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sure you check it out. We're gonna have one deo hugely may not applies to Timmy Rivera a whole lot of people, so check it out. First up, we got two chains came by the show. You know pretty girls love chat music and he was there to definitely uh tell us a lot about him. So who fantasizes more during sex on average men or women? You think? So? I found women, I see women. I found the sounds a lot during sex the women, I think, Stephanie, what do you think I feel like it? I don't fantasize

that sucks for his dick. That's using the dignum every single time, not every single time, but when I do you want to think about something, That's what I think about But if you fucking if nik you from the back, you think, bro think about it, it would be some pussy You're done, you den. I don't really. I don't

really fantasize during sex. Um. The only time that I have fantasized during sex is like if I'm getting my pussy and I'm drunk and it's just taking so long, so I'll start thinking about like the last porn I watched, right, you know what I'm That's what I think about too. Yeah, Like sometimes listen, I think I feel like men try to prevent themselves from coming to guys, and we try to make sure that we come. Yeah, like like you could feel it there, but it's still gonna take another

ten minutes. I've had something not too great sex, and I thought about some way better sex to get anything. You can feel this there and and say it's ten minutes down, like ten or fifteen man, Like you know when you when you say I'm about to come, you mean like in t oh, you gotta go to the porn bank in your head you've been drinking off too much.

Yea exactly, and one of those now. But That's what I'm saying, Like when I feel like I could feel like I'm gonna come, but it's not gonna happen in thirty seconds or right now, or if he stops his little he stops doing a little movement. He was doing it like you motherfucker he started all the way back.

Yeah right. It could go on a reset this at this point, you can go on a reset because we need about like some crazy That's why I need consistency, like I need you to keep doing what you was doing if I'm about to come, because if you switch it up, then it's like fuck you. You got to stay right there in the same little and that's why you have to communicate. That's when you're like that. That's the only time I ever fantasized during sex. I've never

I can say this with confidence. I've never had like a dick inside of me and was thinking about other things fantasizing. I'm usually enjoying that moment, not to change. What are you fantasized about it? Since you said men, what are some things and do you fantasize like because you have to make yourself come or do you sometimes think about because I know sometimes men think about other things to not come. Both you think about things to not come? No, what makes you not come? Like when

you're saying something good for us? All right, But first, if you're trying not to come, what do you think? I mean, I don't know, nig and might fucking wrap or some ship just come up. You gotta think of something That whole album doesn't. Yeah, that doesn't allow you to think about how good whatever it is it's going on. You know what I mean? You gotta you gotta you know. And then, like I said, and if you're trying to come, you have to think of you know what I mean,

Like you know what you said. Maybe if it's not a poem you're thinking of like maybe it's a little badass, like a little maybe you're thinking about somebody you haven't been with you that's what offensive you like, put it like a badass R and B chick or someone on. Put this head on this body, just put together really and really just and just really give it to them and them and they don't even know. Um you know.

But let me ask you this, So have you ever been having sex in try not to come and came up with a great rap and been like, man, I need to stop so I could write this down. No, I don't write raps, and I don't write raps anyway, but not, I mean you never write down a little notes so on your phone and nothing. No, you know what's on my phone, my daughter's songs and some of my songs, like you can save them to your notes, so when you planning them through your um, they won't.

So when you plan them, do you what you call this ship when you playing them through the phone, you know how you play it and you have to keep mashing there whatever, it's like an app now, like when you play music through your phone, you have to keep mashing so that the song will continue playing. But if you save it into your notes, you could just play it. Yeah, never did that before. You we're not artists. That's music you got going on? When you can explain later, Well,

the truth is that women fantasize more during sex. Really, what she just said, she'd be thinking about flicks and stuff like that. So, but I think women do it more because we have to do it because we don't come clearly from the statistics as easily as men do. Right, Like, that's when I think a woman is fantasizing their in sections for that extra luedge, you know, what I mean all these how many I mean how many? How many? How many? Realistically how many? How many toys do you

think they made for women to come? Like? How many you think they are? Like millions? Millions? Definitely millions. Isn't that crazy? That's a lot, even as you guys, because y'all got a million toys that can make not one, no, but even women who have never used a toy, it's still it's still something. You know, you still have to know a woman's um, what's the word I'm looking for me? Yes,

ananomy to, you know, to make her come. It's not something that you're just you know, either someone teaches you or you never learned. Right, you know what I mean makes perfect. Let's let's keep it real like it's just easier for a man to come. Period. Yeah, it's easy. You do this for that's it, right, women or men are exactly right, exactly man. This one was great. Now, I always heard about three D Nati and this is

my first time meeting her, and she was hilarious. Some guys had issues with all of the girl talk we had going on, talking about men paying rent and all that, but here was one of our funniest moments. All right, what's on? What's on? You want to here to funk to? Oh? I'm not like the head myself because yeah, no, I'm not saying my music. Yeah, I don't know. My brother thought this ship was so funny. But I had a whole plated playlist and I used to kind of see

what song you're gonna stop on that? Stop the song to fun this nigger, you know, I think um right now, like Bryson Teller, the weekend at party next door is good to have sex with. Listen, I don't have sex. To me, I don't have it. You don't hear the girl screaming so much? You know, it's weird for me. Do you think that you would come faster with or without music? I have a confession about music. I think that I noticed this recently and I kind of laughed

at myself while I old school. I'm sorry. Confession about music is that during like if I'm giving head to like music, Like if music is playing, then I'm gonna like give head to the beat that makes people do that. I was weird for the mom You're probably like the only one that confess it weird because I caught myself doing it. Recently, I was like, am I really sucking his head to the way song were you're hearing? Were

listening to know? We were actually listening to your man at MP anty Like No, I was listening to um TP two dot com had from the Oh My God when I was young, like my first sexual experiences world. So I think, but now I feel like, if a guy puts on music, I'm like, yeah, this is mad cheesy, like why I don't know why I think like that if a dude put the music on, and it's kind of weird. But most of the most of the time, if we're just gonna funs, we don't got time to

put no music on. We've been into I got so you still got to stop and be like, let me put this plate with on for us the fun girl. No, no, no, no no. That was when I would say that when I was being childish and single and I you know, whatever you play now, um, we're not gonna get into that. I like, and I don't like. Now I feel like, okay, all right, I'm gonna let your friends you you. But no, I really feel like I really feel like when I say certain ship like certain keywords than a stroke change.

So I like to I mean, you know the regular ship like it's yours right, it's pussy feel good, how you know all that type of ship. Then a stroke change whenever I say something different, So I kind of like I kinda so you know what to say. I know what's to say certain words. He's like all right, Yeah. You even feel like sometimes you're like, all right, this is going on too long. I got to just make him come. Sometimes if I already, if I if i'm if I'm exhausted, I had a long day and I

enjoyed it. I got me. We don't need to. Yeah, I feel like once I start getting dizzy, like something like that's it need something out to give? You gotta come. I'm not gonna like what's that come, I'm ready for you to come. Yeah. Like if that comes out like well, I'm like, all right, your turn, even get right, that came your turn. Let's go. I don't even go to one of us like make him come. And if that won't work, I'll start whispering his ear, begging for the calm.

What's your get a move work, getting moves from the back, laying flat with my legs crossed, and then like when it's like no, but when my legs or that ass and it's surrying on my stuff, he said, like if my care said tight, like because your stomach flat on a bed, so that that's a good check. Thanks, And then yeah you saw, I was like, thank you. And then from my back, I'll put my legs up on his shoulders and lift my hips up. I'm rised up

off the bed. And then that always works. And if none, if neither one of those work, then I look at either one of those words. And then I started whispering in his ear, but begging for the come, like I think when you do that that I always work. When you like like I want you to come so bad, Yeah that works every time. I hope you have a lot of come. It's pussy out with all that comes,

because it isn't it whack. If he doesn't have a lot of comes with the Safari toler that means that he'd already didn't let it that he sucked somebody off. Could have been checking off. He didn't tell us that part. He said, I mean that nigga about different kinds come. There's like come that's like thick and just like and then they and then it's the running clear, ripping down.

I like that one. Yeah, like the running Yeah. No, it's nothing worse than when the nigga come in you and then like three hours later that ship, Oh that ship is that happened to me? Defections, No, it's to come, it's to Colm because you get tell like you see that's that's young. It happened to me before that should happen. Everything happened to me. Man Dave East, he's one person who came by the show twice, so I guess he's like one of our regulars. Davis always says Lip Service

is his favorite show. And you're about to hear why all right? Now, have you ever borrowed money from a woman? Yeah? Did you pay it back? Always? They let me get that money. There's a few, sure, but they wasn't on it from me. But the ones that was like I need my brad back. So what did they come for? You? Now? Remember back in we had about this in the car, like if a guy asked you to borrow money I got that you were dating, would that make you feel weird?

If it depends on what the situation. It could be any scenario. And it took that three hundred dollars and took the next bit out. He took Christo. It was like, like maybe you need like bricks in your car or something. I adn't have a car. I was. I was like if I was fucked up, Like did it ever feel weird?

Like I don't want to have to ask, but yeah, but it's like I always kind of dealt with like I do women my age, but I was kind of with older woman Like a few of the older women, I wouldn't have to act like they were just giving you like shuger, Mama call it that, but like here like I wake up, should be there, like, yeah, that's weird. He always been a jugger, always been. I'm gonna do a little bit. That's all that man. People call you

girls are just leaving money on the nightstand. I'm saying that Nicks on my dresser, like bag, go buy yourself something. What's the most you ever got? Did they have a leave chain? Wow? WHOA? Can I manage him work? I feel like that's actually was trying to like win me say, Okay, she was trying to like what I'm saying. I'm about to put David's picture on back pages and get some listen So would you feel you said, if a guy asked you for money but it was like for a

particular would that make you feel away? I mean, it depends on the scenario. If I knew that he was well off, and you know, maybe he just left his wallet at home and he was going off to dinner and he asked me to pay because he forgot No. What if he's like listening, this month was a little rough. I need Yes, I always felt like like that, Like I always had man pride, you know, I'm sis I'd be like, man, sure, I can't. I always thought I

was on pop later you know what I'm saying. I just always had had in my mind like man, when I get on, if just don't work out, I was giving that nigger money like so I never really wanted to like like you know what I mean, like to that point, like that, like that off the Dice game, Come on, can't chust a like you? What about you? What about if a guy to dinner? So one time

I was talking to this guy. He was like a doctor, and I guess he was going through mass ship and he got sucked up and he was like, you know, this month is really rough for me. I was like, damn, it's rough, all of us. Like you know, you could tell he was trying to roll me into some ship so that he was like, yeah, you know, I just you're doing good, though, you should let me borrow something. I was like, mad, funny, like I just literally played it off at the joke because I knew he couldn't

be serious like I would. I'm sorry, but there's no way. What about women asking to buy money from me? You it depends with me and I got own girls like that. I ain't like not even sucking somebody you're dating now. I ain't going that roule no more, no more. No, we're going on that. So you've done it before, You've leant our money, you have some you have some bread because I gotta have some bread. Right as a man, you're not matter I am. I could be sucking your

brains out every day after a while. If I'm dead, pop, that's she going. You can be like, huh, we're not gonna do nothing. You can't buy me nothing, nothing going like you just sucking me and looking at me and looking at me. They got the same problems we have. Yea a bad No, you gotta have something. You'm saying fast, rocking and rolling, and I'll be feeling like like the the gaps. She got to kind of be you know what I'm saying, close like I'm not. You gotta level

it out. I don't want to, but I can't be like you can't work at Burger King, you know what I'm saying, And I'm doing what I'm doing like it just won't. She might own that Burger King one day. You better not sleep work at burger kaye, but you gotta make baby steps. One day she might be the manager if you want to. You just was living in the projects not too long ago. Don't try to come. You don't change you booze you now because imagine you want to. But imagine you went to the answer a

woman who was this beautiful. Maybe she fell on some rough times and she's in school, but she's working. I got bills to me iver. Spect I ever spect Oh you rather you rather she working at Burger King or not? The wave? I don't want to pull up and you're giving me my burgers and dry with wol baby. I got old type of extra ship from work today like anybody in fast food Nona, I did I got, but I was in high school. Yeah do that? Now? Do that? Dad was mad hype because I was bringing home like

bags of food. You know my dad cheap as hell? Yeah, I was that work subway. But what she like him and tag him when people could go on his pages. We got mad subway fits? What does she worked at check fil a? That's definitely and she you poably need your sauce and their religious but not fast Let's not be so jistic to say fast food. But maybe like even like the mall or something cool. I ain't against that, just not fast food. Fast food because you smell like food.

Maybe that isn't like a transition honestly, like a right traditional I'm about to have. That's them like I'm seventeen eighteen who are trying to get a job tape first job. If you're my age, you should own that motherfucker like and if you don't, you can't be taking the order on the back, flipping the burger like what is she just? Manager? General manager? General manager burger Berg King? Can I let you bad bitches united? Dl Hugli. This one's surprised me

so much. I couldn't believe we actually got him to come on the show and He told so many incredible stories, things he's never revealed anywhere else before. Check it out. Here's one of them. He's a famous counc I can't tell you the name playing this gig. And uh we in the Bay Area, right, And so I get this knock on my door, and uh, this cat comes, he said, man, kind of my room. Oh how I go? I go, I go, what's up? Because something's wrong. So he had he had this ship. She's tied up to the bed

and she's naked and she's unconscious. Oh my god. And uh, he said, I said, man, what happened? He said, he had this cat of nine tales? Was this that whip? And he was they had always whipped like he He whipped her and all of a sudden she told him he was hurting and he couldn't stop, I said. He said, I couldn't stop because why he whipped their own count. So then I said, hey, man, I'm not gonna I'm not in this year. I'm not touching nobody. And she woke up. She woke up, and she said, hey, dial

the water. And I went out. All right, that funny I supposed to do, Like man, I'm not in it. He was like, here, hold the body. She wouldn't woke up, and I went right to the front and they killed somebody. He killed that they did? She didn't wake up. Dat a toad. I sweat the guy out of toad. You can't be killing motherfucker. I'm not I'm not doing me. You would help me out the body, Yes, they would

help me. Friend, I'm man. I'm not telling my kids did some I love them, but if they did something that that spread out harm to humanity on something, just old hump. But never didn't need to kill her. I mean, she's not dead, but I might have my daughters. But my son, I tell him, my son, if somebody, I'm gonna send him to jairy, how could you do that? I amazed you better than now, what are you doing? Murdering?

You gotta go to jail. Somebody it was kind of killed, like if he feels somebody, if it was, if it was a justifiable kill, I will help. But if he's being I don't like that. But if he was being an animal about things, you know, like I'm gonna call the police on him, like you gotta go do the time. You wouldn't tell on him. I'm sorry you can you can I was an accident by accident, I've watched I'm telling you that when I was when I when I was a kid, I grew up a hunting for Avon's school,

av Lock guard. So I'm a little kid, right, not a kid, but tint you well, maybe two or four tick these kids they go, we got this chick were running the train and I go, oh, wow, I've always heard about this. I was no, um and so I hope this no. So I go when I see this girl and they are doing it to her, and I'm like, I don't think she's this is not She's not with it, and I said this ain't She's not and I remember,

so I say, I don't. And these dudes are older than me, and I like love them and that always been impressed by them, but at that moment I thought that they were like it was like, it's one of the first times I saw men who I loved and respected. Seems small to me, like they were. I was like, she's a girl and you and so I remember getting their clothes and I said, she's not with it, and

she they got and they're older than me. And I'm not even scared because I'm like, even if something go left, So to put on her clothes, and she smelled like pennies, and it was she smelled like this real weird smell that I would later on know that smells like blood, like because smell a copper. So I get her clothes. We walk and they hit me in the head and pushing me and called me and buster, and I was weak and I never saw. I walked her to her neighborhood.

It was like five or maybe eight blocks away. When we get the clothes and never she screams and runs towards her brother side. And this motherfucker picks up a butcher knife and she is so hysterical she can't tell. So he's chasing me around the car and it catches me and he goes, uh. He said, she said it wasn't even it wasn't him. And he said, I know this Nick. You know who did it? And I said, I can't tell you who did it. He said, if you don't tell me who did it, I'm gonna cut you.

I said, but they'll kill me. He said, I swear to guy, you got three, I'm a coupter three. You're gonna tell me who. And I closed my eyes and waited from the cup and so he didn't. And so while I'm walking away, he hit it like both the mothers to dude, my neighborhood was hitting me and he was hitting me. So I'm getting my ask with her and I ain't. Don't sit it wrong. So you months weeks later, at this joint called Smithy's Liking Store on Hunt Lina, I see this dude and he says thank you.

But I always like to me, even though I I wanted to be like, I didn't think that it was right to do ship to people that you knew you could. And even though I did, like the thing with my son, or I've done things that made me feel well, I always thought that I always knew what the greatest thing I've ever done to me is that that now I know I'm a human being. Like, I don't think it's so. I think that you're supposed to go all out for

people you love. I think you're supposed to try. I think you're supposed to treat everybody with a level of certain respect in d C. And I think if it costs you skin, that's the press you paid for being a human be. Now, Kiafa Vic came through. You know her as Michael Vick's wife. Also, she was on the show ball The Wise, but she produced That's a Boss. Check it out now, Carmen, Are you in a relationship? Are you married? No, I'm single. Would you recommend that

she dated a football player? Absolutely? And I work with football players. I know you're doing. I'm sure they know you don't want to. It's like, what the hell would you after you? Yeah, y'all want to date the football player. I would date anybody that I like, but I've never dated a football player, so I don't know. I don't know. Yeah, why do y'all see that everything that litter is not gold?

I feel like an athlete period. I'm not trying to say, but think about it, like all the traveling, all the girls, all up, But you're married to a football player. We was dating forever in a day before we got married, like forever. So we've been through a lot. When I was twenty one, so you guys met in the club, right, yes? And who was Tylering? And who he was? All in my face? All in my face. I'm not gonna lie like I had just turned twenty one. I'm in the

club and I don't know. This night, I must have been looking good because all the guys were just buying me drinks. I had like four drinks and it was your birthday, and after was right after my birthday about a month later, and um, all the guys were just like competent me. So I see this guy, he's smiling, I see his teeth. I'm like, oh, he looked good and teeth yeah, and y'all black and chocolate. I'm like, oh, this motherfucker's fine. And all of a sudden, they called

like it was a shaky booty contest. That's what they called it. I know you did not mean no, I don't know, Like no, wonder why everybody was buying your drink, she said, Hampton to it, not me. Wait minute, but before the shaky booty contest, one of the guys he was with had came over like, I'm just we're just smiling at each other. At this point, I'm drunk out my mind. I put us in this thing. He got

brains in the you know. When I met him, put us and he had on a hoodie like in the club, he was just real chill, like real like, oh yes, swag and you don't really see that much in Virginia. Let me not say that, because you always be I love you and I love yeah Teddy Riley back. No, he's women are beautiful. I just talk about the minute this way. Girl, don't be trying to put that on me. Wait, what do you say about Virginia women, not about no women? I said the men swag. I'm from Philly and they

had a different swag. So I liked his swag. Yeah, I had me going in the yard. M what was that? So one of his friends came over and was like, um, y'all know who that is over there? And I heard My girlfriend was like no, and he was like, oh, that's Mike Vick and she was like weird and she was he was like over there and I was like, oh, who was Mike Vick? And my girlfriend was like, oh, weeah football player. I was like, oh, show me, let

me see where you at. So when she pointed to him, I almost died because I'm like, oh my god, this is I'm stalling that like just like I'm a groupie all of his space. So I'm like I'm leaving. So I went to the other side of the club and he judged a little Shaky Booty contest. He was a judge and the Shaky bouty So I wasn't s I have went in too, like another part of the bar. And he came. He found me and he was like can I get you to I'm but you. He got my number and I was so excited. I was like, well,

it's so fine. And like a few minutes later he came back and he was like, no, I didn't put it in right, and whoa. And so we the club is over, we're leaving and he outside. He all in this girl's face and she like she's a thick girl. I'm looking at him like, damn, this this is what you're like, all right, I see you. So she all in his face trying to kis him and stuff. He all trying to grab me, like you coming home with me?

Like I'm like hell no, damn. So he called me the next morning, he like, you want to come away with me? I'm like no, I'm going away tomorrow. He's like, damn, just just come with me. And I'm like no, I'm going to d C. Who's going to who was it? Love Club? Love? Yeah? I'm like no, I just turned twenty one, like I'm going to d C. I'm going to Shaky next And after that he called me like every day. I remember telling my grandma met a football players. She was like a girl, he ain't gonna be no good.

He only want the booty. He's just gonna dog you out. And I'm like, Grid is nice girl. Whatever. He really did turn out to be like, uh, he was a nice guy. We went through a lot of bullshit, but really really a nice guy. Like you know, he was different than most of the guys. I mean, you know how you meet a guy then just go off, don't call you for a while. Now, he called me every day every morning while he was on his way to work. You know, he made sure I was okay all the time,

Like he started paying tuition it at school. You know, sure I was okay. It wasn't like yeah, it wasn't like he was just trigger like all of me bout you this bag, but make sure I was okay. And I liked that about him, Like when we went on dates, I had a car, but he would still come pick me up. He was always on time. He was just like such a gentleman. And believe it, I'm like, for when did y'all make it a fishal like, how did you know? We didn't make it a fishing for a while.

We didn't make an a fishing for a while, because it was just like I wasn't stupid, like you know what I mean, I don't know what you got going on. I know you young, right, but it was just like we was just feeling each other a whole lot. Um, Mike had a baby on the way. He can tell me about the baby on the way, Get the funk out of here. Yes he was. He waiting to see if it was his. No, nothing, guys got that's great. Never we've never talked about that before. But he might have.

Let's wait to the baby's born because I might not have to tell another He just said, like I I just thought I was gonna be sucking you, and you know, I just thought that was it. I didn't really had to tell you my business. But damn pretty much. She was like the rest of him pretty much. And then like he told me like maybe a month before the baby was born. I was so hurt. He was like, because you told me you ain't want no guy to hand no baby mom. I was like, I don't, like

I'm young I still don't want it bullshit? And did you and the baby mama ever have like be for anything? Yeah, we went because he was lying the both of you. He was still young, he was still playing that game. And it was like we were together like every day, like our first day he took me to Hawaii. What I asked? What she did to the whoa? What did you do in the best? Not mean that? That was so me? What happened in the bathroom? All right? So we away for seven days, my first going away with him,

Like I gotta go to the bathroom. Gosh, ship that feeling head bubbo guts. It's like three We've been drinking all day every time, Like all right, this nigga sleep. So I going to the bathroom, do what I had to do. Why the toilet don't flush? Keep out? You know, I'm trying to pour water down this. It's not going when you're trying to lift up the thing on the top. You okay, I I gotta go for the bathroom. And he's like, what's wrong. I'm like, you know what's wrong?

You smell what's wrong? Busting a laughing. So he called the maintenance man. To maintenance man come and he thinks its toll and the whole time of mating his man, and he like, she broke this toll so embarrassed, I'd have been like, I don't know who was it here before? After that point, I'm just like I could do anything in front of him. Just tyle, just start the shooting. I'm ship, I don't know who you use this toilet befus,

you need to get our money back. Awful? Can you imagine I was sweating around from like, that's all you supposed a courtesy flesh, that's what you get. You would have known. She would have known at least mid ship should you can't tell it man, ship ship to give it up. Tammy Rivera stopped through a lip service. So this was her first time on the show, and she's a real sweetheart, but she really gave us some insight

into her relationships in her own personal life. Normally we start off with the tip of the day, but we didn't start so we're gonna get to that right now. Alright, So, uh now, we get this question all the time from guys. We have this advice thing that we do, and people want to ask, how do you get your girl back after you cheated? What works and what doesn't work because there's so many guys out there that mess up and don't know, like what can I do to get my

girl back? And we get this question like NonStop, So let's talk about that for all of us. When somebody cheating you and we know you got cheated on and but you still damn angel anybody in this room, but we all but we all have been you know, honestly, yours was just very public obviously, But what does work because there's a lot of guys who mess up, right and they're girl is like, I'm not working with you anymore. But what works and what doesn't work when it comes

to getting your girl back? For me personally, I would say, I don't think it's what they do. It's really I mean, it can be what they do, but it's really a woman knows, like really if she's just completely done, Like I'm a leo, I'm loyal to by default, but when I'm completely done, I'm like done. Um, which when I when we separated, I was just like I was like like, just don't come back, don't come my house, like just leave me alone. Like he was not go away. He

was coming to that. Yeah, he would not go away and then not even let him. I said, Okay, this is what I'm gonna do to get him go away. I'm gonna let him come in here, and I'm gonna let him mess itself up. So I just kept my wall up. I was just like, I want the first thing he did and getting the funk out, he wouldn't. I mean, it was so consistent. I thought it was

a Yeah, I thought it was an act. I was so mean to the point that everybody was like, yo, you're really being like You're really a bit like and I'm not like that. I can see you being mean, Like what's mean? Yeah, girl, I was just I just didn't care, like I would just say anything, do anything. I was just then he was like damn. And I was like, when you can get the funk out? Yeah, like you know, and he would just eat it like he was just constant, and he just came. I know.

I wouldn't even touched me like he had to say, Charlie. I just didn't want nothing to do with him. I was like, I'm like, I'm just done. I was trying to find reasons. I'm like, maybe I'm real nasty, mean, He'll leave and then he was just like because when we separated, I the last thing I told him was, I was like, I promise, I said, I swear to God, on my child's life, I would never love you the same. I was like, it's done. So that stuck in my head. Was like a lot of him, like a lot of myself.

I can't a lot of God, you know, not on my child. But I was so angry at the moment. I was like, I promised to God, I would never love you, just saying so when he came back and I was and he was like, one day we got into and I was like, listen, I meant what I was saying there, like I would never love you the same. And he was like, I know you won't. He's like, because you won't love me more life. He practiced that.

I was like this she told me. He like, and there's nothing I can say cause I'm like, well, if I do love him, and which in the end ended up happening, like and part of it is your daughter because they had such a great relationship and he's really it made it so hard for you to be like because she was like telling you, yeah, she I mean, she don't see no no wrong. In him, like she

loves him to death. But what I can't say is even throughout our whole separation, he's like never he picked her up from school, he dropped her off and everybody know that's not his biological child, but that, I mean, there is no blood, couldn't make them, you know. So that's interesting because you told you let him come. Now, this is something that guys have to learn when they sunk up. If I let you back in, don't do nothing wrong, and just understand the fact that I'm gonna

treat you like shit. Yeah yeah, but you know, sometimes when you're so damage that don't work down there, like it like how you said it. Now you're saying it. I'm confused. She was saying, take it somewhere else now the shop. Sometimes that don't work. No, they don't like me. I'm like, I'm not gonna come. I don't care what you're going Jody, I'm not gonna I love you. Even have an attitude when you're having sex and you're mad

as hell, like I'm just sucking lay hair. I'm gonna say I'm not making annoy next thing, though you forgive me. He's like, you gotta say I don't catch my nug rude like I don't care. I don't care, I need it now. What doesn't work if you have to give guy's advice, like for when they're trying to get back after they sucked up. It doesn't work blaming telling me what I did wrong? Right? Yeah, yeah, trying up because during that time you was you would talk to do

don't want it nothing? Bring up the old ship before I met you. You you know, you know you love me. So we're just gonna get through this. Yeah, exactly, all right, So excuses does not work. You gotta just admit I sucked up and just take it and don't blame shit on me. Don't blame I don't give a damn if what it was, don't play Okay, we had sex and too much. Don't tell me why Chico you won't give me no pussy. I don't care, I want hit nothing. But that is kind of sucked up? All right? What

else doesn't work? Um? And what? All right? No we didn't finish. What does work because you said basically he was very consistent. He said, was in contact obviously, you know, with your daughter and picking her up and doing all of that stuff, And is letting you treat him like ship. Yeah, he just won't go away, Okay, but he really he really changed, Like I can't show improved like he ye, you really have to like consistently like change, like he really changed. Like the guy he is now is not

the guy that he was like a minute. He's changed and it was suck to put in all that work for somebody else to benefit. But I think sometimes you can't think like that. You just be like so like I used to think like that, like I ain't gonna liket the benefit. I'm girl. I got to like girl having it, have everything you want, my shoes all because I'm done because we've all taken back and cheating guys so lurial. Oh god, what worked well? Work for you?

Because we're giving these guys advice because maybe some of them are changing too, that are listening. I think, like

you sat being consistent, Like that's a big key. It's like if you keep trying to show that you care, you change you and not even that you change, because I don't believe that somebody's gonna change just in one day, one week, that you're willing to change, that you're gonna put in an effort you know what I mean something like that, Like everybody makes mistakes, so you can't expect

somebody to never do nothing wrong. But at the same time, I think it's like the main thing is like, all right, they might have cheated or whatever, but we're they're disrespecting you in a way where it's like, all right, you you could find a picture, or you could find it this, or you could find I know, that's what makes it.

I think that's what makes it works for us, because if we find out something that maybe they sucked somebody when they was on the boys trip, you know last year was one of the boys, not one of the boys trip. First of all, he don't never have to call me again. Ain't no forgiving that, bro. So okay, you can't forget boy, you know. But you know there's some women that take men back when they found out

that they with other guys are transgender. It's different. See. No, I don't think he talked about that Insecure incident a little bit when he said he did something in college. Boy. Yeah, that's a void, Damien, like one time, so like you you and mess with him no more? Hell no, but that was mad long ago. He never did nothing again. No, I just want to can't do that. I don't want to be in that situation. So I don't even because nigga, you you like, I don't care what you say you

liked it, because a man I can't do for you. Man, A man knows how they like. They think, you know the But what if it was like I didn't really like him? Man? That beard was may No. You know that's my br my best rapper friend. And Mayo always stirs up some issues, you know how he is. He does not hold this tongue and he talks crazy, but so does Louriale. Check it out. We live in a time where it's like everything is super hyper, everything is right,

every think, everybody wants it right now. So I'm saying, like, what's wrong with doing certain things that that keep your man happy? But if you're not happy with it? Right? So females not happy with it? Yeah, should be the female should be happy with the other woman where she should be happy. You should be happy year, but she's not happy with it. It's not up for discussion, and that's it is what it is, right. So when the niggare going out and getting it for something else, you know,

understand what options. But I'm saying you even gotta a bit with you may be happy with it. Yeah, that's the option whether you get on. But you know, to each her, but you know to each and each on her own. You know, there might be a woman that's like, you know what, He's right, it's just one husband, you know, even though we don't agree, you know what I mean,

likes girls. You doesn't mind, right, dad, But I'm just saying, like to each other to live service that I fucking bitch here Still your face look like not but the relationship with your man, like you bring a girl home every now and then. Right of course she likes growing up. It's something that I like. If it wasn't something that I liked, then we wouldn't be doing it exactly exactly, I'm not doing it. I must be childish. I don't

like girls. That's childish because I don't want to. I don't like girls, and I'm very possessive about my ship, so I don't want to see my man girl. Reason like that goes wrong, I have a question and the ends up sucking the other girl behind your back or thinking that he could do that. When that does happen. But you gotta, you gotta, you gotta first of you'll let your girl run it. You gotta let her run it. You gotta let her pick. It's her decision, it's her show.

And what is He's like, I'm not with it anymore. But that's what happens with these relationships. But don't get married when I going again, That's what I'm saying, Like, why is that okay for y'all? But it's not okay for us? That's just so hypothetical. There's whole situations. It can't only be good when it's in your favorite What did she be like? I like my spell backwards dog? What does she like? I like? What does she says?

I like my pupsy and by multiple guys like you do it for me, but not like how this guy does what you'd be like? Ahead, get your rights with other women when you're not around. In that case, I will say some ship like let's just get one main extra girlfriend and like that would just be our girlfriend, all right? So why did that make you feel better than if you could multiple women? Why can't she I'm

not saying she can't. No, no, no, no, no, I'm a fucking if we told about if I'm in a relationship, but my fucking multiple women, I fucking women only with hall what that it's multiple? You could watch me and her I like to watch, but you can't touch the other woman. Sometimes that might that might be interesting, that might be just the vibe for that night. No perfect, Huh, that ain't that's not that's too hypothetical and it's not

really hard because what are you about to do? Jack Hypothetically, if the girl wanted to funk with another girl, like let me, I think that that's a conversation. It's like like, let's say you oversees on tour or something for a few weeks and she got a little a little itch they need to be scratched, and she called you and say, I'm yeah, she got it. That's scary the doctor that I'm about and Timiko don't come over here, And I think,

I think, is that a different way? But that was just a bad that's a bad mind you hear what she's saying though, I think that mind you wait and it's a bitch that y'all already. Yeah, I think I could do that somebody she allows you to do and then and you you're going and you can't handle hug because you don't know where here to handle her and she needs to be handled. And she go and called one of the bitches that she brought over for you. I think I think I could do that. But what

if you think, are you know? Yeah? I think I think I've never been posed with that question but that before, and I think I could do that. I think I can say, you know what? All right? Just the on FaceTime put on. You got to know the girl, because the only way to stink type, the only way like that worst is honestly and openness. Man, this is my guy, Plies. Now. We played a little game with him pumper or dumper, and he pretty much wanted to pump any woman no

matter what. Here's some of what he had to say. All right, So back to the question. She doesn't have any female friends, you say, pumping? All right, you gotta give her a hug in the club and she got on a waste trainer. You can feel it's there, anybody, Why are you working, Clive? It don't matter we ask it. If we do wear them, we're definitely not wearing them. It depends if I met him and she had the waist train on. She gotta keep it on like forever.

What do you mean if I'm pomping on? You gotta keep because I feel like if I meet you and you got on the waist trainer, I'm infatuated with how I see you. So if it's because you got a waste train on, is why you look appealing to me? Then you shoulder She got damn right, she wanted. Now you gotta get. No I got, But I feel like looking at a waste trainers like hugging a cop. You know what I mean? When you like us, I think you're afraid that when you let the waist trainer, she's

gonna exclude about it. If they start shooting. You could throw it right always and you'll save my life. Additional pumper, you gotta keep it on if you always trying. Y'all cool with me? We wear them around the house. We don't wear them. Don't wear them like you know when I feel like I got a little swell on the side, like one of my life poles are swelling up on the side some other ones. But what you guys do when they want to hide stuff like we have all

kinds of things. We got booty pops, we got waste trainers, we got makeup, we got we we got everything. What y'all do? I mean? I guess you. I guess it very depending on what it is you're trying to hide. But with me, like I said, I'm pretty much a straight shooter, but you know, I feel like the waste trainer thing is damn me. Waist trainers by the way, done in the middle with the trainer, I think guys, Um, no, I'm not saying you guys were hats. It's because o

their hair. Okay, that's like a waste trainer. Yeah. Yeah, for me, I think I've always been I think since I was probably like thirteen fourteen, I always feel like the hat complimented there. But yeah, I used to know it. Well, not used to because I still know this guy, But I know a guy I'm familiar. He would always wear like a hoodie or like a jacket to how this muffin top did he have himps to go with them? Guys got their bodies most tops, and he always kept

on the jacket or a hoodie. And I never could understand why. Every time I saw him heeple have like a jacket like this one or like a hoodie. And then one time. They said that he couldn't wear it in the club, and he said, I ain't going in there was that big he sex of course when he didn't mind the muffin tap if it was yo was alone, right, but I ain't been in the club. Now, don't you just wear a bigger T shirt? Why don't you just

think you're like oo? I don't know why, Hans just sorry, right, But men don't do all the stuff that we do. I feel like women don't care as much about how men look like you still was I care? Yeah? What have you been with you with a muffin top? I think so you it's money important, Yeah, I looks are important for me. I like my guys fit athletic bodies. I work hard for my body. Not only do I get classes surgery, but I start myself. That's the water, just like it's money. And he said for us a

woman just in general. Yeah, I mean I'm not trying to be in struggle mode with you know, struggle I mean old for that. I mean, I'm not looking like It's not one of the main things I'm looking for, Like, oh,

he has to be a millionaire to tat me. But I'm not gonna allow you have to be joined at the very least better than me, A very least I would say this, Okay, I leave that money matters to the point that you have to be doing something and be somewhat ambitious and make some money, because I don't want to take care of you if you don't have it. You need to be able to take care of yourself. I don't necessarily need you to take care of me, but you need to be able to handle your own business.

Like you can't be asking me for money, like to pay your because I agree. Like if you're an aspiring rapper at the age of I don't know, thirty eight, give up the struggle boot just you know, get a job with benefits. But when you get a job with benefits, I'm not afraid of dating a bus driver or a garbageman, fireman, garden station money to us, you want to be a catman, but I want you to be a somewhat established trying

to be established, you know. And I feel like it's very important, um the kind of guy that I do to want a girl who's doing and well for herself. I don't I don't really like dating and guys that are just tricks. They want to pick a girl up from the strip club and take care of her. She doesn't have to work anymore. You know, I was making good.

I was like, I'm just here, but you know, like or even just pick up a girl and just like, oh, you know, just a girl just regular, just doesn't have a career, she doesn't do anything with herself and just wants to take care of her. I feel like it shows how am I. It shows a lot about a man's thinking. You know that if he wants a girl who's successful or not. We applies you have money, you could take care of a little money. Ain't too much money.

We see all the doing me and everything. I mean money, okay, but you could afford to take care of a woman said she didn't have to work. I want to take care of a woman person. I want to take care of him. I won't no woman to have to work. And I'm kind of I'm a little bit and when it comes to that, I feel like, for me, I just want you to spend your time looking good, keeping me together. So I don't want no woman. I think that might be just a little bit of the Southern Yeah,

I want to meet you. I want you to have something going. I want you to being busious and you know you you ain't gotta match me dollar for dollar. But I don't want you to just know, but you should want a mass of wand girl with ambitions and goals. But then when what if she gets at you and she's like, what tying a quick job? That's what I think. That's awful, that's what he wants. I just want I wanted when I meet you, but then but then I got you. You You ain't got the ambision doesn't really work

that way. Though you can't want. I'm still I'm cool with that. I'm cool her using me for what it is that I do like I want to be to provide. I want to go out and get it and bring it back. But in the meantime, if you home and you know, like I'm adding to the plow. We got a hundred million because of you. Here's seventy dollars because of weeks seventy one million and seventy dollars. Women in a bad situation sometimes because now I got to ask you for money every time I got to drive, and

then it don't work. It out was hard. I haven't been working out because I've been with you for four years, but I'm gonna do you know, I ain't that dude. I'm gonna dude, I want you to have you give your own card. I'm gonna give you your own account. That's gonna stay. I wanted to stay here, whether it's you know, allar bag like where are you from? Because there's a part of the South, because it's part of the Sevens that I'm not trying. Fine man, Okay, yeah

you're not Mann. They just they know how to take care of And yeah, I want you to asking me for nothing, so I want to make sure you have it so you don't have to ask me. But what does you feel vulnerable being with a man that you had to rely on him like for money. I just love to know what that feels like it I would love to have just like that. And it doesn't feel good. I mean I didn't have to rely on him for

money because I still made my own money. I just didn't make as much money as I wish used to making, so he did feel that void. But there was times when I had to go to him like I want or I d X y Z, and it just was like but why right, Like I want a new bag, I can't just buy it, but now I gotta ask, And then you act like you have an attitude. Right, And I've been in a relationship where I'm not paying for anything and he's taking here about anything and everything,

and I didn't have a job. And it feels awful, right, It feels awful having asked for everything you need when you need pass when hey, man, can you go give me some jam bonds? Bonds like you had six dollars? No, I asked this question now today, like the women I had taken care of. Man no, ye, yeah, it's mama, yes, I ye, but I got you're too expensive, Like, ain't nobody buying your order stuff? Stay home? I stay home. I cleaned up all that ship you really need to

take now, I don't know. I do no lauger, but okay, well you would be a terrible staying home boyfriend. Make pork jobs though. Don't nobody, no, no, y'all eat healthy trade songs. I remember when we first started lip service, I kept saying, we need to get trade songs out here, we need to get tremaine on here. Well, fortunately he did stop by, and of course he didn't disappoint all right, Now, when is it time to stop dotting? This is a

question that the ladies were talking about earlier. When do you say, Okay, it's time for me to stop being out here like this, It's time to settle down. Do you feel like you've come to that time yet? I mean, I definitely feel like I've come to that time. Like I said earlier in the interview, I feel like I've come to that place mentally, but in my actions, I'm still doing a lot of the same ship I don't want to do. How are you doing something that you don't want to do? Though? Come on now, I mean

that's life. That's like I did it, but I sucked it. But I don't really It's like the circumstances that he's Oh, y'r, look who just texted me? Hendot? Do you ever feel like you have to like women just because it's text? I meanything about it. It ain't about what I have to do for real? A lot of times, Uh, I did ever feel like, man, you expected like lip service? Uh? What what was the two though? What like you put that expected you? I was talking about how I was

out here doing I was doing. You know what I'm saying I've been having to hold up my reputation since then. I said, I've been a sex did you did say that? And a lot of little stories flowing around about trade songs in the bedroom that you have to live up to those expectations songs. I don't know about your stories, but stuff online and stuff like that. Herl was talking about, I hadn't seen some things that I've seen some things, and the expectation bar is high. It's a little bit

different for me over here. Do I said, I didn't hurt the stories, but I also didn't seen something so little different over here. We used to living the same, you know. We did together like my sister like to anybody really watching, it's like a system, and her daughters like my niece like literally so in Atlanta we lived together.

Like so you've seen some ship No, I literally pop popcorn and watched them my home girl like it was you watched him do it, and he I went downstairs and pop popcorn and came in the room and watched some how was he doing. He did a great job. He did a great job. I didn't know you was gonna see Jesus sad. It's a lot of time ago and I want to tell the bit she used to bring. She used to take that dick, point take that dick

actually and point your toes. So you were coaching her. Yeah, I used to bring like sacrificial lambs to the house. Oh my god, because I wouldn't leave a house. I work all day, like I'm in the studio Atlanta. It's back. I met on my Space. Yep da, don't nobody know that? You know? Don't nobody know that you met? Nice? We really met on my Space. That's the truth. How did this nobody knows e met on my Space? Explain this? Because he put out there that he was going to

be in Atlanta. I was moving to do trade a and I had just moved there and I was working with him already, like he was my got it? What? But that was my ship? Who know everything? So I'm moving to Atlanta. We got this house. We got this house. Shout out Chris, Chris and Chris Anderson. Uh, I get there's two thousand six, two thousand six, March two thousand six. So I'm moved into this house to make them all my albums I've mainly made in the houses because legal

at the time. So I walked in the house and it's and it's her own girl, and they got on the Magic City outfits and they cook it album and from that point on, like she just held it down like it won't have a situation where like we were into each other that way like she everybody know it was, but it really was. So let me ask you this, So let's talk about trades sucking abilities. Since you was there watching him from a young and if you could critique him, what are some things that he needed to

work on because he was young at that time. And I'm sure the way you work back then is way different than now. Sure are sure? Honestly, I honestly can't say anything bad about I saw. I can only critique the girl, and I critiqued her on spot okay that she needed to point her toes Artra back. Was it weird for you to have somebody like watching and critiquing the girl and like coaching It was funny. It was

because she was my home girl. It wasn't like a stranger, like she was my friend and I still know she's like that's the home still people, both of us. Yes, that was our best of lip service. I hope you all enjoyed it as much as I do so many gems here, and we're looking forward to eighteen with all of y'all