Episode #4: Of Course You’re Being Judged … And?

Do you realize that the biggest fear, aside from death and public speaking (yes, that actually ranks higher than death for many people … I’ll come back to that in another episode) is being judged (and being criticized)?

Well, I have news for you … you’re always being judged.

And …

It doesn’t matter.

Yep, that’s right, it doesn’t matter. And, the kicker … it’s not actually about you..

The problem, however, is that we think it’s about us, we internalize it, and we allow someone else opinion to determine our own sense of worth. We allow it to create and build fear within us. And, this fear debilitates us. It shuts us down before we even get started.

It paralyzes us, and keeps us playing small.

When, the reality is you ARE being judged, all the time. And, that judgment is very rarely ever ultimately about you.

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