Edging an orgasm is a sexual technique that can be done by women, and men. While it seems simple at the surface, it does take time to train ones body, but the effort is well worth it. Through the process of edging, pre-orgasmic energy is circulated through the entire body. With this technique, one can experience full body orgasms and more robust orgasms. In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we cover the entire process of edging an orgasm. While many think of sex as a physical activity, it c...
Apr 19, 2024•1 hr 14 min
Would you like to remove the shackles from living in the dark ages of sexuality? Do you feel worthy of experiencing new heights of sexual ecstasy without feeling sexual shame or guilt? Which statements do you identify with (pick all that apply): I am sexy and beautiful! I love sex and I have an amazing sex drive. I love my body just as it is. I am able to communicate clearly with intimate partners about my sensual desires and about sexual activities I enjoy, freely and openly. If you don’t ident...
Apr 05, 2024•40 min
In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex. This is a myth and a misconception. For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s sexual pleasure. Our whole body is neurologically wired to receive sexual pleasure. By exploring the body, identifying erogenous zones, mapping them out, and communicating them to your partner, you will...
Mar 22, 2024•32 min
In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex. This is a myth and a misconception. For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s sexual pleasure. Our whole body is neurologically wired to receive sexual pleasure. By exploring the body, identifying erogenous zones, mapping them out, and communicating them to your partner, you will...
Mar 09, 2024•43 min
Tonights video training is on The erotic body map training part 2. To watch the podcast on video go to ravenslairleather.com/podcast . In the video version I include some images of basic sexual anatomy. In the future, I will offer a podcast on detailed sexual anatomy for those who want more in depth education. Tonight’s training video will cover A Sex Positive Approach & Erogenous Zones, How the Body Works Erotically, Sexual Neurology, The Kundalini, and Sensory Perception. This is the found...
Feb 23, 2024•34 min
Join us for an inner journey into sexual enlightenment and discover how sexual energy works within your body. We are each wired differently at a neurological level and sex energy works differently in each of us. Through the training and Action Steps, you will learn about how sex energy works in your body. Reach higher levels of sexual ecstasy and form a deeper connection with yourself and your partner. The Erotic Body Map is designed to help both single people and couples to reach sexual ecstasy...
Feb 09, 2024•47 min
How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. In this training session, we cover Passion, Raising Sexual Energy, The Art of Masturbation, and Telling Your Story. Discover how passion can improve your outlook on life. Learn about your sexual body by raising sexual energy. Take masturbation to a new level in the Art of Masturbation. Explore how Telling Your S...
Jan 14, 2024•32 min
How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. Tonight we are covering The Body Image Healing Training Program Part 4 of 5. In this training we will cover Charisma, Self Confidence, The Victory Stance, and Sexual Affirmations Discover how these elements can impact our beauty and being sexy. Worksheets are located at: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/podcast...
Dec 29, 2023•29 min
How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. Tonight we are covering The Body Image Healing Training Program Part 3 of 5. In this training we will cover Alluring Attire & Being Sexy, Mind Talk, and Competition. Discover how these elements can impact our beauty and being sexy. Worksheets are located at: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/podcast We love ...
Dec 17, 2023•24 min
How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. The Body Image Healing Program Part 2 covers Attitude & Values and External vs. Internal Validation. Learn how these can improve and heal one’s body image.
Dec 04, 2023•24 min
How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. The Body Image Healing Program is designed to provide psychosexual healing to restore a positive self image. We love to hear your comments and suggestions so please take a moment to give us your feedback. Be sure to subscribe to the show. Get your free worksheets and downloads at: https://www.ravenslairleather.c...
Nov 19, 2023•29 min
We are making changes! In this short episode we have an announcement. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com https://fetlife.com/ Patreon Page at: https://www.patreon.com/LadyboyGigi/membership Email Ladyboy Gigi: adm...
Jul 31, 2023•6 min
Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences with Pride month. In this episode we discuss some of the history of the GLBTQI+ movement. What makes Pride month so Important? Where have we come from as a movement? Listen to the show to learn the answers as we cover these questions and much more. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for t...
Jul 10, 2023•1 hr 16 min
Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences with self-love. Self-love is not just about masturbation, it is also about self-care and self-confidence which helps us to become better lovers. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytempl...
Jun 19, 2023•1 hr 11 min
Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences at various alternative festivals and events, from Burning Man to pagan gatherings to BDSM festivals. But when they delve into the world of kink, will they encounter unexpected danger or find themselves in a thrilling situation? Find out on this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adul...
May 22, 2023•1 hr 10 min
Want to discover the key to unlocking your full potential in BDSM and sexual relationships? Let me guide you through the world of informed consent and negotiation, utilizing stories and examples from my own experiences and those of others who value honest communication. By addressing common pain points within these intimate dynamics, we can tear down barriers that hold us back from enjoying deeper connections and more pleasurable experiences. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Pa...
May 01, 2023•59 min
In this episode, we interview Fiona, Mike, and Bren from Bi Plus Organizing US, a new coalition for the Bisexual + Community. Learn how you can get involved and have a voice in bisexual activism. We cover some of the issues that bisexuals face in life and how to help change the world. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for the websites we discusse...
Apr 17, 2023•59 min
After years of physical and emotional abuse, a youth who has ADHD and dyslexia finds healing through BDSM role play, sacred sexuality and psychosexual healing. Here's what I cover: 1. Discovering the power of psychosexual healing through BDSM role play and sacred sexuality 2. Exploring the potential of BDSM to help manage chronic pain and gain spiritual connection to embracing pain 3. Unlocking deeper self-acceptance and healing through BDSM, tantric practices, and rituals Raven’s Lair Free Webi...
Mar 27, 2023•1 hr 1 min
When a Dom-in-training dares to experience the other side of the paddle, they learn that mastering the power of communication and empathy is the key to success - and a journey of self-discovery. Here's what Damian and I cover: 1. What qualities do you need to be a good Dom? 2. What are the BDSM interest evaluation steps? 3. How can you create a successful scene with a sub? Damian is a BDSM expert. He is passionate about helping new Doms learn the ropes and is an advocate for safe, consensual BDS...
Mar 13, 2023•1 hr 1 min
Learn about sex and gender identity through this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories with Ladyboy Gigi and Paul. Sex is what we are born with and gender is how we feel. Intersex babies show that there is more than two sexes, and gender can be expressed in many ways. Gender expression is how one communicates their gender externally. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What is the difference between sex and gender? 2. How can gender bending be a powerful tool for exploring identity? 3. ...
Feb 27, 2023•57 min
When Lady Boy Gigi and Paul explore the intricate levels of working with sexual desires and abilities, they uncover a powerful journey of self-discovery, revealing the unexpected ways of priming the pump and arousing oneself. Here's what I cover: 1. What techniques can be used to reconnect with our sexual desires and abilities? 2. How can discovering our own body help us to understand our sexual arousal? 3. What can we learn from understanding the similarities and differences between male and fe...
Feb 13, 2023•58 min
I learned about Primal Sex through an episode of Adult Bedtime Stories with Lady Boy Gigi, Paul, and Damien. Primal Sex is a way to get in touch with one's animalistic side by trusting and being vulnerable with one's partner. It can involve biting, scratching, and other approved forms of play through negotiation and informed consent. Preparation for Primal Sex can include a ritual bath, mindful breathing, and being aware of any potential triggers. It's important to be mindful of safety and to ch...
Jan 30, 2023•1 hr 3 min
We have a special guest on this Episode of Adult Bedtime Stories. Damian shares his experiences with Impact Play in BDSM Scenes. Here's what Damian, Paul, and I cover: Learn how to practice safety protocols while engaging in impact play. Discover what techniques Damian uses when playing a scene. Learn about the different types of BDSM play, including Primal Play. Damian is a BDSM enthusiast with years of experience in the scene. He specializes in impact play and is passionate about safety protoc...
Jan 16, 2023•59 min
In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on developing better sexual negotiation skills for couples. Learn how to take your sexual relationship to a higher level and experience sexual ecstasy like you have never experienced it before. Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.lady...
Jan 02, 2023•58 min
In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on Performance Skills Issues for Couples. In this episode we cover a range of sexual performance issues and how to resolve them. Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Learn about pleasuring a woman...
Dec 19, 2022•1 hr 2 min
In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on conflicting values about monogamy within a relationship and how to resolve cheating. We explore different options to create a more balanced relationship. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Patreon Page at: https://www.patreon.com/LadyboyGigi Email Ladyboy Gigi: admin@ggwil...
Dec 05, 2022•1 hr 4 min
In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on uneven desire between partners. We explore different options to create a more balanced relationship. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Patreon Page at: https://www.patreon.com/LadyboyGigi Email Ladyboy Gigi: admin@ggwilbur.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.c...
Nov 14, 2022•1 hr 10 min
In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on Touch Aversion for couples. Learn about touch aversion, how to resolve the issue, and about the touch continuum. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Patreon Page at: https://www.patreon.com/LadyboyGigi Email Ladyboy Gigi: admin@ggwilbur.com Support this podcast at — https:/...
Oct 24, 2022•1 hr 6 min
In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, our topic is on Celebrate Bisexuality Day - CBD. We cover the philosophy and history of CBD and what inspired the creation of CBD. CBD is celebrated on September 23rdeach year all around the world. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Patreon Page at: https://www.patreon.com/LadyboyGigi Email Ladyboy Gigi: admin@ggwilbur.com Support this podcast at — ...
Oct 03, 2022•1 hr 15 min
In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on Sexless Relationships / Sexless Marriage. For some couples, sex has diminished for a short time, for others sex has been absent for many years. In this episode we cover the causes and how to bring sex back into the relationship. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Patreon Pag...
Sep 19, 2022•1 hr 7 min
