Episode 122: Feat. Janeé Bolden

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That's it. I'm just Puerto Rican, Puerto Rican anymore. Now, Oh, come on, it's a Puerto Rican man and I'm white and I'm black, and she has she's not sure. I'm not sure yet because to be back to that one, I can't wait to say. Now I come back walks to the bank boom and guest we call her bee is and we allowed to say you work at bast Yeah, you're allowed, but late now because is like the editor and by stepisode and she said managing editor. So she

said something rude. That's Jenay had Honcho. No, I'm kidding with the captions for the UM some of them girls, some of them, but I'm really proud of my team. They really stuff it up. Then they'd be hilarious, Like you know how many people be so mad at me? Like your friend, Well, she said about your boss, so I don't funk with her. I'm like, well, we don't

funk with you. Thank you. Well, typically people might not like me before they meet me, but most of the time, if you meet me, you have to like me because I'm a nice person. I've been I've been in situations with Jenne where I've introduced her and as soon as people find ocially works for bass that they have a problem. That's happened. Yeah, and then five minutes later they want to give me a lap dance? Whoa that thing? And then five minutes after that she throwing money. I don't know, Jenney,

you don't know about that. We've been having a lot of issues, but they do end up fixing up. Especially when I lived in Atlanta, it was awful. I'm like, it's me hold on Jenny from Boston. Especially my friends I was on the housewise, they was not that did happen? I don't even watch the House. Oh you're talking about girl, that's funny. She came up in an interview I did recently, Claudia Jordan's. Yes, Claudia Jordan's. I would just say, yeah,

not Claudia, definitely. What happened was a case of another blogger saying that I felt some way about her and I didn't even know her. So it was like typical ship where I would say girls ship, but the other blogger is a guy. Guys girls, Yeah, so it was guys like doing girl. It was like, basically, she thought I said something where I felt some type of way,

but I didn't even know her. But I will say we had people who were mutual friends who they have issues now and stuff so right because and it was her and Memi because they're really good friends. Meemi from MEI loves me Atlanta, Well you know at a point in time. Let me find out today. But no, everything's cool now, like I haven't heard anyway, Like I'm friends with all three al but you've been my friend for longer.

And you know, nobody ever went to too crazy, but they did used to be like, I don't know why she doesn't like me. That was what people used to always say to me. Okay, so I think the thing about me. I'm kind of quiet, I'm laid back, I'm very I keep my circle small. Like Angela and I have been best friends for a long time. I have a best friend. I have two best friends actually, Angela and Rashawna. I don't have a need to be best friends with people because their celebrities. I'm not that kind

of person. Like entertainment is all good and well, that's how I make my money. However, I like to go home and hang out with my friends and be a normal person and not like care about stuff like that. I'm not. I don't care about taking pictures with people or popping bottles or how much money people have, like, but occasionally shall punka rapper. I just want to bring this up because Jane has been on the service before.

It was a long time ago when mere as serious and she got into it and it was almost send into a fight, it was, And I got in trouble for that because, um it was an artist. Saigon was up there. He was drunk. He was drunk, he had just put it. He just came from the studio, and um, Jane told him, so you like, he said, I punched

rappers all the time in the face. And she said, and then you run, She said, when you run, restipiece to Prodigy because Prodigy is the one that chased him out out of I believe it was sob yeah or something like that. As a matter of fact, we're gonna insert that audio right here. Ple ease, please please please. So after that incident, you guys had the fight, It wasn't that bad of a scuffle, was you know? I punched him in his face, that's it. Like I do that a lot, Like I punched at the face. And

then you have you ever punched in the face? And I'm asking you said, then I run? Did you watch the tape yes, while I was on the phone with you. So who did I run from the mob of thirty entourage members? You said you got your shots in and you was out? No, no, no, you can play that right now. It's on YouTube. I got the I went home. You want to call it if you want to call it running or what the fun? Was I supposed to stay for? No? I agree? Were I supposed to stay?

Shut them? Shut the funk up? Was I supposed to stay? Oh my god? Yeah, We're I supposed to stay? All right? Then? Shut the funk up thing? I quote it every day. Oh my god, it's my favorite, not my proudest moment, for sure, But I've definitely gotten in trouble from my smart mouth before, right sort people, If you don't know people and you have a smart mouth, there's certain things

like some people don't take well to that. I'm sure we all can, and I think my kinds when we said something smart to somebody that didn't know us like that, and I didn't go over too well. Certain guys don't like when you make gay jokes about them. Oh yeah, I had that happened before, That's true, that's what they Guys get very sensitive, like if you like joke around and make a gay joke. They get so mad and

you got me in trouble like that before though. You remember when I was talking to the guy you had introduced me to him, and he lived all the way across the country and we met up in Detroit and nothing went down, and you were like, he's gay, and he was like mad at me for a while. I was he because I said it. She was like she said it, and then I was like yeah, and ceresn't make sense. Why would you tell him that? Because I wanted I was trying to get some She was bossip.

This is pre this is press, So he wasn't BOSSI any of you ever had sex with somebody though it was gay, I did. I've had sex with someone I think is gay or bisexual, but I didn't know until after having sex with him. Did he do anything differently? Like, he likes fingers in his ass, so he likes more than one, he likes two fingers exactly, just had fingers when she talks anyway, right, So it wasn't easy for It wasn't hard for me to figure out that he

liked fingers in his ass. How do you figure that out? Does he ask me he was definitely the first guy I ever did it too, and he um, he did the scoop, you know what I mean, the nudge. He did a little quickness. How it was. I think I've told this story before on the show, but we'll say it again. I Um, I was like sucking his dick and he's like on his knees on the bed and I'm like on my knees on fours right, like, can you guys imagine exactly? I'm more art, right you guys,

can you get it position? Yeah, exactly, He's up on his knees like that, right, And so I had I I have the dick in the left hand, and I put my right hand like around his thigh and he like kind of like lodged back, like nudged towards the hand like he's kind of nudge stories it. Yeah, he was like, you know, so I was like, oh, and that was yes, And that was that was the first time. That was the first time. And I didn't go for it.

I didn't go for it at the time. No, not the first time, but I noticed it, like I took you know, add that to add that to the list of things. Added that after that. No, and then that same night we got drunk. That same night because it was in the morning. That was the you know exactly, that was the morning the morning joint, you know. And then we you know, we went through and we went about our day and then we got we went out to dinner, and we got drunk. And that's it. I

went down from there. Was this behole tight? That's a good question. Could have been doing it was all right? It was easy for me to put two fingers in there. Okay, that doesn't sound tight. Yeah, it wasn't the tightest I've ever felt. Was it wet? High and folk know about. What's funny is that this guy, um, this guy, it came out. It came out and like on like it came out. It came out like in the in the

blogs and things like that, that he was actually with boys. Okay, so probably he denies it, but that's how I came out. Would you have had sex with him again even if like what if he would have told you, you you know, at sometimes the sex was fired? Um, if I was single, I would still have sex with him to this day. Sex I mean, I don't. I mean, he says that he's straight, you know, what I mean, but the sexes fire.

I'm really attracted same. He had a good personality. I would probably if I wasn't with the guy that I'm with now, I probably would wouldn't mind having sex with one. All right, what you ever sex? What a guy you thought was gay? No, but I have a friend that y'all y'all know, that had sex with this guy. And she said that his booty hole was the widest booty

hoole she's ever seen. It was not that she touched that she saw because they was having the threesome and he was eating the other girl and he was like, and she said, his bootyhood was just open, just waiting for a fense. It was open, damn waiting for I want to fence somebody you obviously had, did you You didn't have sex that the guy I just have sex with. I still haven't had sex with them. Would you wait? We might have sex in the future. I don't know.

I wouldn't rule it out. Maybe I can't believe that. I'm not sure who this is now because I don't remember saying I thought somebody text me. Okay, Now, the guy to that date did a doubt with he was it was all right, I'm gonna tell you what it was. I didn't think he was gay until Christmas time came up, right and he had a watch on. He like, you like my watch? He probably listening this ship gonna be awful, but he was like, you like my watch? So I was like, yo, you know, y'all know how I think

I know who this is. So that he's like, he's like, oh, my homeboy. But for me for Christmas, why the fuck is your homeboy buying you a whole watch perot Fu Christmas? But like period, to me, that's weird, like it it was a stolely like that should just look bad. But recently, um, recently Pierre boughed Gucci Man some jewelry for his wedding and then he just turned around and board cuebo. I mean offset, I mean that Ric Flair Fair feel like

those are his artists though, like they like that. But I think it also ventures into remember when Baby and Wayne it was like daddy stuff and that was like that was weird. They kissed moments moment hip hop. Sorry, is that weird to you that they kiss in the mouth? Yes, awkward moment. It's not weird because um, you know I watched a lot of Mafia movies and they kiss on the but you're not. That wasn't on the chair. And

I think it's different. If you see the dude that you fucking see his homeboy and they go each other like the Mafia movies, they'd be like, God bless you, it's nice to see you kiss each other. Different, it's e kiss then no. But you know what I'm talking about. You know what I mean. That's some Italian mafia and stuff, but not on the mouth. So I've never seen an Italian Mafia movie. And they're like, the reason why they claimed to kiss on the mouth was because they were

quote unquote father and son. So is it appropriate for a real father and son? Daddy never kiss Okay, now what ages it? Does it become inappropriate for the father us the son on the lips? Nine? I don't think. Yeah, I think nine ish. I don't even think it's a baby. My dad kissed my brother on the lips. I don't think men should be kissing. I think it just depends on the culture too, Like I think some cultures are more like kissy kissy and others. My mother wanted her

lips until the day she died. I still say my mom, I kiss my mom my filmily different. I ain't kissed nobody didn't need that. Nine I kissed my song went to Disney World, but I stopped kissing my song on my mom My. Uncle used to kiss me in his mouth. He just it used to be awful. Look at it just used to be like if they was molested. I told you to say that, but it used to be really another. It used to be really sloppy like it was. It was a wet he got works, that's what it was.

Gonna get a better. I had an They used to give west slipe kisses, but they would be on the cheek, cheek okay, it would be like okay, but unless like he kiss on the mouth like they that's weird. She liked it so uncomfortable. So I've got to do that to your kids. Yeah I'm a fucking uncle. Yeah yeah. I had an ex col dad kissed me on the mouth. I thought that was weirdkword. My ex boyfriend his dad kissed me. No, I would realized that it was so he is not going to get it to be around

him again. Father, Girlfriends like, what the fund is going in here? Why did he just keep you damn commossible. As eleven, I just stopp kissing him in the mouth. Yeah, this year, I don't know what. I don't see a problem with the mother kissing the check boy though I still kissed my mom. But I kissed my mom and

my grandmother. It's definitely controversial because I know for Bassa we've done like that as a for discussion question, because I know kim Porter kissed I want to say Quincy in the mouth at like it was some event and everyone made like a big deal out of it. And I remember Lisa Ray same thing, she kissed her daughter Kai, And it's I think it's just when, especially when the children are a little bit older, it makes I think betimes,

it can be awkward seeing anybody kiss. But that's why sometimes it's like everybody is loving these pictures of Prince Harry with Megan Marko and they're like so much she pd A type pictures, And I think generally it's strange to me because typically like culture is frowns upon like p d A s and people looking affectionately. But I love to see jay Z and Beyonce kissing. It makes me feel like I've only seen them kiss like once. I feel when it was something it was a vacation. Yeah,

it was like not too long. No. I like the pictures were like when she was on the couch, there was on the couch together at Barclay's. They were like looking real lovey dovey and whatever. I love when they put out lovey dovey pictures, it makes my soul. I'm like, yeah, but Jack, but it's like only a few people. It's like them, Prince Harry and Megan Markle like everybody else, like Obama and Michelle. They'd be pretty affectionate. Yeah, Like I like the meme that's like when they whispers the

Savage later and it's Obama Michelle. I love. I don't do it personally, like I don't like to be I like, but I don't. I don't like to go overboard with it. Like I'm like the girl that's like rubbing my man's diy at dinner. I'm a girl that's trying to grab his dick under the table. Come on, g I I don't want to Sometimes that's been totally I think getting of my relationships by not being affectionate, like I've been like trying to give you like we that's my homie.

But like n see, I do the under the table thing, but like hold their hands walking around. I love that my hands off so they get, you know, sweaty. I don't want nobody all the mind. I think it's so sweet when my boyfriend holds my hand. I feel like I'm six walking across. I think it's set we get married. Like like when he kisses me on his cheek and we're sitting down, he puts his arm around me. Oh, I love that. I like when I would. I like when he likes to sit next to me when we

eat instead of a crusting me. Yeah, I like that too. I like that, but I like all that stuff privately, like not I mean, obviously you could sit in public next to each other, but like the other stuff, I kind of rather look at you like I don't know, like I could be next time we lived together, especially and something like that, like I'm always next to you, but I like to look at somebody like I don't know, I'm just different. I didn't. I'd rather sit and sit close.

But I'm like a cornball. If I couldn't hold my boyfriend's hand while I eat, I would do that. I would feed him and I sometimes the food I don't know. I don't like she's gotten in his mouth like a bird. That's what I wanted to regate your I want to do that if I see somebody do that the mouth of another person that they chewed like even a dog. Was that? That was nisty you have because he was like, I can't eat my lobster unless you chew it up. I got the lobster and I took it out my

mom and put it in his mouth. And that's how he ate his lobster. But the rest of the night it was, well, did your breast? He said, it tastes better when it came out my mom did. That's a little girl's sounds like he likes to gate his own company. I was gonna say, just like I like out that when I bust in your mouth and you put it back in mind, that's actually called the snowball. Wow. You know the terminology though about the real videos like snowball

before Oh my bad, remember that pink snowballs. It was like a dessert the whole I love it. I just digressed. We just went love from coming in the mouth and toasts because I think about pink snowballs and then it made me think of like blood for some means. I'm sorry, all right now I want to ask you at this and we never discussed this before, and has anybody in here ever used lubricant throwing sex for my for your butt? Okay that makes sense. Yeah, heavy ky liquid with the

regular bluetop one because it's the watery one. It's about I've used it for my butt, but and it's end up like all over the place. But it's nice. I like it. It's like I like it. No, I've never had but I heard of this trick that I want to try. I haven't tried it, but a friend of mine told me where you have baby oil, like if the guy's hitting you from behind when it's getting know, when it's getting good, you're supposed to toss the baby

oil like kind of like and his eye. Yeah, and it's a lot of down go down your back and go down your butt and then it gets all wet and it gets sexy. And then Portal swears by this trick and apparently like it's really good for when you need a guy to bust like immediate not but she you know, she's like trickling it down her neck. And I've never hit a baby oil or lubricant or nothing. Listen, one time a guy like this is has been. I think I would do that with cocon the oil instead

of baby oil. I don't like rum. I don't know how you can melt it first. I don't think one of that is supposed to be in your oil is way more safe for the vagina than baby the oil or the oily ship. It will cause you infections. That's the infections, bladder infections. What about Belvett. Shut up, it's gonna burn. I got a bath I promise, I says a stripper. I've definitely had alcohol poured on my naked body. And when alcohol touches your vagina, it fucking burns. She's

just screamed because it's alcohol. Yeah, so ain't nobody, but you didn't get an infection. That's an open wound. No, but you know what it put baby. If you put a baby on your bathtub, you can get like an infection. You see. Always not playing around. I'm so sensitive. I can't funk around with sometimes. God, my god, i'd be he'd be putting baby on you, on me. He likes that, you guys like that ship. Yeah, it's because it's like slide right sometimes, like yeah, like that's what we used

to do in the beginning. In the beginning, when we first started working with now, I'll be like, baby, what's up? You want to put the baby away on? He'd be like, no, what are you talking about? He got boring. He's like no, So that's a good little sneaky way to do it. Yeah, that's a nice little sneaky. So does anybody used luberant like for vaginal sex? That's what I'm saying. A guy did one time, like my first time having sex with him. He like pours and I'm like, what are you doing?

But the ship already on. I'm like, I don't need that, dude, Like you don't know. He's like, no, I need it. And I'm like, what the fund does he needed for? But it was some warming ship, like it got warm. Did you like it? It was not warm already? No? No, no, no, no, no, no, this is different. It's like a tingling warm like like should be warming. It was very hot, kay. Whoever put him onto that ship? It was like he was addicted to it, you know what I mean in his mind?

So now you and now I think about it. And I used to mess with this guy back in the day. It's like a couple of years ago, like five years ago, and he he every time we would have sex, he would use a lot of lou He had a real big dick though, so you so yeah, he would be like he like I asked him like every time big, like I asked him. I asked him. I remember asking him, like,

why every time you want to use it? Like I feel like, like you like my my pussy's wet, and he's like, nah, it's just you know, my dick is big. And I'm like, did you like it? Yeah, it's slippery. Sex was fired and I ain't gonna hurt you with the like you want to try, but just regular shop, not get the warming one because it's a different experience. Yeah. I never tried to try it. One time. I throw to this when you were talking about this guy is

big big. That's a I don't know, it's like a text you and that's how your new relationship is going. You say great with the little banana next the baby banana. You didn't found a big dick big outside banana the note. Have you guys ever learned anything from pooring that you like utilize in your sex life. Um, like, what are some things you know? It's interestingly I had a conversation on the Breakfast Club with a pastor and what he

was saying, which porn is just wrong. It was Carlin's, but he was saying that porn is just wrong and that people shouldn't watch porn. And it's like and I kind of didn't look at it that way, and people actually like I was crazy. I feel you feel like it's watched. After I'm done watching it, I'll be feeling like I'll be felt like he finishes it. Nobody finishes watching it. Depends to have why. I feel the same way when I have sex with a girl afterwards, I'm like,

like you guys having nothing? Yeah, girls, you got it? I think nasty. So maybe he's no. Every time I finished with porn, I'm like me right, because I'm not like that, And I'm looking at going again for like three months because I kind of normal point. I don't look at anything you ain't so vanilla on the soft porn. I like it's like a real situation, like they'd be having lingerie and they keep it off, they close it off. I like I like. I like man on woman point

like and five. That's my guys are just one guy guys. I like one like black like black people? Or is it like white people? It doesn't like watch white people? You know what? You know what? I like to see no pink like whaite people. I like the my wife, what is it what? I like? My wife like big black white me and my wife likes to share a big black cock. I like that. I'm not a white couple getting sun by a black man. They both getting by the big. First of all, you need to telling me.

First of all, I've been telling me about this porn and I've been looking for it and I can't find. You don't like me. It's in her camera video. Oh it's all up. I was looking at That's why, because I'm dying you out of search. Like that thing I like. I like. I like all the disgusting ship that I don't do. I like porn, but I like girls getting fisted. That's like. I don't like that. I like all ship. I like. I don't feel so dirty when you finish, I'll be a horse like stuff that I would horse.

I gotta see like three dicks in one ye like watch, ain't no sex like that ship. I just mean like them when the asshole starts opening up and like like, watch, do you guys watch point with the volume offer on on really really low or if it's the one they got to be really low. But when I'm like, okay, I watched them the story. But then once they start moaning and a faking this, I'll turn that ship down. But people like like the y'all know. I like the

y'all know. I like the lesbian um oh no, I never did this before it before the next thing, you know, before having flashbacks. Okay, she stuck in there like amateur poin like fake amateur. I'm making me feel even nastier because I like the sound. I'm the only person like about the micro guy you when he would be talking about the man. What if they're not talking English. No, I don't watch that's oh no, I like on once on Stock. But I'm watching the Rust of the Boa.

I'm watching the rus be a lot of Asian ones. As the Asian Asian porn. It beat the massage. It be the massage porn. If not like the like the massage a massage almost like the I like it with girl on girl like they don't know they're about to get so you're popping, like but you next next that she rubbing on your butt and then her thumb slip up into the crack real quick, and then she fingering you would that's baby at that's the baby you're having.

And then this stuff is the like this at the same don't mind you want to get that, y'all know, I don't want to say it. I'm so glad you said it, Lorial, I didn't. You can tell. And she like this with her thumb and ship she said, that's when you sneak your thumbing there. Moister it up. I've just leaded my third menstrual cycle without having any sexual acts. Wait, so I'm going through some things. So if the cob

webs are for me, okay, the definitely for me. And if you had a choice, would you rather have sex before you go to bed or in the morning? First day? Morning? Bad? Start your day? Right? If I'm drunk, I want to do it before I go can before I go to bed too, because you know, you get your shipped off, you come and then you're like, okay, good night, that was a great day. That's a great day. Thank you God. I like morning sex though, but morning sex is cool too,

but a fast one. It's like a morning quickie, quick five ten minutes, good wady to start the day. Morning sex. I'd like to give morning head. It makes me feel accomplished, like, okay, baby, get out there you. I like the sun thick in the morning, but I want to brush my teeth first. Yeah, I want. I'm brushing my teeth. I don't like the way that your mouth feels the spit and slimy, and the spit is like the brush your teeth. Yeah, I

brush my teth, not wake up my breast. So it's not even really it's the texture of my morning spit that I don't like. So I want to my breast thinks in the morning. Brush. You gotta brush something, yeah, and then I'm ready to go in. You gotta brush your teeth after you get come shot in your mouth too, so you might as well help fight ginger. Listen, brush after when you guys, when a guy comes in your mouth, when your man comes in your mouth, do you kiss

him to like after after you swell. You don't have to get up and tell your mouth. You can give him a pet kiss. But not a like, come me a baby. I always my mouth exactly the time. Every time I comes in my mouth, I'm like, I swallow it so much fun. And I go to the bathroom, I'm running to spit the ship out in the sink and I will do that. That's what I'm saying. Like I'm like wiping the tears and then I'm like, okay, never cried during it, but I know, I know guys

like nose right, crying tear not bubbles. You know. The tears just formulate while you're sucking the dick. It's just and it trickles down your face like they're really sad. But I don't do that my nose. The noise just like it's like you because you'll be sucking the ship out of it. Ears, nose, and throat. It's all connected. Tears, nose, and throat is all connected, you know. So it'll yea like going to plane. And that has happened to me while sucking, Like you know, your your ear gets a

little claw. I never happened at me. It's all connected in your head, your ears and nose, your throat, your mouth is all connected in your I found out that guys don't like after they come, and you keep like while they're coming, you keep on sucking even after some of them, some of them doing, some of them, they can't take it. I even just touching. They're like, oh my god, you come when I come from a mouth

on my vagina. Don't touch me, don't even lick, don't lick my nipples, don't touch my pussy, don't even lick my ear low you don't. I don't have multi yeah, but now I have to get like that's the only way that I come. The only thing I like to be touched with after I come from getting oral sex is the dick. That's it. And then you know, everything just false to place. My body starts like, don't lick

my neck, just put your dick in. So wait, they ny you could come multiple times from yet click like after you come, you can't even take you all to go in first of all, come multiple times, and then squirt like the multiple the multiple one is what makes the squirt happen, right, Okay, Well, so it's not se don't have sex and podcast I secure the secure I'm getting like it's too late and isn't it well, But it's like I just think, like it's too sensitive for me.

Like whenever you go to even brush it air package and I'm like, oh, yeah, the best is when you come and then from our sex and then he has sex with you right after you have to do Yeah, that's sometimes I can't so like sometimes I'm done, Like I'm like not, dude, yeah, but you know I have not one for even I could be. I'll give your hand job. I'll still take the dick. It's good after you want to hand on the year from my hand job your husband, remember that hand It was one hand job.

We talked about it forever. It would be a year back. You know, it'll be a year of March. It's been a year already, happened the March hand job anniversary. I mean, you guys give another Hans Anniversary, had Hans Aniversary hand job versary. But you know what, I haven't given a handjubb be in a long time. But you know what I do like when you're getting into with the guy and his um he gets wet, you know how, like the little tips. I love that. I like that. I

love pre come up. I like to it just like when I see that, why are you looking the mic? It doesn't have. It's been a while for damns, like getting so big and black, like a like Harry, But now I think that's great. And like I like when he has a little preak coming then you like rub it over his dick and the whole dick had not it looks like a plum. Yeah, and you put you put it like you rub it around with your thumb. Yeah, clearly,

so nice. It's so nice to talk about it. Have you ever been so loud in the bedroom that you feel like um? So you were in a hotel that the neighbors like, oh, absolutely, yeah, I don't care to go ahead, go ahead. Not me personally, but once I was staying and at this hotel and we could hear the people having sex, like and it was it wasn't even right next door, it was like a ways away.

And I had friends. Actually Julia was at the hotel and she was like, let's go see who it is, and like she went outside the door and was like videotaping outside their door. I jerked off to that. Later on she did jerk off. I feel like um in my younger years, like when I first I was louder having sex, I feel like now I'm more I go with the mood like I feel. I find that guys don't want you to be like every stroke. Guys don't want to talk yeah, or even know. But that's another

thing are used coming up. I used to talk a lot. I used to always be talking during sex. And you know what, guys don't really want to hear her that either, like they at least I found in my personal they want to hear it, but not so much like you know, throwing in a little phrase. It's nice. Yeah, but I know I used to be talking up the whole time. I used to be talking the whole time. There was like being shut out so much. It like yeah me,

fuck me, fuck me, oh my god, daddy this. I used to just be talking because some guys like that, so French talk English everything. So I started dating. But I started dating this guy and he was a little older than me. He was in his forties and he like he with dad, tell me like, you're so after him. Since him, I kind of like, I d you know, toned it down a little bit. Now I can't. I don't. I don't. If it's loud, it's because that's the mood, and the mood is loud, like I'm not trying to

be you know what. I told the guy to shut up the guy. Yes, I've told the guy to shut up because I'm stuck in his He's asking me questions. I'm not do you want to get that? For these questions? What is it like you? No? No, don't ask your question. You're like not like, give me the spit cup first, you do a song language. Have you ever done with that guy that doesn't like oral sex, like, doesn't like

to get his dick. Yes, I've heard guys that say they like I've never heard anybody say they don't like it, But I've heard guy say that they can't come from it. I've heard that, and I'm not about to try to be the one to make you okay. Please every guy that has said to me, oh, I never came for I can't come from from getting my I make them

come from you know that. I'm trying to take that you can't do it, then that mean I'm only gonna do it for about five minutes and then we want to the next This from like, oh you never came from get your dick, come in, go your past down, pull your dick out. You even try me like more for me, more for me, So you never tried and wasn't able to get it done. Yeah, I mean like worse when you're getting like locked off because I don't like the top party you lit right here, like your

tea tea. What about when somebody's just intent on shoving it down your throat and you're like shoving, don't choke me what you did? I don't that's disrespect. I like it. It's kind of I don't know. I don't like it when it's like, have you ever thrown up on it? Like gags so hard? Yeah? I have. The best is when you throw up and catch it and swallow it. He didn't even know. I think he'd be knowing, but he don't say nothing because he wanted to keep getting

his dick. What time that happened to me? And the guy was like what it was like? He was like, you threw up? He felt he must have felt it because it made him like kind of switch you have to get that shut on me? No, but it came up and I swallowed it right back up a lot of a lot of sacrifices. I thought you were saying, like you threw up through your nose. No, not through my nose. But that what I'm saying burns. I've definitely had some stot coming off my nose a couple of times.

He don't care, like, oh, I've never been had sex with somebody else in the room, like say you with your your boom or whoever, and somebody else was in

the room, like his boy or something like that. It was a hotel, not since like you know, when my younger days in the day, you know what, Me and my home girl, me and one of my best friends, we used to like date guys that were friends and then we would like go out on double dates and then we would go to a hotel and they would get one room with bits but no right, but that's the last time. I can't remember somebody besides the three sume or something like that. You know. That's one time.

One time, one of my friends she was hanging. She came like third wheel on a day with me and my boyfriend. This was like a couple of years ago, and whatever. She got washed up drunk, so we brought her to the hotel with us and we let her sleep on the couch. It was like a sweet and we definitely had sex while she was sleeping on the time, but she was sleepy. But she was so drunk that the hotel didn't had got her. They didn't want to let her into the elevator walking they got her wheel

show what happened? Yeah, what they got hurt for? We were we were taking shot some sequila. She wasn't me and my boyfriend. This was when I first broke up with my son's father, and it was like me and this guy that I was dating at the time. We used to go nuts, like we used to drink, Like we would wake up in the morning and be like, oh, let's have a shot. It's party time. So we had her. Were like we were still like ready for more and she was there like I can't live anymore. Oh my god.

Now she was like homeless, like she was like one of my gosh, getting all that. She's like us to sleep in my I was gonna sat her to my apartment, but she was sucked up. I was like, I can't disabled now what have that had food in the bedroom? She's like great fruit? Like great fruit or like you're watching no, but what is that? Who? What was that when they did the Great Fruit girl? But did you have a cho like that before? I didn't. They could say it burned. Yea, I would think a great food

would burn. Why did she even tell them to do that? Because they her friends? There was some Instagram ship it's a whole trick or yea. So nobody's ever tried that. Ye what about any other any of us know about any other kind of You'll never used food like chocolate before the Corny Star exactly chocolate Cornery. Ice Ice got a story. She's ship Ice is good. It's a third party story when used. There's a very popular NBA player who likes to stick ice in the vagina before he

puts his penis in it. First of all, I can't wait for you to some like multiple ice cube. He wants the pussy cold corps and I feel like that would be painful for me. Right, he probably sucks dead bitches. I think, I feel like I think, I feel like he's fucked so many. I felt like I feel like he had so much pussy that he did had to start getting creative with it in order. The next step is a butthole in a man's eye. I mean this

was I was. I was in the house when it happened, and then when we left the house, she was that girl. He stuck ice cubes in my pussy and I was like, oh, how she said it was the weirdest ship ever. I don't know that, but she did it. I let that well my ax. He put a fucking this is disgusting. I'm sorry, but I'm gonna tell it anyway. Fucking that's not my pussy. No, but it made him melt. But it makes you feel like after that because that sounds like,

you know what, it's crazy. I didn't. I really didn't like. And it's weird because I am super sensident, but I didn't like. He must say out like it must have been organic, and I didn't have any I didn't have anyone high it wasn't It might have been one of those like I want to do it again. Man. Back in the day, I have one chance with ice cream and it was horrible. I was a long way to Yeah,

I drunk, wasted and whatever. The guy he was like eating my pussy and I'm like, all right, cool and then like I'm drunk and I look up and he's gone, I'm like, oh my god, and he was good and I'm like all right. So I just like kind of dozed off a little bit, and then he came back. When I screamed about my box, I was like half asleep, drunk. It was like the worst thing that ever happened. But it's like, I said, what are you doing? I was like, no, no, I'm right. That sounds like I just want to give

us something. I had an oatmeal instever, Yeah, and I don't think it's so weird. In the morning, it's not very appealing. It probably looked like we had that towel and it was like oatmeal. It was warm, and we had got that for breakfast. He stuck a sick and oat He said to put the oatmeal and it was warm, but it just didn't look good. It looks bumpy and nest. Look like heard. You should have just made a face

shot out of the oatmeal. Carter. You know what I just saw on the blogs that season for black Ink actually had a U T I I didn't know guys could get those? Am I ignorant for that? How? You know? Yeah? Guys later infections? Yeah, you're what happened. I didn't get it. I don't know. But more what you call it STD, because it's not even a ST is a s C. They consider it a s google the Yeah it is.

Actually you can't get the medicine. Well you can, but they're not entusias and more common in women than men because they're your shorter and then bacteria needs to travel a shorter distance. It's unlike short transmitted infect the woman because if that could have been trick owners, that could have been clam u t I is in a s nor spi CARDI look up stf Carly. He was talking about that reality stirs. I don't care. I just holded a weed party. With the weed party, he looked like

he smoked weed, a lot of weed. He looked like nice are sexually transmittable. Yeah, but it doesn't have to be like that man to a woman. Yeah, but I don't think a man could get back to real value that they but there, dick there, calm can give it to us. They also give it to you when they're having sex with multiple women. Oh my god, you could die from it, Jesus Christ. It's just without uti treatment, the infection can quickly spread and become a serious, sometimes

even fatal. Yeah, that's probably like years, years and yearn with I'm sorry. I couldn't even go a day with a damn bladder infecttion. Well a man might be different like ye putting me as think and you have a whole bunch of problems if you have a U T. I. But a man with his dick on smell like burn balls. Yeah he is burning. Let me see. You need a Q tip up that ship. It's not gonna like its r anything. No, it burns. They don't have nothing to I guess what about the little hole burns? Yeah, they

be havn't shaved that stuff? Drip out? Isn't that what? That was a Bassip story that I saw. That was radar That was Radar online, he said. I said, I'm Bassip though, but we got it from Radar online. Okay, what is dripping? Yeah? Let it burn? Little Caesar he said, Oh Caesar with the std Yeah, with the U T I. Yeah, come on, I'm confused, s T I. You can't big story. I'm Bassip for the year. I feel like it was Cardian upset. I thought it was gonna be Kevin Hart

as far as like the most popular one. Yeah, I feel like people already kind of knew, you know, that was a big day though, like with the video and everything like that was definitely a big one and um trying to think what Cardie and AusAID getting engaged. Yeah, and then when all of the Kardashians was pregnant at the same time, that was kind of like what about Nikki and Remy? Oh she was huge When that came out,

there was I ain't gonna lie. I heard that. I was like, this is no. I think we were talking that day when and we was like what the group was? The group chat was lit? The group? What about our story that we might not have known about in the public that y'all didn't really post on busset? Well, there is one I heard of this rapper who's bisexual. Whoa, I know who it is and we didn't post it? Why not? I'm just curious? So was he? Uh? The source was too close him to the person that he's with.

Why would they tell why? Because they just swore me to silence. I mean, but they just told you. So there's a lot of things you know that you can there's all I mean, like the thing about me, and this is why I say, like, it's kind of whack when people are like they don't you know, they're worried about what I might say or whatever. I always put my relationships before everything else. So anything anybody tells me,

like literally, g has been around me multiple times. You've been around me multiple times, and I'm sure there have been things that I've asked you after we had the conversation and said like, hey, is there a way that I could put this out without people knowing that I found out from you? Like, that's how I would go

about it. I wouldn't just like put you like we won't be out at dinner or talking about something and I'm just like yeah, And if you say no, Jene, I'm like, all right, cool, you see Jane, You'll be somewhere. She'd be there with her camera to me. One day, I was like, but put your came right down. She was like all right, all right. Well yeah, I mean I think that's important though, because you do have a lot of information, but it's not information I do too. Yeah,

you do. I'll be hearing a lot of ship. I'll bear it too, because yeah, and then I think sometimes too, it's like certain things that you have to be responsible about. I think, especially in this state an age, like outing people for being gay or by I don't think it's really cool just because I think that it's such a difficult thing sometimes for people to come out, and it's like people kill themselves over these type of situations. People,

you know what I'm saying. And what about cheating? Cheating? I mean, that's that's a whole different story. Like when people say they're scared of being on bossup sometimes I'm like, well, if you don't do anything to get messed up, you know you, you know, you don't have any even to worry about. You wouldn't be on BOSSA for any like even like how you said Stephanie, like you've probably only been on Boston for something positive. You haven't been on

there for anything negative. Is one of the better ones for be thank you. But you know, people cheating, I think, you know, like I think it's dead ass wrong. And I think that's why, especially in Kevin Hart's case, it was like in his best interest to apologize even before the tape was leaking. Can you do? Yeah, So your biggest stories, you say it was Offsett and Cutty, I think so. I mean I think that Kevin Hart was another big one. Remy and Nikki Beef was huge, Nikki

and Nas was pretty big. So it's that true because I felt like some people still be feeling like, I mean, clearly he's not even like that, and they were like he was like kissing her. Yeah, I think the jungle video came out where it was like he wasn't only aware that that was being filmed and they were drunk

and they were kissing. It's that I missed that. Yeah, what about the people ever give you stories that aren't really like trying to plant something that that happens as well, And I think, like my gut has you always have to kind of go with your gut and what feels right, and I typically will always try to confirm, like and reach out especially if I know, like the manager of the publicist or whatever, like this is what's going on. We also have stepped up in terms of the legal

research that we've been doing. I have a writer who really specialized. She specializes in court reporting, so she pulls documents all the time, and certain people she'll like do research and kind of just look to see if there's any cases on them or whatever, and we'll get exclusives like that, what about Messica and another girl? Like the sky? Has that been a big story? That was a really big story? Mosca actually I think is really good for blogs, Like,

I think she has a big future. I honestly would like to see her do something beyond the reality stuff that she's done, because I think people really are attracted

to her, you know. I think she had she pops a lot of stuff and I think it can go either way, and I think she should definitely be careful because especially when you're dealing in situations like the one she had with Nipsey, where you know, even I learned from experience from what happened with me and Saigon, Like sometimes when you're talking when you're popping ship with a guy and then into them, yeah, it could get real ugly.

And I mean not every man is going to be respectful and like because you know, yeah, because you're a woman. Like sometimes you can't just think, oh, because I'm a woman this, And I think you should be really careful sometimes when you're talking all that like oh he wears a dress or he wears heels or whatever else. I think that's just something you you just gotta tread lightly when it comes to that territory it. I do think that Messka has done well for herself making the best

out of her situation. I think she you know has especially in doing the stuff for her daughter's haircare all that type of stuff like that's been great. And I think also even with the courting the controversy, I think she's done a good job of keeping her name out there. I think it could get really touchy, like you know, especially with the reality shows and stuff like that. I mean, yeah,

you know, I know about those. Speaking of reality shows, I know another thing like when you said something about the fake stories and stuff like that, the Kurt and Rashida story where they said that that's not really his kid. They made it up for storylines, Like so, how do you approach like, how would you approach somebody from Love and Hip Hop? Like, we're not helping y'all get this show. Yeah, well, I mean we've never really worked with the network like that,

so I wouldn't. In that particular case, it actually was a case, a court case where she had filed, you know, and there was rumors before that that we're saying, oh, he had a kid or whatever, and then once we saw the court papers, it was like there's actual proof and doctor, you know, someone is saying they had an affair with him. This is what happened, and she she did have a paternity test done. Now I feel like obviously they're dragging this whole thing out for the TV

show because nothing has been said since then. We recently did a story about the case being dismissed, and people really have to stay tuned because just because the case was dismissed, that doesn't mean that he's not the father. A lot of things can happen in courts where if you don't show up to a hearing, if you don't file certain paperwork by a certain date, things can get thrown out by technicality. And that's actually what happened in

this case with Jasmine Washington and Kirk Frost. But I think the thing where reality shows and we've seen this time and time again, and those stories are always really popular, like the divorces, those relationships. Like, if you know you're in a relationship and you guys already have relationship issues, do not go do a reality TV show because they need something for a storyline and your relationship is going to be front and center, Tara to they will definitely

tear it apart. And not only that, but it attracts like you're attracting people to your situation anyway. Now you have TV cameras, You're gonna look more attractive to someone who wouldn't be interested in you if you were nobody, you know. So, I think that's just a situation that's set up to like failure, for people to fail. Yeah, relationships to fail. Well, Ms jenay Bold, and we appreciate you so much for coming through Lift Service. Thank you for having me and I had fun. She's definitely one

of our freakiest friends. But people don't look, people don't know. But you know, she looks so innocent with her curls. She will sit on your face. Whoa whoa curl? Ride that beard like a Sodia. You see what I'm saying. If you have a beard, how let your girl? Alright? Lift Service