Am I the jerk for telling him to return the ring?
She asked him to buy her a ring, so he did. Now she doesn't like it, but she thinks she has a valid reason. Is she the jerk?

She asked him to buy her a ring, so he did. Now she doesn't like it, but she thinks she has a valid reason. Is she the jerk?
Dumpster Fire Dating wasn't so funny today when Alley shared the offensive comment her date said to her. So they talk about it openly and then discuss the big mental health breakthrough one of their kids had this week. DZ asks for help in picking his sons 1st bday theme and that leads to more confusion for him! The question of the day lightens everything up when they talk about screenshots and some answers might suprise you. Enjoy the show!
Michelle's dad loves to scare the kids during spooky season. But is it mean or fun?
DZ helped out a listener who screenshots everything but wants to stop and Alley did a "drive by" of sorts to spy on someone close to her. Maria asked if she's the jerk for kicking her own kid out and finally they argue over their favorite Halloween movies. Enjoy the show!
Maria and her husband feel like they have tried everything when it comes to getting their kid to clean and now they're taking things into their own hands. Is she the jerk?
DZ gave a big anniversary update and Alley's friend found out they have a secret love child. And that's just PART of the show today! Katherine asked if she's the jerk for unfollowing someone struggling and DZ helps out a woman who doesn't want her man to get a dumb tattoo. Enjoy the show!
Katherine wants to know if she's a jerk for unfollowing someone going through a hard time. Is she the jerk?
Alley's son snuck something into school so he called in to confess today and DZ asked for help with his wedding anniversary on What Would DZ Do. They talk about a big scam going on in the area after Alley's friend almost fell for it and Jessica asked if she was the jerk for saying yes to a proposal out of guilt. Enjoy the show!
Jessica was asked to homecoming by a friend and it turned bad quick. Is she the jerk?
Alley always tells her kids to call if they need her, but she said no this time. Is she the jerk?
Dumpster fire dating is back and Alley makes a big admission and DZ helps out a man who wants to date his dead partners best friend. Am I the jerk doesn’t disappoint when a woman asks if she’s wrong for being cautious about rekindling a relationship with a child and they share their best moments “I give up” moments in parenting.
Amy isn't interested in moving anytime soon after finding out her roomate is pregnant. Is she the jerk?
DZ was triggered by a box of shirts someone left out at work so he brought it on the show and everyone joined in on What SHOULD DZ do today. They discuss how many hours they work each day and a listener asked if she was the jerk for refusing to move out after her roomate got pregnant. Alley shares the one thing she won't let anyone see on her phone and everyone joins in with their own and they discuss how to deal with people who don't RSVP and still show up. Happy Thursday!
Do you want looks or intelligence? That kicked off the show today with the KISS question of the day and then DZ helps out a listener who isn't sure if they should get back with their ex. Heather asked if she was a jerk for telling her brother to step up and then they discuss whether or not they would make a permanent change to their eyes(you'll have to listen back to understand) Enjoy the show!
Heather wants her brother to step up and it's not going very well. Is she the jerk?
Alley is under the weather so DZ holds down the fort. Today we made a list of the best ways to stop ourselves from 'doom scrolling' on our phones. DZ asks for help resolving the rancid smell coming from his wife's car. and We discuss if we believe in perfection and why. All while dealing with Anne wondering if she's the jerk for giving friends a cheap gift. Enjoy the show!
"Anne" wrote in to the show worried after realizing they gave friends a way cheaper wedding gift compared to the gift they received on their big day. They ask if they're the jerks and the listeners decide!
A listener wrote into the show today and asked if they were a jerk for not picking up the neighbor kids. Is she the jerk?
The weekend did not go according to plan after a big event was canceled in Milwaukee so Alley and DZ discuss, and Alley asks if something she saw a couple doing in public was acceptable. DZ helps out a man who is worried about living at home in his 30's and a mom asked if she was the jerk for not wanting to give the neighbor kids a ride. And finally they talk about the unconvential ways to enjoy your hobbies. Have a good Monday!
Dumpster Fire Dating returns today and DZ helps out a listener who thinks his friends wife is into him?Am I the jerk involves a wedding guest list problem and they discuss their big plans for this weekend. Enjoy the show!
Emma is getting married and wants to know if she’s a jerk for something she wants to do. Is she the jerk?
We got a big update from DZ today on his family situation and then Alley asked if she was the jerk for offering to help her son, until he actually asked! They talk about the emojis you can no longer use and the question of the addressed all the professions they would never date. Enjoy the show!
Alley offered her son some help, until he actually asked her to do something. Is she the jerk?
The show got uncomfortable for some today when Alley opened up about her fears when it comes to mental health and her kids. DZ and others helped her out on What Would DZ Do and then they discuss some of their favorite things they have lost and actually found! Natalie asked if she was the jerk for setting a boundary FOR her husband and finally they circle back to yesterday's topic but this time discuss the numbers you SHOULD have memorized.
Natalie is sick of her husband being so nice and she wants to force him to set a boundary with his cousin. Is she the jerk?
DZ found himself helping out an employee and wondered if he overstepped when he did it. Is he the jerk?
Alley was verbally assaulted in public by a man and DZ asked if he was the jerk for interfering with something in public. And that’s just a small part of the show today! They discuss the best classes for couples to take and Alley shares a story of why she was running errands before the show at 4am. And finally they discuss all the numbers they have memorized and why. Enjoy the show!