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I'm Nauseous Being Nice

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This show is produced and hosted by Mark Webber. The show is sponsored by G three of Peril. The views expressed in the following program are those of the sponsor and not necessarily the opinion of sevent ten wo r or iHeartMedia. Who is Mark Webber. He's a self made business executive here to help you find your success, from the New York City projects to the Avenue Montaigne in Paris. His global success story in the luxury world of fashion is inspirational.

He's gone from clerk to CEO twice. Mark is classic proof that the American dream is alive and well, here's your host of Always in Fashion, Mark Webber Weber. I'm nauseous being nice. I'm sick of being sweet. Yeah, I've been nice and sweet for too long a period of time and extended time over the last few weeks. I'm disgusted with myself. There's been too much talk about family, fatherhood, doing the right thing. Not only can I take it any more, I'm exhausted making believe I'm one with the human

race. Even got criticism from it this week. Who are you? This is not we expect on the show. I've made it clear I don't like humans. But I have to get back to center, where the real world is. I've tried nice, it doesn't work for me. I've tried to give advice, but I get angry eyes and response. I've been criticized. I've been told I lost my way. Imagine taking crap for being a good

guy. I've been surrounded by a wonderful month of events. I got to be the man, a father, a family man, a friend to old friends or friends, to family friends or just people I like. I made three speeches from the heart. Big mistake, thinking an audience as a heart let alone heart felt. What an idiot. Once again, I'm a fool. Now. I have reasons, many for the sweet version of Mark Webber. The last few weeks beautiful occasions, wonderful times, places, events,

but it's spilled over into beyond the family speeches to whomever. I'm speeched out, talked out, explained out, reasoned out. It's a nice guy over and out. I'm done. I'm finished. I'm back. The radio show and the podcast is a chronology of these times and events. But terrible being the good Swede Mark Webber. Yeah, I'm nauseous with myself. Truth is what adds to the revulsion I'm feeling. There's people the reaction to me. One person I was told I don't know who it was said thirty two minutes

of talking. I hated from beginning to end. That was the reaction to my wedding speech. I know, if you don't know someone personally, you don't take it personally. But the feedback from workers, the lack of sense of humor, the stupidity, the backup morons and text to the studio to LinkedIn complaining I have to get back on point now. If you're not interested in this stuff, I guess I should leave it to Joel Olstein or Billy Graham Junior. I got soft. What a waste of time expecting appreciation for

taking a moment in time. I'm a month to focus on sweet success. What kind of fool am I? Who am I kidding? Now? I suppose the exception of those that get it, there are some good people, few and far between, I must say. But yet even within the type family ranks there is some mutiny. But to be fair, there have been beautiful moments, emotional thank you, tremendous showing of appreciation, thank you so, and some missing thank yous. But I'm not done. I'm back.

I'm through it. Nice sweet, politically correct appreciation for mankind on search of kindness from the human race. I'm back, effort. I'm back on the dock side. I knew I was right all along. I had a brain freeze and I forgot about human nature. Humans don't like them, and it's for a reason why bother with good? When war is accepted, illegal is legal, crime is everywhere, lying is the norm. The current administration spins

everything, even if the timing for sharing disasters is orchestrated. Outrageous politicians are outraged when they're caught. Scandal everywhere, No leadership, no answers, no solutions. F you to all of you that make jokes about the submarine imploding because it was those rich guys dyeing. I don't like humans. I do find some good people amongst you, few and far between. But why was I thinking? How can I possibly have forgotten that where we are a society

doesn't applaud the good. We worship the stupider. Yeah, I'm back and now I'm comfortable again. Tonight, Let's talk to talk, walk to war, complain about everything this. Everyone be mean arrogant and nasty. Impossible, that's the plan. Now joining me on the dark side my lawyer, my son, and my co host Jesse Webber. I don't think I agreed to go on the dark side, but for purposes of this exercise, let me just say I like the softer side of you. Oh gosh, no,

No, they're not throwing anybody under the bus. Some people just commented on some things that you have been saying in the last few weeks. I think that's fair to comment on you. No, of course it's fair. However, it never surprises me when people just don't get it. They don't get me. Now you know. The truth is no, it's not okay. I do good. A little thanks is in order, and certainly you don't like the show, get your own. Let's see what you can do.

What I will flat out agree with it's time to move back to the real world, because sweet and kind is just not who I am. One of the shows that you did while I was out, I thought this is interesting. It was in search of good news and you said only nice stories are fluff pieces. I think that is so right. It's nonsense. Nonsense is sometimes what sells. You don't really want to hear it. But that's it.

That's the only nice stories they actually put together on the news. I think the last time I actually heard of not necessarily nonsense and not really a fluff piece, but something that people were so fascinated with that wasn't politics or war or the economy. It was the Johnny Depp amber heard trial. People were like fascinated with that. They were fascinated with learning more about the Hollywood lifestyle, learning about this couple. Yeah, because it's bad. It's the

dark side, two Hollywood types fighting it out in court. You've got three billion viewers on the Lorn Crime Network on YouTube. Yeah, that's the dark side. Yeah, the dirty laundry. It was a nasty case. And then look, you talk about my profession. People love true crime. They love murder, They love learning about these murder stories. I mean, it's an attraction there. I sometimes don't get it. You know, there's some stories that are compelling. Maybe it's a search for a missing person, maybe

it's a search to find out who did something. But there's like this fascination with true crime. I think it's happened the last twenty years or so, and it's just gotten even more with podcasts and TV shows. It's like good versus evil. You're making the point humans want the dark side. By the way, talking about your wedding speech and how everybody hated it, just for the record, your speech at my wedding was for me and my wife right

because we loved it. What else does that matter? Great? Thank you? Okay, So the Hilton comment not my favorite. You basically got up there and told people how to dress and said if they don't know how to dress, the Hilton's down the block. A little harsh considering that many of the people at the wedding, these out of towners, were staying at the Hilton. I think they should have a sense of human I frequent the Conrad. It's a Hilton property. Nobody knows that you stay at the Conrad.

They thought you were making fun of them. They thought you were like above them. What did I have a list of people with they stayed? It was funny. Nobody gets it. Okay. Put aside the Hilton comment, what about your comments on fat activists. You were talking about them. I don't think that one any friends at the wedding, amongst those that night that it might have been a little bit overweight. Hey, maybe I'm too hard on myself. Maybe I've been on the dock side. Listen f them.

Also, I struggled with way throughout my life. I have a right to comment, and I have a right to tell him the best exercises, pushing away from the table, get a sense of humor, go on a diet while you're certainly back the old Mark Webber's back. You know what pissed me off more than anything. I was talking about being a father, okay, and how important it was and my responsibilities. And I talked about Don Coleone talking to Johnny Fontaine, and he goes, do you spend time with your

family? Of course I do. Well, that's good because any man that doesn't spend time with his family can't be a real man. Crickets, no lefts, no plause, nothing in just shows you that people are morons, humans and morons. I'm not happy about it. That's what you're angry about that you didn't get an applause for your Don Corleone impression. I'm upset. I spent the last three weeks being a good guy, standing up for fatherhood, standing up for doing the right thing, and all I got is criticism

and comments, no sense of human I'm nauseous with myself. That's tonight show. I'm nauseous with being nice. But now I want to get back on to the real world and make sure everybody knows that I haven't changed, that I have no use for humans. By and large. Let's start with okay with you. You want to get into this sol you want to be nice tonight? Oh no, I find this interesting. Let's go okay. The political situation i'd like to callest part of our conversation. I wish I was

a Democrat. I've said it before. I'm left on social issues, but the Democrats, the Wolkes are taking to a point of view that's crazy. Now all of a sudden, pizza is ruining the world. Don't charge your car at night? What am I supposed to charge it in New York during the day when there are no charging stations? I support climate change legislation, but what about all these guys who are saying it and they're in their private jets. Look, I have no problem flying private. I love it.

But I think you just should shut the up. If you're going to do that, you know you have no right to talk about climate change. And by the way, hooray for for Bill Maher pointing it out. The pizza thing is ridiculous. Oh my goodness, the coal burning ovens pepperoni is going to be the end of the world. I do not believe that this is going to go down without a fight. I think people are going to protest. I think this is gonna get ugly. No way, you're taking away

our pizzas from New York City. Not gonna happen. Yeah, No more regular cars, only electric cars with no place to charge them, and no plans for what to do with batteries and all the waste that's caused. Now they're putting a tax on New York for anyone who drives into the city below sixtieth Street. They're gonna do with that money. They think they're gonna stop people coming from the city. The people who drive into the city can afford to him. By the way, what about all the lubers, and what

about all the taxis and what about all this? What is this nonsense? It's not bad enough that they closed off half the lanes of Manhattan. These people don't know what they're doing. I can't believe it. Yeah, I wish I was a Democrat. The Democrats the evil They're street fighters. Go figure, they lie with no conscience. Nancy Pelosi is so tough, so arrogant. I respect her. I love what she did to Trump during the State of the Union address. What a street fighter. The only problem is

it's not a single thing she stands for that I agree with. But what a woman. And Adam Shift Shift, the Adam Shift strange looking guys whatever he is congressman wants to be a Senator. During the Ukraine problem for Trump, he stood up and read a letter that supposedly came from a whistleblower, and he changed used the whole letter around. This was a letter that I

believe, I'm not mistaken, was a transcript from the phone call. And he took poetic license in what he said during the reading of that letter to the entire world. And he got caught. And over the course of the last few years as the member of the CIA Intelligence Committee, he talked about how they had all the details, all the documents to prove Trump was a conspirer with the Russians, that he was a trader, and then when time

came, he had nothing. So he gets censored, not impeached, censored, and he uses it a badge of honor to stand up and say what a righteous guy he is. There's so much nonsense in lying on the Democratic side, it's unbelievable. Now I respect him for it. This idea that if it hurts Trump, it's okay. And the whole presidency of Trump three years, he's fighting to say I did nothing wrong, and he didn't.

Biden did what he accused Trump of doing. He interfered in the politics of the foreign nation because they were investigating the Sun's company that it was being paid by. He insisted they fire the Prosecruda. That's one of the reasons they impeached Trump. The Democrats, the masters of deny, deny, deny. When they get caught with their pants down, they say, that wasn't me, that's somebody else. Your pictures wrong. They are crazy, smart,

just not smart on any decisions they make. They're crazy and they're great at making Republicans look like fools and ruining our government. Look they destroyed the economy, they gave away our energy independence. They put us at risk a global war with Russia and China. I respect them. They have no conscience. They're not afraid of anything, and when they do wrong, they don't admit it. They plass the blame to everyone else. They're tough, but never

right. Republicans a morons. They have the answers, but they can't convince the electorate or anyone else. They have the worst reputations. They're not good guys, even though they are the Republicans. They bring knives to a gunfight. They just don't know how to communicate. A former president. The Trump may go to jail. The current president may get impeached and put in jail with his son. Hey, Trump, your choice. There's plenty to dislike.

I have to agree call him a racist, although I've never seen a policy put in place to demonstrate that the opposites. In fact, anything goes against Trump. But you want the dark side, Everything he done makes sense. He brought us a vaccine, but he gave us a choice of whether to take it or not. The Democrats got to the vaccine and mandated that they forced everyone to take it. I took it. I was glad to take it, but let's face it, Democrats forced it. Now everybody's finding

out it didn't have a plan. Didn't that work? Right? Now? Trump the only one talking sense on a Ukraine. He's the only one who came right out and said it, give me one day and I'll end the war in Ukraine. People are dying just for the moment put Us signed the ruination of civilians and their culture. The soldiers are dying every day. The entire political system behaves like that's okay. It's okay for soldiers to die because they signed up to serve. Yes, they signed up to protect their country,

but not to die needlessly. These soldiers, their sons, their fathers, their brothers, their lives are lost to their families. They're gone. It's a runation, it's a travistan. All the civilians that are dying. Trump is the only one who said clearly they're dying. You'll have to stop this. There's no leadership in this country. Both parties are disgusting. And once again you gotta give it to Democrats for the credit for their degree of

evil. To Democrats are all party line, no independent thought. That's their way or the highway. Their Republicans let their hearts get in the way. Romney, I don't know whether I'm a fan or not of him, but he does act independently. He does what he thinks is right. He should be applauded for that. On each issue he votes what he thinks is right, and he's vilified. Rand Paul is always right. There's a guy with common sense. Nobody supports them. They turn him into a buffoon. But

he was right with everything. They made him look foolish with his arguments with Fauci, and everything he said was right. Our government is on the wrong side of everything. You want to talk to dark side China, I have to say it. I'm a fan of China. I spend so much time there when I was younger. They're well made and they're inexpensive. That's a pretty powerful position, don't you think. Yeah. I spent a lot of time doing business, developing products, teaching the Chinese our know how, handing

him our technology. I demand anyone to show the gun that was put to their head to willingly give them our technology. And now we're angry with China for being smarter than we are. We should be angry at all politicians for this stupidity, for not holding the Chinese feet to the fire, for making sure they bought as much from us as we bought from them, and made sure they stop stealing our intellectual properties. What about TikTok and stealing our private

information. We don't have an issue with that. Close it down. If that's what it's doing, close it down. Clearly, haven't seen how good the dance videos are. Well, then don't complain. We're doing stupidity. You can't be made of China for being smart on us for being a wealthy nation investing in technology and finding training partners around the world who evaluated to them. They started investing in Africa. Nobody understood why they invested in Africa.

Africa has all the minerals we need as a forward society to make computers and computer chips, and they have the franchise on all its stupid Hillary Clinton settled them are nuclear uranium. Their friends with Russia. They get energy from Russia. China is a million times smarter than us. They have no enemies. They exist and let others exist. We give and get nothing. Once again, Trump said it with NATO. There's a war in Europe right now with

Ukraine fending off the Russians. Who's funding it, who's there? We are? We have no strategy. We have strategicy. That's a fake word, like the fake things we get for being American fools. We have no leadership. Where are geniuses politicians? Where we give away essential skills and manufactory, where we're are dopey politicians. When we allowed Taiwan to be the only one to make computer chips, where we allow China to make all of our medicines,

all our penicillin, all our antibiotics. They control our hell through medicine. They don't ever need to fire a shot to win us over. We'll I'll be speaking Chinese someday. Tay China. I'm a fan. Oh and the big guy. You know who the big guy is? He sends Blincoln, the Secretary of State, to try and reset our relationship with China. We told he had an excellent meeting, and right at the same time, our president, the big Guy at the same time quojia dictator. That went

over. Well. You know you can't make this up. We have zero leadership. We're in a divided nation. We're in trouble. Welcome back, Mark, No more missed the nice guy. Tonight I'm on the dark side. I'm nauseous for the way I behave for the last month. I was a good guy, a sweet guy, a nice guy, stood up and made speeches that people should admire because I gave faith to humans no more.

I'll take a break back in a minute. Always in fashion. As one of the world's most celebrated fashion designers, Karlagefeld was renowned for his aspirational and cutting edge approach to style. His unique vision of Parisian It comes to America through Carlagofeld Paris. He has women's collections, men's collections, ready to wear, accessory, shoes and bags. The fashion house Carlagofeld also offers a range of watches. I wearing premium fragrances. You can explore the Carlogofel collection at

Karlogofel Paris dot com. But it's more than that. I, for one, love to shop. I love going around and seeing what's happening and what catches my attention, what would make me feel good to wear now. I don't wear the women's wear obviously, but I can appreciate it and may look amazing. If you want to look right, you want to have clothes that fits you well. You want to look like you're wearing something that's very expensive, that's exclusive for you and yours. You can find it at very affordable

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favorite brand has always been ISOD. My company at one time bought that brand. The CEO of the company handed it to me and said you better make it work. And I put everything in my career to make Eyesod work, and I fell in love with that brand, and to this day it is one of the most exciting endeavors I've ever got involved with. ISOD is an incredibly strong brand. If you play golf, if you play tennis for that matter. They make a great polo shirts. I mean great. They're fit

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Now I will also tell you ISAOD makes great shorts and great golf pants. If you're a golfer and you want to look good, you don't want to have to think about how do I look. You want to think about how you play, not how you feel. ISOD is the brand for you. I know I was there when it was created. The strategy behind that brand is brilliant. It's one of my favorite brands. While I talk about I should tell you about the men's sportswear. ISOD wasn't enough being a golf

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to you later, guys. I wish you a very happy spring in summer, and I help you by telling you if you wear eyesode, you're gonna look great. Welcome back, Jo always in fashion. Here's your host, Mark Webber Lou. Come to the dock side. I'm on the dock side now, just like in Star Wars. Last few weeks, I had some beautiful occasions, anniversary's, weddings, nice things. You got to speak three times mate speeches. And what did I get from being a nice guy?

Criticism? People don't get me. I'm actually nauseous from being nice and sweet, and thinking about it, this week, I decided to go back to the dark side, which is where I am. I get to complain, I get to be angry, I get to be pissed off, and that's kind of where I am tonight. I'm trying to temper it down. You like being the bad guy, Say hello to the bad guy. Actors always say they prefer playing the villain. It's more fun, isn't Well, it's

not so much that I want to be a villain. It's my view on humans and people in general that there are some really nice people, and over time I've talked on the show about they show up at the strangest places and when you need them, they're there for you. But generally speaking, I don't like humans. For someone to say, whoever, that was thirty two minutes of my speech at your wedding was terrible, It's not that they thought

it was terrible, it's that they were offended by what you said. I don't know who the person is, and I hope I never know, and I don't care if I should ever meet them again, and if they or any of their friends or listening to the show person has no brains, I don't want to know them. How about that morons anyway? What I want to talk about now, of all things, this fashion. What a shotka right for a show that's called always in Fashion, I have to talk about

fashion because it's making me crazy. What a respect in fashion is conviction. What I don't respect is compromise, and compromise is rooting the fashion system. Compromise is a fine idea until it compromises your principles. You have to remember, we're in the business. What do people need what can you sell a lot of? What do people want? Or what can you sell a lot

of without compromising your principles. I'll also remind you that in this world, in order to make money, you have to sell a lot of what you make. Think about Tesla has to sell a lot of cars. Think about Apple has to sell a lot of phones. On fashion, you have to sell a lot of key items basics. We all wear basics when we admit or not. We wear T shirts, we wear sweaters, we wear sweatshirts. Companies have to sell a lot of them. But the best companies disguise

these basic as fashion. They have to be comfortable and they make you look current and better. Now I work between two worlds. One world I grew up working for Man of the People products fan using shirts isod sports where even Calvin Klein, when you think about how much underwear genes sports where they sell, is very affordable. Donna Karen decan y tremendously affordable products that would sell a ton of them. Decany sold three hundred million dollars worth of jeans over

a fifteen year period at Popular Prize. So I lived in that world. The other world I walked into is the luxury world at lvmh Luis Vutan Moet Hennessey. The luxury world talks about what do I put in to my product to make it better rather than what I take out of it to make it less expensive. So let's take a stroll to those worlds. Have any of you seen the recent men's wear collections for Spring twenty four. It's been men's fashion week around the globe. Product vetone, Gucci disaster. Ladies, keep

wearing your naked dresses. I don't know what signal you're trying to send, but I'll look at you. But men, I can't believe what I'm seeing. The genius Raft Simmons is now at Product and the clothes are in sanely sick and terrible. Raf Simmons is famous, I'm not Raf Simmons did a movie called Dior and Me. He was the creative director at Dior. He

was sensational. He was unbelievable because everything he did at Diyor was in keeping with being a luxury company, to being out in front of it like no one else, and someone the merchant said to or tempered a lot of what he was doing in order to make it salable. Now salable at Dior is very different. It's salable at some of these other companies I mentioned because at the or you're talking about very very expensive handbag, shoes, sunglasses, dresses.

But within it, he was brilliant. Now I want to tell you the other side. I did a show back in June, I think of last year, probably a year ago, about my former company Van Jusen, when they saw hold off their assets of venues in and isod to evolve people, my son's company where he works, and I did a show called you Failed. There's no other way to spin it, and the responsibility of keeping the founding brand of Phillips venues in pH as seen on the stock exchange was

a failure of the highest proportions. Drove me crazy. Now on LinkedIn every week I get comments from anywhere from a thousand to when my wife passed away twelve thousand people to the show that you failed eighty eight hundred people, the second largest response I ever had. Because people were invested and they are invested in brands and PVH selling off their namesake brand was a failure of the greatest

proportions. I spent thirty years of my life doing everything I can to make that brand great, as did so many other of my associates, and they gave it a way. And then pH who owned Calvin Klein, which is amazing success during my tenure, even more amazing after I left. Calvin Klein is one of the truly great brands in the world between underwear, Calvin Klein, Jeens, Calvin Klein Sports, where Calvin Klein, Fragrances, eternity c

K one what a company. They hired Raf Simmons to be the creative director, not just for the collection, they gave him the whole company. And what did he do. He went out and started making strange things, couturier ideas that a handful of people would be interesting. Remember before I said I don't like compromise, Well, I have to give it to Raf Simmons because he never compromised. He went ahead and started making the same things he'd made

for everyone else and literally destroyed Calvin Klein. The collection closed, every one of their business suffered. The CEO of the company had, I want to say, had to leave, but it was a blot on his career. He was a great guy who did well for I think eleven twelve years. He retired at his own choosing. But he took a hit for that. And all the people associated with Ralf Simmons, Calvin Klean company, the president, the executive, they're all gone. They had to start all over.

They had to get rid of Ralph Simmons, and they did. And now I watched him at Product. I'm a Product fan. You want to talk about the dark side, I'm on the dark side now. I saw the men's run my show. There were more skirts than pants. There are more dresses than pants. They're more shorts than pants. There are more skin on men's weban I've ever seen in my life. How can you wear this? What are you doing to fashion? I watch what's going on and I say

to myself, who's allowing this to happen? What's going on in fashion? I have a question for you, Pharrell. What is he known for. He's a musician and a producer, a genius at it right. He's amazing, He's incredible, and he's a cool guy, cool guy that never ages. He like looks the same for the past twenty years. And I knew him Farrell because of his music. From a fashion point of view, I'm asking myself, what are his credentials. I know he wore a smokey the

bear hat. I know he likes sunglasses. I know he's a cool guy. But he was just named creative director of Vitone. The way that I would look at that is you say, okay, he is a creative artist, and creative artists sometimes that can translate into fashion, can it? Absolutely? Why is Kanye West grating clothes? Because he could maybe Farrell could as well. I'm not arguing. I just saw the Runway show and it's strange,

vite. They're all about the next thing. They're all about fashion, and I gotta tell you, Farrelle in Paris brought out the big guns. Jay Z was there. He and jay Z sung at the show. I mean then or then and after whatever. But I'm watching what's going on. I'm thinking about my former company, Viton. I'm wondering what this guy's fashion credits are. I haven't read the reviews, but why, baba. They're applauding brown shoes with navy suits. They're applauding all these white soul shoes.

They're pluting all these things. They're putting Billy Porter from wearing a dress to the oscars. All of this is okay all of a sudden, what's going on in fashion? I don't understand. Look, I wish him luck. I like the idea that he's a person who is noticed, that he draws people to anything he does, and he will draw a new audience to LV. I just have my fingers cross that the fashion will be more sensible. But I never dream of the nightmare then I'm looking at right now? How

could this statement possibly help anyone? And why are we embracing in his industry this lack of clarity, this lack of common sense, this lack of style. Where can this lead? I know nowhere to you? Wow? Look at what you're wearing behind your back? Also? Wow? Wow? Shouldn't be your goal? You deserve to be seen, You deserve to be appreciated, deserve to be respected, you deserve to be taken. Seriously, we can't do it with the fashion I'm seeing on the run rays right now.

And I might be the only one saying it, but that's the way it is. I'm not a nice guy tonight. With that, I'll be back in a minute. Always in fashion spent a lifetime of my career building the van Usen Brand, and I am so pleased that they're back with us now talking about suits. Men, We're dressing up again and it's become cool to wear a suit. Suits can be one on multiplecasions in multiple ways. You could wear a suit formally to go out at night or to an event,

to wear a suit to the office with or without a tie. If you look closely, now fashion trends, suits are being worn with turtlenecks or mocknecks. The choices are endless, and every one of them looks right. You could really really look the part. I believe that packaging yourself this is important. Does the products you package and wearing a suit is one of those things that make men look their best. Venues and invented a new idea. It's

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its name with dress shirts. It's only proper that the suit business follows strongly in its way. You can find van Uson cool flex men's stretched suits at jac Penney or online at jcpenny dot com. Guys, they're great. You should go look at them. Welcome back to Always in Fashion. Here's your host, Mark Webber. I have been nauseous with myself. I can't look in the mirror. I've spent the last month being a nice guy a place I'm not familiar with. I'm used to being tough to the point, but

fair. Maybe I don't know even what that means, but I've been different because I've been in these situations, and now that I have been doing it, I've gotten criticized for my behavior. Some for the show. I'm just getting angry. I'm on the dock side. Now that's this week's show. I'm not being nice. I'm complaining, and I think Jesse evens enjoying it. I am. As much as I like the sweet Mark Webber, You're

much more fun as the dark Mark Webber, as the bad guy. You know, before your wedding, we took a bunch of guys out for dinner the night before, and I got up and spoke extemporaneously, no notes, no plan whatever, and I was talking about gripes and stuff, and I was funny as hell. I was my best speech of the last month. I think that's the most fun you had of the wedding weekend. Maybe. Yeah, I'm angry and I'm feeling better. Though, Wait, wait before

you get into it. It seems you're getting angry and angry as we go forward in the show. That's funny, but I would say, no, my angerer is equally proportionate. I thought, you don't care what people think. I know, do you to an extent? Not like I'll change my behavior, but I'm conscious of how people respond to what I do. Yeah, one person watches you on TV makes a comment about your hair or something you said you get a little nose out of joint or note so funny you

should say that. I'll tell you this. I'll be like, you know, somebody said something about my hair, or somebody said something about this. Instead of saying me, ah, forget it, who cares what they saying? You side with them. You go, huh, maybe your hair is a little too long. Maybe you do have to give it a second thought. I'm shocked. I'm shocked for the guy who doesn't care what people think. Anytime somebody gives me a critique, you're like, oh, maybe you

have to think about that. Well. One of the people who wrote me a letter this week commented, I am tough on you, are demeaning on you on the show, and I'm really other than fooling around saying I can't believe you took a honeymoon and you stay here and you know you didn't take your recording good man, which I would think is a joke. Do you feel I'm tough on you on air? Well, first of all, I wrote it anonymously, No, you didn't. It happen to be from a

guy who I know very well. And let me just say to the person that wrote you, I appreciate you defending me, But at the same time, I really don't think I needed any defense. I feel like you and I are always just joking around. It's never really serious. Yeah, that was one comment the stand. Then there was comments he made a comment that you know which really part of the would triggered this show, which is I'm grateful in that regard because he was saying that always in fashion is not on

point, which is really what I want to talk about. For the moment. Everything on this show is a life lesson. I've always said you should listen, but more importantly, you should hear what I'm saying on focusing this audience on what's important. Business. You can't do it alone. You need people. For me, considering that this entire night have been talking so far about how I don't like humans, I want to make the point you can't

be successful in business without people. No one can do it all themselves. But I have a concept that I hire or I will only tolerate inherited people that work directly for me, who make me struggle to be value added. I don't want to do anything. I want their ideas. I want the brilliant, so I want their expertise to lead the way, and I want

to struggle to make a contribution. And then when you think about that, you might say it makes no sense, But it makes all the sense in the world because I then have to work to figure out what we're missing, what to do to make us better, what to do to make us more unusual. I want to work with the smarter people. The better you are, the more excited I will get. I'm never fearful than anyone who would report to me might be better than me. If you're better than me,

more power to you. I'll come work for you. There's always an opportunity in companies for all of us. There's always room. You better than me. I have to accept you as a key player, but I'll tell you I'm tough to beat. My exact quote goes like this, I want to work with people who make me struggle to be value ended. I'll find a way to contribute. I'll add a perspective, make your ideas special. I'll make you more confident. But no question, I'm a tough guy in business.

Tough but fair. It means I'm demanding. I don't suffer fools well, but I'm also understanding and try and bring fools along. Have you come to me, ask me a question, or you present an idea. I expect you to be prepared. I expect you to be thorough, to consider all the options. I expect you to look for an ounce should you need one, Because if your idea or your plans don't work, what are you gonna do? H you need to have a backup. I expect people to

think through the unintended consequences. Look, I don't believe we should ever make the same mistake twice. We have to have some class. We have to give credit where it's due. You got to remember to appreciate and say thank you. You have to remember anither to take credit for other people's work. And I will tell you if you always agree with me, one of us is needed. So you better have some ideas that are different from mine.

I don't need kissing my ring to make me nice. This whole idea of sweet and nice is platform for me to talk to you tonight about different subjects. Like the show always is, I look for something that might trigger a response. I look for something that's saying. In this case, me being nice didn't pay off. Allows me to talk about things that are annoying me.

That allows me to be tough but fair. You know, when I talk about once in my life, I was brilliant, it was designed to challenge you to think outside the box, to realize that it's okay to think differently. When I talk about I used to be important, I understand that time's change, in life's changes, you have to be self aware. For me, it's fun to see the reality of it. What I'm complaining that nobody sees me anymore, and what it feels like to no longer be relevant.

That's real. It gets me to see humans that they're best and the worst. And I love it. I'm not unhappy. I'm a realist. I had my aunts in business. I was important, I was a CEO. Now I'm not. Now I do radio, I do podcasts. I'm sure I'm relevant to those who not only listen, but here. I believe it's great that I get your comments. I want you to keep them coming. I don't mind those friends who've written me are concerned you're being honest with

me, No, don't worry about. All it does is trigger more ideas for me. I wonder whether you get the impact. One of these folks who I've mentioned now a couple of things he said, said, I'm losing the spirit of always in fashion. I couldn't disagree more. This show began as a business show. I tried every time I came out there this is mark where, but this is always in fashion, this is business. And with spite of all that talk about business, Apple Spotify categorized us as culture

and lifestyle. That's who we are. Any subject is game, any subject is relevant, and I love the freedom at off it. I love the opportunity to expand beyond the walls of fashion. So I welcome put. I'm not sorry in the least for you reawakening the tiger in me. Well, I think you should continue to be mean to me because I like getting the fan mail. I like people defending me. I mean, I gotta tell you, people defending me at the wedding, people defending me on air.

My goodness, I haven't seen so much Jesse love in quite some time. Give me one example where I gave you a tough time. Well, I mean, it's light humor, it's light. But you gave me a hard time about certain decisions that I made. No, I want to hear that's psychobabble. You didn't give me a little bit of a hard time about going to Greece. No, I questioned whether I need to go to the other ends of the world. There were so many other places to choose from.

I was talking to you as your dad, your father. I was concerned you being so far from home and a place that has all kinds of problems. Never seems to meet their budgets. I don't know what's going on in Greece. That was a hard time. You gotta do better than that. Keep going. Let me hear what else. The truth is, I can't think of anything that you did bad at me, because nothing stood out. You tease me here and there, but I don't think of anything that bad

in particular. I know you can't. And just to put things in perspective, do you tease me? Yeah, I tease you, but rightfully so someone's got to hold your feet to the fire a little bit. You give me all kinds of stuff no matter what show we're doing. That's true. Oh you gave me a hard time and out bringing my equipment to Grace to do the show. Yeah. Was it a hard time or it was a joke? Do I expect you to work on your honeymoon? Yeah? I do. But hey, I have a different question for you. While we're

just rambling here. I don't want to mention names. I don't want to mention brands, but one of the former brands that I used to work at it is looking for some help. I had a conversation with the principles of the company about coming in there and helping them get back on track. Should I go back to semi something work or not? Yes? First of all, your mind always has to be active. You wouldn't be good just sitting

around. And yes, the radio show takes a lot of time. It's a great thing that you do. But I think you would love to be part of a company working in that industry again, being value added. I think you would love it. I think it would make your life interesting. So you want to put your forefather back to work after he retired, I'm not telling you to work in a sweatshop from six am until midnight. So how many hours should I work every day? Should I travel over the world

all over again? No? No, no, no, no more light work? You said semi semi, So I don't know. Two hours a day, three hours a day every day? So I shouldn't have days off to play golf or hang out and just do nothing. I should have a schedule every day. If it's taking a phone call for an hour and a half, is that the worst? The funniest thing is I used to be a consultant, you know. I have this practice, and I would take

phone calls and fall asleep on them. That was terrible. You know, you probably shouldn't say that on air because they're probably listening to this, and by the way, your future potential employer might be listening to this. You don't have any urge to be back in the industry, that's a great question, But the real question is why would I. I'm concerned that it's my ego. I'm concerned that, you know, being back in some form gives me a platform. I walk in I stand tall, people respect me.

I can't tell you how many times the folks I was involved with talking about this that it was an honor for me to be there. I haven't heard that, you know, maybe ever. But I'm concerned it's my ego. Number one and number two, it is another mountain to climb, to go back to some degree in the fashion luxury business. But is that where I should be climbing mountains or should be finding new mountains to climb like we did with radio, like I did with books. While is there some other career

that you haven't told me about that you want to do. I want to be a whole fighter. If you think about it, there's a part of you you're still reading about the industry. You always tell me, what's going on? We talk about it here. You're not interested in building a company, up, building a brand? Well, I'd be lying if I didn't say I wasn't considering it. You're like the in the movies, the assassin who comes back for that one job they need him out of retirement. Yeah,

and that's the one he gets killed in. Okay, maybe bad example. I'm just saying you're still value added. Look, I'm not money motivated. Whatever they would pay me is not going to be enough to change my life, So the money doesn't mean anything in this regard. I am very protective of my time and the fact that you know, what's our favorite trips.

Our favorite trips are the ones where we have nothing planned. And what's our favorite days where we have nothing to do when we figure it out on the day of Okay, now, what if I told you your whole life now you have to have nothing planned and you could just do whatever you want. I mean, it's amazing. I wish I had that. So why you're telling me to go back to work. I was in Greece for two and a half weeks. I kind of still have that mentality of looking at

the ocean and eating Greek salads. So I'm kind of like still in that mentality. Maybe if you ask me into a couple of weeks. I think it's time to summarize tonight's show. Half the time I'm self deprecating. I'm making fun of myself so that when I want to brag about myself, I can do it. You know, I used to be important. Nobody sees me anymore. People don't like me. This that I do that all the time, and I'm part of it is so I have the right to brag.

I am a smart guy. I do a radio show that's unique, and it's smart, and it's clever. And if you take the time to listen, but more importantly to hear, if you take the time to look, but more important to see, you'll be better for it. This show. If you listen to the it bits lost in a sentence, there are gems. So when I get your comments, all of you out there, friends and foes, think about what you're saying. Did you miss the point

you're getting what I'm saying. Do you enjoy the show for the purity of it, for the diverse set of subjects. Do I open your minds to sometimes thinking about things you might not have thought about. Did you learn something? Well, if you did, stop criticizing me. I don't want to hear it. I'm on the dark side. Go bother someone else, or go get your own show. Good night,

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