Episode 07 Ft. Raekwon

put your phone. Yes, the chef is here. You know what's funny. So we were just talking about this before you walked in, and since you are the chef, this is a great question for you to get started with Ray Kwan. How I'm praying it? Is it to you that a woman can cook ninety nine point nine sing good? Sorry? Leah? Oh, I guess yeah, you know, na, but it's it's real because it's like, you gotta know how to cook. You can't you know, when you're older, can't play those games.

You know what I mean? You know, the key to a man's heart is is you know it's stommaking. You know you gotta feed it. Nick, You know you want good dick, you want all of that. It's all about the food. If you take something, if you want to feed you with his dick, you gotta feed him food. Okay. I think that I didn't learn how to how to cook until I was older, so I was like twenty one, twenty two. I don't agree with the way to a man's heart is through eating. Told you he's a man. Yeah,

but that's wrong, he said. He said nine point nine percent, which means there's that one person one Yeah, that point one percent. I think that a way to a man's heart is through good pussy. Okay, okay, that's I think if you meet a good pussy, you could teach you how to cook. That makes sense. You were saying you burn grilled cheese sandwiches. I know it's bad, but I have other great qualities. There's not It's it's not the cooking part. My sister got the good cooking skills and

I just I don't have them. It's like it's very hard for me to like go to the grocery store and pick a bunch of stuff out to make a meal. And like it doesn't make me feel good. I feel like I'm lacking. Like I'm a mother, you know, I'm a woman. I should know how to cook a meal and like, you know, nurture someone and do it. But it's just like I'm at work all day, you know, and I come home. It's like I don't have the time to go to the grocery store and shop and

then cook and everything. So it's a little different. Great corn, If that woman has good pussy, is it okay that she doesn't know how to cook? I mean, you know, you gotta you gotta be good at something though, you know what I mean. And like I said, after Wow, you know, you could give a nake a good pussy, but sometimes you know, Nigga might not want no pussy and Nigga might just want to can I get a

steak with onions? And you know what I mean. It's like, damn, but you can't make something simple, you know, not like you can't. You just gotta be willing to want to learn it, you know. You know, um, I think at the end of the day, it's not wrong if you don't, but you still got to just be willing to try. But that is something. That's your point. That's the cated relationships period, is to be willing to try something that

maybe you don't normally. I was dating a guy from Atlanta and I did start making grits and brought for real and they were good. So maybe if I just really like like the guy and I'm you know, cook, Yeah, you can how to cook whatever. That's too because if you really like somebody, you will put some effort into things. I'm sure there's things that you thought you would never do that you did because you really like somebody who's like,

what the funk am I doing? I mean, you know, I get out, I'm not thinking out of freaking and serve you. You know, it might just be that moment that it might just chef doesn't cook for me, Okay, there's something wrong. What's your specialty? What do you like? You know? I like fish, you know, which is my favorite dish? But you know, bacon and all that, that's simple. Man. You may bake baking crazy. So when you cook, like breakfast in the morning after like that kind of like

do it all? I do it all? Baby. You got you know, when you're working with a man, that's what you get. Whack are you still going to make breakfast? I don't know, you know, I mean, I'm gonna just be disappointed, but you know you might, you know, is she gonna be hungry? Could you date a woman that eas making It's bacon? Yeah, like pork and all of that.

Does that matter to you? I can't tell a person what to eat, you know what I mean, don't just you know, be eating in my face and then you know, trying to kiss on and they go away respectful, you know. But I can't tell a person what they eat, though, you know, yeah, I can just tell you what? You know, what what? What? What did it do to you? Because it's hard for me too. Like there's people that I've dated, you know who I can't date, no disrespectively, because I

know you don't drink. I can't date a guy who doesn't drink. It's hard for me alcoholics, And it's hard for me the date a guy that doesn't smoke weed. I can't. I I need like I like to smoke. And then when I'm dating a guy who doesn't smoke, it's like I would die And you're getting on my nerves. Maybe if you got high, and you know what, I don't I don't believe. I don't think that's true. I think you could date a guy that doesn't drink good

but a super dope. Yeah know where it's hard because like sometimes you'd be like, let's go have a drink and sometimes it's fun, like to be tipsy with your man, and maybe he's what if you're not chemistry you don't need like you don't need it. I don't know he's gonna do something no, but I'm already submissive. I'll do it, Like if my boyfriend doesn't drink or smoke, I'll stop too, Like I will. I'll be like, Okay, I don't drink

and smoke anymore either. I did this guy one time and he didn't drink, but then he had the nerve one time he went out and mind you, he was having like a double burger with bacon and telling me how bad drinking was. I was like, do you know what, just let me do me you do you. I'm letting you eat it what you want to eat. I think. I think when you get somebody that's compatible to you on that level, like if you smoke and they smoke,

you know, it just makes the relationship more fun. When you're dealing with somebody that don't have You know, they say opposites attract sometimes too, you know, but you know how somebody to do what you do and you know it's just it just spices it up. Sometimes I might be I might be in the move having fun like yo, boost thick like yo. I want you to not take it like you know, like person who take it like to be like you. Every dated a girl who doesn't

suck dick? Yeah, I mean what does that bother you? Who who doesn't? How old was she was she? I mean this is back, this was back in the day. Yeah, I had to be Could that last? Could you? Could you go your life without never having no low job? Ever? Again? In the year and the year two thousand fifty, every hytero sexual woman should put dick in her mouth, every

single one. It's amazing. And every guy should. I heard that Nigga's or something facts only because if I always feel like a guy should do it first too, like I on you and then you were down on him, I feel like he should do it for a sec And in the year, you mean, in the relationships were like on at night like or whenever, the first time ever, the first time ever, the first time ever first Okay, No, you shouldn't do it the first time, not the first time,

but like he should go before me, like before we ever do we should throw yes and the top it bowl, your bowl, your pussy, you know, you know, because somebody just don't know how to wash up, you know what I mean, Like I don't know how to get on and really get in there and wash that out like you want me to eat that. That box gotta be well, you gotta get rid of like es magma, and you know you supposed to the guys that aren't circumcised, like if they're to be young like to, like they don't

know how don't clean themselves like you hook up. It's like yo, get in right please and scrub. Okay now I want you guys to finish this sentence. Okay, because this is something I was thinking about over the weekend. Okay, I know I'm in love when because it's something that we do women like. Okay, I must love him or I must love her because I did this. So Stephanie,

what's that with you? I know I know I'm in love when I don't want to be with anybody else, when I don't want to funk with anybody else because I I if I can be working with somebody and look at him like I'm sick of you, I need to go with my other boyfriend. Yeah, my dather other boyfriend exactly, my other other boyfriends exactly. That's how I know I'm in love when I don't want to cheat. I'm no desire for another man, Okay, right, I know

I'm in love win win. I know I'll give a bit, not a bit, but you know I know him in love when I give a bit a lot of time, you know what I'm saying, Like just really focusing on her. You know. Um, really it's all about if you get time out of a nig I mean, and I'm not talking about no month for something. I'm talking about like, damn, I know you for like three years. I really, I really love you like that. You know what I mean?

Because it's different. It's different levels of love. You see what I'm saying, Nigga gonna love you because he loved the person you are and what you about. Could be in love with you because you are soldier for real, for real, So it's different along that when I know we put that time. But I'm talking about specific things, like I know him in love. If I take a book about your note, I feel like, like, whoa can you even still be in love after three years? You

know what I mean? Like that's what I love. So just I mean in my experience, you know, oh my god, I'm in love when I want to start popping your pimples because you don't do that with somebody you just like yeah, you know, like, oh baby, that pemple on the back. Let me get that right. You know, I know I'm in love if I tell you I have to take a ship and I go do it crazy.

I've never shipped in front of it then in front of anyone, but I'll tell you I have to, and I'll go lock the door and I might yell through the door, but I would never leave the door open. And I'm with you. You're never do you know, I'll be a fucking ninja, like yeah, no, no, no, like if I really like the guy, hell no, like he's never gonna You know, I went when I went to Miami that one time, I got a Calonic so I wouldn't ship the whole time. Are you got a Calonic

just so you would ship? Yes? You're crazy? That's crazy, I know, but it's like disgusting. I don't want the guy knowing. But that's a sign of love. If you can tell somebody like, right, wouldn't you agree someone's a big deal. That's the sign that your relationship is old and stale. If you're that, you're comfortable enough that you could be like, he knows me well enough that it doesn't matter that my ship smells, but you have to do the courtesy flash like every drop that fars and

your flashing. Am I right your opinion? I said? I mean I felt like a woman if I'm in the bathroom taking the ship. Yeah, come in, you know whatever? I mean, you know mine in my business, Like you're shipping in front of me and I'm smelling it. So you've never loved anybody enough. They took up but your teeth. But she's taking a shoot. No, no, damn, I'm not taking it. You know, he cannot smell your ship, that is the end of the relationship. But if she doesn't,

you took this ship. But I'm not in this. You don't want you. I can't even be like I can't have anyone in the bathroom, not even my child in the bathroom wild, I swear I can't, like you said, I locked the door. What are you doing in there? Nothing? Now? What are some other things you do when you know you're in love? Now? Um, somebody was to tell me, I know I'm in love when I buy stuff, when I go shopping and I buy stuff. Can I tell you something? Today? I googled what happens to your brain

when you fall in love? And there was this there's this whole there's scientific explanations of what happens with the chemicals. What's going on, Why you're endorphins, serotonin's dopamine, like, why you're super focused, why you get obsessive? Why, I mean, all of it and it's all has to do it just like procreating, Like it's just chemicals in your brain. I mean you know, I mean, I'm sure there's more to it and love is Why did you google that?

I just felt like it? But I was researching this today. Yeah, and you know how you know you're well? Okay, now, let me I don't sleep. If you don't eat, you can't stop thinking about that. I think when you're in love you eat a lot more because you guys go like do things like let's go out and eat, you know, let me cook for you, Da Dad. It's hard for me to like when I really like someone in the beginning, it's hard for me to like eat and do anything

in front of them because I'm nervous. And then you probably have to stab yourself from like calling them and texting them all nervous though, what's the pervous of being nervous? I don't know, it just happens. It's a good nervous. No, it's a good nervous. Yeah, it's like you know, butterflies and like the heart racing and all that. But it makes me like, not that hungry or that's not being you.

If you can't sit there and be just the beginning. Listen, if that thing is on you and he liked you with all that whatever is, it's already in the past because he have you in his presence right now. So it's all about and injecting with that man and seeing what he about. It's not about you being nervous and feeling like you're gonna lose him. You give a funk about them like that. Yeah, but it's not I'm nervous

about losing him. I'm just nervous that's it. Yeah, it's like a jittery you know, fun like I don't know if maybe nervous isn't the right word. Yeah, maybe not. You know what I do when I'm exciting to somebody, that's that's something that I don't usually do. I always wear like like amazing underwear. I'm like wearing like six hundred dollar bron panties. I don't have no s like I'm like wearing l Parla every day. Then we got into a relationship, maybe we'll have your panties. I don't

wear panties normally. I don't wear any That's interesting, all right, Now here's the next question. Okay, sud you research somebody if you meet somebody, right ray, say you meet somebody whatever on the road, whatever happens and wherever you meet them to a friend, do you google them or do

you look for the Instagram, Twitter and go through all that. No, to me, it's like, you know, it's like a nigger sitting here saying like every every chick you meet or whatever might not have a past, you know, you know, it depends if you meet somebody and you're like, oh yo, I know you'ren't familiar with you or she give you that incentive to make you be like, let me investigate this bitch, you know what I mean. And that's different. But I'm not going on Google or Instagram. I'm gonna

do my own little homework on the low. Like you know, I'm like, Yo, you know this chick. You know what I'm saying. Like somebody might know it, you know, and and really doesn't make a difference if they do, not really, I mean, it's all about the personality of that person and what you prepared to, you know, to to one. What if they was like, yeah, we ran a chain on her back in the day, does that matter? Damn ye? How do you know it was ten years ago? Nigga

might just go at it just based on that. Might want the experience or whatever. When I meet a guy, I searched his name in the sex Offenders List and not the only Google. That's the only search I do. God, I've never even thought of doing. I mean, it depends but you and has anything ever come up? Yeah? Oh my god, where do you need these guys? I was dating a guy. Well I didn't. I didn't get to datam, But I met this guy and let me tell you, I met him. He was amazing, good looking, had perfect teeth,

he had dreadlocks, he was gorgeous, gorgeous guy. And I searched him and I was like, wow, I think I think this is going to bed. We had so much in common. He was amazing. After like two weeks, he wasn't like trying to have sex with me at all. He never tried to get alone with me, and I I think that's nice. I think that's you know, that's nice. I mean he has a small penis. You never know that's what that means. When they didn't, the girls like

my friend's like, girl, there's something wrong with him. He can't be that this perfect. He had a good job, he lived in a nice neighborhood, nice car. She was like, you should put him in the sex offender's list, and I was like, oh my god, I never thought about that nice selling record. There. He's a pedophile, so you were too old. He went to jail. He went to jail for having sex with a third seen year old girl.

Oh my god, disgusting. I'm like, okay, So now ever since every time I started liking somebody, I'm like, let me put you in this sex and check him on the sex trauma. I always feel like if there's definitely something wrong if you're dating a guy and he doesn't try to have sex with you, like immediately, not immediately, but after a little while, and y'all go out a little while and say he's at your hell to say you're at his house and he doesn't try to have

something's wrong with right. No, I invited him over, I was ready to go, and he did not try me. He didn't even try to exact. Let say something real quick. Let me let me give y'all some gems bro quick because number one, I respect y'all because y'all women, y'all,

y'all a different breed from us. But every time a man is not always wanting pussy fun the rep because me, I'm the type of person with If I feel like you're giving me pussy too fast, it's like I'm gonna be like this bitch fucking mad niggas, you know what I'm saying, Only it's just gonna it's just gonna come to me like that. But every time a nigga might just want to chill and fill you out and see what kind of beat you is right now? Because you know what if I blow you now, I might not

even want to deal with you the more. But if if I'm just because you know, nigga might just be marininging like I know, I got this, ain't worried about it. You know what I'm saying. It's it's already in the bag. I already know. But you know what, I'm a free car. Don't give her no dick tonight. Now you gotta wait up for me. He's all about the control. It's like it's like being a pimp, but being a real nigga pimp and still getting out between to see who you are.

Like if the nigga just come in and just fucked you, like they don't take a second. It's like, Yo, you don't even don't expect him crazy, But what have You've been out a few times and he's come to your house, You've been to his house and he still doesn't try anything.

And he's a widow, That's what I'm saying. And I always feel like something has to be wrong with you if that with that guy, it means that I always think personally, I always think if that happens, that he has a small penis because he wants to make sure that y'all are cool enough that it's not like I gotta build this trust between us. Honestly, if I was

a guy with a small dick, I'd kill myself. Don't say that because I'm not gonna like guys have by my agreed that they want you to see that immediately. I agree with that too. I mean, it's like, dude, I would like travel to the end of the world to get a dick and plan like if I think like an electronical one that you would press the button. If you're a guy, there's nothing you could do if you have penis is a mass small that's just it.

I don't know. I watched the documentary about this guy with a small dick, and he went to a documentar somewhere so far and the guy came to the hotel with a drink like a potion. He was and then he had a panic attack and he didn't drink it. But he also wants to Korea to get a He was gonna get a dick operation because they do them like crazy in Korea, because like, because this is what I'm not. But yeah, everybody didn't end up doing it.

But it's cool. It's a good documentary. He did doing and he just but he ended up meeting a girl who accepted him for a small dick. And women will put up with anything. Okay, there's a shortage of good men out there, so women will put up with that. If you do put up with anything, it's crazy, right, If the guy eats you out good and does all of that, maybe you could yeah, And I mean like you can get toy, you can buy a dick. You

like a lesbian, you can cup a dick. You know what, they should make something that's like some type of you know something, penis extension. That for a guy, he could let me pet don't even talk. If it's something you could add on, go talk to the lawyer, the patent lawyer tomorrow. Don't even talk about it. Penis extends. But you know what, I think that sometimes also guys who have like really big penises think they don't have to do a lot of work too. You don't really penis

just look brag on. But I mean, really giant penis is kind of it's a little uncomfortable, you know, a really big penis, like you can feel your uterus shifting. Oh my god, I know who it's and you know, like I don't know. It's it's uncomfortable. But even though I don't know, I wouldn't I would rather a little bit bigger than average than how many how many inches is what's average? I don't even know what that is, dude. Average is small just like average average, just like eight inches. Okay,

you're insane. It's like like like five and a half or six that's average. He's like, how what's the average penis size in the United States? Oh my god, eight inches and a half. That's seven is like big? You think seven is? Like seven is like big, like bigger than average. Do you think soever average penis size like six? Right? So what is the average penis size? And you know the wi medag the girl I don't like six inch

pis Okay, he's seen. So the average penis flaccid is that's sent to me to say, oh my god, while it's small, it's two point eight to three point nine, but when it's hard it is four point seven to six point three inches four point seven four. You know what's really exciting When somebody's penis was like, it's going to be small, but then it gets herd it's like way bigger than you should Google that average. You're like, okay, I got your average black man's penis is bigger than that.

Of course that's the stereotype, this that guys with small penis. Yes, there is, but I don't know. I don't know. Would you like, if if you were gonna about to as sex to the guy and his penis is really small, would you not do it? And I don't know, I might not, I might not. I'm not even gonna lie. I've I've been in situations where I like the guy a lot and then we get naked and I'm like, oh, my mother's calling me. I gotta go. That has happened

ses a real life story. That's a real life story. No, Like we got naked and I was like, oh, like I didn't say my mother was calling, but like I kind of got out of it. How did you get out of it? How do you get out of it? Like, oh, I'll go to the bathroom. Oh I got my period. I was just gonna say, that's how if you never want to again? Tell me that the East infection? Right?

What would make a guy not when I have sex with a girl, like all of a sudden, out of nowhere, If you're to do it, what would make you change your mind? Older Mayno said, that's not he said, once he's committed, he's committed. Yeah, he said he once he's committed,

even if it stinks, he's going in. How I mean, like when you have BV Like if that's like a chronic problem, which I've sucking, like my heart breaks for girls, And that's like honestly because like you know, like once every two years for a week, it happens, you know, and it's like the worst experience, the whever smell. It's just like you even up with anyone. It's like when girls are dealing with that that it doesn't matter about like it's not about like hygiene. It's like they got

that older. Yeah, And for people who don't know what that is, like, how does that happen? How do you get back to I don't know, it's not it's a out like you know, it's about the your pH balance, right, So it's like if you change partners, sex partners, or if it's like a nude dick or something that throws your pH and your pheromones aren't working right, you know, it's chemicals again something you know, So that's the only thing that would make you stop if it's now what

about this, okay? Well, all these women wearing waste shapers and like you know, padded bras and all that stuff and make up. And if a girl, if you get her back and she takes all that ship off and it looks completely different, is that something that would make you not want to do it? I mean, it would make me. I don't know. It depends about It depends

on the moment. But if you got all these these attachments and all this ship and I'm gonna look at you like you crazy understands bras and all of that, like make your cities look big, then you know, you take them off and you know you ain't there like that, you know what I mean? But what about like the girdles and all of that. No, no, I never funk with a chick with a girl. You ain't old enough

to rock the girl yet. That sounds so like old school and weird that the waste is that really popular though? That is like it looks like a torture device. You don't need that ship though, I mean, at the end of the day, just be you, you know what I mean, Like, you know, I don't I don't think there's a problem with somebody looking at you and being attractive to you and already knowing in the back of their mind what they might think you're working. You know, a man ain't stupid.

He's gonna he's gonna sit there in side you up. You know, we could see through we could see through walls when we want to. I wear a waste trainer, but it's because I get liposuctions, so you know, I gotta keep everything together so it doesn't swell up. You have to wear, yeah, but I don't wear it outside. It's only wear it for healing, you know. Once the healing is over. Thank god, I don't ever have to swear, because, like you said, it looks you can't. I start getting heartburn.

It's terrible. My god, it's awful. I don't like that to look good. Yeah, but I'm just for a few hours at home, just so that way the light bulb looks good. I come out of it. My waist is like twenty three. I'm happy. He's like, what about like booty pops and all of that. Have you ever seen a girl in their head on like the fake little pets now they have butt lifters? Is that it's like these panties. It's like a girdle with like holes in the butt and like you pull it up and it

lifts your ass. That's so weird. Yeah, that's tempting. The other night I was I was hosting a party in the Bronx and this girl she had the butt lifter on. You could see it. You could see it. She had on a dress, but you could see it on her clothes. You could see it. What is it? Butt lifted? I've never seen it like a pad on knowledge, it like an extra shorts. It's like shorts, like a high waisted shorts. And then it has like holes in the bus. Yeah, like it has like two holes for each cheeks, a

hole for each cheek. So you lifted up and I guess the box tight underneath it, so it's like shoulder pads for the as right. I don't know. There's so many illusionary things that we can do. Now. Have you ever been with the woman and she looked good, but then she took her makeup off and her eyebrows and all of that, and he was like, whoa ship, It's like way different. I mean, I'm sure at some point, of course. I mean back in the day, I mean,

but you know, it depends if that's your type of thing. Like, you know, I'm not really into makeup like that, to be honest with you, you know, I get it. I mean, I know women want to, you know, spice yourself up, but I want to be able to look at you in the morning and see the real you. You know. So if I know who the real you is and I say, well, maybe I'll say to myself, maybe she

you know, she's not aware her ship. First of all, you're not aware of but if you just throwing it on and you looking like the joking issue, like you just don't know how to put your makeup one year, that's eternal. But I think that guys, um, you know, guys, most guys to say, oh, I'm not really into makeup. I don't like they want they want you to be good.

I'm saying no, no, don't know what I'm saying, you know, but you still want to be able to even with that, feel like I feel like there should be a nice medium somewhere in between where like, it's time to go to this event, We're gonna go and get the makeup. But when you wake up in the morning on Sunday, or you're gonna have lunch. You're just hanging out chilling in the car, like you can't be all caked up with lashes on. No, no, exactly Have you ever did it?

Have you ever met a girl who pretended she didn't know who you were and was like kicking it with you and everything, because I know that happened the other time. I artists that act like, oh, I don't know what you what do you do? I have no idea, I don't know anything about that. Never tell I mean, you know, you you just go off with that energy might be at the moment. You know, as a rap nigger, you always gonna think every chick we're gonna know. But sometimes

they don't know. You might. I've been around females before in the past, and you know, I had a great conversation and then they found out later. But I always thought that they knew. But but I'm not a nigger to be like, yo, how are you doing? My name is blah blah. I'm not using that. That's that's cool, that's cool happening to use the shield to get what

you want, you know what I mean? Be able to learn that chick you know, on the spot you know, if it happens to be where she don't know you, that should be a plus because it's like, yeah, and I get to see if this bitch really really into me? Right? So, you like, you like girls who don't know who you are? Or do you prefer would you rather date somebody who doesn't know you are, somebody who's like, knows all your music and those all your lyrics and everything. What's better?

It's not? You know, I can't say one is better than the upper. I could just say, at the end of the day, I like both. You know, if you respect, if you respect what what what kind of nigger I am? And what I'm about? You know, that's cool. But you meet a girl and you really like her and she's like the crazy woolf tang fan. She knows all the lyrics like I don't tattoo right here? What did you think about that award stamped buddy? But when that makes

you not do it? Like when if she's like, yo, you know, I never no, I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna be like, oh, ship work, wow, you I like that, you know what I'm saying. But I'm I'm like I said, I'm always gonna want to go into her mind because she's gonna tell me everything. I know. When I start asking questions, you know what I'm saying, I'm gonna be able to read us so fast. Like you know, it's

all about the personality. Like we can't forget that in relationships, because I respect a bit who's like, oh, this is what it is, this is how we're playing. You know, shoot it at me straight, you know what I mean? So I know what it is. But if it's something that I feel is worth looking at for or saying, like yo, don really fucking with her. I mean, I'm gonna pick a brain. I don't want to know things.

So she got that she got a tattoo and be like you know, you know anybody I know or whatever, like, don't lie to me because I can I can find out. How do you? I'll be like, Wow, Okay, that's what's up? All right? You sound like it's kind of like a romantic I'm not romantic, though, I'm not as you probably were romantic because you've been such an R and Bee fan and you like all that, Like you know, ship is the music that keep a nigga calm, and it's good music. That's how you get you a good chick

with with good music. Sometimes. See it's like if you're not a cook, you know, you might be great at playing great music. Like if I had to pick your right point, I feel like you would have like a playlist or something of some old some oldies. And that's mad romantic. Not all the days. I know the don and get right to the right to the pussy right over right. So there's nothing wrong with it. Though, there's nothing wrong with me. It's just letting you know what

kind of nigg I am. You know what I mean. It goes back to like I said, you don't have to be nervous or you have to do is just be you and learn to understand what he's about. Like he's learning you. So he might be like, like you said, you don't I can't shop and I can't shoot around the snake it right now, this ain't the time right there, Yeah, don't do that. Don't shoot around me, right. I'm just meeting you, you know what I'm saying. I'm just meeting you. So it's a it's a lot of it's a lot

of mind ship that you gotta. You gotta you know, be be ready. For man, what if a girl tells you I love you and you don't really love her. You don't love me, you don't, but sometimes I like you want to just say, I'm gonna be like, you don't love me though, you know what I mean? You love you? You you want to love me? How do you know she don't know what I mean? Love is a big word. I mean you might love of me, if that makes sense. How many girls have loved you?

Been in love? Yeah, I could count that on my fingers. Might be like, yeah, I'm not. You know, I'm surprised. I've been locked down for a long time. You know, I'm just one of the niggas that guy got with somebody, and you know I found a good one. You know, niggas ain't blaze that. Yeah, And I was like, you know, she was a good girl, come from a good family. You know when, um, are you guys still together? No? No, No,

free agent, man, I'm a cre agent. Free agent. He's got the playlist ready playlist though, like on your love making playlist. Oh you know, Keith Sweat, I ain't even gonna say that because I remember back in the day when I said you used to you used to walk around that Thomas. Nah, but I mean, you know, just good music alone just to me, like it calms you

down and you know, keeps everything calm. And you know, now you get an opportunity to really have a great conversation if if you're dealing with somebody that's at that that intellectual level. Do you ever do role play? Yeah? Really you do play. You just just go right in, just go for killing. Wait, I want to know what, like, oh, I've been super bad. That's like to come in and you'll you'll flip your head this way, you know what I mean, Like you'll put this leave your hand up

one right now or not. I just look, you know, like I like, I like sometimes when the chick don't it's not done up, you know what I mean? Like she just looks even sexy too, when you know she just looked like a fucking Cambodian nigga, like a refugee. She still look pretty though. It's like, come on, let me fu your help, you know what I mean, Like, yeah, fuck your help. Just to do it. I'll pay for it. Get it done again. Okay, So role play for you, and she plays a camp look like a fly refuge

you come out of the barrel. Whatever. You look good, but I know you do rope. You know I haven't you? I mean, of course I have, so who are you? I like to pretend I'm sometimes a cheerleader. I love that.

It kind of weirded this guy out, though, because he was already way older than me, and he was like, you know what, this is like a little too like I think maybe none of his kids was like a cheerleader, you know, so it kind of weird him out certain ways that you gotta do ship like safe instance, if the nigga came home, he came home right, let's just say you with your guy right now, I'm just giving you an idea what you could do to blow your

niggahead off. Not safe as he come home right, you're not there right, and you leave him a note and you say, yo, meet me here at this time. Boom boom, next thing you know, he meeting you there or whatever. Then you get there, it's like, you know, you make it like I'm not hearing I'm over here. But then you know what I'm saying, like just to just make

it fun form whatever, like a treasure hunt exactly. That's the road when I think of role play, like I think of like crazy like animalistic ship like when you're tied up and like getting whipped in the house. Yeah, exactly, like oh my god, please regular just fuck me, just side me, please, I'm psycho, like I'm really rough and crazy. Like I like to get slapped in the ship. You like to get slapped. I like to get choked. I like to get slapped. I like my hair pulled really hard.

That's why I can't wear We've. I like to get my hair pulled, like while I'm sucking dick. I like for my hair to get pulled really hard. Like I like for him to put his hand in and gripping and I like to feel it. And I like to like fill in the back of my throat like like like I like to be abused. I'm Puerto Rican, we like here, but I mean, I think, but you know, I don't want to be abused like by um, you know,

when you're in love with somebody. And of course I like to be essensual and you know, I like to kiss a lot, and you know, breathe each other in and have that you know, you know, feel the camest. But you know, especially when I'm drinking I'm like slapping marks, but if he leaves him mark, is that okay? Yeah, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter. Is there a safety word? No safety word is everything is safe? Okay, so it's never hurt. I'm really no, I'm really I'm really rough

like it. It's like after you come out of it, like your lip is swollen from getting bit your your face, you got a bruise on your face, you gotta handprint on your face. It's afterwards you're like, damn, maybe we went so far. You know what. I had a boyfriend for a while then and we only had sex like that. And now I'm like I don't want to get funk

like that. I just need to like me. I'm like that because I know it's like there's something sexy about being objectified and like, you know, and beating treated like that. But then it's like not all the time, but not all the time you're missing you got off the other stuff that medium, you know, you got to find that perfect place in the middle. And then there was one guy who I said, please, can you like choke me

a little? And he didn't know how to do it and he really had and I was like, I was like he was like, oh my god, I'm so sorry, and I was like, dude, no, just like grip my neck a little, like, don't kill me, like you know, I know. The worst for me is when like I'm like pull my hair and the guy's like, oh my god, are you sure I'm like grabbing the girl like slapped me for real, yeah, And they're like, oh my god. I don't want to hurt you. I don't like beings

very angry. I don't like being do you do stuff like that. I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna be honest with you. You know what I mean. I'm a moral I'm a moral manic type. Check it. But you know it goes but I can see with you any minute and turn into another person, you know what I mean, Because see it goes back to if you care about you know what I mean, if you feel like you got a little care for her, like she's

a good one. You know, she's a good one. You you want to treat her like a woman still, But then later on then stranglization and all of that killing her, you know what I mean? You know what I In the beginning, all of that rough ship is out of the question. You gotta really like, we got gotta you gotta work, you gotta people, would you let it go? Tell you at I don't know, you want to know? And like what am I going to do with you? Now? Rob him? Like exactly exactly, see nigga, y'all better, y'all

better listen to this ship. This is real way When when do you when do you think is an appropriate time to like take a vibrator out during sex? Okay, that's another thing you gotta work towards because that could be like a good or bad situation you bring out the vibrator, or if I'm not good enough exactly? So, how do you feel if a girl brings out a vibrator in the mix of in the mix of everything, she can't bring it out? Man? She vibrating like that

you want? I mean every time she wants like, you know, let me say, and a vibrator the same. But listen what you wanting to watch right now? You know what I mean? My thing is this Just just take this dick right now, give me about fixing fitcing twenty minutes. Let me make a sandwich, you know, let me get up make it. Yeah, of course, but I'm saying, let me, let me chill, because you know you might get a

nigger that you might run into it. Just dick you down real quick, but then he can't even dick you in the next ten fifteen minutes when you really really you open now. So I'd rather just hit you ten times then just give you two one or two good ones. But the most times you've ever gone in a row, I'm in the tens to be really coming like ten times. But that's crazy. I like, I like to win. Ain't no more coming out like nothing? Then then no more. I remember me and my son's father like we were.

We were just before we had the baby. We were like, let's see how many times we could have sex in one day, and we went sixteen times. He came to sixteen days, and I mean we weren't It's not like two minutes sex. It's like it's like a good fifteen twenty minute around every time. Cause we were like, no, we went out. I'll never forget the day we woke up early and we went and have breakfast and we have sex in the car before breakfast, before we went

into the restaurant. We had sex in the car and then we were saying our breakfast, and we're like be able, we should see how many times? So then we got back in the car. We had sex again in the car, in the car, in the car, and then we got home and we were like watching the movie more sex, and we went sixteen times. I probably got pregnant that day. Most likely did he take naps in between? No, we did. We took naps in between. We fell asleep. As soon as we got home for breakfast, we had sex again.

I remember I had on this Maxi skirt at the time. They were in style, like these Indian looking maxie skirts.

They were like a really like tight at the waist and then like really wasn't married to the yes, Like I remember, we got back in the house and like he lifted up the skirt and we like had sex standing in the kitchen, and then we took a nap, Yeah, nap, and we were like I think we fell we went, we took a nap, and then we woke up have more sex, and then I think we fell asleep inside of each other and then we like woke up and had more sex. And we were just having sex all

day long, and we missed sixteen times. My sons. I don't miss my speak to him every day, so I don't miss having sex with him because I have. I really enjoyed my sex life right now with my current boyfriend. So okay, you know, I can't say he and my son's father, like, he's not a weak guy. He has a girlfriend. She don't like you. I don't know what. How care? So can you beat that? Sixteen times? Sixteen times and one day? That's a lot. I don't know. I mean, that's that's a lot of time. We went

crazy that but it was only that one day. But I mean There's been other times with different guys that I've had sex six or seven times in a day. That's kind of normal. Yeah, a lot. Sixteen is a lot. So we we like did it on purpose, like six nuts a day challenge, six nuts a day challenge. But that's forty two much man? Right now? Like I don't let him leave the house without coming somewhere, Like you coming in, You're coming somewhere. If you're going to have

you come, You're not going out there with a loaded gun. Yeah, you are totally drained. The nuts are completely empty. But right, does it hurt after you come that many times? And you're just shooting out here. Yeah it hurts. Yeah, my man, Like I'll be wearing him out and he's like, damn baby, come on, like painful, what anything? It looks like, Look there's nothing in there, Like okay, fine, because I've heard that. I heard that it's a little painful when you're shooting

out air. I don't know that sounds painful. It ain't painful. You just just you should get sold, you know what I mean. It's like a muscle that you constantly keep hitting, you know what I mean. It's like, damn, hold up, you know no, that's true. And um with me and my like me and me and my current boyfriend, we know each other for many years, but when we first started dating, like we've been together like in a relationship

for a year. But when we first started dating, like the first three or four months of the way we are now, we would we were having so much sex, and like I was sore and he was sore. We were still going, but we were both like time to take a break, yeah, because we were having sex like seven eight times a day. Like we like we would just look at each other in the eyes and be like not had no job and nothing. I mean, you know, video, I don't know what my boyfriend does for a living.

I don't know if he has a job. You don't know if he has a job. Okay, next subject. Now, let's talk about this now. People are always send me in questions, right for asking. Now here's a question, and I'm gonna get your take on this. Okay, he said, I'm a twenty four year old, good looking dude. I've been diagnosed with a very light case of a rectile dysfunction, like six months ago. It's not full blown impotency. But the doctor said that he has a reduced blood flow

to the penis because of lack of sex. So he said, should you tell a girl, but like if you're about to have sex with her, that you have a rectile dysfunction? Because he had an experience with a girl one time where she felt like it was her fault that he couldn't get hard. So is it important to tell somebody that before you have sex with them. No, No, I

don't think it's important for you to tell him. I mean, it's all about what arises, what what you might be aroused by, you know, you know, but it's a dysfunction, like have you ever tried to have sex with the girl and you couldn't get hurt? Because it happens to everyone. I mean, it happens. What do you say, you just be like today in a great day. But his dis function. But that's what it comes down to, I think, and it's important for the woman to be, you know, not bad.

The problem is because he's not spreading it around a lot. He's not having enough sex. That's why you're not as bled flow to his penises. You're not sex making me get like this neither too. But it's a dysfunction. You're saying it's a dysfunction. But I mean the girl feel like it's her fault if a guy can't get all the way hid? Have you okay? Ladies, like, have you ever been with a guy and he can't get it up? The sex is bad? Guys have been to everybody at

some times. Guys. Yeah, And I think I think that all three of us are beautiful girls. D I think it's you know what I mean. I just think, you know, sometimes guys aren't ready to go like they've really a man needs to, you know, get it up. We could just bust it open, ready, you know what I'm going to go so you know, as a woman, I mean when you're younger, you're like, it's like sometimes the guy

is nervous. It's the first time. They might like a lot or be intimidated if you say yeah, but he can't dig you down good because he busts off real quick. He might just want to just get it off real quick, like hold like to come back coming sometimes No, but I think that'll be flattered if a guy comes nest sometimes though, I mean is like and everything I'm pushing stay back to the subject. I think that woman should be a little more understanding if you know, if that

I mean it happens all the time. If you can't ever get mad for each other, but if that happens, like it's okay, like it's a human body. Like sometimes you know it just doesn't work. But did it be live if he did each other and be genuine and be like you should be like, you know what I'm

gonna try this summer. I'm gonna get dressed up. I'm like, you know that that happens, But you can't just come in on the first get down, you know what I mean, you gotta be like they keep happening, and she gonna look at you, And that's when you gotta keep it real, like YO might not be as women. Should we be flattered if you come fast? Or should we be irritation? Should be flatter definitely, because sometimes it's like, don't you care enough to try to make me? But they can't

even help themselves. You can't help yourself, right, You know what I do? When you know when I do. When I'm when I'm ready to come, I act like I don't. I don't want to come. Then I started thinking of all kind of ship. I started counting numbers. Aren't say that behind you, you know what I mean? Or I might just say some ship like I'm about to count to a thousand, a thousand strokes, like want to you know what I mean? Like my mind is somewhere else now.

I'm not in the pussy. I'm just trying to I'm just trying to get you right now. It's about getting you right Because for females, if we come quick, it's great. We don't care because we can keep going. It ain't the party woman. I mean, most woman can't even come from intercourse like wh I'm talking about them? Like yeah, and the intercourse. Right, Yeah, I'm I'm blessed so like I'm lucky, Yeah you are. I come from dick, like I come from dick. So I do my sister giving

blow jobs? I can. I ain't got culd if I rarely thought about it hard, I think because I love sucking dick so much. But my sister, my sisters thirty five years old, and she's only had like maybe three a handful of orgasms from sexual cancer of course, and that's really sad for me. I come from dick, from the beginning of time, from the beginning of time when dick was invented. BC. Does it bother you if you don't make a girl come, like does that matter to you?

You su but not not no moment. Like I ain't dealing with all of that, man. I mean, you know, I would want you to, but if you don't, then I'll be like, yeah, I'm gonna get you on the next one where I gotta be able to chalk to you like you my nigger, you know what I mean, Because like you said, it's just you know, the way your body is, It's like you're not you're not happy to get up like she said, you you just open up.

You just know I gotta get up, so I gotta you know, you might have to be just you know, stroking me off for like twenty minutes, just so I could really get right, because I might think I'm getting right right away and then I'm not even really right yet, you know. So I wanted you know, you know, you know, even if you just kiss on it or just not give me, just play with me, so I could really act like a volture and just be like, yo, it's ready now. How do you how do you meet women? Like?

Where do you meet women? Women? Are you on online dating? Crazy? You know? I mean, you know, you know all over man, I mean you know, of course walking around, you know, like I'm a shot. I don't. I don't like pressing chick sause I don't want them to think, yeah, I'm gonna shot. I'm an laid back in romantic that should be his profile. But no, I'm not. If I see somebody that I like, I might not, I might not go for I might just would you send somebody over

like I've done that. I've done that before before. Sometimes a woman approaches you on the street. No, it might just be a random conversation like I remember meeting a girl in a shoe store, you know what I mean, And you know, yo, how you like these? But that was she didn't know I was shooting g but that was my line to get together. It's like, yo, you're like, I think you you look good at these though, and I pick out something that I know is a ficial or I might ask you how you like these? And

you know, you know, like what's your name? But you gotta have a lot of groupies. Yeah, no, I don't know. I mean, I'm a big would saying fan. When one time I was in the club, I think it was whip and like the DJ said your name, and I was like, hold on, I gotta go take a picture. Love. I know you guys had some wild times on the road because I've heard stories obviously, you know, didn't I know? Yeah, I mean you guys, I've seen it on judge shows, you know, on court. Oh my god, I don't know

about this. She was like, we didn't do anything. We just having a great conversation at seven o'clock in the morning. She was lying she might have got she might have went through a different division and subdivision, a parallel universe. Yeah, I back in the day, didn't that of guys used to get mad like if girls were on the bus and try to approach all the fighter of trying to

fight you or anything. Did that ever happen, Like like say one of the girls came on the bus and not if anything happened or not, but just mad that the girl was on because I know girls used to follow you guys around. I used to be there and see girls in the hallway trying to meet people. Was in every situation where like their boyfriend would come and

get mad at can you imagine? I mean if if a female nigga came and it's like you know, that's disrespectful because it's like nigga, don't don't come to me, come to her. But if you meet and her when she's with me, that I'm gonna look at you like Nigga did with that home. You know what I'm saying, Like you don't you don't show another nigga. It's a certain kind of you know, over your female you know

what I mean. It's like you deal with that in a place where you know, you know it's safe for you, because it might not be safe for you to try to approach your man and you know because of your chick you know what I mean, It's like you really ain't got your bit under control, fan, And that's that's detrimental to to the situation at the moment, because a nigga might want to stand on you after that, you don't want to. What do you question to me? What

do you question to me about what she doing? If you had your ship on a lock, you wouldn't even be here. Would it have been a turner for you? If he met a chicken? She she smashed one of the homies? Would would it be a turn off? Like a no go? If it makes non negotiable like smashed one of the homies, like no. I mean, you know, as long as she could be able to be real with me, you know you want her to tell you, like yeah, I feel I would do that to her, you know what, I wouldn't want to. She had slept

with him a really long time ago. I mean, if it's you know, just it's all about telling me, you know, it's like how your mom used to tell you back. I mean, it depends who he is. I mean, you know, my home girl is in a serious relationship with a guy, and she slept with his brother brother. Yeah, she was in a relationship for a long time with him. She's been with a guy for a little over a year, almost two. And she slept with his brother and she was was brother back in the day. She never told

him many years ago. You know, you know, it is what it is. I mean, like, it is what it is. Yeah, Like I just feel like for me, if it was what a condom, it doesn't count. What the rule is that that's my rule, sister, like me, and you are not ever like. So they came to you and when it to date you and but she ten years ago, your brother Dan, what would you would you? Yes, it's all about being truthful. I mean, you know, you know

sometimes so you'll understand. Men, we don't we know what we want and we know if we want to stick around or not. But we might just do it for the sport. We call it for the sport of it was for the sport. It wasn't for the that that's different. That's why I just said, it's for the sport. Could that be whatever? Could that be my girl? And she

blew my brother? What if you fall in love with a girl that who fused with your brother and then she could be a good one, and I just be like, I wouldn't give us what if your brother but like she's really nice, it just didn't work out. It was ten years ago. I think it just matters if you're honest no matter who, Like if you if you meet somebody and you've been with their friends, you have to

be honest about it. Don't let them find out through somebody else's What if you literally sleve with them, like fifteen years ago, and it doesn't even drunk, and it's like you don't even barely remember a different person. I still would years ago. It's a whole different person. Yes, I don't even need so you don't even have to So you don't have to say anything, right, I think, yeah,

what happened? Tell us? What have nothing? You both you're both like be like you should put it out in the air, like listen, years ago, I was like a drunk horror I to your brother, But I dropped a strunk hoor anymore. I don't drink. That's why you started drinking because you fex somebody's brother. No, did you get that? I don't know what happened. I've never slept a brother looking for No, I don't think it's cool though. You know, either way you slice, it's either it's fixed Sat twenty.

If you blew my brother, I don't know if I can make you myma lady. You know, I might make you my homie, like like y'all got a lot of love for you, but to be my queen. And I know that you blew my brother, I'm gonna be having night mines. I'm gonna be thinking it's in your mouth. I'm like, Yo, it's dick, It's good like that. Yeah, that's awkward. Hold you guys really think about stuff like that? Was his dick bigger than mine? I mean, if you're fucking with a chicken bus, you gotta think like that.

How do you know? I don't know, but I think they know. How do you make that up? How do you know if you have a big pussy or not? Because it's like you don't need a lot to get wet or anything different. I don't like. I don't like. I don't like. I don't like like like it's like hit the back like like like like I have a fat pussy, Like there's a lot of meat on that, like like there's fat. It's I have a fat pussy. But the showed me a small you've seen it, like

the inside of my pussy. It's signing. It's a little baby. She showed me the other because when I'm talking about bleaching and my pussy is like really pink. I showed it to you. Guys. You don't remember. I didn't see. I showed you and it wasn't me. I definitely didn't se it. Did he remember? I don't. I don't remember, but I saw it, and you know, it's like, really, I bleach, Why don't you wax? So because it's pain. She's when you bleach, the hairy bleach the skin. I

just bleached my skin. I bleach to enter and the outer my god, to make it really really, I'm bright, you like, not your ass? You like? And what do you mean you like that beautiful? I think that's really like getting waxed. I can't get wax because, like I said, I have a fat pussy. So when the bitch pulls the strip, I feel like she's taking my soul out of the You should really start getting laser hair removed. Like, yeah, it's the best thing you ever Yes, it's gonna best

thing I've ever done. The best beauty thing I've ever done. What it does hurt um their hair remove shaving is such a chore. She's so annoying. And the waxing, it's like a hundred dollars every time I go to Bliss and you can spend four and get the show forever. You don't think it's okay? What is it important to you if he is clean, like waxed off? As far as you know what, you know what I'm not in. I'm not I like, I like, I like a little Hey, I ain't on front. I like the seventies like because

you to's not like not like a super jungle. I don't know, y'all don't know, y'all. Ain't let me finish speaking. You know what I'm saying. Like as a kid coming up, we would look at Playboy books when we was a kid, and you would see the bitch and she have like hand or pussy. Now, I'm not saying like her ship got to be out of control, but you know, sometimes you'll removed, sometimes you'll removed ahead because it can get

part of the smell or whatever. But then that's what I think I thought, because like you know what, I don't need to be smelling or whatever. Let me keep the ship clean. Like actually having the hair probably makes you sweat less in a way. No, I don't know about that. I don't like a woman have just a landing ship or all over. They just gotta be pretty hair. You gotta be like baby hair like you know, it can't be like that. You gotta be like pretty. You gotta look pretty. No, I like my pussy to be

completely bald. Like. Some guys have a problem with that because it feels like they're sucking infant. No, you so, guys, Let me tell you. I was eating a guy, not my current boyfriend. I was dating a guy a couple of like, right after I broke up with my sons, did you search his name? You know I did any time I was shave, like cheating on me? Who are you fucking? Oh my god? I had a guy that used to do that to like, oh you got you just got wax? Where'd you go? Like? Now, I'm just no,

I just want my pussy to look beautiful. What do you want me to do? Like, I take pictures of it? What do you want me you take pictures of it? Yeah? I take pussy picks, like almost every day. Three single day because I think my pussy is beautiful. I like to look at it. Stephanie is very sexual and comfortable with sexuality. I am. I'm very comfortable with my pussy. There's other parts of my body I'm not very comfortable with, like my feed, my forehead, but I think is gorgeous.

I put it on a question your question at your question, Yeah, um, do you think do you think that being with a man and just sucking him all the time is enough to keep him man? Absolutely not. There's so much to keeping a man. Like, like I said, a way to a man's heart is, you have to have good pussy. A man will never fall in love with you if he doesn't. But you have to take care of a man. You gotta make him feel like you're there for him, like you can do things for him that no one

can do. You understand your pussy. No, no, forget your pussy, because if a man is if you can keep a man, if he's already kept, the pussy's already good. It's already he's already enjoying the sex. He he likes the way you suck his dick, he likes the way you you're letting him fuck you, or the way you're getting on top of him and fucking him. But there's other things. When you're moving forward in a relationship. You have to be able to take care of and man, be there

for him, you know what I mean. Cook him a meal. You need to cook him a meal. You give him and rub his bag, touch him the right way. You know, to be able to kiss him and and let him smell you. You smell him, and you know you can't fake chemistry. What about conversation. Conversation is so important. You need to be able to laugh where your man, be able to crack a joke, be able to be really serious, you know what I mean. Like, there's so much to keep in a man, and it's not easy. It's hard work.

And I think the same for a woman is just a little bit easier for men because women will will accept anything. Is that? Who you think? Women will accept anything? Almost you think? So you show them like, like I could do this for you. I could. I could do your laundry, I could clean the house, cook a meal, go outside, work, make my money, come home, suck your dick, let you fuck me and still not be sweating. I'm

still good to go. I could do something. You know what I think I was like, and I was saying this earlier. My my problem is that I don't accept a lot of ship. True, you don't accept a lot of Yeah, like if you if you funk up, I don't know if I'm going to really stick around for that up, like in what way? Like in you know, in many ways, like if you cheat on me, I

don't know if I'm gonna stick around after that. I don't know if women, but a lot of women do a lot of women will stay with you if you cheat, And nothing against them because everybody has their own thing and maybe some guys learned. So what if you was a man? Would you cheat? If I was a man?

I don't. I think that men stopped cheating when they've experienced a lot of things in their life and they get older and they don't feel like I listen, But this is an honest question, ladies, though, for real, if you was a man, would you cheat? Be honest? Now? If I was, how I am? No, I'm just gonna say I have no idea what it's like to be a man. I can't. Okay, so you know you are wired differently than us. But see that's the whole thing though.

It's like, you know, see one thing you gotta remember, right, y'all can go get fucked in ten minutes, five minutes. You can go down to blocks boom. You know what I'm saying that, Man, I don't give a fun. You got money, you come to Bentley, whatever you're doing or whatever, you still gotta work. You know what I'm saying. But my thing is, like I said, if we're different. You know, so even if you say that you're not, I ain't

been in that situation. I mean as a man, if you hit that, you're gonna be looking at the next It's like I want that too, but not you might not look at it. Cheat. You might just look at it like yo, if I could get that now. Cheating to me is when you really over there like that, like if you over there and you just keep Basically, I don't think that, you know, people want to put this is how men think. I mean, but people want to put all the blame on men. Man, cheat every man.

Cheat wouldn't just as much, a little bit more, a little bit more preserved with you're sneaky exactly, were much better like they get caught sniffing everybody's ass. We just get caught. That's how we get caught. They don't get caught exactly. But I also think that this is what my experience from like knowing men and knowing different women

that I'm friends with. I also believe that sometimes for women, like a lot of my friends that have been wild when we were younger, when once they had kids that kind of stopped all that. Because it's harder for women because they tend to be more of the caregivers and spend more time with their kids, and they just don't have the time to cheat, you know what I'm saying. Like, I know a lot of guys have more time on their hands, they don't have to be homeless. Often they're traveling.

They gotta do this, they gotta do that for women, and sometimes I feel like it's just harder just physically to be yeah, unless they're like working at something. But I respect to chick who who's like gil before she do what she tell you, Like, you know, I'm ready to back out. You know, that's one thing. I cheated all my son's father and the and the guilt killed me. And I told them. You know, they always say you cheat on somebody you shouldn't tell them if this mistake

you could ever make. They always said that because they say, if you tell somebody that you cheated, that's to relieve your own guilt. And it's really selfish. No it is, but it is they're going to help them. It's not. I told him. I'm like, listen, you do it anymore. See that's your own guilt. That didn't do nothing for him, and it did nothing for me either, Like kind of in your relationship, what about open relationships? What about those?

What do you think about? That's disgusting. I can't do it. But because you don't want to know your just sucking somebody else, you know. I the chicks on me that before, like y'all what you wanted to you want to just do you? And you know, like, I'm like, so me and you're supposed to just come in the door together. You're bringing it in in, I'll bring it chicken in

whatever not, you know what I mean. I'm just like that's disgusting, you know I again, man a man with a man, y'all could just stick it, you know what I mean? Like, we gotta take care of ourselves. Women, we are like it doesn't lessanging it could spread out gaping like nobody wants a big wide pussy. You're spreading it all a lot. As a woman, it's gonna turn into that. You have to take care of two kegles,

take care of yourself. Don't don't funk everybody. A man on the really work kegles work for sure, I do. I'm doing kegles right now. Me I am two seven. You can't do it. You can't do your penis? Can you know? What are you telling your vagina muscle on you like? It's like a work exactly to do it on a dick. It's amazing. It's like a lot of you know, for the man tonight, for the men listening to our podcast. A lot of women can't make a lot of women. I never knew that was the name

before practice it. You got to do it and do it and do it and do it to get better, feeling good about He goes tomato, tomato, we all get. We live in the building. I don't want me to. And that's a big a sex tip for a sex tip, like guys like when they like when they're stroke and you and they pull out and you squeeze it back in. You really like that a lot rabbit like, you know, you know, the stroke up and down, in and out, in and out when when he goes out, you pull

back and guys love that. And then he comes out of you and you have a bag and then you come down. All right. Well look, we gotta say the fans, but Wine, thank you so much for coming. Is going to do the services. And you know, you know me, I'm a I'm a respectable guy. You know what I like? I like, yeah, all of that, but for the most part, I respected because you know, you got to have a little you know, a little life. It's real. All right, Well,

thank you so much, Reine. I appreciate you. It's weird because I like, this is like my brother right here, but I learned that. Sorry, and you love too much? Okay, well, okay, we all can be Cambodian refugees there. You go. Much love to y'all. Man and your relationships, and you know, like I said, it's it's so important to look at that person and you know, have fun with them too, because all of this is a part of fun and you get to know that person, you know, and that's

what keeps a relationship. When you're able to open up on both sides. And friends you know, yeah, friends is your friends is number one. I have the line if you ain't my soldier, if you ain't my soldier, and then we're not. Really it is beyond the pussy now that's my relationship. I appreciate that friend. Alright, thank you, right,