Myrina and Tristan celebrate their podcasting milestone of reaching over 200,000 downloads in 18 months! And it's all thanks to the Accidental Swingers podcast listeners! To share in the excitement, Myrina and Tristan will treat a lucky listener couple to fun day in the sun at their favorite local clothing optional resort. The lifestyle couple also talks about their weekend at PodBash 2021 at Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee, FL. It's been two years since their last visit; Myrina and Tristan discus...
Nov 11, 2021•56 min•Season 2Ep. 27
Almost a year into their adventures, Myrina and Tristan begin, what will turn out to be, a pivotal time in their lifestyle journey. Unbeknownst to them, the couple is beginning a period of exploration and starting to push their limits and sexual boundaries. The first in the Exploring Sexual Boundaries episodes, Myrina and Tristan give a local clothing-optional resort another chance where Myrina meets a great single guy and steps out of her comfort zone ... but mother nature has other ideas. Plan...
Oct 20, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Season 2Ep. 26
Every couple who has entered, or thought about entering, the swinger lifestyle worries about the emotions and feelings that come with seeing your partner having sex with another person. They worry about having feelings for others and what impact it can have on their current relationship. Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre join Myrina and Tristan in this roundtable discussion about feelings and emotions in the swinger lifestyle. They talk about the fear and jealousy that can occur as well as fee...
Sep 29, 2021•1 hr 32 min•Season 2Ep. 25
The Accidental Swingers discuss the tough choices Myrina had to make as a Hotwife when it comes to playing with "single" men. She made some decisions about what consensual non-monogamy means for her when it comes to playing. They talk about the week of play with Myrina's visiting boyfriend and why that relationship is coming to a very visible end. They introduce their newest playmate, "Brad" and they talk about their first time playing with a single guy after meeting him for a first time that ni...
Sep 14, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Season 2Ep. 24
Days after returning from her hotwife trip, Myrina and Tristan go on a sleepover date with Tristan's girlfriend and her husband. Wanting to experience some one-on-one girl time without any men around, Myrina and Amber decide to leave the guys at the bar and have their own playtime. Afterward, Tristan and Amber almost get us thrown out of the hotel. And later what looked like an evening cut short for Myrina turns into a hot FMF and then a long night for everyone!
Aug 31, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 23
In this bonus podcast episode, Myrina and Tristan talk about the circumstances and issues that brought them to the point of reconsidering their plans to attend Naughty N'awlins 2021. They also discuss what happened in their "vanilla lives" that subsequently turned ALL of their hot and sexy vacation plans upside down.
Aug 24, 2021•41 min•Season 2Ep. 22
Myrina and Tristan share their feelings with each other after Myrina arrives home from the trip that solidified her status as a Hotwife and afforded Tristan the opportunity to have a few "hall passes" of his own. As Tristan often says, this time was an "inflection point" in their lifestyle journey. They also talk about their upcoming return to Naughty N'awlins and realize, in a strange way, they've come full circle as they return to New Orleans but they bring with them 3 years of wisdom, knowled...
Jul 27, 2021•1 hr 26 min•Season 2Ep. 21
Experiencing sex and sexuality on HER terms, Myrina's transition into a Hotwife and Slut begins. After her 10-day trip turned into a 3-week stay, Myrina took full advantage of her "hall pass" and ended up with playdates almost every single night for the second half of the trip. Myrina and Tristan, separately, both recorded their thoughts about the transformation that was taking place and the emotions that surrounded what was obviously a huge shift in their lifestyle dynamic. Myrina also encourag...
Jul 22, 2021•1 hr 28 min•Season 2Ep. 20
In May of 2021, Myrina and Tristan decided to start recording, what they call, "After Party Episodes". Recorded after a party or event(ful) weekend, After Party episodes chronicle what Myrina and Tristan are doing "right now" - as they emerge from their Covid-induced hibernation and begin swinging again. These raw and largely unedited episodes are typically posted within 24 hours of recording and are available as a Thank You to listeners who donate to help support the Accidental Swingers podcast...
Jul 12, 2021•56 min•Season 2Ep. 19
Myrina has to travel to her childhood home to help out family. With ten days away from home, Tristan tells Myrina to let her hair down and try to use her "hall pass". Little did they know that what was supposed to be a 10-day trip would completely change both Myrina and Tristan forever.
Jun 22, 2021•1 hr 24 min•Season 2Ep. 18
What do an over-served playmate, pierced "lady parts", a drummer, and an exhibitionist all have in common? They're the collection of steamy, sexy, and fun stories that round out this episode. Nine months into their lifestyle journey was the end of the year and Myrina and Tristan went out with a bang .... literally! Hearing that the holidays were a downtime for swingers, Myrina and Tristan packed their calendar with playdates and playmates. The year-end brought closure to one relationship but unk...
May 04, 2021•1 hr 46 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Not quite as accidental or unexpected as the accidental boyfriend; we kinda saw this one coming. So why do Myrina and Tristan find themselves, once again, surrounded by so many emotional landmines? Myrina struggles with Tristan's new relationship. Communication, sharing and trust become the key components to navigating these feelings and issues. Myrina digs deeps to understand her feelings and has a few epiphanies that help her understand her reaction to Tristan's new girlfriend. A valuable expe...
Apr 13, 2021•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Accidental and unexpected. Myrina's relationship with a playmate heats up, especially as they spend more time getting to know each other between playdates. Their relationship transitions from playmates to lovers to boyfriend and girlfriend and Myrina and Tristan must face the first enormous obstacle in living and experiencing the swinger lifestyle on their terms. Tristan and Myrina meet a new lady-friend and sparks fly between her and Tristan. Their play escalates quickly and Tristan has his fir...
Mar 30, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 15
Deciding to push their boundaries a little further, Myrina and Tristan check another item off their "bucket" list with a visit to an adult bookstore and theater with another couple. But were they ready for all that this adventure had to offer? Myrina and Tristan also discuss Myrina's first real solo "date" with a single guy in the lifestyle. Tristan talks about how he felt, waiting at home, watching baseball while his wife went out to dinner and a playdate.
Mar 16, 2021•1 hr 26 min•Season 2Ep. 14
It was going to be awesome; until it wasn't. We've all done it. Built something up in our minds, just knowing how great the experience is going to be. The excitement. The buildup. The anticipation. And then, it falls apart. Myrina and Tristan share stories of dates that did not go as planned and learn a very valuable lesson in managing their own expectations for relationships they are building with other swinger couples.
Feb 26, 2021•1 hr 38 min
"How do I get my partner into swinging?". This is the number one question we receive from listeners. We invited Dr. Justin Lehmiller, social psychologist and author of the book "Tell Me What You Want" to join us to talk about sexual fantasies, how to talk to your partner about your fantasies, how to listen (and react) when your partner tells you their fantasies, and how to move forward and act on some of your fantasies.
Feb 16, 2021•1 hr 5 min
Our first four-way!!! Podcast, that is! Meet Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly - our playmates and quarantine couple - in our round table discussion about playdates, pressure and performance. Together, the four of us share stories and laughs as we discuss the different times we've all felt the pressure to perform for our play partners. The guys talk about the common reasons they experience performance anxiety and what they do when they can't perform for their partners. The ladies talk about ho...
Jan 15, 2021•1 hr 38 min•Season 2Ep. 11
We spent 5 days at the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US in 2018; five days that changed our entire concept of what our life as swingers would look like. We met amazing people, ate fantastic food, had lots of sexy & hot play time, and learned even more about ourselves. Listen in as we talk about what happened and began to discover what type of swingers we wanted to be and what being in a non-monogamous marriage was going to look like for us. Part 3 of this 3 part series: ...
Dec 31, 2020•1 hr 21 min•Season 1Ep. 10
The adventures continue when these two new swingers attend the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US. Each day held new surprises, new experiences, new screw-ups and new friends! We credit this experience as a defining moment in creating and shaping our entire lifestyle journey. Part 2 of this 3 part series: The sparks fly when we meet the most amazing couple! Wonderful conversation and wonderful food lead to wonderful sex. But, in true Accidental Swinger style, we go with the fl...
Dec 24, 2020•1 hr 30 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Two newbie swingers travel to “the largest open-relationship lifestyle” event in the US in New Orleans. We didn’t know what to expect or what we were doing. The experience ended up changing our entire perspective of what our lifestyle journey would look like. Join us as we share our hot and sexy stories about our trip to Naughty in N’awlins (NiN), the event that helped build the foundation of our transition into non-monogamy. (Click here more information on Naughty N’awlins and to make reservati...
Nov 27, 2020•1 hr 19 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Even savvy Swingers can't always avoid drama. In situations when things may not be going exactly as planned, just realizing when to slow down, when to step back and knowing when to say "when" can help keep you from stepping on landmines and getting caught up in some drama. But, we're the Accidental Swingers and, as usual, we learned these lessons the hard way. We talk about three back to back dates with different couples; we learn the value of trusting your instincts and the importance of sticki...
Oct 30, 2020•1 hr 30 min•Season 1Ep. 7
We start dating a new couple! After meeting them and having a great dinner date, we decide to have a play date at a new venue. And Tristan finally gets his "turn" at some hot action! We also begin to understand and explore our desire to have a deeper, emotional connection with our swinging partners. We dubbed it Social Swinging vs. Sexual Swinging. Sexual swinging is more about the physical sex: you go to a club, find a couple, have sex and maybe you'll see each other again, maybe not. Social sw...
Sep 20, 2020•1 hr 16 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Our swinging adventures really start to take off in this episode! We visit a local nudist resort that embraces the lifestyle community. We go on a date with a new couple and end up at an on-premise sex club! Find out how we were setting up and going on lots of meet & greet dates and then listen to the hysterical details about a meet & greet date with a new single guy that did not go quite as we had hoped! Read our most recent blog post here: Social Bubbles - A Better Way to Play? Show No...
Aug 13, 2020•1 hr 28 min•Season 1Ep. 5
After months of reviewing profiles, messaging people and having meet & greets with potential playmates - we finally f*ck!!! In this episode, we talk about our first MFM as well as the first swinger event we ever attended (held at an area nudist resort/ community!). You'll hear portions of the original audio that we recorded two years ago on our way home from the event as well as a segment from the audio we recorded on the way home from our first f*ck date. Listen to our stories, find out how...
Jun 19, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Season 1Ep. 4
Since our introduction into swinging wasn't planned, when we accidentally entered the lifestyle we didn't know anything about the basics of swinging. We weren't familiar with some of the common terms that swingers and lifestylers use and we had no idea how the swinger social websites worked. We also did not know how to find other swingers and resources for swingers in our area. In this episode we: review some basic terms commonly used by swingers discuss how to set up your swinger profile and wh...
May 10, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 3
It's "the date" that started our lifestyle journey! We had three weeks between our accidental swinger date (when we realized our friends were swingers and wanted us to join them) and our play date. We talk about what we did to prepare for our very first swinger experience and laugh about what happened and what we did when things didn't quite go exactly as we planned! Read our most recent blog post here: Accidental Blogs Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Con...
Apr 13, 2020•1 hr 12 min•Season 1Ep. 2
Our initial podcast episode introduces Myrina and Tristan, describes the purpose of this podcast, and where the idea and the name came from. Read our most recent blog post here: Our Adventures Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile We're also on Twitter...
Mar 29, 2020•25 min•Season 1Ep. 1
