with my wife sitting right here and talking about

being a communication with me? Right? This motherfucker here does not text or call ever. I'm always like, just first of all, uber drivers be out here kidnapping motherfucker's Uber drivers be doing a safety concerned I get it is? Get is? So how come you don't communicate? Say it's accents, you get right? You know what I mean? Sometimes you get there and you're at just spint and you're just like, oh, I'm in the mix, and I that's true for you don't text you The pirson can be like business, Nick

and Cheating, meet me at the house. We're going to the club to get this Nick and Cheating y'all know. Definitely, Yeah, I will pull up to the club real quick, like when we parties. You see that, you see you see that right where your girls in the club and they're like your man in here. No, that's not happening because I'm there too. I took a picture of him here that's right behind him. You ain't seeing me? Okay? About

what if? What if Cadine tells you I don't really want you to go to the club tonight, stay home with me. That's the first questions, Like no, I mean, I'm gonna be honest, Like no, I'm gonna be honest, like, um, we don't really get to spend a lot of time together because we have the kids and you have friends.

You grew up with your friends. But if your wife the persons want to spend the rest of your life with is like, babe, I just want you to spend time with me, as I mean, you're like all right, let's you know, yo, I can't call like I just can't go. My wife want to spend time with me. So he's good about that, bigger, but very but you But I will say it is very necessary though, to have our long time like go out with your boys, go out with your brother, go out with your friends,

like have fun that like miss me a little bit? Yes, and come home. Guy, do you do you really miss us when you go out? Absolutely? Absolutely not. When I go out and I'm just like I missed my just not, they don't give a fuck you. I gotta go home, Guys, I miss my wife and then I run home and we like cuddle, you know sometimes we do that. You're such a damn life. He's more liable to come and be like, you know what, I've seen this girl do this thing? Can your leg? Her leg was like up

here and what one but cheek was jumping on the job. Okay, you want me to try now, and then I'll be doing it just like I did. That's all right, that's all. That's all that last week on pour hub whatever. Now, let me ask you this. You guys have been together for so long, right, do you have members of the opposite sex that you confide in? Like that's not relatives, but do you have like a male friend that you can confide in? And do you have a female friend

that you can confide in? Yeah? Do I know her? Do I know her? Because if she's not at this little circle with our family and friends here, and then where is she at? Son? First of all? Son, First of all, Angelie set me up. That's what she does. Can I answer the question? Now? All right, I'm going to answer the question. If you really respect your woman, you see how he had to massage that first, right, he had to massage. I don't I don't like. I

don't like the little side shatter gallery. If you really respect your women and you're seeking advice to be a better version of yourself, you don't ask your friends for advice their men. You have to ask womens slow class. A lot of times when I'm asking for example, truth, I'm like, yo, tell me if I'm wrong about this, And sometimes she'll be like, yeah, they get you wrong, but I'll get an example my year. Would you have a problem me talking about you because you like you know?

I like my ear though, But I'm saying too, she's my friend too. But she's a woman, she's I'm a woman. She got a China, how do you know? But he's got like before, so I was waiting for the same. But whatever her name, listen, I've learned early I can I asked my friends for advice about my wife. So these niggers don't know, like they don't know how women should ask other women either. You should if you have an issue, you should come to your wife. And that's it.

But it's just y'all. It's nobody else y'all. But I do feel like it is important to ask for sometimes you need somebody to talk to the events. It got to be a family, No, it can't be. No bitch that ain't got the same mother. Maybe your mother or your sister to her sister. Yeah that works, works, the sister. Word that Jackson's got family that got the same brother,

same wife. How don't trust that? Talk to your sister. Hey, you know that Jackson's that Tito and them got the same same baby mama and the brother, so the nephews and brothers and her your sister. See I was talking really about anything. I don't know. You don't have any guy friends. I do. I do have one from like high school. Here's our son's god about to have a heart at that standard. You know my good good friends. You know good friends, A good friend um from high school,

and he's one person who I'll talk to. But I really I feel like like step does. I feel like if we have an issue, we are very open about communications, so we just to each other about it. And a lot of times so I feel like when you and I shut up about anyway, like I was saying, if we have an issue, I want to deal with it head him on, hit on the two of us. And a lot of times too, when you come to people for advice, they're jaded by what me going but maybe

going on in their life. They're jaded by their own experiences. So I don't necessarily want that. Sometimes I want event, And if I do want, I could just event and let it go. I'm gonna asking for your advice. But all right, that's me, that's right, Yo, it's so mad about that. All right. So now let me ask you this. We're gonna play a little g and we're gonna do something this with Trina as well. Is it cheating? If yes, If you had to ask that, then clear, don't look

it up. You looked at a cheetah. Alright, alright, So is it cheating if yeah? His ex text him, hey, I hope you're good. I miss you, and he says I'm yes, oh no, But if that cheating was saying, but what does he reply? What's the apply what does he say? Wait, he report her to reply. So he texts you, Hey, I hope you're good. I miss you, and he texts back, I'm good, I miss you too. Miss mitches sound well we miss your ches now? Oh oh my god? Not except because I was like that

ship done to me? So yeah, no, but is that cheated? It's cheated? Yah? Yeah, I guess there's levels to that stuff. Cheating, sting, this what it could be inappropriate, But that doesn't mean it's flag fellas. I'm gonna be a dent all that show. This is this is all. This is full honesty. Once you get married, do not respond to a woman you have sex with. Once you get married. Everything you do with cheating, do not respond. You're actually blocked once you

get mary, change your number, block her number. You can't win ghy not. That's for her own safety. That's for her own safety. I'll say that, what's the computer ship? Can't the lead y'all ship out of here? Yeah? Alright? How don so you guys think that is categorized as cheating or is it just inappropriate? No, it's not cheating, it's inappropriate. Okay? Is it cheating? If and somebody actually sent this in. Is it cheating if he jerks off on the girl's ass but doesn't suck her? Yeah, what

are we doing? What are we doing? What are we doing? Why? It's out alone? That's cheating? Why is this dick out? They didn't have sex, but that's cheating. Sorry, technically, no, how did we get here? How did we get here? Girl? Right? You cheating to get to that point? You're cheating. You have a relationship where you feel like you could do that. So yeah, what if it's in this chrip club? What

she's paid for it? Wait the transactional and technically nah, First of all, you're not pulling a dick out on the strip club, So I ain't no s in the champaigne room. Y'all heard what Chris Rock says. He just said, it's not set. She's just that's she and believe that's what the champagne and he's paid. That's even worse. You're sucking another bit and you're paying her the fuck some kind of way. Even if you're sucking your hand, you might as well just sucked that she getting paid. Damn,

you're hiding. Women don't make no sense? Why what if the girl, that's the guy in cheating the relationship. She's not a boyfriend. And I'm dying to see where this is going cheating. First of all, first, this question is definitely you didn't even answer this question without being a Cheatah, so I'm not even going there. But what you said was you'd rather, you'd rather jerk off and you if you pay for a chicken and you fuck her, that's worse. I thought women. I thought women said, if you know

her and his emotional connection, that's worse. Which one is it? You're giving away our money does bad? No, it's giving away our emotions. That's bad. Either way, it's bad. Don't put your thinking. Your pants are in mecuse his wife. What's worse? Tomow? Tomow absolutely absolutely to that time out, tom How why why all of these situations got the

nick in the up situation like business don't cheat? Business to every night listen, let me ask the question you at All Star Weekend now he trying to chat with your ass? Is that cheating? It cheating? It's cheating and she probably got paid. To listen, the only the only person yet winning the strip club is the stripper. Okay, because she getting paid and she ain't had to do ship. Okay, you're not gonna set me up here. Man, I'm trying to have sex night. It's cheating. It's cheating. You might

just chuck off on her ask tonight. Now you know it's not gonna happen. Okay, one one, last one? Is it cheating? If you know they'd be having those chatter bait websites where you go online and you can watch people and chat with like porn stars and asking, is that cheating? I never experienced that, but no, that's the chatter What is it? Chi barsus on to chatters. It was like chat chatter bait, not chatter back you. Oh yeah.

I think godlines are set up individually between each relationship, So there are certain godlines in every relationship that you're allowed to do this or you're allowed to do that. As a society, we can't set a precedent for everybody else's relationship because if they don't feel that that's cheating and we can't tell them, you should be upset about that.

If the two of them agreed that that's okay, we're asking you, hello, well you're asking me, yeah, I mean I kind of like to go by the rule of if it was done to me when I feel away and I got caught like that before, I caught like that before engaging in conversation with somebody that I would not have engaging conversations. Will sit down because you ain't. You ain't scott free to sound alright, Honestly, I was scot free. But the Peanut Gallery like my ship. I'm

being honest. I got quite in a situation where I was doing things that if it was unto me, I would have had a problem with. So why why were you doing it? Well? What had happened was, well, it was at a point where we were several years into our relationship and certain things. We were going through some issues, you know what I mean. And he wasn't altogether there. I wasn't altogether there, and you know, yes, and it happened.

It happened, Yes, it happened. And then we figured it out and we decided and made the choice to be here. But the thing is, we were honest about what transpired. I gave him the choice to decide if you wanted to be here or not. There's only five percent of dudes in here, so I see a lot of gentleman. Gentlemen makes some NOI gentleman, bad guys in the building. This is what's gonna happen. All right, I'm gonna be honest. You got me, That's what I'm talking about. Baby, you

got me table. But that's my brother. He's just kidding. There was a double standard in life, right. There are certain things that women in relationships will do that if you do, they're gonna be like, Na, you can't do that, but they'll do it and be okay, alright all the time. For example, this situation. For example, this situation, her and I win a relationship since we were eighteen years old, right, we were in a relationship. You were eighteen years old.

We get to our mid twenties. We weren't really feeling each other, but we didn't know how to exist without each other. So while trying to figure out our twenties and trying to figure out she was texting guys. I was texting guys. Oh my bad. You were texting the guys. All right, all right, you want a text, you want a textile one. But you were you were having inappropriate conversations with the dude, right, I was having inappropriate conversation.

Women allegedly allegedly it was allegedly yourself, if you know, if it happened. But the funny thing is she wouldn't own up to the fact that it was wrong until it happened to her. And I'll give you another example. Facebook. We were in college when Facebook first came out, right, Facebook was like we was like tiny Facebook, y'all the story where y'all hit a story, y'all gonna laugh. All right, I'm a D one football player. I scored three touchdowns in the game. One of one of the chicks go

good game devout. She goes, oh, you got these holes. Yes, but she's the resident director of C Square basketball players scored thirty points. He was president, he was my resident. That's different. I'm different. Is different definitely that it's like it's like the stripper and the strip club with the whole nothing on the ass. Like I was the stripper, I'm the resident. This isn't doing my jo. I'm trying

to make the correlation of it. They're willing to say whatever to justify the bullshit that they do to us that if we do it, they I'm not gonna let it happen, bro, I'm not. That's about these women on Facebook were they working for the team. No, no, no, even go to the school. She fan, she was a fan.

So let me ask you this. Now that you guys uh the ellis is and you have your YouTube and social media following and doing big things, doesn't bother you when women leave comments on this page now or womenly comments on her page. I actually honestly feel that way. And it's funny because I feel like people have gained such a respect for us that they're just like they don't even want to like pictures of him with his shirt off or if he looks good in the picture.

I'm just like, bro, you ain't getting no likes on that picture because I followed you for like two weeks before I following him bad. I I don't know if I should follow or not, Honey. People have like kind of this, like spect across the board for us. I do get every now and again, though some people sliding in my d M s um I get men and women. Do you tell them? I tell them. I usually show him and be like, you're looking at your friend? No,

none of my friends. But when I see some of the you know, the messages, I'll be like, yeah, like this when when you're when you're a person. There's nothing makes you feel better than knowing that other people wants the person that you've chosen first the rest of your life. So I'm not gonna sit here and get all upset. If I was worried about her going somewhere, they didn't be an issue for me. What if it's what if it's drink? I was going to ask that the same thing,

But what if she said the same thing? Is like what a Curry said, had a whole conversation about how would you feel about I have no issue. I even made a post about one thing I like the most about being her husband is that I'll walk into a place. I'll let her go in first and watch guys check her out, and then walk up behind her. Like, yeah, my boyfriend does the same thing. Are you sending to me? He walks behind me on purpose so that he can watch people's reaction when I walked by. Okay, but your

boyfriend can't see glasses? Is wrong with you? You're getting cursed up tomorrow when we get to l A because I'm telling on you know. I think it's I think it was kind of unfair what happened to Usa Cary because I think she was being honest. Yes, and a lot of times, a lot of times when you're super honest, people just want to jump on the band wagon up just bashing someone, but explains, show me, show me one human in the world, man or woman who doesn't want

attention from the opposite nature that is human nature. You know what I'm saying to stopped because you're married, right, and you know how you walk past a bunch of guys, right and you're like, let me crush the street because I don't want nobody to talk to me. And then you'd be like, damn, nobody took up the le I know he's about to say something. No, No, that's dross the street. All right. Now, we had a listener right in this question, and I thought this would be perfect

for you guys to answer. Okay, she said, I've been in a relationship for a year and a half and we have had a lot of ups and downs along the way, but never infidelity. I'm twenty four and he's twenty seven. Sometimes and not attracted to him and I can't stand his ways of thinking, but we mostly have communication issues. I broke up with him three times because

things don't feel right. However, sometimes I felt like I chase a fairy tale type of love, and my mom and older people say I need to be with him because it's hard to find a good man and no man is perfect. He recently proposed to me, and I said, no, am I wrong for wanting a love that I have

no doubts about? I love that makes me feel like listening to old school R and B. This is exactly why I said, don't listen to people won't ask for advice because grandma and Mama is telling her that it's okay for you to settle for this guy, because all guys do everything. Absolutely not, absolutely not the grandmother and my mother is probably single anyway that you can't even listen to that you gotta go how you feel. Absolutely absolutely.

They do call it settling down, settling. Ain't nobody settling for ship? Can I answer this question? Can I? Can I answer this? First and foremost, When we listen to our grandparents, they come from a different time. Everything comes from context. They come from a time where women were probably still considered property right and the only way you could get out of your parents home was to get married. So they try to get rid of her. No no, no, no,

what happened? Mary? Different generations give you advice. You have to understand where their experience comes from. You understand what I'm saying. It's the new millennium. Women have their own businesses, they have their own careers. You realistically do not have to settle for anybody. So if you think about that, you're choosing a mate that you want to live the rest of your life with. It's not about settling anymore.

But but but that also comes with consequences. For example, all of you women up here, right, you choose men who you want to match your hustle. Right, So you choose alpha men, right, You choose alpha men, right? Yes, you aose men who are conquerors. You choose men who go out there, make a ship ton of money, come home. Men like that aren't easy to bring in and and have them come in and just be family. Men that People don't want to say that, but it's the truth.

You're able to do it. And I'm able to do it now at thirty five. But when I was in my mid twenties, she says, she's four. He may not even be thinking about that. And when I think what happens is is a lot of times we don't give women the right advice when looking for men that they're trying to attract. You're you're choosing a man who works out all the time, makes six figures, you know, has a bunch of options that there's a lot of responsibility

that comes with that. So when you're when your grandmother, your mother tell me you, like, listen, you might want to settle down with this guy because he has X, y Z. They're coming from a different experience. You at that point have to make a choice of what you want as a woman. It's not as easy as I'm looking for the fairy tale, because the fairy tale you're looking for you might not just get that. You ain't gonna find some football player or basketball player or fairy tale.

Does any does an it's the truth. Does anybody have a fairy tale relationship in here? No? They don't exist. Oh she has a fairy tale sex life? Okay, fry tale sex life? Yes, got a question what you mean by fairy tale sex life? That's what's up? Are y'all? Married? Girl? Hey girl, that's my friend. This is this is another thing too. She says she don't want to be married. Everybody don't gotta be married though. No. But but what I'm saying is is everybody don't gotta be married to

be married one day? Not him? He did you say that again? Hold on? Hold on? How said when you're head? Is sex to someone that you know? Every girl in the world want to have sex with the evil? Why? I feel you? So she's sucking God? I want to know God? San San? Is he married? The reading a relationship? Okay. The reason why I thought that was important is because that's how dudes feel a lot of the times. And there's nothing wrong with that. The problem is when men

think like that. Women say, y'all need to grow up. But the father Paulman to day, that's how men think. Oh no, I understand. I understand where you're coming from. I'm just saying, it's the new millennium that's the host of the most bad bad I funk with your perspective, though, because it's honest and it's two thousand nineteen and we got to stop acting like it's nineteen fifty and exactly. But let's see, let's be hiring the best sex of my life. Though I'm trying to marry that. I don't

eve been posting that up in the morning, in the morning. Yeah, we have morns. How I see you before? He is? My boyfriend was at the last live show and I just kept looking at him at the audience like I don't know where until she started working. Well, my back was turning. It's gonna happen again tonight. Who's signing up for the twork lesson? You're getting on safe for me? Or no? Who's on it? Somebody gonna come up here? Don't be whoever twists can have a drink with us

up here too. Okay, I'm about the point somebody and shot right now. It's later, it's later, it's later, all right, So last question, because we do have Trina is also gonna be here tonight, and you know her album the One is Yeah, he's coming out right, there's a fun Boys remix on there by everybody drink out. Why you'll be coming that minute where you'll be coming that the Boys remix on the album and her new album because I'll be listening to you on the radio and Jackson,

my eight year old, uh, were listening. I love jack saying you guys every morning in the car right, So my son says, Daddy can I curse. No, I'm like, you know, he said, well, I got a question I ask and you told me ellis man always tell the truth. So the only way I can tell the truth is if I curse. So I was like, you know what, your mother is not in the car. He said, what's the funk? Boy? So I was like, it's your mother's ex boyfriend. But wow. I proceeded to explain to him,

what a boy? What was your explanation, my explanation, why was was listening? As a man, you have a responsibility to live in your truth. If you get involved with a young lady and you're not honest with her from the very beginning about what you want, and you lead her down a different path, thinking that things are gonna end up completely different, you're a boy. Okay, I have a good one. Boy. Scream out his name right now.

Scream out his name. He made to pay for the ticket and he's sitting next to them, so don't say his name. Bill ain't come yet. Say his name after But there was a there was a follow up question though. Jackson said, so are there girls? And I was like, yes, of course that would be. We never heard that he's gonna coin the phrase right now, make up a definition for now. What's the girl? I don't know any of those. It's very simple. The fun girl is the same thing

as a funck boy. They do the same exact things to dudes. They find a dude, make a dude feel like everything's gonna be perfect. Meanwhile they sucking a bunch of other dudes telling them the same story. Getting a girl. She nest sir, Yeah, you see, this's like, don't do what I do. Don't say nothing, just take a mental note. Mental notes. By the way, Thank god for equality, Thank god we can be girls. I agree with that definition, Stephanie, because you're honest. That's right. They cast you up. You

know that too. And when he just give him a good word, I did because I had opened up my Instagram and this is after I started following stuff and it was a picture stuff for me like this stuff. You got stuff and your seven years old, you'll be able to follow. Well, anyway, he love me, you know the kids love me, Jackson. Jackson does love you. I'm telling you kids love me, by the way, if we lot of kids, but yeah, we love the kids. Alright.

So the last question was is there an issue, right or how often does this happen where maybe you give him head and get nothing in return, or you give her head and get nothing in return. Who does it more? No, it's going all the way every single time. There's no just just heads. Every we do for do That's what it is. If you never just a angela, you just very quality. But I'm saying every now and then, it's

not just a gift like you have a day. No. I mean sometimes I'll get hiding and that be it because the only time is one way is if I'm on my parient him for like running the red light because it's too heady, then I must up that they can go to sleep. It is nothing wrong with that. So it's cool. It's cool. It's cool, and there's nothing wrong with that. You know. It's a gift to both of y'all do what you're doing it. He likes we're seeing.

But for the most part, though, sometimes I'm just like, oh, can we just get this, like can you just do it for me? And then that be it and he'd be like, no, I'm ready to go. So you ask him to do that to be penetrated. Either way, we look at it like can you just eat me out and I wanted, Yeah, I don't see, because it could cause a medical condition if I get hard and yes it's a scientific fact. If I'll become e wrecked and go to sleep, my nuts gonna turn the same colored

as coach. I don't know if that's a scientific you. If you get erect and go to sleep, come out, that is not you. You're not How many guys in here and get erect and go to sleep? Angela, don't listen, they're not married. Ya don't agree. I paid a lot of money to not have to go to sleep with blue balls, all right? You see this motherfucker out here made a lot of money for this, looking at it and looking at it and insurance not one time insurance.

We listen, Cada, Let's tell people where they can follow you in about your podcast and I know you have a show coming to Netflix show and everything, so talk about we're out here working a little bit. But you can follow us on Instagram, Cadine, I am who follows us out here, who came out here and follow Yes, y'all were seeing a little uncoversion about because you know what we're doing, the family thing with the boys and everything. But you know, we're very down to earth and we

try to keep it real with you all. So thank you Angela and Gig and Stephanie and Loreal for having us say and we love you, and I'm gonna say y'all at Essence Festivals. Yes, you guys have the live podcast. We're gonna have a live podcast live. We have a live podcast at Essence fest on July six. You go to my it's gonna be in my link. You go

to my bio. The link is in the bio. But first and foremost, I just want to applaud these four women up here for being brave because as a man who's married and knowing that there's a safe space for women to express their sexuality and talk about the things that they need and they want, I can be the first to tell you that I have a group chat that follows this group right here, and we talk about what our women want and we learned from the stuff

that we're here here. So I appreciate y'all. I appreciate everyone who came out here, so thank you so much, Thank you so much. This is one of our top podcast episodes on lip Service, and we appreciate it so much. Awesome listened to us on dead As as well past you'll come through through, I don't. We should have you. I want to go. Let's set that up right, and you actually, what come on? You know that my life

has ran by my love life. So whatever I am minded, you said you gad, that's the best way to I'll leave trying. He wants to go to the gym in the morning. You're like, when I'll come back from the gym. We're working on that. I tell her. I'm like, yo, it's seven o'clock. I bet you're definitely giving head right now. No, that's me. I'm the one head ahead in the work. I'm leaving head. And she was on the radio. Gloria is on the radio. Stephanie's still sleeping, and I'm cutty Hey,

Cutty Cutty is on live. Okay. Then I'm checking this pampers. I'm changing pampers by a Harty so pamper all right, Well, thank you