Episode 146: Freestyle on the D (Feat. Saweetie)

You know, once you get this, you'll never want nobody else. So if somebody you and you'd be like lies, like so how can you judge? Um? And has it ever turned you on when somebody's bragged? Um, let me see. Um, I probably someone just be low key and just surprised me, right, like what it's not that small? Um, I think there's something. I think that guys can really get you with the whole bragging because then you'd be like, oh, I gotta see what this is. Because nobody wants nobody to downplay

their ship. You know what I'm saying, Because if a guy is telling you, well, you know, I'm just okay, like I'm not hurting, no guts and nothing, that's right, rather than just trying to talk about it and then don't talk about it all. Yeah, and then you used to be like I have it, Luria. I was saying that people don't talk about sex before they have sex, right, I was thinking about it earlier, and I was wondering, I'm like, you know, how come we never talk about

sex before we have sex. I feel like it's we have sex with the person and then we get closed, and then we started talking about sex. So you have sex before you get closed, right, yeah, yeah, because it is a different kind of closeness, like you could suck, Yeah, you could work with somebody and just don't kiss me. Nah, I don't even gotta be like that, Like you could like them in anything, but you don't know them as well as if you was with them for three or

four or five years or live with them. Like to me, you don't know somebody util you live with them, so close to me is like y'all live together. That's a lot. That's when you really start talking about things though, because I feel like that I dated somebody for five years, I didn't live with him, all right, but y'all got closer over the years. Correct, And that's when y'all felt you felt more fine with being like if say he was lazy that day, like I had to do all

the something crazy. We dated and then the first two months that we dated, we sell each other every single day, every single day. He worked a block away from me and live right near me in Brooklyn. Is that a good or bad thing? Like? Do you think that's a break in between? Like maybe one day off for you? Just say that every single day. I've been like that before and he still cheated me too, And you could to take breaks and he'll still cheat me. I mean

the break because they always still cheat. That was there's hope. Have you ever been in a monogamous m Yeah, I have, see it can happen. It was only for two weeks. It was two weeks, but yeah, because I wouldn't found out the tea. It was like it was like young love though it was like how young It was like um like seventeen. See, we was all fake. Funny Funny one is that you lush your virginity to huh. Yeah, okay, that's cute. If you can hug, you can hear she

heard she called gond with that one. She said seventeen. Yeah, I told him, and I'm thinking to I'll playing the fist. Going back to the question about bragging on your your sex, I think bragging at any right is to turn off, Like, don't brag to me about nothing, don't name drop, don't brag about where you've been, about who you know, about what you've done. Especially oh, I used to this, and I used to that, but you don't know more. That

is the worst. Now. I feel like the bragging thing, it depends like if they're doing it in a way to be like funny or flirty or sect you know what I'm saying, like just to talk to you, that's one thing. But if they done seryous like girl, I'll bust your hat, want to say, and usually be the ones with the smallest thing that talked the most ships like I don't know him. My experience and my experience, guys with little dicks don't try to suck you too quick.

Some of them be pretty fucking courageous because they want to make sure that you're mad cool first, really like them first, before they hit you with that bond you like them and not. They just don't want you to tell the next bitch like y'all could be I whatever. Whatever. They gotta make sure you cool so you don't blow their shut up, Like right, so and so got the smallest they got like a wall that what's the video? You're still young, though, so I'm sure that like you're like, okay,

let's talk about your your views on relationships. Okay, are you still like hopeful about love and everything and not jaded about relationships? I'm open. It's like I mean I did, I'm not jaded good. I've only been in like two relationships, so I don't feel like I experienced a lot and I'm high. That's the best way to be. And I'm picky. I'm just having a picky too. So when you say picky, like what's your requirements? Um? So, like when I'm picking, I want him to be like, you know, bossed up,

like same status as me. It's not like more popping. Are you gotta be goofy like make me laugh? High status goofy guy? Not because you can't be one of them, like dude, like you know them sick like speak serious and you can't play around. Yeah you know how fun And he's got to be able to take you out

here popping too. That's not easy for guys to deal with. No, it's not at all when they add with you and people are coming up and asking them to take pictures, like hey, hey, I don't know who you are, but you take a picture of me and sweetie yeah? Oh yeah, Like are you her assistant here? You gotta take a picture of us? Do you think that other men should if they want to take a picture with you, should ask him if it's okay? First? Not no, because I'm

I'm a I'm a public figure. It'd be different if I'm just, you know, like some girl that they admired, then that's that's different. But I feel like when you're a public figure, that's what comes with the territory. So if he's just working with you and he's like and a dude comes up and say, yo, can you take a picture of us? Not even ask him like, hey,

excuse me, do you mind? I only say no because if my dude was popping, if a girl came up to me like if he if she's like a fan, I'd be like, oh yeah, it's like a picture of y'all, Like it ain't nothing to me. So I would expect it to be nothing for him. All right, a lot

of famous guys in your d ms. But I'm just saying no. But I always say this, like I've been living in l A for like six years, so like they've been in my d M. So I was like not because like l A, everybody knows everybody knows each other. It's like they see me around and it's just like or even when you was under age, they was in your DM, not even under I got to l A when I was like twenty one year twenty Uh, anybody good,

anybody worked as a DM. Thing worked for you. Like I responded to like three d ms, three over the course of six or seven years, so you know they was really good. But have you ever sent one? Um? Yeah, but he didn't respond ship. He must not have seen it. Yeah. It was like it was like I was just like I remember I was like newly single and it was like something funny, right, Yeah, I was like just being goofy, what'd you say? You pick up line with week? I

don't know what I say. I don't know what I said, but it was like it was it was like hello, far fetched though? Did he go right there? Just got your DM years later, but I was like you. I was like, like, one, I'm curious as I know what would be because I would think a guy would respond to you, And I wasn't even popping. I was just like yeah, I was like I was a helly he might bring that up sometime soon. Now let's just say you were in love, right and the guy was tweeting

you good, he was great? Would you let him use your credit if he had bad credit? I don't think I'd be dealing with the dude who needed But let's just say he just made some bad business. He got money money, He's about to get a brand new car five ship. He was like, y'all put your name and six months, hell alright, one year a year, like I'm coign, I got the money right here, actually telling me don't fall.

How do you say no? Though? That's true? Now that's something I don't feel comfortable with co signing for yo ship. Um sorry, but what if you seen him take care of everything? Like you pay every bill? Is he paying my credit? Bad? Is he playing his bill? Makes bad list? And there's guys that have money that don't have good credit, like a building and it's not even they don't have good credit. They don't have any credit. Honestly, you know

what I say. Honestly, I say no only because the year ain't enough to that's like a commitment, like you gotta be like someone who I'm probably about some marry or something like, because that's like a bond. And what if I get tired of you, I'm not trying to like have to be keep like checking in with you because loy'all don't have some cable bills. Her name na hold on. In my defense, right, I lived in the house. Listen, there was me and my ex's house and the cable, yes,

was in my name v n that's it. He didn't had millions and trillions of bills. The cable wasn't my name, but it was my house as well. That's fine. We're still dealing with the repercussion. Take that ship off. I fail that ship. It was like, okay, since no more WiFi for you. So whatever happened in the middle of his situation was kind of like I called, was like, no, I'm not doing this, but it wasn't my name. But I also lived in the house at the time, but he kept it on for like a while after you

like five six months bad. When you buy somebody something in y'all breakup and then you'd be like, funk, I just bought him. I bought my ex something and he gave it to his friend. What you buy him, Louis bat hand and Scarpe said. And then I seen his friend with it. I was like, I'm gonna talk about y'all know this. Y'all know he can't afford nothing to the time. I knew before you even didn't you get me it was one of our fake breakups or whatever. I guess he's saying it petty to wear that on

the gram. Wait, well it wasn't on Instagram. I saw him in person with it on, and he had it like wrapped around right the scissor. What's the best thing you ever bought a guy? What's the best thing? Oh? Some like real gold hoop airrings. They were like, I was like it was right now? Was there was like the mini mini gold moves and you know what I had bought it with like a student loan. I had got. That's real love. He would give me the best presence and I never got him in present cause I couldn't

afford it. When you got that refund check that Holmes, No, oh that was that was your long term boyfriend? I think not. We was, We think not. We dated for for a cool minute, but I wouldn't say that was my long sterm So I was in a relationship for four years before that, justin give the fucking hoops back. It wasn't it wasn't. It was justin before after that, after after that, that hurts. You broke up with me? Now you didn't, did he? Son? That's the best payback

right there. But he's sick just because he he got to know nothing about him. He did, you know, had restaurants named after him. New York, Atlanta. You haven't been to, Justine? If they went in New York before they closed, the closed, both of them. Damn What kind of food was it? So it was good in Atlanta as well? Yeah? Girl almost? What was the what was it with the color greens

and the and the stuff and in the Turkey? I don't know, but just and just let they fried everything drinks to go there on Sundays and when I did some real group we've been starking, okay, but you're okay, Keith Powers, that was who we're talking about. Now we know him from the New Edition movie because um Ronnie, Yes, he played Ronnie in that movie. Right, So are y'all still like, do you still have feelings for him or

you're still cool? Well, I'm always love him, Like I met him when I was like fourteen fifteen years old, so like I've known him for like half my life. That's a cute couple. Yeah, that's a cute couple. And you'll be like, okay, whatever whatever, but like, congratulations on all your success every time something could happen. He's in the relationship right now. Oh well, okay, I didn't ask

that to hit you up. I still say congratulations. No damn and the lie detective to you think if you hit him up and was like, man, suck her, he would be like her, I don't know, thanks, thank cute, but I'm not even thank you. I'm not worried about that. You're not like I'm just the success is just over a woman. So like, if he says that, he says, and if he don't, I know he sees it, right, But you're still cool? Do you'll still speak to each other at least? So why did you guys bring up Um?

It was it was growing pains. So I was in college and he was acting, and we had been together for like four years already, and it was just you know a lot of just little problems that eventually added up. So you think you Ronnie, No, actually not. Actually I was really proud of him when he did that, and I told him we weren't together at the time, but it was really exciting to see him like finally get

something big and like the recognition he deserves. So what kind of um, like, when's the last time you've been on a date girl? Dang, like it's been a while. It's been a while, like last year? Damn really down? Yeah? Both, Um, you know it's it's honestly, being a woman in the industry, it's easy to date, Like you're going a date tonight if you want to. Yeah, so, but I try to be selective because I don't know who I want to date. You. I'm not just trying to be like getting every saying

yes to everybody. But I mean, I do you know, talk to people. I have a lot of old flings pop back up to ye do you go back to like the old ones? Are you just like I'm not trying to add another people forward? Um? I don't really have a lot of oath. I mean, dudes I talked to, but I've only been in two relationships, so it's not much to pop back. You count justin isn't lationship? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we went in a relationship. Him and Keith were like, my only boy, why did you jin break up? What

he do? He seemed like he got a lot of stuff going on, you know, a lot was just going on, and it was trying to focus on myself. Didn't we see him in New Orleans? We definitely see him in New Orleans. And one of his friends was absolutely insane, Larry Larry, hell of funny. I saw him Larry too, because there's Larry and he was Larry too. But this little this kid was going was fucking crazy. These videos that I got to him, and like about the fight, the chef in the restaurant, it was the crazy in

the kitchen hilarious. He was in the kitchen, fake cooking. I don't know what was it. It was hilarious. But like, I just know that he was jumping on top of tables in the club. So I just know that they're crazy, that they're pretty lit. That you know that little crew you think you were destined to be in the business just because you have family members that are also pretty

entrenched in this. Um Like Jethoven, I felt like I was destined to be in it because I felt to them my soul, not because um of the relationships I've had, Like I've always felt like that since I was fourteen, because sometimes your family can also dictate somewhat like the route that you take if you have family members that are doing certain things and you have certain like access and they understand it more um yes and no, but

I have I have pride. So I always felt like I wanted to work on my own and get to warning it to be before I worked with one of them, Like for example, like I've been no one day since I was like five, Like he like I could have got beats like a long time ago, but it's just kind of like it just didn't make any sense to me. Was he like, why are you handing me up earlier? Maybe? Like so my family name is Deed. They like, do you know I got I got you on them beats,

Like just let me know. But it's just like I didn't. I didn't feel like I deserved to have this A Tobin stamp yet. So but now you know, I'm kind of popping. We've worked together, like you know it makes sense now. So I always wanted to work up on my own and then connect. How did you know that this was something that could be a career for you? Like, at what point where you like this about to really happen? I want to say last the fourth quarter of last year,

when I was working a lot with my manager. He made it more realistic for me because like, I was in limbo for a really long time. I was like depressed. I was like, I don't want to be in corporate America. I had like three job offers and I turned them all down. Hospital girl. I was trying to get that check. You know they pay good and um, it just didn't feel right every time I got the job offer, It's just like, this is not what you want to do. So I risked it and thank god I found you know,

my management. I'm now signed, So you feel me all that prayer work? How did you find your manager? How did he find you? So? I was a brand ambassador for the fancy Puma slides and I had went to an event and UM met up with him there and he was like oh, that's meet. And I'm thinking like, oh, here goes another person saying it's meet because you know, being a girl in the industry, everybody can help. Can't help me and help, you know. But he was really no,

but he was. He was he was serious. And I looked him up and you know, his resume he had worked with like b tu K worked with Beyonce for a significant amount of time. So I was like, okay, maybe this is like finally something that's sprol and it was like he was super respectful. His work ethic is crazy, My work ethic is crazy. So we just worked really well together. And from when y'all had that initial meeting, how long did it take for things to start happening?

Sometimes we get discouraged, like like you said, we have meetings all the time and nothing materializes. How long did it take till it was like, oh, okay, this is so I met him, um last last April. That I want to say took a couple of months. That's quick, but I know that things I wasn't discouraged though, so like things started kicking off before I could even get discouraged. So um, you know, I was recording a lot and I always say like hard work like doesn't go unnoticed.

And I was always constantly posting online, interacting with my fans, making sure that everything was you know, snowballing, and it just popped off, especially with Icy Girl. That's what I always say, Consistency is really important because sometimes I get starts up like a small following, and then you keep on making sure you keep on going, keep on posting. The fan based grows and grows and they get used to you posting thing, and then you know when it's

time is time? No, Because every time I would post like a rap video, I'd get like five or ten thousand followers in a day, and it's just like okay, like I'm getting like my people are following me because of my talent, not because I'm cute, because I post pictures all the time and like there's no you feel me, no interaction. But once I post a video of me rapping, like it just goes up. But being cute doesn't. Because some of these girls look a little crazy. It definitely is,

you know, in addition to the package. But I was getting recognized for your talent, and you know, everybody pretty now I felt on the ground. Everybody everybody. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, this just makes me. I was at this event over the weekend and really a fashion show, and there was a girl who I have a great time. There was a girl who I noticed. There was a girl who I noticed at this show, and me and the person

I was with like paid attention to her. Neither one of us mentioned the girl, but we both like I saw her. So then the next day I'm on Instagram and I see a picture of her, and without even showing my friend that was with me, I looked at the picture. I'm like, wait, I saw this girl and she did not look like this. She looked a whole hot, ask mess, and she was like the girl And then I showed that the picture and she was like, yo,

she ain't. Like like Instagram can be very deceiving because that girl look nice and clean and in person, jeans was ashy and baggy, and her she just looked like disheveled and like a greasy mass. But her picture was nice. I always feel like girls like that don't got no friends. She was herself, so I don't know know, but like you know, like when I saw her, she was like your circle like and like jans grow on eyebrows. I'm not even that. Like, you know, people was noticing you

don't look like that. Did you imagine saying that to one of your friends? She said, you know how like your jeans like she tried to go for the boyfriend jeans look instead of them being boyfriends. They were just too big. So like the butt part was and it was like ashy, the no friend jean. They was like ash and like they wasn't like fitting her right, and she just looked, that's the no boyfriends. You just look

at boy friends all right. Now here's another question. If a guy is struggling at a certain point in his life, do you feel like he should avoid going on dates, Like, let's just say right now, he don't have it together. You don't have you know, his car is not he don't have a got he not really kind of like that. He can't take you. You know, you're high maintenance. He can't take you no place that great, but he really does want to take you out and not miss it

on this opportunity. So do you feel like when a man is struggling he should just prioritize, sit back and not even bother or is it cool for him to try to figure things that he could do without letting your creat he's on a really low budget. This reminded me of Half Bag when he took the girl on the own. I'm not gonna lie. If your car and all that should have sucked up and you're struggling, you need to focus on that, like you shouldn't be And

I'm not trying to say you can't get in a relationship. Whatever. If it happens, that happens. But I don't feel like you should be trying to go out your way to go on date and stuff like that. I feel like you should be taking that money that you're going and put towards the date and put the towards your car. But what if you meet sweetie and she's flirting with you, and you're flaring with her, and you like, I really want to take her out and broke broke dar doesn't

go off. A long time ago, there was this one guy that I liked, and he told me much later the reason that at that time he didn't really want to go out was because he was sucked up, like his money wasn't right, and he looked at you and see that he can't afford your type of and he black cha champagne, but she drinking a whole lot of other drink. So if it got to add out of the balance, and you get what I'm saying, like and drink is food and he can't buy you nothing that's

not luxury, So ain't no gifts propping off. But you could miss out on like for him, he could miss out on a great opportunity because do you really want to date a woman that's really only interested in you if you have money? Like that, it's not just being interested if you have money, but it's if I can maintain myself at a certain lifestyle, then I expect whoever it's trying to court me to be able to upstand that same life. He could be honest and be like, like,

I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm a little fucked up right now. Okay, So hold that nigga through to it that I would respect it. But that's not somebody I want to talk to you respect you because two things could happen. One, his ego is gonna get you feel me like like bruise. He's gonna start feeling away.

He might you pay for everything, so he's not gonna feel manly, not that you have to pay for everything, but we gotta go to the you can go to like Applebee's in a movie, Applebee's they got that chicken chicken. I rather like I I'm not going to Applebe's. I don't go to Applebee's on my home so I'm not about to go. And nobody to figure it out. There's plenty of restaurants out there that you ain't got to

go to Applebee's. About Ruby Tuesday, No, nigger, No, what about listen, if he pull it off on a Sunday, yes, then that's my man right there, like Chick fil A on the Sunday, he did something special. But if it's on like a Monday, nah, no No. But I mean if you're attracted to him, he better cook at least, like oh yeah, like what friends? What's a creative date that? What's the most creative that you've been on? Oh m

hmm what it wasn't creative? But for Valentine's Day, like I had the all like the roses around the room, like hello roses and Hella candles and just Hella gifts on the bed that'sn't expensive And Marvin Gaye was playing whereform was cute. It was cute's favorite. I just said his sex playlist would include a lot of I can't believe my ears when you just said that. All right, well, sweetie, okay. John Legend talked about his sex playlist and he said,

Marvin Gaye, what's not your sex playlist? I don't want I don't want to put Pandora on because I don't want to got commergency girl should gonna be like join thirty minutes free for the next commercial free now. I only say that because there was this article and it was like, you shouldn't create a playlist because when you do that, you know, like what songs coming on? You know,

how long? How long? I don't know it was. They made some really good points when it's just like you know, they said you should put on a what do you call it? The instrumentals? I just keep running music. Not an instrumental. It's not a free stay always playing, like you know, like the what is it here? Song? Right? What's that one? Don't have no? The quiet story, don't have no. It's like a minute you got to get

you the lyrics? You know, that's something I'm talking about. No, what's the but if you're sucking it out for hours that I would think somebody coming up the closet like important playlist. Now, I do agree that you can't have like the same playlist going like but you gotta shuffle. You gotta like have like eighty songs. You gotta think about the last nigga you fun to that song. The last time I heard this, my leg was over here, right,

that's think alized this song and this Maska. Don't put songs like passing on my face it right when this part came on. What do you think is a good amount of time to have sex? Um, It depends where we are, Like were in the hotel, yeah, and that we so we are we drunk. If we're in the bucket in the middle of daytime, we might sucking drunk. I feel drunk because people are come more comfortable the inhibitions out the window. Yeah, I felt like I said this earlier, and I don't know if this is just me.

Do you feel like you might do some ship when you're drunk. You want you feeling like the likes when he brings it up and then you're like, I don't know what Then I did good? I was drunk. I don't know now, but you gotta like yours with it, like yeah, you know I did that just like yeah, like what, I don't know, but I'm not gonna front Like one time, No, it wasn't it crazy? But the dude said to me, like, yo, the ship you was saying last night was so crazy, like your ship you

probably know better than me. Like I was not there. He was listening. I was drunk. I wasn't listening. I was there listen. I wasn't there either, I was so drunk, like not like I remember having like I remember what I was doing, just what you're saying. What could you have said, nigga? I don't know, but he liked it, And now I feel like what I said, you don't know that you know, like I don't even think. He probably was like this is the best thing I ever

had in my life. Who knows. You probably called him poppy and you don't even speak saying it was speaking all cold of Spanish creole up the small fucker, Like I don't know, I don't know when I tell you, I don't have a clue. I felt so bad though, Alright, so you said drunk is better or a little tipsy, So what's a good amount of time when you're tipsy? What's like too long? Let's long for you? I think anything above like thirty five minutes is too long. Sorry

it's a workout. Sorry not sorry, that's so cycle. Anything longer than is so psychle classes too long. But it also depends on my this everything. It's like, it's like four four ar old four play both oral and penetration, because that's gonna give me more to thirty five minutes if it's if it's creative. First of all, I'm gonna comes until dot com. That might be now, that might be five to ten minutes, and then I'm gonna fifteen depending on how his tongue games. Right, do you hold

back coming? Because I feel like guys hold back, But I feel like sometimes I feel like women would be wanting to come, but guys hold back because we could come and keep going. Yeah, that's all. That's why I don't hold back. I don't know about you. Like, if I'm about to come, I'm gonna come because I'm not. I don't hold back from an internal orgasm because I don't catch those as often, so when I catch that coming up, I don't know that Like difference. Um, the

dick gonna internal. I always come internally as far as I'm concerned, so I don't know the different. I feel like I gotta learn my body some different stuff because clintoral stimulation is from head or from like when you're on top and you're just like going in um. But when you're playing with your own. Internal penetration is when he's hitting that spot inside that makes you orgasm. So if I get an internal or if I feel an internal orgasm coming, I'm not gonna hold back from them,

because I don't get those that appen. But if I might hold back from an external, like if he eats my pussy and I feel like I'm other come, if it feels that good, I might make him do it a little bit longer, you know, So I'll hold back on that. But see, i'd be scared sometimes the nervous that like it's not gonna happen if I keep waiting.

I just made sure it might happen. It might not have been a thought on mine too, Yeah, because sometimes like you do something a little bit the wrong, But I'm not gonna when I tell you that's the worst fucking thing, especially when you be like keep doing what you're doing, and then always switch. That's what I gotta say that. Let ever say that, don't ever tell them to keep it because you're coming. And I said, they're gonna. But internally you could come over and over and over.

I have no idea you can. Internally you can, but from like if I come from like outside my vagina, don't touch me. Basically, didn't know what you're talking about. We know when we come come. Okay, So when you remember your first orgasm? Um, no, do you orgasm like usually when you have sex? And no, I'm not. I needed to become because you're talking about some different stuff. I don't have you ever had an orgasm? Here? Okay? Some percentagewiyes? How often does that happen? Actually I do remember?

But yeah, yeah, she was like it was great. Did you know what was happening when you're nervous? Did you try to I wasn't nervous because I was high and that that'll do it. And like the person like I was I was with was very like helpful, you know what he was doing? Okay he shout out to him because a lot of them was older though a lot of them know what they're doing and I felt like after that that it was hard for you to let him go. You know, it was I don't know, it was.

It was weird because we were like friends, what we were like flirting, fucking and he said, IM gonna make you come, and it was just it just kind of just happened. But it was was that like the only time where it was it was it was it was memorable, like one of the most imorable. If he hits you, now, would you be down? No? But you ever been like dickmatized that the dick was so good? You was like, Okay, I really see so like I've seen my homegirls go through that and I'm just like, um, you don't get

it up, lucky you. That might be on the full length album about being dickmitat. That might be next Yeah, next album, I mean next situation. Whatever you put out, Be careful, be careful. That might be the next back. Right. Do you ever stay with somebody just because the sex was so good in the relationship? Yeah? No, and put up with certain ship just because he made me come. Every time that I haven't stayed with somebody just because of the sex. Putting up is different than staying with somebody.

I was having sex with somebody just for the sex, if that counts. I think that counts. Like it wasn't the relationship, but it was like a sex thing and I didn't want anything else from him. But it's hard for me that just that I don't have like feelings for it like that if the dig is good enough and the feelings about the one though you're worried because I've never really had great sex with somebody I didn't

care about too much. Let me not care about but just like not like it's not a relationship, so I don't care about it. I cared about the person, but I guess I didn't want to be with that person.

So we just was having said I always have like many relationships, like even if it don't last like super long, I'll fun with somebody for like six months like heavy you know how, Yeah, I do, no, But I just I just wonder, like when do you feel like, all right, this is like because I don't feel like every single person that I've had sex with I felt like I'm super close with them. Now we're gonna have sex. It might have been like I'm not gonna lie sunk with you.

You look good I funk with you, I'm drunk, let's fuck. It might have been like that before, and I might have had longer relationships with them than people that I thought I was so called close with. You know what I'm talking about that I don't go to people's houses and I don't be letting people in my house like that. So maybe that's why because I'm like mad cautious, like you know, I don't go to nobody's house. I don't know.

I'm like paranoid about shit because if you don't know somebody like that, you don't know if it's gonna bust in the house. You don't know if he messed with somebody. The baby mama got the key. I don't want to be calling no situation with somebody. I don't really like that. And then as far as in my house, I don't really let people in my house, like unless I kind of know you, and I'm like, unless I'm having a cookout and two hundred people are there, Oh my god,

that didn't happen. Angela is the most like I feel like I'd be like, don't come to my house ever, anybody, and like I'm having a cookout. Everyone once cookout and having come. One time we spend the night at Andrew's house after her birthday. It was like twenty but as everybody I knew, yeah, it was yeah, yeah, but you're like more like with me, I'd be like, you're doing my hair or makeup, come to my house. But I have a lot of diger. I probably have a lot

more friends like that. I don't trust people because I have friends I don't know since I was in third grade. Still, yeah, they can't come to my house. WHOA how do you feel about up come to your house? People coming to my how So? How long does it take for you when you're dating somebody to allow them to come and know where you live? Honestly, Like, it just depends on like the vibe I get from you. If I feel comfortable,

you can come in to my crib. But if I feel like you just be like on some different ships, then I'm not trying to have you up in my like my space. And then another thing, I don't like it. So sometimes when people come over, they don't know whant to leave. That's the fact. That's when you gotta act like you have somewhere to go and put on your

whole outfit. You gotta text of friend and be like call me right now, and I'm act like it's my manager, my funds will be like I'll be when you get back and be like, what you can't leave nobody in your house. Listen, I have a dog, so like when I go to walk my dog, I'd be like, you're coming to motherfucker's we all the dog because you gotta be you don't never know people. It's real grind me.

And even if you think like not everybody, okay, you got your second friends, but some people it's really especially you have fame whatever whatever. Oh yeah, I'm hearing, Nah, don't do all of that. We're walking the dog together. We're going to get the delivery together. Like whatever we got to do were unit together. Don't be up in

my crib. Black people. Great me. If he was stating a guy and he wanted to take a selfie with you on the first day, I wouldn't even want to want to date him after that, I mean, because maybe he wants to record that, because but if you gonna end up together years, that's weird. I mean, how did he do it? Like, oh, let's say, come on, let's take a picture. I'm having the best time. I wanted to document this best time. I'm heving having to chocolate

cake and Applebee's pure. But you know what's fucked up about that? That would be a sweet thing that if eventually yeah married, but because this, Yeah, that's like I feel like technology has made people corny. Next thing, you know you Instagram Live on the Date, a new couple alert, horrific couples. He'd be like me and said, go ahead saying that verse girl, he swapping faces on the appen not filter. What about men who gets surgery? Because we've

been searing that a lot. He had light Yeah, like what this guy had light bo too loving hip hop Hollywood one. Yeah, let's just say you were dating the guy and you seem like the little light bo um a little star. That would turn me off. I'm sorry. But if it looks good though, like he had a good doctor curs that my doctor doctor for a lot of the doctor curbs did. He said it before he became famous. I need to get him done. But let's just say he looks good like You're like, all right,

you know you've only seen the after effect. You didn't know what he looked like. I mean, if if I mean if everything made sense and it wasn't that big.

I don't know, girl, you're dating this guy and you really like him, Yeah, go on a three days he coolest, hell, y'all kicking it, yall, bob, and then you finally have sex with him and you see like these two little scars right here and right here right so why you have know what if he's honest and be like, oh, like a year ago I was, I had ganged a little week, so I had a little life up, but his body banging. Now would you be like right hard, go down? And I had a Brazilian but lit bro

just a life up, but his body is banging. He got abs he got and what if he used to have titties but he got them done to y'all looking for a life post scars, that's my thing. He got naked and you actually having titty keep Are you gonna look at it and be like that looks like light bulb? I'm not you had I know what the scar looks like. I'm not looking at every line when you get this tattoo. Where I come from, you you had seven teens. You said you got stabbed, and I think I think that

it would be a little bit odd. I never needed somebody who's had life O the man. I don't know because I had I've had plastic surgery, I had LA did a guy with LIFO, not that I know of, but ship like bo, That's what I'm saying, Like I would be like hypocritical, right like that you had all this worth on your own body, but I can't hand any none on mine. I don't know, like you're saying,

it's okay taste about case scenario. I guess I don't know about the moves though, Like if you had man moves and you've got him taken off, then I don't

know about that. But if you had a little little sucking cup, you know, a little suck it out, you know, as long as your roll and you look good, now many easy, keep it all the way, but no more than life, like I can't no more like no more than that, Like if you got your nose done, or you got a facelif for like something crazy and if you got like muscle implants like no, they I'll be watching Botch Girl. They'd be making themselves look like Kendalls,

like they'd be putting like yeah yeah. But I just felt like man, if you're doing all that to yourself, then you know you got muscle, calves and ship that's not real, Like no, but if you got a little like that, you can't stop that one. You can't say what they can do, you know what I mean. That's how I felt like, man got it easy. If there was a female rapper that looked like Biggie Smalls, nobody would have been buying her album, and that's just a fact.

So I feel like men could walk around with a big stomach, they could look a little not that cute and everything is fine. So for them to get light po and all that, I felt like it's crazy women though, on the other hand, let a woman gain ten pounds, that bitch is fat. Uh. I feel like with women

it's a little bit more pressure. So I feel like if there have been women who have been very successful that haven't fit the ideal body as well, as I wouldn't agree that what happened, I don't want to tell you. I'm sorry, yeah, but they're not on the level of like Beyonce. You give what I'm trying to the biggest one of the biggest artist period, jay Z is not

the best looking. I love Jay to death, but he not the best normally, it's like the better looking women that they put on the pedestal to me, this is this is my opinion. I feel like women are judged way more based on looks than men are. So I felt like when the man is getting as the because that's something I feel like. In the music business is a lot more men that have been successful, so there's

a bigger range too. But but most of them ain't the best look at so and I don't want to see I would name some people, but I don't want to just know women, so I'm not trying to anyway anybody named either. I was just saying, like, body people don't have body image of a Beyonce or Rihanna, and they still were successful. That's all I'm saying. I mean, not as successful. I've ever seen that guy who was asking, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. No, But there was this dude

I went to school within. His booty was so big, he had his booty was so big, he had hips. Yeah, what's he got? I don't think so. But if not, you know, I think I work out on he'd be mad, like why can't I have it? That's from like that maybe wasting stuff on man eyelashes, eyebrows, but when when when the right I would like, like, are you so bad though? Why he got that? And I can't have them lashes? God has paid for that. But if your man had lash extensions, do you know what y'all saying?

It's okay for life bow and all this other ship I just said. But I can't be hypocritically. I mean, it's actually like you need to get some like bo hard to lose, it's hard to lizaweit, so it's hard to be a woman. If I was Kim, I couldn't be mad at Kanye for getting LiPo. She full plastic. She can't say nothing about nobody getting No. That's I'm

that's my comparison. I'm plastic. So if a nigga want to go get something lippo, I can't be like, you know, I mean, I'm not full plastic, but I've had some work done, so I can't be like, oh, well you can't if I had a dick extensions that I mean, that's really benefit. Yeah, some extent too long, but I think you can add like of the penis is inside of the body, so they can like pull like of that out and then yeah no that wasn't no boch. But it's the real thing you do that was unbitched.

That just made my inside. Yeah, the penis never comes out of. I wonder how that recovery process. You gotta keep it to yourself regardless, Like I don't want to hear about all you little bit guys out there. Don't be so discouraged because most of it is we Safari picture extension. Do you think, sweetie, that you could date a guy who had a son or a daughter around your age? That's crazy, y'all could be friends. What I was like, let's just say they had a center. Okay,

maybe like maybe just nineteen years old? Is that? Um thirty five? Nineteen? Yeah, I'm just not gonna work. Yeah, never work. I can't do that. Friend, I see that that's me and my daughter. Oh well that does work. You think you could? I don't know. That's never happened to me. Yeah, I've never really talked to anybody over like she's a baby. Now that's good. I think you now, I think you should. I think staying the age range

is the best thing, as you could grow with the person. Now, I'd rather day older, you stay away from Mark Kelly? What I was thinking, do you I think like thirties my limit? Yeah, that's a good limit. No, like thirty, like thirty two, maybe thirty five. You know if they could almost you know around that because like a thirty five year old could have a nineteen year old would that be weird? No, kids don't bother me. But that's

not a kid, that's a girl. That's me or if you probably like she's just it's if it's a daughter. Like the high school together. M wait now because like nineteen four now, but with the high goo together for what years apart? Y'all could have went to high school to go high school his five years who's saying exact dates to the day. He could have went to high school together when he was coming exactly and you could have been a freshman. He could have been a soft senior,

you know, different. And if that's not the case, and that I might considerate. Have you ever dated somebody that's like totally outside of your type? Because I was looking at with Serena. Serena had posted something about, you know, her husband and he's a white guy. She never thought she would even data white guy, right, and he's a businessman, she's an athlete, and their opposites and she was talking

about how opposite attract. So what about you. You think you could date somebody that's like kind of opposite from you. It depends on what kind of opposite. What kind of guys do you like? I like, I like, I told you, I like, you know, bosst dude, firm, But that could mean anything. I mean specifically like looks why eyes, dude looks madder. I feel like they do what they don't because I mean, like Justin wasn't my type, but I still dated him. He's an attractive guy. No he's No,

he's attractive, but I never thought I would. So what looks like? What is your type? Then? In that case, um, I like, you know dark skinned boys, tall, dark skinned boys, like that's that's what catches my eye. And neither one of your has boyfriends looked like that. Now Keith is he's tall and he's like moca moca. Yeah, I don't know about that darkness. How would you be if a

white guy? What do you think? That was weird? Not only because my family isself mixed up like Mexican, white, Asian, Like, it's just all the grandkids is mixed up, so it ain't nothing. No, he just gonna blending with the rest of everybody else. We all everything. Does he have to season the chicken? I'm just bet No. You don't let white people season chicken. Does he have toea? I thought you're saying, did he have to? Like? Is that a deal break if he can't see what you season your

chicken with? Look seen that video video when he was washing the chicken with the soap. Oh my god, accent? All that damns fired? Though, that's a good what in the accent? So let's talk about female friends? Okay, do you have a lot of female friends? I'm not brilliant. Why is that? I'm just very like private and I don't I don't make friends like that something. I like that that too, but like I have a lot of like cousins too. So you have a family, So your

family's family, tell a bit. Have you had bad experiences? But like other women and stuff? Yeah? What is it? Mainly over like none like hella big. But one of my best friends became my best friend because my best friends were trying to jump me. What yeah over what? They were just jealous. It was young though, it was like high school, like they had just like felt to wait, like you know, I was kind of like getting popular and they didn't like that, and they like it was

it was weird, like it was a switch. And then they started leaving me like voicemails and I knew it was their voice. And then it was just a whole bit does that. It was just a whole like weird high school girls. And then like one of our mutual friends, like I was just vincive to her. She was like, well, if they jump you, I'm hopping in. And then ever since then we've been like, that's my best friend. Do any other people that you used to be like not cool with or cool it kind of did they hit

you up now? Seeing everything that's happening, Hey, yeah, I need to change my numbers all the time. It's my same numbers since forever. Oh yeah, you gotta you need to switch that up because everybody need listening. I'm like, oh numbers saying huh, I mean not that it's gonna matter if you don't respond today when your phone go off all the times you're busy, that should is even taking in and draine your meadery, especially when you answer the phone and it's just like, I'm nice, so if

you call me, I pick up. I'm thinking it's like I don't know someone who I need to talk to and they want to stay on the phone with you for a long time. I don't want to be rude, so I'll have that conversation with them. But it's just like for what I like, why I answer this ship? That would be me every time I answered somebody that I don't want, I don't answer no call numbers, I

don't know. You gotta text me somebody I don't remember how to check me some kind of I'll end up be about to cry, like who gave my number to you? But I'll be trying to be nice but I should is annoying. You gotta give rid of that number. Well, so we didn't hear that. EPHI maintances out now maintenance. So what's next for you? Um, We're doing spots dates and I'm working on my album. I'm not sure you're familiar with Starr Yate, but like they've done a lot

of you know, historical hits. Um. I'm doing my first single with them, which will be coming out in June called Day and Night, and UM working with a Tobin still. So I'm I'm an open sponge, like I don't want to box myself and when I create because I never know where the music gonna take me. So I'm just working a lot. But the female artists reached out to you yet, Um, yeah, so I recently collaborate Kalani Oh. I saw that with the Yeah she hopped on the Icy Girl Bay mix and that was my first like

female collaboration. Did you know each other before the deal? We had mutual friends, so like we knew of each other, but the fact that she wanted to hop on my song was just like everything to me, Like I loved it, and she's from the Bay, you know, she's hellopopping. I'm like my manager was like, she's gonna hop on the remix. I'm like, okay, like when it happens, it happens, let's see and then no, But she flipped it around so quickly I almost dropped my phone. I was like, yeah.

I was like, all right, so that's the first woman that's reached out to you. So fine, if you could go on your dream tour, who would it be with Marihanna? Okay, I'm not mad at that. I would love you gotta speak it into existing. I would love to open up for her because her fans are wild, like and like, I've watched videos of her performances and she's just having a good time, and that's like, that's what that's about, all right. What we're looking forward to hearing more from you,

y'all wild up in here. Yeah yeah, yeah, And I have fun with y'all. Funny. I like kicking in with y'all. All right, Well, we can't wait to have you back. When you got the next single, when you got the album, you got everything happening, and we appreciate you coming up here and taking time early on to sit with us. Thank you for having me. And also after she has internal and external or when you figured out out my number, I'm hit the group check. Yeah, that's from the internal.

Hit us the new number. We want the new number. And you let us know the guy with the fucking light bulb in the Brazilian butt lift give me an eternal I guess the light bulb card. Alright, well, thank you so much. We appreciate you, sweet eat here. That's servously