Episode 183: Rural Rhymes with Oral (Feat. Christopher Martin)

taking your questions and you will be participating. So make sure you go to carolines dot com and get your tickets to see lip Service Live in New York City at Carolines March twenty weeks seven. What's up is Angelie. I'm gd McGuire, I'm Lourial and oh okay, yeah, I'm Christopher Martin. I'm good. I'm good, I'm good. I'm blessed. Christ the plane and you know he's in New York with his light ass jacket feather. Is that the warman's coat you have? I think so. I probably think I'll

have a warmer one in my sup kids. But he got layers on. He's smart. Are you enjoying the weather? Not really. I'll live here from here in this area, and I don't enjoy the weather either. So I'm troubled, you know, or with differently not all over would probably tropical in the former life because that love issue. It's the right are you hoping that it snows? Because not really I've seen the snow. If I've never seen it before, you know what I mean, then I would be like

I really wanted to snow what I'm here. But it's still fun though, it's just different. Nothing's fun about this now. It could be romantic. It looks nice from outside. It's nice. Izzard. Ain't nothing romantic about snow, man. You need to get warmer, alright. So we're gonna start this off from a question that we had last night, I mean last week, and you have to guess which one of us had this story to tell? Okay, is it me? Is it loriale? Or

is it alright? So which one of us got our period on a rappers tour bus and it woke up in a pool of blood and was scared to tell him, yis all right? He ain't even looking he looked. It's her going to guess it's okay. We just want to see what your looking. She wasn't looking at me, it was I was so scared. He's like I don't care. I'm like, but I remained. He's like, I didn't care. You're a woman. I'm like, what I should be like, I don't care. But I was so scared to tell him, right,

he was gonna see it anyway. How did you hide that? I didn't hide it everywhere? So basically we were in the bed. You should have told him you were in virgin he broke your hand. This was so I couldn't. It wasn't said my whole clothes back had a vamp along years of situation. So we were very comfortable with each other. And he got up out of the bed before I did and went into the front of the bus. And when I got up, I felt it. I saw it, and I'm like, oh, I got to tell him. It's

how can you hide that? Right? So I called him to the back of the bus and I'm like, you got to tell you something. It's a murder scene. And it's like what And I'm like I'm scared and he's like what. And I'm like, put your hand on my heart and see how hard it's being. And he's like, now you're making me scared. And when I told him, he's like really, like I don't care. He's like, Jesus, thank god you're not pregnant. Yeah, that's what I would That's what I would have. So, Christopher, have you ever

had a situation like that? No, No, that's never happened to me. I feel like every girl has accidentally had sex in her period, and every guy has experienced a girl who didn't know it was about to come, Like you didn't know it was coming accidentally. Though I don't know. It's possible that you can accidentally get your period, like you didn't know. It's so possible that you can lie

in so you sometimes you think it's over. Now that's something that I can see you think it's over, But now I don't know accidentally, I don't felt like I could see that, or maybe one word could bring it don't early, Okay, okay, I could see that happening. You can see that, you know, saying it's finished that I don't know. You know, of course you could, but I'm just saying that my love, come there, come back. That's when she said, you made it? Do you remember that?

Have you ever made a girl squirt? Yeah? Do you remember the first time it happened? Did you know what was going on. I didn't know. Actually when up the very first time, I thought it was p It's not mad, No, it was all over. I told me like, so, what is this? You know what I mean? And then and then she's like, I should have told you that I squirt me. Oh this is squirting. Did you like it?

I feel like it's a different kind of Maybe have some girls who just squirt on the regular, and then maybe have some girls who, you know what I mean, the pipe game for bring them to the level of day. So I want to use the latter. Okay, so maybe my game is you know, my game is the squirt game. Sounds like she was a regular squarter though, because she was like, Oh, I didn't tell you. I do this with all the guy but I'm gonna I'm gonna stick. I'm gonna stick to the lot. That's what I'm working with.

Rights certain guys that could bring it out of you, and then it's the girl never gonna happen. So our women who can do it like that. Yeah, so it's a spot that you hit. I don't felt like I know that. Yeah, what does it feel like? I coul droid with the mask like circular? You know, it's like it's a button. It's a button. It's a button that's straighten and you go a little left and then take a sharp brightening right there too, like a feet two

hundred feet. Nobody reaching there. Nobody's reaching there. And now you seem like a nice guy just based off of your music except for cheaters prayer, But is that a nice song? If you have to pray it's an honest song because you know the mentality of men on a whole. We're like lions, you know, so we're hunters if a guy is gonna be honest with himself, so we want to indulge at some point in time. We can go years. Some guys can go years or months or weeks and

not indulge in Noah active infidelity. But if it does happen, they don't want to get caught, so it's fox. So it's like you're praying you don't want to do it, but and even that it does happen, please don't let me get caught. So you're not praying to not it, you're just praying it not. I'm confused that you can't want to cheat at all. We don't, we don't. But if it does happen. You know, if you don't get caught, you don't cheat. How many times? If you guys are cheating,

I've never gotten caught. He got the prayer. It doesn't it work if everybody listen to cheat prayer, But write it. You got to be the creator. I sang that song from from a society base, not from a personal So you've never cheated. No, I'm not to cheating. I was. I was born on Valentine's Day, some day I love. I can't cheat you Did that mean you get gifts on Valentine's Day? It's only right still, man get gifts on Valentine's Day. I got my boyfriend. Did you get him?

I had some flowers and candy and balloons and a Teddy Bear since his office. You also bought him ugs though she knew that slipper. She was waiting, do you like any flowers? Of course? She was very happy, of course, And I'm just saying, he's just surprised. He told me he was very excited, like very It's nice. Man. I didn't think he was. I love it. Man out here working making all this money by gifts and ship sing ch ch has a girl ever tricked on you um,

and but you man stuff and gifts. Yeah, but that's because it's his birthday and Valentine's Day. I don't know if that's tricken. That's separate and apart from our speciality. Yeah, what's the best gift you've ever got? And then we'll gauge how good you are the best gift? Right, the best gift I've ever got? House, Well, no about laying it down, al right, I don't think about it, and I'm gonna come back. Yeah, No, I want to for the best, right, you know. So, so I gotta sift through.

I got a few of us, because he got a lot. It could be some good. It doesn't have to be ground drawing, nothing like that, you know what I mean. It can't be simple because sometimes this thing put things are the ones that really hit him the hardest, you know, So you know, the thought as opposed to the quantity or the quality the qualities of a quantity at all time. So you know, I mean, it's simple what it it hit home? So I want to find a real I don't just want to give you one off the top

of my head. I'm sifting through all the nice ones. I feel like a great one with stand out though they in your head. Um, I got a really really nice gift when I was much younger, like I got no no, no, no, no, not every checks, no man,

because it still stands out in my mind. It's like, um, when when I just started in the business, like a mother came to me and she was telling me about her daughter, and she, um showed me like a picture of her daughter's well with like every article that ever came out about me, and she put it all over a while in like a hard form, you know, and my name was in the middle of it, you know. Yeah, So she she took a picture of that and gave it to me the very first time I performed. And

where was it? Was it Dominica? I think it was Dominica. So so that was a gift for me, and it was it was just a normal day and she just gave you to me. She should like, I have a very big part on her daughter. So a me some Dominica. No, yeah, well he said he has family that's from there, but I don't think he's ever been there, you know what. It's been scary if she turned out to be a stalker. Luckily she didn't do it. She never got the chance

to you never even met her. I did meet her, but um, you know it was like, you know, no thing, no good Dominica to just show leave. You know, we never got a chance to steal. Have you ever had a stalker at that? I don't know about persistent and somebody being a stalker. It's a very thin line when when when they go over there, you'll understand, you know,

popped out from under the band pretty much. And I said a lot of mean like you know, there's a lot o d you probably don't even know about, but you know, it's a very thing like like some people that love you to the extent where it's uncontrollable. I feel that's the point where it becomes a stalker kind of model when you know you're well, it's not even

possibly aggressive. It's overly aggressive with their show affection, you understand, and even when you try to be nice and said, um okay, I get it, it can't stop now, and they're still persisting. You know, that's when it reached Stockholm mode. But I was really slight restraining out on them something. You know, I know how to advert everything. What if you were dating somebody and they were like Hey, I

drove by your house and the lights on. Yeah, you told me you weren't home, but I see your car. I was just driving by. That's weird, like saying I was just driving down your black I was in the neighborhood, but you told me he wasn't gonna be there. I sell your car. What do you think about something like that? That's intentional? That happened to me, that's all. Yeah, Sean, there's no way, you know, I'm just occasionally driving past. You said you're in home, but I see your car.

You know, I tell you where your car at. Your car was right there, parked by the hydrant. And that's only possible for your neighbors, Like if you if he's on the main street, Yeah, yeah, car, if you have to pass the whole something. I think I would go a different route if I had to pass, Yeah, the person's house. You'd be so embarrassed they happened to be outside and crazy, Yeah, crazy, you're like that. I gotta go this like every day, this nigger, I think I'm

just talking. Shoot, my ex boyfriend lived right by me and I used to have to drive past like where he lived at to get home. Would you go a different way, or you just to drive that one. I don't give a fun see, I don't know. I trying to go out my way to drive home right through there. Yeah I did, And I'd love to see if I see you're stuck like a question. But he really did live right by me. But I didn't care, like I sime. That's what I've seen him with a girl driving back.

You rain You ever a kind of lightweight stock somebody? No? Never? Never even Instagram? No, not even Instagram. You ever been like, who the funk is this that you like? You? No? Definitely. And then if I'm in a situation with a female and I feel like she needs to do all of that, then and not my female, And I mean she she's

not mine. She shouldn't even to me because I feel like if you get serious with somebody, like commenting on the needle stuff on them, something that stuff, it's not necessary unless you know that they're friends, saying now you eat mom and a nice suit and she can't say nice suit my brother or a nice suit my friend. Would not just rundom need a pages and stuff like that corny, right, I mean, like a joke, some big joke, big, big disrespect and you know what I mean. That's a

that's the full place start. Now, if you're in a relationship, let's just say you're jetting somebody. Seriously, you guys are together most of the time. Is it okay for you to spend the night out and not say where you are? No, I don't think so unless unless unless this is so, unless this was the norm from from drum Street, if both parties were okay with it from dump Street. But personally, my belief is if if you get serious with somebody,

there should be transparency. You understand, you should have no closure in which somebody has to wonder if you're doing this or if you're doing that. Well, even if you're doing it, say you're not doing it, then, you know what I mean, just to feel like there's some little transparency. But if you need to, if you feel like you need to know, lie, you know what I mean. But at the end of the day, though, if you're going to stay by your friend's host, say where you're going.

You know that guy you know so so so, And that's interesting that you say that because we talked about this, right, we were talking about this behind the scenes. When how much do you tell somebody that you're dating. Are there things that sometimes you might want to lie about? Jesse, you don't have an argument. It's sticky. Everybody's different, like I'm different. I'm different from everybody else. I'm weird personality for me. I don't. I don't. I don't intend to

build on lives. Like everybody here knows that the sky is blue. We all know this. Well, you know what? You know? What color is this guy? What commonly when someone blue? Like your females, like you remember everything. So like let's say, let's say last week Wednesday, you asked me as like when we were driving down the road, what color was this guy? I was like, you know, it was green, bab you know? And then today now for some reason, you want to you want to truth

check me nout. So last week when we were down the road, like what color was the sky? Again? Then me, I forgot you brain know what color did I tell you the sky was? And then I tell you ready like no, you said it was green and blue? You know what I mean? I can't deal with all of that. I know the truth is blue, So you know what I mean? I tried to remember I know the truth. I don't have to try to remember it, so you know what I mean. For me, I don't build on lives.

So at the end of the day, if i'm if I'm gonna get serious as somebody, we're build pun truth and transparency. That's all ideal with life. Do you believe in anogamy? You think you could be with one woman for the rest of your life. I'm not going to be. It's difficult, you know what I mean it Mono going to me is very difficult, and from it me to sit here and tell you that you can't keep it straight. I don't think I could. I don't think I could do that to be honest. You know, Um, I'm an

Eastern mind free I'm African. You know. Do you tell that to the person you're in the relationship with or do you believe? No? I don't. I don't sell dreams, so you so you believe women can't be monogamous either. I feel like women are built differently from men. Of course it is you know what I mean, men men men? Men were born you know what I mean with nature and women were born to nurture and what I mean it's it's it's you understand life. They women understand life.

Women understand life on the end of the day. It's just like it's just like for us, for us as men is like and I don't know if it can speak for every money in here, but like every woman like me, a woman can't can't undest than that our partner step though, and he probably made a mistake and he he messed up and she can see through that. For like us as men, though, it's a different kind of story, Like it's hard to see pass a girl that you feel like you invested trust and loving too,

but she invested trust and know. That's what I'm saying to you though, That's what I'm saying to you. You you understand it, you can see pass it to you not understand that, but the percentage of women who understand it, that what is the truth. Though. I feel like women understand life, you know what I mean, they were built with that ship to understand that. Um, they can do it. You you, you don't feel like you have to chase anything. Women like men know it don't have to mean anything.

You don't have to chase any No, it's it's embedded in on thes like it's like it doesn't have to mean anything, but you want to do it. You know you're not supposed to do what you want to do it. That's how we failed to really we don't. I didn't know that we don't do it. I did not know that would be the same tempsation like tempted. But but but you have better control. Christ if let's keep you

don't have to take any women. No w It's like it's like it's like it's like the one I'm thinking it's for some of us, you know it's and then you think it ever stops being thrilling for for me or for guys on a no, No, women are nice man women on a hold. I love women, you know, it's it is what it is, and you know, but I respect them, you know what I mean. I have the utmost I want to respect and you know what I mean. And they should be praised and you know,

I mean they're they're they're that special. By the end of the day, teaches on. Everybody has their own beliefs, you know. I just don't feel like you should sell a dream to get your way if you're gonna be honest about to be honest about it, because I feel like if a girl like you she a message to eat away. I understand either she wants to get serious or she doesn't want to get serious. But if you just want to have fun, I don't feel like you have to lie to or to get it. Can you

be in loving more than one woman at once? I think so you can love, you can love more than one woman. I think, how many have you love to have one? Like like I would crack a joking and be like, I love my mother and my love. I don't know, like I feel like you could love two women at one time. Personally, yeah, I feel like it's like, you know, you could be caught up in a situation like call that. Yeah, definitely. I've seen girls called up.

I've seen girls caught up. They're they're like struggling to see who they should be with. So you're talking about women struggling. No, I'm talking about both parties. Because just just a while ago, I was saying something about men and y'all came down. I mean, girls do it too, you know, So I'm just saying like, you know, yeah,

you know, so yeah, I feel like too. I feel like two is reasonable and people can understand that and be like, you have history with this person, and you met this person and y'all clicked and a grite on everything, and you just feel like, say, it could work, but you have your mentally and emotionally attached to this person, so you know your your caught between both worlds and you know, I love girl. At some point you might have to choose. You have to choose well, if you

want to choose. Some people, some people feel around the same way you some some some people find joyt playing people's emotions, understand. So at the end of the day, it's it's how much you can take being one of the parties on the altar. If if the female or I'm going to use female, if the girl is the one who's in love with two different guys, it's just how much each guy is willing to take because at some point then they're gonna find out about each other.

And if you love her and if she loves him, you know what I mean, nobody's gonna want to let go. You feel like nobody has everything that you want in a relationship, like there's no woman that has every I would never say that. I feel like there are women out there with everything that a man wants. But I still and I was still I was still mess up. Yeah, and you'll still mess up like like you you you always wanted this kind of girl, like you know what

I mean, anywhere anytime. She'l ready y'all can have fun anywhere in the car, club, church room, doesn't matter, you know what I mean. Do you do anything anywhere and you want to do it, you know, and then she's here for you to have your box you like a buck bone, you know what I mean. She supports you everything,

She's everything that you've always wanted. I was still Yeah, some whack as bitch that you not really all the time, because sometimes you have you have you have guys who who want to have the conception in their mind that if I was to step out, I'm let my girl find out. And then she did like a much up with the other girl should be like, Okay, I kind of understand why you would want to do it, but you should not have done it. But I don't feel like females put any other girl beside them, But they'll

always put themselves up over another girl because everybody else's wag. Yeah, man, you know what I mean. You know, people always find up cheating on someone with someone that the other person is close to as well, Like you ever noticed that we were talking about this on the show, like look at Tristan Timpson situation where supposedly right, and that's somebody that was close to the family. Somebody that happens look at you know, I was I was kind of talking

to I was saying, I was prepped for this one. Yeah, but are true still? As Angela said, it's true like a lot of the times, it's the people are closest to you hurt you the most. Sometimes the ones we at least expect, you know. And it's funny because you know a lot of people look outside of their whole group, are their whole comfort zone to feel like those other people would hurt them, And it's you know what I mean, it's the closest ones so easy. Yeah, you know. Have

you ever been heartbroken? Yeah, definitely, I've been through it. Talk about it. Ah, yikes, you're going on this one and this one. I'm a bridging there or no, actually bridging on my money job. Um, I was with this girl when I was in university. I was going to University of Technology in Jamaica and I was head over you was over this girl. Trust me, she came to the studio and we're supposed to go to the movies.

So I went into the office, my boss office, Robert Leaving stands and I was like, Yo, Bossy, this is my girlfriend xxtion. You know what I mean already see what you know? And so he he looked at her a weird way and I was like, oh, boss, I looked on my girls. Then anyways, him shaken or whatever, and we left. Funny enough, my car I don't even know, I remember what happened, but I took his car and something was wrong with the gas gage so it showed

half tange but it was actually close to empty. So on the way to the movie, it ran out of gas, so I stopped on the roadside. I had to call a taxi taximan went and got gas fill up the tank, went back to the studio. Missed the movie then no, and I was like, all right, I won't take it home because I have some work to do. Then my money I called me. Know you knew how much I love the girls, So he couldn't tell me everything in

one goal. He broke it in pieces, like you know, you know what I'm saying, you're a girl or did they had a party with homeboy. Yeah, man, I say, going on And that was the first bit I said, I like marsh up. And then like after that he told me I'm not a piece. Heart wrenching even more, man said, does tell me everything one time? McKean, take this, you know, trust me. And then know what made it even worse after he told me her aunt called me no.

Because her aunt really liked me. So she called me and she was like, I was, you know, coming without her room and for how many days? Imanna say yeah, I said, come come over. So I went over there. So she was like, Christie's outside, you need to come out. So she came on like the veranda, whether I black and blue something. I said, oh, this something to you? And then man, I said okay, because you ken you already told me everything. But I was just like, so,

hold is something to you? Say? This is what I said trying to Yeah. When I left that host that day and I went back home, I was in the show for maybe two hours. I soup up the water, washed me off, super puking. I could not come out. You know, it hurt that much Like that was like heartbreak on a different level. Yeah, that's crazy because I don't wish nobody of course, of course, and I don't feel like I don't feel like if if if you love somebody and they hurt, you just automatically flipper switch

where you don't care anymore. You know, you still have feelings and still you still want to be with her. Never. I can't take it. Wait, why would that I black and blue? Maybe they had a fight. You beat her up. He probably found out about him. She was like, that's my girlfriend too. No, well, it was my girl. It was my girl. She she actually was living in a in a different part of Jamaica, and her mom really

liked me, and she had family in Kingston. So her mom was like, you know, you're always driving this far to come to her. I'm just gonna let her live in Kingston. There's more opportunities anyway. So she moved to Kingston because you were together. Yeah, you think that's something that affected you after that? Like as stressed, No, I don't think so, Like I don't. I don't feel like one person should have that much power with somebody, you know, and I feel like I'm stronger than all of that.

It hurt, yes, it hurt, definitely, but at the end of the day. I know myself, you know, and I know what I'm capable of. And if I if I never felt or believe that this person deserved that much of my energy and my love, I wouldn't have given it. So I don't feel bad. I never felt cheated, and I felt like, you know, I mean, you coaxed me into this. You know, I wanted to love you this much, so it was a conscious decision on my part, you know.

So I kind of helped with everything she trying to like still be with you after that, h yeah, and after after a while we we we we turned friends, you know, after a while we turned friends and it was cool. But you know, it did scar me, but it never it never it never made me on my trust issues with anybody else or I feel like all girls are like this easy Vie. Month after heard subsided, you know, went about life like not at the ana do you want to get married? I've never really given

much thought to marriage, to be honest. We don't have the things. You know your mind can change, but I've never really thought about marriage. I've honestly, your mine can't change because mine did. There you go it to be like I don't want to get married. I don't want to get married now. I mean, if it happens, if you're here for us, but before I probably wouldn't be

like the marriage for what. But I'm a little more mature now, you know, I'm good because I feel like a lot of guys say that marriage is for women. They act like that, but the wedding is for women, don't. Yeah, the dress wedding and being like I can't wait to give me never you hate that part at a wedding. When they'd be like, oh the singles get upright like another drink that ship. Let me look at goofy and jump to me ready from it, I'd be like, get

that out of here, sack. You should you should just try to catch you for the front of it a competition. I think it looks conny, though. I think that's just how I felt. You should just do it one time for the fun of it and say you did it, and then somebody pushed me out the way and I got to fight out the weather night. They be getting aggressive those one, especially especially if their partners there. That it's like a statement like I caught it to see

what it means. I caught it, so you know, you know, you need to come up, need to know. I've never been to a wedding and caught that vibe. I never caught that bog never. You never thought about like I'm not gonna get me. Would you get married in Jamaica? You think, of course, Jamaica is beautiful, man. Everybody should get married in Jamaica. I was just in part Antonio and I loved it there. Yeah, in Portland, really nice? Where were you tried to know? My friend actually bought

a house there. Yeah, so I was at her house, which was amazing and I loved it, and she's trying to convince me to buy a house there. Now you should. They said it's so far from the airport, and that's fine. You probably don't need to be near the airport anyway because two and a half hours. Yeah, that's that's supposed to hedonism. Oh yeah, have you ever been to hedonism? I've been to Eghywhoodmerica. He said to try this. I

know you took somebody specially there. But the funny story about tried on jump and all that jump jump is really nice. I was at um for months recording living. You know I was there because when I just in Jamaica. I don't know if he already, but when I when I started singing, I wanted like the equivalent of American

idol in Jamaica. Um, it's called a Rising Stars. So I want nothing two yeah, yeah, So I want nothing two thousand and five and and and one of the prizes for that was I was signed to G Jump Records. Ok yeah, John Vehicle. So I was there, um on property, that hotel. It's amazing, the restaur and it's great. I loved it, the very things, the scene and everything. It's just beautiful. It's just baby making kind of it's you ever had the opportunity to go. And it's expensive as

I'm not gonna lie, but it's worth it though. Right was eat there, but then he gave me a tour. He took me to the studio. I got a chance to see what it looked like. A lot of people go there like to record their albums. It's some rich ship. Just really that you were doing some rich all right? Sits ahead. Yeah. I was there for a while and then um, but I wasn't recording a lot. You know, he was making love because it was a love making.

It's love making kind of vibe and I was hot, like off TV, Like I didn't have a song for myself, but I was known everywhere. Yeah, you know, two thousand and five, two thousand and six, I just came off with TV, so everybody knew me, you know. But I wanted to make music and I didn't want to sing like the songs that made me popular on the talent, you know what I mean, because at some point in time people would get tired of it, and I didn't

want that. So I was like, if I'm gonna be here and I'm not recording, then you know, I mean, when I'm doing shows, I'm gonna always be singing these people's songs. And if let's say I go on the show and these people are on the show, what am I going to sing? I cannot go on the stage and sing their songs. I mean it's disrespectful, you know. So you know, I just took the initiative and I left. I left all that nice rich stuff. Yeah that's likely,

but yeah, you know what I mean. And then yeah, and I, um, I went to Kingston and that's when I met my manager UM At the Hilton Hotel. They were having like a karaoke kind of like and and a friend of mine called Derek Moore introduced me to Kenny Um. Kenny brought me to Big Yard, introduced me

to Robert living Stunt. Intention Initially Kenny wanted me to work with Robert, and then like Robert was busy, and then Robert was like, so, Kenny, why don't you like maybe he I didn't want to do management or whatever. But then you know what I mean, we just started out and it just worked. No papers, no nothing, just trust, you know, damn now no still trust? That's great? Yeah, my bird, h nothing changes. You know. It's it's this thumb. You know. If we say it's ten, it's ten. You know,

if we say it's five, it's five. It goes like that. That's what I'm talking about. It transparency, you know. So you definitely have to build trust, but not not to digress. So I start to go too far from the story play. We went to Kingston met Kiny Kiny turned my mind a job. I started recording under Rest is History, and I'm here with your beautiful ladies today. Now we're excited and you're actually gonna be with us, well with me at a FOOI. So I'm excited for that as well.

You're gonna you're gonna do something there, so I know everyone's gonna be really hype about it. Now. The last thing I'm gonna ask you is how do you feel about dating somebody who doesn't have any friends? What you didn't a girl is you're like her only friends. She doesn't have nobody to hang out with, you know. I was by saying, did you see that movie I Love You Man? Yeah? Yeah, he didn't have any friends and he has to try to find like friends because he

just only hung out with his girls. Then they got too cool and she was jealous. But do you think it's a red flag if you're with somebody and she don't have no friends? I don't know. It's weird. It's very weird. Can you not to have any friends? It's really yeah, you have you have to have at least one friends, you know, So then and then if let's say it does work, don't work, you can and then you're gonna tell me you're out with somebody. Then it's

gonna be weird. They're gonna be too many red flugs. Too many red flugs come up if you do something, oh to the ordinary, No, I mean you should have friends. Everybody should have friends or associates. You know, even if you don't want to use the term friend, you don't because some people take it so serious these days. So she is, you know, you have to have something that you're cool with that you can kick it with outside

of me. What if she has too many friends and she tells them at her too many friends there is the problem. No, I don't work with too many friends kind of think I can't work with that, understand, And too many guy friends on all of that, Yeah, I don't work with that. And I'm personally I don't feel like if we go at parting, you you shouldn't walk away from me to go hell, no guy friends. You can't say how to a guy friends. No, you can say hi. But but if we're kicking it, hear me,

you're gonna move from where I am to go over there. Now, let your guy friends come over here. But if she's like, we're just dancing, who's just stumping here? How we do with this Trinidad? We just did girl's boyfriends out to tell her because you know, you got to Trinidad carnival and the way everybody dances. And he tried to tell her. He's just this is how that's our culture. I don't I don't think you girls kick it like that, hands on, hands on. It's a hands on kind of generation right now.

Have you ever had a girl that she were dating when her friends tried to talk to you, maybe would you tell her? If I would tell my girl, no, I wouldn't tell her. I would just you don't want to tell her watch that for your friend. No, I would have handled it, you know, because at the end of the day, I'm not did not be friends with that person anymore. That's not that and not really what I'm saying. If we were dating, my girls tried to

talk to you, you you better tell me. No. The thing is, it's not worth It's not worth you losing your friend over because at the end of the day, I didn't do anything. Yeah, but I tried it. Yeah, she shouldn't be like you shouldn't be friends with that girl she wagged because at the end of the money to her

and she didn't tell you. You know, when you flip it like dot no when but at the end of the day, though, you know what I mean, if it's not it's it's not if it's not worth friends, you know, if it's not worth telling me, Like you're like, if in your head you feel like you handled it and you feel like Reggie's a good friend to me, but he's you have friends who are just weak to women

on the period. Definitely, I respect that though. I respect that by the end of day, she feels like if because you know, any woman I'm going to talk to

has to be a strong woman. So if she feels like she handled it and she doesn't feel like she needs to bring it to my attention because at the end of the day, Reggie straight up with everything else, you know, she's there for me with everything else now, But he's he just has a weakness where that is concerned or maybe he didn't feel like I was that's serious about my girl. Because you have dudes who read into ship like that. They'd be like, we'll see gonna

read it like her that much? So that mean you won't feel a way like you know, you know what I mean, you know women, you know, so he don't you know what, you'll want to kick it either way, y'all want to kick it. I never said no, no no, that, I'm just saying, you have dudes you know what I mean. You want them are cool, you're more friends, and they just interpret situations differently. But your man, if if one of his boys tried to talk to you, yeah, I'm

a bag of noise. I would tell immediately like there's no way. Well, you know, I'm just saying, you know, if she feels it's not worth telling me, and she handled it. If I didn't know, it's fine. And if I didn't that found out from a different route and I and I pressed through on it and she's like, well baby, I handled it, and and nothing like that, and very I'm cool with it at the end of the day, and then I can deal with we're using

Reggie handle it. Yeah, you know what I mean. I would say, comfortable with you being around some there you go, so no, you wouldn't feel comfortable being around him. So with you being around some I get like, I get it, I get that, I get dot, I get dot, but that's not your that's not your decision to choose. So that's why I would handle it and then say something. I'm like, you know, it sounds like you're just slide

in my d M like it was here. But I told him, you know what, I then know, and then no, I could hundle my friend and then I could be like, yo, you know it always step now, you know what I mean? But yeah, my brother still understand and then we're brother after that, of course. But that's why man try shure. He depends on who him do it, you know what I mean, if he depends on dude, because at the end of the day, he could he could press her and be like, Yo, Chris is doing this, and Chris

is doing that. He a white nigga, you should be with me. Damn. That's straight up white right there. That's some bullshit. But you're doing it, you know what I mean? Really looking out that guy doing that might be the good guy. That's all fabrications right there. No truth. I didn't no truth to none of that. People didn't a girl and everything was great, but she don't suck that. It's fine. It's fine, So you don't mind it because

I don't give head. Fine. I knew he was gonna say that, Okay, it's okay, that's it's not It's not a Corelian things. It's like it's well, you could say so a Jamaican thing. You have Jamaican like you have Jamaican guys who do it, but it's it's cool to say they don't do it, right, but it's fine with me. Like she doesn't do it, it's fine, and he lied about it to all his friends. You have a lot of guys in Jamaica who say they do it. Yeah, they're okay with it. I know you're okay with a

woman not doing it face with reasons doing it. I've just never done I don't see the need to. Secondly, um, I grew up. I grew up in in the rural section in Jamaica and the rural section of the country section. So from from from from your young it's like they beat it in your head. Don't buck your fist. I'm bucking your fist is master beating boy, don't buck your fist and don't go don't bunk the girl. So he's like,

you're growing up, don't masturbate. No, you never had a wed dream of course, Okay, that's not masterurbated masturvation because you just mass like cheating that. Yeah, you know, it's it's one of those things. But in that but now you cidified, you know, I am. I've blended in well. If I chose to time if I chose to, but I choose not to. You know, I mean, I'm cool, I'm cool, and I didn't getting married. You never eat pussy, you never well, I never said I'm never getting murdered.

I said, I've never given much thought to it, but I can definitely said I don't think I would ever go down on a girl, my girl, any girl, no girl at all. I'm weak because one time I told me that I was dealing with that. He didn't eat pussy and he ate my pussy before, And I'm like, but he make it like I'm like, bro, I gotta say to me, he believes it. Yeah, No, he was like no because like in my coaching, like it's not even cool to say. So he like, don't talk about it.

I'll just whatever he said talk about just do it. I do. I do it, but it but like, don't bring it up to ever, Like, don't write a song about it. I mean that's the same thing. I'm gonna write a whole song calls eight. Whatever he's making, it's gonna be something. What about Yeah, I've indulged to say, okay with that They okay, yeah, what if they told you know? Three stimes you wouldn't have that done it. I'm fine, Honestly, damn who's they because they're strong in

the world. They should have told him not to fall in love with two women at the same rural and run. They got to be fine, you know. Yeah, you gotta be you know, you know, to each his own, to each his own, Like when when when you know, when when I was younger, it's like I would be like, none of my friend him counted up? May it count be friends? Like what you're not gonna be you know,

That's what I'm saying. When I was younger, it's like it was it was like the whold culture to be like it's so cool, like if him do it, we're done with him. Yeah, you know, girl, but I'm so grown up free did I want to like anybody? But but you know, I grew up. I've grown and you know what I mean, My mind is more open, and I just understand that people when they're grown, they're allowed to do whatever they wanted and you should not be judgmental. And at the end of the day, if if I

have a friend, he's my friend. Whatever he chooses to do in his private time with that not pussy do it straight upon your connect what if pussy and make your gotee conner, that's the things that your gote like you got. Sometimes people should stop right here. It's just the mustache. And in this part, don't go like so so that to connect the next the more fuss you eat the full of your beer. Oh and I was always wondering, why was that blessed with a beard? Nothing?

If you start going to beer, we're gonna know what's going on. You don't know all right now? And the show you have to guess who said this? Okay, somebody one of us a story which one of us lost their virginity to a woman. I can't lose your woman. We didn't ask you all that. You don't have a beard? All right, go ahead, I'm you know, meticulously scrutinizing you. It's between me and Angela. Between the two, you gotta picked one the same thing both. Okay. Now, he's like,

who is it? You'll find out next week. I'm the service Chris Martin life that we appreciate you so much for joining us, and single life is available now, which you will love, very positive, very uplifting. One of those wake up in the morning and play that song and feel good about your life. Yeah, definitely, Thank you lady so much for having me. Thank you. We really appreachi it. That was really fun, even though you didn't finish your

do say this whole time. I hope they didn't tell you that in the rural areas there we got Chuck Chuck, Chuck Chuck. Yeah, it'll be so good at Oral take it. Thank you so much for joining us. Thank you. Yeah, I say. We are so excited here at lip Service to announce that we do have a live show happening in New York City. It goes down March at Carolines, So make sure you go and get your tickets. You can go to carolines dot com to get all that information. It's also pens on my Twitter page, so if you

want to find that link. I know, G G and Lori, y'all we've all been posting about it. We're gonna have some very special surprises for y'all, so make sure you get your tickets before they sell out. We're gonna have a great time and we haven't even announced who's gonna be there yet