Episode 187: Butt snaps back (Feat. Shay Johnson)

and we talk about other things like sex. It's a lot of stuff I hadn't been through. I'm sure y'all haven't been. We want to about it today. Well share with us. You didn't even introduce yourself. Hey, everybody's your girl. Shaw Johnson here, loveing hip hop, Miami was good, loving hip hop everywhere, and so what do you think you've been through that you haven't been through? You'd be surprised. No, it's not that. It's just I've never had list embarrassing

a little bit. I never had an orgasm during intercourse. Well, but he had one good knee now that's the only way it can happen. It's only too can happen. Yeah, but I want to feel the other way as well. I've tried different positions angles that I've tried everything, but I just realized that it's just not gonna happen. I've accepted it. I don't think what about on top, like you on top and everything that's position. I did it.

You know, it's just because I wanted to get that feeling because I you know, my homegirls talk about and all that, you know, so I'm like, I want that too. So during intercourse. I love intercourse, but the best part for me you go down to me because that's how many other feel like you're about to and it just don't happen or just never even know. Just feel like you gotta listen to that's what they feeling. Let it go, but let it gorosen, let it go. What are you

thinking about coming? No? Yes, there are no And then you know, I don't even like to tell my partner because he's trying to do it. So it was one time on my ex, I just faked it because I got sick. There's a lot of women, though, percentage wise, that can't that haven't had orgasm through interquestions, any of you guys, not me. It takes me a lot any going to happen every time, and then you should make it only happen if I'm on to happen. Yeah, but

it does happen. But and you know about that new toy. She was talking about that. But they can help you, squirt. It's called the enjoy or something. That's just see the problem right now as you're being too judgmental about your and all of that stuff. Just you gotta just let your fluids out. I don't know. She just don't share that. She just doesn't want to let it. Always go to the bathroom before because I want to make sure I don't have that feeling. I mean, so do I'll stop

that goes to the back room and come back. You gotta go to bathroom. Plus, if you didn't just show you got a wet wife. Absolutely off showers. It's nice and freshman. You're ready to take take a little bird back. She was about to come plenty of times, but she stopped and went to the bathround. You're thinking too hard. I think I'm expecting that feeling on when he goes down on me. So I'm expecting that and it doesn't feel like So. I'm still learning my body, you know,

as I'm getting older, I'm still learning my body. But I want what y'all have, you know, I want. I want to feel that you enjoy having an orgasm after I do, I don't even feel like having sex anymore. I'd be like, all right, goody. I'd be like, I wish he would hurry up. Yeah, if you don't go down on me, because the way my body set up, I'm just not interested. But it's great when you come and then he has sex, like if he goes on. It's nice, isn't it. Can y'all have two orgasms back

to back? I really can? Running away Like I mean, if you keep fighting through it, then it'll be okay. And again you know, yeah, warrior, make you stay where you are. If you're gonna more than twice, you can come off and getting a head back to back to back. See. I have several toys that I played with because I love that feeling. The only way I get it to go down on me or I play with my little toy. So you know, I guess because I'm so used to it. It's just I want it again. I want it again.

It's it's amazing. What if he uses a toy on you. I've done that and it was great. He was inside me and we played with the toy. It was different. It was great. I liked it. But I want you came. It was the toy. It wasn't. I ain't trying to exactly. So I want to feel it without a toy. I want I want somebody to give me that stimulation. Without that, you gotta. I think you'd probably just be thinking too hard about it because it hasn't happened, and then you

probably like, I gotta stop myself. I don't want this, you gotta. It's the feeling. You're a squirder. Obviously you keep saying that feeling. Well, I have not every time, and takes you a certain guy to make me square, like a certain movement, certain guy. So I feel like with you, you're about to come, but you won't let it go. So you're never gonna come and let you

just let it go on that bitch o God. I mean, I guess it's gonna take a certain time person and let me loosen up, because literally I'm peeing on you like this, and you love. I'm not used to that, you know, I ain't never did that. Just do it in his house, not yours. Yeah, there's a treat for you. So now, what would you say? We all have had these situations where we do feel like all relationships we learned something, right. Have you ever had a relationship that

you feel like it was a waste of your time? Yes? Recently? Um, I was dating him, he was younger, he had three kids. Not wasted my time. We had a good time, but he was been ready for what I was ready for it, and I should have known that because he was younger. But I had a situation going on where I was selibant for over a year. So I just wanted some and when I got that what I needed and he

pleased me properly. I wanted more. I wanted to have something more with him, but he was too young, so we just But he had three kids, he got three. I would think he it was some type of how many different baby minds? Okay, what made you gonna celiban for a year? I have five woids. I saw you talking about that and how painful it was for you. Yeah,

it was. It was embarrassing. You know, it's crazy so we did have We have these detox doctors that we worked with, and they talked a lot about five worids and UM the diet, and they do this whole detox plan to help women with fibraries. And we had a women on They had over fifty five words and she lost UM, well almost all of them. I think she only has like five left now. But it is so inhibiting in your life, like people don't even understand. Took

over my life. It was embarrassing because I had accidents that I didn't expect to happen. My minister went from six days to fourteen days having to change your it wouldn't even work. I had so many accidents in the bed I couldn't even imagine how accidents in my in my godmother's car. It was. It was just embarrassing to where That's why I stopped dating, because I didn't want to bring him into that. So I just said, let me just figure out what's going on me. I didn't

know what it was. I just knew I had these heavy minstrokes, a type of birth control. I've never taken a birth control ever in my life, and that a lot of people thought that it came from that because of the you see, that's the first thing I thought, Yeah, But it wasn't that because I've never ever taken a birth control. I used condoms, that's it. But I knew the side effects and long term side effects of birth control, so I never took anything like that, So I don't

know where mine came from. And I went to three doctors and they didn't know either. So it's like, how do you deal with that? You know, I had pain, back pain, I was falling out, I was I was I was hemorrhaging and didn't know I was hemorrhaging, so I was fainting, so I needed blood transfusions. So um I started taking these herbs from a holistic doctor. It's called five word relief, and it actually relieved a lot

of the symptoms. But the problem was I had four or five broyds, and one was so big it was growing with from a little signs of a peanuts, bigger than the grapefruit. Huge. It was present against my bladder. So I was going to the bathroom like two or three times an hour. I would go to the movies and I couldn't even watch the old movie because I stay, you got to go to the bathroom. So I made the decision to have them my own make to me.

That's when they removed the fibroid, you know, off your your ovaries instead of having a hystory to me, I want to have kids. You don't want to do it because they'll try to talk you into having stayt to me. They try and they say, when you have that and you remove that or whatever, it basically gives problems in other areas. So it's not even like it removes the problem and removes that problem, but then it goes to other things. You'll have other problems. I was advised they

can come back, but they can come back. Everybody's body is different. I don't know what you eat daily. You don't know what I eat daily, But what I put into my system causes my issues and yours causes yours based on genetic So I feel like how I transition my eating habits, I just don't believe they'll come back. And I'm just and I'm still on the herbs, the

fibroid relief herbs. I'm still did you do a detox? Yeah, I did a detox, but it was mainly the herbs from the tea and the peals like literally the next minstrel cycle, it started to go down. I went from fourteen days down the nine days within three months. I want to hook you up at that detox actors coach Jesse. She actually wrote a whole book about it because she had five words and she thought she wouldn't be able to have a kid, and she had a miracle baby,

that's what she called her baby. And she does these detoxes and it's how I've met a lot of women that has helped as well. So maybe I know you've been talking to a lot of holistic doctors I would talk to. I was wanting to do anything. I'm gonna hook you up head just because because she's definitely like she. She actually just did something with Y and D's sister as well, and she was saying how hard it has been for her in her life just to even function,

like to do anything, to go to work. Her cramps would be so bad she couldn't even go to work. You know, people over I like sleeping on my stomach but naked. If I would roll over slightly, it works me up immediately. I can't sleep the rest of the night, So sleepless nights. My nemi is shot up. You know. I was, like I said, was hemorrhaging, back pain like it was? It was just so many symptoms. I'm like, ain't no way women not talking about this? Why they't

not talking about that? This is hell? You know what I'm saying. I was so embarrassed. I ain't nobody talks too because I thought they would. You don't make fun of me. But now I have a voice about it because I understand when a lot of women go through a lot of women ago, and it's more in African American women, absolutely, and they also talk to you more about having it. His directed me as African American, and they try to convince you to do that, and I said,

absolutely not. I want a child, like I'm not about to have a hiss directed me to take my whole uterus out. That's not happening. But I'm glad I made the decision I made, Like I'm not going to bathroom nowhere near as much that I'm made have anymore. Like everything kind of went back down, like I feel like a woman again. That's good, that's it. I'm glad is going to get better and bad girl dating they went

back to normal. My minstrels went back to normal because they were like six days, seven days, about five six days. Experience even went better. Yeah, like my whole life of mom, I period are about to get it right, that's how it ye, that's how we'd be playing in our whole schedule according to when that periods coming. Wait, wait, my period comes that day. I didn't even do that because I have a regular period. You don't even know what. No,

I don't know. So I might just be like one day it just comes and I'm like fun, But then I might not get it that mom. So but that's because I had six So that's the same, like the same problem, similar problem, but like it would just like stop my periods or make them longer. When I was younger and I would have periods for a long time. No, I don't know. That's the crazy thing. It's just I had like sis like here and there. I still have ye to this day. Like I'll get little ones or whatever.

But they say that like a lot of women have six and which your period you're just you don't see them none other but doctor, and they'll see them. You'll have like a little more than something that's like a blood cloud like at the end of the day. So when I was younger, I had a real big one that I had to get removed. But when they went to remove it, at ruptured. So it's crazy, but you know, I feel like when you're diet and stuff like that

that also help. I would take anything with your health, like when you're you've got to focus on your diet because that's the main thing that's going to really help you more than medicine. The medicine. The medicine is to maintain whatever sickness you got from getting worse. There's never a cure. No, yeah, you always have to look at that. It's like this to depress the symptom instead of healing exactly. So that's why I chose not to take their birth.

They offered me birth control minstrel to minimize the minstrel cycle, and I'm like, I'm not I've never been on birth control, why would I start now? And then I heard birth control was part of the problem. You've given me something that would increase my situation, Like, no, that's not the answer.

Till that's how I ended up going to Holistic. You know, they say they're trying to new the black women, like like make it more controlled of how much kids come from black women, Like that's what you know what I mean? And it's crazy because if you look at it, like you said, it's mainly mostly in black women. But why is that? It's something we're doing as a culture to cause this issue and we don't know exactly the line. I switched my diet four years ago. But before that,

yea many years have you been daking regularly? What's gonna take years to get my body back back the way? Are you vegan? Now? Well? I eat shrip every once in a while, but I haven't eaten porking over carriers. Yeah, but no fish. I'm allergic to fish. But you'll have like a little lobster I don't like. I don't eat lobs literally every once in a while and literally once in a while. Just chicken, no pork, no swine. I had swinema. How long has this been for swine? About

fifteen years? Be five years? Chicken about two years. That's like mine, that's like me. That is I'll never go back. But it's it's not. It's mostly because of how our meat is processed in the United States. It's disgusting. I'm in another country. It's different, but they shoot them up with hormone shots to produce faster. And it's a business. So I understand the business, but I'm not allowing you to kill me. Now you're putting all those hormones in

your body, exactly. Isn't that crazy? Though? When you're on an island or somewhere different where it's more fresh, how much different the ship that takes from here sick? You know what else? I realized to just this is what scares for a second. You know, as you eat better and you drink and eat more fruits and vegetables, and I do have my Press Juice company. Now drink fresh juice. You taste better. Yeah, that's so true. Like you have a text abodyse dick and your pussy's on it and

you're like, that tastes good. Yes, you ever had somebody in your mouth and they shouldn't best like you that I taste smile and you come take the difference between the man that takes that healthy. What you eat is so important exactly. So after Super Bowl Sunday, we'd've been having on them snacks and you're like, that should be salty. Better, come over there. I got a guy one time we were having a sleep on around. We were eating so much candy. You had a big jar of sour Patch kids,

and we were eating so much candy. You know, live for hours watching TV, smoking weed and eating candy. And I sucked his dick later on that night, and I swear to God or maybe you just had some. I was like, You're like, He's like, tell like if you don't eat, if you haven't been eating good and then or like say you drank a lot to kill or something. Yeah, yeah, And you're like, I don't taste nothing but sandwiches. And

literally he's like a car. It's like an engine. When the engine light comes on tells you something wrong, you have to fix it or cause your body. Your body the same And are there certain exercise that you do you feel like that make your sex life better, like when you've been working out stretching. But yes, I do yoga. It gives you stamina, cardio year long legs. The legs ain't like riding dick into your legs that hurt. And then you know what you like, do I want my

legs to hurt or my pussy to feel good? Are the worst when you know you're not in good shape and you don't got a Charlie horse. Whoever got a Charlie horse that we had? Or like if the ls on it and you're like you don't anything, Oh my god, I'll be like, wait, I'm getting your ground. I wouldn't say I try to ride through it and be mad as hell. Yeah, you'd be secretly trying to rub your foot,

trying to let me. Y'are very open, like when you know you haven't been doing what you're supposed to do, when you're squatting on the dick and you're like my legs shaking their hair. I can't do this much. All right, I'm gonna lay down, like you gotta switch it up and like no, no, you'd be like nor because sometimes guys are so lazy in bead. No they are not the last one I had, the young one, he wasn't. The young one, very controlling and I loved he was

so nasty. It was perfect. He was very controlling and see, I probably would do it well again. A couple more times was he left that I was at the bedroom to her only in bad No, we did everywhere like that, but very respectful, very respectful. But yeah, he was just the perfect type of nasty. I liked the game. He just pleased me quite well. That it wasn't pleasure P right. No, that was a year ago, but I still pleasure. He

always had my heart. That's the homie. You over there snatching wigs over here, and we said me had an angry bird. I did snaph it off her here. I didn't know, come off the wig, that's what happens. No, she was supposed to stitch down a millionaire. Didn't stitch down her wigs? So what am I supposed to do? That's your friend, and this either way it was edited.

It looked like you just ran up on her. No, I did because the last time we were supposed to have a conversation she threw infanadas at me and throwing drinks and just being petty. So I'm like, okay, when I see he was nothing to talk about. Nobody knew I would do that, but I just did it. Who waits not as like that? And she knows that she knows she wanted to eat it. Okay, So let's back. So I was did you really not like her only because of pleasure? P? No, it wasn't that I liked

her as a friend. We grew a friendship, hung out at her house in Atlanta. I'm sure she liked to you about this one, but hung out at her house in Atlanta. We went out in Atlanta to the clubs, hung out in um Miami, spent the night at her house, like we really were building a report. We would talk like every day, every other day, and then all of a sudden, she's cutting me off. Why I'm assuming it was pleasure. She was once someone pleasure on the show, So I'm like, you could have just talked to me

about it. We could all just coom bay out and figured it out. But instead you just cut me all. So when I getting my feelings hurt, I tend to react in certain ways. But I liked her. I'm not gonna act like that I didn't. I'm not. I don't front like I really liked her. I thought she was

a cool ass girl. Then that that hurts more, and it did, But I said that on the reunion, I'm like, you hurt me more than he did because I thought we had a report, Like you weren't my best friend, but I thought he was kicking and he was cool. And if it wasn't nothing, why you cut me off to this sometimes with those storylines though I Love and Hip Hop, they do like because she feels like it wasn't a real relationship for her. She just she said she went on one date with him and that was it.

But when I approached her, as you've seen on the show, I was like, Oh, you're supposed to be Dame Pleasure. She said, that's my man on live on television, which they airing, so you sometimes she don't know when to not talk. And the thing is, if you're getting into it with me A Matta of Veronica tip, drill up. Now Bobby's on you on his ship list, It's like you have all of these people you beef in with.

Sometimes now you gotta look at yourself because there's something going on with you because you have no respect to loyalty and soon she will turn on you too. But she has no respect, no loyalty at all. I would say one thing about like my experience of Love and Hip Hop, I felt like, if I really sat down and thought about it, every situation they put me in was me against somebody too. But it's like the situation you're it in, how I fail And I feel like

sometimes it's either you or them, and I wouldn't. But when I'm loyal to you, I'm not going to get you. They can't make me do anything like she was saying. And one of her interviews, you know she's not used to being on television. Not get that. So they'll put you in these situations and then she'll have these You believe them, but you don't go against your friend because Joe Blow told you to don't kee key and laugh

about like when she was talking about them. You know they were talking about bad about a modible model was your friend, and you keep keep laughing. When you did the interview with Bobby on the red carpet, he's saying negative things about the model, but you keep keep laughing. Nobody forced you to do that. To be on loyal In those situations, you won't TV, but they don't take away your loyalty. I just feel like I started this

show with girls that I knew. I wouldn't say that they was my best friends, but we was cool and like one of them, I even let rent my apartment from me. But at the end of the day, I ended up not sucking none of them bitches. Whether I kind of knew them, kind of was cool with them, and a big part of the reason was because producers running back and forth. So I don't know y'all situation, because really, she hasn't talked anything about you to me, and it's just she that we I really don't call

when MEA had to speak to each other. I don't really speak to her about other people because that's I don't really care. But for the fact that about it, I just know how these shows are and I know how things I played. It gets great for the storyline. Yeah, and it's either you or them. And that was her because you put your foot in your mouth, you got you had all these beef when she did the reunion and it was all four of us in on the

couch and I'm not gonna know it's cool. It's cool reunion, mod Tip and Veronica and we all had issues against her. But when you go to the reunion, that's what you do. You come to talk about or resolve your issues. She felt like she was attacked. So it wasn't that you were attacking. You have so much beef with so many different people, this is the time to address it, you know what I mean. And another thing I didn't like that she did. I just talked about I had fireboards.

That was part of my storyline. She went back on social media telling people my storyline was cancer. Yeah, said I had cancer. And I don't know where she got that from. I have no idea, but my uncle died from that and I have to watch him suffer and hate talking about it because I choke up some time. But clearly you haven't been in that situation to watch that, because that's not a comment you make people deal with that daily. Is that part of the reason why you

felt like you had to talk about what was really wrong? Yes? Absolutely, absolutely, because I don't want anybody to get it misconstrued. And what I went through with fibers wasn't easy, you know what I mean. But there there's no rules and regulations when it comes to throwing shots. I get that. Well. Now, since you want to say the cancer thing, let me go in on you and talk about your mother, how

she's the prostitute. Let me talk about how your mama got to have an Airbnb because your daddy won't give one more dollar. Let's talk about that. So you're running around saying you're rich when you say that on national TV and you claim to be rich and have all this money. That's a standard you have to uphold to everybody, even though she doesn't have all that money at all. You just lost your second business. So it's like when you speak, just watch what you say sometime, because sometimes

it's gonna bite you in the ass. That is how I feel. I don't know her personal and am here now. I just felt like I talked about her mom because her mom talked about me. I only get respect to those who respect me. You want to disrespect me, let's play. She said, I ain't ship, I ain't got nothing going on. It's coming from her mother. That that I thought. You know, I thought something with your daughter. But I respect you, you know, lady, But now I don't. I loads respect

for oh y'all. I really don't care. But I don't want you to disrespect her mama on this show. But because I know, I don't did. I don't really play with the whole mama thing. And I don't know her mamma, don't Joe. Joe is a friend of mine. This show is not about that talk it was. I'm gonna address it. I don't bite my tongue how I feel. It's how I feel. Now we could definitely talk about something else, but at the end of the day, certain things need

to be addressed. Definitely the cancer situation that had to be addressed. Respect Yeah. I mean I've had lots of people and my family. Somebody makes fun of you about that and say you have cancer and you don't how would you feel? Yeah? And I feel like both of y'all are get in person that when it comes to talk about family, I don't know want to play with the mother thing. So that's just me personally, but that's not my mind. Let's be respectful to people. Don't respect

anybody everything. So it's it, are you going back to the next season? Is the next season happening? And they talked about it, it's happening, Okay, are you going back? I wouldn't mind to be a voice for five broys because a lot of women don't talk about it. Right. What if that? Would you bring your ex boo on there? No? What if you? What do you want to be on there? Is there a red flag if you're dating a guy and he wants to be on Love and Hip Hop with you, Yep, you better have it tight because if

you notice, Love and Hip Hop can break up friendships. Relationships. So it just depends on your situation. You know, you gotta you gotta be tighten because it's too fresh and too new. I wouldn't okay, so and it's just it's just not there. Is it hard to date because people know you so because their intentions are more so another one on the hit list versus really getting to know me because I want a family, want kiss. You know, I want to have that situation because it doesn't mean anything.

You don't have nobody to share it with you out here. That's just how I feel. So that's what I want, That's what I desire, what works for you for I got to approach you then, because it has to be hard to you. Would you rather he act like he doesn't know who you are? Or would you rather be like I've been watching you on the show and that

either way honestly wouldn't bother me. It's just get to know me outside the show and get to know me on a personal level, because in the beginning, the honeymoon stage is the first six months you really don't know what you're dealing with. To me, it takes a good year to figure out what you're dealing with because they feed you live and bs and you kind of believe it, you want to believe it, and then the truth starts. The safety that's what happened, and then the truth start

coming out and you get your heartbroken. You before you guys have sex. He's talking to you. Y'all been kicking it for a while. He hasn't tried to. But then he's like, look, let's say if somebody famous and he wants you to sign an n d A, I would you do it? It depends. I mean, it depends on the status of our relationship. I don't think I would mind if he like leg I just got a lot

of things I need to protect. I need to sign this nondisclosure agreement, So anything that happens between us, you can't bring it up on the show and bring up in the press non disclosure, and he's gonna have your non disclosed ass up with some whips and chains. And I got damn corner. He got me. He's gonna miss the great power to that. Don't ask you, but it could be maybe some things had happened to him in the past. That's why I said he won't trust Ussel.

You know, I'm as say that think because he might look at it like, look, she's on television this ship, could you know who knows? She might say it a love in hip hop? Right, and so let's just say he was like, I just need you to sign this NBA before we take you first, because you're on TV. Yeah at this point, I think, um, I've grown to a better understanding maybe back in the day years ago. So you've been on TV for a while. Yeah, but

you're not just from letting hip hop. No TV career goes back to how we know you just right, money loving hip I love all whole shows. I was like the flavor flame thing because I don't think I could have ever kissed him for like, no nice chick, I don't care. I'll do but try to like you. I don't think like that. I don't cut that sun were worthy. I wanted. I couldn't touch up with nobody plessy. I think I think it was a couple of people that

actually did have sex. You want a lot of girls four but one season, No, it was two for my season and one three from my name. First, what was the most memorable moment you think punking spitting fucking yours? Yeah? What if that when the girl when she my family, I do not remember that. It was when they was handed that he was handing out the chains and they were standing there all dressing in their little dresses. And

she said on herself what was she doing? And she she was drinking a lot that day, and she was she was steady. I gotta go to backroom and go back room. But they were trying to hurry, and I was your season too, Yeah, trying to finish. Yeah, everybody, you're worried about peeing on somebody in there. We just smell something. I'm like, what is that? Everybody like, what is that smell? Nobody knew until she just, oh my god, I remembering the shot. Everybody it was, yeah, like diarrhea.

Have been have you ever done? Ain't? No, I haven't, but have you? Yeah, she ain't know. I believe that has something do with it. Yeah, oh my god. Yeah, so this is crazy. She broke her ship ripper. But when I was when I went to the guy in college, just once, the doctor stuck their fingering my bike, right, like they do that to like, you know whatever, And I shouldn't really, that's never happened, and you shouldn't see why you said it definitely made me has the ship

and that's what they do. Like if people can't ship, like they'll put But he did that with me, he stuck. That's never happened to that. That's the only time I had it. After the fibroids, I couldn't ship for whatever reason, you know, because they cut or whatever. So they had to stick their finger and then that didn't work, so they put an enema up there and then put it

in there. It was the worst feeling ever because I'm a version back there was now now they didn't put their down finger back you're right after that straight a little younger. You think that analyst why she shipped on herself. She was drinking because you know, they feed you a lot of feed you liquor, they feed you food, They keep you ready because there's no TV. We couldn't have our phone nothing. We have to interact with each other.

You're forced to interact with each other. Lucky just had Oh yeah, you guys giving up a third weeks so we got it over. When you do love a hip hop is months on top of months. Yeah, but a lot of filming, a lot of doing it. Yeah, because I don't have a charmed school to get charm school. I'm still seem like it was fun fun, It was fun. Yeah, no, no, no, remind what anyone? I love delicious okay, yeah, nobody. Absolutely, No. I haven't even talked to anybody in over eight to

ten years. No, I haven't affiliated with none of them. No, I loved watching them. What were you gonna say you did? G ain't have her phone for like an hour doing handstands and ship because she ain't had nothing to do on my head. Everybody was on their phones, and I got you would have been doing in the flavor. We imagine if I've corner doing split, I would love. I love not having my phone when I don't have my

loaned one can reach me. It's amazing. It was all heard my little TV, no phone, no, nothing that might be dope. We should try that. We should do a lip service retreat. We try that and it didn't work out because you're always on your phone communications servous lip service, so you had a finger in your butt even just when they do not. No, I don't do do that. They do that. I think that do anything for me? What about it? Probably not in there but around there, Yes,

that's me. I think I'm not listen. It doesn't do what I should be. What it doesn't do. What it does for us is what it does to them because our anatomy is different and they have nerve endings, and yes they have, but no, I don't do you. I've done it and not in my current relationship. But I haven't done it. I tried it one time, a little bit, and I didn't go all the way in like I did. Tried a little bit because he kept trying to But it's but on my face, Yeah that made it if

it didn't. How you do it? You lick your finger and then you just be like that with your finger and then you act like it. Why did he keep trying to put his bust he wanted that booty been so mad? Like bro, why my fame that? I was serious? I got to do it. You can't beat you right right, Let me do right. It got to be my idea. I used to like doing that. I haven't done it in a couple of years. I used to like to. I feel like fingers and I used to make me

feel powerful doing that to a guy. Yeah, but I don't. I haven't done it. Like it because it makes you feel powerful it makes me feel like that's your best and allow Yeah, yeah, exactly, and they scooted it again. Respect him after, of course, Yeah, anything wrong, it's more than one finger, then you can't respect him. One finger is fine. Anything more of a tongue, fine finger fine, two things like okay, two guys, and they won't with

that ship. Wait you try to put your I was easing my way over there and it didn't work, and it was like i'd they clenched up or they said something. They said something stuffy, bitch that nigger. I tried not too long ago, and he was like, he was like, what's your dumb mask? I said, do nothing. No more like they was just playing the perfect news for it too, because that's like, how was you gonna that? You just don't know what you're doing. It's never too long trying,

God like, okay, but reguless size, it's fine. You gotta have a little dick in it, but oh it's like a thing, a little If you're ever going to try it, now, you gotta have the start of penis. But yes, penis. Yeah, I'm over trying anal. It's just not for me. My body was not for it. I want it I like to watch it on porn. It's just it's not how I don't know if i'd like to watch it on porn do I love? It's like watchings and enation, like that's my favorite three and it'll be like, yes, should

be wide open like that. It's Hilary exactly. That's what you have to watch because it's like, oh my god, how then did she get three dicks in there? I could I can't. Guy, guy sure looking like a baby come out of her. But yeah, sometimes people's but holes be looking like might have a baby come out and ship, so be careful because I also feel like, how do you wipe your ass when your hope fis get stuck in there? Like knife closes back? Really yeah, but that's backs.

They like this one girl. There's just one girl that I watched and she takes fist in her ass and dick. Yeah, all types of ship. And when she's normal, it looks like a regular household, like that ship will be too stretched out, like you go to spin class and sit on the bike and the ship go up, your butt

tightens right back up. You're got to like they tell us ur they'd be putting the hole fitting watching the save me like they don't like that guy, you know, and also watching like watching doesn't make y'all wanted to that. I don't know. I don't like to watch it. I just like watch it. Are you watching? I love watching? So what kind of like what I like? I watched girl and Girl like two girls and a guy. I don't like watching two guys and a girl. Why I

don't like dick touching each other? Okay, I write it out, Girl Alive, you don't do dot orgy like she's sucking dig and he's sucking her in front of bad or you know what I'm saying. Like I like that, but when you're trying to get dick in the pussy and the dig in, then I like that. I like. I feel like I like to I've said this a lot on the show. I like to watch porn. That is ship that I never do. If I watch what I do in the bedroom, and it'll be like missionary doggy

stop porn. Yes, I'm like weight and gentle in the bedroom. That is like we're making love, We're kissing each other on the porn. Like I want to go. I want to watch the Get Dogs and Horn like everything. I don't do it, is like I relieve it from watching her because you like to be called bitch but not slept or something. I don't like being called I don't like to be called the whole. Okay, you don't like being called the hell, but you I don't mind horror Okay,

it's yeah. How is like a bad word? Like, yeah, I feel like we're during sex? YEAHNT when used that in the bed, like it is some good plussy? Well that's okay, that's not the Yeah. Yeah, still wasn't that bad? What if he calls you bro, we're not going just now? He be there? He be there, boy? That's what you say that nigga? And how how the window? And bro? Yeah? Because don't call me cuse because that's not sexy word. Nah because blood? All right, now time for what would

you do? Now? These are people asking questions, write the email questions and to get our advice. So what would you do? Alright? So my lady is getting kind of close with my homie. I've known for years. They aren't killing together by themselves, but they got ways that I don't get down with in terms of having a good time. They said, um, my homie is around my girl more than he's around me. I'm starting to feel left out

and it makes me mad, uncomfortable with the situation. I know it's probably insecurities and doubt talking, but I just don't know. They have all these little private jokes with each other. And he said, it's just weird. Where I come from, you don't get too close as another significant other, don't. Right there? Wait, but why are they hanging out with each other? Like what's the music? Not without him? But he just feels like they have a special bond or

something for me in a relationship. Like I mean, I'm nice to your friends. If they ask me some thing or offer me something, I'll be cordial. But all of that friendly ship, I don't think that you should be mad friendly with your man's friends. That's his friends. I don't think you should be meeting my secondly, But I don't think that friendly keep key all in the face with your man's friends. I think that I don't. I don't want my man's friends girls to be cool with

my man. You know, I'm regulating everything that I had an issue like that before, and the respect you have to disrespect for is just I don't need to be extra cool with y'all. I speak to you, I'll show you the respect that's needed, and I keep it moving. I'm sucking him exactly. And you have to carry yourself with a certain respect. If you acting all all birdie and keep key with everybody, it makes him look bad.

It don't really make you look bad. It makes him look But have you ever had a naturally like good rapport with one of your ex boyfriend's friends? What's cool? But I never let it cross the line because if it happened with him, I'm at his head. You know what I'm saying. I don't. I don't. I'm gonna do the same thing to him that he would do to me. Like, let's have to meet your respect. So don't get extra

cool with my friends. Number one, she's gonna get cut off and you ain't gonna have a woman no more because I'm gonna start thinking like something, Right, don't disrespect me? Right? I feel like your friends should never do that to you. Yeah, how fucking cool, Like they're getting it. Gotta be something weird for him to feel some kind of way. But I feel like he's supposed to speak to his girlfriend like y'all listen. Yeah, it's homeboy, check the boy, but

I don't. If you check your homeboy, that's that's gonna make him. Just toned it down, like homey, that's my girl do any of that? Shouldn't be a woman shouting herself like a woman and have respect for herself. Distress stuck o, but just cool because he said they got secret jokes and they're cool. He didn't say that she'd be throwing what I feel like it be cool with what I'm saying. He saying kind of music. It happens like you be you could be cooler with one of

your nigger's friends than the rest of them. But that know, you gotta be throwing yourself. But if he's kind of private jokes and making him uncomfortable or making me or like right, he should say that he's uncomfortable. Should he tell his friend, No, I don't think he's you should have have soon. But since he's in no situation, yeah, he should talk to girl about He should off to her and tell her to fall to back. What if this friend what little thought you's gonna back of dash?

You a man and you love him? If not, you're gonna go with a friend. If but what if it's not you're going to do that. But what if you want to just flirt a little with other than you? What if he's like, hey, I want to fist your butt? All right, here's the next one. Would you do? This guy says he's a huge fan of lice. Thank you. He said he's been with his girl for three years. He said, I've tried being faithful and a great guy,

but it goes unnoticed. She's very stubborn and still has issues from her path that she's carried into our relationships. So I cheat every chance I get, don't they all? I've been caught by her. Also, I tell her I want to be single, but she always acts devastated and brings her son into it. Because me and him have a great relationship. Every woman I try to leave physically attacks me or damages my property. I just want to

exit peacefully with any suggestions because disappear, you know. But he's shoshed been saying, like I was faithful for three years, but she didn't acknowledge it. Nick, you're supposed to be. He said that she had some baggage and past relationships, and sometimes we do bring other mistakes that people. Clearly he have them too. Because if he instead of confirmed her about it, want to go cheat every chance he got. He's also having problems, so he ain't ship. Yeah, that's

what I'm saying. And he ain't, so he should just freeze her, you know what I'm saying. Just don't answer, just disappear. That's I heard the slash and his win ship. He's a dog. It's hard because when you do have she has a son, and he's very close with her son, and so it is hard sometimes to break up with somebody when you end up being close with their kids. Didn't y'all tell me before that you just got cut their kids? It is hard, yeah, that, And it was

not easy just to cut the baby off. And you've been so close, and that's a child. They've become attached to you just like you are to them, but they're gonna keep using that over Yeah you got to go. Yeah, I get it, like I want to see you, but the baby got to be a bit a little bit kids, But okay, so you've been in that situation before, and I was attached to the child and it was hard to let go. And he did absolutely use the baby as an excuse. And I allowed them too, because I

didn't want to go. I'm gonna be honest, I ain't want to go in the first place, and she was an excuse to keep it going. So but then when I realized, like, look this, we can't keep going this, and I had to let him go and let her go at the same time. And it hurt what I did it? Damn What if they kid hit you up on Facebook? Like why did you just leave her kids? On Facebook? Like it's just life, and that's something at her age she just wouldn't understand. And when she gets older,

I'm sure she would understand. Gotta go, you know, all right, So he's got to leave her. Basically, he's not doing her no face. He just free her and just moved. Yeah, he's already a dick. So moving on one of the benches. Here's the last thing. What you do. I've been in a three year relationship with my girl. Long story short, she got baptized and joined the Spanish church. Now she doesn't want to kiss or have sex, and now she

doesn't want to kiss or have sex until marriage. Before she got into the church, he was cool, but now she wants me to sleep in a different room. We constantly argue about this every day. We both agree that we're not ready to marriage, but sometimes it press chase me to not kiss or have sex with her anymore. And going from having sex with someone she needs in the same room, she needs to pick up a guy

that's about the same. Ain't nobody gonna sit there and deal with that unless he's gonna go with her friend. I mean, sometimes when you make a faithly like that, you have to find someone who is in that same faith. So, you know, maybe it's time. Since she decided to go to Jesus he man hallelujah, I mean, you know, whatever she needs, somebody needs to he needs. They are now on two different paths. But he got to get in the guy more. She got to find a priest that

don't touch a little boy. Yeah, she don't. You know, it's a Christian church, so they span the long skirts and the boys them. That's kind of messed up. Now she didn't got saved, and now they got to break up because he don't want to get saith. He wants he wants to flush life. Everybody ain't meant to stay on your path forever. You mean reasons, I mean, how are you having sex and hand? Why she didn't talk to him about with that. I didn't have sex. I was kind of forced, but it wasn't It wasn't bad.

But were you in a relationship and we just like no? Buts see, that's what I'm saying. In a relationship, How are you in a relationship with somebody and y'all used to having sex but one man all of a suff and being like, we can't sunk no more. Yeah, she mad that she chose God. What you want to hear that question? I'm saying, imagine your man was like like, let's say y'all were engaged, and he was like, we're not gonna have sex until the wedding and it's a

year away. I'll be like, bad I could do. I was like, who burned your here? You this ship happens gonna be fun because I probably get pregnant. That that's I feel like, because you know, I've gone like you guys know, I've tried to move forward in my faith for the past couple of years, but I can't. That's just something. I can't go in the church like that and give up the love of my life, give up give up smoking weeds, and you can't it's all you

do it will God shines his grace on me. Even though so it's okay, no, I mean, and you could still I feel like, you know, even though the Bible says this is wrong, but I don't know. We shouldn't be talking about the Bible on here. But even when the Bible says this is wrong, I still feel like you could, you know, live your life and still feel God's grace and still have God in your life. You know, she went crazy about it. I'm not gonna imagine. I

think I think it's correct. You gotta have a conversation. You can't just tell the person that you were like I, I'm back home when you're no more. And it's like we didn't talk about this ship before. I think it should definitely be a conversation, she let one last time before she cut him off. They to be able to I don't be able to do anything. She didn't even can't can't like they can't be like I'm doing the most to you right now? Right? What's going on over

the alright Latin? This for real is the last one? That's another one. Okay, he said my girlfriend was a stripper, which I really didn't feel comfortable with, and she ended up cheating on me, not once, not twice, but multiple times. The thing that gets me is guys who are paying her for sex. I can't see myself living without her. To be honest, what should they do? I want to break up with her back, I want to wear things out. I just don't know if everything would be the same.

I feel like she's not even sorry. She latitude first, the prostitute. So now you have to figure out if this is really what you want. Either you deal with it and said you can't live without us. That's what I said. You should get a percent because I mean, if you a normal guy with pride and you go which most men have are, they're gonna leave. They're gonna be like, I just got dold. I was getting played, you know what I mean? She was getting paid, So

he's a little different. Like I just can't I can't live about her. He probably paid relationships not even sorry. You know what, women, when we see that weakness of you where we we got you she had on us and buying ambitious ship, do they be sorry when we find out that looks the difference she was and money from niggas for fucking and they out here fucking and

giving bitches money. So well, you think it's harder for him to stay with her, harder for a man to stay with a woman in a situation like you just described, for a man to stay with a woman. Yeah, but that's what gods are born with, That's who they are, and I love that. But what about your dogging guys, what's your biggest story? Because we always talk about how we get hurt, right, but what about when we heard some feelings? Who have you dogged? And what's the biggest

dog story that you have. The first guy I was dating in Atlanta, Georgia, I was I would say his name is Earl. I dogged him out because I did his name and everything. You really came on the track at him, and I started cheating on him. And I shouldn't know because I think I probably would have married him. I would have been married him today. But I just became one attracted him, like when he was on top of me, was like hurry up, like it was so like it because his name is Earl. I really say

that like drop needs to throw up? Yes exactly. No, I wasn't low with him. I ain't even gonn let you go there. I was like, I mean we were three years plus. I fell out of love with him, just like I'm sure you fell out of love with somebody before and you just didn't see it. And when it came to sex, it was like because sexist has a lot to do with being mental, So when it came to sex, I was just like, go like, hurry up and get your business. You don't think you could

not really was to come anyway. So time that you stayed with somebody even longer just because the sex is good, even though you didn't care about them. But yeah, boy, yeah, no, I cared about him. I didn't didn't care bad about him, but it was but you stayed long. It's sex. Sex was great. He was really nasty on just kids. You keep talking about nasty. I want to know what. I don't know. I guess it was the locations we did it,

how he did it, the positions he did it. He did like, I'm very flexible because of yoga, so he put me in positions that I didn't do sexually, but I'm used to doing in yoga. Come on, Child's post did a lot. I'm like, you know, like I said, I'm pretty sure we'll have sex a few more times, but it's not gonna be nothing. What kind of position like you were laying down and he put your legs all the way behind you? Like, what kind of positions? Well? I know one thing. He ate my pussy in the

handstand and I didn't never did that before. Damn. Who was I'm a yoga and I was like, wow, it was just something different, you know, because I never did it before. So anything different to turn messing to your hand that helpless that's not like a city girls put in the hand. That's a bar that right? All right? Okay, so wait, but you ain't dog him? So we were talking about people that you dogged. Yeah, my name is Earl and I've been dogged, but we're friends actually to

this day. It's just I know it will never work as anything, but friends. Did you call him early in beg No? Ye, yes, my friends one nick named Earl DMX, I don't call himself. All right, So what about you, Larya? Who have you dogged out? Damn? I had a good story and then we started laughing and shift and I forgot damn. Damn. Yeah, let's get me And that's not I can't think right now. It was on the tip of my tonic dog. I bet it was shut up, Jez, what about you? I know you dog? Somebody have you

said like you do? Trying to think of who I remember. Okay, it was this one guy. He was on me, on me like crazy. So basically like I took his number, was talking to him back and forth, but he was gone super hard. So what I did was I blocked him right and but look so that he started DM and me and he's like, hey, like I don't know what's only I was like, no, no, no, it wasn't recent block, yeah, but that Instagram and I'm starting so so I was like, yeah, my phone is cut off,

right you? You hit him from your phone saying your phone my d M. I had it from the D. I was like, no, my phone cut off. I ain't had the money for the bill. Don't you know this motherfucker hit me in the D. I'm like, y'all just went to the the A T and T store and put money on your bill. Your phone should be on. I'm trying to call you and it's still not going through, Nigga. I blocked him on every fucking every so your media. He really put five hundred down on my phone. My

bill was paid, it was on my account. So he just paid for me to talk the other niggets. For a couple of months, I never talked to him and I didn't like him. That didn't work. I talked to Okay, you talked to blocked to me. He eventually got the point like, oh, this bitch played me and I lost my five hunt. I'm sorry to hear that. What about you, Stephanie, have you dogged out? Okay, it just depends on what you're talking about dogging somebody else, because I can't lie.

And I'm not proud to say this, but I've heard a couple of guys feelings in my lifetime. So I dated this guy. We never stopped together, we never kissed. We I just kind of repulsed by him. He was kind of like yes, and you know, I just strang him along, and so finally on holiday came along and I made him buy me a thirty dollar watch gonna have like yeah, remember that, Yeah, where I sold that ship. People be like, yo, you were your boyfriend, Remember I

sold him? Remember I sold it for the president and I got rid of the president too. But that's what happened, was part of the reason because he brought you to watch that you wanted to switch it out and get a different one. No, definitely, that's you know, I made him get got give him give me a break here, God forgive me. And I promised, I'm not proud of this, but I made him buy me the most expensive watch for that exact purpose so I could trade it in. Yeah,

it's a true story. Yeah, this is a true story. Yeah, so that was that was a pretty bad one, right, Yeah, that's pretty bad. But but you're getting nice watch. And so I was gonna, no line, I was gonna suck it up and you know, really try and no, I swear to God, I was gonna strive. But like a week later after he got me to watch this is so bad. Oh God. A week later after he got

me the watch, I asked it for. I said, I need thousand dollars on new thousand dollars And he's like, Stephanie, I just gave you, you know, thirty five thousand almost for this watch. And I was like, what you told me you was gonna give it to me the last time I've seen you. You told me I was gonna give me this thousand. It's already promised to me, right, So he's like, oh I can right now, I'm I'm I'm traveling or whatever, and I sent them to hell. Like I took it as the opportunity to just be like,

I'm not. I don't want to funk with you no more. That's it, it's over. You was looking for out, Yeah, I was looking for a No, of course, not ship. I'm not like I said, like, I don't. I don't think that was cool. I would not ever do that again. Like I think it's so bad to be using And that's that's another thing. Like I said, in my lifetime, I I have took gods for their money and you know, didn't give them anything in return. And I don't want to be like that anymore. Well, God should never give

you money with expecting something everything exactly. That's what. I don't think it's that bad because you try to buy me. She let me coach, you know, but like that, like I'm so off that I don't even be trying to take money out of niggas no more, I don't. I don't see somebody elp with your wet right now you went, I would definitely take it. She's going to take, but then I would like take them to church and we will talk about God just to make myself feel better,

and you know, give him something back. You know, you gave me a watch and I gave you give you God. I don't give you a pay together. You know what imbody anybody never in life, I don't know. I don't believe. I don't believe it. I mean have curve people telling that other dog them like, I don't know. I probably do. That's why I won't none, because she's like, I got so many stories, I don't know which one to tell

what about I definitely have. I will say this, I'm not a gifts person, you know that, Like I don't really like people to give me things because I feel bad. But I did take this guy one time, and I remember I was talking to him as somebody else simultaneously, and I had to like, this was so bad, but the other guy was about to come over, so I had to pretend I was going somewhere. So I got dressed and everything like I was leaving and left the house and finally leave and that was probably one of

the worst things that I ever did. I felt bad about it later. I really like him, like that like he was cool and everything, but it wasn't you know. So yeah, that was it, but the worst worst thing I ever did. Okay, so now it's time for the end of this out. So the last thing that we're gonna do is we're gonna tell you a story. It's about one of us. You have to guess which one

of us it is. Okay, all right, So which one of us had to stop drinking vodka because she would get blackout drunk and peter bed all the time down trying to expression that any work I could have is it you? He'll find out next week on Crazy Pussy. But honestly, thank you so much. We really had a good time with you. We thank you for sharing and opening up because you did give us some really valuable information.

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