Episode 135: Tom Dick and Hairy (Feat. Jojo Zarur)

on you? Because I'm sure that happens the time. Jesus one percent No, he's gay. Well, um, so the tip of the day today is how do you turn a situation where you want somebody as a client but they're hitting on you into a working relationship so you can still work with them and get your money, but not make it awkward. It's impossible. I'm not gonna one time

my whole life. I dealt with one of my clients and it just didn't work out because he was actually like my number one client and me and him ended up falling out and I could never work with him again. And after that day, I was like, never again. What was that fallout? Because of you know, I've seen you in the club with another girl. I went crazy. He got mad at me. You know, typical ship when you're talking to somebody. So after that, you know, I realized I sucked up my money and I was like, okay.

I was young. This was like my first year into styling, so I was like, okay, Like, I will never mix up and I never have ever since that day. That's her because I'm sure, I know you worked with a latted haapping people, and I'm sure there's attraction. Sometimes it is, But also see as a stylist, you see a lot of behind the scenes, so I see everybody's business. I see how all these men moved, and it makes me

really not want to talk to them. You know. Sometimes they'll bring their wife, then they'll bring the girlfriend, and then they'll bring the girls the city. Like I've seen so many girls with these guys that I don't even like. It turns me on, do they have you this style the side bitches? Do they like style my side? Bit No? They'll be like, yo, let me get these shoes, you know, Yeah, separate orders, like literally, like if it's like, oh, this

is for the wife, yeah, of course. You know. Sometimes I'm bringing and be like, yo, my wife, and then they'll bring and be like yo, this is my other wife. Yeah and my other wife. Yeah. Okay, So I'm sure if this doesn't just happened to Joe Joe. So, ladies in the room, how do you turn the situation where a guy that you might want to work with is trying to hit on you but you still want to work with him. How do you make it just normal? Or can't you? I like that, you know, y'all know me.

I'll joke a lot, Like I joke a lot, So if you say something this ship actually just happened to me the other day, and the motherfucker is probably gonna be looking at it. I don't even care. And you know what I'm talking. But he asked him that he asked me about something to help him with a R this right, So I was like, ship is dope, but I don't know. I'm not in that laying of music. It wasn't hip hop right, so or R and B

and it was like dum kind of thing. So I'm I'm not really in the dam I don't know d J Marshmallow, like I know who they are, but no, so I'm like, well, just give me a second, let me brainstorm. But I know I need to like have a good relationship with him, and he's cool, like a good relationship with him for to to work, and um, I was like, let me brainstorm and some ideas. Let me see who I know, and I'll hit you back and give you some ideas. He's like, how about we

brainstorm together on vacation. But my nigga, I didn't even my nigga, I even know like from yeah, low key like what He's like, hat about to give me some brains about you bring on vacation And in that situation, I'm not gonna lie like we're not. I don't know him like that, so I just let it. But like my response eventually in a few days is gonna be

like the can get the funk out of here? But like, oh well, like I always got to make it like a joke or something like that, but like some people get mad, you know what I mean, work with you? And then why would I want to work with you? Why why don't want to work with you? You're not sucking me and you're like, just work, but then that makes me not want to work with them. So what

about you, g you ever been in that situation? I just feel like, you know, honesty, just keeping it one hundred and just being real and it's transparent as possible is the best way to deal with that type of situation. Like if I'm not trying to if I'm trying to work with you and not trying to funk with you, then I'm gonna just let you know that's what it

is like. If you like him, I mean, I know better than the mixed business with pleasure these days after some experiences, experiences that I've had in the past, so I would just have to separate that. I feel like we've all might have tried. Well, I know, I have to make the business and the ship always it never works, the ship show, it never works. It's like the worst fucking,

fucking disaster. And but you know what, sometimes it is hard because we're around the people that we work with, so sometimes you know, you spend so much time with them that it might end up being a situation because you're like like Joe, Joe has a guy ever said I don't want to work with you because I was really trying to hill at you, or maybe just kind of eased off like I was thinking about using you. But then it was like m M, now I'm good. Yeah, I feel like you know, for it's just men, you

know what I'm saying. Of course, if I was working with you, probably shopping me a lot more, let's be real, or they might not like, just look at you sucking them. Don't think that means that the dude is gonna be like, oh I I'm sucking her now it's me or her. Sometimes they let that like you aren't got to pay you for because I don't take dick as a payment. I can't deposit dick at Wells Fargo or TV or

Baking America. Somebody to be mad if you were dating a guy and it was a work situation and then he still was charging you for stuff, like yo, the other way around. Y'all know, I'm like a huge pothhead, right, So that's like if I was working the weed guy and he's charging the weed like no one of good. So okay, so that's an interesting reversal. I'm not you, But what if he's like, look, pussy can't be deposited

a TV bear. Nah, life is a number exactly. I'm not sucking you for and paying you one or the other. Then if I talk a I'm about my weed from somebody else, then I'm not talking giving you money. Either you'll give me week for free, or I'm gonna go get some from somebody else. But I'm not about to be telling you because you know why, because you probably buy weed and then you'll smoke it together. So now you're coming up money, and were you all the way

chopping screwed? We ain't even doing that. What do you think, Joe? If you were dating a guy and I ain't gonna lie, I would feel some type of way. So why It's like it's like if he owns a restaurant and I'm fucking you and I come to a restaurant and you make me pay. Okay, So let's say yes, styling him and he owns a restaurant and you're going to his restaurant and you're still charging him, but you don't want him to charge you for the restaurant. What's the relationship

between me and him? If I'm just one of my boyfriend, she's not got charged like your real man. But there's only been one person that I never charged, and it was my ex boyfriend. He could come in the story take what he wanted, you know what I mean, and it would it would be the same. You know, like you have a boyfriend now, right, it might be a good idea of guys, you could come in the story

and take anything why he now? Though, First of all, after I've seen the Tally Perry movie Acrimony, I was like, listen, when I saw that, I was like, yeah, niggazine ship, Like he needed a movie to know that. I mean, I knew it. And then you know, my parents, just my presures going into the Wars, right, and just seeing the way how my dad acted with my mom, I was like, honestly, like I could not give a guy thirty years and the guy just gonna turn around and

funk with a younger bitch, right, terrifying. Let me ask you this, So, after thirty years of marriage, right, and he's not trying to give her no money, how much do you think she deserves half or more than it? Definitely at least half for sure. I Mean it just depends on the relationship. But my parents they were together since they were like eighteen when my dad was broke. Okay, so my my dad had been through everything, up, down, everything,

and my mom has always held him down. It just depends the type of wife that you was, you know, three kids, like so it's like, why wouldn't you want to give her that? So that's interesting because now it's changed your view on men because of your dad. Yeah, of course that that situation when kids go through divorcing. My mom always told me when you date a guy, you always look at their background, like how their family is, like are their families married? And I never understood that.

I was like, yeah, whatever, I did it every type of guy. But now that I went through that, I realized, like, like divorce, fox up kids, right, Yeah, especially a the divorce like the one that my family was going through where they you know, try to take us to core and all that type of stuff. Yeah, that affects a lot of stuff. So now, what's your relationship with your dad? I mean, after he saw that last episode of Living

Hip Hop, he just cut me off. Damn. Sometimes I'll be feeling like like maybe I don't know things that are jagged out because I know things happened with me on the show that I'm like this ain't what it is. So I think maybe when I was looking at it, I was like, maybe this happened then, and then they probably salvage this and then they're good. You know what I mean? Everything is straight. I feel like it's some fake.

Some stuff is fake, and some stuff is real. But for the most part, I can tell when the story like a story, can you tell? They all look a little fake to me, you know what I think I heard. We think everything is faked. We assume like, oh, this fake. And then because a lot of people think that, and I hate that because I'm like, damn, a lot of my ship was fake. Like even I wasn't even in with this book at first, like the Girl book that

I wasn't even in the book. When I was holding the book at the video, they had a phone in it and they was making me read an email off the phone. It wasn't I wasn't even in there. It actually got added after my Home Girls ran down. Uh, she added that chapter in the book, and that's what happened. But what I was saying is like it was fake, Like I knew that that was fake at the time. People still think me and Lurrya we did I did

that was fake. Look so I was supposedly her manager, and then it looked real because I started crying, carring. I was going through so much of the show I hated doing. I'm not gonna lie that gave me. It was like we was in there. I was like why. She was like why did she get I just didn't want to. I was like, I don't want to do this show. I was like, give this girl an oscar. No, but really I spoke the in for everything and they gave me an option and they was like you could

either do this or you could either do that. But they gave me three options and she was one of them. And this is my friend for real. So I called the like, y'all, I don't want this out there, so can we just do it? She's like yeah, like absolutely, So that's how That's why I look at it. And I'm not saying, yes, stuff fake, that's your family, like whatever, I know you, So it's different. But some stuff is

fucking fake. Yeah, you know what you can tell certain things are too real, like everything with Waka when you know, like honestly the other died, Like that's not fake, and that's definitely not is really in jail, like that's not your parents really went through. And then obviously your stuff is real because we can see that, you know, we can search it and see online. But it really is because people also fake, like how much money they have and how you know. And that's one thing I hated

about the show. Honestly, I don't like how they portrayed me right, like you know what I'm saying, Like I'm keeping it real because now for me, think about it. Everywhere everybody everybody's like the millionaire, the millionaire, like this ship sucks. You know what, yourself a millionaire some nice stuff. You don't understand that your liability and you know what I might have to go through if I put my

hands on you. She took me the fanny Pat said, you know, it's crazy about me, Like I'm the chilliest person in the world, like you could never like when when you get to know me, I'm so humble, Like I don't even act like that. But that day Listen took it out of me, like because y'all saw five minutes of an argument. I was in the bitch for three hours arguing with this girl until she just made me she's so ignorant she just made me spats out and I just had to read her her rights, like, listen,

this is what it is. Okay. I like, I don't need to fight you right now for no rating or nothing. I don't give a fuck. So that's what it was. But I mean, I guess it was one of the highlights of the seasons. Yeah, it was. It became a whole brand for me. So I'm like, okay, fuck it. Yeah, but you got t shirts like I'm a broke bitch, which you like, you rather be a right pick one exactly? No,

people like that ship. So I'm like, let me just get some shirts made ill And at first I didn't even think about it, and it became like a trending topic on Twitter. People were asking for the merge. I was like, yo, even beach one that was like, well, should you have a store? I mean I was like, okay, so I put it in crazy it has sold more than anything in my store. It probably don't cost as much as everything else in the store, too, right right, I mean alright, so, um, let's talk about some things

that have been happening in the news now. Safari. Recently we saw that he got rapped. Turns out it was somebody that he knew, that he grew up with since he was fourteen years old, saying, now some people be so mad that, like you go and tell because he's like, I'm not a street dude, I'm cooperating with the police. It is what it is. I don't be trying to get into none of that whatever whatever. And it turns

out it was his friend. Now does anybody think that, well not first of all about why not even as much as about telling or snitching or anything like that, because they got caught. You got caught in that. You didn't even get back over the bridge before you got caught for one dummy for even get caught like that because they were dumb and you if you if you

have a friend, that's what. If you have a friend as well off and you have a business idea and you think your friend can invest in your business idea, why not go to your friend with that? Why not go to your friend like, look, I got this plan, you got the bread, let's do this X y Z, I'll do the work. You put up the money dotted out of the die and create something. Trying to put a gun to somebody and take it like that's so whack. And I'm I'm glad they got caught. I'm glad they

got caught. I'm glad he's cooperating. I'm glad he was able to cut his grass and reveal the snakes. You know, I'm I'm not glad that he had to go through it that way, but at least he didn't get harm. At least he got most of his stuff back. And you know, we got Safari over here. But she kind of got the friends crying when he was. He was crying. Yeah, I felt so bad. No, that's nothing funny, and especially what he said. He says just got killed that same way.

But he just went through that. I don't think he was. He wasn't crying a lot of people were like, oh, he crying about his jewlery. No, it's not about the people crying because he had a gun to He was crying because he was betrayed by his friends. He was crying because it put back the memories of him just

losing his own relation to the same thing. Girl with that silly stuff that the people want, the interwebs want to be bringing up, like I hate that about how you're right, I don't know why everybody it's it's like social media did this to me and made everybody comedians and it made everybody tough, right, so now he's getting robbed. It's funny. And they would have did and they would have did that me and the sky and punched everybody in the face and knocked the gunna shut the funk up.

You would have been on the ground. You get what I'm trying to say, like calling nine one one, Yeah, that's one thing went Safari about, Like he's real that ship is scared of going the interview and crying about something. And you know what I'm saying, because a lot of men will go on there inter and be like, yeah, I just got right, you know what I'm saying. Like now, they wouldn't even say it. They I don't get robbed, yeah,

but you know it's gonna come out. So I also feel the need to get ahead of things sometimes too, because you want to tell your story before someone else tells. And I do feel what nothing, Why are you laughing, Louria, I'm not. It's because I'm not. I'm not laughing, but like, just like it's crazy because people will really lie about getting robbed, Like I'm not saying that that's something you run around telling everybody either, Like I don't think that

is something that you should run around saying. But if people know and you get asked, I don't feel like you should lie about it. Would you have said that in the interview? I mean, if she asked me, I would have been like, she didn't. But it was on his face and it was just had just happened, and he came straight there, I'm sorry, I love that something was going on, and she said it, like, wait, what's going to see? I don't believe you, because if we had lip service that day and you got robbed in

the morning, you would be right here. Listen, my uncle passed away. I was like my dad, right, yeah, lip service, And I made that saying so I was as professional. I understand that because he was being professional he had something. But okay, you right, yeah, so you right? Even with that. Now, have you ever been betrayed by a friend, like somebody or somebody that was formerly a friend that tried to

do something crazy to you? Yeah? Of course, like set you up in some type of Yeah, that's why I don't have like, if you know me, I'm a loner, like I'll probably have my best friend. She's like, uh years old, um, six, So I don't really I'm not mixing. I know a lot of people, but I don't funk with a lot of people. Like nobody knows where I live because I've been set up before. Really yeah, of course, like set up like they stole ship from you for real? Yeah,

out of my house. Yeah. Oh listen girl, I've had a bunch of ship happened to me. That's why I moved away. I moved now. It kind of sucks because you know, when you live and you have a sugaring on, you would think that you'd be out, you know, fucking with everybody. No, no, no, no, I got a lot of it. Like did you have a bunch of people over or was it just somebody you thought she was

really good friends with? Like we'll see before. When I was younger, you know, I have this huge mansion and I would have everybody over, and I would have a lot of ships, like shoes, bags, all because a lot of jewelry. One day I woke up all my ship was gone, all of it. And you don't know, and you knew who did it or you couldn't know. Yeah, I knew who did it. And they get the stuff back, but it ain't about the stuff. I wouldn't because they don't at the end of the day. You know what

I'm saying, Like, I'm Mexican girl. We don't play these games. You know what I'm saying, Like like I could have really got her hurt and they don't even matter. I just wanted her to apologize him, back my ship and let it go. So tell me how this happened, because this is crazy. So you knew it was her? You called her and she like, how did this happen? Hadn't you know? I didn't At first, I didn't know it

was her. They some like people started talking because she started getting I'm trying to squeeze her feet into your shoe. I'm not even gonna say no names, but she's a celebrity's girlfriend right now. So you know how I found out it was her. Like a lot of people were telling me, you know what I'm saying, But I was like, nah, I couldn't believe it. It's hard to believe sometimes even though when you have signs, I'm like, no, she couldn't have done that. I went into I used to style

her boyfriend, and when I went to his condo. One of my persons was in there. No I in there, and I said, at first, I'm like, when the funk? I haven't been here. So he didn't even know. No, he thought it was hurt back. That's when they first I hooked them up. Damn. So that's when they first seen each other. So I said, I get in his apartment and I'm like, hold on, this is crazy. I was thinking. I was like, how the fund did my bag make it over here? And I was like wait,

I asked him. I was like, who's back is this? And he's like that girl you hoot me up with? Damn? I said listen. I was like, oh yeah, what if he would have said it's yours? Then I was like, yo, you know that? And will he say? He was like what? So that's one I got to the bottom of it or whatever. She came back everything, he's still they're together. Now that's a red flag guy. He's so stupid. He didn't give a fuck. That is so crazy. That's like on power. When this girl stole the ear ring, g R,

I you my Holly? So he told so what happened? So he told her or like how did she end up giving the stuff back. Oh no, he made her giving my ship back? Like, wait, was she my thing? Is like, after you gave me my ship, why are you so fucking with her? That means if she did it to me, she's gonna do it to you. It's still till today, every time I see them on social media, I'm like, you asked because he put her on. That's crazy because I'm dying and talking about I can't wait.

I can't wait till the camera start rolling. But when a lot of people are like, why did why did I start working with her? I know another girl. I got a problem with her. That's why I really know. Yeah, but it wasn't she did some funny ship to hunt. I don't know this girl, but I keep him with stories about and that's crazy. And that's what you know. That was my number one That's why I'm known to be the spies. You feel me because I put them

trying to put it together. That was your number one client. Yeah, yeah, but it came to a point where it would be clear who was wearing the purse, right, Like much person the person they break up and get back together. Yeah, they're always on and off. It makes me sad. You honestly have the same person. It makes me really sad because she's not there for the right reasons. You know, he's known her, they grew up together. She never even looked his way, even when he was first coming up.

I was working on him when he was first coming up. You know, he would beg me. He'd be like, yo, please hook me up with her. Like I've been in love with her since I was ten years old. And I would tell her, She'll be like you, I would never soonest he got put up. Look at her. That's like, gosh, yeah, the bitch. I was working with Duck and brother right in. Damn,

that's crazy right now. That was moving right alone. Earlier I want to ask you about this because earlier GG was telling us this story about somebody's baby mom calling her. And I know we've all had situations when a woman calls us, So let's hear your story. Because I cut her off. I was like, let's wait till lip service starts. I want to hear this right So basically, um, you know, I've been talking to this guy and we were on

FaceTime having a conversation one day. It was a couple weeks ago, and um, I get this random phone call and it's from a familiar area code, and I'm like, I don't know this number. I did it the call. So then they called right back. So I'm thinking like, well, maybe somebody I know, so maybe somebody got a new number. Let me answer it. I'll answer and she's like, um, hello, did someone just call a cell phone from this number? First of all, who says that, did someone just call

a cell phone? You're gonna say who is this? Did you just call me? Like I'm returning to miscall, you know, And if you call in like your nigga or your baby daddy or your husband's some bit you think that keep working with. You're not gonna say did somebody just call me? You're gonna you're gonna be like, oh, can I speak to Donna? Like you're gonna ask for a wrong name on purpose just to hear the other voice on the other line, right like voice exactly. So I'm like, nah,

you just called me. So she's like, I had a miscall from this number? And I was like, no, you didn't, and I hung up. So then I had to figure it was either his baby mama or this other nigga's wife, right, So I'm like, well crazy, Okay, go ahead. She's like, I would have never thought I would be like, who is this crazy? Now? I never knew because my phone

don't ring like that. I don't I talked to five ten people, and you know, most of our family men, So y'all you know what I'm saying, Like, I don't have random people calling me from these type area codes from that city, you know, happy to be one of ten. So I'm like, um, so I said that, I called him back, and I'm like, I don't know who that was.

Somebody that was a weird ass phone call, right, So then like two days later, he texted me like I just found out that phone call you got the other day with from my baby mom And I'm like, what exactly? I immediately but this is the part I left out. When I hung up, I immediately blocked the number because I figured it either had to be herd or this other right went in on you on a text message. So I don't know the number that I would call

him another numbers. You don't just give up like that, But what does She started asking you mad questions, but you have answered. I would have heard her motherfucking feelings, bet you would have you call knocking, you're gonna get what Then you asked for straight like that and it's straight like that in my wallow to six second voice. So um anyway, So I feel like she just wanted to know if it was a female. Probably, how do you under his name as like Robert know that that's

not the case because they're not. They don't. They don't deal with each other. He just left her. He moved out of the house that they were living in together and moved into a whole new house. And I helped him move into. I unpacked all his stuff. I don't think. So how she get your number? They're on the same phone plan. She went into the app like me and my daughter was on the same phone plan. I can go into the app right now. I will look up

her whole phone bill. So she called every number she there. Well, I mean we talked. They talked that much done on seven nine one seven nine one seven like this text messages. They on the phone for two hours. You're doing all that sense, she said, So listen. So he says to me, He's like, I want to apologize. I just found out that's my baby mom. They called you the other day that.

So I'm like, what she called me? And he's like, I don't know, she dumb and you know, and I'm like and then he's like, I was say, well, how do you know that she called me? And he was like, she told me, like, oh yeah, I called your Bronx bitch. First of all, I'm not from the Bronx. I got nine one seven areas. I got nine one seven areas never pop up Bronx, it may be, But how dare

they disrespect you? I and she said she said to him like oh or whatever, And then, um, the reason why I know that he's not having sex with her no more besides the fact that you know, we spend a lot of time to week with each other and all of that, and also true and also that that I helped him move and everything is he sent me a screenshot of a conversation that they had and she basically was saying to him like, I'm not bitter or

mad that you left me. It's the way you did it in x y z z Z. So basically that was letting me know like he stopped looking with her to say what he told me that he did, Like it just confirmed. I just hope being texting itself because my ex's use that trick to my This is how we think. My ex like that to me, like, yeah, the text message he just text up. I mean, I hope me ain't going through those links. Why did you find? But why were he even tell to any screenshot though,

I'm like, so, I like I knew. I was like, I see what you did? You by mistake. I could see that I made up some fucking lie and he was like, no, but see it really happened. But the message deleted, So I just did one again so you can see what of that tricker. I don't know. I'm saying he had did it to somebody else. It wasn't. It was like I've done that before everything. At the end of the day, she would have got her feeling hurt and she came at me on some sideway ship.

Because what I don't do is I don't come in between relationship with parents. I'm not his girlfriend, we are not engaged. I'm not his wife. And even if I did become that one day, I know my role as far as it comes with with his family and with me. You understand I'm saying like I would never try to come in between with you and your family unit has or don't have for that matter. But his son, yes, so you have. So it's only one kid. One kid. He'll be three in a couple of weeks. Oh my god,

I hate damn baby. You know, yeah, probably she probably don't because she probably go crazy. This is what I'm saying. She's crazy. You're going through this great extent to go through phone records and all that. Something still going. You can't tell me. I don't know, but he might. I never know. Be medicine those messages himself. What if the messages were like listening, I'm with somebody else now her

name is. She's an incredible girl. You know, they come up with the craziest ship, Like I know if I've done it, Joe, Joe, Man, what made you do this? Now? I lied to my ex one day and he was like, he didn't believe me. So I was like, man, I'll show you, bro, screenshot and I screenshot and I started to him and it solved the problem. He's like, Okay, my bad, Okay, Well think God put you're lying right.

We're gonna put everybody on listen. You know, I feel not gonna believe that ship now, said I do not believe a fucking screenshot. No, not no tex ship. But they got the note because you need to see the number. See the number. Okay, number, send me the number. Yeah, send me the number. See I'm crazy. But question, I

didn't question. And at the end of the day, and it's the beginning still, you know it's not really we're not right, all right, in the beginning of your relationship, how often would you say, percentage wise that you suck his dick but don't have sex with him and just be like here, baby, well, so far, so far with me and him, we've had sex every time his dick was in my mom So okay, okay, those odds are pretty fair. So yeah, those are pretty fair. But y'all

know I like sucking dick. I sucked it for sports so in the competition, so I would. So I would just just because I feel like it and not want to have sex, you know, especially from on my period or something. But um, that makes sense. Yeah, what about you? When one roadway is closed, you got, um, so if it's my my nigga, nigga, like if it's oh, I forgot, we supposed he's not saying much. Man, you just said

it three times. No, but like if it's my man man, like when I was in a long term relationship, like I would want to do stuff like that for him, like and for myself because I like doing it, you know what I mean. But now that I'm kind of like single and like dating and stuff like that at nine, none of that, Like if we're doing something, we're doing something. I'm not just giving your head and then what no, what the fund is that that makes me? That would

make me really feel like a prostitute or something. I don't know, because I just felt like, why what am I here to give you head and then leave like it's like a gift. I know you look at you know that guys eat your pussy and don't have sex. That's different. So he's a prostitute. It's just a double standard episode. Joe, Joe, Lolo and Gi like that Lolo Gigi. Guys can be in a group like Joe to see Gise stop jo g She actually came out with that real quick and it was good, thank you good? What

about you? Jojo? I'm funny when it comes to fucking with somebody. I don't know, I just sucking dig Yeah, I like to be in relationships. See, I'm the type of girl if I don't if you're not my boyfriend, I don't like to suck your dig I don't don't even kiss me in the mouth, damn. Like I'm not affectionate like that affectionate you are. But see, you have to meet my man from I have to be. I'm not comfortable around people. That's my problem, and it's bad.

I'm not comfortable. How long did it take to you let a guy that you're seeing come to your house since you don't really let people come over like that, we're going to house? Yeah, you don't got a house? Whea? What if he's like, well, when I get to come to your plate, you come to my house all the time.

When we get more serious and when I know that I want to with you like that, I'm a little like old school, like I'm just when you're comfortable around people, can he like pick you up or anything from your house? I do not even know where you live. I don't

like people know where I live. I don't because listen to me and him fall out one day, Like you know, I've had it to where my ex is pulling up in my house, like trying to shoot whoever's in there, like all that stuff, like you evaluate the people that's coming out. I am stay away from the sisters, play where he stoves and gang bangers. That's my problem. I love. Do we needed screening? That's why she's still yelling and I knew it. That's why I'm out of it. Yeah,

Like now I'm trying to grow out of it. I'm like, okay, it's time to grow up. Now, let's leave that behind until Yeah everybody, yeah, yeah, who knew? Yeah, I'm leaving that behind me. Shoot at the club, don't shoot at the house. Okay, Right, when you said you like thugs like that, like serious for real, something might go down. See, I like, I like crazy guys, but I feel like, you know, I want to feel safe because I don't. Yeah, listen, the thing about crazy guys is they get crazy for you,

but they get crazy on you too. That's what happened, Listen, That's what happened. When my exits. I had to leave him because he was so crazy for me that he was crazy like at me too, you know what I mean. And that became an issue because I'm like, all right, calm down when you talk to me, like all that crazy ship is cool is directed to somebody else, You're like, go like, but if they came bad because you're never

since a show air, he couldn't deal with it. You know, he was so crazy at first it was cool, but then when the show aired. It would be like if a guy tried you know, we're in the mall, the guy wants a picture and he like puts his arm around me for the picture, it would break up a fight. Like it would be a whole fight on the mall. I'd be like, yo, like this is not good for my prup Outside the show did break out up, Yeah, at first, I was like, you know, they wanted me

to be a good thing though. I mean, if he's crazy, yeah, but if it was like he only got crazy after the show because he felt like people was pa was always crazy, but it never really affected what I had going on. I was always able to deal with it. After the show came on. It made him crazier because it's like I started getting a lot more attention on social media. Everywhere we went it was attention intention and he's so freaking crazy. They're trying to fight everybody. That's

how guys are there. They act like They want you to be like, you know, successful and do whatever, but then it happen. They like the idea of a successful woman, but they don't like the reality of it that you're too busy for them. Everybody wants you and yeah, that so insecure about my ex. I think we're talking about everybody's a fun here because but then it's hard and I'm trying to move on, and I'm like, okay, let me go for you know, somebody class here that has

another mentality and stuff. You need somebody that used to be attack but now they're classy and you need to reform that. I think he's always the best. So the time you know what you know, like murder, you shouldn't write him in jail bird. He used to be crazy. Now he should be reformed. He's been in jail for like forty five years, but it's getting out soon because I don't know, maybe he gotta beginning out big meat. You need somebody like that you likes been in jail

for like jail. They don't have to be like a jail babe, jail right now, jail babe. You're trying to because a couple of my you know, my old both things have been locked up. And what I'm saying is with a guy in jail, you never know what you're when they come out, right, I hate I never know how large that bootyole won't be either. I didn't say that that was kees. Yeah, that's holding in a fart. But okay, that doesn't happen to everyone. G not everybody

meets please Johnson. Yeah, I don't think. You don't think everybody goes gay that goes to jail. You know, it also depends for how long first day? Yeah? Yeah, and then then they say it don't count because they was in jail. Well you'll never know. So that's the great thing, right, But yeah, you need somebody that's out, you know, now doing things. And maybe before they used to be living that fast life and dug, but they've grown up. They can't even come to her house. Okay, Like name talk

guy that you've seen me dating. Okay, let me see, let me find Let me think about this basketball player, somebody who's like somebody like nas who was you know, doing his thing, but now he's in the tech world. He's open restaurants. But now I'm not saying him and but now but now I'm like Okay, I've invested in tech, I'm investing in producing, and I'm also open in restaurants, sweet chicks everywhere. That's somebody good. I mean, that's somebody I want to date. And you and you and you you.

That sounds like a great person. Maybe somebody yet you know made their money however they made it, but now they invested into the estate and they own properties. There's a lot of guys like that, you know, but you got it, um at some point let them come over. She said, well, yeah, it's just you know, I feel like when you meet a guard, like it's a lot. Especially I want to know everything. Baby Mama's kids, Like, I'm open your business. Do you do like those searched

onlines for stuff? And like, listen, my best friend she owns a collection's office. I'm doing background checks. Damn. I think that's bad credit because I don't want to like somebody. And then six months later you find out all this other ship and I'm like, damn, now I like you. When he had bad credit, I got bad credit to anger money. That got bad credit. I know, I'm an organize. That's trump. He got bad credit to day bankrupt like those his companies though that I think I'm pretty sure

that ain't doing too well on itself. I mean, listen, bad credit could be for you could have, yeah, you could have found for bankruptcy. You could have tried to start a business it didn't work out. You could have you know what it was When I was young in college credit cards. I was open a credit card everywhere, like when they offered you, like your a Walmart and they're like, it's always But I used to be young

and dumb and I said yes to everything. So I had about a hundred credit cards and never paid for ship. You know. So now I have to fix it. Just something going around it, but I'm gonna fix it. Now. Are you aggressive when you did a guy like in the bedroom where you initiate sex, will you jump on him? Are you more like he's got to make the first move. I'm sory if I like you, I'm shy. Yeah. I need an aggressive guys. I'm trying to tell you, I need somebody that's gonna be like, bitch, come on, damn,

let's go. And they can't say bitch. See we talked about this a couple of times. Bitch is not one of the words, like my dirty little Yeah, your boyfriend a little bit, but not bitch. What about it be a prostitude and stuck my dick and that's it, magnum breath. What if he's like, I want you to stuck my dick from the back. I've done that before. You ain't never like different, No, I ain't. I like a all four jersey on his stomach, so like you could do

it on the stomach. It is crazy you did You never did that ship before, like and I had my tongue in between some cheeks A couple of times. You did that from the back, so I got to put you. I'm trying to picture of a guy laying on his l He gotta have a big dick, though, and at gotta be able to fit. Yeah, you gotta fit back under. Isn't that a weird angle for his dick because it's death. It's hard though, I'm not gonna do some work. It's some work. What in the what in the took? It

gotta go down? No, he's laying down, so it's like going down, like it's going down down basement nous crazy, yeah, my nigger, But he gotta have a bag. You about your finger in his but while you sucked it from the back. Keep it real. I mean, have I before? I might have? Yeah, I'm just asking, did you say I might? Did you look his asshole too? What have you such a thing? She's like, oh, like I'm trying

to bed it. No, I'm doing this. Fy'll making me feel because usually be like, yeah, I did that before, so now I feel it. Just it just felt like his dick would be all bent gold star, thank you. They cain't bent here. There's something Joe, Joe, is there something you do? Like I've never tried that. I ain't even gonna try. Give us one of your little secret tips. That's not like a usual Okay, I have a question.

So when the guy asked you to play with his ass they don't ask, they don't have Okay, they don't know. I'm sad it didn't. But if you got to do that, yeah, And he's like, if he's like, you know, letting you know, ridge, does that make you feel look at you different? It doesn't. Does that make you look at him different? Definitely? Not love. Yeah, she's sucking dicks in the back. It makes me. It makes me. It makes me actually because I have this theory they all men like that ship. Rather they want

to they do like that exactly. So when you got said, oh no, I ain't that nobody touched my asshole. He only let like four people do it. Guys that are with it, with the ship, says, I like to say literally literally literally guys that are with it. I look at them like you're real nigga admitting that you like that ship, because stop throwing it acting like you don't like it. Bank the whacking ship is when they be

slut shame and other niggas. Because I'm gonna be able to they could be the one asked me the most questions, like throughout my life that I be the ones I ended up right up and they're the ones that I would never do that. But how how could you do that to somebody like this? You like you really interested? Like doesn't really feel good? Let me see. But the first person I did, I didn't mess with, didn't encourage me. He encouraged it. Encouraged me encourage literally crazy, This is

the crazy thing. I had a crush on this guy years and years and then I started dating him and we started having sex, and that came up. And if you really really like somebody, you don't give a fun and think it could be like on a handstands in the other hand, like you would be like out. So don't get me wrong. When he said it, I was like, I was a little thrown off because I had never did nothing like that before. But I liked that. She

can't stop. I was like, maybe shut up. I was like, if this is what he liked them, this is I want the nigga, this is what he liked. This what I'm gonna do? You know? So um afterwards, I said side and one of my friends and I was like, no, it's a little weird. He asked me to funk with his as like a little bit and she was like, what that's not normal? That it's not normal. I never I mean I've dealt with somebody that liked it and would ask for it without asking for it. How do

you do that? How would he was? Okay, I see the time, and that's what I'll be sucking his big and he'll be like, lick my balls. But that's not where he meant going. He really meant you know, he ain't meaning the balls because they liked the balls. He how did you know? Behind never tell me to lick your balls. But then when you kept going, he didn't stop. You know, he helped. What's helped so that his asses? Harry?

Does that matter? The ass is good, Harry, because women are the only ones that hold on if you do. And I say, got no hair on it? What that's I'm sorry? But if he's not a hairy person, no, that cannot be a hairy person. But if he show me a little as buzzed or something, he's really getting into the mask. What if he has like a hair bumper, You're not sure if that's what it is. No, we got to say, like this, you gotta take a picture and ship with the all right. So I'm assuming somebody

asked you this. Yeah, And I first I was like because I had a crush on him two bit when you were saying that, I was like, the same story, same yo, And that first I was like like afterwards, I was thinking about it. I was like, Yo, does that mean he's but did you do it? Yeah? I mean I'm with a gay man. But I thought about it. I was like, Yo, what does that mean? I was really I was like, does that mean that he's right?

Or was that like super like easy and loose or was it no, she was okay, Yeah, I can't tell if I mean listening. I think that anything anybody wants to do in the bedroom should be whatever like that. There's all kinds of things that people like if you winned, if you win it, you hit it. Like people like crazy things out there. Yeah, I watched, um, what was that show that was on? I think it was on Showtime,

The Jiggalo Show. And the stuff that people will go and ask for or even like when you see the menu for the Bunny Ranch and the Steff that there's a lot of things like people like doing foot warship and stuff like. There's all kinds of weird fetishes and things that I'm like, that's weird. This picture on Instagram with my tall stripper boots on, and this guy was like step on my ball exactly. I get that he likes and it's probably the same guy. I'm not gonna lie.

Ever since I started doing lip services. Motherfucker won't leave me alone. He created create profiles on every platform and I'll block him and he makes another and I know it's him because he keep telling said stupid that there's a lot of people who like that. Because there's a whole like Dominatrix world out there. Yeah, like five five thirty three. I'm like this nigga again, are there other weird things that you're like that people have asked for? No?

You know it was weird. So it was actually an NBA player. So I was like, okay. One of my friends took me and they were like, yeah, good for each other. Joe, Joe, try something new. I'm like cool. So we start hanging out. The first day, I stay over his place. Of course, I was like, yeah, I'm not doing nothing. I was thinking that my head better

not trying right. Yeah. Say, I'm like okay. So I lay in bed and instead of him trying to do something, he was like, yo, listen, I'm not gonna try you nothing. I just want to I just want to touch your feet. I can't touch your feet and just go to sleep. Okay. I'm like, you sure he was a ball player with your best football player basketb That sounds me. I was like, I have never experienced that. So you did it? You let him touch your feet? Yeah? Well, am I gonna

say no? I was like, so all he did was touching? Did he massage him? Did he He was like little such my feet and then just like went to sleeping my feet. So he could have played that off, like let me give you a funk massage at least when you like, let me just touch your feet. You still like, okay, if he was like, yeah, let me give you on this saw my life? Did you date him after that? Like? Really?

So that turns you off? He did her. He wanted to date her toes right, what if he be like, let me put my I mean it didn't start and it just didn't work out, right, Okay, it was because of that. It wasn't because of that. But I was like, whoa, he's kind of weird. You don't think that's weird? Yeah I do, But I mean people, I don't think it's like a I don't know if it's a deal breaker weird. It's just a little like and it wasn't a deal breaker.

What's you laughing that she got sucked? What what would happened? Oh? Tell us, just like this foot guy before this, you know, I have like really high arches. So he's a dinoside. Oh okay, it's called a foot job. Okay, she said all about that, and so just now, did you put on your feet first? Yeah? He probably likes that. Yeah, he's probably like he would and he would ask me the specific color to get my pedicure. There wasn't white. He's very specific in his needs and desire. All right,

what about some weird things you like? Money? But like, are there things that you like in the bedroom that we might be like, Okay, that's different off the beaten track, so to speak, pussy, Okay, would you like to Okay, that's different. Okay, I'm trying to think off top of the head, something out there that's a little like off the norm you're scared to tell us. I like when I like, I like when my guy wants to come on my face, just don't get it in my ashes. Yeah,

he's gotta have a great aim. I don't want pinky. I don't like all the extra crazy shit, Like I'm not into that. What about coming on your face? Oh no, that's fine, that's that's regular the ordinaries. Like I love it, though, Yeah, like I'll ask for really yeah, like I'll be like, I want to come on my face, please get you come on this pretty face? Why you like somewhere I don't like that, yeah, because it's disgusting. You don't think it's nasty to swallow it. That's disgusting. Do you know

what that ship is swallowing it? I don't think you know. I don't want to swallow it because I don't want to be coughing that ship up for the next forty eight hours. Gets it gets stuck in your throat like like mucus, like the muss the next man having a party down there. I don't want that. I read the face. I heard it good. I wanted. Yeah. Man probably started that rumor. They know what they said that you gotta let it dry, though, you gotta let it drive out dry.

I know y'all don't believe that. If fight against wrinkles come on now, y'all stablished it's really like protein or some ship. Yeah, if you just think about that facial don't remember that rumor they put out yea little kida Oh no, no, no, remember when they said they had the pump up stomach. It's like funny about it was like back in the day. I was a kid and I believed it. I was like, they really pumped twenty pounds have come from someone's stomach, Like I thought that

it was possible because I was a kid. That's a lot of coming. It was something crazy that I remember that. I remember that it was like pre internet day. Yeah, it was like, now, what are not bringing a guy you're dating around a friend, like, you know, maybe somebody that you're brand new talking to, and now you want to bring them around your girls? Is that a no? No? Too early in the relationship. No, I'm done with that.

I normally always do because it's good to let your friends feel about, like what y'all think about, because sometimes I don't see everything they see it. They'll be like, girl, you know, how do you differentiate between them? Just kind of like maybe throwing some hate right, because sometimes you don't have friends around me, okay, because sometimes people over analyze things you think. So, yeah, I got a few. I got a few querious friends that like the over

analyze things. They'd be like girl, and there and there, and they're type of person that says, like I would such a such a see. I feel like that when I'm aship, you know what I mean, when I'm in a relationship with somebody, I don't listen to my friends because a friend is always gonna say, oh, you stupid, Oh don't do this. You know what I'm saying, just how if I'm your friend, you know, and I see a guy put you through a bunch of ships, I'm

gonna be like, don't mess with him. But it's different when you're dealing with the person you know, and and sometimes you know your friend is single and you know it's just a whole other type of ship going on. So I don't listen a lot to what my friends say. I listened to my mom. Okay, that makes sense, But it takes like for me to take a guy to my mom is because he's my he's my man. Right. When's the last time you had? Well? But all right before I lev in hip hop? How long were you

all together? Two years? Okay? Did you think he was the one? I knew it wasn't going to work out because you know, he was so crazy. I'm like, yo, how do you settle down with such a crazy guy? Is it craziness always? You know what I'm saying. But I was in love with him? Is your mom like him? At first? She did? When she first met him, he was she found out he was crazy. Then when he started doing crazy stuff, calling my mom and my brother isn't doing crazy? He called them and and does what, Yeah,

like me and will get on a fine. He will call my mom and I'm like you and me and hill getting a fine. He'll call my brother like you know. When he started acting like that, they were like all right, you know what though, like what are they? What is he saying? Like my my brother? Him and my brother was cool, So you call my brother and be like, yo, fuck your sister. Yeah, my brother would be like, okay, brother with him? Why would he think that that was okay?

At first everybody liked him, but once he's I guess it's true. Yeah, he started acting crazy. Everybody was like, yeah, you gotta laugh that loose cannon. Go. All right, now I need something from you guys because I gotta do this Ted talk tomorrow. Right. So my topic that I picked is why do people hate people that they don't even know? Sound jealousy? That was the number one thing

I did put down jealousy? All right, So that's the number one reason people hate people that they don't even know, because they feel like you don't deserve the success that you have. They feel like you're in a position that they're not in, and why did they get that? And how come I'm here and that person is there and jealousy and m vy they empty that that person's spot. Now, what are some other reasons besides jealousy that you might hate somebody or somebody might hate you and they don't

even know you. Ignorance, ignorance, Yeah, they you su their man. They do kind of know you, they don't know, they don't know, they don't know you. They know how you taste now, but I got a lot like like a guy like that, They are ripped. I don't like no bit she ever fun before. I think that's so whack. I don't care. I what the friend wanted to be her friend? Like, yeah, we both had the same day. But you don't have to be their friend. But you

don't have to dislike them. It just was something before you if we was cool before cool Capricorn too, okay, okay, I'm like, what do you do? Oh? Y'all crazy? Yeah? You see she got on red. She's the double Capricorn, right, But seriously, I really hate Like, what do you think that guy? The girls he dated before you? You really don't like them? Not that I don't like them, but fuck them, like all yeah, yeah, damn, I feel like it would media like them and I feel like I

don't want know nothing about them. You don't even got to tell me nothing about like mama, Like I don't want to know about that, but to care less. See, I've been in this situation where I have dated guys and like their girlfriends would you know after me, would hate me and I didn't do ship and I don't even talk to him no more. And I'm like, this chick hates me. Not that energy to hate. I don't got the energy that, Like they don't like you, and You're like, I don't even don't even know, dude, I

don't even care. I'm not even involved, Like this is what I'm saying, Like you're never jealousy though now you ain't never dating nobody that like trying to get you to be cool with the alf that's friend now that I've had that happen before, Like it's nothing like that. I'm like my proposed that I met his ex and I was like, No, what's what I'm saying. Do you still found some type of way let's say about your ex dating somebody. No, I don't care what you do.

You don't care. It depends on the ex. Certain people don't I don't care if a girl. I know, there was a there was a there was a time. There was a time that I didn't care, and I would find out that he was dating certain girls that I knew when I'm he did bother me when your X dates people, you know, yeah, and I would call her and like, oh, that's funked up that you know or

that bit. You know what I'm saying. But at this point, at this point in my life, I'm over it because the other takes in something new Bay Dick, because even though I have rape him all the time, I still got that. Has that ever happened to you though? Like you dated like somebody and then maybe somebody used to be cool and started dating him after you not dating. But I've had some word where it was and then you went on Snapchat and saw them sit, oh to dog,

we change. Did that happen to you? Did happen to you? Happened to me? What I think? You know, you know what happened to me? That What I think it's really funny is when um, like I had an ex who's he cheated on me with some chick and then now he's cheating on her. That's hilarious. Keeping how you get them, but I don't. I don't never like yeah, I don't never really like wish bad on anyone. I just move on.

But I do think it's funny. No, it's like revenge for you, Loki, Like even though you don't think about it and you don't care about that person no more. When you see some ship like what they did. You see what I broke up with my ex? I was in my feelings, but then another part of me I was like, listen, yo, go do all that crazy ship to the next girl. I'm not even mad. I wish her all the blessers in the world because she could put up with your ship. Like I'd be like leg tent.

Thanks for taking that track with that, Beyonce, so damn the best thing I never had. That's when that makes us. But see when you said I judge people like you know, like by their act like who they dated? No, no, no, you know how you earlier you have said, like you know, can you not like somebody without knowing them? I go off of how people move, but not just like I'm talking about hate. It's like it's okay to just like I'm not really feeling now that's too far. Yeah, but

people I hate this. I do use those words and I don't be meaning them like that I hate this bitch, but it would be more so like calorie. Yeah, I'm like hate. It's like I have a very passionate, passionate dislike forgetting and I think that you wish something be rooted,

and I wish bad things. It's like hate groups like I hate yeah, yeah, yeah, Like people hate all Mexican people and all Muslim people, and people felt like that, and they might not even know anybody, or they do know people and they don't really hate them, but then they have a feeling about a whole group of people just because they are ignorant or they're scared because somebody

instills that in you. People like hate people just because they might be like, oh, I hate gay people because they might have these repressed feelings of I have these homosexual desires and now I hate all gay people because I'm scared of how I feel about myself. You know, there's all kinds of people hate people and be really passionate about it. So I like, I dated a guy that used to always talk about like a certain kind of people, like I hate people that do just like,

oh I hate scammers. I hate scameras. No, But then you're turning around and then you know, like now you're running around with scammers, and now scammeras are getting you your stuff, And I'm like, didn't you say you hate scared? Oh no, because we'll have like that happens until you get in the world of things. Now you don't hate them no more like did you want to be involved

in that world that those repressed feelings? He had scammer tendency had he wanted to be a scam Yet somehow I know you know a lot of scammers, Joe, Joe, because I'm sure they'd be coming into you have to say, yo, there are fucking As soon as I see one of them scamras, my, I'm like, turn around, don't try to stop that. In my story, yeah, that's the worst part about having a business like they I mean that all theras be swagged out like the same thing. They never

wear the same ship twice. But that really does suck, even like I get a lot of scamming on my website online to where a girl's gonna order, you know, a thousands like this happened to me yesterday. My sister called me and she said somebody ordered for co shipped it out whatever, they scammed it. So now I shipped the coat and my account go own and it's like, damn, like that, that's just kind of sucked up because when you have a small business, that hurts hurts you. Yeah,

of course. Yeah, so that's just a loss for you. Yeah, I can't do nothing ship. We don't be wanting to make a juice over, but see it on the six dollars. We'd be like to check this. I used to be around scams. It used to be like we are. I used to be like we let's go, let's let's turn out how you realize how Now I'm like, yo, fuck these boys, like for real, Yeah you have some scammer karma. Yeah. Yeah, and you know what I'm I took it as a g I was like, yeah, I deserved it for her.

I guess damn it. But it sucks. Yeah, so wait, why do you take that out though? Don't you like, don't the credit card? And no, no, damn, somebody got to pay for it. I bet you it was the same person that had your bag. And that motherfucking man you can do like you can't even get no type of insurance for nothing. That's why got they're coming next game in your store. That's your fault. You shouldn't double chiple check. I feel like that though, because remember somebody

um went to Bloomingdale's and was using my account. They was having them call up, and that's the store's fault because they shouldn't let people do that. They didn't that person couldn't have my idea or anything. I don't know how it really should be their fault because I know they listened to the breakfast club and they know that you don't know that person for the breakfast and that person that to know it was me. So are you going back to Love and Hip Hop for the next season? Yes,

I am. Yeah, I have a two year contract, so they asked me to come back and we're gonna start shooting probably in the next You said, a lot of people been in your dam's trying to date you. Now to be having you date that on the show, you know, Yeah, that's for sure. Everybody's trying to be because I'm single on the show and you know, of course, you know season one they wanted me to have a boyfriend, but I have so much drama already with my family and

the room. Yeah, they were like towards the end, they were like, you're good, don't worry about it. Just season two and I didn't want to put my ex on the show because I cared too much about the situation. And you know what I mean, I don't know. I'm funny about that, like I'll go on to be with a whole random guy before I go with my real life.

And that's exactly with majority. But season two, you know, they did tell me was loving the hip hop, So we know you're dating something or somebody whoever the hell you're doing, bring it on the show. Everybody got somebody, right, So who are you dating? If somebody's already on the show, or somebody brand new that you're bringing in or that you you might be talking to, we'll see. I just got off out of a relationship. So when I when I meet a guy not like Killer's gona be together,

the rebound stop it. I'm trying to think, who's that love of hip hop Miami that she could be dating pleasure pe okay boyfriend, but no, if I fund it, okay, listen, So no pleasure, I a pleasure literally no, no, no, like we're pleasure yeah, we're cool as hell. But you know it would make sense. You know, I would have to deal with Shay right, UM's yeah, needing somebody else's ex or something like self confused. He ain't either one

of them. He adn't nobody you would pleasure p No no, no, no, no, no girlfriend exactly, like you know, as much as everybody wants to push the situation. First of all, he's not really my type, right, we know what we don't want. My type is what the I like. I like tattoos in the face, like I've seen you would have not so thug before. It's not gonna say, but I've definitely seen her. You know who you're talking about that you're a real life I don't let you like like like

ball players, they're not you. Well, yeah I do, like you know, Okay, right now, I'm just seeing what's up because you have to understand right now, when I meet a guy, they're like, okay, like you're my girlfriend. You know what I'm saying. I feel like everybody wants to claim me. He's so bad because you know what I'm saying, I'm single, so of course they want to be like, yeah, I'm Danny Jojo so I'm just would you date a

guy that doesn't have a lot of money? Yeah, okay, and I didn't have a lot of money, would you be the one that paid? Would you mind paying for like meals and stuff like that because you have more than him, you can't pay for a meal like Hold on, now, let's I understand you might not be what I said you like. Okay, I want to go to I want to go to Prime myself or whatever or imaginings in the bill comes in his four dollars and he don't really have it like that. Why are we in pro

wanted to go? You can't if you can't afford prime, we ain't going to Prime. Okay, So put to Sagua if you get like like I didn't, if you can't afford to take me out to eat, let's not eat. Okay, how I'm not putting in that situation. I wouldn't because I know, Yeah, see, I like a boss, Like I'm very bossy, So I'm attracted to the way. I don't know. You might think I take the ugliest guys, you know what I'm saying, Like, but I don't go for looks.

It's about how a man carries himself. I like when a man carries I'm like a man when in this room goes for looks. It said, maybe me, you go for looks. Gone too far? But I mean just looks. But it matters to me a lot and not that much. To me, it matters a little, Like I like to like the person that I'm sucking dating, but like like I just closed my eyes. It depends what you're attracted to. Like to me, if you're handsome and you're a whole cornball,

like you don't saying that. I only like looks, but it's important, Like I say, somebody that I didn't feel it was attractive. See, to me, being attractive is being well put together. You know what I'm saying. As you'll put them together right, you can make it about just putting this stuff on. It's how you walk with it, walking, how you talk. What if he likes to wear dresses? You know your stylist and there's a lot of guys

now they do that though. Yeah, I mean I think I was like the main person that started I was about to say, wasn't your deadly was putting a young Doug and dressing. Yeah. But so you can't say no because that's not my type, right, Okay, but he's a thug. His name, his name is she was lying? Yea, his name, you can't deny it. The dresses, the carry no purses, no dresses, no girls. Some girls like that. I like manly like, you need to be a whole man out here,

Like I don't know whole man like. I don't know if it's because they said you how your dad your father looks or who your father? You don't think so no, I think I never you know what, I don't even date outside of black like, I like black men like, I don't see. I don't think. I don't date Hispanics. How did you have five? Yeah? Yeah, how did you? I have not a truck to Mexicans. They've tried to hooking me up with half a Mexican. Yeah, not for me. Yeah,

Pops wasn't with that. I'm not even gonna low key racist like yeah, but he had a black woman so and then a black wife after my month that saw. I didn't understand that. But he's just racist against everybody that's not Puerto Rican. Wow. Now I have before we end, because we've been going and going, I have a person that has a ask clip service question, and he asked me to not reveal his name. So his problem is Joseph.

His problem is that he's having issues because he has a really small penis and it's affecting his relationship and he wants to know what can he do in the bedroom because he feels inadequate. Put it in her but drop some mic. So what advice would you give? Have you ever had a small penis small penis problems? No? I haven't. Damn, let have you? Yes? So what are you doing? It was awful. I dumped him and I

stopped sucking at him. Damn. Okay, you're gonna help him, Okay, okay, make him feel world And I'm not trying to make him feel bad, but I'm telling him what I did. But I was also younger. It wasn't nobody el who was in love with So you know, now, if you're in a situation where maybe she's in love, he's in love and they're gonna make her work. So I felt like, if you really love somebody, you're gonna put up but stop. Yeah, get some toys, figure it out, get a better eat game,

learn how to What is it? It's not the ocean? What is it. What's wrong with my saying that it's the motion of the ocean, motion and affection and at about your ain't about your, oh, y'adi, it's about your the motion to kind of going there like that as it's making him feel some type of way where because she's talking sh well, I guess maybe he's having his own insecurities, like you know, he probably feels inadequate, damn. But she has to have told him that, because there's

no way you know that. I like, I think a guy knows when he has a little dick, but he might still think he working it though, or he might be like, I can't work it. I'm not gonna lie though some guys I'm not gonna say necessarily little. But I've even said this before. I've had guys with smaller dicks be better than That's what I'm saying. So it's not always about the size, Like you just need to learn what you're doing, sir, Like something just ain't going. I mean, he ain't got no rhythm. Go take a

dance class. Well, yeah, it's the start of penis. We always call it. Yes, it started. Um this guy the one who y'all said, I can I think his penis was like this, that's not hard. Oh hard. Yeah, it was like the top of a Corona bottle. That's like a roll of quarters. I used to make him me in my head all the time. Well there's a solution for him. I mean I would give him like pussy, but after a while it would end up in my butt,

Like okay, did you feel enough? Because I want to feel it to sell us and you're satisfied that I could put But he could put other things in at the same time with it. That's what finkers. Maybe I don't know if the cop ring do something that's just like yeah, something like that, sh slide off. He needin ring slide He needs to he needs to go. He need to go like some he need to go. Take some dance lessons from a male stripper. Didn't have to, she said, Yeah, what if the cockring fits like a huluu?

What hulu? I hate? But that's tough, though, because if you really like a guy and sex is not good, do you what happens to the relationship? No, y'all, you stay, cheat, stay and you cheat with a good with some good dick. Yeah, you probably gotta cheat. I didn't cheat because it wasn't up something. Yes, it was something else, But I feel like sex is very important. It is important, and that's probably why we ultimately broke up. That's probably why I

just walked away. It didn't fight for it, but like that did will keep you there. But you know what, I felt like I loved him. I felt like I loved him, not I loved him, So the Darren I was like a funcket. I'm just gonna have to deal with this ship like forever forever. No, I can't do that ship fever. I knew he wasn't gonna be together. Like, but do you stay with somebody for good sex for a while? A lot of things let you put up, You put up with more than you would normally put up,

but eventually you'll still leave. So exactly eat And somebody told me that like before, like sex really, like even for a man for a woman, that's not the decided factor on while you're gonna stay with somebody or be with somebody good or bad. It's so much more than that, but it matters because it could be miserable, because the people to have no sex in their relationship and be miserable. See, I'm not doing that that's not a relationship. Yeah, we're

not doing that. If we're not having sex, we're not in a relationship. Be friends. You're my homeboy, Jojo. Would you say with somebody if the sex wasn't that great, I've tried, but I don't think it's possible. What makes it not great would be a little awkward. I feel like, yeah, awkward connection specific if you ain't there, it's awkward. I had sex with this guy one time and it was like, oh no, no passion, nothing, Yeah, And I was just laying there like like what I supposed was trying to

kill me? So what is that? He just doesn't know how to fuck? Yeah, you don't know how to fuck. He ain't never sucked me again, and you wasn't about to take the time to teach. I said, the first time you have sex with somebody, isn't that great? No, that's very true because one time I tried to write somebody off how was dating? And I called Angela like a girl. I was like, this ship was the wackest ship?

Was it awkward? It was very awkward. It was hated it, hated it, And I get my second, my second chance, and he rocked your world. That was like him a lot, and she told me too. She was like, no, you gotta because sometimes the first time I ain't right. I was like, man, Angela, you don't know what the funk you're talking, so you got to give it a second chance. You did, though, I gave it him a second chance over the first time I was drunk and it was so bad that you know, yeah, you drunk is bad

that it's really was awful. But I've had experiences like where, you know, the first time I had sex with somebody, I like them, knew them really well, had sex and it wasn't good. And I think we have to adjust to like, you know, you don't know what somebody likes and they don't know what you like. No, that's not that's not true from Sometimes sometimes you know something, but sometimes it doesn't like and that doesn't just put in

the pussy right, But sometimes it takes hard. Like you know, one or two times I liked somebody after my ex, I was he was perfect, but the problem was, like the first time I was drunk. So if I'm drunk and it's not good, what does that mean? So I was like, Okay, tell my best friend. I'm like bits what do I do? Just like get a second chance? Cool? The sacond time it was sober, it's a hundred times worse. So I'm like, but I got to be high, and you know what I'm saying, so I'll be passed out

so I have to die for to like this. But I really liked it, you know what I'm saying. Like everything was there except that, so you know, and it never got better. I'm bro how many times I'm gonna give it? Disgusted it, but I wasn't did it again either. But if you drunk, yeah, when you're drunk, everything is cool, right, you feel me? If you're drunk and it ain't going like nothing, I'm like, you don't say downstairs, I was like, do y'all feel like you have sex better when you're drunk?

Of course, I don't know if I have sex better, But every you'll tell me drunk sex, it is not better than I think. I've become like a super woman, super natural. My ship just moved different everything. And then sometimes you say ship that don't make no sense. I don't remember that how good you are. Sometimes I'll be drunk having sex and be like, what the fund did I just say? I said something crazy. I definitely definitely tell us somebody. I'll let them the time of two.

Like until you really have super sex, I'd rather have tipsy sex and not drunk. I don't true junk because drunk sometimes and then I passed right out after you ain't and then you never woke up. And but like did we yes? Well, and to be a person you funk with. I did that one time and and I was on my period and I was like, where then is my tampon? I got me and then I went to the hospital to the emergency room, like I think my tampon stuck and they're like, I guess the hospital

for that. I thought it was stuck in me and I went to the doctor. They're like, there's nothing in here, ma'am, and chuck it out. And I didn't remember you have two hands with fingers on them. That kind of went up there and figuring it out yourself. Man. I tried, and I had him looking at everything. You gotta squat, and you look at me. You gotta squat and push. I was like, can you p these look? And I was like, got a squat push And I was really laying down with the legs open, he was really looking

like inside like I don't see anything. I was like, no, I know, I know. It's so someone that could happen. I can see that happening. Ship. Well, thank god, it's nothing alright. Well anyway, Jojo, thank you so much for hanging out with us, for having me. Did you start feeling a new season yet? Next month we start. Okay, we're gonna be watching you because if you lie to us about pleasure P, we're gonna we're gonna get you. We're gonna it's gonna be interesting. Something is about to happen. Yeah,

so are you getting a man or a woman? I know it's anything, right, we just had a conversation a man, a whole man man. All right, Well that is it Lifts Service. Happy Friday for us,