In this BONUS episode, with Greenberry and Kerstin guiding the interview of Thumper, they talk about the first items Thumper used for anal play (kitchen utensils were ruined), ASMR and it's use in sexual freedom and is he the leader of a sex cult or is that just a Hollywood rumor?! We also talk aftercare ideas for those who like shame filled sex play. Are you interested in trying pegging? Thumper (@ThumpersNuts) can help you fully embrace your pegging side with hypnotherapy or if you fully own t...
Dec 20, 2023•19 min•Season 3Ep. 17
Are you interested in trying pegging? Thumper (@ThumpersNuts) can help you fully embrace your pegging side with hypnotherapy or if you fully own the pegger within yourself scroll down for his favorite butt plugs! With Greenberry and Kerstin guiding the interview they talk about how hypnosis helps embrace secret sexual fantasies and what defines being a sissy in the sexual sense is it plexiglass cock smooshing cages? We get a call from shy Wayne, who wants to ask his female partner to peg him BUT...
Dec 13, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 17
Are you freaky?! Master Joshua, believes so! Master Joshua takes hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter's challenge to find the kink within each host! Spoiler- These hosts may be filled with kinks and one loves being told she's a good girl :P @MasterJoshuaNYC is a Non-Traditional Sexual Behaviors (NTSB) therapist. Links to Click : Expand yourself with Master Joshua Help ABF make more shows Hit up AdultBuddyFinders.com or @adultBuddyFinders to join the conversation and even bec...
Jul 26, 2023•10 min•Season 3Ep. 16
Can fisting free you from self judgement?! Master Joshua, believes so! @MasterJoshuaNYC is a Non-Traditional Sexual Behaviors (NTSB) therapist. In a nutshell he uses BDSM to drive away shame and let in self actualization and maybe, let in other objects while you're at it! With Greenberry and Kerstin guiding the interview fisting, knife play and glass in the stomach are topics that arise. Links to Click : Expand yourself with Master Joshua Help ABF make more shows Hit up AdultBuddyFinders.com o...
Jul 19, 2023•55 min•Season 3Ep. 15
While at DomCon, the domination convention in Los Angeles, our hosts Greenberry and Kerstin got educated about BDSM from a variety of workshops including sitting on faces and flogging. They’ve shared a little taste of these workshops. If you want more check out the presenters: SIT ON MY FACE: Smothering and Ass Domination by Goddess Emmeline The Energetics of Flogging byOrpheus Black
Jul 12, 2023•9 min
DomCon is the World's Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention with sexy socials, dom/sub meetups, BDSM workshops, kinky presentations, tempting vendors, and play parties! This year your hosts, Greenberry and Kerstin got to attend in Los Angeles as newbies so that they could give you a Beginner’s Guide To Adult Conventions. The second part of their adventure led to rejection and hurt, but they found that taking a step back and caring for themselves was the best way to recover a...
Jul 05, 2023•45 min•Season 3Ep. 14
Our hosts Greenberry and Kerstin learned a lot of BDSM lingo at the Los Angeles DomCon, Domination Convention, including Little, Praise Kink and Zines. Okay, some of the terms aren’t BDSM, but Kerstin didn’t know that until she asked. #DomCon #AdultConventions #BDSM #Kink #SexPostive #sexed #sexpodcast
Jun 28, 2023•5 min•Season 3Ep. 13
DomCon is the World's Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention with sexy socials, dom/sub meetups, BDSM workshops, kinky presentations, tempting vendors, and play parties! This year your hosts, Greenberry and Kerstin got to attend in Los Angeles as newbies so that they could give you a Beginner’s Guide To Adult Conventions. The first part of their adventure led to learning about the lifestyle, meeting people, and finding out that communication is key, especially when you don’t ...
Jun 21, 2023•47 min•Season 3Ep. 13
Chief and Moineau put the DS in BDSM. Chief and Moineau from Kinkyevents.co.uk and Conversations with a Dom podcast: (https://open.spotify.com/show/1zdcrV9zDdMXRv6isOM84W) In this bonus they talk with hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter about the erotic book turned film 50 Shades of Grey that was known by some as getting BDSM dangerously wrong. Since Chief and Moineau have been active in BDSM for years we wanted to hear what they thought. They even share their favorite erotica. Links to Cl...
Jun 14, 2023•9 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Chief and Moineau put the DS in BDSM. Chief and Moineau from Kinkyevents.co.uk and Conversations with a Dom podcast: (https://open.spotify.com/show/1zdcrV9zDdMXRv6isOM84W) let ABF hosts Greenberry Lucas and Kerstin Porter into their bedroom, metaphorically. The give caller, Troy, tips and demos on how to be a dominatrix. Links to Click : Kinky Events for Ideas on getting the D/S relationship of your dreams : Conversations With a Dom on Spotify : Help ABF make more shows Hit up AdultBuddyFinders....
Jun 07, 2023•1 hr 18 min•Season 3Ep. 11
The season is coming to an end and BDSM is going to finish us off! The next two months will be full of our experience at DomCon, an interview with a d/s couple and a dom. Hosts Kerstin Porter and Greenberry share their favorite episodes from the beginning of season 3 and give you a peak into what’s to come in season 4. Episodes to relisten: How to Find A Kinky Buddy with Kevin Allison How to Find An Escort Buddy with Grace Grable How to Ask For What You Want… Sex/Relationship with Rachel Wright ...
May 31, 2023•15 min•Season 3Ep. 10
What sex do you want and how do you ask for it? Rachel Wright, psychotherapist, helps us navigate how to ask for a one night stand or kinky sex or a monogamous relationship or sushi for lunch. She gives hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter amazing advice including a 4 step framework (AEO) for asking for what you want and how to know what you want. It’s no wonder she has great advice. She is a distinguished psychotherapist and renowned speaker with expertise in modern relationships, mental h...
May 24, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Adult Buddy Finders Hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter reflect on their small town roots and how when you date someone new in a small town, they don't have to be new if you listen to the right gossip. Is it better to have a history about a person or meet them and learn as you go. ******** AdultBuddyFinders.com Music by Zachary Graham #Dating #podcast #citylife #citydating #romanticstatus #podcast #datingadvice #thoughtsondating...
May 17, 2023•17 min•Season 3Ep. 10
We talk about how to find a partner and dating in small towns, suburban areas, and smaller cities on Facebook Live. ABF hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter go live on Facebook to talk to listeners live about a question we get a lot, "How do I find a Buddy when I don't live in a city?" We also play games and share ideas on dates that you can do in any town with any budget with any type of buddy you find! ******************** Theme Song: Hanging Around With You, Zachary Abraham Graham Find u...
May 10, 2023•54 min•Season 3Ep. 10
While making the horror film, The Hunter , Greenberry Lucas and Kerstin Porter used *BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism) props that were purchased on Amazon (Link below). Your Adult Buddy Finders hosts honestly had no idea if these items were something used in the real world or not but our lovely guest, Hannah helped us!! Should a ball gag, gag you? Maybe chip a tooth?! Should anal beads be hard and almost 3 feet long?! Butt plugs- what the heck should ...
May 03, 2023•23 min•Season 3Ep. 9
Hannah (Twitter: @Organic_Mooseli ) shares how she went from BDSM to bare soul in the bedroom with hosts Kerstin Porter and Greenberry Lucas. Although she learned from a young age that BDSM was the way she wanted to rock the bedroom, she met someone who was not comfortable playing that way. She had to decide if BDSM or this new man would be the true LOML ( Love Of My Life). Years later the couple is going stong and she talks to ABF about the journey. Diane called in and shared she is ready to gi...
Apr 26, 2023•58 min•Season 3Ep. 9
DB = Double Bonus in this episode! The swinger community isn’t really one age group but Suzie discusses with hosts Kerstin and Greenberry some of the advantages to joining older swinging couples. They also chat about some of the tips that Suzie learned from her sexperiences. What lube is the best lube, ideas to keep safety first when you go to a swinging party and can you manifesting sex in your life! Lube: Coconut Oil, Neutrogena Body Oil: Light Sesame Formula #swingers #sexed #sexpositive #pod...
Apr 19, 2023•8 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Swingers are couples that have sex with other couples, right? Well, like everything with our sexual desires, it’s not so hard and fast ;) Suzie Wong talks about how the Lifestyle (LS) includes wife swapping, unicorns, half unicorns, single men, orgies, and much more. Her stories about how her swinging lifestyle make hosts @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas question most of what they thought they knew about swingers. They also learn an amazing new word, COMPERSION, which means to wholeheartedly ...
Apr 12, 2023•56 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Hollywood Escort, Grace Grable allows hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter to dig in as she dishes out the down and dirty deets of sex in the LA city.Grace has been in LA's finest hotels and met men from all walks of life. She specialises in GFE (the girlfriend experience) and talks about other specialties an escort can offer including PSE which is the Porn Star Experience. We even get into the details of squirting! She also answered the question we've wanted the answer to since seeing "Pre...
Apr 05, 2023•8 min•Season 3Ep. 6
Hollywood Escort, Grace Grable allows hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter to dig in as she dishes out the down and dirty deets of sex in the LA city. Grace has been in LA's finest hotels and met men from all walks of life. She specializes in the GFE (girlfriend experience) and talks about other specialties an escort can offer including PSE which is the Porn Star Experience. We even get into the details of squirting! She also answered the question we've wanted the answer to since seeing Pre...
Mar 29, 2023•58 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Mistress Alisa has a beautiful cartoon avatar, but she won’t show her face. We are curious why? Mistress Alisa talks with hosts Kerstin Porter and Greenberry why. It might be more surprising than you think. #image #sexed #sexpositive #podcast
Mar 22, 2023•3 min•Season 3Ep. 6
The ethical dominatrix and host of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa, shares her secrets on whipping people into shape through their hearts and souls so that everyone can have kinky, sexy fun in the bedroom. Mistress Alisa dominates @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas to help them understand how female-led relationships work and can be very pleasing. And even though men (and women) might be horny, what they really want is to be seen and heard. The best way to touch someone is to touch their heart an...
Mar 15, 2023•1 hr 10 min•Season 3Ep. 6
@GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter had to know what Hammer Titty did with her hammer tits besides wrestle? She let us know how they are used day and night. We'd say she puts the fun in FUNctional! We are begging her to smash a Ding Dong ( The CAKE!) with one 42G Hammer Tit. If you see this please share so she'll smash away! ************ Theme Song: Hanging Around With You, Zachary Abraham Graham Amy "Hammer Titty" Kennedy believes she is hanging up the Jello Wrestling for now but be on the look...
Mar 08, 2023•7 min
Amy "Hammer Titty" Kennedy joins hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter to talk crushing her wrestling opponents and her longtime (over 20 years y’all) crush with her Big O Boobies AKA Tig Oh Bitties aka honkin hooters aka kockout knockers . Her Hammer Titties weighing in at 42 G's- Don't let the single titty title fool you; both girls are wild! Amy is a small town bar manager and mother by day and Jello Wrestling champ by night. Her wrestling name is inspired by booby smashing pioneers (vide...
Mar 01, 2023•1 hr 24 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Kevin Allison from the podcast RISK! was kind enough to answer one more question about kink and BDSM, more specifically about kink camps and events. He shares with hosts Kerstin Porter and Greenberry all the insiders info on how to have a fun trip to kink camp! #kinkcamp #sexed #sexpositive #podcast
Feb 22, 2023•11 min•Season 3Ep. 4
The host of RISK!, Kevin Allison, openly talks about kink, BDSM and what play he’s done like fisting, blasphemy, and watersports. And of course, he uses hilarious stories to tell hosts @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas about some of the crazy situations he’s been in, having needles put through his skin, and what the kink community is really like and how to join it like going to Kink Camp. (You can hear the full story about Kevin’s first trip to Kink Camp on RISK!, the podcast.) Kevin also help...
Feb 15, 2023•1 hr 15 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Matthew Horny (as we affectionately like to call Matthew Horn) gives us the bonus we craved by sharing his weird, wild, different and daring sex stories stream of conscious. He talks us through his first experience at sex club, Power Exchange . Being on view for the voyeur and what that does for an exhibitionist. He also talks the boundaries of slapping and the importance and fun of communication especially when you are dabbling with domination. Matthew talked to us about being a recovering Fu*k...
Feb 08, 2023•13 min
*Matthew Horn is a FBoi... who is reforming. An insatiable sexual appetite, emotionally unavailable, DTF; He's been there, he's been that and he's changing. Matthew tells hosts @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas about his days F*Cking around, what moments made him realize he was being hurtful and why he decided to work toward change. Matthew also helps caller, Bianca who is possibly dating an FBoi's and helps guide her through the age old question, " Can I change him?" *Matthew Horn is an actor...
Feb 01, 2023•55 min•Season 3Ep. 3
We ask Cliff from the Bisexual episode what he thinks the difference is between bisexual and pansexual. Does he know or is he just as confused as the rest of us?
Jan 25, 2023•7 min•Season 3Ep. 2
We bust some myths about bisexuality and learn about how some people get lucky with threesomes and orgies. Season 3 Episode 2 *Cliff joins to share his journey from straight guy who picked up chicks at the bar to queer. Hosts, @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas talk about what they think they know about bi-sexuality and learn that there is always more to learn. Cliff ends up confessing he's had multiple threesomes and orgies and made it seem very easy to get involved in those! Our producers sel...
Jan 18, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 2
