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Ep. 40 w/ Terrence J

Mar 10, 201638 min
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Terrence J tells Angela Yee, Gigi Maguire and Stephanie Santiago how to know when a guy only wants you for sex and nothing else and then talks about going through difficult breakups and abstaining from sex, what it means (or doesn’t mean) when you meet his family and/or friends, staying friends with his exes (Brandy is in the movie “The Perfect Match”), and using food in the bedroom. He admits that he's a pleaser, and gets disappointed with himself if he busts too fast.

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We don't want him to bust too quick. It's lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire, and Terence Jay is here. Terence doesn't normally do stuff like this because he's a Hollywood actor, but he does have his own movie out now. Well it's coming out, The Perfect Match. It's like an autobiographical story about Terence Jay's life. That's what I got from the trailer. Well, Obama is fucking bed and in real life and all that.

So yeah, I wanted the film to look like that. Well, based on a truth story, the story, Yeah, yeah, I would say so. Yeah, alright, so you have maybe it says in the trailer you have some issues as far as once you get with the woman and you have sex with her, the challenge is gone on your board? No, no, no, is that? Is that what the takeaway from the trailer is.

That's interesting you said that. So that that means I got to talk to marketing and make sure the next trailer we cut really shows with the movie because it's not that it's it's about a player who who who meets a girl. His boys basically bet him that he can't just chill with one girl, like really just data girl and be with her until one of my boy's wedding, right, so he has to stick with one girl to win his bet. And as he just spends time with the girl,

he really falls in love. But she ends up breaking his heart and it's his first time getting his heartbroken, and and you know, he goes on a journey from there. But it's it's nothing like any other romantic comedy because it's it's not there's no ribbon on the end, like it's not like you know, they get back to like, it's it's a different type of No, it's not sad, it's it's just different. You gotta see it. You gotta see it. It's it's not like anything that you've seen before.

So you wrote this movie. Um we did a page one rewrite, which means, uh, we had a great script. But um so, like the character in the original script on the Shoe Store, I changed this so that now he's he's an agent, and so you you you you change the dynamics of the character to make the story fit. And um I put in real personal situations in there as well. Well, we're gonna get into that because I sew us some personal things going down. But first we

always start with our tip of the day. Now, the tip is, how do you know when a guy only want you for sex and nothing else? All right, you're gonna go last, Terence, because we're gonna ask the ladies what they think, and you tell us if we're on point, and then you'll give us your inside aspect. Stephanie, how do you know when a guy only wants you just for sex and nothing else? When he doesn't invite you out, he only wants to see you in the house. He's like,

what you're doing? Come over? Yeah, come over? It's two am. That's even if no matter what time, because girls get excited when a guy calls him over at four pm or five pm. But if you're not going outside with him, he's just he's trying to suck you at four pm sex and maybe if you stay longer, he'll probably you're a gun at nine, you know six? All right? What do you say, g how do you know when a

guy only wants you for sex and nothing else? That's pretty much it like when sex is all that you have, when you don't when you don't think anything else but meet up in hand sex, then it's really that's all he wants from you. Yeah, if he's not asking you like you know, like all up. Yeah, and another thing, even if his friends are around, it's still the same thing. It doesn't matter you only want sex. If a guy wants to get to know, he's gonna want to take

you out. Yeah, he's gonna want to know about your interests and do things that make you happy. And um, if he doesn't do all of that, then if you're just bone in, then you're just and he's gonna send you like sweet text messages throughout the day and tell you he's gonna call you on the phone to talk and hear your voice and face time and all of that. If he's not doing things, just realize you don't know

what's going on, and even don't know. But honestly, and guys even, um, I think even if they're calling you all day and texting you like, they're just trying to keep the pussy when I'm supposed to be to come back. Yeah, exactly, Because I feel like guys who only want sex only text you when they want you to come over, I don't know, or to set up the date for when they was right. They don't really call you just a chat. So how would your day? Let me tell you what

happened today. That's like a more of a you know we're friends too, well, you tell less terrence now, you know. I just I think there are a lot of misconceptions, you know what I'm saying, Like like like you were saying earlier, like because there's a lot of maintenance, right, So so so if you do just want to smash, sometimes you'll you'll just send those text messages to keep it in play, right, And then sometimes you'll call like and just have a conversation just so that you can separate

you stuff like yeah, I even call you. I know these other dudes don't call you know what I'm saying. So sometimes you you throw that in there just to keep it all in play. So, I mean, I just

think it comes with tom and maturity. I think you know a woman, you'll be able to tell if a man has other intentions through his actions, and it's just across the board, because it's like even with the whole I won't introduce you to my friends, Like that's not true, Like I could just meet you at the club and and and then and be like yo, bread and shape for everybody, you know what saying. We all hang out, so it doesn't even like, well I met his friends,

it doesn't matter if you meet his parents. Parents are down to no, no, no, I don't know about that. What you want to do? The girl you just with smashing it wasn't interested into your parents. My mom be falling in love with with chicks too much, like she'd be wanting them to be here. My mom wants a daughter. My mom, I'm convinced she wants like a daughter and grandkids. So if she even thinks that I could, she always

likes them too much. So I try to like really save you know it got I gotta be like really dealing with somebody a long time. I don't think people just I don't. I don't know. I never know my real dad, but my stepdad, he don't be caring like he just he's cool. You can bring up an because I would think you're not gonna just bring some random

chick though to meet your parents. I mean, my parents live in North Carolina, so so when they fly to me, it's like we just be spending you know, the weekend together. Like I just I don't want them to be anybody, all right, So what are some other tips that how do we know when a guy is interested? Then in that case, here's what you gotta understand is that with

with the man, it's about time. Mean for us as men, right, we gotta go through the things in life, whether it's getting our career in order, getting getting our our our feelings and our oneness with ourselves. We gotta get all that in order before we can be a proper man to you. So by the time we meet you, it's already pred Like you, you might not know where we're at, but but we know where we are and when we're

ready to accept the real woman in our life. And so like I could, I could be with a girl now, meet her the first night out, sleep with her the first night out, and have a three year relationship with her. You know what I'm saying, because I just look for different things now. So it's not Women sometimes think, oh, I gotta I gotta hold back to pussy before, you know, to make sure, like until he really proves like that's not even necessarily true. So you don't look at women

differently if you sleep at them the first night. Absolutely, so it doesn't matter if she holds back Like listen. I was talking to Megan Good today and she was talking about being celibate because she wanted to find a husband and she didn't to just date anymore. So for a year she didn't have sex, and they she didn't have sex with her husband till they got married. He would tell it, but for ten years. So you don't

think any of that. I mean, I think that's a you know, there's there's always you know, there's always extremes in every example. You know what I'm saying, Like him being that is admirable, you know, and I know divan and so you know, to go ten years and be selibrant, that's just a different type of as long as you

go on Terence. After a breakup, I take time like I've gone like you know, a couple of months, like like six months where I just like really, yeah, yeah you will you remember like the real bad breakup he was around the one yeah, like when I was really fucked up, and then it was just like I didn't even want to date girls. It was like I needed something to be like prob. He didn't mean that he went in to date boys. I forget where I'm at

and having bitches. See guys go through that too, because sometimes as women, we think when guys break up, all they do is go and a bunch of women. Yeah, they sometimes I think the women he did. Go ahead, say what you mean? Say girl, I just want to say he did. I think I think the women do that. I think the women, but I'm never gonna get over him. Let me call my axs and get fucked. I think the women do that, but don't let me. So you went for six months. You were the heartbroken that you

couldn't have sex. I mean this was probably like six years ago. You did it like a little puppy. I felt so bad for you. But it was transformative time, like like I went literally from a board to him, Like the amount of money I made after that, because you know, I got focused on work. I changed and just you know, I got a self in Aalizatian moment, and like, y'all, I don't want to be this little corny dude, right, I want to I want to do this. I want to be and so it takes that time.

I believe in life you gotta go through those snumbling box in order to build yourself. And I just think every relationship man, you're really in a relationship with yourself right Your your connection is with God. Everybody that you you you encounter in your life is just a mirror projection of the things you put out, you know, And so when people come to you with bad energy, I can't even it doesn't even phasee me because my energy

right now is so good. I'm so at one. I know who I am, so it's like none of that can even funk with me, you know what I'm saying. So it's like when when you know who you are in a relationship and then you meet somebody else in they the same way. That's when when I think it works. And I think Megan, like in the Megan and Making that been through through things in her life that made her her wanting and she was She's such a good woman, you know what I'm saying, And it worked. Now, it's

interesting that you said that. I was just saying this earlier. With guys, I feel like you could be with the right woman, but if it's at the wrong time in your life, it's not gonna work. But it's like whenever you're ready to settle down. I kind of felt like sometimes with guys, whatever woman you're with or around that time that she's gonna be it. Timing is everything. That's what I said. Timing is before anything else. Man is everything, because you gotta be you gotta be ready to accept it.

You know what I'm saying. You gotta be you gotta be built for it, you know. All right? Now, do you stay friends with your excess? You've just been talking about bad breakups and all of that, and I see Brandy's in the movie and we know y'all dated. Um, so how do you stay friends with your exces? And how your friends with? Would you say the majority of them, I would say, so yeah, I mean, yeah, I'm friends with with Brandy did me a solid on this movie

because somebody dropped out and we needed somebody. I called Brandon like like five in the morning, was like, please, can you can you do this this role for for for the film. She was on set by like nine o'clock killed it. So so yeah, so you know, she she's fantastic. I would say the majority, like, like, are are really good? And then you know, like selfishly with some of them, I kind of it's it's weird, like I feel like women motivate me, you know, and I

feel like we're relationships. Sometimes you need that that pain in order to to fuel. Like the most incredible artist like Pablo Picastle, his Blue Period was written when I mean, was was painted when he went through a really hard breakup, you know. And so I've always said, you know, I want to I want to be the biggest movie star, so I can put a billboard on such as such house, you know, on the side of her apartment building, petty petty as So. Yeah, so sometimes, you know, sometimes you

need that separation. But I always try to keep you know, positive, and and and but if that right after you break up, can y'all still be friends? You think, because you know how some people break up and they try to still be cool, like, well, you know, we could still be friends. I think it all depends on the situation. Yeah, that's that's a that's the type of It depends on what happened. It depends on how deep the womb, how deep the

cut was, how worse the situation was. I feel like if it was a situation where it wasn't all of that bad, then yeah, that's just remain friends and moving especially when the children involved, right, you know, So what if you have a kid, right, and you break up with your man, but he was close with your daughter, is it? Are you still gonna have them hang out stuff? Yes? Well, whenever, when we broke up, my daughter still lived with him.

So it's Harden meeting into the question on personal level. Right, But then y'all ended up. You knew he was gonna get back together at some point? Yeah, I knew the data that moved out that I was going to be moving back here. That's when I realized that I was slightly psychic Data I moved out. I was like, I love you. That that sounds stalker Rish, right, Well it was stalker Rish when he pushed me in the whatever. But yeah, never mind, too close to the situation, don't

even all right? Um, Now, recently we saw this picture of Kim Kardashian and Amber Rose together and people are like, Okay, look at this, Kanye's X is hanging out with his current wife. What do you think about your girlfriend being friends with like an X? Oh? I mean, all that's cool, man. It's maturity, you know what I mean. It's it's you know, people or people when you can't you can't stop people from you know, build the friendships but is it weird

to you? Because it's like, what do you think I must be immature as Because no, I don't want to be around any of my boyfriends anything that he ever touched like cool, I'm not sure. Enemy. I don't hate you, but when we're not friends, you don't you don't feel like you could gain insight. But like like no, no, I think sometimes she might have ulterior motives too. You

have to get careful with that. You don't want your boyfriend's X trying to tell you stuff about him and giving you insight on my man because and then she might be doing stuff just to purposely. And then if it's okay for you to hang out with one of his acts, that means it's okay for him saying his ex and you don't know what's gonna go on behind your back, Like no, no, you can never trust somebody who has already to be like your boy used to be. No, oh my god, you can't trust a woman who's already

how your boyfriend's taking their moufic. You just can't listen. I feel you. I don't know if I could trust the money unless it was the situation. It was like twenty years ago you know what I'm saying. You know, but I'm Puerto Rican. You know, I'm very possessive. I'm like, no, see, I believe everybody has amount rushmore right, like like you got your you know, like the top four presidents is on.

So I feel like everybody got you know, the one or too you know, in life, I give you one or two, you know, maybe three that like really hold that space in your life, right And then for me, if it's anybody else besides that, I just really don't care, Like I just there's no level. I just it's not good or that. I just don't it's not part of my moment. No, I think it's a beautiful thing. You can be friends with your access. Your current girlfriend could

be friends with your access. I think that's beautiful. God bless your guy. Like no, and then you know, I'm like, you know, you single right now, I'm single. I've been single for like six months. But she's I'm in a great time. I'm really happy. It's like the best time in my life. But she was in a relationship before that, so she was in a long term relationship. So now she's single, you know how it is the long term. My last relationship was like a year some change. I mean,

but that's not like it wasn't that. It felt like felt like it felt like a very deep I felt like it felt like a decade. I felt real still over or he's in jail. There's no coming over. Yeah, there's no coming going. When it comes over, she'd be called the cops and turned his ass in, or she'll be aiding in her betting. Damn. Yeah, whatever, Terence, When it comes to dating, do you like girls that, if you had to choose, have a lot of followers or

basically anonymous and no profile. If you had to pick, do you want to be like that power couple everybody knows her, y'all posting picks, or do you want her to be anonymous to the world. You know, I feel like for me today, you know, I don't. I don't want a relationship out there in the public. You know what I mean, I've done I've done it both ways and and you know, as as far as having a private relationship, have to clarify everything. I've had private private

relationships and I've had public relationships. And when you have a public relationship, it's like it's three people in it is you the girl, and then the public people just comment on I saw Terrence going to the club, Oh he was flirty with you know, g G and Stephanie on the show. You know what I'm saying. And it's just like, I don't even want that energy, so so

I just choose not to put it out. Now, whether she has a bunch of followers or not, you know that that's I mean, that's irrelevant, you know what I'm saying. So it's not intimidating to you, like if you're say you're with Stephanie. She's posting sexy pictures on the Graham and guys are leaving comments like I'll eat your ass and stuff like that. That went by you because I get it, and I'm sure she, I mean, she probably gets so much of that in her DM she's probably

numb to it. First, all right, like you're probably And then I mean I always, whenever I'm in relationships, by default, I look at it from a business protective perspective. So I'm like, Okay, you got all these followers, how can we monetize? Can you post the trailer for my movie? And I'm gonna have you hold this bottle. We're gonna do this some little messages. Who are you getting your you know, you got your fitness seed, you got this? Whatever?

What are we doing? And and and build the brand and make money from it because now social media is just the business tools you know, you make, you make. Honestly, I feel the same way, like I don't want to have a relationship and I don't want to have a public relationship, but I do wanna. I do want to date somebody who you know, is in this business and understands like this is all normal for me, Like you know all the comments and the guys, So you want

somebody in the business. Yeah, I mean I want to date. You know, I'm I'm not dating outside of entertainment. I'm not. I tried. It doesn't work, Like I don't feel like they don't have to stand. I mean, I just want to date somebody who can understand my lifestyle, understand that I might say that I have nothing to do this week and then I have to travel somewhere that's man got at last minute, or I have to or you know, I'm promoing this, I have to take a picture with

this person. You know. I just need somebody to understand that my previous relationships it's been really hard, you know, like I just don't understand, like this is just normal, Like why is this person commenting that? I don't know that person the day to women that's not in the business, it doesn't understand certain things like why would you understand club along? Like why are you always busy? Women are

innately smarter than men. So it's easier for me to find that might not be in the industry, that that understands or has empathy for for my career. Plus, I'm just older and I've been doing this literally for you know, ten fifteen years. So when I talk to him and even she's not in industry, I'm so respectful and so

you know open that that usually I don't. I don't have that type of issue, But I mean that that becomes a gift in a curse with with sticking to you know, you don't want to limit your blessings you don't know where Oh no, I'm not. I mean if I find somebody who's not in the industry, gonna say that is um because you know, I still date. I still date, you know, guys who aren't in entertainment. I did,

I'm dating guys who are in entertainment. You know, I'm just dating the day, But I honestly don't think um like, I don't want to be with somebody who's super famous. I don't not want to be with somebody who's super famous. I just, you know, want to be with somebody who could understand, who's not gonna get mad and every little thing. Yes, exactly. I don't want to be with somebody who I'm gonna

take to a big event. And you know, there's a lot of industry people there and I'm you know, chit chatting with you know, X Y Z person and they're like, oh my god, why did you give them your number? Why are you talking to this person so long? Like because this business is a networking business, Like I have to do things like that. It's part of my job. Now, Terry's how much does that woman's past mad a to you? Now you're dating a girl And she's like and she's like, listen,

I just want to keep it real. Like, you know, I got shipped on in Dubai because I needed to pay something. Oh my god, this is gonna sound crazy, and and Fred is laughing because it's it's true. I I swear that if the chemistry with you and and a girl is real enough, like the past doesn't matter for real, even if she got shipped on and d by even like like, I mean, that's a little that that so now that into integrity, like that that comes

into like moral compass and integrity. But but as far as like if a girl that I meet used to date, you know, trade songs or something like that, or that's happening. Yeah, I mean listen, you know, or a girl used to date you know whoever. You know what I'm saying. It's not like I'm gonna be like, oh my god, you date it because especially in l A. I mean, it's just a small town and and with women like men with such good liars that it's like, you know, we

we got. It's like you you might find yourself in a good two month situation with a dude before you even realize that it's complete bullshit, right you know, you know, so it takes it. I mean, and it's a growth, it's a learning curve. But if it nuds leaked online, does that matter? I mean, whose news aren't online? Right? A few people? I mean your news aren't online? New all right? I'm a post m you don't have no no nude pictures online. Now I'm just surprised because see

but I don't, I mean you naked. I don't have anything you got you No, I never said. Then they get a picture of myself anywhere? So what you never done a pic? You're lying, Terry. Listen, I'm thirty three now, even without your facing it, you never send a picture of your dick. I escaped this like like remember Twitter, we debut Twitter on one on six and part like when I was like, twe you said on my instagment. Yeah, but by that time I was already like twenty six

years old, so it's like I wasn't. But that's what I'm talking about. Text mess and people still send dick picks that you know, me and Selita was not gonna send each other, you know, like she never was like you know she was, she was in the industry. We both knew what was going We wasn't. You know, I've never because I always knew. I was like if I were on for president one day, I don't want anybody with that type of leverage in their phone. So you

don't think Barack Obama ever sent Michelle dick pick? What why are you talking about you don't think he ever was sitting in in the White House, Like, Yo, this not even when you want any post they're married. I don't even be texting like that. You don't because why why are you scared some mine's gonna post it? Because man, it's just dirty. It's dirty out there. You cannot trust the cloud. You can't trust none of that, cannot trust ship. I'm not gonna, I'm I'm really send you with my photos.

I don't. I've always been I've seen too many people getting exposed pictures. I've seen pictures in your guys. Please I take the She's like, look at my pussy, isn't it? She's just pictures yet. But I'm saying, like I always say, you have to be like my daddy, Like you gotta be my like I've we've already seen each other. I've already made you come and probably made me come all

for me to send you naked pictures. I don't send anybody naked pictures like I know, girl, Like sometimes I'll just meet a guy and I'll be talking to send me a picture. No, I mean, I just I don't like screenshot my Instagram and send this and like girls. Girls accidentally text me to screen grab of the conversation they having. Oh my god, that's embarrassing, and it's like I'm like, yo, I'm not I'm not taking the now professional Wait, somebody did that to you before I sent you? Yes,

just happened screenshot about Yes. No, I don't remember what we were talking about. And I was like, oh, I don't know it once in the medical argument, and then I said, read what you just said. You sound so stupid, Like I meant this in that to you, right? I meant that. So you think that social media and texting and all that is ruining relationships? I mean, I wouldn't say that, but you know, I think it's a generational thing.

I think the you know, like like a like a you know, I'm thirty three year old was just gonna have a different perspective of it because they grew up into it. They grew up in round it. Me. It was like, you know, I called girls like when I was sixteen years old, I had no choice. If I wanted to talk to you, I had to call your house and remember the phone number. You know, I don't

nobody's I'm used to it. It's a regiment Over the years, you just you get used to actually talking to women, and so I can't text you like you know w y D, Like I don't even let girls do that to me. Like if we won't talk, we're gonna talk. I'm not gonna go back and forth with you unless I've already smashed and I'm just doing maintenance. You like when girls saying your new picks to themselves. Though it's cool, but it's like, I'd rather just put put you on

the plane. Just come to me, you know what I'm saying, Like PJ, I ain't saying PJ said jet Blue. I said jet Blue more even more. You know they got the late flat bed. Now they got the first class

and Jeff little super clean, that super clean. But no, I mean no, it's it's cool, but you know what, man, I really feel like it's become so accessible that you know, I value the conversation more if I'm talking to you, right, because because if I need to look at a photo, I can go to your Instagram real quick, and if your Instagram don't got nothing, I'll go to somebody else Instagram page, you know, like whatever, so you look at it.

You said, if it don't got nothing. I'll go to somebody else's I'm saying, if you just want to be a freaking just look exactly exactly like I don't even want to check. I'm really dealing with like, I don't need that from me because we were trying to build something else, you know what I mean? Now, what is sex like with Terence J? What's that like? In the Do you want to hear some things that I heard? No? I do not. Next question like chocolate, chocolate? Who you

know use foods and stuff and it? Oh who told you? That must have been like six years ago. Seven years ago, that's old news. So yeah, yeah, Now it's like because that that's sticky and messy. Now say you did used to do that fun stuff? Yeah, scolate the wrong. No, I did hear that. Terence is very thoughtful in the bedroom and he's you know, he's like the rose petals, let me pour food on you and chocolate and whipped cream and all that type of guy. Wonder who's talking

to you? I'm more curious on who like. As soon as these mics are over, I want to with food. I don't like sex with food. Why it's messy? Sex is supposed to be messy sometimes and you're like you me, yes, and I hated it for me, I M, I I don't what, I don't I don't know what the word. I want to make sure that the woman is pleased before me, you know what I'm saying. So like like so like like even if if I blust too, I'll

be embarrassed. I below my guy, and I like, I'll make sure to pull it back together for another round. Oh my god. Yeah, or like I'm gonna go down it and eat until I can figure it out. I'm gonna have to come back because you know, I just you gotta perform up to some type of standard. Yeah. Yeah, So sometimes you have been disappointed with yourself, like of courl we all have. You know what I mean? You know, I mean women, But they say women's take it as

a compliment. If a guy bust too fast, I don't think, yeah, it's your fault. Well, then you're welcome, going to keep happening. I don't care how good it is feeling to you, Like work harder, think about baseball, don't come fast. I don't think it's a compliment. It's a waste of time, it's a waste of pussy. Would you ever eat a girl out and not have sex with her just to please her? Oh damn, that's pretty nice. Have you ever got blue balls? What's that? Well? You know blue bulls?

You never heard the blue balls? Come on, anybody heard the blue bull I mean, is it a real thing? Like that saying? But people are telling me it's real, it is real that it wasn't no thing. Look said that we never have blue balls. But he's Luke and then you know he's probably all the time expert tell us something about blue Yeah, you know she was saying that females, there's a female version called turquoise something, turquoise overies, turquoise overes. Yeah, I think she just made that up.

Because made that up. No, but blue balls. It's like when you when you get excited, you know, you're you know, all the blood is rushing, and then you know what that happens? Oh but then why don't you just but and you don't jerk off? So what happens is and get it out of here. You know what's gonna Listen, If it don't pop, then I'm gonna just go take a shower. It's gonna come out right. So you're not

giving yourself a chance to get blue balls. Just I'm just trying to figure out the point, like why would you why would would you like? Why would you just know? But I think a lot of the young guys get it because you know, they're playing around, you know, like virgin play, and you know then they have to go home or you know, go where, So it takes them a while to even get to the shower or somewhere that where they will be able to release believe themselves. Well, Terence,

who is the perfect match for you? What would you say right now? Being that you've gone through all this in your life, You've had some serious relationships, You've had some not so serious relationships, You've never had blue balls? Who is the perfect match for you? Would you say? Like? What? What woman is the perfect match? But if you could describe her? Yeah, you know, just Will Smith says, when he walks in the room with Jada, he feels exponentially

more powerful than when he walks in by himself. And and just the woman that you know, when I'm with her, I feel powerful. You know, she she supports me, I support her. Um, I mean sex is important, you know what I'm saying. The chemistry in the bedroom and and you know, just having the same values and wanting to to accomplish you know, the same things. You know, could you be with somebody and love them and be attracted

to them, but not have sex with them. Because I have a couple of friends in this situation right where they're in relationships and for some reason they're not really having sex so much anymore, Like once a month they stopped having sex. Yeah, they used to, and now they're saying, my man's not having sex with me, I'm having sex with someone else. You think that's what that means automatically, I would think. So a month, yeah, with no sex, like sex once a month on the average. So a

whole month with no sex. So if a guy is not having sex with you, he's definitely having sex with someone else. It couldn't be anything else. What else could it be? You got it? Well, unless you're just having fun in the shower. You said you're having sex every day. No, I don't have sex. We don't have sex every day. However, we're not going the whole month. We're not even going a week, because I'm gonna just take it like we're not doing it really, Yeah, I agree. A month A

month is a very long time. Even one week is a long time. A month is a long and like even I feel like even that week of light week, you could do other things. You know he gonna put You have an anal sex? You've never tried it? Yeah, I've tried it. You don't like it? Why not? Is it messy? I don't know just what turns you off from it? What turns you off from anal sex? You know what's the what's the you know, what's the point.

Why would you want to Why would you want to fucking ask when there's a pussy there, because it's tight and different. But the for anal is just like a whole asked is just a whole. There's like muscles and you know the vagina. Guess really, well, you've done analo and they just but you're suppose he's a lot of lubricante. I don't like to feel a woman come, you know

what I'm saying, Like girls can't coming there? Asked no, But I'm saying, even if they do, you can't feel the pulsations the way you can feel it in the we're coming down, you know what I'm saying, Like I want to be able to like feel it coming down? Well, so what are you gonna say? What did you do on your research and research on animal sex? And I found out that you have to clean your amus properly before. You don't need to do research to find out out you know, no, no, no, no no, don't clean the

right way. I've done some research and I found out that you have to clean like a lot like my stuff, various process right, that's what into That's that's why I never research. I didn't. I just didn't want to bring up the fags. But I mean my gay friends, you know with hearings on the couch because hold me. But yeah, that's what I meant. Like, I talked to my gay friends and they told me, like, you gotta really it's like a whole half hour worth of well do you

stick fingers in the butt and stuff like that. I don't do anything. But I don't don't because if a girl tries to put her tongue, no no, no, I don't like no fingers, but madden her is either you don't eat asks nothing nothing happens in the butt around me. So if you're eating the plusson, you're not gonna get down and get a whole little swap c the other direction. You're already going in the wrong direct. But what if she asked you to what if she say, put your

finger in my ass? No girl, somebody asked Terence, where if a girl did ask you that, you're not gonna not do it? I don't think I would do I don't know. I mean, is not putting his thumb in her? But it's nice. Yeah, like it's it's okay because I'm I'm with you on that. Like I don't like anything happening,

like even eating ass. I think it's kind of whack, but it's nice when you're like riding a nigger, like like doorgi sty reverse call girl or being in dorg Stag and he like grabs your ass that puts a thumb. All right, Well, there's a tip for you that you've never tried over. You should try it and let us know how it goes. It's and then you can feel her. Yeah, like you hold it like short like that's gonna be nice. It doesn't mean you actually have and it looks like

if you're recording it, it looks nice. He has a good hit. I'm like my nail scratched something in there, that's the next movie, the perfect, perfect You're not gonna scratch. Yeah, I just I don't know, Yeah, not so much. But I like even that whole fat last year with to eat the booty like groceries bullshit, Like that's not like you can't come from a nigger look in your ass. It's kind of why some people can. I'm gonna tell

you something. I don't gonna take me interview a tank on the Breakfast Club, and all he talked about was how much he loved getting his ass eaten. And he talked about the first time it happened to him and how much he enjoyed it, and he loved it. And I'm so glad that he admitting these days like this is like a real ass eating gen ration and people you have the je spot in there, like guys like I don't you know, we speak here, it comes, you know,

we speak about this all the time. Like I don't think there's anything wrong with guys liking fingers in their ass, okay, because they can come like that. We can't, No, we can't. I think women we don't have He was married and has never told her husband that she loves ano sex and he's never done it to her and she loves it, but she's embarrassed to tell him and they've never had no she's bogging she should act like she's never done it's about to act like you never did it and

just ask him to try it together. She's embarrassed to bring it up because he's kind of a prude. I think some girls they're just their assholes are just more stratchy than others, right the booty. All right, well, Terry Sa, we want to thank you so much for coming a perfect match in theaters March eleventh, Yes, and we're gonna be watching that was Did you have a lot of chemistry with Cassie on set? How important is that when you're filming, Like, it's very important? You know. The scenes

were fun? She I mean she was she she really threw herself into the role, you know, and puff faced Tarmy we started shooting, I'm sure he did and was like, yo, I'm gonna send French out there. He's like, he's like, I'll be more mad if it if it looks whack, if it looks fake, and then I will be if it doesn't. You know. Yeah, So he's like, you know, grab her to do it for it. Yeah, so when you watch it, I mean the sex scenes, they're steamy, they're good. You get an erection during that. Yo, here's

the thing. You're shooting a sex scene in front of all these people. Still, that could be a turn on too. Well, you got the first of all, it's hot and it's a lot of things. Yeah, but I mean yeah, I mean listen, I'm a man, but they make it hot so you can sweat. Yeah, it's a process. It just know it's hot because of the lights. There's so many and then you gotta got you have a thing over it, right, the cock sack. Yeah, so it's it's kind of it's

just yeah, it's a lot going on. Okay, alright, interesting, Well, we'll be making sure that we check that out. And I can't wait. Is there going to be a part two? You think? Let's see how the first one does. I hope. So I can't well, I can't wait with Terry J. Thank you so much, Thank you guys, Thank you

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