Episode 190: Live Show at Carolines on Broadway

to participate. How many people in here on are on a date? Damn well? You know lift services for the single people too. Where's all my ladies at though? Okay, I see a couple of guys. Y'all are smart and welcome back to Stephanie. She's been in my ass. I'm guy fresh off the plane. Girls. So we're gonna get it started because we want to make sure we get through everything tonight. So let's bring to the stage our

first two guests. Vonda Carlo at Jessica. Now you know Jessica as the real baby duty on Instagram because we all use her Kaleidoscope hair products and she's popping entrepreneur sell Vonda Carlo and Jessica, let's do it. Jessica has a book out right now as well, which I know we're gonna get into and talk about. Hey, y'all talk happy Women's his three month ladies. Hey everyone, girl, you can put your mouth a little closer. Damn. Now, just

for transparency for Vonda Carlo, for Jessica. You guys single or a uni relationship? Single, it's far I'm dating and we just decided that old date exclusively. So does that mean that means I'm in a relationship? You guys have had the talk. It's official. Did you have a strong Armim? What did you have a strong arm? It was a

mutual decision. We both decided because we have we grown, and we both have been in relationships, long term relationships, and it's like, why are we gonna spend all this energy trying to figure out, you know, putting energy into other people. Let's see if we work, and then if it don't, you know, we got time to go, you know, somewhere else later. So does that mean no condoms ship? Yes, that's exactly what that means. I mean that's the whole

reason I say yes, let's be honest. It's good now, Jessica, I feel like you were in a long term relationship with you, weren't I feel like bron Well, you had a man. We've seen him on the gram. That's not true, that that never happened. Okay, all right, I don't know. You know, you know what. You're around a lot of people, so sometimes we might see a picture and be like, oh, that must be her boyfriend. Well, I mean if the picture got deleted, you know, okay, I mean so he

just doesn't exist. Yeah, yeah, I don't know what you're talking about. So what's the rule right when you break up? Because sometimes ladies we break up and mentor and we think we might get back together. What's the rule on deleting pictures? Do you do it right away? Do you archive it right away? I don't even wait. As soon as we get in an argument, I start deleting pictures and blocking all that. Well, if you don't post the pictures to begin with, then you ain't got nothing to delete.

I like that, and you keep everybody outually doing business too. Well, I've only been dating him for eight months, so there's no pictures yet, so why it's only that ain't fun? You're just about to have a picture from the first date so you can show your grandkids when you know, oh no, they ain't not your business. They got them on their business. First of all, I don't have no grandkids yet. Know I'm saying that might end up being

their grandfather. That's what I'm saying. You gotta keep the pictures, keep the man and when we get there, how many potential grandfathers do they need to know? What? But you don't have put up in your granddaddy, And you can't have a hundred first dates with you the person you're gonna end up being with, That's what I'm saying. At least the first day you're supposed to take the picture, but can't post that you keep paying your own phone.

You know I have pictures. I have pictures of every day, every date, making trip, the whole nine locations right down, but not on Instagram. What about do you have those sneak pictures when he gets up to go to the bathroom and you're like all up in the bed just in case somebody gets slick. This ain't your bad no more? Bit hashtag not YouTube now Jessica, what's your rule? Though, as far as you know, you're a business woman, we look we look at you as an entrepreneur, your funny,

great sense of humor. But what's the rule when it comes to men on your graham? I've learned recently that I definitely don't even want to post it. I don't want to post it because if you post it to fast and if we take it down, everybody asks questions and then they only your comments. I really think that even deleting it, I think that's now your girlfriend fails. Like what it's like? Damn? What I rock with that?

I bet you do? Because for real, because I mean, social media can can be uh, it can definitely funk up your relationship. You know, they can bring people know your business the better. Right, It's trust, that's a fact, especially if you're cheating. Well, but I mean, if he's cheating, you don't want to embarrass yourself. You're posting pictures all over all over Instagram and he's doing all these crazy things. What are some things that a man can do that's

embarrassing to you? Just for the guys here, say y'all know what to do? She was embarrassed itself. That's not something that God could do. The embarrassing was cheating periods, just like that's you're so embarrassing, Like damn, cheating is one thing, and it could be embarrassing for you as a woman, but it's really on him. I think if you're in a relationship with someone, what's really important to

me is acknowledge. Man. If you don't acknowledge me, but you don't post them, but you don't post them, what kind of make me understand that? It doesn't make any stop talking not you don't have to when you're ready to acknowledge each other on Instagram. But I'm talking about in person. You ever go hey, this is my man and he's like, hey, this is my friend. Hey me, you know I'm talking about them? I would have murdered him. All right, that's embarrassing. What's some other things that God

can do that's embarrassing to you? Look crazy dressed crazy? Oh, she says, stared, other girls, holds, man selfies, man selfies embarrassing, Like, bro, you're embarrassing me. It's only one girl, yourself. Oh you know what, that's just embarrassing. When they tag celebrities like I don't know them and working with the room made me in the background in the corner of the picture, me and my bro Drake and he over there. No, no, no, you don't know him. He was, he was at the concert.

That's not your boy. We don't need you tagging people you don't know. Well, how about if the x is all upon his Instagram and he's responding back to her? But yeah, cut that, shut her eyes, all that Instagram stuff. Don't put your her eyes and herds emosies not from don't you sah? He said, back them. You're not allowed to hit people who you're sucking. Jesus, she's rightful. I'm about where she's from them. What about if you don't have no social media at all? Is that somebody that

you should be aware of? That's amazing appears on the Age grown as men over forty plus. Don't really get down like that. Motherfucking instagram sish, you just don't know it. They're larking. Why do you think they're watching? They're watching everything. Okay, I'll watch everything too. I'm a let's see everything. I love that little activity status too. Yeah you online, you ain't say good morning beautiful yet? What's up with that?

But well, let me ask you this, because there's a lot of things in the news about men having babies by other women even though they're in a relationship as a love unconditional. Could you be with somebody and if they messed out like that colt raised the next baby? What if the baby is really cute? Ain't no baby that cute? Damn that kid? Let me tell you something, No, you cannot convince me. Love and respect is the same thing. To me. You can't have one without the other. So

if you don't respect me, you don't love me. Don't love that hole and that baby. Have you good luck. I ain't raised with nobody's kids, because that's why he wouldn't raise yours. But let me ask you this. If if a guy teasing, does that mean he doesn't love you? Oh yeah, that's a good point. If a guy teasing you, does that mean he doesn't love you? Not necessarily? Not necessarily, it's gonna be in love and still it could Liken.

There's a lot of men that separate, well, most men could separate sex and emotion, whereas women were attached to our emotions more than men. So I do understand just the physicality of it. However, you can also choose to be single and not have me up in this relationship because you want to have sex with different partners, Like, just be honest with the woman. Maybe she would have said yes to that too. You know what I'm saying.

Some women, if you're honest with them and you say, hey, i'm dating other women, I'm not ready for a relationship yet, she'll be like, all right, let's see where the where this goes. Let her make the choice. Don't get me all up in this think of we together and were together. The problem is that guys don't want you to date anybody else. Yeah, definitely cannot take it. And that's called selfish. And if you would a selfish person be out. There's a lot of there's a few guys in the audience. Guys,

do you think you can separate love and sex? Like if you cheat on a woman, does that mean you don't love her? They don't want to answer. Let me ask you right here in the great shirt you drake, Drake, come on, come on, come on, fai drake. You want me to get that you don't if you treat on a woman, you don't love her, okay, or or he doesn't love himself. It doesn't know how to love because he had a mother that constantly let men cheat on her and stuff like that. And just listen, love has

to be taught. That has to be taught, just like you have to teach a man how to treat you and how you want to be treated. You is learned, it's taught. Whatever. You have to be taught right about love. And if you're not, you're never gonna be right. You're not. You're always gonna cheat, You're always gonna and to you, you love that person because you're just doing what you've seen done. So you can't say that they don't love them. They probably love them, They just don't they can't get

it together. Just feel like some men are more horny than at well I was gonna go there. They have higher drive, you know, yeah, because it's a difference between twenty five and forty five. So it takes some time to mature to when you get to a place sometimes where it's like, all right, I can see the value in my relationship over all of this new pussy. It takes a while for something to get there. How many guys and how many guys in the room have gotten

to that point none. Silence for the lad and girl. Okay, we know something you like some relationships in here, y'all ain't clapping every years? Now? What about? What about if your girl cheats on you, does that mean she doesn't love you? You was mad quiet when I asked the other question, the ladies says the ladies in the room. If you cheat on your man, does that mean you don't love him? I feel like that's another thing. I feel like some woman have a higher drive, Like some

woman just want to go out and get fucked. You know what I'm saying. Nah, ships, they sounds finding you and you go to another dude. You're about to be with that other dude. You ain't got no respect for you know, I feel like um for me for instance, Like I feel like my drive, contrary is a popular belief, is not that high, you know what I mean. So I could be with a guy for years and has sex could be trash, you know what I mean, Like like I'll find good parts of it, you know what

I mean, I'll find good parts. And so at no point when I cheat you, I can't. I mean when you're with them at the time the sex, you know, like a guy like Let's just say a guy doesn't have the biggest dick, and you like a big dick. You know what I mean, can't I got the type of girl who's gonna fall in love with somebody and not be with them because they got a little dick. I'm gonna make them feel like they have a really big dick, but they have a little said. Let me

ask you this, Stephanie. If you have a two is it okay to have a toy that's bigger than your man's dick? Oh my god? Everybody said yes, No, I disagree. I don't want anything, and it's not like I don't if I gotta get a toy, I can do bad all by myself place. Y'all know I don't use no toys. If y'all really listening, I always say that I never used a toy. I don't do the toy thing. So I just I need a real dick, like yeah, attached

to a real man. Am a real boy? Okay. So my question is what if you don't want to deal with the bullshit that comes with the real dick with the real maid. Because I got two fingers that I can also use. They work just as well as whatever No, I didn't. I didn't say that. I'm not only had two fingers, bitch trying to come from me like I got two fingers. No what I'm saying. So you're not saying don't masturbate, You just saying you don't penetrate. Yeah, no, no, no,

I masturbate. But I don't use toys nothing that I gotta put a battery in plug into the wall. We're good, You're blessed good. Don't ever try it. But I don't want to go back. Once you go there, there's no coming back from the vibrantor there's no embarrassed after I master their baits. So using a toy and going to get one just got me feeling disgusting thinking about it, like they're gonna judge me while I'm in the star. I look at this nasty bitch with this big tink dick.

Why I gotta be Why you gotta say pain because it's g G G G crazy? But gez, and you use toys. I have my women and that I love very mad. You know this. Yeah, y'all get y'all one, y'all gonna find a woman now, now you know, I was just reading about this toy that they have available now. I was telling you that they can actually help make you squirt. It's a toy and they say that this toy can help you squirt, and that if you've never squired it before, a lot of women could squirt off

of this. How many people in the hair can squirt? Raise your hand, staff, it's happening, but I still pet your hands. Sepy looks like a former PA. I don't believe in it. I think it's p I was like, whoa, I don't know why somebody even want a toy that makes you do that. You're in no remember a few times I did it. I was kind of embarrassed. Yeah right, I was like, it's like a whole Yeah, it's not cute.

I don't that's not one of my favorite things. And then you're gonna have to lay in the spot because you know, he ain't gonna lay in the spot. You know he ain't laying in the spot. That's the whole body side spot. Okay. The toy is called the Enjoy, the letter and Joy. They said it's heavy. It has a curve design with round ends and Enjoy. It's called the Pure wand and they say that it actually hit your G spot or your P spot, which is the

prostate your P spot? That yes, And they said, don't be afraid if you do have to pee a little, because it's all kinds of being exchanged. So don't hold this out back. Oh my god, I don't sell the toy. Don't bring your Yeah, bring back your gently used toy. And all right, So I'm gonna leave with our first two guests on this question. Who is the most wrong person in this situation? Okay, who is the most wrong in this situation? This is a cheating situation. Is the

man who cheated on his wife? The person the most wrong is the wife who never wanted to have sex the most wrong or the mistress who knew about his family and didn't care the mistress. And I nigga, what's not with y'all? With y'all he married? He like the god wrong? And listen, I'm gonna say all three parties are wrong. We all three parties are wrong equally. Don't mess with a marry it man, you mistress whore? Number

one Number two. If you have a husband, the only job as a wife, in my opinion, is to make it easy for your husband to be a good husband, and that sex is not being a good wife. So you're in the wrong. And as a man, you've committed for better or for worse and you cheat it. So all three are wrong equally. No, No, if you gotta pick one, if you gotta say, this person get kicks off the boat, who gets kicked off the boat? That whole get kicked off the boat. I'm keeping my husbtradna. No,

but he had spied, So can I enjoy toing he? No, you can't say underneath God and all that and lie to God and the great of the Chloe Kardashi. We don't know what his fault. I know you did not say the great words. You would have a quote and say, great, Jassica. Who's the most wrong in that situation? The man? Definitely man, because I mean he was I mean even though she didn't, she wasn't sucking him. He could have. I mean he should have masturbated. He should have. Give this man a mite.

Somebody just come up him. I don't write trap when we need him. He could have. He should have. Jake, don't worry, we got some good flicks on board. If you know what I'm saying now, you think the wife was the most wrong. No, the hug. I don't know if this is the right environment for you, sir. You're sitting in the middle too. We're gonna jump you and your girl, gonna help us. Stephanie, who's that? Stephanie, who's

the MOUs wrong? I feel like the mistress because you know, a married couple has their problems and they have to work with that. Under God, you know what I mean. The mistress is just coming in and fucking shut up, like, guess you don't have if it wasn't her, if it wasn't her, it was gonna be another thing. But oh well, all of them, all of them, all of them, all of the spaces just die, all of y'all. Fut you buy?

Because the marriage is the marriage is the marriage is a marriage, and he's married, not her, so he needs to respect his own relationship for you, but ain't how about respect the relationship? And you don't you know under under marriage, under God, you know, divorce doesn't even exists on the God, you know what I'm saying. So forever they're married, forever the rest of their lives, they have to deal with each other that maybe not they might get a divorce the divorce rate higher than the state.

He's gonna come and go, Like you said, it could be one girl or another one and another one. They're gonna come and go. Like you know, revolving a marriage is something you gotta work on. It something you gotta you know, you can't just you can't just throw him off the boat. He might get it. So why do we want to be why we had not his ass? When that happens? Who we want to beat? The ass that the mistress? Man? Why is it that we always want to be her ass if it's his, and that

you're gonna want to beat her? She knew. The way he explained that is that she Yeah, but you want to be his ass too, But you can't beat him, so you picked the weaker person. You can't. I can't beat I mean, I to fight a man, but I ain't never win, for I'm not gonna lie like man, pick up a chair, my nigga, don't look like bow out. They're like, you know, there's I can take that nigga on too. But if it was like my man like no, I'm I love my I love my man too much

to even want her them. I don't even want to fuck him up. I'm the type of bit if you come snitching on my man telling me you fucking want my man, I'm gonna beat your ass and I'm gonna making my sandwich like GE's the funk out here. Now, we're gonna work this out like he's like fight. Try two guys that describe it. That's nobody's business. So you said if you're if you're nigga fux somebody I was, she gonna fix him a sand when she's gonna go fox somebody, I mean ef Actually, I an fix him

of sand words. That's my nigga. I'm gonna stay. That's you're gonna have rap pois that motherfucker blue ship. Why'll go on the blood period, blood in the spaghetti and all that. It's gonna be something. I'm from the same place. You gotta buying him. You're gonna make him a stand which all right, Well, listen, we gotta keep this y'all moving by buying the college Jessica, Jessica, make sure you plug your book as well. Okay, sure it doesn't have anything to do with sucking dick or any one of

the miracle drops. It's um, I mean, I totoot my own home. But I'm a multi millionaire. That's just teaching you guys how to get to the millions. So the book is nine and nine. You can buy it online at www dot I love colors dot com and love a spell. You vu fank a miracle jobs to make his dick brow just it's just it's a miracle question, No, it can. It can bring his hairline back on his mushtash. So I'm feeling his I don't tell me, y'all need that give him confidence? And who fuck you better? If

he's confident, I don't know what you said. For a year, you didn't get funk right, nah, little dick right? Not come on, I'm not trying to blast none of my access. She even for that timeline on it like two. I didn't say that. I just said I would come on. I was giving us scenario old baby show. Ain't nobody's trying to put up somebody on blast. All right, Well, we thank y'all so much for coming because we do have another guess So again, vonder Carlo, and you know

you can see her at Carolines all the time. She's just stand up coming. You have a book out as well then you got speak fluent Man dot com or Coach Vaughan dot com. So there's I started a new Patreon. Coach Vawan's corner Um was on an NBA channel on series sex Time. I was the first woman have her own show on a channel. Um it's been expanded to a digital media show. So go to coach on dot com see how to join, and there is options where you could get my book for free and free comedy

passes to my monthly show that's starting in May. Al right, well, thank you following me on twittering Instagram. Thanks ivy by y'all makesha. Y'all support our beautiful black women. You know, we gotta support each other. Yeah, woman SAIDs to be my black excellence. You know most time million dollars. Now, where is Trap? I know traviing somewhere in the audience. Trap,

Where are you at right? You gotta not Trap? Come over here, because while we are waiting for Melly to come to the stage, I hope you all are familiar with Mellie. She has a new project. Car fases this out right now? Okay, where's Mellia too? O? Cassie Hey, Nelly? Trap After Melly we're gonna do audience questions. I want to make sure you're in position and ready. I didn't know you were here. Do you guys go chap track tras, Yes, trap cause he calls in all the time. Yes, Melli,

you can sit right here, Steph, move down. Trav always comes in through the back door, but today he came in through the front. Alright, so let's introduce Mellie. She's from Harlem. Hello, everybody. We didn't even ask where everybody was from tonight. Who's from Brooklyn? Alright, that's all that matters, no kidding, I've a right uptowns in the building. Queens alright, alright, what am I missing? Jersey Joysy not one four? Alright? He whips. We had to know Philly was in here. Good.

So Melly's been traveling a lot, so we appreciate you for coming because I know you have a lot going on, a lot of shows, a lot of hitting the road, you have a project, you'll congratulations. We were listening to it as we was getting ready, so it was incredible, and I've seen her perform last night and she killed it. Y'all. If y'all can, if y'all can see one of her shows. Make sure y'all get to that she's not performing at night, So calm down, but when y'all can. But tonight, we're

gonna find out more about Melly. Now, first, we're gonna do some lip service back chat, and we're gonna talk about some things that have been happening in the news and I want to get your opinion on it. Okay, So we're looking at this Floyd Mayweather versus Chantel, who is his ex girlfriend. He says that she stole three No, she says he stole three million dollars worth of jewelry. Now, the thing is they broke up and he took that stuff back. That sailing, that's that's being a repo man,

because they did break up. He three million dollars is a lot of jewelry. Do you let somebody walk with that? They were good? Yeah, yeah, we take patty for him, you know, it's patty for him, like so much money. So, Milly, if somebody gives you a game up and you're in a relationship, right, they buy you some tulry, you break up for the stuff back, what do you say give him backing it back to Like, yeah, me too, I agree with that. I'm not getting she got that much pride, pride?

It was a gift. Can I get my Cluti back? No? Can I get all them goods? Like? No, what so I'm getting me get you. It's always better to just give it back. You don't want nobody talking about yeah I gave it. I look, she got that on that was me give it back, get that ship. By his tone, see, I think with that, I can't agree if he's gonna be that petty where he going around like, oh she won't give me my stuff? That you a whole bird as nigga. Take your ship. You know what you do?

You bleat it up, burn it up, and then you throw the ashes at that nigger like this is it. This will be you. Listen, this will be you next. If you don't need me to funk alone. But you're not gonna burn tulry right, I mean, figure it out because if he's that asked upon it and be like, yeah, I bought something else, I don't even have that ship

no more. Bro. Yeah you know what I think. I think a lot of times when guys ask the stuff back, that's the way you're still trying to have like a connection and stay in contact on the way to still be able to communicate with you and come back and have one more conversation. Y'all look at me. I told you before I had a guy that asked me for his stuff back and I threw it all out the window. I was like, yeah, you got it. I was outside take your shot, yep, and I do his PlayStation out

the window too. Let me tell you something. I know somebody that gave their baby mom's bracelet to the next bit. Don't give that niggaback ship and listen that bit just still wearing that ship. I'll be looking at in the pictures like this is sad girl live. I know. I'm yeah, that's on a personal Listen, it's a second hand bracelet. You got a chill since I wouldn't be walking around like yeah, you're ready to know. I've seen that bles

that happens a lot. There's this one person I'm not gonna say who it is, but he he has like a set roleux and a set of bags, broken bags, and he every time he has a on front, you don't have to say it is, and that they break up and the girl don't got nothing but his next girl bronk out the same bag. Well, melly, have you ever back slid into a relationship, Like, if you break up with somebody, is there a chance that they can get back together with you? Are you the type of

person that's like onward? No, I never got back on anybody. Once it's done, is done. She's giving ship back and she moving on. Okay, ain't no coming back. But I'm sure there's guys that are hitting you up now. I mean, you got a lot going on that used to talk to you. That's like, yo, I'm saying, you know, I know I messed up, but we was younger and now I see what's going on, and I know I messed up, and I learned that. You know how, guys, I'm a

working progress. That's guy's famous. None, you know, I'm a working progress. I learned a lot. Just nothing mons just done is done. It's just a respecting Have you ever messed up in the relationship? And so even if you mess up, have you ever begged somebody to take you back? No? If I messed up, I'd be like, so what we're gonna do? And then what's what's your decision? Right? I'm out? That's it. You can't say bag that sounds a little crazy, like beg somebody to take you back. Yeah you do

you know guys be doing a fake terrace thing. Yeah yeah, I've seen real tears before, but what did you do you think they was real? Now, man, don't just be crying like that that they do. No, no, no, I'm saying I've seen man cry, but I don't think it'd be fake. It'd be fake, y'all. Yeah, yeah, you're not be their last resort. That's the last freak. He smells like a goddamn mother. Now it works every time to girls. Now they really be sad. They really be sad because

you know they know you're leaving for real that time. Yeah, but and now you feel bad for them. You're not gonna let nothing. No, I don't I see that. I'm not gonna lie. When guys cry, it's like you lose this fat Yeah, you're being like, oh so you man, I look now you want to cry out. It's so hard, but you're crying the ship your bitch. Man up. He wasn't crying when you were sucking that bitch, or maybe you were, maybe he was. Have you ever had a

guy cried while he was having sex with you? Oh my god, no cry but not you made a guy cry before, not a guy but yeah, okay, she said, multiple multiple guys, and yeah you talk ship to them. Huh yeah. What's the worst thing you could say to a guy to hurt his feelings? Don't even think that works anymore though, because he so much you know, my homeboy. See. The problem with both of those things is that makes

you look bad. So you were talking me all this time with my small dick, and now you want to complain or right, you know what you should say in steady dick? A small Your dick was very easy to suck. Oh my god, never hurt my job, never made my ship pop out of her some feelings. Have you ever met a guy in his dick was too big? Yeah, Belly had a flashback. Yes, no, no, no, not one. No, you saire, I can talk by the way you're moving in the seat. Yeah, I looked like it hurts like

you remember like ship? You know? Yes? I actually yo? Can I get like you need a drink? We need to drink girl, heney, Yeah, let's get some honey. Seat stage straight honey. Oh yeah, okay, we see where this is going. Now, how much do you talk about your previous relationships when you get in a new one, do you ever talk about like your exits and talk about what we're wrong? No, I'd just been like listening, like that's how we're moving and if you do this is

no I'm gonna move like this. Yeah, take it or leave it? Yeah, not like that for you, baby? What about your step? You ever talk about your exes? Um when I was younger, not now, not at this age. But it's just a nightmare. That's the worst thing you can ever do. When you're with somebody else and you're talking about your axes because you're thinking about your acts and you're comparing it. It's like, no, this isn't the one for you. You're still on that one. Move on,

get a lie. Really, I feel like like I think so that's what I mean. That's my opinion. So I don't think you could be like stuck on the person. I think that you could just be like, no, I don't think you should be talking about your axes. But I mean to each on her own, that's you know, that's but what if they ask you what you like that? What happened if they asked you? It's like, damn, grow up? Why do you want to know about my past bro? So they like, yeah, you're supposed to kind of know

certain things. And then you know, okay, if you're ain't eating her in circles and you're gonna bump into axes and things like that. You know, there's certain things that you should always you know, you shouldn't put your your boyfriend or your girlfriend in a situation, you know what I mean. But I don't think you should just give them the roster. I don't think you should just build

the beans. And I'm just saying it is but sometimes sometimes it helps people know more about you, like you know, in my last relationship, Yeah, I think speaking about situations and not specifically the relationship that the situation happened in its healthy. Like it's good to care about things that you've been through, things that you've experienced, what you're laughing, what you don't like. Then that's a good dialogue so that y'all can be able to move on in the

right way. It don't necessarily have to be well when I was with Tyrone, you know, but you can still, you know, talk about the situation in that way. It's a line of communication and everybody I think that even like if you're filling out an application, right they say previous employers. So if I might employ this nigga as my boyfriend, I want to know what y'all he had before this, because I gotta see was he working at toys I rest or was he working for a hedge fund?

And if he owed the business or did he have a trash box like you got even that loriote. That might suck up something that could have been great right from the beginning. It might not need that the business. It might not be that great, didn't You can't really jest because like in order to order tick to let, you gotta work there for two years. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I want to know how long the relationships went on. Not like I need to know details of everybody, but

at least the important, the important one. I don't want to know nothing about my man's past because everything I know it turns me off. So you don't have me that you don't need to be with him. You don't, you don't you don't google him or nothing to stock him. I think really highly of myself, So anything it could be that he could have been with Percess Diana, and

I'll be like you was away hull. You know what I'm saying, like the oldest man you know, Like I don't want I don't want to think about him with nobody. I mean, hopefully we don't know all the bitches that he fucked with, Like you don't like, just explained to me the situation. I ain't gotta know Katie and this bitch and that bitch. Just tell me what the funk happened. Get to the point why, y'all, Nick is broke up.

I think I think it's important to her. How are you how a guy talks about his exes to like, is he still respectful? Because I think I have a problem when a guy tries to trash his ex like he could be like, you know what, days didn't work out and it was what it was. I messed up, she did some things wrong. I learned a lot from it. I liked it. I like guys that are very respectful when they talk about women in general. Even if she met she got her hennessy and one of the names

that he taught you might be tyrone. So you gotta be careful that it wasn't what ladies y'all know to be careful nowadays, right, it's twenty nineteen. Anything goes. Now, let's get back to Mellie. Mellie, have you ever been considered a psycho? Like in a relationship, You know how guys be like, she's crazy. I had a feeling, So what's some of your psych Curly head girls are crazy?

All right, curly head girl, But you know what's what's some some things that you do that make you psychle because you know, guys love to call that's crazy for the littlest thing. Yeah, I think I think men when you know who you are and what you wanted, automatically think you're crazy. That's it. Yeah, I think I think the most out of line stuff I've done, which is like normal you No, it's really normal. Like I just keyed the car. That's about that's about. That's about it.

That's the most of your kind of like reflected. And you get someone car. That's the worst thing you could do to the car because if you you could get a new tire, you could get a new windshell. But the key to ship you gotta done, Like did you write bitch, Wow, you gotta put cheater mean ertie. So I keep it and then I was like pay my car damn. So you already even try to hide the fact that it was you, because you know, sometimes people keep a car and be like, I don't know what

she's talking about. No, not did that ship so whatever? No? No, no, no, no, it was done. So it was like, there's my mark. Damn what did he keep your car? I don't have a car. That's why you keep this car. What if you caught up your metal card and there was a monthly always wrong with you? But if you used all your sky out like that, I'm taking all her ship,

You're gonna be picked. Na. Na, I hadn't actually like stood with my ship really yeah, And I was just like, wow, like he stood with my like items, like he kept it? Yeah he kept mine? Yeah yeah, what kind of things did he keep? Change means and stuff like that? Damn your ship, not ship that he bought. No, my ship. That was so that you can come back and get it. And so you can hear that one last conversation that leaves said, you know, na, I feel like give us that,

stay with it. I'll be out chalking up as a low business. So you never got it back. No, no, no, I've got better stuff. Yeah, I'll be good got ship. You gotta just leave people like that, just be out. Yeah yeah, just live your life, be like that made you happy. Whatever. Man, All right, now we have a listener who actually asked us an advice question, so we're gonna ask you. All right. So over the weekend, she met a guy at the bar. She said, we came

back to my place. We hooked up, which I consented to, but I feel like there's things that happened that I did not. He had a condom and so did I. But then she said she noticed that it was off. Wait, he led the condom off. She had a condom and he had a They built that condoms. He put the condom, both got condoms. Well, he didn't use her. She put the condom on. She's saying they were haven't protected sex love daying here? No, I don't know, girl, you knew

you because you can't fail when that condom is not there. Right, Yeah, you definitely could feel that. So if a guy wasn't that good, says Yeah, you could feel that risk going in. Maybe she was drunk, Yeah, she might have been fucked up. Even when you drunk, you feel like get out of here. So now what would you do is that somebody that you would say, I'm never talking to him again. Yeah, he's trying to chap you, y'all already fucked wrong. You

might as well stick with him. That's your boyfriend announcing y'all go together. Technically, it never happened. That never happened unless you have something permanent as a reminder, like her pies on aid. But it only never happened if he had the condom on. It definitely happened at the condom. I mean, if it wasn't something that you want to remember or when it happened, it didn't happen. Since just

keep it moving, don't keep that in your consciousness. But if you tell him to pull out any desert um, go get to Lamb and never spoke to him again because he's trying to chap you. All right, now, let me ask you this question. Is it possible to get a man to give you money without ever having sex with him? Yes? Yes, yes, every, yes, every every guys, And the answer it is yeah, I just want to stand. Yes,

where's all the sugar? Daddy's a here tonight. He based his hand over there right there with the ballad we want you to make some noise don't put your damn hand up. It's dark where you at. I think it's actually easy. I feel like a lot of people like don't listen to females that we let you gotta you gotta wait, I gotta nigga to you know, get money. Like at the end of the day, you don't gotta spray your legs for anything. If somebody want to do something,

they'll do it out of the heart. Okay, So let me ask you this, and let's be honest. There's a few guys in the room. Have you ever given a girl money about her guests without having sex with her and keep it real? I see no people not ahead, raise your head. No, okay he it like no. But if the whole girl right here then pointed her man out, she like this nigga right yeah, it's called according Like,

what's wrong with that? There's nothing wrong with that. Like if you buy a girl a thirty dollar watch and you never hit like that, you're you're bucking your trick. But like you can buy like a purse or a shoe or your words. I don't, I don't. I don't agree with that. I feel like no, no, no, I feel like if if somebody is gonna give you something that should be no reason why they expect something back, right, And if that person is like that, be out, just

be out. Guys, think they bout you a drinking You owe them ship. Yeah, take the gift with you when you go. Okay, remember it with the gift or leave that ship. Y'all need no gifts. Get that ship by yourself. Okay, we'll still pack the gift, but I get it by myself too. I don't turn down the gifts girl, you know. And like, what do you take a gift from somebody that you don't like that I don't like? Yeah, Like,

let's say that guys trying to talk to you. You know you don't like him, you know you don't want to sun with him, and they get you a gift. Would you accepted? No, that's taking a vantage with somebody. Don't take advantage. It's a gift. You don't be really, But then it's like you got to accept that gift. Now if he keep buying them, because if it's somebody that likes you, you accepted a gift from them, they're

gonna keep doing stuff like that. I can't be friends, no, but that guys, don't work like God, they don't think y'all just gave a gift. She accepted it. Now what you're doing? Oh you want to hang out? I got said, I got big like that continues, you feel me? Nah, y'all y'all had to stop with this and this. You got it out And I'm like, yeah, you can see me. I got a show tomorrow night. Yeah, I mean yeah, and you can buy the tickets. Yeah, that's that's good

for me. And sending and bring a gift when you come. I agree with Melly though, because you know, I'm not into getting gives some people that I don't like because I just feel like it's rude and it kind of gives them like a false taking advantage of them. Right. I was trying to convince Angela is what to do? Oh wow, it was somebody. I was buying her gifts right, and she ain't like them. It was a while ago, and and I didn't want to. She was like saying, no, no,

I'm my girl. Yes, yes, we were the same size. I'll take them. If you don't want to, I'll take the gifts just like I guess I said, I just hooked you all up. No, no, no, I said, you take the gifts that give them to me. I wasn't trying to do no work. Listen all right, now, let me ask you this. If your man said that your outfit is too revealing, would you change your clothes? Yes? I think I would. Yes, Yeah, I think as your man,

he already knows how you dress. So if a guy is now trying to change you while you're in a relationship, Like I said, just be out. You're not my father. But what if you're overdoing it that day? Because you know how some days you're like these short it's a little short, but I'm still going out. But then that

comes some self respect you shouldn't. It is a limit, like if you're wearing a short, if you're wearing a top, have some long chance on if you got shorts, have your long how what if you hot and you want to have on short short? You know what I'm saying. Like, but you're like, I got a big but there's a balance. You know what to wear even if you have a big butt. This certain pants that still looks flattering on

you and still give you air. No, no, no, I understand that, but I just feel like, my man, should you really talk to me about anything. If he'd be like, yo, today, I think that has a bit much. I'm gonna respect him because that's my man. He's not gonna trying to play me or nothing like if it's somebody that I'm calling my man, he's not gonna try to like do nothing like that. So I would be like, damn, maybe

my titties is big. So but then that comes like I said, that's how you dress right right, Like, I'm not going against it. It's just more soul like when you're in a relationship, the person already knows what you're bringing to the table as to why you guys in the commitment for me, so it's just like, all right, this person is like this, she dresses like this. Don't try to change me while you already met me a

certain way. What if you don't like what he has on what I mean, tell them I'm still I mean, I mean I could obviously I could communicate with each other, but it's just it's just a difference if he's telling you what to wear. Yeah, because we were talking about this earlier. Could you Day the guy who just really couldn't interest at all, Like when we wouldn't be Day you hate you feel me like Angela that they care

about that kind. Not that I don't care, but I definitely have dated guys and I didn't really like the way to turn off. I'm from Harley. But you can help them dressed nice over there. You can help them be better. You can give them at vice on what to wear and how to change. And you know, one if it was like, can I wear one of your dresses? Like young? Come on guys's fashion because you gotta know how to dress a man gotta not address that's like

very important to me. Like you know when even when you was younger, the first thing you were looking at as a man's shoes, Like you would just look straight down. So I think, well, yeah, I look at I don't look at shoes first when I was younger, that was the first thing I want to Now I'm like, I'm trying to look at anything. I don't I look at it. They got any plaque because guys be hiding that ships that let me see open your mouth. They ain't never

been to the dentist. You gotta look at you gotta look at fingernails important and there is oh dirty years yeah and up they knows like like I'm trying to have a bugger. Come on, no, no like if if if we're having like you know it's of course and you have a bugger, like, get off, that's mad, Like I'm not about to look at you. If you love me, if you love him, you'll pick it out for him. Now we're in the no like, you're not about to wait? Yes you want know you ladies dome there you'll picked

the bugger out your man's nose. Not there is sack. That's nasty. I'm sorry, I got you away. You gotta bug a way okay, there it's gone turned off easily. You're gray where you love somebody, you gotta gonna get it and then pluck it across the road. It's don't stop. And then I put his finger in your pussy. Now you got a bugger pussy like you picked it? What's your picky? Now? Come on, come on, buggers make your

pussy dry? Yeah, like just bad hygiene night. What are some other things to make your pussy dry before you get out of here? So people know, Okay, that's hygiene. Still yeah, I just hiding and just corny people. What if you come there craving the air mattress on the ground, just laid up for you. He's like, come on, baby, coming around. We're going to the little room. We're not going over there. What about a ball of belly? Does a ball of belly bother you? What a ball of belly?

He got a little bell beer belly? Huh Nah. I think that's cute sometimes, like when guys have little bullies and stuff that mean they're eating good. Yeah. So what's your status now, melly? For all the guys that are gonna see this, what's your status? I'm working, working. It's easier to learn in a relationship for you, just in life and work, Like is it easier for you to have somebody or is it easy if you do not

have to worry about that. I don't care. It's the same like when I go into something, I go in as myself. You seem like you would be beefing with a guy a lot like y'all would argue, are you? I think? Are you argumentative in a relationship? Now? I'll do it for fun if anything, like just to get at you. But I don't really got to arguing now, I'll do it for fun, Like how you got type? But it's just like I don't know. I don't like arguing that ship gets boring. You seem like you get

bored of guys too. You get bored, get bored, I get bored. I like spontaneous, like, what were we doing today? What's the best day you ever had? The best day? M m? What good? Damn with crickety crickets cet? What's the best Let's we'll let the other ladies answer while you I think. What's the best date you ever had? This right here? Yeah, right now, tonight here with y'all. You know, my my favorite people right here in the rum. That's the best date I ever had tonight. Thank you

all for being here with us in the world. What we appreciate that, Larry all? That was nice? Thank you crazy? That's your best day? Learned y'all? That's whack? What about your what's your best day? You better answer right, says she put her pimping down on you. Just in case, just watching this time where we met in the Bahamas for one night. It was pretty cool. Yeah, I mean, who goes out the country for one night? It was cool. Me and my baby. It was nice that Okay barely

remembers now you spoke something at her. I don't even think it was like the place. I mean it probably it was because of the place. It was like very old school um, old school bar, but it was more so the person I was with. It's alway a company in the chemistry becaus, just drinking wine and just doing dumb ship up and out feel it all grown. What about you, Stephanie, what was your best date ever? I don't know if I should tell the truth or if

I should lie. I live, okay, So my best date um was Valentine's Day in Paris, like five years ago. That was really nice. We had to like a night exclusive restaurant and it was like everybody was dressed up and it was a really beautiful day, and then we went to the club. It was just really beautiful night and it was in Paris. Amazing. Yeah, and I lied right now, Starry up. No, that was my second favorite day. She's not gonna tell. I don't want to tell you guys.

The condom on the condom came off on the first well, listen, best day. I want to thank Mellie for joining us tonight. This is our first time really getting to hang out and we had a lot of fun and congratulations on phases, makes y'all y'all all, makes all y'all all listen to phases. First of all, I just love your voice anyway, even when you're just talking. Thank you, thank somebody got two flowers. No, no, your mommy says your mean. No, my mammy sad me. No,

tolly on behalf of your mom. We just wanted to present you with the she says, congratulations, and all your sisters from here. Yea, wait, y'all that would be all for mama. Yea, she said, yes, yeah, they're very pretty too. She picked my nose, She picking book, She picking Buggy, You love Buger pussy see a lot about Oh yeah, and my best day, um um. We went to the gun range. So you know what, just what y'all think. Angela's innocent? Okay, that was That was a fun day.

We went to the gun range. I had never did that before. I was skeep shooting and then skeep shooting. You was skeep sep skeeep oh skeepp, motherfucker. Thank you, man like you, Thank you, Mallie. Next up we have and he's gonna be at Caroline's all weekend. Hi Davis is here and by the way. He's a very busy man. He's got a lot going on, so we appreciate him coming through. Just been a little bit of time with us. I know y'all seen him with holes on the Graham

and all that. I see the Don Julio in the building. I see y'all. Get there your cor there you go, you want to drink? Give me a little song? Okay? All right? Oh y'all got the ladies in here tonight? Shot off the ladies in the building tonight. Yeah, Oh this is white. Look, I'm about to get real freaky here, freeman freakman. Yeah, that's me. Let's let's toast to something. What were toasted too? Were tasting to you shows? It's your first time in Caroline's right, first time? Yeah, so

this is a big deal and this is iconic. That's our first time here too, like on the stage. Oh alright, so how since you don't have a lot of time, let's get right into it. What's your favorite thrust speed during sex? Like? How fast do you go thrust? Did you say thrust? What's are you? Slow? Thrust? The medium? Fast speed? I like I like it slow. I gotta feel what I'm doing, like she didn't even eat you into this motherfucker. None, I thrusted him in immediately. Thrust

speed it's different, but no, I like me. I like it. I like it slow. I like to feel what I'm doing. Like like like, let's like all the young guys like in fans thought, you know what I'm saying, they'd be trying to you are young. I'm young, though, but I'm a look like I'm a I'm a mature young guy. Okay,

So when you were younger, you were a jack rabbit. Yeah, yeah, like you because like when you you want to you want to make it feel like yeah, I beat that mother up right, you know, and then we'd be like, what the fun was he doing? Like that hurt Listen, if you killed the pussy, it will die and then it's over and then that's it real slow, real slow motion for me. But the ladies, but y'all like it's

slow because sometimes we do want a quickie. But you can't just go right in with like the bang bang bang, like you gotta like work up to that, even if it's only like five slow strokes. Give me something, something you need something. I don't like quickie, like not that I have to be having sex for hours, but like that two minute thing, I don't. I don't like that and not fast he's not enough, Like I'm not pleased.

So I love a quickie because I get up early in the money to slow and session when being think you man, okay, I gotta go to work. So it was like the earliest, like you have safety for like it's like real early in the morning. No, don't me because I'm trying to get my last few minutes of sleeping. I would be so mad if I got it. I get up at four o'clock in the morning for work.

If you try to wake me up at three forty five, I'm mad at you all day like and then I'd be thinking about it like damn, I thought would have had fifteen minutes more. I wouldn't be tired right now. Hit it from the side. Now, we do have a lifeline here for you today because you come Detroit. Okay, so we do have another Detroit native hair. Want to build it with I swear vezzo, Okay, want to build it. I think he's coming to the stage. Come with it, okay. So now I gotta ask both of y'all before we

get into this. Are you guys singlar in relationships. I'm married. Oh yeah, you're married. Yeah, I'm married. You're married? Married married Mary? Okay, I ain't. I ain't married, but I'm in a relationship. But me and my girl, like girls on any of you. All women can through that as tonight she's talking about where my rain, my ring is in my heart? But no, no, now, that's why I said, are you mad? Married? Man? Wear that motherfucker? Who was my husband? You have to ring around his eye? That

damn right. We're together and you here, I'll take pictures in that motherfucker. I post my lady on Instagram though I put on, I promote for the ladies, and you don't have your ring on. You're sending out the wrong You ain't never seen the More episode. You're sending out the wrong y'all see the More episode when he took his ring off at the gym. You're sending out the wrong message. But looked a lot of niggers behind their relationships, like right now, she always you ain't post that, you

ain't ship? Wait, how why can't you have it on Davids? What do you think about this? I mean, listen to me, if I was married I'd probably been the same boat, you know, one thinking you better play the damn ring on. Okay, I mean I wear my rings, like I said, me and my girl like girls, so she ain't tripping on what I'm on. See you blessed, but I'm blessed too. But you gotta you gotta easy. I don't gotta chill on cheat though I've been chilling me, like what are

you wearing? Sometimes like that, like what's the sometimes like the church and things like I FeelA you know what I aren't. You aren't used to wearing the ring, so if I put it on, I put it on. Put that on, but you got all that other jewelry on you all stop Chane. He got on talking about I don't be remembering the way bust down, Batiana want to rest, and you're talking about you can't win on red. You know what I've been forgetting Sometimes sometime I put that

Where where is the ring? Right now? She got it. It's at the crib. There's somewhere special. It's in his heart like he's in my heart, and it's somewhere else special. Watch chain. All that need to be with that place somewhere got her. She got the same type of jewerly I got. I'm in love though, I'm in love love her ring on right now? She got that motherfucker' she better talking about boyfast? She ain't having it. Okay, hold down, we're trying to make these men feel comfortable while we're here.

So let me ask you this. If she wasn't wearing her ring though, would that be a problem? Okay forgot lies, I'm tripping my girl, don't got her ring Aw, it's gonna be a problem. But like, I'm comfortable though, man, my old lady, we got a good relationship. I'm comfortable all right. Now let me ask you guys death, and I'm gonna ask the ladies too. Is there anything that you've ever been embarrassed to say that you like in

the bedroom? Have you ever been kind of embarrassed that yo? Um, you know, I always wanted to shy this, but yeah, like like because like a lot of guys don't like like. I think they call her a gooch. Okay, okay, you know what that thing called? He said. I believe that I call it. I think I heard one time they had you got what we got glad on like the

gooch todge. We like the goose touge like I think it ain't the loo the gooch man, We like the google that ye'all love that ship, but all the thun like you don't like the goose s y'all are can different here tonight at different now. It's the only thing. He got his hands in the air like, no, no, no, he like it the most. Sobody that wait, what are you ebarrassed about? I've been in Bearress before, I'm bus friends before, and I act like I didn't come yet. Okay,

every nigga do that? You know? On ntil I he asked, what's the goog? That's the the that's the space between the asshole and the ball right here? Like it ain't. It's just you know what I'm saying. It's a happy trail for min fellas here, y'a. So y'all ain't with me tonight? Keep it windding, Okay, I'll see you. Wait back to my door and I'll see you my store. Let's see you. I'll see you. So how do you ask for that? I mean, don't? I mean you don't ask for you just rap her hand like put your

hand under the gooch right quickly? Do you have to have them just showered. Do you think about that? Do guys think about like I have to shower before I eat A shower time, every single time? Polling out there because Marco don't give me no dirty vaginas, so I can't give her no dirty dick. That's right. Do you ever just do it? Wet, white, white work though they work perfection? No, no, no, that is not the same as washing your ass. Would you want me in the

tell the difference? If you the West, yes, it's in me. If you want the gooch and all that licked on, you get your nasty ass in a shower. That ship. Don't like that dirty couch. We're boycotting couch. You better lather that ship too. I don't just want you jumping in and out the rints to repeat, I'm gonna do you save? Do you shave the gooch? Well, she shaves like my girl, like, she do all the shave like she don't like hear around my ball, Like, what's she trying to give me oral sex? So she do all

the shaves? Do you like, let your leg up so she get under it and everything? When your lady, you can do whatever you feel. Did you have it? Did she haven't cut you or nip you a little bit. She has she didn't do that a few times. That damn, that's like silly and Mr Ship that's an old joke right there. Ya gotta be old and watch Color Purple to know that joke. But like how Tavis has to go because he has a very busy night, but he is gonna be at cat. I'm gonna finish my drink.

I'm here, do you want to finish this drink? Her people were good, all right, Okay, they think we are right there. You guys, like you know about this cooch thing before this? Do you do that? Goops? I don't know about the goople from Detroit. He got his buffs on, so he tough to night like buff make you act different, you know, and not mean shades. Yeah, people that mean shades. So the shades and something like both of something big

in Detroit. He got his shades on it. Now he hat it different, like like the gooch touched, you know. But he was the one waving his hands in the air. I'm a gooch man. I don't care what y'all in here. I'm a gouch man, and I'm proud of you, okay, proud of you, But do you stop at the gooch and I stop at the I mean the gooch is cool. I mean I ain't at that point in my life like some guys like the ass touch. I ain't at that point. Can't eat your ask your girlfriend and your

friends and the other girl and whatever y'all got. Well you know what we should that's what you're married a gooch to ask. I don't like, I'm cool on that going wrong with whatever that ship. I don't do the gooch and do nothing nothing. I ain't doing that. I would be divorced wear you're ring. I'm not like the guys that say that, like be the ones that on it the most. I don't. I'm telling you because I

do that ship so like I didn't. There's some different types of niggas aig like, yeah, I put my finger in the gass here and there and they be like, oh that's disgusting, And the next thing you know, I'm like you with some weird ass niggers, then you with some weird though short chat me. But niggas say that the mood like that, that's weird when I didn't swing it back. But where you get his ass or get get his ass played with might listen all the guys you who act like they didn't want the goose arch

tonight they're going on to night living. Know what I'm saying? That why you're talking about touching many? I gotta see what you're talking about. You hold it up. I know how it gonna. Trust me. You man ain't gonna tell you that he gets finger up his butt. But he gets a finger up his butt, and you probably do not saying you're looking. I'm from right here, baby, New York City, right, real niggas in New York. I don't think they're playing with their ass. I don't know. Y'all

know who's that day? Was on from New York? They might be from Detroit. Why are you playing? Look at all the Detroit Homers, the cold and the thief. But all right, let's talk about some more things, perhaps in the bedroom. That's a little edgy. So so you said you come fast and keep going and pretend you didn't. No, no, no, don't put that on me. You you said that, No, don't know. I didn't say I come fast. I said I bust fast before and kept going because I was embarrassed.

That is that the same thing I just said. I'm said before he said one, he said, let's out, y'all. Now, ladies, the ladies do know when that happens, how y'all all of us side ain't. It's got thriving. Let get all way and then you take get a little softer for a second. We feel it kind of you. I don't work like you feeling. They do a little. They have a little flight seizure real quick. You know what I'm saying that we can feel that ship. Now you know what I'll do, y'all go fast for a second. Let

me have that all this. Let me ask you a question. Do y'all notice if a nigga took a pill to keep it shut up or not? I don't know if I wouldn't know that, but maybe if you went those pills Angela at the juice bar, silverback, so if y'all want to get them there available for ten dollars. Y'all notice if the nigga took them, like I would think I can notice a difference, like especially if it's somebody you constantly funk with. It's like, nigga, you don't suck

five times in a row. Where this coming from? You know what I mean so, yeah, we're gonna be if it won't go down. Oh you do, tell us you just stay hurd and pay hard mad long we come, we stay hard. Well, wait, you mean without the pill or without and you're doing good, nigga, that's why you're sucking two bitches. That one can call your girl a bit But you know what I'm saying. I'm young, dog like, I'm not even like, I ain't known ask me. I'm

a coch man. You got staminaup Okay. I feel like younger guys do, and the older guys, I feel like it's like one and done. Mostly No, I don't know that. That's young guys did look like I'm old and my old thing ain't going to do. She said, you ain't been with the right one. Okay, don't count him out. Fifty five day, I was babab bababy, bababy bababy. He had a blue pill. Baby, Okay, this pill was blue? All right? Have you ever have you? Have you ever

not been able to come during sex? And there's just a bunch of time, Okay. I ain't never fake that. I just stopped. I just let up. I don't mean out here A type of ship, and I just couldn't. I didn't haven't said to the woman and start thinking about another woman while I was having sex with her. Yeah, I'm guilty of that too. First. Yeah, like they just do that all the time. I did that. She was there, but he wasn't heavy there. I wish you was there

at the time. But there's respect. It ain't just said, you know, that's not even that's ungrateful. That ain't that. Don't be on the niggas, girl, that you ain't thinking about who couples and good? You're right, all pussy ain't good pussy, But you can't be in a one person pussy thinking about the next bitch you care if you my man and you're thinking about the next bitch pussy while you inside mine? So hold y'all never thought about another guy? Joke? Why then I'll go fuck him? Why

am I fucking this thinking about another nigga? Because you've got fantasized about other things while you're having sex. I don't size sex. I think about having sex while I'm having sex. I don't know how people can fantasize about something else while you're having sex. Right done? And that, Loria says she focused she said, she focused, and I'm not sucking a whack dick like if there's a whack like gonna sea on that. How about saying ain't got

good dick, but how do I know? No, Listen, every nigga don't have a dead But if I'm going back to him, it's pretty damn good. You get what I'm sad because I'm going back. I'm talking about like a woman that you never had sex with before, and then that's different than you and it's not as good as you thought. Like damn I was. I ain't never hit the pussy, but if I was, I in the live now, I didn't hit the pussy, act like it was her right. I got live it yesterday last night you was, I

left service talking about it. I said, I had a threethome thank you. But I let that. I let that girl do all this stuff to me because I didn't want to eat pussy like it just I mean, it feels good, but I don't want to be the you remember, do you guys remember the first time you ever ate pussy? Yeah? I remember? Did you know what she was doing? She had? I knew, I knew. I didn't know what I was doing she started guying me and ship that was bad, Like my first time was terrible, Like I want to

do like women do, like would you be mad? Like if the head terrible, but the dick still be like do it? Balance it out? Though? Now you gotta have a little bit of both. At least call you too. We can see you two. It's definitely something you can learn. But like, I know how he's gotta go. I want to know about the first time g G eight pussy talk to him? I played the fifth. You can't teaz because you didn't even speak for us yet this Thursday. Okay, I'm only gay on the weekends. Leave me alone. So

talk about when you were gay? No, how was your first time eating one thing? I was damn good at it? All right, you can shut them in here? Some lessons, right, I mean, I'm a little better now though, Okay, I don't know. You're still young, head game strong, I got some I got some good hit on me. Go like this and show us, like how do you want me to just take the take two straws, but show us. We want to see what you're about to do. Oh my god, the line use the line? Can you god?

So this is the ass right up under here, just to click right here. I just I just go a little bit and something like that. He might know what he's doing a little bit freaky freaky. I get freaky freaky for sand he put the line back, no more line right sleep. I don't put her to sleep already. Yeah, we got the trade in the building tonight. We appreciate talk with trading that that's how you got a new

single out right now with Big Sean. Got a new single out right now called Balanced Feature and Big Sean produced by the pre available everywhere. Yeah, hard hard say that it is in New York. You got right right? Are you doing your all right now? Now? Trav should be coming around with them, Mike, because we want to make sure that everybody here gets to say what they have to say. And I want to thank you, Hi Davids, you're here all week and I know it's all weaken.

I love y'all. Caroline, thank you. That's where can people follow you just so they know? Follow me on Instagram everywhere, ice Wear, Underscoring, Beslo follow me now, thank you. Trav got his turn on neck on y'all. It's going down. So we have a couple of minutes, So anybody has anything that they want to say? Okay, and Jesus getting ready for the twork tutorial? Is anybody doing this? I need to let the night so listen. I'm sick of y'all t working like y'all know what y'all doing. So

I'm gonna give y'all a little one to steps. Come out out here if you're going to work to turn what y'all doing, cause I'm sick of y'all. Look, I know some of y'all ladies about to come up here. Oh, she gotta change alright, So TRAVI is gonna come around with the mic if y'all want to weigh in on any of the topics while we get ready for the Jez's gotta change her clothes because I'm she ain't working

ship and I'm tight ass fans. Hey, she looking good, but it ain't working alright, So where's trav I'm over here. I'm taking a mic over there. I see your hand up, I don't see ship. Hi, guys, my name is Ti. Hi. First, let me say hi. G G. Philly stand up with a change so she could do this twice, but I've been in best side Brooklyn for six years. So best guy exactly. We bought the tickets hoping in that Stephanie came. But there's that he So I just want I have

like a quick question slash something. I'm at the age I just turned thirty. All three of my best friends, with the help of me, have now all been engaged as of yesterday. Wow, her grat amazing. So I've been the girl to go with your boyfriend to pick out your ring. Girl, you know, set up your surprise engagement party, surprise you with the surprise engagement set up all of that.

My question to you guys is how do I tell them to like relax and stop trying to hook me up with their boyfriend's friends even though he was cool for you. I know that's not what's good for me. So how do I politely like keep my single card and like stay in the now we marry group if that's possible. So you don't want to be around all your married friends all the time being hooked up? Yes, but they're like my really my only friend group outside

of like my guy friends. Girl, you gotta just be real with them, Like, yees, these guys you hooking me up with it's trash. No, I don't like them. They're whack, but I feel like they tell I feel like that's me saying. Your dude is like, no, that's not friends. They're friends. They ain't got to be the single. You should let them know. Look, I'm very happy being single right now, but I do love y'all. So when we have our nights out, can it just be girls nights out?

It's just every nights out. It's always I'm doing Americon and Billy in a couple of weeks, we're bringing the guys. Right, It's always like a group thing. But like I leave mine in Brooklyn, it shouldn't have to be like that. Though, y'all need to come to things like this where it can be all ladies. I bring my my my guy friends. Okay, I thought that. With your boyfriend, girl, I'm like, bring that nigga with you when they go hang out. Why

y'all can't be a couple. You like her? He is he has a partner, But why he here with you though his partner is a doctor? His partner is a doctor and he is Uh he has a partner. That's a heat Okay, Yeah, that's not gonna work. I don't think that's gonna work at all. You have to try to hollow Okay, okay, alright, anybody else on the time in and ask us a question. We have a question right here. Hello. I want to say, um, I'm from New York. Call um, my name is city Santiago. Where

you've been? Because I watched every single week all week, every week I missed no weeks, but you've been going, what's up? Where you bet? I was hod? Well, thank you for noticing that I was gone. I appreciate it. But I was in l A. I decided that, you know, I just wanted to live on the West Coast, like I feel like at this time in my life, I have these kind of opportunities where I could live wherever

I want, and I'm not gonna have that forever. So you know, you gotta take what you can while you can. You know what I meant you, I'm getting I still have my place in l A. I'm getting a place in New York, and I plan on spending more time here in New York because I'm tired of taking five hour planes everywhere. It's ridiculous. All right, So yeah, so there's is'sues. People. It was like, oh wait, happened to Stephanie.

We said it mad times though, and then we yeah things that like we had a problem and I just yeah, we said it like five episodes like I was going to trow what man life m before I turned thirty crisis. So I just wanted to be like, you know, fun this, I could do this, I could don't do whatever I want. I'm grown, I could do what I want. So alright, we got another question right here? All right, hello everyone, day Um, it's not a question, but it's towards the

topic that you stated earlier. What is something a man can do that's embarrassing? This happened to a friend and she says she checked her man's phone and she saw him getting curved. That's awful, Like, bro, can't even cheat. Didn't make it and didn't make you feel like, damn, this bitch don't even want him. Maybe I shouldn't want him either. What you trying to these whack ass bitches. It's curbing me, curvering you like you got you can't curb here? Come g G G G crazy? Who comes right? Oh?

She coming and coming. It's time for the swark tutorio who is joining in the swork tutorial. Somebody. We need some volunteers here right here? One who more? We need one more? One more? Yeah, come on, I thought you wanted to twitk you put your hands up. I was like him. I had to see that. Hey says you need some time, Julio before you twirk. Yeah, we're gonna get y'all a shot. Come up here and twork. Can we put some music on? I'll have to rap ship. Oh yeah, I'm about the rap. So y'all gets work.

Jesus Christ GEI crazy. Here here we go. He talks to me this week food okay, So I'm need some direction. Yeah, to come on, I got somebody else. Maybe we'll be happy. Flute out airlines. Thank you for flying way. We'll be landing in Miami. Shortlook, I gotta give the direction ga direction readyine right? Would baby don't be baby saying when they down down? Man? How did he keep bad being cut on my right up with saying that I child drops up? Man? Dang talked out frame pretty so when

he got my name on it. I mean the city pretty on a business in this city on the pottles. Only time we got wen out head up. She's raking in a chain, don't kid home, I find my lady. Flow out up. I'm like cup up like club the story can like, yeah you just come my cay say where you ask fun just come six nuns back. I just I'm just gonna hate talk. We need someone to y'all top there. Come on six day for you Ray and I see you. It's a last line. Come on, come on, we got our last worker. You better shot.

You got tips on she by shot tight on. Come on, come on, come on. She bout the ship crowd to shut you. So I'm gonna show you how to make it. Bu move like this, it's go any right now. Show you know what's he doing. He knows what you're doing. All right, come all ready, you gotta get the mouse. All right, you get it ground talk with d get it tang all right, Tucker turn hell just keep down to take us all my back talk to you taking.

Thank you to work spurg Chezy, Maria, thank you, Thank you Byda Carlo, Thank you to Jessica, Thank you so much to Melly. Thank you so much to y'all for coming out. Hah, David, I squear best. So we appreciate you'all so much. The whole team, the whole squad. We had a great time. I hope you'll know how to twe now. Right now, everybody, get up and talk in your seat. Friends don't let friends work wrong. Okay, y'all take that advice. Good night, Thank you,