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AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

Danny Vegawww.spreaker.com
Danny Vega and friends read listener submissions, & pilfers from the AITA subreddit to discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple question: am I the a**hole? Submit at reddit.com/r/aitapod, [email protected], or 307-212-8818 (voice accepted).
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Episodes

726 AITA for declining to be a groomsmen in my best friend's wedding?

I'm joined by Karla and Dani for a frankly banger episode. Happy mon mon hun huns to you and yours! (0:00) - Banter (15:23) - AITA for declining to be a groomsmen in one of my best friend's weddings? (33:03) - AITA for backing out on a night with friends we haven't seen for a decade? (43:47) - AITA for making my friend buy a whole new bathing suit after it was returned with a sh*t stain?

Jun 23, 202557 min

724 AITA for bringing food to my friend's party? (ft. Karla & Dani Adaliz)

The sponsor today is betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off. Happy mon mon hun huns :D Today's episode features Karla and Dani Dani's insta: https://www.instagram.com/danicoqui/?hl=en Karla: https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/?hl=en (0:00) - Banter / Danny and Karla resolve Tradwifegate and Backgate (27:08) - Karla's grandma wants her to get a boyfriend before she dies (36:51) - WIBTA if I charged my friend for her daughter ruining my furniture? (47:46) - AITA for refusing to let my frien...

Jun 16, 20251 hr 21 min

722 AITA for saying ride share apps should let ppl request women drivers? (ft. Evyenia & Alex)

I'm joined by Evyenia and Alex Paisley Stedman! Follow Evyenia: https://www.instagram.com/nia_bois/ Follow APS: https://www.instagram.com/alex.paisley.stedman/ (0:00) - Banter (15:50) - AITA for not inviting my best friend to my apartment warming party? (28:27) - AITA for saying ride share apps should allow women to request women drivers? (39:17) - AITA for expecting my boyfriend to include me in memorial day plans despite being unable to swim?

Jun 09, 202549 min

719 AITA for liking a classmate's insta of her pole dancing? (ft. Sara)

Our sponsor today is betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off folks! ---TIMESTAMPS BELOW--- Happy Monday Hyundais. No idea what that means but I do know this: this is a great little ep-a-roo with Sara (yes, the Sara). Follow her if you don't (and why don't you?). Also I watched Death of a Unicorn last night and it wasn't good, but it also wasn't bad. Strongly advising you not to pay $22 to watch it at a San Diego hotel which I did. Anyway, IDK why I'm saying all this but I really hope you ...

Jun 02, 20251 hr 16 min

718 AITA for staying up late talking to individuals?

With Radu and new guest, hilarious comedian Julia Stone. Follow Julia: https://www.instagram.com/akajuliastone/ Follow Radu: https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ (0:00) - Banter (19:02) - AITA for not waking up roommate for his job interview? (26:49) - AITA for staying up late talking to individuals? (43:17) - AITA for asking partner's sister to reimburse flights to babysit their kid? (54:39) - AITA for complaining about an employee participating in an adult sports league?...

May 26, 20251 hr 17 min

716 AITA for telling friends the real reason we didn't save their seat? (ft. Radu and Karla)

The sponsor today is betterhelp. betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off Follow Radu: https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ Follow Karla: https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ (0:00) Banter, loneliness epidemic, spelling bees (19:09) - Karla's landlord story (27:35) - AITA boyfriend's Vegas invite has friend sleeping in the same room? (38:08) - AITA for telling our friends the real reason we didn't save their seat? (50:42) - AITA bought a new toy to make a point?...

May 19, 20251 hr 5 min

714 AITA for smacking my nephew for spitting on me? (ft. Karla & Radu)

Happy mon mon hon hons. I'm joined by Karla and Radu to discuss some fun stuff. PLEASE follow them :) Karla - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ Radu - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ --- (0:00) - Banter (16:42) -AITA for smacking my nephew for spitting on me? (28:09) - AITA for siding with my mom in the divorce even though dad cheated? (42:39 - AITA for snapping at my mom after she forced me to learn sign language?

May 12, 202554 min

712 AITA for not hosting bc GF's home decor? (ft. Karla & Radu)

The sponsor today is BetterHelp. Betterhelp.com/Aitapod for 10% off Happy mon mon hon hons. It's another banger with Karla and Radu. We love to see it. Follow them folks!! Thanks for listening!!! Karla - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ Radu - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ (0:00) - Banter and beating allegations of "comedy town." (11:16) - AITA for asking a kid in a record store to put it back bc he's reselling? (26:17) - AITA if I refuse to donate PTO to a dying co-worker? (35:46) - A...

May 05, 202554 min

710 AITA for not opening a chest to ease roommate's fears? (ft. Karla & Radu)

The sponsor today is betterhelp. betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off Happy mon mon hon hons. Hope everyone's doing great :). It's gosling season in Echo Park and I am loving life!!! Much love to all y'all. I am joined on this one by funny, funny man Radu Bondar and delightful, laughalicious Karla Espino. Karla Insta - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ Radu Insta - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ (0:00) - Banter (18:26) - AITA for clapping back at co-worker over her reading tastes? (29:42) ...

Apr 28, 20251 hr 6 min

708 AITA for leaving after learning he's pocketing rent? (ft. Evyenia & Alex)

the sponsor today is betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod Save 10% NOW I'm joined by the delightful Evyenia and highly chaotic and enjoyable, Alex Paisley Steadman Follow Alex: https://www.instagram.com/alex.paisley.stedman/ Evyenia's music page: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5HWJXz6CkzVPb9Z02zeULa?si=MNup-FqUTkm_I5tmDPSpAw (0:00) - banter (21:15) - AITA for questioning my ship after learning he's pocketing rent? (42:34) - AITA for uninviting my bff from my wedding bc she dated my fiance first? ...

Apr 21, 20251 hr 23 min

706 AITA for not reminding my fiance that stoves are hot? (ft. Aisha & Kari)

Happy mon mon hun huns!! I'm joined by lovely returning guests Aisha and Kari to talk about some fun situations! Follow Kari: https://www.instagram.com/assadkarirocks/ Follow Aisha: https://www.instagram.com/aishaalfa/ (0:00) - Banter (18:45) - AITA for telling my wife she needs to get her license? (30:16) - AITA want to leave GF after she catfished me? (40:19) - AITA for not reminding my fiance that stoves are hot? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/ Email -...

Apr 14, 20251 hr 2 min

704 AITA for not replying to a message when we have a date planned? (ft. Evyenia)

Hello loves! Listen to Evyenia's music: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5HWJXz6CkzVPb9Z02zeULa?si=Ha3rQSeSRsGHg4X7N107qg It's one heck of an ep. Thanks for listenin!!! Have a great week. (0:00) - Banter (34:09) - AITA for not replying to a message when we have a date planned? (45:16) - AITA for telling my friends my date's mom called 5 times during our date? (53:25) - AITA for wearing yoga pants to a first date? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/ Email - ami...

Apr 07, 20251 hr 2 min

702 AITA for telling GF to suck it up re: my clown figurines?(ft. Karla & Radu)

I'm joined by mega-gems Karla and Babu. Please follow them PLEASE. Babu - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ Karla - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ (0:00) - Banter (16:21) - AITA for asking neighbor not to wake us up w seggs in the middle of the night? (26:31) - AITA for telling my GF to suck it up around my clown figurines? (38:42) - WIBTA if I told my friend her lips look bad? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/ Email - [email protected] Join Pat...

Mar 31, 202556 min

700 My 33m wife 29f sat on the lap of another man (ft. THE DADS)

I'm joined by Paul and Nick for another great ep :) Nick's Newsletter: https://themoraluniverse.substack.com/ Follow Paul: https://www.instagram.com/paulschissler/ (0:00) - Banter (15:44) - AITA for stealing a car and bringing it back? (27:36) - My 33m wife 29f sat on the lap of another man (49:46) - AITA for refusing to go to my uncle's wedding bc it's on Halloween? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/ Email - [email protected] Join Patreon! https://patre...

Mar 24, 20251 hr 8 min

698 Mega Marriage Ep (ft. Giulia Rozzi & Nick Turner)

Our sponsor today is BetterHelp. For 10% off, Betterhelp.com/aitapod Feat. Nick Turner - https://www.instagram.com/nicksturners/?hl=en Giulia Rozzi - https://www.instagram.com/msgiuliarozzi/?hl=en (0:00) - Banter and marriage threads (39:25) - Best Marriage hacks thread (1:10:48) - AITA for being annoyed husband Js off to IRL people? (1:21:30) - AITA for not listening to wife and eating the wrong cookie? (1:34:04) - AITA for agreeing w mom it's pathetic wife can't cook? (1:51:55) - AITA bc I won...

Mar 17, 20252 hr 15 min

696 Dating Stories Mega Ep (ft. Radu & Karla)

Happy mon mon hun huns. Hope you enjoy my wonderful guests! Give them a follow!! Karla - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ Babu aka Radu Bondar - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ (0:00) - banter (17:23) - Insane dating stories (54:04) - AITA for refusing to delete pictures of my ex on my phone? (1:06:15) - AITA for leaving my BF bc of his mom? (1:20:31) - GF is messy and cluttered; she says accept it (1:37:56) - AITA for asking bf not to wear crocs on dates? (1:50:10) - AITA for using my t...

Mar 10, 20252 hr 3 min

694 AITA my GF called me brother while doing it  (also I WAS HIT BY A CAR)

the sponsor today is betterhelp. Save 10% at betterhelp.com/aitapod I'm joined by stand-up Fumi Abe and returning to the show, Tori Piskin (everyone's fave ginger). Follow Fumi: https://www.instagram.com/thefumiabe/ Follow Tori: https://www.instagram.com/toripiskin/ Personal stories (0:00) - I was HIT BY A CAR (15:36) - Fumi heard a rumor about a GF who slept with a famous musician (26:02) - Tori is a psycho stalker Situations (37:12) - My girlfriend called me brother while having sex? (46:31) -...

Mar 03, 20251 hr 27 min

692 AITA for letting her skip my bachelorette bc I didn't share new details?

I'm joined by Krystle Drew and Pluto Papaya! Fun wedding ep. Enjoy. Follow Krystle: https://www.instagram.com/_krystle_drew/ Follow Pluto on substack: https://substack.com/@plutopapaya (0:00) - Banter (8:51) - Coffee shop stories (17:08) - AITA for refusing to pay for daughter's wedding after learning fiance bullied my son? (25:39) - WIBTA for dropping out of my friend's wedding last minute? (43:04) - AITA for letting her skip my bachelorette bc I didn't share new details? BEST way to Submit a s...

Feb 24, 20251 hr 2 min

690 AITA if I pay off mortgage without telling wife? (ft. Radu & Karla)

Our sponsor today is BETTER HELP 10% off at Betterhelp.com/aitapod Happy mon mon hun huns. Hope you enjoy my wonderful guests! Give them a follow!! Karla - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ Babu aka Radu Bondar - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ (0:00) - Banter (17;12) - Guess The Verdict (27:59) - AITA for refusing to pay my friend $60 I owe him? (43:11) - AITA if I pay off mortgage without telling wife? (54:19) - AITA for not splitting my winnings with my friend? BEST way to Submit a sit...

Feb 17, 20251 hr 12 min

688 Most Chaotic Weddings EVER (MEGA EP!!)

SEE TIMESTAMPS BELOW to skip opening convo I'm joined by wonderful, warm (I say warm an insane number of times to start this episode) comedians, Kari and Aisha to talk about WEDDING CHAOS and some wedding AITAs. It's a juicer through and through, do not refute me. Much love and thanks for listening. Kari Assad Ghost Detective: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/kari-assad-ghost-detective-with-julia-stone-and/id1625793644 Aisha Alfa's insta: https://www.instagram.com/aishaalfa/?hl=en TIMESTAMP...

Feb 12, 20251 hr 56 min

687 AITA for not filling up my gas tank on a long drive?

I'm joined by Evyenia!! Follow her company on insta: https://www.instagram.com/speeddatela/ (0:00) - Banter (13:25) - AITA for assuming we'd split the check? (19:25) - AITA for saying he's misogynistic for complaining about a pre-nup? (32:01) - AITA for not filling up my gas tank on a long drive? (46:15) - AITA for moving up in a crowd in a concert? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/ Email - [email protected] Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod Wha...

Feb 10, 202555 min

685 AITA for stereotyping lesbians? (listener submishes!!)

Save 10% with betterhelp.com/aitapod (0:00) - Banter (6:41) - AITA for firing someone for cheating on their spouse? (20:32) - AITA for saying the 'memorialization period' has ended? (32:53) - AITA for stereotyping lesbians? (43:14) - AITA for telling my friend she and her partner are wrong for each other? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/ Email - [email protected] Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod What's on Patreon? - 200+ Bonus eps - NO ADS and...

Feb 03, 202558 min

683 AITA for cancelling my wedding after fiance killed my plants? (ft. Karla and Radu)

Our sponsor today is BETTER HELP. Betterhelp.com/aitapod Happy mon mon hun huns. Hope you enjoy my wonderful guests! Give them a follow!! Karla - https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ Radu Bondar - https://www.instagram.com/radubondar/ (0:00) - Banter (21:51) - GUESS THE VERDICT (36:50) - r-traumatizeThemBack - Oh you're a twin, huh? (43:28) - AITA for cancelling my wedding after he killed my plants? (57:40) - WIBTA if I asked my sister to change her hair color for my wedding? BEST way to Submit a ...

Jan 27, 20251 hr 26 min

681 AITA for not including my wife on a trip w my girl friend? (ft. Karla)

My guest today is Karla Espino! Follow Karla: https://www.instagram.com/fun_kee/ (0:00) - Banter (3:09) - Guess the Verdict (19:02) - AITA for raising rent on my roomie who refuses to do chores? (25:40) - AITA for not including my wife on a trip w my girl friend? (39:27) - AITA for refusing to call my friend "Queen"? BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/ Email - [email protected] Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod What's on Patreon? - 200+ Bonus eps ...

Jan 20, 202546 min

679 AITA for still taking the trip after my GF forgot her passport? (ft. The Winters)

The sponsor today is BetterHelp. 10% off at BetterHelp.com/aitapod I'm joined by married couple and amazing comedians, Emily Winter and Chris Calogero. YouTube vid I referenced about my "drone dad" Follow Emily and Chris! Emily: https://www.instagram.com/emilymcwinter/ Chris: https://www.instagram.com/realchriscal/ (0:00) - Banter (10:56) - Comment Responses: AITA for making my GF late on her bday? (23:28) - Guess The Verdict (35:13) - AITA for saying 'yes' to my boyfriend's public proposal and ...

Jan 13, 20251 hr 23 min

677 AITA for secretly sending flowers to my sister (her husband lost it)? (ft. Kona)

Happy mon mon hun huns. I'm joined by storyteller Kona Morris for a great little ep-arino. Enjoy. Kona's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kona.morris/ (0:00) - Banter (16:56) - AITA for laughing at my sister's relationship troubles? (31:58) - AITA for telling a friend about another friend's STD? (45:05) - AITA for sending flowers to my sister anonymously upsetting her husband? Best way to submit is using the subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/ Email - [email protected] Join Patr...

Jan 06, 20251 hr 1 min

675 AITA for unfriending someone who wouldn't take videos of my bird down? (ft. The Winters)

Our sponsor today: betterhelp.com/aitapod I'm joined by Emily Winter and Chris Calogero, married (to each other) comedians who also happen to be lovely folks! It's a doozy! Let's have ourselves an amazing 2025. Love y'all and thanks for listening. Follow Emily: https://www.instagram.com/emilymcwinter/ Follow Chris: https://www.instagram.com/realchriscal/ (0:00) - banter (9:26) - Guess The Verdict (17:22) - AITA for not letting bro's GF stay in my guest room after she made a scene at dinner? (30:...

Dec 30, 20241 hr 18 min

673 AITA for letting my always-late wife miss her bday? (ft. Evyenia & Brendan)

Happy mon mon, hun huns. And what a week it is. Yes people, happy christmas eve eve. Hope you enjoy a happy hollz with your relatives, whether they're peachy, problematic, or meme-perfect. No cap! I'm a simp for santa. Slay fam. True story: one xmas eve many moons ago, I asked my recently divorced friend if it would be chill if I hung out with his ex-wife who was low key coming onto me. He said no so I didn't. But just THAT I ASKED. Yes... that was drinking Danny circa 2013ish. ENJOY THE EP I AM...

Dec 23, 202456 min

671 AITA for refusing to take down my ex's painting? (ft. Karla Espino)

Our sponsor today is BetterHelp. Save 10% at betterhelp.com/aitapod Happy mon mon hun huns. I'm joined by friend and comedian, Karla Espino! Enjoy the ep-a-roo Follow Karla: https://www.instagram.com/p/CiBCUAFhy4t/ (0:00) - Banter (24:11) - AITA for not telling BF I'd break up with him if he went on a trip with his female friends? (33:54) - AITA for refusing to take down my ex's painting? (49:14) - AITA for beating my GF's brother at a game when I normally let him win? Submit or give your take v...

Dec 16, 20241 hr 1 min

668 AITA for taking a plane armrest from an old lady? (listener submish ep)

Happy mon mon, hun huns. I'm joined by my friend and comedian, Hailey Hackett. Enjoy the ep! SUBMIT - reddit.com/r/aitapod (0:00) - Banter (1:26) - AITA for not giving my boyfriend a wishlist for Christmas? (13:40) - AITA for taking an armrest on a plane from an elderly lady? (24:31) - AITA for cutting off a friend I share mutual friend groups with? (36:42) - AITA for liking Danny? Hailey's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hackithailey/ Submit or give your take via voice note/message/text - ...

Dec 09, 202448 min
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