Episode 126: Hoe Is Life (Feat. Bobby Lytes)

don't miss out again. Okay, we got a Mala La Negra coming through from Love and Hip Hop Miami, also a little mo and Carl Dark and her husband will be there because it's Valentine's Day, so we gotta do some couples type stuff and we've got some special guests coming to so make sure you don't miss out. What's up, y'all, it's lip Services. You're already to have some fun today. It's Angela. Ye I'm stuffing in Santiago. I'm g g Maguire, I'm Lauria and it's me. What's up now? We've all

seen Bobby Lights on Love and Hip Hop Miami. Yea, I watched all the how To end up on there, and you are treatas cousin. Part of the storyline is that she's not really helping you you feel. As far as being an artist, you know it's hard in this industry, especially when you're gay trying to do it. All I want is a little help and a little support. Everybody. Turn it on, baby, turn it on, alright, So we

always start with the tip of the day. So for the tip of the day, I want to know from you, right, if you want to date somebody and you're not sure if they swing that way, how do you dip your toe in and find out? Okay, wait, and my sober, am I drunk? Because if I'm drunk, ain't no rules, ain't no limits. I'm just gonna find out. Trust me. Now, what do you do? Okay, So if I'm drunk, I'll probably go up to the guy and just like be very friendly and like I want to be his friend. First.

It starts, you know, most situations start off with a friendship first or some type of conversation. Right, So I go ahead, like to believe that you know what I'm saying. So you go and have a conversation, and based off of how that conversation goes is how I would then determine. Because it's a combination of things, it's skills. I'm telling you. It's like it's it's a human nature to all of us, especially as guys, but we have this thing called the gay gata. So it's like a combination of the gator

starts going off and then also the vibe. You know what I'm saying. Some people are feel like are just clueless and that's how they end up getting the ass to be you know what I'm saying, going running up on the wrong guy or whatever. So I feel like you have to be intuitive at the same time. You can't just try to figure out if a guy is gay.

You have to be very intuitive and touch with yourself. No, you know what I'm saying, No a man, no the way that because sometimes a guy will tell you right off the bat when you when you introduce yourself by the handshake, that he's not even on that. What's the handshake? Like, you know, very like non attentive. Because I heard like if they are gay, they'll do like a little tickle that is so old school. That's not like give me your hand, that's really that's really detailed. That's never happened

to me. I've never had I've never had a guy coming to me like you ever tickle something else I do the tickling. That's like no, But I mean, you know, there's a lot of things, not just I'm listening. It's you can look at a guy is no longer how he acts, how he speaks, how he dresses. I promise you,

it's not. I promise you. I feel it's more so on what their preference is, you know what I'm saying, Because I feel like the same way that there can be a guy that's super super feminine and super metro sexual and all about themselves right and even maybe and he can be young, satuated with with females, and then vice versa could be thugs like the boys that I

like to deal with a lot on the regular. It's like I like them to be manly, yes I do, and like and here's my thing, like they will you would think they're full hardcore or whatever, and they love sex with gay men. And then the shocker of it all is like the ones that are so they wanted

up their ass, you know what I'm saying. So it's like there's there's literally no you can't you can't tell you can't look at somebody in th same with females and literally all of my female friends have no issue having sex with a girl or they would And do you think for a woman that doesn't make a woman gay but for a guy. If a man has sex with another man, he's gay, But if a woman does, they could say, oh, I just like to yes, you noticed.

We've been talking about this for years now. It's like such a double standard, Like it's okay for guys to see women walking down the street holding hands. There's some guys majority of man would be like, that's so fucking hot, Oh my god, that's so sexy looking at bitches. Can you believe these two bitches making out in front of you? Bro Let let a female ever say, can you believe these two guys you have a normal just like I

don't have a problem with day Okay. A lot of my female friends watching Point, they're like, Bobby, I'm sorry, but I like gay point. I'm like, bitch, no, But

like a like there is a double standard. I feel like it doesn't come from the ladies though, Like a lot of the females are my biggest supporters, like my female Even if a female is a homophobic as female, she is still you know what I'm saying, being way less harsh on me than the guys would saying by taking a man's virginity like it was his first time ever doing it, I call that virginity virginity. Yeah, we call that the homo the homo card if you lose

your homeo card. Yeah, I mean, okay, truthfully speaking, I like to think that I have one time in the past, but I don't believe it. I don't normally do this, right, I've never done this before. And then then in their head they're delusional and they're they're not counting that training. They they just fun last week as a guy. So they're like they're like, oh, yeah, now, you never did this before, but you right up in there for real. R. Well, I'm gonna be honest with you, guys. I mean, I'm

a very open I'm a very open person. I'm not gonna put a label on me. I'm already gay. I'm just saying at the label as far as now, like my position top bottom, So I would just say this like I do prefer to bottom. I mean it's I

think it's very clear to the world. Yeah, but I will do like that first, yes, and you like to do so dougs like, yeah, no, but I do not support and I do not agree with the idea that men are in the closet, So I want to make that clear also as well, like my ex boyfriend, like not the one who was on loving him because you know, years long he was like gives off a thug type effect, but he's openly gay with my hand in public we

go out of because mom is knows he's gay. Everybody knows, So like you can be, you know, give off that thug masculine effect without having to be in the closet. You get what I'm saying. And then of course, like the men that are in the closet do someway somehow always attracted me because they're so fine all the time. But when I analyzed they have the words, I'm like, no,

this is not right. You know what I'm saying. I just don't feel right, especially when they were like, oh yeah I got a baby mama or I got a girlfriend. I just yeah, I don't feel But is it like the thrill of it that gets you that, like maybe it's like only you know or whatever the case, like with the guys that have the baby mamas and all that stuff. Yeah, but I swear on everything I love I think my friend like, I don't think that's I don't I don't entertain him when I find out they

have a baby mama and all that. Even with that, I find out they have kids that they're like, yeah, but I'm not with my baby mama. I just don't entertain them. I'll probably like just you know, but there's too many men out there. I can move on to the next one. Trust me. It's like I can move on to the next one, and I'm probably like I'm popping. I can get whatever the funk I want right now to a certain extent, you know what I'm saying in your DM, I've had a few are they out celebs?

Are the celebs that you would think like, oh, ship, well, we're not gonna ask names. We do know. Actually a lot of them have been um there. Actually a couple of them have been openly gay. Yeah, like they're openly gay. Okay, all right now, but nobody that you were surprised, like, damn, I didn't like a football player or something that you're like, I love Angela. Next question that for breakfast club. Yeah, this lip service though, but not listening. No linebackers. I'm friends.

I'm friends with football players for sure. For sure, I've seen you. I'm trying to get at Mike Sam though, what's up Mike Sam? Is that his name, the one that's openly gay? He at football players? He is in an NFL. Right, don't be a thought. Okay, don't you have a boyfriend. I am not. I'm right now. I'm single. Guys, Okay, so you don't see me getting you don't see me. But you know a lot of people go back at episode somebody, well he came back. He came back to me,

and you don't see that. I guess what you're gonna see what you're gonna see how that unfolds on. I see you come back with a fist. I've seen in the preview that this money coming up. Yeah, for sure, I don't want to see you fighting, Babby. Come on, I don't want to see myself either. It's not classy, it's uncouth. As soon as you have boy friend was

being disrespectful. Yeah, he deserves that one thing to do your dirt, but it's another thing to be But I'm gonna be honest with you guys, like you know, nothing on other hip hop is portrayed other than what we filmed because I one thing I always tell people I hate cast members to get on they're saying, oh, it's production, and the way they edited, the way they edited. No, no, no, bitch. You know what you're doing. You know what you said, and you know what place you're at, and you know

what you're doing. So I feel like you're always in control no matter what. So with that being said, that situation that you see when I slapped him, it took a while for me to slap him. So, yes, they chopped it up and fit for TV, yeah, they but they made it seem like I just walked. It wasn't like that. It took a lot. And the things he was saying to me is what pissed me off. They're gonna show it more like in the in the episode is gonna be more detailed, you know how they do that,

show more detail. But like the things he was saying to me, and the way he was handling that situation and handed You're at a pool party with your ex boyfriend and I was not in the knowledge that he was cheating on me the whole time, for real, for us. So now when I'm putting all this together, my emotion took over me and I did have to put my hands on him. The same with the first episode, like

that was all provoked. Like I am provoked. I don't go around because I'm all about breaking barriers and coming together, you know. I feel like if you're on the blogs a lot, you was on the blog for getting into a fight when you were around trein a one time, it does kind of make it look like do do and do it. But guess what, at the end of the day, the only way I can get past that

I prove people that I'm not. I just have to continue doing me and showing her my good side and just being the loving person that I am and positive person that I am. One thing I can't say though, in this world of reality or this world of pop culture, you have to do things like that in order to even be noticed. And that's so sad. It's so sad that everyone's like not excited to see my single released body is coming up in a couple of episodes, but

they're excited to see me slap somebody. Know what I'm saying, you know, And it just is what it is. It's TV, and I'm not gonna sit there and like back down when I know that I have a chance to make my impression and be like, no, that's what I stand for. And in order for me to depict that restaurant, I never fight. I don't believe guys should ever fight girls.

That's not smart or it's not good. But um, I feel like, you know, TV can make you seem a certa away, but it's up to like the fans to just rock with you enough to you to just be like, no, this is me, this is why I really am. Look at came Michell like she was looked at. Yeah, we don't talk about holy ship. I don't know what's going on. I feel like I've just into the twilight zone along.

Now let me ask you this, but don't you feel like when you're in a relationship with somebody and it comes to the point where you put your hands on them, then maybe that's a toxic relationship Because has it ever worked where you put you get to the point where you feel like you put your hands on someone they put their hands on you. Can it never work past that? I ain't gonna like can because me and my boyfriend, like we fight. You fight. You know what I'm saying,

you hit me, I hit you or whatever like that. Yeah, I feel like me. Me and my boyfriend, we were together for almost eight years. We've been through a couple of different things. We had a couple of domestic viole situation. They don't even be all that with the police and the statement maker. No, no no, no, no, it's just no. You don't call the cops. You know, it's just you get choked out. You might get a slab, right, you

might staff somebody want a scissor. It's never you. It's always like the neighbor calling or someone from far away, not minding their business, just buying a bagel and they see like back of bagel you. So yeah, I feel you on that. But now I feel like this, once I get to the point in a relationship where I physically want to harm you or you physically want to harm me, I don't know that I could continue on past that, Like I'm not gonna feel safe. But you're

a Capricorn, Okay, what that means. Capricorns are very You guys don't tolerate a lot of bullshit. I know that for a fact. I'm telling you a lot of bullshit. I'm a Capricorn. You're a Capricorn. From one particularly, well are you born in January or somebody and you're born in January? January? But I knew that, Like when somebody puts their hands on you, I'm like, especially like in a way that you're like, Okay, I gotta hide from people now because I'm sucked up. That's I'll tell y'all

what I'll tell you all this. After I put my hands on that motherfucker, he didn't want nothing to do with me for a good minute. Yeah, he was very hurt. He was very shocked, aside from it happening in real life, Like he was hurt and he was like, you really did that to me on TV? Though, but he provoked you. Yeah he did, and I look what he did to you on TV. Yeah exactly, look what exactly. But here's the thing, like certain people really don't put up with

that volage. Like he was like really distropped by it, and it was something. But it comes as off as a shocker, like because I know you can because it's like, wait, you weren't expecting to get slapped. Oh you didn't think he was gonna get slapped, No, motherfucker, you know what I'm saying. So it's just a rude awakening. I guess there's different characters. What if it's worse than a slap, like an actual like you have to go to the hospital or you have a black eye or anything like that.

Oh no, that's something that's ridiculous. Not even even going into it, I said, I'm not gonna harm him. I'm I'm not trying to hurt I'm not trying to damage him or his face. I just want to let him feel my pencil. I I went into it with even I'm right handed. I went into it with a left hand, okay, because I knew that it wasn't gonna hurt him that much, and I knew it was just gonna be like are you serious? And it just turned so dramatic because how much I had to reach. But it was just like

are you serious? He told me. I don't get He's like, I don't get what you want to do. And we had just got into a heated thing. It's a lot you gotta tune in. I promise you. But I promise you. One thing is like, I don't condone. I do not believe violence is the answer at all, said stabbing somebody with scissors, Like can you recover from that. She said, yeah, it worked out a long time, but it was just a little stitch, little butterfly stitch that he had to get.

But then, what can I just touch on that and about everybody's It's about everyone's background, what you've been through in life, right, And that's what I'm saying. Like I'm Puerto Rican, you know what I'm saying. So it's expected for me to like pull out a blade and like from the West Side Story that that that movie took place in like the fifties or something like we're known for that. You know, I think it's part of my

culture to be get crazy your boyfriend. But I feel like I feel like now, you know, and lately, you know, as I've gotten you know, a little older, I feel like I've been more calm. Like sometimes I look at my dude while he's sleeping and I just wanna told back, I pray, and you know, while he's sleeping, what is he doing to you? Then while he's sleeping, he just looks so innocent, And he just looks so innocent while he's sleeping, and he's not. He's so evil. It's so

you want to put that pillow and just suffocated. Y'all. Y'all are crazy. I would know, you know what I David that guy once that asked me, he said, you know, have you ever been to love to the point where you felt like you were mad at you had to put your hands on the person? And I told him no, and he told me, well, you've never been in love. That's crazy, right, That's what he was. That's what he told me. And I promise you that's the first person

I put my hands on. Damn, that's that's the first person I punched in the face that I was in a relationship. And to me, that's not the definition of what love is supposed to be. Yeah, no, I didn't think so either. So it's just that I love is. At the same time, love is unconditional. So it's like, if you love this person, I love you, and then you I might mush you because you did something to me.

It's like I love you. So it's like, yeah, you mushed me, but stop, But what if like I broke your ribs because I love you, give you a black guy because I love you. I love you. Yeah, I say I love you. Know I feel like, um, you know, you love somebody if you're willing to suffer for them, But a broken rib that's a little extra suffering. That's jealousy. Jealousy is love and hate at the same time. So you hate that person so much you're willing to beat them and put your hands, but you love them that

you you want to still keep him around. And then what do you do? Do you get them help? Because say, everything was great and everything was fine and something fun that happened and he broke your fucking ribs. Let's just say this is what happened. Neels saying black, Yeah, so what are you doing? Like do you call the cops? Like what do you like? You just love this person yesterday? So like, how do you call your brother? You don't got a brother, So now what do you do? You

call your boy? Yeah? See, but this is love. So that's what the problem. And we're because I'm not saying it's okay, It's not okay at all. But what I'm saying is that's where the confusion could come because it's like, what do you do to this person? If I love you, I would leave you alone after that, leave you because I would know that that means this ship ain't going nowhere.

If we feel like that where you would feel like you could put your hands on me and hurt me, then I'm a question whether or not you love me. That's you know. I remember my ex boyfriend one time, he like we got into an argument and I was like, I'm not talking with you anymore. He slammed me on the bed, but it wasn't It didn't hurt me, but I felt crazy that he put his hands on me at all in any way, and I was like, yo, what are you doing? And he never he looked like

he looked more scared than I was. And he never ever did nothing like that and never did anything like that again. But after that, it kind of like changed how I felt about him. Remember one time somebody was playing with you that you were dating, and they like hit her about mistake. It wasn't like it was They was literally just playing and she was like no. She didn't speak to the dude for mad long and it was an accident. It was clearly like it was an accident.

She know you, I don't play games that like a guy can be, like a guy can be like this is my best friend, princess, that she could be like a guy could be like, um, let me see a perfect example, um My, damn mad pass me some catch and she was like, oh no, I'm not passing anything doing that. She's defending. Now she's get him away from me. He just caught like his approach is wrong. Guy's approach

is wrong, Like that's a no go. So I know if you raise your voice at me, I'm never working with you again because I feel like you screamed on me for any reason and you were disrespectful if you called me a hole, a bit and whatever, and I'm not working with you like me, you're cut off triggers. It's bad. I don't I got a gun. I pulled that trigger curve day because I don't want to with her'n yeah because we love Yeah, because I feel like this,

like I don't disrespect people like that. I never put my hands on anybody, and I don't like, I don't really scream on people like that. I'm mad, chilling, calm, So if you do that to me, there's no reason. I don't mind a little clean argument like to me, you got that's healthy. Like I feel like if we can't argue and get back to being cool, then you're not my friend. We could argue, but I don't need you screaming up. We can't argue fighting and fuck not

for the word the fucking part. It's so good at her, so good it'd be like, it's so weird, that's so weird to get the ship out of whenever, whenever you, whenever we get something to eat right before you, if we fight, calm down and go get the guys. Damn saying nothing looking you know, I haven't been through it all with the same person. I just feel like, like fucking but you're not. And I think it's fine to argue. But I think what's really important and in a relationship

is can you argue productively? Because there's arguments, But y'all scream, yell, fight, throw things, do all of that. That ship don't get you. You know you're not getting along and you have an argument, that argument should be an argument with y'all's still respectful to each other even in the course of having an argument.

And I'm not saying you gotta get along all the time, but if we get an argument and you like you bit you did me, yeah, and it should take time before you get to that point, you know what I mean? Like your first arguments at the beginning like the first year for six months all that first years, first two years should always be like you said, be very respectful. It should always be respectful. But trust me as you already you know as time passes, that would be like

you little, I know you do. I do that like a friend because you gotta star. I know you're doing hurts. I ain't gonna lie. You gotta get them wear it hurts. Yeah, everybody better than you did. You broke, broke, You're fishy. When I fight with my boyfriends, I try not to say things that I'm gonna regret. Right, I'm really good at that, are you. Yeah, I'm really good at that. Like if I start calling you like all kinds of bitches and bombs, it's because I don't care. It's because

I don't know what good point. Because when I was in my last relationship for seven years, there's just things that we knew, we both knew not what to say, and it was the situation was that bad that it was worthy of saying that thing that, but but we wouldn't say it just because we knew. So that is true. I feel like you, like I feel like um like her, like I'm very careful with what I say in arguments.

But like the other day, Oh my god, the other day I went, um, I was mad about something, and I went off, you know about this she you know what I'm talking about, and I killed like I've really killed him, Like what did you get mad? We need to know what it was about, naum in general terms. I I can't even there is no general terms for what I was mad about. It's just I was I was mad about something, and I really killed him. Listen,

all right. The bottom line is whatever I was mad for is not something that I would stopped working with

him over, you know what I mean. So this is my point, like I killed him over it, and even though he did something wrong, I ended up feeling bad because yeah, I killed him so hard like um, you know, and I feel like this is my problem in my situation that you know, I'll get so mad that he can spin me and make me feel like I did something right, and at the end I ended up good reverse psychology, and it's crazy, like the spin moves are crazy. But anyway back to that, that one time I wasn't

careful about what I said because I was drinking. That's the worst when you get drunk and say some ship that you regret and then you don't remember it, and then they'd be mad, be mad, embarrassed, and then they don't they don't even know why you mad, Like what

did I say? I woke up the next day. I wake up the next day, like, listen, you know I was drunk, right, but and now you trying to be you try to keep it in a moment like you know you weren't crazy to You're like, but um, you right, right, right right, But you try to clean up a little bit, and then you see your text messages like oh ship crazy, and then you see your snap and you'd be like, ship, it's like a fucking ship. Yeah. But you know, some things I feel like are like the point of no return.

So I don't know, I just feel like you gotta just really learned, I think, to be in a relationship, how to argue effectively so that you don't do things that are like unforgivable in life. I don't be planning it out like that. I'll just be going off. I'm not gonna lie. I'll be like this this that I don't be like all right. Point one is going to get to the conclusion of this. You just got to argue. Let's talk about this new phenomenon that people are doing, right,

people are getting penis whitening. Whitening, Oh my god, I don't hurt it at whitening, how you believe? Definitely? But like so you bleach, you know how? Like guys, your penis be like a different color than your body, A little bit darker. Yeah, because it's a little bit darker, only one is not on hard and then once it's on heartache's a little bit like like think about it.

No absolutely shrinking dick. It's darker when it's when it's soft, and then when it stretches out it does about to say, and so it's not a flatter, fooder color, you know what I mean. Like for the past six months it's been like a new procedure that people are actually going and getting laser whitening on their penis. Yeah, and the penis hurt. That's disgusting. It doesn't hurt what I do. Why would anybody want a wider penis? I don't think

they should come on darkening procedure? What about bleaching your asshole? I would do that? So why yeah, why? I don't know what's the purpose of happen for a reason. Some people need to bleach because from the skin rubbing up against each other, it just makes it look dirty, especially when you light skin and then you like, all right,

you don't know what my hair pout of it. But told example example, you know how some more some bigger African American people get those dark like they get those dark rings, bring around together like when they roll from together, and they get dark in the inside. So that's the same thing happens for asshole. Like from the skin rubbing, not just the whole, not just the whole, the whole inside of the butt crack, it gets like chafe. She's really see it and like, but she's Latino, but she's

really like like white skin and white skin. The inside of her thighs gets grayish from you know what I did, from rubbing again each other. So people booty holes look like that too. So I think you gotta get it when you bleach it. What is the process consist of? It's just cream. I don't know what my asshole looks like. Picture. I swear how I've looked in the mirror, bend over like I've never done. You never looked back at That's

how I want to know what look ship. No, yeah, like when you take a picture of it over a little more question. You don't have to answer a general question. I'm answer for anybody who ever wants to answer. Had anyone in here ever had or tried anal sex? So we talked about it. We talked about a half. I hadn't done it yet. I wish I couldn't. Joy, I want to talk about you to do it right. No, you know what's so funny My my gay friends, they

all say the same thing. Yeah, because my exactly this is what my I don't know her better than I don't know who you're gonna agree, But he says, you know, like the pussy has muscles and this a whole bunch of things going on in there, and then the asshole is just a whole you know. That's what my gay friends says. He doesn't see why why girls do an know?

I think a guy okay, Like, okay, Whenever I say this, some females, a lot of females feel offended, and so they'll be like, I don't know what you're talking abocause my pussy is tight. I'm like, I'm not saying you're pussy out tighter pussy isn't tight. I don't know. I'm just saying I feel like the reason why guys like ant or any guy would like you know it, is because they like the type feel of you know what I'm saying, like a tighter feel that saying pussy. So

I feel like maybe that's why they do it. That's the onely thing thing I can think of. I hate when girls be like, my man asked me for any other day, is he gay? My man must be gay because he trying to. I'm like, no, that doesn't make your man gay, just that he sees it's like it's like that's like imagine going to a buffet. And for a lot of guys it's a mental A lot of guys they do it right, and a lot of guys they just want to do it to get it off to they say they've done it true. I'm not gonna lie.

I think it's a little gay. You think so? I think I think a guy that wants to do it all that time might be okay now that now we're something that he said, what if a guy wants you to put a doll doing this? But is that gay? If you're a woman and I'm gonna tell you, like Peggy, let me tell you, let me tell you something like, let me tell you something. Right now, I know one girl. She's she's a prominent female minamy. I'm not going to say name that all guys. You guys know, we don't.

You're not related to her. Nothing, right, prominent female. She's very popular with her. She's like a very she's a model, beautiful, and she has show many videos snapchats of her having sexual relations with basketball players, NFL players, you know, men in the industry that do sports and stuff. And she's playing with the asshole with anal beads. Okay, so my god, there's nothing I mean right now, I think it's you know, I think it's yes, get your pleasure. That's what I'm

going to say. As a gay man, you can attest to there is a g spot, but a lot of guys are too scared to find. Yeah, and a lot of guys feel like it's it's homosexual for them too. But okay, ana beads, I don't think a dildo. There's a difference between an no beads and a dildo. Yeah, I don't about the Well, if you want like a full flesh. The shape of a penis the flesh and

all that. Like a strap on? What if a girl puts on a chap because there's still a woman doing it to you, so it's not I think anything past two fingers this question, even two fingers just question. I think anything past anything passed question. I don't think. I don't think a guy getting his ass eight is gay. I don't think. I don't think a guy UM wanted you to put your fingers around his ass and that's in that in that space in between the balls. I don't think it's gay for one finger in the ass.

I don't think. I don't think one finger in the ass is gay. I don't. I don't think so. But I'm not. And you're putting a fist in the eyes. It's a different. But what about a strap one? Though, I'm saying, if it's a woman doing it to you, it shouldn't be considered gay. I'm sorry, that's a shape of a dick. Yeah, something that a woman does. It's you, that's I mean, do y'all like do gay guys use dodos and stuff too? They point waiting far blood closed doors.

Let's play with each other's dicks. You know, it's like and for the gay people at least, you know what if you you just said that they have a dick, it doesn't matter. I mean, guys have dicks and they play with with I mean guys, straight guys have dicks and they play with girls with didos sometimes so not not often, right, I actually yeah, yes, I've seen guys all my girls girls with a dida. They have they just have they want to see there's pleasure and them

watching it go. I was thinking, it's kind of like having another person rules. Guys, you don't believe there's rules anything anything on earth, period. But I don't know. I feel like, um, if you have a boyfriend and he always wants to funk you in your rays, you made you know, he made like to funk men too. Yeah, I wouldn't be okay with fucking a guy that I'm dating, like with a dildo. Like another question, Yeah, okay, because I always ask people this, I think this is a

good question for y'all. So would y'all prefer for your man of like a long time that you love to cheat with you one time with a guy, or to cheat on you multiple times with the female rather one time with a guy the other way around. Wow, I think if your man cheats on you with a female, guess what that female is messy. She can say and go around tell everybody I fucked your nigga. That could be something that gets out. It's something that would tarnish

your apputation. It can embarrass you off. It isn't I don't give a dance, but it happens every dayby but a guy, right right, But a guy. I'm saying, if a guy would to cheat, it will be so it will never come out. That's not true. If I really don't just a less likely chance I would say of it coming out. Then if he cheated with you with a female, you know what I'm saying. That's one good reason, But I have another good reason. That's my only good reason.

I have another good reason because the option was multiple signs with a woman or many women, right, or just one time with one guy. So if he did it that one time with the guy, he obviously needed to get that off. It's something I can't provide, so he needed to get my reason, but in the opposite way because I can't. I can't compete with a penis. And I don't think that that should be shedding light and that should be saying because then it's not always I

can't what is it I say? I would rather I would rather my man cheat on me one time that cheat on me for me, my boyfriend of seven years, so I loved and he was like my all and everything, and I'm so I'm a scorpion. Jealousy is a cancer. Okay. So we had this conversation. I told him, I said, if you ever in your life another gay guy on me or another man on me while we're together, I'm

going to harm you. Okay, I would rather you. And then I said, followed up right after, I said, I would rather you cheat on me with the female, go fun pussy, because I know, at the end of the day she can't compete with me. Because at the end of the day, your assets, gay motherfucker, you're gonna get your boy. You are sucking gay like you know what

I'm saying. But on the opposite end, if a guy sucks another guy, he might be trying to repress the fact that he's gay and might really want that and I can't never conside that, and it might be something that he's like, that's you're signed it. It's time for you. You gotta taste of that penis and I can't. Maybe it's time for you to walk on. That means he wasn't man and it's time for him now to join his journey to beat did Now, Bobby, have you ever

had a penis that was too big and couldn't do it? Yes, that's the bottom. I'm sure you know obviously that he don't parental advisory. Before I said this, Yes, I have had a penis it was too big, and it's just in my mind. I knew automatically. Then I was like, condom, stay in my pocket because I'm just gonna give him some head inserting ship of that in me. I'll give some top got fun I have or fixation that maybe else have a or fixation or not. I love sucking

sick with all my heart and soul. Collelujah, praised the Lord. The problem. I think sometimes like when you start and I was just saying this, but you started sucking somebody's nick, you kind of want to finish, like if you start, but it's supposed to be like a pre you know, like we're saying it's a warm up. But I'm not gonna lie I was thinking about it when we were

talking about what it's like. I was thinking about it there every times that I'm doing the warm up dick suck, you know, the warm up dick suck, and he's like, all right, come on, alright, alright, alright, let's go get on top, and I'm like, no, give me a second,

like I'm enjoying this. And the best is when he's trying not to come, but he knows when he's try not to, and then you're like, okay, I can't stop now, right, yeah, and then that's all right, you go ahead and let him release and then give him a few minutes and then round two it's going to be even better than round one would have been, because basically that is so

crazy though. How man have to reset women? That's what I wish I had, no matter what how gay my ass wants to be, how much think, how much I think it right, it's like I have to after you release, after you come, you do need that recent moment, like it's like, but you're young, baby, you should be able to go quick. It happens, it does happen quick. But it's still like, I know I noticed that females because I've watched straight porn sometimes I like watching straight born.

So I noticed that females is like they'd be ready as soon as the stay come, y'all can come right after. And as soon as they come y'all looking like, bitch, what's up, I'm ready for more? You know what I'm saying that that is a talent, Bobby. None of your female friends have ever hit on the time. Yeah good looking? Really yeah, thank you all the time? And what do you say? No, but I don't ever respect the female anatomy. I just may be just not discussed, but I may

be thrown off by it. Like like, for example, like one of my homegirls, she always works with me. Whenever she's over or whatever, she comes out the shower and she'll be like she'll knock on my door or whatever, or she knows I'm in like frustrated something to Like, Bobby, I'd be like what she was like trying to like but like at the end of the day, no, like I was birth from a vagina, you know what I'm saying,

Like I came from Like that's what gives respect the vaginas. Yeah, I respect the vagina's girl, like hello, and that lot of gays try to emanate. Um is that the right word? I emulate? Emulate the female persona or you know what I'm saying. So at the end of the day, like no, there, it's never like no, like what about a three sime? Has that girl ever been like you know me and my many times I've been offering money to sleep with a wife and her husband. Yes, plenty of time. So

how much did you make off of that? Never? That's one of my porn categories. It'll be like wife, wife and husbanding. I don't I don't even want to talk about it because I'm still waiting on the link to this porn because she talked about it last I've been waiting much. Yes, like a cheater. It's like it's like where it's like it's the wife sucking a black man in front of the husband, whether he's like Asian, white, whatever,

but her husband is sucking the day. But it's so funny because if you notice, like the points started the guy, if he's like you can tell he's like completely straight, and when they start doing it, they'll be like in them poor and they'll be like, all right, nigga, enough for you now. But it's like that stuff like that. I don't like. I don't know, guys, I'll be drinking. It's your fault. It is your fault. So you wouldn't do a threesome though with a man. No, there's no telling.

I can never say never. I used to say I would never try a certain type of drug or whatever, and I've tried it. So it's like, you know, there's no telling. I'm twenty seven. Now I'm three years from thirty. Bitch, I'm about to be old ship whatever. That's a good thing.

But no, I'm like, I'm twenty seven. I feel like you know by age thirty five, forty is no You might like when you get rich, when you get a lot of money and you travel the world and you meet different people, you you're open to different experiences, you know what I'm saying. So there's no telling. You prefer being in a relationship of being single, and now I prefer being a single a lot love it. I love it. Being in a relationship is a liability. Funny job, it's

a job is a liability. It causes emotional heartbreak, it causes jealousy, it causes frustration. Part of your day, half of your day is going towards your relationship, whether you want to believe it or not, even if it's half of the day straight you're doing your your thing and the other half it's your relationship, or whether it's piece here of your relationship, piece this of your errands, piece back to your relationship is like always half and half

and it takes half of your life away. But being saying that how hard to say with thinking that people might want to just work with you because they've seen you on hip and they want to be on the show too. Yeah, but guess who at the end of the day, if you're cute enough and you have you have you got what it is. You know what I'm saying, You got what it takes. What's up? Application is open right now because I'm signed on to love and hip hop, you know what I'm saying, And right now I am.

I am looking for love. I'm a scorpion. I'm always looking for love. At the same time, my career is so important to me to the point where it's like, if I get it with every in relationship, I'm in one. If I'm not, Oh, well, do you think that if you didn't do love and Hip hop that you would still be with Jack's boyfriend right now. It definitely for sure the way that it happened, That's what I'm saying.

My storyline cannot be more real because the way that it happened, it was like, Oh, I already know it's about to happen. Because to be fun fact, his ex was on Love Hip Hop before me. He was signed on before me. Two years ago. When they started doing the pilot, the network and Mona Scott initially said, we're missing a few pieces to this puzzle and it's not

for me right right now. We need to add So they went on a scout to find initially epecially me, and then so they're like, okay, we found it, and they're like, we wanted to put the bearers by finally making having an opening gate person as main cast and making an opening because they never had that before. So it was like now they're like, okay, you're the one.

And then my ties of Trina just made it easier because I didn't go on there, Trina didn't get me on there, or I didn't go on there saying I'm treating cousin. Look, they reached out to me because I was doing my music as an openly gave rapper in Miami, and then when they found out I was treating his becausin it was just like the icing on the cake, right. So then back to what we're just saying now about

the love hip hop. So yeah, so like now at this point, I am, you know, I'm open even to have my own dating show on logo or something maybe something where I can try to find love because love for me has not worked out. It's like I keep having bad luck, but all I'm trying to find someone that I can be with for the rest of my life. I'm not I know, right, that's what you know. But

back to your question or I'm sorry. If it wasn't for love of hip hop, we would have definitely still been together because fun fact, like I said, he was on their first when they started interviewing us, They're like, how do you know? I don't know him from a candid pay And then when I told Jeffrey my my boyfriend at the time, I was like, yeah, so there's this gay boy on there. Then he's like, thanks to

be my ex. I said, shut up, And he made it seem to me like because we were in a real relationship, So he made it seems to me like you have no worries though, like I hate him, he hates me. We're good come to find out all this is going on. So it's like I was literally like watching it and like just going through the heartbreak at the same time like having it like like it was okay, you know what I'm saying. So at the end of

the day, I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm looking for someone they can they can give me like a long term type of situation, and until then I might also just date, be single and live my thought life even saying how is life? How is life? Life? Unless you're ready to come put a ring off, like I'm trying to be the first gay person has a wedding special on the on the network, Like let's make it happen.

If you're not trying to put a ring on his motherfucking finger right here, Like like Sierra said, yeah, you gotta walk into spirit. You got in the spirit of life and her husband will find you. Is that what you have to do is that I'm not gay no more.

I've been delivered. But listen, and you know Trina is a friend to the show, so is she now seeing like your star rising, and she's being more helpful because I know part of what was happening when you felt like, this is my cousin, Why aren't you helping me and my career? Because she's so successful. People love Trina, she loves Yeah, so I would I would have thought like, hello, helped me, But has it helped now? Because she's seen everything that you're doing. I'm sure she's like, all right,

let me bring my cousin. Okay, I'll say this much. I feel that I've worked hard enough now and I've proven myself hard enough now that she's willing to be like, okay, yeah, because now we do have more, we're more like, we're

way closer. But the show made us closer before this when we started feeling the moment our first seen, we got closer even like in the beginning when we got like there are security meetings and everything like our meetings and stuff before we started filming, Like, we started getting closer because she knew like, Okay, this is something we're about to do together, so let's kill it. Let's put off from Miami, and let's give them, you know what I'm saying, what they want. So we kind of started

getting and that made us closer. The show did make us closer, So I feel like that made her feel more comfortable to reach out to me because we weren't close before. And at least you know, you have each other's back because your family. Yeah we are. At the end of the day, I know she'll never let like, nothing truly foul happened to me, you know what I'm saying. And a vice versa. You know, Daddy tat you trick.

Daddy is my dog. That's my homeboard. Like we have a scene, we have a scene together, it's gonna show, You're gonna see it, and it's at a radio station or whatever. And he's always and I've had a conversation with him outside of the show. He's always giving me advice like, look, you're representing a community right now, and you have to do it to the fullest extent and be proud of what you are because you're good, You're talented.

You know what I'm saying. It has nothing to do yeah, it has nothing to do with the fact that, let's put that side right out. Your talented, So just use this platform you have and be that voice for the community. So he offers me a lot of positive advice, And did you put it in your contract that music is gonna be on the show and featured on the show and everything important? Yes, very very yeah, yeah my contract.

You know, I'm gonna be honest with you. Love hip hop contracts are very long, but as long as you have a good lawyer, you you're able to get through it and make it worse because they try to get her on Loving hip hop for real. Yeah, I had to get a lawyer for what city. Like you said, the contract is very long in New York. Yeah, I see you on it though, you but I mean, I don't know. I don't have television right now, so I don't know. I haven't been watching the shows. I don't

know how New York is going. But the problem was I just didn't fit in with the cast, you know, like I don't. You don't have any real relationships, haven't. Yeah, you have to have some type of time. Um, but yeah, my music will be paid. I have I have my own like I want to say episode, but I but it's like my whole thing where it's just all about my single releases. Yeah, my singor release party and then you're gonna drop it that day. I'll drop it that day at midnight. I'm like to put like a whole

radio run behind it, like I haven't labeled it. So you got a whole little set of plotting and planning for this day when it comes out. For this one song called way Up, which is super super dope, I feel like it's a game changer and um yeah, so yeah, of course congratulate, and we can attest to the fact that I met you even before two years ago. I used to be first of all, I was ove, what's going on? I was like going hard. I was like,

I was like, listen, you're gonna interview me. One day I was he came up to me and like, Moline aggravating, Like I was like aggy, but I was definitely drinking. But it was fun and I was Miami, yeah you're still me and you holding the revolt. Uh yeah, yes, I remember. It's really cute, like people good, I look good. I posted it. Yeah it's a it's a picture ahead of us with train that was in the background loss. And you know what, it's important because you have been

going hard to try to make this happen. So it's not just like you got on there and you made up apply trying to be like age fifteen. If you're on YouTube, but you see the music videos I've been uploaded, you see two down in twelve, two thousan eleven. Like, it's been like I've been trying to do the music thing whatever, and it's so hard, like being an openly gay rapper, because I really am good like and I know that I am standing outside of my body. I'm like, motherfucker,

you can wrap. But it's like there's always a gag to everything you are in life. There's always like something and the thing is I'm gay and it's so and then people think, well, what is the big deal? Why is it such a It's not a big deal, but people really do make it a big deal. DJs, the industry, everyone, it is a big deal. It's not comfortable. It's a safety issue. Always is a lot of things. And it's a lot of people that could look up to you that might have felt like this industry wasn't and they

couldn't be successful. And then they can see you right down that's happening actually, So now that's so inspired and I just can't wait. It's like a good year. It's a good I feel like a good interview feel life now was the perfect time. Yeah, you have a good platform. This could be a moment for you to make a big change in music. Serious. In fact, they're good luck finding love man. But in the meantime, you keep that

baby like this dating show idea. Yeah, like you remember how they had you Flavor of Love and you have I Love New York and then have a good name. I don't know, right, let's think of um, I'm Booty the Bobby I inpreciated the same though, engage you. I don't even think Logo would accept that side of Yeah, that was no. But I think it would be so dopeful me to try to find love on the show. That would be so fun. But I'm lowkey. I thought I told you that. You try to tell me before.

That's not cheaters. We're not cheaters. Were just we're just bous. Yeah. But one thing I could say about scorpios, even if they're promiscuous, when they get something that they like, they want more. They wanted a lot until they get tired of it. Yeah, and then they want at the variety. But then lying when they'll come back an takes discipline. You have to be a discipline now, let's go back. Yes we do. Yes, I'm telling you. When they get

something they like, they want it over. It's about the sign. At the same time, it's also about I go back to your background, how you're raised, personality, morals, what you believe. You know what I'm saying, because like you can be raised to be like I don't curse, Like I know, I have friends that don't say I don't. You don't curse. Yet we're trying to game. We actually trying to get a cut back. She got to pay a dollar every time she cursed, and she always Yeah yeah, Bobby, tiybody

how they could follow you? You guys can follow me on Instagram and Twitter as Bobby lights all together bo b b y l y t e s A right. Thank you so much, Bobby. We love you, will be supporting. I love you, Lorian. I love your stuff and your energy, and I have fun that this was even Oh there was a camera, yeah, recording. I don't. I thought we were just doing it. I just said, you know, I'm Abouttom must Oh and don't let me forget To remind you all, we do have our lip service to live.

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