Episode 149: White Boying with Ralph Sutton

for the tequila lady, Yeah, no problem, Quia Friday. Now I want to start it? Should we start up with the surprise that should we get to it later? In such a good mood, why wouldn't you start with that? But wait, it's Friday at thirteenth? Ya didn't say that It is Friday thirteen, right, Well, in case you don't listen on Friday, it could be any day. We are recording this on Friday that thirteen. Some of the topics will be from today. Are you scared of Friday that

thirteenth or something. I'm born on the thirteen, so that's my lucky day, I always say, and my birthday is January third, which is thirteen. That's funny. My mom was born on the thirteenth. Really, he's a lucky number like ya. And Friday, that thirteenth is always good because that means that you get paid on that Friday, because the fifteenth will be on a Sunday, so we get paid on the fifteen. And yes, I got paid today pizza for everybody. Does that mean that you won't get paid till the

following week? We get paid on Monday, yet get paid on Monday. But yeah, So Friday the thirteenth has always been good for me because I get paid early if that matters the day, Like I said, yes, so tell us our motherfucker is surpride, you know what. I actually kind of like suspense. So I wan on the couch on the edge of the couch. You looked like you're leaning back. I was just telling them that so they could think that. Thanks. And now I wanted to talk

to Ralph about this show. And I see what you guys think about it on Lifetime right. I think it's like the seventh season and it's called Married at First Sight. Have you heard of this? I've heard of it because my producers are tessed with all those ridiculous dating shows, the ninety Day Fiances and other one, and Mary at first that she loves all of those shows. Now tell me what you think about this and if you would try this right or if you is this romantic or

is this stupid? So the point of the show is couples get married and then but they've never met the person before, so they have people that like do all these this event. It's kind of like an arrange marriage. There's a vetting process. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they're they're arranged by professionals, right, and they go by like their personalities and their likes and dislikes, and they like come like

put them together as if they're compatible. And then after eight weeks, the show follows you for like the first eight weeks of your marriage because you haven't met this person. You're literally meeting on the altar. Yes, that's awesome. And then for weeks they follow you, and then at the end of that you can either stay together, I get to get divorced after Well, what do you think about that? I think that it's a sad statement of what we live in this reality show world that everyone will do

anything just to get on television. But these are people that have tried to be in relationships and it hasn't worked out. It's kind of it is really an arranged marriage. But I guarantee you if if the cameras were not involved, the people that are doing it would not be doing it. But arranged marriages last sometimes longer than you know regularly because they don't know if they can get out of it. It's like saying Colts laughed. You know, you know, but

you know what. My cousin it was in an arranged marriage then she was sixteen. That half of my family's Muslims. So but they're still together. They have a lot of kids. I stopped counting after six. And they love each other. They love each other. I love a match, a professional matchmaker, match me have you. I don't know about like to marry, like to just marry at first sight. Like I think

that's a little bit extreme. I agree with I think, what's the every dage of the contestants or whatever you're in? What the fun if you don't slide in somebody in a thirty seven or something like that. That's why I really feel it. It's for the for the fame. It's not one couple stay married out of how many? Oh so it's the whole they follow you they it's one couple per season, it's three couples per season. Three couples. Okay, so all these seasons, how many motherfuckers I don't know together?

I don't know that I want to live about one per season. I've seen the season where one couple stays together. That's better than the statistics of marriage that general. On all those ridiculous marrying dainty shows, whether it's The Bacheloretta or whatever, I'd love to know with the overall averages for how many of them stay. What if they had a show where you just had to have they hook you up to have sex for a night with somebody whoa island having sex? Though? Aren't they some of them? Yeah,

but some of them weak? If they had like a one night stand show where it's like they're going to hook you up with the perfect one become but was the flavor? Flav slept with almost every one of those. But they all sleep with everybody on there, And don't they say opposite the track? So what do you mean a professional matches up their personalities? Like that's weird to me because maybe it's what you're looking for or what you don't watch a millionaire matchmaker? I don't be believing

that bit, I think. Okay, I used to watch I used to watch it faithfully. I tried a matchmaker once. I've been single for a long time and it did not like everyone, and it was they're expensive and it just it was awful every She showed me three people and I hated all of them and I canceled the contract. Was a queer eye for the straight guy? Was that your matchmaker? You know? I was on that show? Right, They're just mentioning it because I'm so damn cute, you know.

When I even that they did that, that was a nonsense. That was actually my friend. I did not know at all, but they set me up with her and she was supposed to be, like, not a stripper. To the time, I was a strip club DJ. And you like strippers and let me it's a it's a weird thing because like, if I'm sure in whatever other than this job, what other job you have, you tend to gravitate towards people

that work around you, people date in the office. That's what I worked at a strip club five days a week. Who else, am I going to date the bouncer under the date the girl? But they were supposed to introduce you to this like wholesome, normal, nice girl, and we're still friends to this day. But at the time she had a cocaine problem. She like would show up crazy high, and she was a lunatic. Yeah that's true, but it just shows you that just because the girl is a

stripper doesn't mean she's a bad person. You know, I don't understand why that was considered. Oh my god, we gotta introduce her to him, to a real woman. Well, you know what, I'm glad you said that because you actually did an article about how you can date a princess. Yes, tell us how who these are? Because Z is a former stripper. Okay, alright, good, Yeah, I'd love to hear your take on how close I am to being right. Okay, so, um, I'm sure you remember your I don't remember my own article.

Step I have verbal diarrhea all the time. If this is too don't be a customer, he said, don't get dances. Don't go and go to the v I P room for and maybe so'll touch it kind of dance. Once you become a dalla sign you'll forever be a dallar sign, buy or a drink. Tell you're on winding from a rough day at work, but don't get a dance. Be flirty and friendly. Wait, what is this scenario? The scenario

you're trying to data princess. If you go to a strip club and you immediately start spending money on dances, the girl sees you as a customer, and why would you ruin that relationship with taking them out to dating? Because the whole idea of strip clubs is the fantasy and the allure of maybe getting that girl to like you now. So you say it, don't spend money at all, or don't spend allow saying take her out to get

buy your drinks, be sociable. But if you're spending money on dances, you are, And why would a girl ruin that relationship? Especially it's hard enough to become to find customers these days, so why would you give that up? That's true, but you also want her to know you're interested, and you don't want her to think that. Um Like, it's like if you can't look out for me, why you know I'm working, but why would I want to night?

But that's why I said that, that's why I had to make that head of yourself go on a slow night, and she's saying the same thing. Yeah, because it's like, I'm not going to spend my time with you hanging that we're not gonna be making money if you're not going to get the worst thing going a busy night, but find out when she's going to be there on a slow night and then show up on a slow night. Didn't work on okay, but now something I listen to

slow nice be the ones that listen. That's why you might be the ones that creep up on you, snatch somebody and turn into yeah. Because it only take one and only take one guy to like really bless your night.

You know, there's a you can, you can, you can you know, get a collaborative tip from the room, right, But then there can be one guy that will give you more than anything you make everybody collectively, right, So it only takes that one guy, and a lot of times guys that want to spend that amount of money don't want to be in the spotlight, so they will

come and do it on a slow night. Alright. Step three, don't be touchy philly or a complimentary, don't put your hand on her lap, don't play with her hair, don't tell her she's gorgeous. This can work, wonders, But in a strip club where a girl is used to being groped and told how beautiful she is all night yet doesn't so go against your male instincts and just take

a step back. If she's sitting with you, getting up to give dances and comes back to you, or especially she comes back to you after she goes on stage, then you are halfway there. That's true. Bam, you're doing good, but he's seen it all. One time, the girl I used to date was ten years ago, was the dancer and at the she was working one night I wasn't. She came home the guy gave her a blank check, signed and gave her a blank check. And the question is, well,

what do you put down? Because if you put down too much you could bounce and you get nothing. And it's but too little, you're gonna be piste off. All right, Hold up, what would you put? It depends on had a lot of money, what would you put in that blank check? I would have to assess the like, why did he get? Like? What was this scenario? Like I don't like, I don't I know that he was her only that night. I can tell you that it would

definitely be somewhere in the thousands. I wouldn't put hundreds and that's funny, but okay, so give us a number. You have this blame check. What are you gonna put? See? It all depends on like who this guy is and with the conversation said, and how much money I think that he has, Like, I'm not gonna put ten thousand dollars on a check, and I think the ten that's the number I was puking down. Yet more than that, Yeah,

I think I think for ten. Anything over ten. Usually anything ten and above gets flagged alot and looked at at a bank, you know, I think. So I said to her, what would you normally have made if it was a regular night and you were sitting with the guy, and she said, probably, like grand I started to put five. Would that's a minimum I would have? She was upset that I should have put that, But you would have been happy, you know, you made five, which is double

what you would have made. Just be happy. Ship there like nive and just played a safe because like nine, Okay, Nina naa. Alright, here's another step, so you can date a phole princess. Um ask her out. Okay, So at this point, she's hopefully been on stage and came back to you. You've had a few laughs, you've had a decent conversation. Keep in mind, it isn't a guy to always picking up a stripper. If you didn't get this far, just move on to the next girl. There's twenty girls

in the club. One of them is going to find you adorable. So he said, have something fun planned already, Like, listen, I'm gonna go see this great comedian next week. I loved for you to come with you with me. What's your favorite food? Da da da da? Yeah. The asking her out is cool, um, but it has to be something that she would want to do and miss night work right, was like what I tell guys to do this a lot. By the way, is that there's so many great shows that film in New York where the

tickets are free. But if I told you, I don't tell you I got tickets for free, and I say, hey, someone give me tickets to see Jimmy Kimo next Friday, you know I'm gonna go. You know, would you want to a lot of people like, oh my first one makes seem like you're you're cooler than you are. And the tickets called zero dollars for date, so that way, Yeah, that's anything that's that's like seems non threatening or or easy going to the to the beginning and always send

the uber. Oh yeah, that's a nice n okay. Step five asking for the number. Now, this is a tricky situation. She's asked this all night, so she asked for your number. Chances are you aren't getting a call. That's a fact. Someone which is given be your number email Facebook also probably not good. All right. So the best case scenario is she's effort and you doubt her on the spot. You guys tale on text text and say, let me make sure my number comes up on your phone because

it sometimes comes up private for some reason. Things like that, just to know or send us that figuring out as you could save me something, to make sure it's real and not that they're bullshitting you. All right, So these are all real. She's this is a pretty good guy. That's a pretty good day. I feel like if we were in a club together, I would have already had her number. Whoa this pretty much works for people. Stuff

for all the guys out here listening, um. And also when you go on the date, be decisive, pick the places, pick her up, be super cordial, and do not expect to get late on the first night. Please don't. Then you're just a creep from this. And it's thanks to the women that the woman that we all know, Lanny, I've met a lot of adult entertainers, porn stars and stuff, and I've gone on a lot of dates with porn stars.

Never once have I tried to do anything on the first date because every guy in the world is trying to do that. Every guy her she's a porn star, she must put out on the first day, right you said, you have to realize she's expecting you to think she's a stripper until you're gonna get late. If you go the gentleman route, you have a much better chance of making this payoff tenfold in the long Ye gotter listen up.

But if you do get in a relationship with like someone that's a dancer, or have you ever tried because you have dated at love me so you never tried to be like you know what, that's enough, hang it up. If look The thing is is, if you're telling a girl to hang it up, then you better be the one that's going to be making up the difference of her income. If you're not doing that, then I think it's a weird statement. You met her at a script club and now you have a problem with it. Why

wasn't it a problem when you first met up. That's like telling me I don't want you doing radio anymore. Hang it up, it's a job. It's a different you met me doing radio if you're doing something illegal that I met you, but I didn't know that. That's how I met you. You know what I mean? That would be different from me. I don't want to the girl's a drug dealer or something like that, and I find out after the fact that would not sit right. But we tell our drug dealer boyfriends to hang it up. Wait,

is she giving you some of the drugs. I'm a very clean When we tell our drug dealer boyfriend, okay, that's enough, hang it up? Are you? Tasha? How? You know what I think? After a while, you got to try to help them out unless you want them to be in jail. Yeah, that's what it is. I don't know. It's funny on a str on my podcast. So I don't do any drugs, but once every month or so I try a drug on the air just to see how it feels. No like what UM did, Edible did mushrooms,

and did molly, So what's your favorite? Hated them all? Oh my god, how did this shrooms go for you? Because I well, I remember I didn't watch the video back because I didn't want to see it, but I know I was drooling. I don't really know what I said, and I didn't listen back. I want to try shrooms. We're gonna come on the show and try a drug? Yeah for sure. Yeah, I gotta be shrooms because I never tried to. How long today kick if? We took it about forty minutes before the show, So kicked in

about twenty minutes into the show. The only thing is that I said, you got to be in a good mood. Yeah, I did it right the mushrooms to girl I was dating the time I had her hanging out like place was all clean, everything was just like in the right mood. Yeah. You have to be in a comfortable space around people you're comfortable around, and you have to be in a

good mood. So are you sure you want to like record, because first of all, we've done like three episodes in one day and I've just been drunk and like the trouble episode and I just was over it. I'm like, all right, I'm drunk. So the first time we did Molly, we all think that it wasn't Molly, that it was something else, like they think it was Crystal math. I don't know what it was, but I don't know what.

I think that was weird that we were all up for like two days and pacing it's not what Molly whatever. It did not go over well for anybody. So then we tried it again recently. This time we bought a little drug tester and we saw that it was like almost pure m D M A Molly. And then we tried it and my producer which she made the mistake of doing it also, which I'm okay with, but ten minutes into the show, she just couldn't produce the show anymore. She's like, I don't know what to push, and then

we had to bring something. We ended up stopping the show early because nobody could continue. Wait, I don't know if I want to play this game where you about a drug tester, someone someone I can get them for you. Okay, oh, great job, Angelie. You incriminating yourself. Why I'm telling it? How much is it? I don't know? All right, moving right along now, Ralph, I want to ask you this, what looks bad naked? I was reading this article. Shut up,

I'm talking about foo when it comes to women. Because listen, in our heads, right we think a guy is just so excited to be getting laid that it doesn't really matter what you look like. They're happy. But I was reading about this woman and she lost like two hunch of something pounds, and you know how the skin just kind of hang. So you're happy you lost the way, but you look terrible because with the skin hanging down without the skin tightening procedure, you know, she's embarrassed to

take her clothes off. So I'm wondering what looks bad naked to a man like I know, we're supposed to think that no matter what, you're just happy that we're here and we're naked. But I'm sure there's things that are talking for me. Which is weird is that I for for me, I have a delusional sense of grandeur in that I swing for the fences, like I try to get girls way out of my league all the time. I seldom will sleep with the girl unless I find

her crazy attractive, right. I know a lot of the guys on my net, on the network that we have, they just want to get laid. I would rather not get laid than not be happy with the person I'm with. And that's either it could be if it's just physical, because a lot of times that I don't care about other anything other than just having sex, then I don't

care who you are as a person, you know. But if it's going to be more than that, I think all guys have this internal formula of the less hot, the more cool she better be, you know what I mean. And the more hot, the more you're willing to deal with whatever idiot sees. You know. I briefly dated a girl that was a flat out racist because she was gorgeous, but I couldn't deal with it anymore. What do you mean by if you first you hated Jews and I'm Jewish,

which is um? I just you make concessions. Most guys will do this. They're lying to you if they say they don't. If they're crazy into a girl physically, they're willing to give up certain things mentally. I could imagine dating somebody who you got to make it embarrassing. I wouldn't bring her around people, you know, it's just like

ten years ago, but she definitely would. Curious. What she said to me once is so stupid that she thinks that she thought that she really believed this, that Christmas Jews got together to make fun of Christians and Catholics. That's what we did. We had a party for like I forgot what it was called, the the matsa ball was a party in New York. Doesn't happen anymore, but it happened. It was every night Christmas Eve once a year. Doesn't happen anymore. But she thought it was Jews get

together to make fun of everybody else. And I was like, what are you talking about? And then she said to its out, it's funked up that I'm dating a Jew on Christmas because you don't care about it, Like she really was, like I had some real negative feelings, but it was the best sex they ever had. So I was like, it's crazy you think that way, and if you bust that for Christmas, you wouldn't had did she say people, Yes, she said, you don't like anybody Asian people.

I don't remember who was ta years ago. It was definitely black, definitely was she. She was very white, like Jersey white, you know, like Jersey Irish and Italian or something stupid like cast didn't cast member on the Jersey Shore type. Do you guys ever dating anybody you thought was racist? No? I know this girl that dated this guy and he used to call her um, and he's a card a N word. A friend of mine. She's

like somewhat famous actress. Her name is Jennifer Esposito. She was on Crash on different movies and I've been friends with her since some seventeen. Yeah, and um, she did this movie Crash where in the movie she had sex with Don Cheatle and at the premiere, a guy that she had been dating for three months. She had no idea he was racist. Right at the premiere, she leans over her and goes, you're fucking American N word on camera. That's disgusting. And she thought initially that he was joking.

People are gonna hear. He's like, I don't care if people here, it's just like and they broke up right there, Oh my god, that's crazy. I can't even do my job. You're having the problem with fucking done cheating. But it sounds like he was a little insecure, right, he couldn't add up. But you know what, one thing, I'm so glad that you did bring up the looking when you're naked looking funny. So one of my friends had recently got lightpole and she told me she's probably gonna kill me.

I know who it is, right, So she said to me that like she feels like now she needs lightpo like on her vagina. But she said, it's not a pupa. But it's like, see, this is the thing when you have this belly fat, right and they suck it from here, the belly fat goes all way down to here because the fact doesn't come back here anymore. Yeah, so they suck it from here and then all of this is still like, so I know that I used to work with a girl who had that. So what is that is?

It's really a fop is just like the lfeboat. It couldn't go down, it's over. You just gonna have a I mean guys like but the way guys like it when the lips are fat, this front part that's fat and her stomach is not. That's how you get a camel tell then, right, that's how you just look weird. Yeah, you can't wear leggings, camel back, camera back mountain. All right, So what about for us? What looks bad naked? Like for a guy? Is there anything that you've ever been

turned off? I'm sure very hairy, That's what I was gonna say, Harry, even like the I mean, I don't really mind a little bit of chass. Ever, when you owe dn and then like you don't man escape like funny because all of that has become It's just like with women shaving their their couch. It's all comes and goes. Like when I in the seventies Tom Selleck from Magna p I. He was the epitome of a male and it's super hairy chest. And then Baywatch comes out and

it's all shaven chest. So then it just culture is a lot of often dictated by entertainment. Okay, so you know what, I take that back chess is not that bad. It's the back back. If your fucking back is hairy, you're disgusted. I'm sorry. You have to get it lasered. You have to get shape. It is painful. I don't know about going to do something too. Oh my excuse thing laser heads back hurt in my back and he Syrian Arabic, so that's even more hair. You get flagged

everywhere everywhere. Um so they I got my back. We had a porn star on the show once and I I said that she was from Lithuania or a Latvia, and I said, it's cool that when an immigrant comes to this country and makes a living like she makes it. She was, I'm not a fucking immigrant, she's a freaker. She thought I meant a legal immigrant, you know what the word meant. And when I told her I was Syrian, she goes, you fuck and terrorist, you piece of the

only show every Wow, this is a mess. So these people you run across to keep a home girl around the beat. One of them up with, yeah, we go turn in front of us when I see when I see you on somebody, you know how somebody just got like a black crusty their neck crusty as neck like oh my god. Or when they had their bumps on the back like the armpits or the knees like where your joints are. If you just like black and you need to like scrub. They didn't clean that dirt out

when they was young. Not. But the next thing you just said, when I'm outside and I see like the person that got the bump on the back of the here next and M yeah, bunch of them. But it's also fascinating to sit behind this guy and he had like hit the whole back of his head. It's like bumb sa lambians comes from the shaving. I guess that is already raised. But looking at that ship and I would be like, this is terrible, but it's so fascinating. That's not I don't know why I just pictured it.

I just pictured it when like a big person. I do think that, And it's part of our DNA for men and women that women are much more turned on mentally. Men are much more turned on physically, so that you thankfully, women are much more forgiving. Like I can't believe women have sex with me. I mean the worst, And I said, while I'm having sex, I'm like, I feel so bad for this girl right now. I can't believe she's dealing with this. But it's because they care more about Oh,

he makes me laugh. He's funny. He's nice whatever. Yeah, and where guys don't care about that, they really don't. So thank god it works that way because you girls work so much harder on your appearance. I just literally rolled out of bed like this, Oh you look great, Oh, thank you so much. You look very clean, your hairs? Why? And they did shower. But yeah, that sounds great all right. Now, have you ever had to go to the hospital because of something that happened during sex? Oh? We had a

guy on the show, not me. We had a guy on the show that broke his penis worse than any penis ever broke. And he made a documentary about it. And he was broke all three pieces. There's two tendons and the urethra. And while the girl was riding him, she misfired and ripped his penis. I know somebody who did that. Pinky the porn star. She was on top of the guy riding him, right, and I guess she came up and went back down. She said, the whole

condom filled up with bloody horrible. Maybe that's the Maybe it's the same story. Didn't It happened to Dennis Rodman as well, right, Yeah, but I think, yeah, I think he's taking. Imagine you'd have to have a bigger penis, just like it's hard to snap a tiny pencil, you know, because I think if you because you know what, if it's not big, you might be going up and down and slide off because you're so small a muscle. I think that the longer it is, there's more areas for it,

Like I could snap easily little pencils hard. Yeah, that does make sense, and the same thing the bigger all right, So for all you big dick guys out there, it's not a bonus. Maybe don't let them ride into that thing broken then have it. Have you guys ever had to go to the hospital? Man, listen, let me person in the yard. You know my hospital story? Drop? Yeah, she killed someone? All right? Okay, yeah the yeah, the clear Mont twins is that true? Yeah? He had a

heartest actually did kill someone, not Gigi. To clear my twins before, to clear my twins, though, you better show them how to do it, since to listen, it feels bad about it to this day. It's gonna be weird. I thought the only happen in movies. I don't know that really happens. Come on, let's just give him a moment. When you've got some bob mass pussy anything. We're not gonna give him a moment. Come on, a moment of silence. All right? Have you ever killed anyone? Never killed nobody,

not that I'm aware of. Have you read to the hospital? No I haven't. Actually no, I'm play on the safe side. I think I've been doing pretty well. Please don't jinx me. I don't want to end up in the hospital. I went to the hospital once, but what it was like a false alarm? Where was it? So? I was drunk and I was dating this guy and I had my periods. I wasn't planning to have sex, but I guess I did. So I woke up in the morning and I was like, where's my tampon? I was like horrified, and I thought

it was inside me somewhere. I like called the emergency room, went to the doctor. But I guess I must have taken it out in my drunken state at some point where the fun didn't you just stick your you could that right syndrome. But my home girl, Leah, that actually happened to her. What happened was she started dating this guy who I'm not gonna set her host, so she's told it before, but anyway, um, she didn't realize she had the tampon inside herself for like months. Her pussy

was thinking. She didn't know why, and so he was like, listen, you really need to go get that checked out, like in a nice way, you know, because why did she really go? Why she had an odor? And then when she went, she found out that there was a tampon that she had left, that she forgot, that that was inside of her awfulness. It's good to know that if it happens, you could live for months. I thought it happened much quicker. Everybody was a good toxic sax syndrome.

But it's a you know, it could potentially. I know of a girl who left it in her for days and it was horrible on purpose or she forgot. She forgot. This is so common. Yeah, yeah, she was sposed to me. I was like kind of around her at the time, and she was like, something wrong with me, something wrong with me. I smell funny out of that, And then she went to the doctor and it was only like a couple of days, but months. I can only imagine the smell like that. I don't I would imagine most

hospital related sex stories are anally related. Yeah, I would imagine that too, like you rip yourshome like but a lot of people get things stuck in here. But I thought I was Wow. But y'all some old hole because we did that. That is the number one reason. I know somebody who works in the er and they said, people have all kinds of stuff, and some work in New York. It's always a story like I sat down and this happened, or I fell, and no one ever wants to talk about wants to an apple, and apples

always making up some sort of backhanded story. How do you sit on the apple and it goes up your asshole? I don't know. I guess you don't sit on it? No, thanks? All right now, I was telling you guys about this story that I was reading about earlier, and this has to do with the me too movement? Right, So Henry, how do you say? Name? Henry Kile? Some more? Okay? He had to apologize Superman about some statements that he

made in an interview with g Q Australia. He was talking about the Me Too movement and how women He said, there's something wonderful about a man chasing a woman. There's a traditional approach to that, which is nice. I think a woman should be wood and chase. But maybe I'm old fashioned for thinking that. He said, it's very difficult to do that if there are a certain rule in place, because then it's like, well, I don't want to go up and talk to her because I'm going to be

called a rapist or something. So you're like, forget it. I'm going to call an ex girlfriend instead and then just go back to our relationship, which never really worked. But it's way safer than catting myself into the fires of hell. By the way Superman raped me would be one of the coolest stories of all time. Who's Gonna save you, Batman? That's an awful story. Good story. I would do that for the story he kidding me would

be the greatest story in the world. Well, this whole story went viral and people were very upset about it. They called him trash and they said it's pretty really, yes, they said, it's pretty easy to not rape someone. Things that make me go, what the funk? If you're approached to chasing and are talking to our women, leading leads to you to be afraid of a woman. Might accuse your rape, then you need to question your style of chasing women. I think the word rapist was the mistake there, right,

he took it too far. In this day and age, certain words may harassment from sexual harassment, I think would be the answer that would not have gotten him so much age. He apologized, and he said he didn't mean to be insensitive, and he wanted to clarify um, he would never disrespect in any way, shape or form anybody. So he said he's going to make sure that he's

more careful about the nuance. Well, these days we all have to be very aware of words because unfortunately, in the society right now, words hurt more than they should. I personally believe that you should be able to say anything. It's actions that you should be worried about. You know

that actions are far more dangerous than words. But words are crazy too because people listen to you, right, yeah, And you have a platform where people listen to you, so you say things and people like well if you depends again, I know this sounds horrible, s hard to cut you off there, but I think a lot of it depends on for me, especially working in a comedy space. You know, I'm not a comic, but I do work

in that space. There are a lot you could segment out things that I've said on my show or Jason make us look like the worst people on the planet. You know, But if you're saying something for the purposes of funny or something you don't really mean, is different than how I live my life. Like if we made a headline out of you know, Ralph sentence says it would be dope if Superman right exactly, so that exact statement,

it's a perfect example of it. Where look, the way, the way I described this a lot is that guys have had it pretty fucking easy and too good in the guide direction since the dawn of man. Right, man have just had it easy. So now the pendulum has swung way back in the wrong direction where everything is wrong. Eventually it's going to come into the middle that the real estate market, right, it's gone. But right now we just have to suck it up and deal with it

because we've did. You tell us to suck it up, that's right. Suck it is what I meant to say. I'm not I'm not gonna lie. I'm tired of people being this sensitive, like it's whack because it's like back in the day, you could use the F word. You know what word I'm talking about, and nobody yeah know what I'm trying to say? What they used to say, gay people would, but you say it in a rap song and nobody would saying now you just would wrap along.

Now it's like you say you got a whole community coming behind you, and it's like you might not even meant it in that context. And I'm just words can't have more than one meaning anymore. I had a girl a cigarette, you get what I'm saying, a fag smoking a fag, and oh, now everybody doesn't like me exactly, but it's like it's too much now because like you said, where's the outrage for the cops killing what it is?

And it's more And most of the people that get upset I don't think are the actual people that it affects. But I think it's a privileged white people that have nothing better to do than find something to complain about. I had a girl say to me that we made we made like some dumb Asian joke on my show, and exist like forgot what the joke was, but her line was, I don't think you should make Asian jokes. I think that's retarded. I'm like, retarded, what are you saying?

So you know, it's funny how when it hits home it bothers you. She doesn't care about saying retarded, but an Asian joke because you know what you can and can't say, because they said, now you can say retarded, the medical right word for it. They said you can say that's mentally and you can't say miss it. You have to say little person, little person, more offensive. That's the worst thing. That's what I said. I get like, little people better to imai it. I don't know. I

think dwarf. But that's a different things, a different thing. I said it to two little people. What's up? It was in a picture with us and I was like, we love. I was like, and then here's also a little person. Sounds like you're not even a real person. That's what I think the weird. So here's here's my question, because I had the endless debates about this. Let's assume truck drivers get together and say that the word trucker is offensive. Okay, and let's say right now, ten thousand

truckers truck drivers don't like the word anymore. But it's not enough people to make enough noise where it gets changed. Right, we are saying that ten thousand people don't matter. When do we get enough people on board that all of a sudden, Okay, now it matters. So you just need enough what I call the unsilent minority to complain, Yeah, and then things change. But the truth is that you ask, like, look, we have a lot of gay guys on our network. It's like three or four. There's a guy that plays

a transgender woman on the network. There is a flat out gay guy on the network. That's various. Every still come into the studio and say to me what's up? Fact like, that's how he comes in. And I'll say it back to him because we like each other and we know each other, and it doesn't matter when you're friends with people. But I guess you can't get on a platform and say it. It depends on the people don't who don't know you. Right, It's a different thing.

I almost got I host this rock cruise every year. CULTU ship rocked and I made a suicide joke after the singer of Lincoln Park killed himself And it wasn't even a bad joke. It wasn't even funny joke, but it's made a joke, and they tried to get me thrown off hosting the cruise. They tried to And the truth is is that I don't like I didn't post it. If I would have posted it on the ship Rocked Facebook page or on the ship rock Twitter for him, yeah,

fire me. That's insensitive. The guy that had a problem with it wasn't even following me on Twitter. He someone he took a screenshot of it and then sent it to ship Rocked and then tried to rally. Of course, he lost someone through uh suicide, and he sent me a picture of his daughter and said, she killed herself. How do you feel now, I'm like, I feel bad that your daughter died, but I don't know her, and I wasn't talking about her, you know. And so it's

just weird. In general, when things get too close to home is when people have a problem, they get hypersensus and you have to realize sometimes or maybe this is because it's me, you know, and maybe you're right, because we um we about the fact that she killed someone, but somebody might be offended if they have somebody closing in and got killed exactly, and you just have to realize sometimes that maybe it's just you, you know, and you need to realize that this person is a good

person or whatever it is. You know, they're murder murder. That alone would make every guy want to have sex with you. You think, like, man, that girl's got to have a Like I'm always like, why would anybody want to have sex with killed someone? Black Widows Challenge marathon. First, make sure I'm up to shake gz heart attack challenge. Yeah, take that out. I did. I used to have a radio show that was like a rock music radio show. We're on about eight stations, not as big as the

Breakfast Club, but it's still pretty big. Um. We a band came to try and promote. They sent a CD band. They were a rock death metal rock then called like Jeffrey Jeffrey, and we just started making jokes like, uh, what are the songs called you Taste Good for Dinner or whatever? You're stupid jokes. And then someone that listened to the show and then they said that we should get taken off the air. And you know, it's all about when from close so we can't say anything. That's

the thing. Then you get to a place where you can't say anything. Yeah, people are so hells What kind of coincidence is that that the group is called they should be more upset at them than us, right exactly that they made the record label that allowed that album to come out. Don't be mad at me, They just sent me the record. Like I'm saying, it all started

from Rosa Parks and Outcasts. Hey, body moved to the back of the bus and she was outraged that they used saying that, and I felt like ever since then, people have been willing like they want to sue everybody for Come on, come on, Rosa Pox and State, y'all, y'all started this. Now's since we're talking about g killing people, let's talk about this. This was in the news, right They were talking about a man he married his dead fiance at her Is that romantic or is that mean

that's crazy? You gotta die for a ring now? And he married his dead fiance at her funeral? Oh no, wait, I heard a different story. I'm sorry, that's not the story heard. I heard a story about a guy who buried his buried, unearthed his ex lover and kept her in the house for three years and was still sucking. That's called psycho. Oh no, that's his mom. Know this guy. I'm because what happens when he say you may now kiss the bride? Well, the question is did the bride

have a lot of money the family? Maybe that's why he did it. Here's the picture, so you guys can How does she say I do? She's dead? Maybe she's not consenting. Oh yeah, she didn't. She didn't consent. She didn't say. She didn't say yes. I saw the news the other day it that was just fiance. I guess he was understood. I mean, I understand. I mean it's kind of sweet. I guess you didn't get a chance. Should have married that guy she killed. It's interesting that

she was wearing that's like morbid. I don't know. I couldn't do that if you were in love? What if you dad? Not? If you were in love would be I saw who's the other day that there was this family who propped their kids up and I saw that to him playing video games like Cereal and stuff in China, and I saw before it reminded me of this story I saw before where they had propped the guy up on his motorcycle for his week and his motorcycle. That's weird.

Don't do that to me. I actually think, like, don't put me on the strip repole for my week. Oh my god, can you imagine if you should be on top of a guy that's dead. Oh my god. No, I don't want to talk about none of this normal struck with y'all. Well, lor y'all smoking some we in the studio. My aunt passed away a week or two weeks ago through a weird circumstance where she's like fifty seven. She slipped in the shower, hit her head and died. It was awful. I was married or not super close

to her, but still sad. But her family, that side of my family, they don't believe in funerals. They think funeral is for everyone else, not for the person. And the brother who was married to my mom said, you know that's not my sister and I. We just we don't do funerals, and I kind of dig that celebrate the life, don't have to look at it. Especially Jews generally don't do caskets. You know, we don't do that, and that's a really hard thing to look at the

dead body. I'd like to remember the person, how they were as opposed to seeing some ridiculous caricature of who they are. And I think, I don't think I want a funeral when I died, you know, as I would don't neate my body to science. Really that's kind of scary. Really don't know, because it just reminds me of like a movie or something. You think you're gonna go to heaven and you need your spleen, might because you might come back with no spleen and he's gonna be like,

why don't I have a spleen donated to science? So what do you guys think about? That? Is that a sweet story? He married his fiano did say how long they were engaged, how long they were And they don't even know the circumstances of how she died. They just have the video of the actual It would be cool if he could find out if he killed her. That would be no, No, he did not kill her. What that was? She said no the night before to the weddings,

that we killed her and they married her. You're gonna marry me anyway, she said, over my dead Bobby, he said, let's make that happen. That's why to be making this type of quiet work stop it. No, that ain't sweet. I think that's weird all right. Now, Justin Bieber still has Selena Gomes tattooed on him, even though he's engaged now Hally Baldwin. So, m can you agin being with somebody and they have someone else tattooed on him? I find it hilarious that it's very popular. The best story

is Nikki six from Motley Crue. He had the Matley Crue movie coming out, Yeah, the Dirt, I can't wait for it. Um. He was dating Vanity gorgeous poster mind. I think he passed away to usually she's incredibly beautiful, and he got a V tattooed on his arm for Vanity. Then they broke up, and he's smart. He just put an eye in front of it and made it a Roman number six for Nicki six. So it made it work. It was fortunate. Actually he planned it at a time.

I never understand the putting anyone's unless it's your kid or the guy you murdered from having sex. Only those two names should be allowed on you. Have you ever had sex with a girl and she had another? Many times? It's hilarious. Is it weird to you? Like? Is it funny. It just dumbed. I look at it. You're you're an idiot, you know? Having that's weird too? Do you ask, like, whose name is that? I want to open up a

can of worms? Son? What if you go to have sex with a girl and she already has your name? That'd be cool. I had a girl asked me to marry her after two dates. That's did you say we got married? I had three. I don't know if we talked about this. I had three different women asked me to marry them in my life, so and that was one of them, one of those after the second day. Have you ever asked anyone? No, I've never been married. Never. I had a five year relationship five six years, but

I've never been married and I have no kids. We had a discussion on the Breakfast Club about women asking men to marry them. Why not you think in this, in this you know, feminist world, why not Why can't women ask men? You can't have it both ways. That's how I feel about this. It really bothers me. Women want to be equal except on things that they don't

want to be equal. Well, I can say this though, we want to be equal, but let's be clear, we still aren't because we still don't make the same amount of money that Thank god, I have to pay for all my dates, so thank god. So that's what even, that's what you have to do because we don't make the amount of money that y'all make. We still make what about the dollar? What about model where female models make way more money? Cripps. So how come we're not

having in that argument? You can you shouldt that revolution. You're saying it just but we're talking about in general. I understand that. But I'm just saying is that it is weird for me and like, as as a single man dating at this point in my life where you could have been married, I still go the route of of making the decision in offering the uber and picking the restaurant and paying and doing what in antiquated chivalrous terms. As soon as we get equal pay for equal work,

then we'll talk about it. I had a girl on a first date get piste off that I offered her an uber home the doly thing. I can't pay for my own number. I'm I'm just offering. I'm sorry, but she got you should have been like I have a coupon, I have a coupon. It's super feminine, right, I got free rides, bitch, that's it. We both not pay. But what happened? You let her pay for her own? Yes, she got. She had an argument in a bar? Did she paid for dinner? I paid for dinner? People like

people like to I am an asshole. You can feed her, but just don'ta make sure she's at home. Now I'm thinking as him. I'm still definitely him. I think it's in an argument over everything conversational. I think I'm a horrible human being. All right, Well, I'm glad we talked about male porn stars making less and women because that was one topic I wanted to talk about. And what

does it take for a man to be a porn star? Right, because there's a lot more things than it takes for what it takes for a woman to be a porn star. They said, you have to be well endowed, but you also have to have a lot of stamina in order to perform unless and I don't agree with you have to be well en down. Because there's porn for everyone, and some people like to look at small penis, little small pen is porn, and we look at pinky porn

so let's talk about the things. Uh, and how much harder it is for men to get into that industry, right, they said, it's very it's almost impossible as a man to get your foot in the door. A lot of guys ask male porn stars how to break into the industry. That's a fair question, they said, But um, you know, usually you have to get a girl to bring you in. Oh, that's interesting. So if you're dating someone who's a porn star, then she can make sense, makes sense, and have you

do porn with her. And so one guy said he became a male porn star basically it was free labor for my wife, he said. But if you don't have the benefit of waking up every morning next to one of the most popular female performers in the industry, you're probably out of luck. Then a lot of guys get stayed wait free labor for his wife. And I guess because she was an Yeah, she's okay, he was. His name is Aaron's Small Hands Thompson. Who's his h superstar

porn star wife, Joanna Angel. This is from Men's Health. She works. I guess she's also writes for Men's Health too. Small Hands is probably great for porn for a man, because it makes you dick look bigger. That's why I have a mini tabasket bottle in my room, and a mini smoke control, a mini bottle, a mini two leader bottle of consoda, the one that goes in the refrigerator like a bagna what other good what other things guys

measure their dick up against. I have a book in my house called the uh the Problem with Living with a Huge Penis. It's just a funny people come in and see it. It's like an my eight dollar joke to just leave it out there, you know. And on the side there's a ruler that you're supposed to measure your dick with. What he was saying, he used the book, I'm about to say, nobody's ever sent me a picture with the book into a mini ruler next to your day. All right, there was a good way to send our

penis pictures. But you know a lot of times, like women, you know, we send that pictures from certain angles. So people have, of course, and women use those those pretty apps, those apps that what do they call that? Not just the filter with there's like a face tune that's one that specifically makes you look way better. I went on a first date recently and I did not recognize that

it looks so different. And you know, you know how you can tell when a woman doesn't look good or like how she wants to look when she takes the pictures from way up top and you can't see the rest of her body, but you just get to head hit. And then when you see somebody's like Instagram or Facebook or whatever, and they only have like head shots, now that's not true. They might not have no friends, so they don't got nobody to take the full body picture,

take a full bodiu. And you know what else too, If you go on their Instagram, look at the pictures that they're tagged in. That's where you find out although they might untagged themselves, you should be more confirmed to the girl you're looking at it has no friends. That's right, that she's taken self. He's why doesn't she have she sits on apples? Alright? So another thing for mal porn stars,

they said a lot of them get stage right. They said they want to know that you can get hard, last um last the time that's required and give them the performance that they went and pop when they need you to. So that's the hard parts I would imagine, right, literally, that's hard work. Like I have into sex clubs and have had sex in in group situations. That doesn't bother

me at all. But the the on que coming and the stamina things, you know, they make sure you like all these guys can come and then come again five minutes later, you know, which I definitely maybe when I was twenty, but not now, you know. So I think those are probably the things that are most admired from a male porn star, that they can come on, que come again and last as long as needed for the same and come on you. How did you get invited to these sex? I used to do? I looked so

I was. I had a couple of long term relationships, like a three year and a five year, and it was thirty three and thirty four. I realized why I have never done anything strange, you know, I just been in monogamous, regular missionary relationship. I had never had anal sex. I never had a threesome at that point at thirty almost fifty now, but at nothing. No, this can't offend nobody.

But I thought White Girl was like anal I mean, and my the two girls that were in my most of my adult life at that time did not, and so it just never happened. And at thirty three, I'm like, well, you know what, I'm going to experience everything now, suck it. So I just started looking for girls that were bisexual.

I was working the strip club at the time, so that was kind of easy, you know, and then going to swing parties and I did a stint of you know, four girls and me more than once and uh, various crazy swing parties. And I've done sex swings and whatever the hell else just to say that I've done it, anal, sex whatever, just to try it, you know, a lot

of it. I love, Yeah, I mean to me still, I don't think that a guy on the planet that would say, if you ask them number one and number two what they want a girl to do, it's threesome and anal for most guys like that. One of those crazy sexwings. I did that at a at a Montreal sex club. Sorry not Montreal, Um, I got where it was. Maybe it was in Cleveland or something. I went to a sex club with the girl I was didding and it was we swapped with another couple using a sex swing.

It was crazy well, I'm glad you brought that up because I'm gonna get to our surprise right now. This is all so crazy, he's like so exciting, hang out. You're all going to hate me like every girl of every data by the end, we just want to hang because you come to SDR you should go. Okay, do you guys want to hear the surprise? I'm scared now that you said sex swing and now okay, the surprise is that lip service? We are all going to take

a trip together. Oh, Reilly, where we're going. We are going to Hedonism is going to be on the plank. Maybe you can see the wake of dead men that leaves and oh my god, eight men killed that hedonism too. I'm so large service co host g mcquarith, the former stripper excited. Yes, that we're all going to Hedonism and all expenses pay, so we just have to figure out what the dates are that we want to go. But yes, perfect, we're all going to go. Who else is going to

meet us out there? That's pretty cool. Dates I mean, I mean no listeners. Oh wait, wait, wait, wait wait, you have to bring a date. Heism. So let's tell him a little bit about what hedonism is for people that know what. There's some clothing optional parts of the resort and beaches and stuff like that that you can go to. But then that's not all it is. So we're gonna have a nice women's trip. That's gonna be

with the lip service ladies. And are you all and I don't know if you talk about this on there, and if you don't know, apologize? Are you all single? Ladies? I have a boyfriend. I'm not single either. That's see, that's a weird thing to say. I'm self confused because you have a boyfriend? Or are you not single? I mean to me, I don't I they were both the same thing. Am I wrong? The same thing? So you have a boyfriend? You are? You just tell me something else.

You don't want to say that that she has a boyfriend. She just wants to say that she's not single. Yes, do you have a boy I have a boyfriend? Okay? You know what do you think your boyfriends would think about you going to eatonism have a good time. They don't care. It's one person that day, your boyfriend, she's single. He's gonna tell my boyfriend. He's gonna say, rock out. What are they gonna say, just make sure you don't suck anybody with my girls. He knows I'm not like

that anyway. I'm such a prude, like I'm not about they have the prude party. It's called prude or nude, and those are the two already. I might slide over the nude you damn like you're gonna go to I don't have problems being naked, have sex with anybody, but they're signing a disclaimer when you walk in. Whatever happens happens. Don't you feel like when when you see nakedness, eventually drinks come into play of No, no, no, not you.

I'm not saying you, but maybe I think maybe yeah, But it would you think your husband, your your boyfriends would be upset if you were watching people fucking No. I think they would think it was hilarious. I would think they would think that was porn, live action porn. Yeah. I would be like, yo, you won't believe what happening or these people. What if he said that, Oh my god, this dude had the most beautiful dick I've ever seen him my own I've never here. Probably ignore it when

my boyfriend doesn't say that's beautiful. When I talked to my boyfriend. If I say something that he thinks he's crazy, which I do all the time, he just ignores it, acts like I didn't say it, and antinues the conversation. He always does that to me. I'd like to hear me. I shouldn't repeat herself. Is out right? So hopefully G won't suck the life out of anyone again? WHOA. First of all, I didn't suck the life out of him.

He came, and then he came again, and I tried to get him to come a third time, and he died on the third. Wow, I didn't come and can make you die? You have a heart attack? Clearly, clear, clear, G, I'm excited about I would wait till the winter, though. You want to wait till it's cold in New York or else? Why go? Yeah? I was thinking maybe we'll go, like in November or something like, wait till after I think the hurricane season ends in early November. Can make

sure you think I've never been to Jamaica? Really well, you got the girl, girl. I spent New Year's even Jamaica last year. If all right, what's more important? Stamina or size? I think with the right side. You don't need Sam, that's not true. Nobody likes a big whack dick. You know. What I'm saying is that if a guy can make you come really quickly, big dick won't just make you sometimes, you know, obviously automatical tabasco with little tiny dick humping you. Like, That's what I was thinking

when she or huge. So if it's like she didn't say that, she said stamina or size huge? Who the size queen is here? I heard thirteen inch? So what's my importance? Um? Yeah, that's really hard because like, yeah, I feel like you need both. I feel like you need I didn't say both. I mean that's sometimes quickies can be very satisfying, not if the guy has a one inch penis. But exactly, I'm not saying one InChI I'm not talking, but you're you're leaving it open to interpretation.

But yeah, would you rather have a really okay, what's that? A regular dick? But you know, um, but he has great stamina or a really big dig but he's okay, I want immediately I'm thinking extremes me too. You know when you said when you give me the list, wasn't for you you want to get pegged with what do you prefer? Because like I talked about, like I hate eat, I would rather be five degrees than a hundred and five. I'd rather I'd rather than seventy. But that's not the option.

It's the two extremes. So when you said it, I'm thinking micro penis and for two hours, two cares or a huge dick in the last three pumps. This is weird to hear you. I feel like it's like I'll sech a huge dick. You have to be extremes. You have to go. You gotta go, Sam, I don't know why I go to extremes. Now, I need the regular with stay regular, regular, great situation. Okay, let's okay, let's not say let's say four inches but great stamina or

talk about atches, but two minutes, what about girth? What if it's four inches but it's like, oh no, let's just say it's h a little bit below average. But that's a big want to know how to work it though it's too quick to really I don't come that quick like where you could do. I'm gonna go back. I'm gonna go with the stamina over the huge guy, like have you ever had sex with a guy that comes too quick all the time and you're like, Okay, what the fuck? But control it. Sometimes I'm annoyed all

guys on bounce. I was just about the face, but I mean, not in five minutes. At least in an hour they should be able to move on. I'm cleaning up one and done. I'm on the phone on you in the morning. Well, I was just said, it's one of my favorite feelings in the world. After you have sex with a girl as a guy, and you go to the bathroom for the guys in the booth can agree with us, and you come out of the bathroom

and she's getting dressed, You're like, thank God. Versus the girl that's snuggling in the bed, I'm like, oh, this is gonna be all night now. See that's your kind, that's your problem where you don't got no stamina. Huh. I prefer the girl to leave. It makes me happy. No one at it, lover, No, I sleep better about myself. I just do d He's just destined to be. This is my mother off to no end, just me and my tabasco. All right, well, listen, we appreciate you so

much for coming thing. This is really funny, and make sure you guys check out his column. He's got some really great funny and as you can see, informative articles.

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here They say that now. And I just just for some advice on that, because sometimes people get mad that I say I tried it and liked it. Just don't do a lot, that's all. I think that's one of the keys. When you're trying something you've never done before, don't overdo it. I'm taking one. I'll take one, right, he'll do a photos. A little bit taste, it's like mushrooms, but you gotta put it in ship and they taste terrible.

That you gotta growth and ship. You gotta put it in something like maybe a brownie or some tea or something like that. Just I just ate it. But yeah, I wouldn't do that. Oh, you just ate this ship? So how many did you eat that? Whatever? The out and took half of it? Okay, I don't even take that much because I'm very small. Because you little half a dose. I feel fine with that beause you and then together, okay, okay, slow down, slow it down. White boy strung out service