Episode 19: BJ The Chicago Kid

We say no to drugs on lip service, right, and this is like sex enough to find everything that they uncle his own. So he's say, my nieces the other um, the youngest one is five, what she is not old enough to know about? I'm breaking it down. The youngest one is five, key Ki is like eleven, Destiny is fourteen, and Taylor is nineteen. Taylor Taylor Man my daughter about to be nineteen, so I know all about Taylor days. They really so only Chailer is allowed to listen. I mean,

I don't even want her listeners. But he was saying that. He was saying that they are at the age where they could search without yeah, without anybody being around. Long as you know how to read you can. All right, we gotta get some basic information about you down before we get into some of these topics. Was good, okay, b J to Chicago. Kare Are you married? Are you in a relationship? Okay? No girlfriend? No girlfriend? You're sucking singing?

Everybody got something. When's the last time you had a girlfriend? Uh? Man, it's been a few years ago, a couple of years. You haven't been in love for that long in that time after her. Yeah, I wouldn't say love, no, no, but you've had some serious situations. Maybe you know you trying to dating interest, but I don't. I don't really even date like we gotta. I'm not even have a guy even had game like I don't. If we don't have no common interests, we can't have a conversation. Basic.

You don't even enter my phone, and I hope I shouldn't enter yours if you don't know what I mean, even if we just so you don't just have one night stands or anything like that, you know, I mean, now you're saying what I'm doing, what I do, But I'm just saying I do have needs for shure no, But you're saying you're not even going to fu somebody unless y'all have some comments. I said, I'm not even gonna put the name in my phone. Okay, I'm happy

he recording this tock. Now it's interesting. Now let me ask you this. How do you feel about women and makeup? We were having a conversation before you came in while we were getting our makeup done, and we were talking about whether or not guys like when women wear makeup. Some guys say, all like women who are natural blah blah blah. I'm not mad at makeup, but I love to see the natural you. You know what I'm saying. Um, I got a song called Perfect that's that speaks on

that totally. Um and the body. You know what I'm saying. It speaks on all of that. I feel like, Um, there's many different um shades, faces, shapes, sizes that you know, man love. I mean, you're speaking of myself. I can't you know? But yeah, So, do you have like a particular shape, size, whatever that you love? What's your preference? No? No, no, Actually, can I tell y'all secret? Some guys, some guys, some guys,

some guys. Probably pretty feet before like and like she probably have pretty feet or she had pretty attitude or this is like guys don't guys have a weir weird thinking. That's just forgot. I always say that guys will find anything good to find a reason to somebody. I mean, it's kind of saying the same thing, but but because I'm a guy in a different way, I'm gonna try to explain it a little bit better than you know

what I mean. When she's probably not because they'd be like she ugly, Well, yeah, but she had a fat ask though, but yeah, you've seen her feet. I like pretty feet, though I ain't glad that's a that's a that's the thing I do like definitely flip flops on. Yeah, I don't. I don't like feet. I don't like to talk about feet. I don't feed her kid. I have big feet, you know, don't matter. I have to deal with that. Like God gave me big feet, so I just have to deal with do you have pretty feet?

Pretty feet? I played basketball for the first ninety years of my life. I don't think I would. You know, you feet messed up? They're not messed up. My toe structure is good, but I wouldn't can sit on myself. You get what I mean by my toe strucks. Ain't like you know, he messed up. But I played basketball every so you're not getting in the pool with socks on or nothing like that. No, I don't like it. Ain't that jacked up. But you know, if I'm getting

the pool, I think that's retarded. You get pedicures. I was just about that. I take care of my feet, but as I can, because I know they you know me, because I can't relate. I did balet for most of my life and then I was a stripper, so I ain't got the best feed either. So what if a girl wants to have sex with her socks on, she's hired in her feet, that's fine. That's fine with Yeah, yes, I'm fine with that. He said, hate on some girl because she had pretty feet before, But I did. I

you guys, baby had them toad. Okay, what's somewhere, Stephanie. What's important to you when it comes to a guy. What's important to meet attraction wise? Attraction wise, I like a guy to always have a nice mouth. That's when I'm attracted when I first meet a guy, being with them, when I'm in love. I like the mouth because I like to kiss. What so I like to have. I like, I like guys to have a really nice mouth, like good teeth, nice lips, you know, a good skill to

you know, like the skill of kissing. I like for guys to have. It's very important to me because a lot of guys can't kiss. A lot of got to have a nice mouth. He used it all the time. He does have him a nice mother. I'm sitting. I don't know what else you do? What about check? You to a guy? Authority? Okay, a boss. I like a boss, like a man who takes charge. I like a man who is in a position of power and not just

saying job wise, but just in life. Like I'm like a man who like that know where he got going himself. I don't like a slow chance bum mass niggod that ain't about but nobody like no bumps nobody, but not bum meaning like financially, but like an alpha man. Yeah, yeah, that's what I like to I definitely like I need a god to for people to be scared of him, scared my man. I want people to be scared of

my man for sure, for sure. Very important to me. Well, we know you like thugs, Yeah, exactly know what I like she's gonna grow out of that one day, you know what I mean? Former tugs? When did you get I like former thugs? I used to be at the I used to and when did you grow out of that? Not too long ago, just recently. Hey man, it's it's it's thugs out there. They got some shing legitimate now, you know, so they graduate. We call those corporate thugs.

That's what. That's what. That's what you're from, Chicago, as you ever that. I would never consider myself a thug, but I definitely I'm a for sure, you're a bus people people scared of you. It ain't about people being scared of me. I'm not into you know what I'm saying making short calls fit like, look where I'm from. I don't gotta it is what it is, and I go where I go. You know what I'm saying. Chicago place, Ye, Chicago. Those projects they've had to build a wall around them

and they're gone now. They took them down. Now that's what cannyman. Yeah, yeah, everybody away. Wait, wasn't that where they wasn't that where they feel to open in the good times too? Wasn't that? Yes, supposedly yet that's not where canny Man was from. Supposedly. Yeah, but they like build a brick wall around those projects because innocent bystanders who don't live there, who weren't living there, those builders

like one way in, one way out. After certain times, like you know, like back in the eighties, like the mayor that was the mayor. Then she tried to moving in to tell people like that it wasn't that bad. She got out of there within two or three days. Did you ever look in the mirror when you was going up and be like, canny Man, turn the damn lights on? Now? Do you ever listened to your own music during sex? No? No, impossible, No, that's a turn off.

Why off? Even if a woman asked me to sing, like if we had a date, like if it's just you and I, if we had a day you asked me to sing, it kind of turn me off. Why would that turn you off? Because I'm not working right now, but if you want to, you know, that was her job. You wouldn't want to get a little aside if she offered, I wouldn't ask her to go to work right now. I wouldn't ask her to do that. Like sometimes work

would be so much. I come to you for my relief, So why would I make you a part of this now? Soon or later we're gonna start having issues because I'm want this and you're gonna be like, I'm tired, but you that's fair because I remember back in the day when I was a stripper. I couldn't deal with a guy who would want me to be like, oh, you're super You'd be like those some money at me. Then Hello, Honestly, I wouldn't. If I want to dance, I would go to the club. But I want to ask my woman

to dance for me. I mean, I am into lingerate, like I love women that you know, that type of thing, But you don't, you know, I mean, yeah, we talked about lingerie previously. A lot of guys said they're not reallead that into it. For some reason, I'm r sing every time I've worn lingerie for a guy, it's on as soon as he sees it for a couple of seconds. But that's because you gotta you know, like you got enjoyed. Find ways to enjoy it if you can't think of it.

Now take your time, don't rush it, y'all. Head chill, relax, that roll up whatever it takes for you to relax, because that's really that's what enjoyment is. If you don't relax, it's terrible for both of y'all and you ain't coming back. Now, do you ever val Have you ever voluntarily saying for a woman like she adn't asked you too? But I have? I have. I have saying happy birthday to somebody that thought I would never do it, just to be like you know it was it was dope and it wasn't

even her birthday. That I'm not really into like playing my music to set the moment. I would rather play somebody else music and I can really enjoy it, and you get the most authentic me. I'm too busy. Listen to me. I should have turned that kick drunk. That sucks. Yeah, exactly. My brain immediately goes to work because I'm such a workaholic. When I leave work, let's leave work like my pop will be like yo, man hasn't like my pop? Man,

Just let's post them yak up or something. Let's talk about something else because I can't talk about work right now. I'm here to chill, relax. You know that's understandable, but as an R and b singer right. You know, women of course, are a huge audience for you. Do you ever play like if you're dating somebody, like, hey, I want you to hear this song? Do you do that? No? But if it's it's like we cool. When I know you and you asked to hear some I might play

your song or two, but that's about it. I'm not going to be performing anything. No, I'm saying you might be like, Yo, I just did this song last night, I want you to hear it. No, I have role songs about females that I sent it to him. Though, are you doing girmantic if you heard the song? You think you write better when you are going through some bullshit or you write better when you love both. Um, And it's too as the creativity, it's about where you

allow yourself to be. Um. I'm able to put myself for any type of shoes. Like sometimes I write songs starting at the first line of the first verse, not having a hook yet, and that's like you actually get there when you get there type of writing, you know what I'm saying. So it's many different ways that I create. But um, I wrote I've written the last song I've written about like what I was going through was the end of the last relationship. I was saying, it's the

song car Hard Crush Cry. Is it gonna make us cry? No, it ain't gonna make you cry. But you're black, Okay, I tell the truth. Excuse me. I'll tell the truth in the record, because I just come from that kind of R and B where you felt, at least you felt like the nigger wasn't line. You know what I'm saying. It's like, at least even if it is, feel like yeah, yeah, and that's that's That's what I'm into. But before we came up here, we were also talking about honesty, like

why can't guys just be honest about certain situations? Sometimes all be honest? That's true, yeah, because I'd be lying everybody's lies at times. When I say we all lie, though, that puts me in it too, like we oh yeah, we all in this room have lied about something completely

honest with my boyfriend. I think sometimes right there, I just I think honestly, But I think sometimes I'm overly honest, like sometimes I might need a lot of stuft from the blow a little bit because I'm like brutally honest and people take that the wrong way, like they take it as like I'm being a bit or like you know, but sometimes a lie is to not hurt somebody's feelings.

That's that's that's very true. That's very true. Sometimes sometimes you just gotta like, you gotta understand either it's gonna blow up later or this could really be over. So you gotta you gotta wear your options with your lives. Nobody. But we was saying earlier, and I agree with her. I say this to all the time. Are rather you be honest with me and let me make my choice? Yeah,

you know what I mean. When it comes to let's just say you dealing, you meet this guy and come to find out he's still in a relationship or maybe trying to work his way out of the relationship, and you have fallen from him and you have feelings from him. And then you found out six months into you guys this relationship, that he has this other thing going on on Facebook with a matching outfit with his wife and

then they got matching Cheeto flames out six flags. So it's just like at that point then you're like, Okay, had you been honest about your situation, then you would have allowed me to make the decision if I wanted to get involved or not, but just allowing me to fall for you and throwing me into this situation that I had an exit being, because then what if you get caught up into baby mama drama and now your baby mama calling me but I don't know what's going on, said,

I can't I feel But had you been able, had you been honest with me, then we could have wrote this thing out if it was that type of situation. But guys don't they don't realize that some girls is down a round, some girls not. But you just gotta your options. So how would you feel if a guy was like when you just met him, like, well, not only when you just met him, like he want to be come more right, and he's like, I still flirt, but that ain't don't don't you know that ain't nothing

against you. I'm not having it exactly that at the end of the day. At the at the end of the day, ain't no guy gonna tell you that the beginning knowing that you know what I'm saying, something could happened later to the point where he do more than flirts.

So he shut his mouth I mean, it's not when you first meet somebody and you're not completely honest, and then you can't double back and be like, well, I know I said this when we first met, but we didn't know each other like that, so I was lying. But the truth of the man, sometimes you just tell a line. You gotta keep on going with it because you had no idea on lying. You have to keep on. I'm an old school guy. I just think you' all the college players. I will never think a woman told

me that, what's you talking about? The women of the woman told me? That woman told me A married woman told me that Mary when you were sleeping with I don't kidding. That's one thing I've never done. Married woman now, it's usually separated. I don't got no game. Honestly, listen, listen if she still if she's separated, I think she's just still married to me. I mean, I grew up my mom and dad in the house, so I just

look at a different way. Separated, you still married until so what if they don't live in the same house anymore? That may that may that may make me forget. Like if we check on the couch and heat at a whole another location yeah, you know where you live at, though, what do you mean who exactly? So in Chicago, you might have to keep somebody in the count, the corner something just to make sure I'm good, why I'm up and there, because if you know your address right, he

might just come on. Think it's still crazy out here some of them. Now let me ask you this, um, would you eat pussy for a girl the first time you'll have sex or is that something that you don't do right away if I've known her? Actually I've done that before, but I've known the girl for four years before we ever even had sex. I never touched that. I thought she was gorgeous, honestly, but I I didn't want to seem like I was trying to be a friend,

act like I'm waiting in line like I was. She was really my friend for four years, but maybe a little bit more than that. I was like, yeah, why are we playing? Man? Why are we playing? And she was like, what are you talking about? She played dumb for however long she could, and it end up happening. But yep, that that time, I did it for the first but that was the only time. It's not something regular. That's the time I'm telling y'all, so it might be

regular yall, it's not on the regular. It's not nice. I'm an R and B artist. I can't. I would not have myself out there like that. Then somebody see us and now they're trying to write up on me on media take out that the truth is what it is. When I'm telling you that was the last time that that happened. It's the honest truth. This is gonna it's you know, it's gonna service purpose to to be proven. Reckon.

I feel like RNBA artists do that anyway, Like we all look at R n batists like, oh, y'all gotta be Do you consider yourself romantic in my own way? Because honestly, what somebody else may think is romantic as I might think it's terrible. Like that's why I don't feel like I could walk up to him and then have game. You know what I'm saying, Like if we can't literally, like if he tripped, we both laugh something whatever, we end up talking about something else and our conversation continue.

Then you get what I'm saying. I like, yeah, I've grown with it, and that you have no game if that's how you want to look at it or say it maybe I can learn Maybe I can learn it that way, but that's honestly, but just think about it, like she could get so awkward and so many weird moments, man, and I hate acro moments for people like that. So if you got some kind of sense of just being a little bit, you could be gorgeous. But if you I'm cool, I don't want to be somewhere and you

like b J, I've never had moments. For me, I've never had the moments and I plan and never ever have them. So if you really can't just be civilized, we ain't be a dose. Even if we agree to disagree, I really can't funk with you. So you're not one of those guys who like to argue with women and stuff. I don't like to argue, but I've been in arguments. But some guy that turns the mind, I'm like, no, see, now that's if we if we face to face, it might it might do some things for real, but in

the sense you know it over the phone. Now, I'm gonna try to end it quick because honestly, people i'm around like looking like that kind of guy, like who what? Then I look like arguing who you feel my girl, man tripper, that's definitely I'm just saying, I don't feel like you know you're single, you shouldn't be arguing with nobody. I mean, even if I'm in a relationship, I'm not gonna really like if but you can't me on everything.

You know that That's exactly what I'm saying. But if you ain't got to even have an argument, yeah, because I'm not gonna lieous relationships. You know, we do. We've had very a whole lot of pettiars argument that maybe I mean it, but it's not only me accept I think that's what should help you pick and choose your batter if not you, but just absolutely I was like, Yo, you don't know what that ain't even that bad? Yea even that bad because it's it's something. It's just like you.

It may be a problem to you, but you could just be a picky motherfucker. Yeah, And how you know she ain't saying it about you because of the ship you're doing. So it's like, you know, I've lived with you know, a woman before, so it's like I just understand the dudes, and it dunts to some degree, you know, that's what I'm saying. Like I'm sure I've had a lot of petty arguments that were mind fault. But you know, it's two ways, and it's sometimes you can't let everything,

you can't let things go. You gotta, like you said, you gotta choose what you're going to accept. And if you don't say, if you don't put your foot down, if something's bothering you right away, it's gonna happen again and again and again and again. So that's for me where arguments come from. I have been in the bud quick. I'm quick. I'm really quick. If you don't say nothing when you finally say something for the first time times,

he's only been thinking to yourself. And that's im. I ain't even know you ain't like I get mad, but I won't say nothing about it. But by the time that you know I'm mad, I've been mad for months and I never like to check the text. And you think you reply, but you don't. You end it and you just yeah, you never reply. No. But I'm quick. When as soon as I see something I don't that bothers me, I say it right away. I'm quick. I'm quick.

I said, you look like you are quick. I'm very spicy, and I've been around, I've been around arguments to make it awkward for everybody. You'd be like, dude, well he it's him. He'sational, he's confrontational, and when he wants you to be like that, then I have to fight back. G be going off too. Yeah, some men like aggressive women too. Though I'm spicy, I don't let nothing go over my head. I like a little mixture though, So a lot of times I'll start an argument and find

myself apologizing because I was too fast. You know, Sometimes you gotta don't be like arguments, be like where you at right now, I'm coming there right now. You just was cursing. But that's when you love each other, you know, when you because I'm not arguing with somebody I'm not in love with. As soon as you do something that I don't like, I will tell you, tell you something. If we don't have a good resolution, you're out of my life. Sometimes my mode just changed. When there's some

showing like you, I get quiets. You could tell like you know someone you talked about you here, sut. I try not to even blast you off because man, even being in the industry that were in like we can always take work home and the frustrations and all that, and you'd be like, I don't actually chicken a fish. You don't know it could be wicked. It could be wicked. So I try to make sure even what I say, I try to work my words correctly, because once you

say it, i'll give how much you apologized. Sometimes it's stamped in time. That's why I always try to not say things that I might regret later. That's why when I get mad sometimes i'd be like, please don't talk to me until I calmed down a little bit. Let me tell y'all and everybody else in the world, it is nothing wrong with taking five minutes. It's always somebody want to talk about it right now. But that's the

person that I make. Y'all be calling police an hour from the get that person five minutes, or you be the person to say they take five minutes if you really give a funk about talking about it. If not, both of y'all bounce. But I'm gonna tell you when I learned to take five minutes, it's better at least definitely. You still may disagree, but you ain't saying it with the anger, just trying to say it without the emotion,

because it's like going when you're hungry, everything everything. Let me wait till I'm not hungry and go to the supermarket and make some more rational, smarter decisions. Five minutes could change everything. If you wait five minutes before you send that crazy text Stephanie, something like your favorite, you might change because you don't never want to send no text out. Oh my god. What's the worst thing you can say to a guy that you know it's gonna make him mad? The I think when you call a

guy a bum, still your b bro. Just the word bitch, anything attached before that's that's accessory. But the word bum Guys, don't you know what hate? If you tell him they gotta they dig his wet. It's not just the worst you hear how you say, you little like how you but that you tell a guy he can't suck you right while you're mad, he's gonna be thinking that he ain't sucking right rest of your relationship. You know, I never came right, And that's what killing to and pretend

every time you had that man in the bathroom. Boy, if you tell them you fu somebody else I'll forget it, and you tell me a little every next every next argument, every next argument, you said, you up your boy a little bit. It got bigger. Baby. I was flying bag.

If you have to watch, I had people watch me on social media just like just say say Twitter for instance, like a pretty girl could say something to me and I say something back, and a girl likes to mess with a favorite like like it, like like why why is this your favorite? You pettied in the moment, Patty? Did you see that favorite? Huh? Because you can see Twitter,

but it tells you who favorite favorite. But guys like, but listen, guys like when you stuck to my social like if you're dating them for real, and you'd be like, oh yeah they have You're not not not me, not me. I'm not really into it because of what I do. It's like what I'm not supposed to talk to women? Are I supposed to say him? Girls? That's what That's

what was in my mind. I was selling out. No, But that was like when I when I take a picture and maybe the guy gets too close to me or like maybe face will be touching creep with too many people, and I'm like pure, I do that's my job. Like that, he asked me to take a picture. What you want me to do? That's creepy to me though, if I take a picture, like if we take a

picture after this, I'm not gonna. I don't do the extra since that just makes me feel like a creep, Like I'm perceived as a creep and that makes me I feel dirty and don't do that. Real men don't do Yeah, yeah, that's no. But I went through a time space where every time I'll be in the club and like I'll get someone you know, and they want to take a picture with me. I'm I had a time that I was always like, reway your mind that they already your boyfriend from the Instagram and that you

forgot this. Social media gives them so much more time with you in their mind than it whatever. Like same thing with artists, like they'll they'll love you until you fucking up, or they'll love you today, meet you on a bad day, or whatever the case may be. It's like the Internet makes people have so much more of an idea in the minded. What it really isn't reality.

You meet like yeah and this nigga gonna come up to you, do all that yeah, yeah, like the creeps stop being internet creeps and that turned you to a real life creep at the club that night. Stop it, Fellers, It's not it's I mean, I just wish people would realize that just because you follow someone on social media doesn't mean that you really really know them. You know what I mean. You don't know what problems people are having in real life. You don't know how things are

really going sometime that you can't win. Situation like I'm coming at the gym. You want to take a picture. I look tell horible, And if I take a picture with you and you posted I looked up, I'd be like no because I look terrible and I just got at the gym. I'm sorry. I would love to I just I just feel hooky. I want I want to take a shower. What's he's a yucky You can't. I can't please everybody, straight up, straight up, So honestly, knowing that has some degree my care ceases, Like it's who

gives a book? Right? Who gotta give a fuck? Now? If you met a girl and you SUP with her on the first night, could that potentially turn into a relationship or will you have some type of judgment against her always. It depends on if we had that weird ass connection that's so strong, did it'd be like m or it could be so clingy to the point where you're like, all right, it's hard left heart right. I agree with that. I don't thing I don't like. I know.

I know a particular couple. They had sex the first night and they still together. They're still together, like going nine years. That's that's what made them have sex the first night. That but that's what they say, like when they met each other and they ever since they were unsuperable. Do you believe in soul mates? You heard that get that was deep? I really do. I don't know how many of you get in life. Some people say you get to some people say you get one. How many don't?

I don't know. Have you had one? I don't know. I think you would know if you had your soul mate though, me too. I just I'm trying to learn on had a lot better. Okay. I think you didn't lie. Some people do. I ain't in a relationships, so I can't lie. I got my lot license, right, Yeah, got a should make a lot of license. You graduated. Now, we talked about things that we say to guys that make them mad. You know you got a little dick you back in bed? Yeah, your way. So what can

a man say to a woman that would make us mad? Forever? They will always bring back up number one, your pussy stings or it was he's drys got to be the worst. I would kill open loose pussy glad. I haven't gotten any of the right Thank you right now, your home girl lamp affect y'all? How not as bad? But not depend on whom? No, no, no, not as bad as a guy saying, not as bad as a girl saying to a guy. The guys candish it, but they can't take it about your mom. No, you know, how about

your mom? That's wicky, that's next level. Yeah, I think that's about it though. Yeah for women, Yeah, because women are so good at don't ship off and then you walk into the door. I can't believe me. You say anything, but you ain't gonna do it in my face. You don't let me know what I got you if you tell it. She ain't got no edges. That's that's you, just you just straight bagging on that. I don't think anybody likes to be called a bum. No, one's don't

like it. I don't got that either, thank god, I haven't gotten. Now do you use lube? Has anybody here ever used lube? I like using lube. I've used it for anal, Yeah, for anal especially, but it's it's fun when you're like trying me. Trying anal is always a fail. So the lube is there and it's nice. My friend told me to use lube before and not used it, and the guy was like, what's going on and that it's too good. Now it's that offensive to you if a girl has to be allowed some lube, like you

don't make a pussy wet. No, it's not necessarily like you'll make a pussy. It's time have sex. It's times where you can have sex for so long. Yeah, coming, but only two people would know you. Now, it's not me, it's her come. I think God would get sticky. I mean some guys come so fast with you know they would never get to that stage. You know once you say once you think you saved the Princess and King

Cooper snappers. But that's why when you take your time, when you take I believe, but this is me for real, for I believe like if you make love to my first, the simplest things could be more of a turn on that's probably never been received by her like that. You know what I'm saying. It's just really, don't let me seduce your mind too. So she don't want to be so sometimes she won't do Yeah, So you gotta understand because I've never had I've never used lube, but I

always want to do. Guys get offended, Like if you think I'm loube, I think gods were really big decks. Should use lube to start, Maybe not a whole bunch, but you should because you're going a little further And you know what, if you have some dick, no problem to spit on it you have if it's not that ever, it's not necessary and not a lot of spect just a little yeah good. But guys with big dixes, I think because you're going on further end, you know, you

gotta take care of what you say it do youse toys? Ever, No, would I would rather woman use I like to sit back and enjoy the show a little. I'd like to tease myself to the point where I can't no more. Blue boss, I'm saying never blue balls. You gotta know when to tap in. You gotta know when. You gotta know when to give up and go in, don't it What did you something about? Let it build up? Like I don't like to touch you. I don't understand what's going on? What do you let me tell you? She

could come to that. I don't want to don't hug me hello, because by the time I touch you, I want to touch you like times a million. It's something. It's some ways you could teach sticipation. Yeah, some ways you can teach yourself in the easiest ways. You just don't think because you used to play the music fucking before the movie over whatever case, motherucker's do. It's so many other ways of doing it. So, you know, Netix, all you could do like love Jones and he'd be

on the phone. You just come in and just do his pents while you're on the phone with Yeah, I think that's nice. I think guys like that too. Are you more of a pleaser? You know? They say in relationships is with somebody who's a giver, more of a giver and somebody who's more of a receiver. I think giving makes you a good receiver because This is how I put it. Like, if you if you enjoy what you're doing with who you with, it's gonna already put you over the top because you're into it. You're not

just doing it, you're actually into it. I probably I probably if if I would have probably kept going for another in minutes, I've probably been like, ah yo, if I get in this pussy now, I'm not gonna last. Because I was so into what we had. I was that close, like I could have almost came from police and Hut, once you start coming, can you stop it? Like, once you feel like you're right there about to come, you stop yourself. Tailla snatch out, gotta take two steps,

take steps. But if you don't, If you don't, it's over. Yeah, do that walk, talk to yourself, do whatever you do. Whatever you do, Like if that man tells you, don't move it, take you what you think about to stop? You have to take your five. Take your five. It's all mental for show, but like what's in your head. Some people think about baseball it's a compliment to the women.

Though it's a compliment to the woman at all times, no matter you know, but yeah, no matter what you could think of, I just pull out and just gotta take about it, you know. So so ladies when he comes fast all the time, take it as a compliment that all the time, or tell them to relax, tell them you know, hey, we got time, baby, we ain't got nowhere to go. Baby, I don't want to tell you he was whacking fast. Okay, what y'all think about?

What y'all think? We ask your question? What y'all think about? Like quickies is like always let me I love a quick because I get really early for work. I'm always talking. If it's so good to him to become a long ee, You're like, I gotta go to work now. Just give me five more minutes because I'd be like, listen, you have been right, take care of that. I got leave. I'm gonna be late. You like quickie. A lot of women not in surprise quickies, Like in the bathroom and

the restaurant. What about like if you want a hotel in the windows open? Yeah for that, I mean like people could see you on the balcony. Had some hotel, but in some air max in the bathrop in a maxim Why you ask the bathroom, Well, can't you with the slippers that I'll tell you I got you know my fate you put up. I just sucked your bit in some all white air in the bathroom. Yeah, I'm into that. I'll leave the windows open. But now, but

what does someone take the picture? Now? You want media take out air max air bax in the bathroom, but having sex on the balcony, you got you try it? Do you think you could be in a monogamous relationship? Yeah? I do, I really do. Do you want when I'm ready? Yeah, I'm saying like I really believe I can do it? And I wanted that want to? Wasn't when I'm ready? I want to? Was it this period? But you know in the right time? Yeah, I'm building some right now? Right? Yeah?

Do you do a lot of three sims and stuff? A lot? Or have you what is a lot? Have you ever had a three that he's had a lot, that means he's had I have not had a lot. You've had enough? Let's it. Have you ever had more than at three? Like a four and five? And I mean not more than so? But so what about when you're in a serious relationship? Do you want your girl to be open to that? I would honestly be personally, I wouldn't want to introduce that I would rather than

days be done. If she into it, then I would, But I wouldn't want to introduce that. I agree with that. I just I would just I would rather keep a lot of ship that shouldn't be in my marriage out like that's something you get. If she wants to, then I'll have to, you know what I mean. She she got to be the one to and she'd be and she didn't want to pick her two I'm not, no,

but that's that's and I agree. And when you're when you want to be serious with somebody, that's something you got to leave in your past if that's something you did then or just danger it's over exactly, that's what that's Hey, I bet it is, and I bet it's just and what's crazy? It is like if it was somebody like I was just kicking it with, Yeah, I would, I would love to, which we're talking about. But serious, that's what I'm showing your difference. That's what I'm showing

You're difference. Serious. Is I'm serious? No? No, more, goddamn it or never. That's just where I'm at now. Has a girl ever tried to do something and you thought it was too freaky, like put her finger off. No, but a girl mentioned and I was like, we had never even mention that you gotta just do it. You dirty, You never never be earlier. It's not no, you have the way you said that. I never put my finger anybody, but you said you're supposed to just do it. So

that's what you said. If I ever did it, I'm just do it. I ain't never gonna ask him. Well, I'm just saying I think that's how you're supposed to. So you've been but he's supposed to be like and go up. Is that what you're supposed to do? We could try and if you don't like it, you say no, he could try. Listen, man, there is even in sex, even in love, there's still a thing of respect of

the body and boundaries. Oh my god, it's like, listen, if you haven't sex with a girl, right, if you're having sex, you're not gonna be like, hey, could you do me a favor and stuck my balls. You're gonna just put your balls in her mouth. Yeah, because that's your balls, that ain't your ass with You don't gotta ask sometimes you gotta just and and sometimes you give a guy an opportunity to say no. I think sometimes

you kind of just have to go for it. If you don't want it like that, I'm not into that. But if he does, because it's weird to ask a guy like, hey, would you love for me to stick two fingers in your ass? He's never gonna say yesterday, never come. But if you just do it, he'll like it. No, sir, it might slide right in. Somebody gonna put somebody plug you like a quirk. She's gonna be sick too. Okay,

says a girl. Ever tried something and you've been like no, I think they would know not to even go to that. But I mean not just that you would. You would piss me off to the way will you will see another side of me? Some guys just just like a serious no, no, you don't do that. I think too. I think too. And even there having a conversation about sex, you know how you never even have sex with the persons y'all talk about everything. Sometimes they make you want

to fuck them more. So you're gonna you're gonna understand my dudes, and don't I'm really I'm real grown with it, Like I said, we could have a conversation. I can't. I gotta you gotta know what type of guy because if I gotta leave and you're mad and what, you gotta know exactly what type of they got you? Right? Straight up, my friends make the best lovers. You can't really be somebody's lover. You know already. You know already that'd be the worst you ever a friend. It could

make or break you know. I've had sex, like, I've had relationship with people and they've been friends with them after. But I've been with somebody that I was like best friends with and it was a really good situation. You haven't had sex with somebody you know you shouldn't been having sex with you, and it made it like fifty times yuh m hmm. Every time I have sex with someone I know I shouldn't have sex with, it's fucking awesome. Yeah, because you ain't being honest, I don't know. It's yes,

come on and to the it's bomb maybe passionate. It's like you gotta be into it because you shouldn't be doing so if you're gonna get caught just like this. I don't know about it, but look, it's like it's almost like this, you in school, and you could get into a fight if somebody hit you, both of y'all still going to the mother pressible office. You might will whoop his motherfuckers. If you're gonna fight, you know, if

we're gonna go, we're gonna go. Yes, that's what it's about. So, but you're not supposed to have sex with like I don't know, like anything, you know, like your friend's boyfriend. Sometimes that stuff just happen boyfriend. Ever, sometimes that stuff just happened a coworker. But I'm talking about the way you even find the person. It'd be so weird, so weird. I mean, I think you're thinking about something specific. So why don't you that you weren't supposed to have sex

with everybody? No man kissing everybody. I'm not saying specifically a person, but like a example of like who should you not be having sex with? Probably somebody who you can work with, said the work. It could be it could be a co worker, it could be a family acquaintance. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

very much. So, I mean I don't see something that just just gotta be on the low, Like we don't really want people to find out about that that that that could be enough to make you feel like I think you people you know somebody you're not supposed to have sex with something you know connect at any time. Sex is the best sex sex with something you know.

Like for me, and when I'm thinking of it, somebody I know I can't have anything else with besides sex that doesn't take me anywhere except when except when the sex is really good. That's the only thing that's the only time it's like this is I don't know I'm supposed to do this, but it's just amazing, so I'm gonna do it. You think the best sex is always with somebody that you have really deep feelings for, or

just the physical thing. Sometimes it could just be the passion. Yeah, I mean somebody could be so passionate, like I like to suck the bottom up. Sometimes I'm saying that could be the that could be the number one I was thinking of something else. I saw all of that. I'm just telling you. Could you be with a guy who doesn't like kissing, Stephanie, No, I can't. I can't have sex with somebody who doesn't kiss the guys who has who have sex with him and not kissing them at all. Y'all.

Y'all know, y'all know why right? Because they hope no, because they don't want to get connection. They don't think y'all got that passionate connection. You just want to fuck right exactly, will kiss you for what. That's how he feels. That's what I meant by saying it ain't even mean a home. He just don't feel like that got This could be a fourth time having sex in her whole life. She could be a virgin. Yeah, but he don't feel like they got y. Yeah, he don't feel that level

with her. He like, I want to nut and I want to leave. Would you want to be with a virgin if you had the opportunity? I wouldn't. But I don't think I could do it because I I'm a little more experienced. I'm like in the college. And she was like what what if? She said, I'm twenty eight. I wanted to wait till I got married, but I really want to have sex with you. Could you please take my virginity? Oh my god? That she was decent looking,

nice feet speak. I take it around apart. I drive around apart because somebody would I will suck ahead up though I wouldn't like it would be some other ship we wouldn't like. It wouldn't be the most natural way. I would have to do something crazy I would have I would have to set the standard just because I'm I'm that kind of nigga. Any any the only way we can't work again if we before, if you're married.

In my mind, oh so once you talked about you should always be able to I don't say that, but I just feel like I'm not an asshole when I'm with you, and and I'm a gentleman like even if we fucking, I'm still a gentleman like. I'm not an asshole with you, to the point where you'd be like, no, I'm never sucked again, so you kind of you could

be like, he don't want to be my man. So you meet a guy, but that dick was still bombed though, so you don't mind being a side guy, Like if I sucked you before, but now you got a man. I don't know. It depends on what well I am in my music career. I might just have enough time to be the side guy. What if she was really good and bad though, you wouldn't mind, you know, even if she was I don't know. I might be. I might be I might be trying to see it a

little more often. I can't. Do you remember losing your virginity? What was that like? Crazy? How old were you? Oh? Man, here you go, you to say that you were really young. I have a feeling you're gonna say you were really young. Alright, I'm gonna just ask you what age you think. I'm gonna tell you the truth. You think, oh ship, yeah, I was gonna sae and then, oh my god, that is young. Was it with your cousin or something? Oh my gosh, you don't do that. You don't do that.

I don't know she was gonna say that, but I said, I never beend with any of my cousins. I've heard some stories Church. That's the freakiest girls you meet. I ain't gonna say that. But if she was from church, how was she? She was older than me, so she wasn't a virgen. She knew what she was doing. But of course I act like I do every Nike laugh, guy, gonna take your person? How did you know what to do at eleven? Like? I mean, come on, god, if nobody know, guys know what to do before they they

can't wait to show they know what to do? What did they think they know what to do? Every every guy's like that, like, yeah, because I always want to how did you learn how to have sex? How do you even know? Like this when I love my viriginity practice when I lost my virginity, we lost our virginity together, and we were really young too, we were like twelve and thirteen, and we didn't know what we was doing. Yeah,

I didn't know what I was doing. I'm sure she could tell that I was lying by the time I was in it? Were you quick? It's Michael Jordan ball Head a minute, but you know, And was that the only time y'all did it? Nah? Perfect? I had a chance to come back, you know and try to get my act together. Okay, Yeah, you know what sometimes if

guys are wacking, but they always went the next chance. Nigga, especially especially if it's worth it, Like a nigga could be in love with anything, he could want his second chances to regain his confidence back. His commidence could be left in your pussy, girl, I'll tell you, like that was I gotta because look, if you're whacked right with a chick and she's like all right, and you could tell she's not satisfied. Do you feel like you have

to explain? Now? I see how my toy with juice. Honestly, thoways, I just want to try to keep her as so I can get my next round. You know what I'm saying, Whatever you could do to keep you here, Like, what if she's like that, my er be here in ten minutes. Yeah, So that's why. That's why I said from the gate, take your time, take your time, take your time. I think that should be your tip for the fellas. Take that five minutes and you might get a lot of license.

You only get one impression. What can the women do to make a great first impression on you in the bedroom? I don't know. There's a few things, but I've never gonna asked the question. I think what turns me on is what I see, what I it's not about some time, ain't about what she do knowing that I like her. Sometimes it's what you do without even know what I'm watching. That That's what really do it for me, what I'm saying, Um, but in the bed room, I just love a woman

that's really like a womanly woman. Just be sexy, just be you, just be just beat. Don't just be e period and don't tell me no. Don't tell me no and mean it for real, for real, like I could tell when you're saying no, no, but don't tell me no. I'm talking about like like um, like some women don't like shortain positions. But that's probably because something gain't really

rocked it right, true, so let test it out. Let me so let me not test it out, but just let me ease my way to show you that it ain't that bad and try with me and then you know. But that's what I mean by no. You know what I mean. I've learned from other people, from you know, other people's stories and newis headlines. You don't do things like that, you know now, being that your name is b J the Chicago kid. Would you there come during sex or during a blowjob, depending on how much time

I got mm hmm. Because sometimes if a girl, say a girl is giving you a head and you know you're about to bust, are you like stop waiting if she if she spit on it because she got the motion, I might be gone. Is that a better like orgasm than sex? No? Because sometimes the head not, because sometimes it is a different feeling but if the nigg is sitting there, imagine what imagine? Or he said, that's the thing, what do he think about? It's all in your mind.

She she's remember what I'm saying somebody, But it is all in the mind. So it's really about what you're thinking about. Sometimes, honestly, what most of the time me the head be is so good. I'm like funk that I won't in I think I say that. I think I say the same words, I won't you give a warning before you come give me that pussy? Yeah, I want her to warn me too, because there's certain things I'm gonna do when she's coming. So I'm gon enhance

that much as I possibly can. Why I'm looking at the wall man talking to y'all because it's going back, he's going back. It's just trick like that. I'm into sex. I like that guys should give a warning before they come down. I think every woman should too. I think they do sometimes warning. Sometimes you you could be hitting from the back and you just okay, yeah, I see you just came. Understand you see the evidence. She could say women women is good for that. Sometimes we can't

say it. Sometimes we just can't. It's just put your head up and see what your face talking about. The face doesn't lie. And I mean I know when he's coming when it starts. Every about to say, every every thrive, he's gonna jump, He's gonna jump. But yeah, that's what he better stop. Come out and take that. Girls, guys, um every time a girl comes, it thrives too. So if she's I'm coming and there's no trust me, I understand. I look, I watched I look at everything. Yeah, everything

has a girl squared it on you. You love it the way you said I could tell yeah, real man love it. I think it's I think you love that. I think it's a gift. I think it's a gift. I think some women. I've talked to some women about it. In section that I'm gonna read, I'm gonna try to say, hey, please do please please yourself. I said that before on this show, that I was going to try to teach myself to square. I haven't gotten there yet. I think it's amazing. The vibrator. I'm telling you it will make

you score. I need to buy new toys. You order this one if you can't find them in the store, I guarantee you is gonna make you square. I guarrantee it. I feel like we should get a discount on toys or something, you know what I mean called candy burs. We should have partroom if you get some bedroom candy from Candy Barry. I can't believe y'all got me talking like this. Taylor, you better turn this damn Thank God for what happened. Best lip service. Now we were talking

about this earlier. How do you feel about women asking you for money? Like if you're dating somebody y'all, don't went out a few times and she's like, I need to get my hair done, you know, I mean nail. I'm not. I'm not really like that kind of guy that you were not going just see, didn't want to do what I do? Now, what did I say? A real niggas do what they do naturally. It's not about you asking. So if he did it, he probably did before.

You haven't had to ask, you know. But what if she's like, listen, I'm in a kind of a tight situation. You know, you know that story ain't new. Like every every real nig a real woman, she want to look good. That's why you're working with in the first place. From the jump. So why wouldn't you try to think that needs to be continued? Why you would have I feel like, you know, if you're gonna do something to get but you gotta keep it, keep it up to keep me

all right. So you don't say you don't mind giving her some money to get a hair done, I mean you don't mind taking care of your girl. Man, Listen, man, you gotta take care of a woman, expect especially if she could take care of herself. But what I was seeing in the room, he said, especially if she can take care of That's what I'm saying. A man that's not going to want to do something for you that

you can't provide for yourself. You can't be a reboke wearing bitch asking for Lubertin's if you can't buy but not a lot on Jordan's. But that's not what I'm home. We're talking about a different type of stuff. You got a roll legs on with the Rebouds. Were talking about whole different situation. But what I'm saying is you can't be on a on a regular level to provide for yourself on a regular level, and then the man a guy to provide for you on the higher level, like

you gotta trying to match. Like, honestly, I wouldn't mind help you if like you just literally um, it's some woman that got so much driving, you see so much and life could literally just be throwing her fucked up car right now. It's like it's it's it's the reality of its some some women you know, she ain't. She ain't gave me when you could tell, honestly my family that that was. You know, guys say, oh, the girl who doesn't for anything gets everything. No, I'm not saying that.

That's what I said downstairs, right, that's got to say. But the clothes mouth don't get fair. And sometimes you came around. You just got to be me. I can't ask you don't even know you need it. I can't ask for anything. And if you don't know the female like that, she sometimes she comes she get what she did. I'm the type of girl I get what I want and then I'm at the store calling my man like, babe, I'm picking us up. You want me to get this for you? You know like that, Ok, Yeah, that's the

type of said. But I can't ask. It's hard for me to ask for things because I don't like, I don't like the jet I don't like I'm like, no, so I'll just go get amazine. You asked a guy for something and he's like, you know, I don't know, I don't like later maybe I don't like it and I don't like it. Just when I want something, I go get it. And I said, because clearly if I'm asking you, I really need it, or I'm asking you for a reason because I really didn't need it, didn't

want it. I wouldn't ask it. Take everything, and you to ask somebody for anything, right, and I can't for yourself. If you can ask somebody so fast, you can always. I used to hate to ask my daddy things, my momma ask even I don't want to forget it. I don't need it, And that's time about life, Like I don't like asking. I never had to ask anybody for anything. To be honest, I've always been able to do it exactly.

Some things I can't do myself. So I'll be like, yo, I mean not expertise, man, Yo, I need you to mean. I mean financially and you know, materialistically. I've had guys do amazing things for me, and I'm very grateful for those things. But I will say I did not ask for anything. I'm not I never asked nahoes. But do you think that I never accept something from a guy that you don't like? Does that? What does that mean? I wasn't. I don't. I don't even think I put

myself in that position sex. I think for my guy, like, what if somebody just send you what about you? I've I feel like I think, yeah, I think first of all, it's hard for me to accept anything from anybody. I have to really like you for me to be like, I'm comfortable with you doing something for me and not have ten times if you give me something and I don't like it and I accept, I accepted, You're still not getting nowhere with me. You just throw your cup

on the floor. You could have some more. But like, what's the best president girl ever got you? Uh? Damn uh? I spoiled myself number one. I don't have any kids, singlep myself. But what's the best president girl ever? Got you? Probably something that I thought was fresh, And I probably said that around her because she knew I liked it. Thought yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. For guys and entertainment, they got everything. I mean, you know, some things like we

don't even know yet some women know. Like I used to tell I want an artie type girl, but I want to go there. I could go to art galleries with all kind of ship. You can't doing the hood. The's like, nigga, everybody got problems. Nigga, you're around and catch her and she have all type of mental issues. Yeah, so like you just chilling and don't even rush that kind of thing. You just take your time and rock me. But I'm not really into you know what I'm saying

the whole stick on that. But I'm sure somebody's got something you thought was really thoughtful, Like oh wow, I mean for my birthday, she said, Yo, honestly, I don't even got no money, but she gave me a CD right, and the CD had everybody who I haven't talked to the ages and he left like voicemails. I was that was when you were young. She was dope. So that was dope. That was dope. That was Now that's a nice,

stoughtful president. That is a thoughtful president. That made I just bought a nigga a pair of easies, those black easies, and you just made my gift like so whack somebody. It doesn't even matter. Oh so he didn't get them yet. No, No, he's not gonna. I know somebody to know a couple of guys that might take market. Let me know, now, the brand in the box I love. I love women with that that have nice shoes and they're always about feet.

Shoes is a big shoes, a very sexy and it gives a person a little bit more about your personality to right. I mean that what if you were did in a girl and she couldn't really you know, she came up and she had on some fake ship and you could tell what continue really And I'm not like that, and I'm not telling her you don't got it. Con I'm not going to tell her no. And honestly, it would knockles. I think, I think you know, every all the ladies and the guys listening to lip service with knockles.

You could get something nice that's not a designer like the lady. You can get a beautiful excuse me, you could get a beautiful leather handbag that's not a designer, but it's a good leather bag and it looks really nice. You know. I always got to be about the Louis and the Gucci. Yeah, you know you're looking crazy running around with from the clothes from asked the close to

it you can did Navy. You gotta have luminum foil skulls on your shirt, man, like exactly, you could get you could get nice clothes from from Clean and it's put on and it's your birth time. Come on, let's not. Let's not. I'm just let me explain something to you. Let's not act like we wasn't hood when we was kids and you didn't know how to figure it out. And some people still figure it out. It too because of this generation to give you other stores and better

selection options. Man, you can figure it out man, right exactly how generation you can wear a nice pair of shell to to be just a fly to me? To me, you could be clean. It's about being clean, not fresh. Clean is fresh. From when I was a kid, there wasn't a lot of in between, like like you were good wearing the gap, but then it was like rainbow. It's like no in between. It's like either the gap

and that was like expensive for us. That like eighty dollar jeans was expensive, you know, and you gotta put that ship together right, and you gotta put it together and then from there's the designer stuff. Yeah exactly. Now let me ask you this, if a guy gave you some jewelry, would you get it appraised? Yes, good question, get it appraised? Because my first the first time I got engaged, then he gave me a fake ring and I was mad at him and I went upon it and he was like, boo, I can give you like

a hundred dollars for that gold. I was like, oh, really, damn. So what if you were mad at him and you went to get it a praise and found out it was faked? Then I don't know. I don't know what if he had because like I would have expected to the day we get married. Crazy about I would play games, I would play all kind No, but what's crazy about it? No?

But what's crazy about it is that we he would everywhere we would go, he would brag how he spent on this ringing everywhere we went and he would brack. So I got mad at him. I was like, all right, I'm gonna go get this money for this ring, and he's gonna be super mad. I went out to take it out and the guy looked at me. He was like, no, he actually probably was really happy he gave your as a fake ring. No exactly that point it was like listen no. But for me it was like, you know,

you're such a liar, you lie by. I would have accepted the ring like seen, I was seven, Seen my favorite Why everybody missed that part of Oh my god, everybody missed that? Nes that that's the best when that that's my favorite part. But it was funny because it was funny because when I when I confronted him about it, he was like, what bring it the ring? I gotta take it back to the store. I got to take it back. Sure, and I was seventeen. I would have

accepted that it was a fake ring. I would have been cool, you know, like it's fine, gave me a ring, it's you don't you want to marry me? I appreciate it. So you're saying yes to getting something in praise. If you're Gonta gave you some jewelry like a ring, yeah, would you be thing if you gave a female at present, like say you got her a chain or watching something and she went and got the praise, Yeah, I would, m I would you would only because if I am

proved to you a type of quality nigga. That would be that I would be offended because of that because I do ship right. I don't like Yeah, if if my past ain't showed you that I'm a g give me, give me, just give me the ring back. That's a deal. Like if I get it's not a deal breaker, but it's serious to me, like like I would. I've never thought about that like that till now. Like that is serious only because I know when I do it, you

could tell that I do ship right. Yeah, I agree with details, separate the reel from the rest, and I always make sure the details is right, and I make sure you look at my details to understand how details I am. So if I give you this ring, you don't know what, don't tell me you did it. Just don't tell me. No. But I feel like that's another thing. That's why got the ring. You broke bum nigga faces ring fake to go with your little dick glass. I

don't take fair. Rings are coming fast fast. Nigga can't stay in the pussy long and even fuck me, always gotta take five minutes, always five minute. Oh my god, y'all got me weak him? No, but I agree, but I agree like the time, who the gift is coming from? You know what I mean? Like if I give the Easies, the nigga should know they're real. I'm trying to try to go to Adidas that see if they're really you know what I mean? I would I would see any gift that I want to give you. What about somebody

gives you a president you don't really like it? Can you? Would you exchange it? Or would you tell her you don't like it? That's a good question. I would keep it. I would try to find somewhere to get if I could really could use it, and I really care about their feelings, I wouldn't. I wouldn't funk with their feelings because some people will never buy you that never again got them like back be better in the morning. What if it was awful and she was like, how come

you don't never wear that? Like the ants with Martin the episode was terrible, But I would try. I'll trying to try to use it. I really would I just let it sit there like I ain't throw it away? Still here here. What if you got to a piece of art, say for your house, that you hated it was ugly, you didn't want to hang it up with the most dopeish artists ugly so I could. But you didn't like it. I'll figure it out if I cared about it. If I cared about it, I figured out.

I gave um. I used to be. I was a personal assistant. I gave my boys to painting. I bought um like on the street in l A. It was like Jimmy Hendrix and he hated it. But off the street, Yeah, he hated it. And I swore it was a thoughtful giff. I thought he would love it. I don't know. I don't know. It was a long time ago. It was a long side of a scarface poster. No, he hated it. But no scar face has a painting on the wall he has. He put it up. He hated it. He said,

I'm gonna put it there. He said, I'll put it there just because it came from you. What's the worst gift you guys have a guy? Oh my god, I had a few. I dated this guy and he gave me like, um, it was my birthday, now, mind you, when it was his birthday, I went all out got him all this stuff. So then my birthday rolls around and he gets me like some handmade purse from somebody from his job. Now, I would think that you know me well enough. I'm fine with a thoughtful present. I'm

not carrying a homemade purse. It wasn't cute either, but he was like, yeah, this woman in my job. I was like, you clearly don't know me, but you know, I try to be gracious because I think if you give somebody a present, it's a thought that counts. But I just thought it didn't have a lot of thought in it. What about you? I was sitting here trying to think. I can't even I don't know what you got.

You gotta whack preser it some. He was like, now, this is some bullshit, and sometimes you try to hold on to it and be nice and everything, but you just don't want the worst held the worst. If I ever got somebody gave me a fake watch, I got that too, a fake Cardier watch. How did you know years ago? Because it came in plastic rapping, like it didn't even come in the red box. It came in like the and I was just like, I know, I knew it was fakes. As he handed it to me,

was like that, I don't know. I guess he thought I was younger, didn't know because it was I was like twenty years and he was like he was like one of my strip club regulars. He asked me what I wanted for Christmas and I was like, I want a nice watch, and he's like, oh, that's nothing, and then he gave me and it was like in the serene like you know how you get your hair and being that rapper, it was like rapper fellas. Every woman has given you a clue of something that she likes

at some point. Just shut the funk up and listen. It's the best I can say. The worst GIF I ever got was a nice gift, but the way it was presented to me it was mean and dick in a box. No, that's funny, No, I was. It was an air mask scarf. Okay, that's a beautiful present. It's a really nice present, but the way it was presented to me, it was presented to me in a big box. So I thought it was a purse. And that's terrible because it was because it's a lot of love in it,

like it was Fox. No, yeah, it wasn't you know the scarves they come in in the flat box. It wasn't. It wasn't a square box. It wasn't like that's like if somebody gives you a little back and you think it's a ring and then you open it and it's like an errand no. But I really love the gift. I don't want to sound ungrateful. I really did. But he did it on purpose, like it was it was a joke. He did it on purpose. It was mean. He was like, I used to play all kind of

tricks that. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I'm gonna laugh with you and we're gonna laugh at each other, like like I would. Yeahs I would just go buy sneakers and she's like, you ain't buy me them? For what? I want to buy you something clothing. She go on her bathroom, used the bathroom. They sitting there tub just some igor ship. Yeah, you say, you broke bum You're going to bathroom now. I'm like, no, what, Yeah, sorry, I take your back, You're not broken, come here. Yeah.

But yeah, I really liked the gift. It was just presented to me in a funny way. So I was a little bit heartbroken. You gotta have something more than the scarf, and there the worst is if somebody just doesn't like I had a boyfriend that it would be my birthday. And he always said he grew up the Hope Witness and that was his reason. But it would be like my birthday. And I'm like, like, oh, no gifts. He's like, well, you know, I wend that's like day in the Muslim she can't tell you to what to

celebrate Christmas and birthdays. They don't, But I don't care. I dated a Muslim and he brought me something for my birthday. M It didn't mean if you wouldn't of I would have. I wouldn't have cared because I liked him so much. Listen, guys break all the rules if they really like you. Yeah, I didn't make any my pussy. I liked him so much, so it didn't even matter. I wasn't expecting it, guess because he's a he's a he's strong about his religion, so I wasn't expecting anything.

He took me to dinner and he brought me a gift. Would you change your religion for somebody? No? I can't give up Christ for Dick. No. No, I wouldn't change my religion for a man. I went. I thought about it, though, I'm not gonna lost about it. Yeah. I thought about it. Like I said, I was, I was dating a Muslim. You were Muslim, and he made me um, He made me interested in the Muslim faith. So I I studied

it a little bit and I was very intrigued. You was intrigued into your found out you had to cover up all that face and body, and he was like, mus Rooms. There's different animals Ms. Yeah, there are different kinds of Muslims. And you know, I just when it came down to it at the end of the day, I can't. My religion has been really good to me so far, so I'm not going to just give it up now because I'm in love. It doesn't make sense. What about if a guy tells you that he didn't

believe in God. My my brother is atheist? Oh is he? Yeah? And every I see him and I'm like, oh, it's so good to see you. God bless you, and he looks at me like really bit. But I mean, you know, I don't think there's anything wrong with not believing in God. You believe whatever you want to believe. There's people believe in to be with somebody, they could you be with a woman who doesn't believe in God. I don't think.

I don't think I could marry someone or being I don't think I could even be in a serious relationship. I'm not judging, and I can't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't want to be with and yeah I would. I'd be scared to have sex with somebody to be I wouldn't want to do that either. I couldn't be with somebody who don't believe in God. Yeah, I'm not judging anybody that wants to be well, you know, for her her brother an atheist. I can understand. Yeah, that's what I said.

I understand. I just I don't think I could personally be with somebody. I don't. I don't think I could me and you a couple for life and now it's gonna be gonna clash for and I kind of would um and And I would like to be with a man who you know, does the cross over his food and praise over his meals, and praise before he goes to sleep, and praise when he wakes up. I would

like that, but not all guys. That would you be with a girl who had a hairy pussy shape that that's easy, but she want to if her preference was people bush, could you be with the bus? Really? Some guys like that, I like, I like, I'm not mad at the strip, but just like a little you know, I used to think this guy used to be like, just let it go. I don't want you to me too. I can't get mad. I can't. I can't. I can't get into my game. You know what I'm saying, what's

your game? His mouth and little service? You mouth everything everything that, everything that that that'll mess with everything. Do you eat but too you adn't grossies? Yeah, yo, you actually just actually have to do you eat? But it was like it was like down. I think I think every guy probably accidentally licks nobody accidentally, and my guy that my guy drinks water in the room. It's possible. It's possible. I'm saying. I said, I didn't say eat, c I said you accidentally lick it, and you said

accidentally eat. It's two different things. I'm very good with these words. I write them, write them, write them. So yeah, but you do so you do do it with who I was with, But you don't go down and go right for that. That doesn't make it unless unless you are some drugs and you just on some whole other ship. You got to be termed. I can't remember are killing on the sex was for a super loan in a office chair with a red T shirt on it, and I was about that and I was trying to fast

forward it. It was going on still for a long time, even on fast Ford. Oh my god. I was like, all right, this is getting boring. No, it was getting bored. But it was like, huh, I din't even see that part happened. I was like, what else is gonna happen? What when you say the freakiest thing you ever did, Um, it ain't even the freakiest thing. It's freakiest places, freakiest time to do. It is things happen spur at the moment. Will you a good guy? You just like to have

fun and that you enjoy that. You probably do some things you've never done before sometimes, you know, do you get up in shower after sex? Yeah, it's very important. You're supposed shower before sex too, I think personally very staneous. You don't think you should if you can, why not? If you can, Yeah, you can't. You know, it's not it's not like you can always be alright, I'm gonna

go on a shower. It's not like that. But if if the time is set in its relaxing, you know, you can actually take I would prefer you to take a shower because I have definitely I use baby wipes, Like, yeah, I believe in very so that just lets you know how much I really believe in. But I think, um, I think God should take a shower before after sex soon. But girls, the thing is, when you take a shower before sex, you're kind of taking away all the juices,

you know what I mean. So you like the marination, you gotta start everything. I've been marinating all day, not just so. Maybe it's just in the right timing. Maybe it's just me wording it the right way. But if, of course I've taken it, you know what I'm saying. So I think after sex and it's good to just lay there, you know, if a second, not even for a second, I don't mind. That's that's where you'd be like, yeah, yeah, like the wash rig, I'm gonna roll over and just

go to sleep. Go get him a wash cloth, let him just you know, you gotta get a warm wash cloth. And fellers don't put the soap on for us. Let us put on soap. All women can't take our women. Every women woman is different. The soap you used might not be that. Yeah, with the rag, give it to a hot open the door and if he came to fast, give him the cold wash cloth and some juice. Could

that restart, bro juice? We're gonna up up. And then now you're the type of person that after you say, after you have sex and after you come do you have to cover yourself up because you don't want her to see it a little now they don't want to see a little. I just always just do that anyway. It's almost like it's almost like reality come back you

like this. It's just that's just a feeling. It's not a conscious And after I'm gonna tell you if you if you've had if you have a girlfriend, she's seen yo dick at the littlest and at the biggest, it's nothing. You should be over that ashamed part, like it should be no thing. You shouldn't really want her to see it a little though. Sometimes get hard listen, that's what I'm just about to tell you. She's like, You're like, no, it's not so right. Well, so I know, let it grow.

I got on the thing, he saying to us, meaning that setting though, trying to make me backtrack. Alright, well, BJ to Chicago Key, we had a good time with you. I was like, what's he gonna be? Like? I know already, I know he's a little freaky. How you know that because r and we've heard your music. Of course we heard you on studio. That was pretty freaking out, you know. But then I was like, well, I'm not sure. You know you said it's all right. That was that one

on the level of freaky. That was all right, know, so you go deeper and some of my friends have had sex to that song a lot though, But I know also, you know, obviously if you didn't go for you to have sex to the turn up music, you own super to the max. But then you know, I'm like, okay, he's working Mary. Mary. He was on tour with Jill Scott. I loved Jill Scott. Now she was talking, she really

great about you on the breakfast. She like Auntianna, big sister, she both She asks all type of questions, makes she owned the gang on your square folks, right, So I was like, let me make sure when it comes through. You know, I didn't know, We didn't know if you were in a relationship, but we learned a lot about you today. He said, I'm chewing. He's not looking for that right now. I'm married to my music, right I ain't looking for much. But you know, building what I'm building.

You ain't supposed to look for love find you true and so let us know, just because we didn't even ask you nothing about professionally what you have going on. I know I heard this on with Chance to Wrapper, But when is the album coming out? Just a weekend? Put it out there November, Man, November is from the album coming out my birthday month of course. But um, the video of Chance with the video of church Desroy got with a Chance to Wrapping buddies just dropped us.

They say it's the number one added song Topping Music right now. But jeezy this week. So I'm excited a lot of little things happening. I'm just taking my time putting the best in the music, standing away from you know the craziness. Okay, Well, for all the ladies listening, he is single. You learned a lot about the things that he likes. That you got your birthday and scop. First day, I don't no wonder why you're so amazing, But the first day you're on the custole, you still

got a little bit of SCRUPI or freaking you. I'm just freak. I think. I think if if freak was assigned, that would just be by side freaky just But I think sis, we're very sexual people. Yeah we are. Like if we're in a hotel and be chilling, were both tied somebody over there, I mean, if he over there knocking the hear back, I can't listen, Like if I'm hearing, even if it's tired, come on, let's go. This sound sound I better? We could sound better than let's go. Yo,

I'm into that. That's motherfucker time, not that time I got you. Do you masturbate a lot? Nah? Not a lot everything? Every single one of them. NA guys try to lie and say they don't mash the be at all. Listen, every guy, every guy, And because I don't choose to funk with a girl in every city, I'm in, what the you're gonna do with yourself? You got to rub that thing out some people next to our having sex. What I'm gonna do to be with somebody's good. She's

good for putting a derito in the cheetos. I like all kay, thank you so much for thank you like making me laughing and having a good time. I appreciate it. Any time doesn't have the slum in the couch you can have y'all can have you talk about sex. I'm still here looking at the wall and seeing projecting my mind over what's going on. And you can always masturbate later. But this is not I know. How often do you masturbate? I really don't masturbate. You don't have to, No, I

sure don't. Why don't you masturbate a lot? I resturbated three times today. I'm gonna be honest. Part of my problem is that I'm always tired. If I'm at home and I'm in my bed, I'm gonna fall asleep because I'm never really home. But I will say that if you do masturbate, that's some of the best leap that you can have. Masturbation is a good way to wake up, too. I can't wake up every time I wake up. I'm always running late. Sex in the morning is best. When

do y'all think the best time sex? Morning sex and drunk sex? And makeup sex. Yeah, I'm with that morning secks, drunk socks and makeup. I like, I think just when the sun is up. Period, it could be early afternoon. I'm like sucking when somebody got to be somewhere else, like Nick, I know you at work to look you know when the best time to have sex is when

it's raining out. Yeah, that's a good time. That's the best time to have sex period, when it's raining out outside, adventurous, when it's putting on, not outside, not in the rain, but you six outside. Yeah, come back on the question questions when I come back, I'm had sex in the marine. I tell you what's overrated, sex in the ocean, sext the it's overrated. Yeah, I'll take all the juices again. I was trying to star taking over the weekend. That's

not almost drowned. It sucks thing what I'm coming out your nose. I was love it. I was trying to deep coming at your nose insane. You get the thanks to Ward just for the attempt. And I was like, drowned. He don't let me die, sucking dick. Listen, he like, keep going, you don't let me drown. Hilarious or like you're trying to have sex in the one in the ocean and start, or even trying to have sex in

the shower in the bathroom. That doesn't work. The what is getting all up in you depending on the shower. I like having sex in the ship shower, not the thing, you know, one leg Beyonce lie when she said that filled the tub up halfway and rattle my surf, she lied, she lied. It don't work. I mean, like in the bathtub. Where's the craziest place you have sex that you enjoyed? Not saltwater sex, but driving on ninety five. Oh that sounds dangerous. Yeah, what about you? Not about that risk

my life? Jess ready to die for some ready to die for some dick driving in the car um. I don't know. I mean, I don't think in places really crazy. Maybe like get a cookout in the bathroom. That's pretty gangster. That's good enough for for for really a couple of years ago in New Years No, no, a couple of years ago and New Year's the clock struck, you know, New Year's out, and then we went in the bathroom

and the club. That was interesting. Everybody has probably did the same thing too, for me, The best sex I've ever had was in my bedroom, right up in my bedroom. Not crazy, that's not crazy. The crazes where it was the best of the craziest place. I mean in the rain. I don't think it gets any crazier than that. There's there's there's neighbors and ship. We don't we were clocks having But the best sex I've ever had, you know, is in my bedroom, in the room, on the bed.

Because you're a maker, you're a passionate love me not even when I'm getting fun. I like it to be in my bedroom. The idea of comfortability, right yeah, sometimes, man, the feeling you have in that connection and make you not give a funk about comfort and the passion. This this feeling is the comfort got them been come like the greatest place you ever had sex? Ship? Uh, trying to pick I never had sex on the plane, but I had sex. Let me see, I didn't ask you.

It's a crazy place. You didn't have sex. So I'm trying to feel out. I'm trying to feel out my don't trying to feel out my don'ts in the studio. I'm sure you've had sex a lot in the studio, not a lot. But I've had sex in the studio for sure. Okay, you know surprisingly I'm a video vixing and I have never had sex and recordings through it all. But not it wasn't with it wasn't like it wasn't it wasn't like on some motion. It was like on some ship that like, this ain't our first time having sex.

We both wanted each other at the time, and that's what I went down. Yeah, Like if he was watching, I understand why they did that. You wouldn't be like you know what I mean, what about in the booth. You did in the booth, not with the mic done. You should know every that's not for everybody. That would be a great bags. We don't want to hear you like I need five minutes, five minutes. She that's the

ship the five minutes. And I tell you after that five minutes, I guaranteed you it's going that you're going to give me some juice. It's gonna juice, going to give me some juice. If a guy tell him it needs five minutes, and it's gonna make him come. If you tell him he better not come, Oh, that's make a guy comes. No, you want to know where to make make a guy come looking at his face and telling him coming your pussy. Yeah, that works everything the easiest,

that's the easiest coming. You don't have to take a short cause you just be like and looking at his and mean the ship out of it, even though you don't. And what if after that, she says, and I'm not on the pill? No, you like you got that big? Now you got like this. I get on the condom on the bed and to be like ship broke, condom break, I'm stopping sometimes can you always tell in the condom

vera yeah, girl, good, yes, yes, you're wait waited. Indeed you feel instantly, you know, you know, you know they're different. You definitely you never had no scare like a woman told you she was pregnant or the baby was yours. No, I uh, somebody who I was was pregnant, okay, and then it just didn't happen. No, she she didn't have an abortion. But you know that I wanted the baby that I was in a relationship. I was, you know,

he washy school. But you know it happens still all right, so good well b J to Chicago Kid November is the album right now, you can hear this song Church with chance to wrap her albums in my mind. Okay, all right, thank you lip Service and Angela. I'm Stephanie Santiago and I'm g G McGuire. You know, a good time, Chicago kids,