Episode 106: Feat. Andra Fuller

the tip of the Day. And just so you know, Andre Fuller is in that new movie too, to the game that everybody here is excited to see. We might have seen it by the time this comes out, right, it's our favorite book hopefully, But usually we started for the tip of the day. Now, how do you tell your ex's inside pieces that you're in a relationship when it's time or do you? Oh? I think I think for the dudes, man, the most consistent exit strategies you

just kind of just you savorties. You just slowly stopped communicating. You don't tell them. It's hard to do the man, dudes, That's that's what we struggle with. That's why we get caught off all the time. Because we we don't like to tell them, you know what I'm saying, because we don't know. You know that that little relationship you so you're so eager about, might fall off in three weeks and you got to get that get back. You know

what I'm saying. That's whack. Even somebody has like a backup plan basically kind of emergency glass breaking case of emergency in the cut is what we call it. You got to keep one in the cut awful. Yeah, I wasn't expecting that. I thought you get a text or something. Now what about you, Stephanie. I I go with his plan. I go with plan age just slowly stopped communicating, you know what I mean, like fade out, not answer a text,

you know, stop answering cold, just fade out. I honestly don't feel like it's anybody's business when I'm doing for me to tell them tell my new thing about my old things, or my old things about what I got going on now, like you know, if it's time to move on. I'm definitely not the type of person who's just up front about it, like, hey I met somebody else.

But what I mean, they're your side pieces and you're you know, it's not like it's somebody you were in a relationship with, you mean well and honestly, And the times that I am telling the like guy because I don't know what a side piece sounds like somebody you cheating all your boyfriend with benefits. Yeah, just somebody you

were seeing. Somebody you were seeing you know, here and there and it didn't get serious, right, But do you like them enough that if they hit you up and they're like no, and it was good, like what happened when I happened. That's what I'm saying. Like at any time, there's been that time that somebody who I wasn't serious with it's like hitting me up and they're like, oh, you just disappear, blah blah blah, and I end up having to tell them like, oh, it's because I got

somebody else. It's never in a nice way. It's always like, yeah, because I'm seeing somebody else, you know what I mean? And yeah, exactly. It's never like, oh no, I apologize the thing was so Yeah, I'm not a good person to ask for this advice. I go for the immature round. I go for the guy, where like Andrey, Yeah, I go for the the guy, what about. I've had a few fade to black moments myself, but I've also had a few moments where I was up front, what works better.

I'm in something right now, so you know, literally, you know, not being you as much, but um, it works better to just fade to black because and you know, you kind of just they get the picture after a while, right, and then they get the picture when they see you on social media, they're like, I see the picture. Sometimes sometimes dudes don't get the picture. I had this problem with my ex girlfriend. She was trying to do the fade to black method and just slowly star communicating people.

Dudes will hit you back nine months later. Hey you yeah, just trying to just trying to poke the best you might ask you to say. He used to tell me, like, listen, you gotta tell these guys stop hitting you up, because you got a man. They're never gonna stop. They're gonna keep trying. They're gonna keep trying to play the lotto until they win. Is that you them? I just feel like, you know what, if it gets that serious, just change your number. Damn you really not trying to tell my number?

A couple of people, but I'm not telling. I mean, it's just I don't know. I changed my number before. That was a mistake, and yeah I have to and that's always a mistake. I don't think. I don't think you should ever change your number for somebody unless you guys are engaged. You're a boss to be married, you know what I mean. And that's your final stop. You know for sure that that's your final stop finally because you will regret it. Yeah, you over girth that maybe

just to spend service. But but you were saying, like when I feel like when you tell them, it leaves a bad taste in their mouth, you know what I mean, Like when you tell somebody, oh, listen, I don't want to see you anymore, like that because I'm dealing with X, Y and Z, it leaves a bad taste in their mouth. Like but again, if it was just something casual and it wasn't a real n they should understand. They should be like, man, hit me when when he what if?

What if? Okay, example, the person that you're seeing all of the all that they wanted and they were up front what you and told you like I don't want a relationship, you know, we can just do a casual thing, and then you find somebody that really wants a relationship. They can't be mad because somebody's offered them that offering you what they didn't want to give you. What do you say? I felt like if you tell somebody you're in a relationship, like they won't stop, like period, Like

I've done that before. Like, let's I'm in a relationship. I gotta leave you alone. They do what just keep calling me and be like, Wow, I know you're in a relationship at all, but you want to go to dinner like I just told you. That was the problem I had with my extra. Would try to tell these dudes like, look, I gotta I gotta do now, Like you know what I'm saying, don't hit me up. Gotta

and niggas is persistent. So I used to tell her that in order for you to get that dude to stop hitting you up, you gotta you gotta like low key embarrass him. Yeah, you gotta at that dude that's persisting like that. It just won't stop. You gotta be like, look, they ain't got nothing for you, like you whack like for hitting me up. Still, like you gotta say something.

I agree, And it's different kind of way though, because like when I want to like back away from somebody, I just started being really mean to them, and I could be extremely mean. So it gets to the point thoughts a New York thing. Yeah, I mean I'm the same way, like reason because I love that they work. It works again, stuff away from you, nonstime and work. Sometimes it depends on how mean you are, Like, I can be really nasty and you'll get to the point

where you just don't like me. I can. I can if I don't like you, or if I like I could be really cool, really nice. But if I don't like you, oh no, no, no, just stay away from me because I'm going to embarrass. That's the that's what I would do that all right. Now, let's play a little game. It's called the number one, all right, and you're gonna give your number one reason not number one, two and three, but number one. Okay, number one? What's

not what you're number one thing that men lie about? Uh? The number of sexual partners? Really? People asking yeah, immature chicks because I'm mature chick. No, she don't get the real number. No way, what's the number seven? To come up with? Thirty sevens? My story. I'm sticking to the number capital and Mike fell off and you're thirty eight. If you're lucky, play your cards right, you're lucky thirty eight? Yeah? All right? Uh now, what's the number one thing that

women lie about? If you had to guess, and then we'll tell you the truth? Strike my answer, I'm gonna redo my answeres because the number one thing women lie about is the number niggers they fuck. Number one thing, hands down, all that I can count on one hand to hand, Yeah, times, yeah, whatever and over again. Yeah. But the number the number one thing that women lie about is their sexual partners. The number one thing that dudes lie about is um they hight really yeah yeah,

I'm six one, five teen Si. Yeah, that's a random thing. Okay, Stephanie, what would you say is the number one thing that men lie about? Um? If you had to guess, the number one thing I think men live is their feelings, like their emotions. That okay, guys are never honest about their feelings and emotions. They'll they'll hold it in either it's much in or it's much out. It's knowing between who men. That's what I think. That's that makes right I think men do die. What do you say I

would sleep from I would? I think that's number two. Right, everybody has a different I was sleeping, i'd be really sleep yeah, right, really be sleep though I was sleep, I was tired, had a long day. What do you think for men? I think men like the most about their relationship status. That's very true. Like we're going through a rough patch, is now working out? I'm not happy to me, Rather they're in a relationship or I'm single. I'm single, the whole relationship were separated. Yeah, you don't

know it, but we are separated. Took your whole family to Disney World last weekend, took the family pictures with the Mickey mouse is we don't have X anymore? Oh god, that's the guy like, I don't use that. I don't. I don't sleep with my baby. Yeah alright. So as women, what's the nuber one thing that we like about age? I'm busy, I'm on my period period. What women do? That's you that you're born as soon as you get your period, that's your number one lie. That's you're born out.

That that's your automatic set period. That's you're in the gym. I don't want to. I don't want to. I don't want to participate because I have my period. I hope put a whole tampon and I can't go swim today. Yes, I want to see you put it. Try tap tap to have a Yeah, I don't like a light one. I told you I empty it in the trash can just so he could see the rappers and stuff. And I'll purposely leave a tampon out like and I don't be having blood on it. That's that's your number one everyone.

As soon as you get your period, that you gotta lie on your boom. I would say orgasm. Women at some point live about having an orgasm. I kid you, come, no, I ain't had that. I don't have that problem every single time I get to work another and I couldna lie. When I was younger, I used to fake it a lot. But in my in in the past couple of years, it's just not worth it. It's a waste of time

to fake it. I think that sometimes you can have an orgasm like ninety percent at a time and a guy is so disappointed if, like once, it just doesn't happen. And sometimes it's just not gonna happen. So if they normally can make it happen, and it's one time, two times it doesn't happen, you know, yes, then they gotta eat it. Like I don't understand what we're talking about.

Sometimes I don't even he come. But sometimes you do not even really feel like it, like you never have sex with somebody and you're not necessarily in the move, but you know they are all right. No even sometimes I'm not even in the moods to just later and get get my pussy eight. You know what I mean. Well, I can't never closing. That's you never felt like I don't like right now? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, why no, I'm first of all, I'm a night aul, right, so I go to sleep mad late. So when I go to sleep,

like I'll be tired, you know what I'm saying. So sometimes if I go to sleep like five o'clock and more, you're trying to wake me to some head at like eight, and I just got in a good sleep, I might turn around. Yeah, you thinking they're doing something waking up a man with head. They don't even be in the mood for it, not all the time, mostly general state right time, that's great. You can't just give somebody head

while they sleep. Well if they tell you I've had somebody stuff all right, what's the number one reason that people break up? And what would you say? It's a number one reason. Um, you want to do the answer the female answer. I want your answer. My answer is, uh, just um, somebody like the other person more than that person likes them. It's not balanced. Good answer, good answer if you get answer, get answer. It's hard to find somebody that you consider yourself equally, yoke. Have you ever

liked somebody way more than they liked you? That's yeah, that's a bad feeling. So I'll be like I'll be feeling bad like when the chick like me more than like her because I didn't seen that she felt before. And it's oh cool, Um, so has that person called you now that the movie is coming out? You know? You know who I am man like real ship, I'm the I'm the precursor to marriage. You date men with me? The next one they're gonna be the one that you married.

Why requisite the marriage prerequisite? Yeah, that's what the statue. I guess so because they end up marriage? Yeah? Does that make you feel away? I don't feel like the chicks? Why do you think that is? I don't know, man, she'd be like, I am never dating nobody that whack I'm gonna marry. I don't think. I don't think I cheat chicks like ship. I just um like what you said the balance like, I don't. I've I haven't met too many that I felt like we were like on

that same that same wavelength. All right, Stephan, What's the number one reason that couple's break up? Trust? Trust issues. That's the number one reason because even even if you know, UM, a lot of people they stayed together after cheating, and you just have that trust problem and just you can't have a relationship without trust. That's that's the fact. And now I'm always questioning you. You're always bad because I'm questioning you. Now. We just can't get along. I'm always

explaining myself, all right. Number one reason couples break up infidelity, The same thing. This is the woman answered, by the way, just so you girls, because y'all do be cheating, Like excuse me, Mr Jim, and I right about your all right, Laura. Number one reason the couple's break up. Arguing arguments that cheating,

I mean I could just be from anything. It could be like you think they might be, not even that they have to be cheating, like I guess that you says you go with it too, but just anything like I like, I felt like I argued a lot in my last relationship and it was I could co sign that shut up. It was. So it does get annoying, even if you're the one that kind of starts it because you have problems with certain things. Because like, I'm the kind of person, I'm outspoken, so I'm gonna say,

like this bothers me and that bothers me. It doesn't I don't feel like you always have to respond with the argument. It could just be something that I'm telling you, like, you know, I want you to understand that this makes me feel away, But sometimes people take it a different way and they're like, well this, well you do this that makes me feel away, Like that's not what I was coming to do, you know what I mean? Communication, there was what you just said. Because you ask most dudes,

most dudes problems, you gotta address every little thing. You didn't put your I'm not that patty, not that yeah, but I felt like guys are so used to saying that with females like oh, she's nagging. She's nagging that you're not even really listening no more, because what if it really is a problem, Like I would never be like, oh, I'm so mad because you put your clothes on the floor. I'll pick it up. Like, but sometimes when you're not getting along, all those little things, yeah, it seems like

it turns into like a bigger issue. But that's like communication. I'll change my hand. That's what I was gonna say. Communication. It's how we talk to each other, alright. Number One the reason that men propose. You probably don't know that I should because they dated let them get me here whatever. Okay. The number one reason is um because y'all hear us with that ul tomato? Is that damn you can't be a good lord. The number one, Yeah, they marry me or I'm out. Yeah, get off the pot. You think

that's the number one. Man wanted to get married just as much as as women do. No, No, I don't think no, dudes, we we got this. We got this this internal fear like we're gonna miss I don't seem like Beyonce all of a sudden leave j and be like we'll andre like we feel like we always got that shot with that, you know, that that unicorn. So we're trying to keep Yeah, I'm holding out for Beyonce. Do you have you ever proposed to anyone? Ever thought about it? Yeah? I thought about it. Did you have

an ultimatum? That's why something like that. That's the only thing that made you think about it? With do to man something? Uh not? Not really, I was trying to do. I was trying to be trying to be a good negul do the right thing, you know my son mom. So I was like, you see, I always felt like that was the number one reason because you had a child. Yeah, yeah, that's up there. It's up there. But you know I would have been doing it for the wrong reasons and

ship would have went bad song all right. Number one reason that men proposed m M. I think that men proposed when they're tired of being holes. Okay, that might not happen to their like sixty, when they just tired of you know, when they finally realized that they just need to settle down, then they just go ahead and do it. But why they still feel like they got something to prove where they're waiting up, you know, for that magical unicorn then they still want to keep the

options open and do their thing. But I think eventually they get tired of that and then they decided to just go ahead. And yeah, that's the fact I remember shooting me. He was laying out past that on the floor in the breakfast club though he was gonna die. He was dehydrated, and he was like, I gotta get my mother. There's no one cared died. He was out of work for like four it days, but like you think it's coming back, Oh my god, Lurry. Number one

reason then proposed because they fucked up. That's what I That's what I'm saying, because they don't want to lose you because they know they don't messed up. The last resort is I got to propose. That's it. I'm sucked up. Then you're getting that ring like just don't answer your phone for a few days. You might get something nice, you know. All right now, I know this is going to be different for men and women. Number one andre

best sex position. I think the average dude boomerang. So I think the number one asked for dudes probably Okay, So for you number one, it's me, I'm I'm I'm old school missionaries. Cock them legs open, let me go

to work. We didn't work, all right, Stephanie never went best sex position in my opinion or what I think other people would thinks number For me, I like, um, I like reverse the reverse call girl, but I like for the guy to like be um like sitting like maybe a pillow behind his back, like you know, to be sitting up and then like the ready knees and you know, like my feet are together like sitting like

She's very specific. That's my that's my favorite. And you know the girl is and I'm like in a real like doggy style from position, you know what I mean, my feater together and it's like bouncing. She's do you know what I'm talking about? G and G added something to it, which makes it G added something when you like go when you're in that position and you go down and grab the guy's balls, it's like it's a

really nice moment. You guys like contortion is It's like no, but you know what I'm talking about, right, you know, because she's the one you told me about this, I have been meaning yeah, actually I haven't meaning to tell you that I tried it. And it's like the new go to. It's that bad girl. Yeah, but I like I like missionary too. I like I like, I like to feel like being I like that feeling of being like in love, yeah, and love and being dominated exactly.

That's exactly what I was looking for, alright, so lurry Yeah, number one best sex position. I mean I'm the opposite. I like to be on top and well that is some typestail cowgirl is, yeah, but not reversing all that kind of face. Yeah, I gotta see what I'm doing, you know what I mean? Like that is just better to me. That's like my favorite. That's the easiest way to come. Well maybe that's always come. Like I never have a problem with like can you come in any

position though? Or that one? Like I always come, like even if the ship is kind of whacked, like I came at least once, good for you girls, but while you're on top? Or can you come in missionary? And everything? I could come in almost pretty much any position. I can't even remember a time where I didn't really come at all, like nice, that's the thing, Like I get

multiple or a gather. So it's like if you if it was good, it's because like I came like six times, because you won't be thinking about grocery lists and walking the dog and ship while you haven't said now, I'll be thinking about sex like I'm nanty like you know. It's because if I'm working with whoever, I'm I be nasty, Like you can't just be nasty with anybody. But yeah, I shouldn't go. I'm gonna come. That's the goal. I'm not having sex just to make sure he comes. I

want to make sure I come. Like what if he comes too fast? My mom? That then he has to eat me out. That's a fair echange. I get it out with robbery, remembriend fair exchange is no robbery, my friend. Either way, I gotta come. That's the that's the moral, all right, that's tomorrow. That's a Number one best sex position me personally. I like the lay flat on my stomach with my legs crossing my ass hooted up. I always say that, and I like to throw it back

that way. Yeah yeah, And not only do it feel good, but they love that ship Always say that you got that, alright? Number one turn off angela same question like this, people plays right, she got a different right through I got being on top women on top. It's my favorite position. Yeah, so I think that is the best to be married or something. You got some conservative ass answers, but yeah,

she gave us some sort detail. She's talking about spitting on it and slapping it and breaking yourself aded to it, talking about she like best that. Yeah, I'm a gym. What we do between and it's pretty much what I'm saying you're giving us, Like the button up car now I do. It's an easy per way to come. Really, it's like women on top and they said that's because of the positioning of the penis and all of that. That's just my favorite position because I always come that way.

I can't always come from missionary and then g JS is probably I can come from that to you sometimes, but bouncing is too much work for me. Like how you said, like like if a dude is sitting in a chair and I well, actually, you know, I don't mind if you and you can like um um, stand up like kind of on your feet, yeah and do squat that I'm not doing froggy style. I love froggy style. Froggy style is great, but wait, so when you're on top, what are you doing it? If you're not if you're

not bouncing like that, you grinding bouncing that way. I'm yeah, you grinding grind, by the way, By the way, that's how penises get fraction. Guys don't really like when you be grinding all on their dick, like like they like when I do it. He likes. She looking like you gotta set you up. You can't just do it the way if you're on the couch like this. And then she reversed and she do like the little squad like you said, like you back up and you sit on

it grinding. But you have to be careful because that's how penises get factored. That's the number one. I think bout you down grinding like you know, like and like you're grinding. Okay, she's doing the lights. The girls gotta get the turn. She she gotta drunk grind to do something we did. Has to grind bout okay, yeah, you don't let me stand up on the seat alright, feed on the seat right all right. Number one thing that turns you on other than sex, Andre, we always put

you in the hot seat first. It's a good um. Number one. The number one thing, the number about sex or besides besides sex. Other than sex, what's the number one thing that turns you on? Um, could be kissing. You like to kiss. It's cool, it's damn it, it's cool. It's you can't kiss everybody. You can't kiss everybody, but you can't just kiss him topic right there. It was like that. No, I'm saying, you know sometimes you've had

sex people and don't kiss them. Yeah, I probably, but damn I right the game not even a peck fourhead everybody, everybody, you know, everybody got that kissable mouth, that special mouth isn't kissable if she ever face the face straight, body straight, but the teeth like you been chewing on hot bricks then, like your face can't really be straight if your teeth sucked up. Though, it's a major seen a pretty girl

who just needs embraces. Okay, but you in the movies, now you can help us get something airs Yeah, he said, yeah, that's what stup. There's like sixty tho allars right, No, get it for the lower in l A too, what's them get? You? Probably you probably get like ten you probably get you could get you could get the little the little Columbia, the Dominican doctor on the lower time in the High the three bands. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

for three bands. I mean I would have I would have tucked that swim the if I if I would have know about it now they don't put you to sleep, I would have sucked that. But I didn't mind. I didn't mind. They're expensive. I only got eight veneers and it was twenty bands. It was that's expensive. Yeah, I didn't them in Jersey. Alright, So so it's not kissing for you, clearly, Um with number one turn on, that's not sexy, not sexually related. It could be sexually related,

but it's not intercourse. Okay, all right, Um, I like that filthy talk? Okay you like dirty talk? Yeah, you tell me what you're gonna do to me and then back that ship up literally and figuratively. Okay. It just ever felt a little goofy sometimes, like if they say something weird and you're like, I don't know, make you look at them different, like I'm gonna stick my nippling here here my ear. But yeah, too fine, I ain't really, I ain't really came across nobody was if. All right,

you like dirty talk? Are you ladies? Dirty talkers? I'm a dirty talker During the act. I hate when guys like they're like, oh, tell me what you're gonna do to me, like before it happens. It's like, let's just do it and see what happens. But if you're on the phone though, and she's not there, you know you're not there. I could um, yeah, I mean I've done a faith I could be nasty on the faith some But it's not a lot of talking like we're like

showing each other, you know what I mean on face time. Yeah, that's different. I was referred to do an act to yeah only during the actor said, but I don't mean it's not the not the actual physical contact that in the course, you know, when you whispering your in the ear, you know, Oh yeah, I can't. Sometimes you gotta be like sometimes you know, like yeah, like come on staff somebody else here and you keep talking. Yeah no, but yeah, okay,

what about you stuff? Other than sex? What turns you One of the most number one thing what turns me on about a guy the most other than sex is being able to learn from him. When a guy could teach me things without making me feel stupid about it, you know, like, um, correct me, but make it feel helpful. Like it's just so sexy to me, Like that's amazing, like putting you on, yeah, putting like yeah, And I'm

not talking about worldly things. I'm talking about things from my mind, you know what I mean that for me, I know that was a born, that was a history. Maybe teach you how to invest and even that, teach me, just teach me things. That's that's so that's sexy. Teach

me things. What about I think personality, Like I'm really attracted to personality, Like if I look at like my ex boyfriends, none of them really look the same, like they're all like man, but they I could see like a similar trait in their personality, like whether they're funny, fun cool like people. Person Like that's so attractive to me, Like just how like people view you and not that other people opinion matter, but you know what I mean as far as just like how you act and treat

other people and stuff like that, that's really sexy to me. Authority, Yeah, I like that power. Power. Yeah. I don't like the I like somebody that's gonna go after what they want and it's gonna be straightforward, Like I don't want somebody that's always ex in your opinion or excellent, what you think or X and what you know? What you want to do? I want you to call me like, all right,

get dressed one the way. That's what we want to do that you know what I'm saying, Like I don't want to hear what do you feel like doing to the situation? Boss? Up? They takes you to McDonald's, then I'm gonna sleep the ship out like McDonald's in five years. I like McDonald's. I like McDonald's. If the eyes and hot anything can happen. Oh my god, I haven't five years ago. I am not loving it. You know the

commercial changed my answer? You yeah, but everybody else telling personality character you don't care about that, clearly, I think I think personality wise, um talking my list. Sense of humor, okay, I'm I'm a goofy dude. So if you can't laugh at me, like I ain't got nothing for you, Like I'll be saying some funny ship and then you just send up there with a stone face, then that sucks. How do you think you say some funny ship? That's

the worst. Man. If you're trying to joke around with somebody and they don't have a sense dry, hate have personality. I'd be joking around about everything, everything, everything, and if you can't take that, just never not. People do get super sensitive. Like I've had people say stuff to me about like me and and and they just I'll be going too far, like they always say that. They're like, yo,

ya'll be doing too much. I'm lucky, y'all lucky. Somebody ain't coming puss you out like a guy though yet, because we get on a roll and we'll started sayings all kinds of stuff like now that's you more what you get in trouble for that. It'll just be like, oh, it's okay. And just called me and when I say it, it's like Lorio, it's totally different, some more harsh. Yeah. Probably they hurt people's feelings. She roast people, you know, roast people. He would never roast your girl. No, not

a girl. Now. I don't know when it stopped. Females. I mean, like, you can't play with females like that because yeah, sleeping on the couch, yeah, pussy ugly hell breaking up, we're breaking off, are breaking up. There's no turning back from that. No, there's no turning back from now. That's not really a jew that's like fighting word. And then I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. You ever say something you didn't mean in an argument? Yes, and then

I couldn't take it back. I think everybody. I think girls take it further than men. Man. I think they're more careful and they know that girls are fragile, and they're more careful about what they say. I feel like I've said the most horrible things and arguments, like things that I can't even believe God would I would even like I wouldn't ask. I still ask God to forgive me. I like, you know, no, I don't give us an example. I can't because you know those things you pray and

you a God to forgive. But I've been awful. I've said I can't even little dick like I've said that with your evil. No, that's evil, broke, bumb little dick, bitch, nigga. I hope your mother dies. Your mother, your mother should have killed herself when from you that I just I'm not even this type of person because she got pregnant with you. I'm telling you your mother, your mother hates her life because you were worn Jesus like that. Damn, that's that is around evil. That's what I'm saying. God

forgive me for repeating these things. I'm not gonna and guys and guys and guys are real careful. Even after I've said things like that and it's still wonna take it. Guys still won't take it too far because I feel like they know women are fragile. I feel like they could take it like they like become like Superman. And that's why I was saying this earlier, like I'm the guys really don't take it that far with me. Like if a guy calls me a bit while we're arguing,

I'm going off, like I'm going off. You call me one bit after the three thousand dickheads I just called you, But you go off on you because you just called yourself fragile But you just said you, but you said you wish his mother would have killed herself. That's why. That's why she said stuff like that, because she's fragile mechanism and you hurt somebody, they're gonna hurt people, hurt people.

I agree, I agree with that that. I agree with that, But I said that about insecure and how he called East, how Lawrence called her home after they got into that argument. I said, he was like, you a hope. I've never had a guy called me home. For a guy to call a woman, I've never I've never had a god called me that in an argument. I've had a guy called me a thought. That's the same thing. Okay, that's the same thing, but I think, do you know over there?

So that's I just felt like that is more funny, like like mad, are you mad? Are you mad? Or are you a little mad? Or are you big mad? Because maybe, like you know, I'm just gonna go down. But he called me home. If my man calls me a hole, I would argue, I'm a cry. I do this especially thought of me things. Now. I don't know if you could that all of that I said about his mother, like everything else said about your mother, it's

just bad. But you called me over because I feel like the mother thing is the go too, because I feel like the worst thing I've ever said to my ex had to do with his mother too. Damn y'all just talk about that. I was like, that's why your mother crackhead? But you see that was ye know when I look that be once it was awful for you too, girl, we're praying for you. When I said it, I was like, oh, like you know, often something comes out your mouth. You're like,

can I suck that back in? Yeah? Like it wasn't enough. I ain't gonna lie. It wasn't no coming shaking her Damn head line that's out. That's bad. Like that's just something I think. It was going all for me, Like you causes that guy wasn't crackhead. A crackhead, that's all. She was recovering one. So like that was the worst you know what I mean, she wasn't even fully recovered. No, like she damn you didn't wait, she wasn't. I should have just stayed quiet. And then that I'm being too

open with lip service. This is closed lip service from now one coming from me. What's the worst thing you said if you could talk this. I don't know what could be worse than any of this. No, Yeah, I mean I wish death on somebody before that was bad, which persons on him almost every time I argue, I'm like, die slowly, and then I go back to Jesus, you know quick. I feel bad they're even repeating this because of that, I know, but I'm working on it. I'm

not arguing with nobody. I'm at a point in my life where I feel like things can be settled through talking and normal tones of voices, and if not, you don't move forward like nobody stuck together. There's billions of people on the planet. So you say your worst was just wishing death on that act, you know, being as though what just happened to me? But I'm going through personally right now. You know, I don't even really want

to get into it. But his uncle was about to pass away from cancer, and I just told him that I hope that he died instead of is the evil? That was evil too? That's your t as the Lord every single time I forgot, I said my forgiveness too, and the Lord every day every day. But y'all be all let you change, yeah, right, but I mean people change, like right, That's what I'm saying. I don't. I used to be a real argument of person in relationship that he said. Now you know you don't like none of us?

What about you? One an argument and arguments for woman's man. It's not gonna call you woman. I know better you play them games because yeah, men don't take it as it's coming back from never said no, no, like you ever called a woman a whole and an argument, even if you felt like she was never called a woman a bitch. See, I'm calling the hole. And I had done all of that, So I think what I said was okay. They have alluded to it before, alluded to it.

You participated in question. I might have questioned her her whole facts like Carfax, I ain't never called Hi about no bit ship. Don't call me you no more that I stopped digging your mouth. I got, I got one, I got Yeah, it's one. Chick was on some bullshit. She's on some bullshit. And then I and then I booked my first major, my first major job, and I had to I was working in Canada for like three months,

and she was on the bullshit. Before that, it was a show called l A Complex I Want to see w So then I was in Canada and all of a sudden, You're gonna slide in my d M s. And I wouldn't. I wouldn't, I wouldn't answer her. So she started sending the messages to a home girl I went to school with, and I related the message. I made sure relate the message to her home girl. To kind of put up business on blast. I was, you know, just some basic sh just next time. She swallow it all.

You know, that's not bad. I don't really see mean things. I'm gonna tell you to choose, Like I can't even picture you if you know me in an argument, I

just be mad quiet because I'm so conscious. Even if you say something really fucked or something happens, and this goes for men and just even people in general, I'll get real quiet because I know I have the most fucked up thoughts and I don't never want to have to say him because I know I can say something that could crush somebody's whole life, and I don't like that exactly, and I'm like, I'm not gonna do it.

I'm not gonna do it. Probably the most fucked up thing I ever said to a guy was like, by calling him broke or something like that. But that's pretty mean, that's pretty that's well, you know what, but probably cheap. I don't even think broke. I might have said cheap or something like that, but it wasn't really it was true. It was cheap it out. Yeah. I just thought of another one, This one chick she had this uh she had this uh haara dessert problem. I reminded her that

she was. You know what I would have said if I was her, I would have said, you wouldn't doing your job. But that's went for everybody else. But that's about it. That's about it. As effective as you called the dude, because y'all all got that same go to move with nigga makes you mad enough, like with your little dick ass and then be will you push you just big? You know that's just it. Don't not It's

not effective, you know, don't she blamed it. Don't she blamed it on this type of birth control she was taking. Maybe who knows. I don't know. That's how you knew, that's how that's how you used. Just their kids just study these shows with whatever everything. I think, Um, guys, when you say that they have a little dick or something, they always be so offended that they don't have a comeback.

Because any time I have said I saw you had dick small and I wasn't even whatever whatever, they'd be like. I didn't say that to somebody because I just be playing myself. I never say that. This time I'm working with this, I'm little dick. A lot of women stay with guys that don't please them. I just feel like, um, you know, when you when you're working with somebody who has a little dick, you know they have a little dick. Your friends probably know because you tell them, you know

what I mean. So when it's over you being like a little dick, you're just like, it's man, so we know. And you were sucking that dick, you tell your friends nothing like that, like crazy girl. But he got has been my good friend for a minute, you know. You And when a guy got a little bick dude, and I was like, I love him, but he's a little small that moth, that mouth goes, that moth. Know if that that's gonna be your man, and you might see different.

And then yeah, and then we're looking at you said it's hell for you, like damn, I know. And then I'm embarrassed. And I told one of my ex boyfriends, I called him a little dick. I called him a little dick, and he, um, you know, he didn't have a little dick. That guy's like an average, a normal one, you know, like a normal one. And I said that to him, and forget it. He never got over it. He we were in a long term relationship too. He never he always kept bringing it out. Maybe you didn't

come this time because I got a little dick. I'm like, oh, like I I'm like, yo, I'm like, dude, like you're you're a little gay because you know you've been looking at porn and you knew the whole time you thought in your head that your dick was little because you was looking at other guys. Say that, how do you know your dick is a little You're come caring it because it's his What's it's a normal size? I swear it's a it's not even regular. It's bigger than regular.

It's a nice not it's bigger than regular. It's a it's a I mean, it's not a monster dick. You know it's not. It's not. It's not huge. It's not. But I'm just saying it is. It's not. It's not a little. It's bigger than average. It's bigger than average. And forget that. He never let me live that down for years, for years, even after we broke up. The average dicks aren't bad, not, but he has and it's like, you know what, you're Patty, You're you're you're you're weird

for this. This is weird. Like, let's stop. I already told you that I was just bad a hundred times. You're gonna keep on said that to get you right? All right, here's the last one, the number one reason that you won't go on that second date. Um, what could somebody do wrong? Just just whack ass combo like chickspea chickspea like forgetting like y'all gotta y'all can bring some ship to the table too. It's not a one way street. Yeah, we ain't just just there for your entertainment.

I'm not doing up. Got you gotta have some convo to man. I mean, you know, um, what if she's like, so do you want to get married? And one day can you ask? That's and that's trick. Yeah you can ask it. But here's the thing though, Like when you especially on the first date, when you're going out with somebody, man, you gotta make sure this ship is conversational. You can't beat on some my enterview type ship. Like I said, you want kids, you want to be married by with age? Like, no,

that's true. You gotta let the conversation yet to be conversational. Alright, so you're saying that they have have a good conversation. If not, but maybe they're just nervous. But you can you can tell, you can tell nervous and somebody who you can tell different. I have somebody right the birth control. You can tell it birth control. Now you can tell

you though, you can tell somebody. I mean, at least if you're nervous, if if it's just like a you know, you're nervous situation, they're at least, you know, have like some glimpse of some humor and some some some signs of intelligence and can hold the conversation. You ain't gotta gotta lead the conversation. No, the man should be able to carry it, but be responsive. It's on capacity. G W would make you not go on that second date. Man, just lameness. I got can spot to lame a mile away.

And it don't matter what your position is in life as far as your occupation or your financial status. Lane don't go away with money. Money don't make lame go away, and neither does you know success, You know, Lane is just something that's in you and you can't shake it. And Lane, and sure for Lane, you don't penicilli you take, and yeah, I don't like. I just have been trying

to find a cure for Lane. And the crazy thing about it is people think that people know that they lame, and then they think that because they might have gotten some type of like contract or big check, that that they automatically not Lane no more. And it's just like dude, sorry, but yeah, you're still lame and I'm good on you next. Alright, Stephan would make you not go on that second date if he mentions his acts or any past relationship. I just I can't. I can't first date and we're already

talking about your acts like I can't. I can't. That's for me. That's a number one thing, Like I can't this guy's Lane. He was there talking about the next bitch, anything about another bitch. It's just I'm not doing it. Yeah, that's another thing for me. It's like one and done

dates or my specialty, you know what I mean. Like a lot most guys don't make it past the first date because I'll be so like I will see at dinner with a guy and be looking at him in the middle of the conversation and be telling myself I

am never gonna see this guy again. Look, I would the guy have been left then if you're doing all that, know, because I just you know, like I'm I'm I'm I'm definitely about vibes, you know what I mean, Like if if you can't if I can't get a good vibe from somebody that first time, Like sometimes you hang out with somebody for the first time and you're just like, whatever, it's gonna be a regular, regular time. We're gonna go out for a drink, go have some food, and you

have such an amazing time with this person. You just you're not doing too much. You enjoying each other, good conversation. You know that that's the kind of thing that I'm looking for. If I can't get that from you, there's no way we're gonna go on a second date. Yeah, but whatever, I spent a lot of my time at home alone. I mean, I'm not, I'm not. I don't feel like I'm single though I'm not single. But you know, maybe I could have been married now if I wasn't

doing all the ones and done all my life. You never know, you gotta remember this though, you gotta remember this. Everybody got red flags talking to that dude, and you ain't got some red flags? Of course flag, He's like, why is she staring at me? Like, I mean, right now, right now, I just quit smoking, So like I'm high emotional. So we might be at dinner and we'll just be

talking about things and I'll start talking about Jesus. I'll start talking about Jesus and then you know, to save the children and and start crying automatically that flag you just named, like seven red flags. Not a good time to date with me crying, smoking cigarettes, talking about Jesus. So I just quit. I just quit. I've been I've been three weeks without smoking, and you know, so I'm high emotional right now. I think I would throw a lot of red flags at a guy. On the first day.

I wouldn't even go out the first day, I wouldn't even go out. The first might be missing that dude, Like you could be like that dude for real, and you're sitting up here talking about some He mentioned that he had an ex girlfriend. No, no, no, no, not

that I never had. But you know, when you're you know, when you're sitting with somebody, You know, when you're sitting with somebody and they they consistently talk about their past relationships like oh, I I was with this person, and even if they don't mention the who the person is, back when I was with this person or oh yeah

I remember, Oh that reminded me of this. Imagine imagine trying to imagine trying to date in l a in the chicks that do that, because when I was stating Kobe Bryant, I was stating with Yoba, and then I was stating and it just makes you sound me for women, It just makes you sound like a whole when you when your name dropping on right, like when I did it exactly. Oh sorry, I should have have her, Bees asked me, because I have a good one. Oh I was like, wait, they to you the last one. I'm

round it off. So basically, one thing that will cancel a second date out for me is something that happened to me. And that's if you don't know how to handle your liquor on that date. So I went on a date with somebody and he started drinking. When I tell you, he started getting loud talking to let me introduce you to my boy. I'm like, Daniel, it was in my area. I was, so you know, when I tell you I blocked this name, like I never wanted

to hear from him again. Like I was embarrassed seeing you were sitting with him, like I'm never gonna see him again. No, no, no, no, he's seen it on my face. I said it to him. We're talking about me here. I was like, what is wrong with you? Did you drink too much? Like I said the Semnth like it was a secret. I'm like, you're embarrassing. That is embarrassing to go out on the first date with somebody and they drink too much. I don't even know you.

That'll make you never go out with him again. However, happened to me once the guy started crying. You've said this, I've heard the story. What was he crying for? Well, he had like a death in the a friend of his head past. But that's not fair. And that's just the first date. And he probably just quite smoking with Stephanie. But I told them he could still be friends. Yeah,

you know like my pictures. Okay, you know it, Little servers, j tell us a little bit about your character, because I know you gotta go from two to the game, just so we can know what to look for. Because we haven't seen the movie yet, but where it's pretty excited for it. Um. I play a character named Drell Jackson, who's the young upcoming street gunner that's that's has his

eyes on taking over m Quadir's empire. Right, So you're columb Short is the boss and you're trying to I'm trying to beat the Boss, and I'm adamant that I'm gonna take his ship by enemies necessary. So I'm coming from him. At first, I come at him with a cordial olive branch. You know, I'm trying to like, yo, we can get down together. You know, I'm trying to convince somebody. At every turn, he keeps mushing me. You

know what I'm saying, give me to stiff on. And then finally I start, you know, coming up my little plan to take him over. I mean, we've all read the books, so, but I just for people listening that might not have how did you get into character? Did you have to study anybody? Like? What made you know? I'm like, man, I'm from Houston. I want to raise so, uh the hood part. You know, every city got hood

parts or whatever. So my hood like these dudes. I went to school with these dudes, you know, dudes like Darelle. I got these kind of dudes in my family, cousins, you know, best friends who um grew up in the streets and was persistent, you know, with overtaking people and you know, being cut throat and just malicious and when they were the way they care theirselves. All right, so you already had life experience and had to do that.

Yeah all right, Well, we appreciate you so much for coming through and having fun with us and answering some of these questions and congratulations. I know you've done some big things, but this is you know, this is huge. Yeah. Yeah, this's my first, uh, it's my first film that's going to theaters. So I'm excited about that. You've done television, which is you know, yeah, I've done television. I actually uh, I've actually done uh four movies that have been on TV.

I did a movie was Making Good early this year that was on Lifetime. I played her boyfriend. UM. I did a movie that was on um Netflix with Lorenz Tate and lands Cross and Making Good in Bro Timmy and all those guys. So this is the first one. That's what was I think I saw that movie. We went to the We went to that premiere and mare, that's what I was a little punk as detective. But you can have things to change, even black Jesus, Oh my god, that's how you're on there. To my neighbor,

what happened? I thought you weren't filming for now they are? They are? They I'm not, Oh, you're not gonna be in that doing it no more? But did you like that doing that? Oh my god, so funny. Cops. That's not his name, John was the spoon Charlie Murphy, Cory Hoping for Hoping because yall know stupidest I love. I used to watch that show faithfully. Do you like would you better play to ative for the bad guy? Bad guy bad I'm gonna tell you why the response that

I keep getting people watch you to the game. They walk up to me and they say, man, I hate you so much right now, but you did a really good job. Like people that watch Deuces, they'd be like, oh, they're the bitch ass nigger, and they think I'm a bitch ass nigg in real life. You did a good job, like you even want to set it was? It was crazy because even want to because uh la la Anthony was my partner. You know, she was a detective to lands Gross was undercover detective on them on the movie.

So even on set like like Lorens and like ro Timmy inside and all of them like they wouldn't funk with me, like that would be a lunch and they'd be like talking to each other and I'll be right here, but they still looking at me like detective Solid. And then they were like, oh man, I gotta I gotta remind myself that you're not him because the movie we don't like him. You know, that's before them trying to before the movie. No excuses. You gotta start looking at stamp.

You gotta look it before you stick. Plus and plus you know even don't that's come on, do we even gotta Yeah, that's a prerequid. We already know that. But besides that, though, uh, the detectives like you know corny dudes, traight lece or whatever. But Darrell, even though he's a bad guy, like and y'all watch, he is sexy nigger. You know what I'm saying. You got the he got the bitches, got the shirt off tattoo showing you know,

I get swag it up. Yeah, nice, perfect, perfect, matt Ain't saying if y'all all that, but if y'all say, thank you so much. We really had a good time and toole shout out to Houston. Yeah, absolutely shot. Houston's are disting.