Episode 15 Ft. Bridget Kelly

gonna get into the sun of now. I mean, I had a long, hot ass day, but regardless of a little wave in New York, regardless, i made it here from my little two hour travel and I'm happy to see my girls. So happy to have a drink, because that's the first thing everybody came in here said, I need a drink today. Let me hear my ice jiggle.

That's definitely what kind of mood are you in today? Um, I'm I'm a little de us today, but I'm getting away though, I'm drinking and I'm gonna be happy and like just a few minutes, there's some good things and bad things that happened for Stephanie. First of all, you're gonna be on good day New York right. Yeah, I'm gonna be on Good Day in New York tomorrow morning at nine am. That's awesome. Well, by the time this air is no but yeah, by the time of over

been on earlier this morning. Yeah, but you were one of the sexiest people on Instagram. Yes, and sexy New Yorkers on Instagram for them in the New York Post. I came out in the paper this past Sunday, so um, Fox five brust out to me, and I'm going to interview with Good Morning America tomorrow morning. Yeah, I'm gonna The bad day is that our boyfriend went to jail yesterday. So good things, bad things. Yeah, my boyfriend went to jail yesterday. So I'm a little down in the duves.

I'll be all right, okay, all right. Mood is what will we say for that? Mood is like gray, I'm feeling very great. Good. I think I'm great too. You're a little gray great. The summer is ending. I'm feeling a little sad about that. I feel like people are still trying to, like, you know, beat thoughts out here. I just I don't know. I'm I'm dreading cuffing season.

I'm dreading it. You're dreading it and I'm dreading it. Man. Okay, so, last time we spoke to you on the Breakfast Club, you just broken up with your boyfriend who was your trainer as well. But you're still in great shape. So that's goodness, that's all. That's all. Well, now, what are you feeling so upset about? You broke up with him? Well, he actually broke up with me, like for real, for real, in the in the in the grand scheme of things he done. He left me. But I mean I deserved it.

We were fighting so um no, I think. I mean I tried to move on a little bit and it didn't. It didn't bode so well for me. It's hard sometimes when you break up with somebody where they break up with you and then you go out with somebody else, it's always super critical because you compare them to the person who you was just with and it's like a rebound. Yeah, it's just he's just messy, and it just it gets

on my nerves. I think. I'm just I'm just frustrated because I give so I give, I give people the benefit of the doubt, like I'd be giving people too much credit. Who did you give the benefit of the doubt too. Girl, A new guy, this guy, there's not enough vodka for this. Now. I want to know because sometimes guys make mistakes and we need to let them know. What is What is it that bothers us that you did? So? What did he do that bothers you? Um, it's really

just it's just running game. Like I feel like in the very beginning, I'm real clear, like I've I've had a pretty shaky I've had a shaky pass, Like I've done my share of foul foul stuff. So, I mean, I understand how the game is supposed to be played right, so you don't pretend to be some innocent virgin and they never did anything, not by any means. But I'm also a professional, so I understand the rules. I understand how it feels to go. If you're a guy, you

should play by certain rules. Certain things should not be out of hand. And I just felt disrespected. What are the rules for the guys? I just feel like there's like, if you're gonna do shady's stuff, like it should never get back to me. So in other words, respect me enough that if you're gonna do something stupid, don't get caught, don't get caught, because that means you were careless. You

were careless, orp and slopping comfortable. You were comfortable, so you didn't think enough of me to really cover your tracks. I don't like that. Or just don't do anything stupid or possible something, don't be don't be a completely you know completely make better decisions, Make better decisions. So what are you looking for now? I'm looking for more money, more alcohol, And that's what I'm looking for actually, because those are things that bring me a lot of joy. Well,

I think I can help you. I'm like, I feel like I'm spitting at the right couch for more alcohol, more shoes, and more money. So were good? All right? Now? We were talking about this earlier because what I want to do now is focus on helping men. You know, we're not here to bash y'all because sometimes guys feel like we said, oh, y'all talk so much shit. We

don't all cheat, we don't all to do this. And I was having a conversation about four play and I do feel like guys need tips on how to give better for play because sometimes guys think four plays I spit on my dick or spinning your pussy and then have sex with you and and that's it. So I want to help them mount and let them know what are certain things that they need to do for us, because I do feel like four plays so important for women. In order for sex to be great, four play has

to be great for a woman especially. I think, so, um, you gotta let the oven preheat before you stick it in, That's right, Like you got you have to sample it a little bit too. You gotta, I need, I need, I need the whole thing to be completely devoured before we can. You gotta. You have to just like you have to savor the appetizer first, like you gotta just yeah, I need that, I need that before we get before So you have to eat my pussy first? Is that?

Which is absolutely all right? That's a muss And I do feel like that too. I always say a guy should definitely go down on you before they have such as a respecting respect the boy. I think, Um, I think a lot of kissing is important and four play like only on the mouth like an anerthize stomach, not and not like licking because guys confused like little guys

kisses with slob right. I hate when people slapping on me right, like, you know, like kissing me on my neck, but like like, don't stick your tongue out and look at like a dog. And there is a fine line between like a soft, like a supple bite and a real bite, like I'm really I'm yellow like me. I'm gonna like that hurts. Yeah, people like pain. I'm not really into pain. I like bites. Pain is good and the right at the right time and the right amount

of pain. Too much pain and the wrong time, it's just the timing is off and it gets a little weird. It's yeah, you're like, now a little break right. I like, I like bite, like on my neck. I like to get slapped, but that's like four play. We didn't get there yet, I said, I like a little pain. Don't slap me doing like you don't slap me when you don't not play. I think that far play please thought it for a place. But you know, like I like to get a bit on my neck, but I don't

like to get bit on my back. Okay, it hurts. I think that guys need to be more aware that intimacy is just what a woman craves sometimes, like guys aren't as affectionate as we might want them to be sometimes, and I feel like they need to realize that we want that, like we want all of the kissing and the touching and the licking and the rubbing and all of that. You know, somebody told me that fingering is childish. I like it. I don't mind it. I like it.

Here for it, like it's yeah, I like my pussy and put finger. Yeah, I love that. It's like a gentle slide and then it's one finger and then it's too, like it's a gradual like you're taking me on a journey right now, that journey and with this thing, or because if I was ting, you can make somebody actually

or yeah, absolutely I come from. So that's why I think sometimes guys like as things they did when they were younger that they feel like, oh, I don't have to do that anymore, because that was before I was having sex. I was fingering girls and doing this, and I don't do it anymore, And you have to do just like y'all want us to do those things that we did. Imagine, I said, well, I used to get blow jabs before, but I don't do it anymore because

that's childish, right. I used to look the balls or doesn't really but it doesn't really matter, so never mind, No, they're still there, bro what you mean? So I always think that fingering is important, of course I think or else sex is important? What else is important for it? And you say kissing, nipping important, don't don't not doing and like one like you said, when you get to chapter four, chapter four or five and you already you already in it, that's when you could. I like that.

I like to be choked a little too. I'm with you, I love to be but you can't forget about the nipples in the fourth place, right, like guys forget about nipples like it's not about the under like the under the like I need you to be wrapped up the area all that active with my areola. Sometimes I feel

like um brush, like they're um like ignored. They don't got enough love exactly right you space nipple is a very sense sometimes just like the point to you just yeah, when I was a kid, that was it was like a really big thing for a girl to have big brass and a lot of times they have no hips, but boobs were like everywhere everybody focused on the boobs. Now asses, Now I feel like everybody forgot about the tits and they're going for the ass. But that point is,

don't forget anything. Don't forget the nipples, don't forget the ass, don't forget the vagina. But also every woman has a different spot, Like every woman has a different spot on their body that's like take go down the spine like it's for summus, the neck for sum mus, the hip like it's the inner thigh. Because you know, there's certain places every woman has her own kind of you know, and different guys are able to make you feel a

different way. Like sometimes a guy might do something that you love when this guy does it, but if somebody else did it to you later on you're like, yeah, that doesn't do it for me. Or something that you think you don't like, you end up liking that a certain guy does it. So maybe one day I like getting fingered when when the right guy doesn't, you don't like any finger No, really, I feel like I'm getting get me the dick. Let's play we're talking about. You

don't want four plays? So when is your four play consistent? I just your ideal, just intimacy, yeah, but just no fingering. I don't want you to finger me when I want something in my vagina, I want your penis. What about a finger in your butt? Well? During four plays? Chapter five, five, five, that's a move up five, but not not until chapter five. All right, what's your so any other tips that we have because I just want to make sure guys get it?

What about sucking toes? Oh my god, that's so annoying. You don't try to stuck my toes. I had a guy sucks my toes one time. For everything else that's too far. It was just a random situation, and I actually really enjoyed it. We called they came from out of nowhere. I'm like, listen, if you're gonna put my feet in your mouth, what else are you gonna put in your mouth? I mean, we we all have amazing toes in these kinds to clear but really clean, and I keep them done. But come on, it's just yeah,

I don't know all you think about. It's like, man, I stepped barefoot from the shower to this day, I don't know what kind of pumps nocks. What if the guy wants you to massage his feet, I'm not a post that. If you're my man. If we're to get like you're my man and some guy that's just some

casual thing. You ain't. I'm not touching your feet, you most guys, most guys keep their feet like away guys hide their feet, but most guys like that, Like you're like, I feel like a guy, and I need to see a guy's told so I know it's real, Like I gotta see what your feet look like for me to really feel like we need something real. One woman actually sent me an email to asking and she said that she's been married for six years and has never seen what that's like. A guy saying he never saw this

girl without makeup on. I actually actually know a girl who's been in a relationship for three years and she's never he's never seen her without weave or a wig ever never, I've never seen it. No, she's got hair, but I mean she's always got a weave in or she's always got a wig, Like it's always something. He never sees her, never never sees it without Does he want to? I don't. I don't know. It's been like three years, but it's still just like damn for real.

I mean, like pink panthers sneaking out with your like, come on, No, that's too that can think about it. We don't want guys to see us not looking good, Like when when that FaceTime lights up, girl, I mean, I'm all natural. I when it comes to that. The only time I put makeup on is when I'm working. I wear no makeup all the time. I will take that ben out my Yeah, Like I don't like I'm on FaceTime no makeup. I don't even care, Like straight out of my bed, like wiping across on. I feel

like I'm going to get a FaceTime. I may actually sleep in my makeup, like just in case, Like hey baby, it's like because when you face time, you gotta get like the right band. Yeah, oh it's definitely. I'm definitely yeah, definitely. Never mind. All right, now, what about us? Like what do we do? What are your tricks during four play

that you do to man everything but penetration. What are some things that you think guys like a lot of guys try to front, but a lot of guys do, like when you lick the booty hole, they do like that episode, we should do us. It's true. We're like a lot of guys, says, We're like six minutes and we're talking about booty. I'm just we need to I want to get a survey done for real. Now, this is what I need. I need for people want to

be an anonymous. It's gotta be anonymous though, because I want to hear some guys that that will really admit to not a finger. We're not talking about no, I'm talking about it. It's a little, just a little. There's a lot of lookin at the tip of the tongue. But what about you guys have like Harry assholes? Does that matter? I mean, I'm never coming. It hasn't been that bad any guy that I'm what do you go to look at guy's asshole and you can taste a

little sh I would have already died. And I feel like it tastes like like booty tastes like pennies anyway, Like if you're penny. I never tasted a penny, but like if you like, if you hold a penny of head, penny, that's what it's your old copper as It doesn't necessarily mean it's not clean, but you but you know what too, to be fair, just because I'm a woman, if I was to go down there and it's too clean, like

there's powder it's most like Shae Butter. I'm gonna look at you a little like, wait a second, there's a problem with a guy having a clean booty hole, and there's a person if it's too clean, it's there's no hair, and it's all like hair that I'm looking at you a little. You actually ass as a straight man. I'm gonna look at you a little crazy. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, okay, So if you tasted a little something, oh my god, I would die. No, but I would die. I would guys.

I feel like I wasn't more conscious about wiping though it really conscious, you know what. I was just gonna be a funny story. One time one of my friends, she um, we were somewhere anyway, she met this guy, took him to the room. And why did he go and take a ship after they had sex and then try to come right back into bed and have sex.

He should have gotten the showers? Am I the only person that likes to take a shower after I go to the bathroom, there's no I'm if I'm at home, I'm like, I'm getting in the shower a little there's nowhere spelling. Then taking a ship and then trying to put your clothes right. But I think guy should do that too. Of me. If you need to take a ship, go to take a bath, get in the water, take a bath. All right? So what is the other tips before I play for men? What do you do the guys?

Besides um Bridge said your go to movies. You like to lick the booty hole. I mean it's it's a gradual day. I don't think that guy would let me do that. I don't know how to make that happen. It depends on the guy that you win. So it's gotta be a real you gotta it's gotta be a conversation first. You can't just go right in for it because that's like I kind of feel like you can't discuss it first because if you never talked about it. Now,

I feel like guys not you do. Yeah, I feel like guys like you'll be sucking their dicking and like their leg a little, you know what, I want you to lick their that's a good point. Yeah, they do that little. So you've asked guys like can I look your asshole? I just know I just asked, what if there's if there's do you like theads? No, I just ask if there's anything that's awful in man, if they don't say that, and if they don't say that, if they don't say that, well, I asked, I asked. You

told me nothing. You told me there was no rules, no going two big burly men coming to rout. I don't alright, So Stephanie, what about you for a four play with some of your go to I mean for four play? I like, um, I find that you know, Spanish guys don't like it, but I like to like lick nipples and I like to like be you know, pay attention and like kiss a lot on the knack and the face and you know, and then go down to like oral. That's what I do, like you, but

they don't like it. Like my current Boyfrienk was like, guys, my current boyfriend, if I try to lick his nipples, he's like giving me the stiff arm, like pushing me away, like boy. But he also might be like this feels too good. I'm like, that's what I tell him. I like joking around. I'm like, you love it, don't fight it. Like me to lick him right here on his arm. That's different right here, but it probably is like a

real sensit. I could I could see that that could be a sensitive I had a boyfriend that I used to want me to always run my nails up and down his forearm, Like he'll be driving at HAF it's more arm down and I'll be running my my nails up and down his forearm. That was an old boyfriend when I was like seventeen. She had disclaimer anybody else. I don't want anybody. It's Lord's twenty years ago. Do you think about it? And you know what else? Is

always good for playing a massage exactly? I like to rob. I like to rob a lode. And I'm like, I'm not type of lover though, Like I'm I'm a very submissive given lover. What about during a massage? Now here's a question I have. How low is too low to go? Like? Is it weird to like massage your guys? But I would not massage you guys. I've never tried it. But the only time I'm touching the guys but is when I'm grabbing it to pull him in deeper. Other than that,

I'm going to keep my hand. You don't slap his ask something. I don't think I've ever slept what you left? No shot? Please? That was? That was? I feel like they would make it. I'm uncomfortable, Like what right, he's like, who's talking now? I don't even like grabbing uses when the guys inside of me. I think it might cause for an awkward moment. But if you're pulling him in, I mean it's a it's a hip though, or it's a thigh, it's a thigh of grabbing it. But yeah,

it's like more from the side. You can't like your legs around and pull your legs. No grabbing, spreading in all right? Now, what about taking the condom off? When do you say it's okay for us to have raw sex? How do you know it's okay to have a row sex with the guy? Has anybody ever really made a guy go get like STD tested and do all of that stuff? I did. Actually, if they tell you to do I did once. I did once only because I only because I was I just was like, I don't know.

My mom My mom is My mom is a midwife. She taught sex that at my junior high school. Okay, so when I was like fourteen, she came in and was showing us pictures like hey, guys, like, it's mom, this is what kind of looks like for everybody. And we were all sitting there like so I think maybe the second or the second guy that I slept with, I was like, all right, we have to go to

attested together. That's but it wasn't romantic at like said like seventeen eighteen though we were kind of but when you guys went say you stopped using condoms, that was the point of its not okay now with your last boyfriend, when did you say, okay, we're not going to use condoms at all. Is it a discussion or does he just slide up in there? I mean, honestly, I feel like the first the first time, it's not it's like unquote unquote unprotected um. Because I've always been on the

pilm my whole life. I think I feel like the first time is it's not discussed, like it almost happens, that just happen because it's a hot and heavy moment and y'all just in it and you just go he just slides in and you're like, oh man, we didn't and it's too late. And after that we was too late discussion. It's like, well, never mind, has anybody ever gone from not using condoms back to using condom? No? No, never, because once you take that kind of the first time,

already picked off all those botes, that's it. Stevery to the guy. Let's go get tested together. Um No, I'm too paranoid to have real sex. I could call how many guys I've have real sex with. On one hand, I'm very paranoid, like my one of my sister's uncles died of AIDS when I was a kid, So forget it, Like I lost my virginia with a condom, okay, and um, I just feel like if if you're ready to take off the condom, you should be ready to have a baby or ready to die. So that's that's when you die.

Are you ready to die? I was ready to die. Now taking off the condom is not. I'm just saying that's where you die. That's when I that's when do you take off the condom when you're right down? I'm not ready to die, ready to die. I'm not ready to die. It's crazy to birth control like you everything. Would you tell a guy that would you die for

this pussy? Ready? If I was stroke enough, I would probably say something like I've been with guys that I wanted so bad and I know that they're incredible lovers, and we'll be and we'll be in the spot and there's no condoms and they're like, oh, the fun if there's no condoms, And I'm like, fuck it, I'm going home. No condom. I'm going you can't go to the store. You want to go to the store, either go to

the store. We're going back to the store. Yeah. And I'm telling you, I've had one time I was with a guy and we weren't even serious and we have been having sex for a while, and he tried to suck me rowing I was like, oh, I was like never like you and I will never have a baby because we do look at that. Guys a little weird if they don't know it's like that, and they tell it like ruins everything, like how people you're doing this with and it's like you want to suck me? Bro?

You fucking everybody row like I don't, I don't trust it, and I'm time everything I'm gonna telling you. Sometimes guys don't anticipate that they might be able to have sex with you, and if they don't have a condom on them. They kind of feel like because there's that period of time when they have to go get when the two could change your mind. Right by the time he gets up and it's like, I'm gonna vent to the store, he comes back, You're fully clothed, Like I just thought

about it. Right while you were at the store, I started bleeding at a second thought. I changed my mind, dried up while you left. And I'm telling with this guy. He was so upset. He was so upset. We never spoke again because I didn't want to have real sex with him, and honestly I didn't want. I didn't care to speak to him anymore. I wouldn't talk to anybody to try to pull that on me. Oh and I had another guy. When I had another guy back in the day before I had my son. He um whatever,

I was dating him. I knew him from when we were kids, and and we started dating or whatever, and we were, um, we were having sex. We were at my apartment. We were having sex, and um he tried to sun me roll and I was like, no, we need a condom, So I gave him the condom you had it. I had a condom. I was home, and you know, we were fucking and it felt like raw suck. He took it off, so I go and look in the nicker didn't have the condom on. I kicked him out of my house. It was like two thirty in

the morning. I threatened him. I went and I got an STD test. I went crazy. I was paranoid for like two months because of this, because that's the first thing you do if your boyfriend cheats on you, girl, the first thing you do, first thing you do right, and then now do you get to test? You texting? And you'd be like because in you now I'm in the doctor's office, exactly. I just did this like two months ago. That's how you feel. My man wasn't even cheated.

I just suspected it and I was wrong. And you gotta text h maybe like if I had something I'm saying and it ended up paying for my g y M visit. It's like that. It's like you have you'll ever seen Why did I get married? Yes, and home girl gets contracted disease. But she got it from from other dude and brought it back and he's like, well, I wasn't even I didn't get it from my baby. She was like you're right, or you didn't get it from your baby mom's you got it from Walter because

I got it? No, that was that was? Was that why did I get married? Yeah? And that's why did I get married to the I love that movie, but me too. I just I feel like it's it's always an uncomfortable conversation to have, but I feel like you gotta have it really, like just break the ice, like get it out the way earlier. What abit if you're dating a guy and he and you asked me, have you ever had an STD? Right? Do you ask that? And if he tells you yes, I did, does that

change anything? No, depends on what the s CD is. Right. It's not good to something that goes away. Yeah, I mean if you told me and then we're gonna have a hold, that changes the whole conversation. Yeah, that's quiet I had. But you know, like, yeah, I had. I had clamdia when I was eighteen. I don't even want to know that. That's too much for me. I don't think a guy would be honest anyway, you know, you know,

I don't think guys would be honest even now. I think they were, because they'd be afraid that if they told they're not going to be honest but having STD in the past, and they're not going to be honest about liking that bootyhole. Look, but we knew they love it. See so I look like and you've had STD to lick my man's ass. He would drop kick me. You think. Never I joke with him, and you know I'm with it. You know I'm with you. I'm with he drinks Tennessee,

he will straight up drop kick me. Now what if? What if when he gets out of jail he likes it. Stop playing out of jail, he's gonna have the hairless But what I always wanted you to try? You never and he gonna hit you with that mud doesn't even like to funk me in my ass, like we like we wanted to try it, and he's like, no, I don't really like that, right, Yeah, he's not circumcised. He doesn't like having he's circumcised. No, he's not, so he

gets smegma. No, he's so clean still underneath you never never like telling you penis. It's like dead cells or something. And like, I'm sorry that non circumcis. That's a deal breaking for me. I don't care how many is not? Like? Not have not? You know why? I like? You know why I like to fun with guys who have uncircumcised penis because I know that they have to be extra

clean with themselves. You know, I don't because if you don't take care of it, you know, but you like, if you don't take care of it and I go down on you, I will smell it, you know, and that that's disgusting. Many guys have you mess that have been uncircumcised. I've been friends for you. It's not a preference. It's not a preference because I honestly think that penis looks prettier when it's a circumcis because I don't have

to play you hoodie back. No, but it looks. But some like I've been, Um, I don't know where you guys, there's a lot of men out there that are uncircumcised, and um, you know some guys have a lot of skins, especially a lot of island there not circumcise. Yes, yeah, and um, like I mean my my current boyfriend, he's he's so clean and like he smells. So it's still different with the uncircumcised penis. No, it doesn't I think it feels different for them because they have two different sensations.

They have the sensation of sex with the skin over the head, and then they have the sensation of sex when the skin goes back so painful? Is that different? When you give a blowdown, don't you gotta hold it back right now? That's another thing when you give a blowjob, like you really have a lot of right, that's too much skin, so you guys leave it. That's what she was doing. It's just too much. Like I don't know

what kind of dick's break, are you gonna park like players? No, but you know, I'm when given when you when you're giving a blowjob to a guy with a circumtan dick, you have to pay attention to what they like, you know, Like some guys don't want you to push the skin back. They want you to suck their dick over the skin, okay, and then other you know, or you gotta like build

up into pushing the skin back. You can't just go with like back and then and then go and then go crazy, you know, you have to like build it up. So it's like driving stack two hands. I don't use hands when i'm I don't I don't use hands. I don't. I don't use my hands when I'm giving a job. Not usually no, because I feel like yeah for the guys, I don't. I don't hands on the guys. I find

guys like when a yeah you got. The only time I'll use the hand is like if I need to use my hand to push it behind, like my tonsils like to push it, you know, to push it back for deep throating. It has to be a bad dick like to you know, to have to use the hands for me to be pushing it. No, but you know you I could do it. I could. I could push the dick. Usually I could push the dick back without using my hands. But it's like if he has like a monster dick, I might need to my hands. Yeah,

I don't know if I need my hands now. I like to like I do like dutty wines. Do you have a playlist because this stuff like like like what's another good song to sectic took and type a fight song and people fight too, and it's all right, so duty one is a good one. Whatever. No, I don't

you know, like the duty wine have motion. I think guys, I think this except for girls because you know, a lot of girls don't know how to suck dick and they just want to go up and down and they think like take the shop like you need to sucking playlist, but will be on the dick sucking playlist. Dick sucking playlist, good girl, because that, let me tell you, that's a good on you. Hold you you were you ready to die for the dick with you just not even thinking?

You call you clock out, blackout. It's all about silent to would you No? That's stuff. You gotta have a dance to it though, besides the duty white with us? What's a good dick sucking danced? Wan is good? The hand motion no? Not not on the head motion, not the not the body the head banger no, because bang your head too. Yeah, what about Harlem shake? Could you

harlem shake? You go? You gotta be active with your tongue. No, because guys sometimes like if they want to watch what you're doing some But that's that's just for that's just for ships, you know, for the is yours, that's for the vis when they ask you questions and you have your dick and you have their why are you? It's like being at the dentist and they're trying to talk to you. Why would you do That's such a good question. I hate when I'm sucking dick and the nick is

asking me a question. So you're like, you like, shut the right, I'm going, yeah, I'm just gonna. I'm not even saying you you're talking too much. If you don't shut the funk up and let me do this, you don't just let me work right now? I got no work questions during If you asked you a question during the blood, put his dig down and be like, what did you want to talk about the conversation forget what I was doing. Let's get back to you. This is

more important, right all right? Now, here's something else I wanted to talk about. Lingerie? Oh god, all right now, how many of us use lingerie? And do you think that guys like it? Because I've heard a lot of guys say that lingerie. They don't really think it's a big deal. They're like, okay, you wear it when you're walking cool? And then now what so are you No? I used to be a stripper. I don't wear panties. I don't I don't even have a brow on today.

But but you don't want to wear something like super dirty and nasty and sexy. So when he walks in, he's like, damn, the only thing he wanted to see me in some shoes with a night heal or some thought high boots or something. No lingerie here. I mean, if he asks for it, then I wear it. I have some ship, you know, from from the old days that if I can pull out the box or something,

pulling out the old luxury. I mean, yeah, a lot of little garter, a little garden stock, and with that tashment a little that's a little at a lot of little fun. If he asked for it. But I'm not. That's not my goal to thing into it. I'd rather just be naked. The good shoes. Yeah, it's like, wait a minute, hold on, what's you who makes this? Just throw your leg up one time. It's the bottom. It's just like, okay, I'm with it, he's with it. I don't know if I like lingrei either. First of all,

it's expensive, let's talk about that. And it's kind of it's kind of a ways like I don't want to walk into I'm not gonna spend a thousand dollars on all the thousand dollars because guys, but guys don't care if it's love pla or not. You target well, I mean I date some shallow guys, so I think the guys I date will give is this victorious Like you just said, Calvin Klein, target label the labor A lot of guys with labor hordes, they're gonna do. So once

you wear lingerie once, can you wear it again? Or the guy we'll see the same guy or like sere that last weeks. Here's the thing. I actually I bought a couple of pieces and then they got ruined, like they got ripped, and I was like, well this is why wa wait wait wait wait wait back it, back it up. I bought and it got ripped? How did it get ridden? He ripped it off? Too much of? I should absolutely too much of. And if she spends a thousand dollars on lingre, you had not just rip it.

But this is my point, and replace it and you gotta buy a whole new one, going to go online pick out a new set, and we're gonna have to work. But that's why maybe it's not worth it to by expens again. It depends on the guy that you're with. And it also depends on the occasion. If, like said, if you request it, it's different you want. If you request it, then been by all means we'll pull something out for you. But otherwise it's not. On a regular

Thursday night, you're about to get this. You about to get these young calvins. If all right, Stephanie ling me. I like wearing Lingerie, but I put it on and then it's like the guy comes in the room and he rips it off. It's over. They don't. I don't even feel like that, Like I could buy these. I'm telling you, I've invested so much money into good underwear or like not Victoria's secret crop, like good underwear three hundred and fifty dollar bras. I can't do that, like

really good underwear. And you know these are it feels soft and it fits well, and I'm like, oh, I'm gonna wear this, and I'm gonna wait for him to come home and put some shoes on. And as soon as the nigga sees that I have shoes on, it's over. That's you didn't even notice. So you rather invest in the shoes. Oh, the shoe is always more worth While

men loved having sex with girls and shoes. That's that's it, just is what it is, whether it's like a Christian Louba town or a pare Jordan's guys just like ste with girls and sneakers. I got my new Jordan's on baby. They like it, like it. If he's intims, he'll be happy with you and anything. Honestly, what about is there anything that a guy can wear that we care about? No, No, it's weird, right yeah, yeah, it's a little weird. I

remember when I first started dating and entertainment. I used to really really love dating guys with like sick diamond earrings, Like I thought it was the sexiest thing in the world. But now I don't really notice what the guys like. A couple of chains, not a lot, Not like too much because then it's gonna hit me in the face at some point, I'm gonna have cuts, you know what I mean? Tell me you can't be all that, but you're chain dipping into my vaginas you go down. Yeah,

it's it's cool. This is cold metal on my on my one right now. A couple of a couple of chains. I'm not mad at that. What about tattoos? I love tattoos. To love tattoos, I mean, I'm guys like me said, yes, um, tattoos are sexy, but it's not something that a guy has to have. Sometimes just are into tattoos. But when you know those that are What about beards? I love facial hair. I don't like beers. I like, um, I

liked a little, like it when it's growing. I like it when it's when it's nice and roomed and fresh. Going crazy with these new beards, like they look like lumberjacks, it gets itchy down there. It's kept. I look at these guys with these beards, and I think their beards smells like whatever they ate. So if you ate a now you got a pizza beer bill over your beer and disgusting. Like all right, now here's the next question. Vacations. Okay, okay, Now, going on vacation with a guy, I feel like that's

a big commitment. Now I'm gonna tell you my own opinion on it. All right. It's I can't go on vacation with a guy that I haven't slept with it. I don't know like that. I just don't want to do it because A I don't want to be stuck somewhere with somebody where If you're go on vacation with a guy, that's automatically if you haven't slept with him yet, that means you have to kind of yeah, it's like, oh,

we're gonna have sex the first time. That's like saying okay, it's about to go down, Like, oh, I accept to share a room with you. I need to know you really well to feel like I want to even spend time that I could have been spending, getting money doing something else. For some pieties working how long is a vacation always like a weekend? Because you do a weekend with somebody, this is like a week like we about a week. I can't be alone with a guy for

a weekend if I don't know him like that. If I if I don't feel like I already know and like you a lot you've got and we have and we have potential relationship, I don't want to do it. Some girls would be like vacation, let's go. I'm in, But I can't really do it just because I know, like if I go and I don't have a good time, there's a million other things I could have been doing, and it's gonna bother me, and I'll be annoyed and

it might not work out. What do you think. I love vacations, especially going to come along with passport stamps and new experiences and places that I haven't been, or that well, let's go for the weekend. What you think? Um,

it depends on the destination. No, for real, because I can go, I can go with somebody ignored the ship out of them and have a great goddamn time and I have to worry about having sex with them because if I say no, then I say no. I'll take some tamplines with me and be like, look like I gotta string no. Sorry oops. But then don't you feel like it could be annoying though, because now I'm stuck

here with somebody that I don't even like. I actually, you know what, I went on vacation, um, not too long ago with a guy that I wasn't really I've known him for a long time, but we were never in a really ship, so I've assumed like I was not dreading going on vacation, but I was a little worried because I thought that we would be out of the country together for a whole weekend and I maybe would not have enjoyed his company. And I actually did

enjoy his company. He wasn't annoying. We had great sex, and the beach was nice, and we ate and drank and it was a good time. But then after that, you're like, all right, thanks for that, thanks for the past ports stamp. What do you think vit? I mean, I'm not I'm not opposed to the idea of a vacation. I think I think you get to know somebody for real when you are away with him. I think there's two ways you can get to get to know a guy.

If you live with him, and if you go on vacation with him, you get to see what his habits are like. When he gets to the hotel, what does he do? Does he just throw his ship all over the room? But what if it's super early, he doesn't live in the same state as you. You'll just been kind of talking on the phone, and then he's like,

you know, but you'll been talking a lot. Well, there's gotta be a significant amount of like physical time spent together, like an accumulation of like we've gone on dates, we've we've you know what I mean, Like you say to my house, I staid at your house, like we we have to be on that level of comfort before. But I don't think it needs to be you're my boyfriend,

I'm your girlfriend before we take a trip together. I feel like, See, I'm not opposed to you saying let's go somewhere and I go with my friends or whatever, and you happen to go at the same time that I go, and then we just hang out when we get there. I think that's a perfect first trip with somebody that you don't know like that, because I don't want to feel like it's just me and you we go away, And I'm cool with it just me and you we go away, but it's got to be someplace

where there's no pressure. Like we can't go to like, you know, France for four days. Like that's not romantic, you know what I'm saying, Like it's really romantic. It's a lot of like we ain't in love. It's not not that kind of party we're gonna We're going to Jamaica for four all right, I'm down for Jamaica four a weekend. Let's go we out Like I'm cool with that because I also I also trust myself enough to know that if I'm wherever I'm at, I'm gonna have

a good time. So if so, even if you're not, because by the way, there's nothing worse than going on vacation with somebody and you don't have a good time with them, and that's how and you get into a fight or it just doesn't go the way that you anticipated it, because that's the kind of thing that can make the break of relationship. Well that's the thing too. You have to discuss who's paying for the vacation, if you like, if you if you paying for the vacation. I need to know. My name has to be on

this room. I need to know if there's no there's if there's any issues, if anything goes down and you happen to decide we get into a fight, whatever the case is. You're not putting me out nowhere. That's not Oh my god, can you imagine? I listen, I had I heard it. Had a horrible, horrible story told to me about a girl, a friend of a friend, that went on vacation with her man he paid for the

whole thing. They got into a fight. He left her there like was piste off at her and left like like a day or two early, and left her there, So she ended up having to spend like like like seven or like an extra night in the hotel because it was it would have cost her like seven hundreds to change your flight, like it would have just been crazy. It was like some wild and Saint Bart's left her there and that's and that's the end of the relationship.

That's it always quiet. I'm that's no now it's a fight if I see you now and you left me in a foreign place, bro because I remember my family not a vacation with her boyfriend and they actually and they were in Jamaica and they got into a huge by instant words because you know, it's how it didn't make those long distance out of the country calls and everything. And she kept calling me. I was liked, girl, stop calling me. Your phone was gonna be crazy. But it

was awful of her because I'm not the country. I'm with this guy that I'm not getting along with. Bang Stephanie, what do you think about vacations? Well, for me, I mean when I first when I first became single three years ago, I I kind of burnt myself out. I traveled the whole world from like Japan, Tokyo, the islands, you know, Like it was like, yeah, I traveled so much, So at this point, I just I don't want to travel with anybody unless it's my friends, my girlfriends, or

somebody i'm really in love with. Like, I don't trust any of these guys. They get on my nerves as soon as I get on the airplane that I'm like, they're crazy. So for my guys, definitely, no, I swear I can't. I just rather like, let's just go on a local date. I don't want to travel with anyone. I can't go on vacations with guys that I'm just getting to know because nine out of ten times, again on my nerves and I end up buying. This has

happened to me several times. I end up getting my own room and spending just as much money as they spent to bring me out. So so what was the point? I remember? One time, I end up by myself. That's what happens. One time I was had this chip plan with my ex boyfriend and we were going away and I knew I didn't want to be with him anymore, but the CHIP was planned for like five months, so I didn't want to break up with him before the trip. I actually was like, I'm a way till after because

I felt like that would be kind of wrong. He couldn't do nothing with my flight, So we went on the trip. Every night, I made sure he got so drunk that he passed out so I didn't have to have sex with him. Damn it was. Yeah, it was off, but actually I didn't have a bad time. I didn't have a bad time. It was funny. And then as soon as we got back, I just stopped dating him. But the only reason I did it was because I you're going this vacation, I'm up every night. You're not

gonna get no pussy's over. I only did it because I didn't want to ruin it because I knew what you couldn't even put it on him with the sun, with the sun coming up, like you don't want it. But that's what I'm saying, Like like I've been on vacations, Like I've been on vacations with ex boyfriends, trying to work it out, trying to make it better, and it

just makes it worse and I just end up. What happens with me is we'll be on the resort and I'll leave your way as to hang out with like the people who work at the resort and didn't workers exactly, I like at the all inclusive bar by my I actually went on vacation with one of my exployments. It was his mind's fiftieth birthday. Was a family trip and we ended up getting into it. Me and him ended up getting into it. It doesn't work, and I went and got my own room. That's what happens with me.

That's exactly what happens to me. I'm totally but at this point, like I'm totally unmoved with traveling, Like it's it's like I've been everywhere already. But that's why I feel like a when it's important to me sure you have enough money that if you need to have to get your flight, you're able to do that. That's important. I'm very grateful that I always did have the money. You have to make sure that you're okay so that

if things don't work out or whatever. But I do feel like if you accept a trip from a guy, that there is some type of expectation that goes with that. Right if you're paying for my flight and you're paying from my room and all of that and we're going away together. We plan to have sex with you. We're going to share now that you have to. But that's the expectation that comes along with the whole situation. Like if I don't want to as to you, I shouldn't be going on a trip with you that you like.

I can't really think of a time that I traveled with a man and I didn't bust it for him one time. I can't. I can't bust Most of the traveling that I've done, fortunately, has been with the same person. That's good. Yeah, and you've been on a lot of those trips, um and we were like in a real relationship and we would like have our little arguments, but it was never to the point where I felt like getting out with the yah. Yeah yeah, yeah, I've actually

made friends with a lot of us. Yeah, well, because I'm always I'm too. I've only I've only gone on a few trips with guys with boyfriends, and it's been and it's always been great. If we get into an argument, we get into a fight, i'd be making friends with the rest. You want to act up air and it's gonna be Carlo has been holding you down all day. If you if you have a boyfriend and you guys planning a vacation together. Do you think that he has to pay for you? Yeah? Or do you can you

pay for yourself? I mean it depends if he's planning the trip. He yeah, if he's planning. If I planned a trip, I'm paying for this, my treet. I am right, yes, But if he planned that, babe, we should go to yes, baby to pay for that's how. Yeah. And I've done that for guys. I've done that, you know, I take up No, I'm lyne. I took a guy to my Miami. That's not for real, right, I was funny, what's funny

taking let's let's let's not even Puerto Rico. But this is the funny part is I took then into Miami and it was Memorial Day weekend, so I never you know, I took him to Miami and we started arguing it was my trip. I took him. I paid for the room, I paid for his flight, you know whatever. He was paying for dinners or whatever. But we got into an argument. It's Miami, man, I know a lot of people. You don't want to with me in Miami. Yeah, So I was like, all right, I don't know about exactly made

to get picked up on the boat. You yeah, like like I had us saying at the Dream Hotel. You know that's regular. I made one phone call. I had a room at the Montreal that I did not pay for. Like I was like, you know, I know so many people, and he was he was by himself. He was living a dream at the Dream Home too, calling me and I'm like with my whole girls and me, I'm like, nigga,

take your guys back to New York. Anybody gets time figure and you're welcome, by the way, because yeah, but like if you said yeah, you're you're welcome, now you gotta stand saying because you're welcome. But you know, I agree, like if you if he's playing a trip, he should pay for everything. Maybe you could pay for a dinner or something, or maybe buy him a nice gift while you traveling. I went that though, because if you pay for everything, then yes, I'll pay for like the dinner

even or for shopping. I'll buy you something like something cute, you know, something romantic, something soul. Gifts are always a good likeing for guy. It's the little things that can I'm a gift giver. Yeah, me too, me too. A lot of women are more are very giving. But could you date a guy who wasn't a gift giver? No? No hesitation? Well no, because I put a lot of

thought into what a guy likes. What you like, what you certain certain small things, what you the kind of food you eat, how you know what mean, the kind of things, that kind of drinks you. I'm paying attention to what you like. It's all encompassing for me. So if I'm taking the time out to do that and really be attentive to that, you need to do the same thing. It's amazing how many guys can say that they've never been in a relationship where they really had

to go above and beyond. Like I've come across a lot of guys who have been like, well, I've never had to do anything like this for girlfriends that I've had before. I don't really know how to do certain things. That's when you teach them. Yeah, And they'll say, you have to teach me, And I don't really want to teach anybody. I do mind, I don't. I don't like teaching anything. I feel like it's just why I like dating guys to tell you what you need to do.

I'm not mad at the teaching me neither, Like I feel like it's something you as a woman, You're always going to have to teach the man something. And always, even if you think somebody that's older, you're gonna have to retrain and unlearn whatever the last bit did. And then if it's a younger guy, you gotta really you gotta no no better. I got to help him out. That's what I like about dating older guys is that I never have to teach them how to eat my pussy.

They always already know. But everybody likes and we talked about this. We all like different things. I feel like, yeah, you know, I like a little if I like to get stuck, I don't like to. I don't like. I don't like. You're the only person I know who likes tea and know. But you know, I like I like um like for me, like my my clip is really like the guys having a dentist in your pus. It's just a but like my clip is like really hidden,

you know, Like I have a all clip. Like my pussy is fat, but in the inside everything is like micro. Everything is so small on the inside, so like I need some pressure I need roughness to feel it looks like. I take pictures of it. I take pictures and you send them to people. No, I just want to know what it looks like like if I'm having a good day or something happens if I'm home, and because I mean, I'm I'm a good day pussy shot. I mean I'm

a frequent I'm a frequent masturbator. Whether I'm every day, your nails, there's no where to lose the vibrators of all but my fingers are long, so we get a lot done done. My nails actually work out very well because the gen you get to that spot, there's a spot that's like right underneath and the water spot the water spot, and you get right underneath when you get inside the it just it touches a little gentle with myself. So it works out well. I'm when my nails, Yeah,

like I take I take it. I'm like I've done it with the camera to see like that it looks like. Because also the other part of it is too. If I ever come across the guy that doesn't know my body makeup, I want to I wanna be able. I gotta be able to tell you what it be like, okay, a diagram to the right of that, Like, I'm gonna be able to give you accurate directions on how to how to please. You're gonna take some pictures of my vagina lytiate you don't even need to take handmera and

just had spread it around. Yeah, yeah, I know if my vagina was like again, I know stephan he does because she showed us like, oh pretty much putty looked yesterday. I spent a lot of time for my life naked, so I kind of have a visio of like, yeah, so you don't have pictures though, of your vagina. I don't keep that type of stuff. I don't have my phone at it. But I'm not keeping don't I've lost too many phones that have like pictures of my naked body.

But I will say this, but so what because if your face isn't in it, who can Well, yeah, that's straight. Well you know what I have. I have. I I have a I don't really want to call it traumatizing, but I've gotten myself into a situation a few years back where I had this one picture of myself that I had taken at the strip club and it was so bombed that I sent it to like every guy, and um, you know, niggas talk more than bitches and

they like the bragg and ship. So this guy is like going through pictures in his phone and showing people. And he showed my boyfriend. Oh my god, bro, that's terrible. He showed my boy to him. Yeah, that's one thing I don't do. I don't send a real serious well guess what. There was a photo exactly and guess you can guess what. Ever, since then, I have not said I haven't even sent him a picture of my job. I'm not gonna lie. When camera phones first came out,

I used to send pictures and get pictures to everybody. Everybody. Oh I have a next cell with a camera phone. I'm sending naked pictures to everyone. I'm away to parent and this now forget it, now you come back. OK. The thing, there's no bad naked pictures of me out there, a man, That's what I'm talking about. Like, you know what, nobody sends bad naked pictures that he picture you getting a full front of you, get cakes on the side. You're getting a little that little v cut in the

hell that might actually listen. We don't know how we can sell a couple of and I don't always tell my facetip. But I've had too many tattoos to say it's not me. So I just don't take naked pictures well for me, Like when, like I said, a couple of years ago, I used to send them out, but now today President Day, Yeah, everybody want to see that. No, but now like it's it's like pulling teeth together to send you even even you want to see me, baby, just call me in FaceTime. FaceTime. You can't get me

a picture on my face for me to say. You pose the question though, because this was a conversation I had and I actually went on the snapchat ran about a friend of mine perpetually gets dick pis. Oh I think dick picks are so tacky. I asked for it because here's the thing. I'm not like, I'm a I'm a little bit, I'm a I'm a freak, but I'm not a pervert. So I'm not gonna look at your at your like for a filtered dick. And that's the word, Like, oh my god, I'm so on the dick picky. This

is a problem. The only problem I have a dick picks is a if I'm not even never had sex with you, never did anything, you send a dick pick. I have a problem with that because I didn't ask you to send this, okay, and thinking other girls probably have this one or one of the spade, because you know this is the picture, you know you said you sent it to everybody else, And then I don't need an Ashley dick pick. You put some motion on that ship. I don't want to dick pick at all. I don't

want to. Don't mind dick picks. I don't mind either if I ask you, I don't want it. I wish I wish my man could send me a dick pick from jail. I don't want to dick picks, so I don't want to selfie. I don't want any picks. I don't Penises can be beautiful. I think so too. I think they are two, but they're beautiful in my vagina and in my mouth. Thank you. You don't want to see a picture of your man's penis? No, sorry, but the iPhone now is not going to do a man's

penis any justice. I'm thinking, at the length of this, this is ten megapixel camera. We're doing no type of magic with this phone right here. Now, I've seen some nice dick picks. I'm not I've seen some nice ones soon. That doesn't mean I want But the worst thing is when a guy is just randomly send you like you know what the worst is if a guy sends you a dick pick and you don't say nothing, that's what I'll do. I was like, and then he hits you like, um, did you get so? You know? I got that? Sad?

You know what's the word? So of a guy? A guy's like, send me a picture and you send him like a cute little selfie and he sent you a dick pick back, and you just be like, how are you taking it? There? You send you a dick pick that you don't want to hit him back and be like, hey, this is Bridget's boyfriend. You know what's mad uncomfortable is if it's like on cute, like damn nig you was cute up like you're hard ready to go for right because when the archives I was sexing you about the

same football, you can't pick you can't. But that's what I'm saying. If it's unwarranted, So what you're doing over there and we weren't even in this in this type of conversation, and you just let you live over there by yourself. I'm gonna question you a little bit. Probably it was an oldie in the archives he had that we made too much information, like I didn't need to know you had a hard but I feel like, you know, he took twelve of um listen, we're selfie queens, at

least twelve here on the couch. Like you think about him with snap snap snaps. I don't know. It's always an warranted though. It's always when you don't ask for it that the guy want to send it because he don't want to. It's just kind of like, let me just let you know where my head is. But I'm gonna tell you what pretty dick swag at Gmail. That is the email that I have if you want to send pieces of a peanuts and we'll take a look

at it and analyze it. A lot of people have send pictures sometimes and the best thing to do is, yes, do something like put something next to it so we can get an idea. Like for breeze, can I look at every time I look at my remote control? I can't look at it the same because I feel like God's really used the remote control for the cable and the cable to measure their dick. Do you want to got to masturbate in front of you? If I have my period? Like, how would you? I still think my

mouth was good. I had. I had a guy masturbate in front of me, and it was kind of hot. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, right, it was a little hot because he was looking at me, so it was like you turn off, So you really you having a moment and what were you doing? What I was just I was just talking nasty to him, like asking him and it was work. It worked. It was that sounds like a good time. That sounds like it's the ultimate

confidence booster. I'm just sitting there, like sitting on it's just sitting their legs open like pussy dripping, and you just there, you just doing your thing and I'm talking You're just going come on you? Um no not? Did it come? Yeah? And then so you didn't want to have sex, you were okay with him, just cool. I was cool with that. I wasn't even in the mood to have sex. It was what was fine. But but all of that nasty talking on that that didn't make

you in the mood like it did. But at that at that moment too though, I just I kind of felt like I kind of feel like I kind of like like I'm winning right now, like this is my moment and I'm a shine for a minute and then maybe we'll get back to the later. Yeah, And that sounds like a really big turn on. It would be for me. Where I'm masturbating and you're masturbating, we're just going off. But you also, you can just look at me. You don't even have to touch me, and that's enough

for you. If you sleep, What if you're sleeping and he's next to you and you wake up. I've been through that where I'm sleeping and my man is like touching my ass, jiggling my ass, jerking off, and I wake up like, damn, you could have just sucked me right. You didn't have to masterate. You couldn't just do all that. But he wasn't trying to get in trouble. He had he would have had we would have had to believe the bed to get the condom and come bad. He

was doing a lot in the middle of the night. Yes, and sometimes guys masturbate because it's easier. They don't feel like going do all the trouble at having sex. They just want to come real fast and not have to please you. That's selfish. But if you're I don't mind, wake me up, hit me and hit with the dick likes somebody hit me in the head like a guy slapping in the face with this. You know I'm not here for that. I'll be feeling away like like do

you think this is we're doing a porn Like? What do you think it's a little just feel good, It's very It is just like not like I know you saying your dick I say, I wasn't saying that's what I want. I'm just saying, do what you gotta do to wake me up, niga, because you know what, I'm not gonna like. I don't let a lot of sit in. Just slide in, bro, just sliding. I just post up like old make it wet, like you're listening waking up to penis? Is it really really waking up to dick

inside me? Its greatest. If your girl doesn't like to wake up to get a new girl, yeah, that's a problem because I think I like it even if I'm in a bad mood. If we're fighting and you come up on me while I'm sleeping, I'm gonna take it, and I might a little be mad at you afterwards, be hit and was gonna be passed. But I'm absolutely gonna you hit this one real quick. I love that I gotta get up earlier. Help you precious to me, I don't wake Angela up. I no, no, no, I'm

gonna say. I have to love you for you to feel like that's okay because I sleep like four hours a night, right, four things? Yes, So once I fall asleep, it's gonna be hard, and and don't take it mad long, like, don't wake me up and then try to strangle. Won't prefer for you to master that's a quickie time. So if you're gonna wake me up to have sex, please let it be five minutes or less because because I

gotta go back to sleep, I promise you. I'm looking at the clock thinking about, like how much more sleep? And my I don't mind. I don't mind when when I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend masterbated, he doesn't, but I masterbate all the time, and he gets bad. Right, you always tell us that he doesn't. I bet you, I Jael, he wants you to masturbate, right, Yeah, he's gonna be like every day I think on my masterbate every day to me to make me sleepy. I did it.

Sometimes I do it late at night, but sometimes I'll do it to start my day. When you mask me in the morning, it's like waking, bake, and then masturbate and then get up and and I wish I would get up early enough to masturbate before work. That's not happening because I'm always in a rush. By the time I wake up. I have to get up every morning at four am. That's already hard. So by the time I'm always rustling, resting, rushing. You try to get to

work on time, it's not gonna happen like that. Actually, two minutes in the shower or whatever long it takes. But you think that when you masturbate it takes you a lot quicker to come than when you have sex. Yeah, every time you percentage wise, how many times percentage wise would you say you come during sex? Um, honestly depends on the guy. Do you come from vaginal intercourse? Yeah,

but there's certain angles, like I gotta be on top. Yeah, well I gotta be on top, or I gotta be like my leg's gotta be positioned a certain my leg's gotta be like closed position a certain way. Like they gotta be me too, me too, Like that's kind of how that goes, Like because the guy, the last guy that I was dealing with, was curved a little, so it was like it worked out really well that my it just so happens that there's a spot for me

that works in the exact direction. So if I'm laying if I'm laying down and he's just going for it, it's it's easy, breezy. And if you can find if you can find five minutes ties, yes, if you can find a guy that can make you come all the time, you gotta it's hard to break keep him. Oh my god, girl, it's my dream. So glad to back up with a guy that can make you come, because there's a lot of guys who can't. Who can't it's all mental when

you it's vaginal up. Know that when you when you are having sex with someone, it's different when you when somebody's eating the box, it is a lot easier to Yeah, there's nothing I can envision I can envision another man eating box and were good. But if we're having sex and you make me come like that, oh it's over. It's quiet. I'm putty in your hand. But you know, it's way easier to break up with a guy who's not that good and bad they can't make you come.

You break up with a guy that can. That's the guy you keep going back to, because you'd be home, you'd be drunk, like you aren't going to be tonight. Come. So I come so fast from vaginal inter course I wish I did. Yeah, I think it takes my cliters works better from the inside than the out, Like it takes me like a good twenty minutes to come from oral I could be having sex. Vaginal is hidden and tiny microtopic. Everything is really small, like you said, it's

very micro there. But from the inside, I come in five minutes. I'm good. What's crazy than when I'm on top it's a rub there's a rubbing. There's like a friction that happens on the clip while he's inside that ship. Yeah that I think that's when you're on tapp a female.

Just the angle of that right, And for me, when I'm on my back and like my legs are pushed where my knees are like hitting the bed where is tilted up exactly, my pelvis is tilted up like I'm on my back and my knees are like all the way back like held, I feel like I come really Like, Now, what if a guy during sexcess to you, I'm going to have a baby with you? Oh? Is that a turn on? Our turn off? Oh no, hold on, Oh no, I'm not gonna lie. Me and my man we talk

about having babies. Who we're having sex all the time. Ain't no baby's coming out of here all the time. Look at you. That's that's but you know what, I know that right now I don't want to have another child. But during sex, yeah I do come inside you. You let him come inside you? Yeah, she'd be, she'd be, she'd be with the condom quick though. She like me and Ralph definitely have real sex. For sure, we definitely have real So you let him come inside for years? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

but yeah I've let him come in sign me. But you know there's this thing like everybody should know about. It's called Plan B. But full three days, I'm sorry to come inside you all the time. Though it's a lot of Plan B. You know what I'm saying, it's a lot. Well, then you should just get on the pill though you can't take time. I don't let him come inside of me all the time. I don't. I don't, and and honestly, like it's just not good. It's not

a good idea. But when you're in the heed of a moment, at the moment having sex, you know, you become a come downstairs, you're in love and the sexiest man says to you have a baby. I'm like, what were naming the baby? By the end of the night, we were like, but I'm on the pill, and hey, but I'm saying with this little role, it's like, you know, I don't want to commentside because you're gonna have an abortion,

and I don't. I don't. I've never I've had one abortion, and it was because like the pregnancy was I've only been pregnant three times. I had my son, and then I had a miscarriage and then I had an abortion. But I had to have an abortion because I just had gotten breasting plans, so the pregnancy was already good. I didn't know. You can't have to you can't have a baby with person. I had rather away got them done while I was pregnant, and I didn't know until

after they were in my period, my period. I was supposed to get my period the day of surgery and it um. It never came. So I was like, well, maybe you through the because I'm stressed. But then I started feeling symptoms, so we took a pargnicy So they told you you should have an abortion. Yeah. No, the pregnancy ended up being um in my tooth. It was a topic. I had that, so I had an abortion. But you know, like he technically, if if it's a topic,

it's not an abortion. Yeah, it's an emergency emeruse. I've had that. I've had two of those on the pill. Listen, girl, this was way back in the day. Yeah, you would have had a baby though if you were pregnant. No, I don't think I would have. But I had a nice topic pregnancy and I had a felopian super moved. I don't have one internally like I was in the end. It was bad, like I could have died. Yeah, happened

to me. I haven't been pregnant since it's you don't want to hell and you know you got pregnant, you would, okay, And you know he's like he's like, he's like, I don't. He's like, I don't. Just don't. No, I'm not on Listen, I'm not on birth control. Me and him we had five years in. We're kind of in a weird place right now. I don't know what to call it where we are, but we're still having unprotected sex and he's still dropping off them babies in my vagina and I

don't get pregnant, but you're on a pill. No, it's meant, you know, if you want to get pregnant, take some vitamins. I don't want to get bregnant. I'm just saying if you do, I don't want to get pregnant. And I'm not taking vitamins. I'm not taking birth control. He comes in me every time we have sex, and I have not been pregnant, and neither one of us want babies.

But you know, man, he's coming inside of me and he's like, oh, we'll finish, and he's like, oh, like, I don't even want to look at you, because if you have an abortion, I hope be so tight. And I'm like, does he know that you take playing b no, you eat them things like he doesn't know, he's not gonna hear this for two years. Oh shit, he doesn't know. The whole body's going about two years. I've never gonna do a lip service. And when playing a Stefanie, Hey baby,

you're selling these dreams. Yes, let's have a baby. What are we gonna name it? Ralph Jr. Alright, well, listen, Bridget Kelly, thank you so much for joining us for lip service, always having me. I always tell people how much fun she is to listen, and Andie always I know this is fun. We gotta do this because we had a lot we on ye. Lip services like the ultimate girl talk. It has to be. But I told I was like, I gotta come on. She did? She hit me? She was like can I do? I was like,

I was like a litten. I was a Bridget Cally. First of all, if you've ever seen her show, you know that she's very raw. But I'm like lyrics imo, But I love that. I love But you know, you have to get listen. There's not enough people that tell the truth, and the majority of the time when the people do tell the truth, everybody gets scared offended. Are you gonna get back to get X. No, no, no, okay, I don't think so. I don't think you know what what you know what for we were together for four years.

It was really really hard. He's as far as I'm concerned, though, he's the one that got away. You know, everybody got that one. That's like, damn, I wish I could have made a couple of different decisions, maybe moved a little differently. He's my ex is definitely the one that got away, hands down, So why not because he hates me? He's not going back to me. That's the worst. When you break up with a guy, you're like, because because I'm

doing great right now. So it's like he's I'm sure that it's like damn, like that bit like she really like she hate you because you're doing great. No, I think he just it's just he's not. We're not we're not, we're not speaking. We don't, we don't. We don't get on like that no more. But um, what if he called you, would you be with he wouldn't. He wouldn't, he wouldn't. He blocked me. He blocked me an all things.

What then are you crazy? Blocked you? I'll call him from google boys, I make a big Instagram, I think, But well, he just he blocked me because I he thought that he was like in his head about what I was doing with my life. So it's like he didn't want to see what was going on with me. He didn't want me to see what's going on with this and follow you. Why do you have to block you? That's just because he did that to make you. He

did that to make me mad. He also did it because he's like, I don't want her to be able to see what I'm doing now, like you can't just go and see anyway, which I get, I understand. Listen

by all means, I know what that feels like. Because now I'm in a situation dealing with a guy where I'm kind of like I'm low key ready to block him to like you're doing a lot, You're doing all the wrong ship, Like come on, are you gonna still talk to him though, even though he's doing a lot and doing the wrong ship The new guy, Um, you know what it is. He's young. He's young, and I think he needs to learn, So he's on time out.

He's gonna have to learn, He's gonna have to learn a different way, because I was trying to teach give you board the cheat sheet, like, listen, this is how we how. He's twenty six, so he's young. So I mean, it's okay. You're not built for this right now, that's fine. I was trying to give you a cheat sheet so you could cut a couple of corners if you want to. But he ain't. There ain't, So he's gonna to learn different. Wa He's gonna have to learn either with somebody else

or with my silence. You don't have to you want to eat that ship, peace man. They should have never made that block feature for I phone. They should have definitely, I definitely needed to block a couple. We need that. I can't even tell you how many times Rob and I were arguing and I was calling him too much and he blocked me, so I started calling him from other phones. You're crazy, I'm crazy, crazy up. I will

show up at the dough like, here's the thing. If you have if I'm telling you how crazy I am and the phases of my crazy in the very beginning, and you're still showing up and signing up every day, you can't. Guys. You like guys like crazy crazy I'm not gonna like I was at with Stephanie the other night. The whole time she was with her man on the phone. We were having a great time, but she kept getting up to go are you on the phone? Yeah? Yeah, I had out the phone. She was like, where are

you right now? I'm coming there, And then he would call it back and be like, oh, we move. We went here and said okay, you're where now? Okay, I called the uber, I'm on my way. I was like, dick on one hundred, I'm not about that. I'm too I'm gonna call a T and T because I know all the codes you don't want to show and you don't you don't want to tell me where you are. I'm gonna show up to everywhere you be until I find you. Because it's like that. That was like that camera.

That camera's same, like I know which you don't even know what studio. I'm an show up every I'm not doing all that I've showed up to. He's like, I'm not doing all that happy right at home. No, I'm being home too. But I'll send some people after that, will I would you know what I will do with a girl though you know you have to know, like crazy girls tell us, you have to know if you're

dealing with a crazy girl and she's really crazy. She got at least two friends that are more rock crazy down at least two in the arsenal ready to Ratty the clutch, yes, like, don't don't do it, don't do it. I was like, I'm Stephaniely you good. I'm like, yeah, I'm good. Oh yes, let's take a shot. Okay, be right back. I gotta take this phone call. Gonna take this call. We was in the hood too, she was standing outside and I had on this slutty ass draw

no underwear. That's what I'm saying. I either dressed way down or somebody was like. Somebody was like, I think I saw a Stephanie's vagina. He said that, Oh my god, they're I was. I was saying, we were going way through. We were going through another jail situation. Remember, yes, so I was super I was like crying. I was all stressed out. But I mean, I'm another and previous are is. I didn't have to do this in this time, but in other times, like we'll be arguing and he'll feel

like I'm calling him too much. So he'll block me for a little while, and I got I got my second phone on deck. He'll block the second guy blocks me. I'm gonna call you from the third phone. Block me and I can't get in touch with you. There's text free, there's there's um that's a crazy count boys. There's a jack like I'm calling you for magic Jack. All these like WiFi phone numbers, single free phone app. I'm gonna call you. I have one number. You can block that.

You're gonna need to call somebody to get a restraining order because I'm gonna be sitting on that young porch. I'll be sitting on that porch. Block come here, come talk to me. You gotta now phone off because I'm gonna keep calling your number. You block all the numbers. I'm showing up. I'm gonna pop up, but you know the nigga knows that, so he'll he'll email start answering number. Because I won't pretend I'm to show up, but I won't really come. No, I'm not gonna like I did

that one time to one of my ex boyfriends. So I would always tell him, like if I knew he was doing something he was supposed to do I would tell him I was on my way, but I'd really be at home. So one time I really went and what was he doing? He was in bed with another chick. I climbed in through the window, climbed in through the window. But it wasn't It wasn't like I had to. It was the easy window to climb in. It was on the it was on the same level and Jordan's by

the way, so she's always ready. I just took the screen. I just took the screen out the window. It was summertime. I took the screen out the window, walked in and he was upstairs with a chick. She was naked in the bed. What did you do? Do you drag her? All? Know? She got up, She was nervous, she was scared. She got up, got out, and as soon as she left, I said it all right, that's it, I'm done, and I left. Wow, I could I could never have gone down like that for me. Listen, sometimes you gotta be

so mad. You got to be calm, you know. I first I made him player and she was He was like, she don't mean nothing to me, She's nobody. That's even worst of that's even worse when you compromising the real ship for the fake. Imagine you naked in the bed and the guy says that about you. What time? My exest girl jumped and then we came in the fire escape, because you know it's New York, we got fire escapes. And this girl came in through the window, through the

fire escape. And you know, I'm a light sleeper. So I woke up and I had on I'll never forget it. I had on a yellow bra and panty and it was a cheap, like twenty bra and panty, said probably eighteen years old. I was a kid, and I jumped out the bed and I gave this girl the worst ass of her yellow and I busted her as like I heard her come in through the window, Like I heard the window open and I looked. I woke up

and I saw her coming in and I just charged her. Oh, and so you already knew who she was when she came in. It was the nigger's wife. He was, but they were broken up. They were broken up, and she was just a soccer. So she's the wife. She's a wife, and she's the wife. I was living with him. I was living with him, and they have been separated, but they were married, legally married. I need that divorce paper before I'm moving in with you. Just technically. I wish

could take everybody the court here today. I couldn't imagine, Yeah, you rocked his wife. Wait said no, I didn't climb in the window. That bit shot to jump out the window. She was probably it was an ex It was way back, like a long time ago. And um, it was back when I was dancing before I moved to Land. I was dancing at this club in Philly, and it was this girl that was working there. Me and his sister was working together actually, and I just had a feeling

that something went right. So he was at his sister's house and I went there and the nephew saw me at the door and let me in, and knowing that he had company upstairs, then if you let me in. And I went up to his room and he's sitting in the chair and the girls on the floors like his dick, and I kicked the door in, like really, nigga, what the fun? You know? And then the girl got up and saw me, and she jumped out the window like she tried to jump out the window, like she

try to kill herself. She tried to jump out the window to get it, and guess what, I fucking whipped his ass, broke up with him and the bitch that I've never seen the girl again. She never came back to work. I was waiting for that as to come back to work too. I came to work every day with a pony tell some sneakers win. I thought, I want the whoop. I ass so bad, and she never came back. Wrong, she never came back to work. I've never ever seen till this day, I've never ever seen

that girl again. Wow, damn, you know what. The only reason because she wasn't wrong, like I understand, she was like scorn, you know, like she was upset and a little bitter that the guy was giving me so much attention. But the only reason it was just like my first reaction like to of course, because one you have no clothes on and you was sleep to you sleep, and three you this is like this is what it was. Yeah,

I didn't even think about who it was. I just grabbed her and it was so bad, like I don't even want to talk about it, but it was. It was pretty bad. It was bad, like what it was bad, Like I really beat her bad, like I beat her. What did he do? He tried to break it up or castingbody. You got to be ready to fight. He was a real dick. He was standing over watching me beat her like that said stop it. Like he didn't.

He didn't pull up. He was like, world because I got like I got really swollen, like I was punching her a lot in her eye and it got really swollen. So that's when he stopped me, like he noticed, like it was getting swollen really fast. What a gentleman, but he was. He was awful like that. You know who to call now if we need to run up on some funny I know trying to We talked about this. I'm not fighting no more right, we're talking about yeah, unless I have to defend myself, unless there's a girl

climbing into my one bow. Let's bridget Kelly cause she called my friend. I have I have phases of crazy. I'm gonna pop off at first. The second phase is I'm gonna speak to you really respectfully like an adult. This is the last. This is this is your get out of jail for a free card. Like I'm gonna

let you know what it's gonna be after this. Once it escalates beyond this point of this conversation, then there's a problem where there's a real Then it's it's blackout like girls, and then we're rolling up on somebody, somebody's getting beat up, somebody's getting me down. It's gonna be a lot like don't push me to that point. But here's the thing is, like, this is the tone of voice that I keep. I'm blond now, like I just heard say it with a smile. I'm really a nice

girl deep inside. But if you push me past this point right here that we're in this inner peace moment. This is not a stay yoga moment. Beyond this moment, Heaven help you. All right, Well that is lips know I'm stepping in Santiago. I'm g g McGuire and I'm Bridget Kelly. Wow, And that's the crazy cows. Don't give a fun. I got a whole lot of fun in my system. Money part of my DNA makeup. It's called buckets.