This episode originally aired on my listener-supported, premium podcast, More Personal. If you want access to more deep dives, including part two of this episode, honest reviews, casual convos, book reports, and other bonus content, make sure to become a supporter . As a woman navigating modern life, I find myself torn between two worlds. On one hand, I embrace traditional values: marriage, motherhood, and homemaking. Yet, I also recognize the importance of feminism and the pursuit of equality. ...
Oct 31, 2024•51 min•Ep. 640
Something that I noticed after the 2020 pandemic was that my face changed dramatically, leaving me feeling insecure after years of stress and upheaval. Even though I knew better, I was struggling with attaching my sense of self to my outward appearance. Fortunately, I was able to have a conversation with Dina Scippa, a life coach and founder of Enough Labs, who specializes in helping women navigate crises of confidence and reconnect with their true selves. We explore what confidence truly means,...
Oct 28, 2024•49 min•Ep. 639
In this episode of the 'Wise Women' series, I sit down with Gabe Cox , a goal planning and business strategist, to discuss how we can redefine our relationship with goals. Gabe shares her journey from perfectionism to progress, emphasizing the importance of breaking down big dreams into manageable steps and celebrating small victories along the way. We delve into how shifting our focus from the summit to the path can bring joy and fulfillment, even in the busiest seasons of our lives. Whether yo...
Oct 24, 2024•46 min•Ep. 638
In today's coaching call, I had the pleasure of speaking with Krystal, a dedicated mom of four who recently had her fourth baby. We delved into the challenges she's been facing with maintaining energy levels and establishing healthy eating habits, especially after being diagnosed with Hashimoto's. One key takeaway from this conversation is the importance of self-compassion and practical strategies for making nutritious meals manageable, even with a hectic schedule. Join us as we explore how to c...
Oct 21, 2024•56 min•Ep. 637
In this episode, we dive into the U.S. Surgeon General’s recent advisory on the mounting stress facing parents today, highlighting how mental health challenges in caregivers impact both parents and their children. With 33% of parents reporting high stress compared to 20% of non-parents, it's clear that the pressures of modern life—raising kids in a fast-paced, tech-driven world, and dealing with financial and safety concerns—are taking their toll. I want to emphasize that stress isn’t a personal...
Oct 17, 2024•13 min•Ep. 636
In this episode we're diving into the practical and emotional aspects of managing money with Jen Smith, personal finance expert and co-host of the Frugal Friends podcast. I share my personal struggles and transformations when it comes to budgeting and impulse spending, and we explore how you can move from feeling guilty about your finances to empowered by them. You'll learn how to do a 90-day spending inventory, understand the importance of aligning your spending with your values, and even disco...
Oct 14, 2024•56 min•Ep. 635
In this episode, I share a particularly tough Monday where a series of small, frustrating events made me feel overwhelmed and ready to run away. From toddlers making messes to kids having meltdowns, I experienced it all. I then had a moment of clarity that helped me find peace in the chaos – realizing 'this is the job.' It's about accepting the responsibilities and challenges that come with being a parent and leaning into them with a positive mindset. I hope my story and the lessons I've learned...
Oct 10, 2024•9 min•Ep. 634
Have you ever found yourself doom scrolling into the late night, or snacking when you're not even hungry? You're not alone, and it's more common than you think! In this episode, we're diving deep into why we all numb out and, more importantly, how we can better cope with life's stressors. I'm sharing personal examples from my own life and from the many women I've coached. We’ll break down what triggers our numbing behaviors and how we can transform these habits into healthier ones. From understa...
Oct 07, 2024•40 min•Ep. 633
This monthly series features an episode sharing my recent highs and lows, how my habits are going, a Do Something List update, plus what I'm loving lately and my commitments for the upcoming month. I hope this glimpse into my life, my family, my work, and my own self development encourages you in your own journey. Around here the goal is never perfection, just to keep trying, even if in very simple ways. I think you'll see that with all of the big changes going on for me, taking the smallest of ...
Oct 03, 2024•23 min•Ep. 632
Parenthood surprised me in countless ways, but the biggest one was how angry my kids could make me. In this episode, Emily Hamblin shares her personal journey as a mom who unexpectedly faced struggles with anger and how it affected her and her family. She discusses the biological and mental aspects of emotional regulation, offering practical advice for managing anger and understanding its root causes. From identifying personal triggers and maintaining a 'body budget,' to using self-compassion an...
Sep 30, 2024•51 min•Ep. 631
Is there something that has made you think other people can do that, but not me ? This episode is part of a monthly series to convince you otherwise. These episodes feature real people who are answering the question “How do you…?” about their various passions and pursuits. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal . Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Waitlist Full Show Notes Lea...
Sep 26, 2024•28 min•Ep. 630
In this coaching call I'm talking with Jessica, a supermom from Oregon who’s not just juggling two boys but also balancing a demanding full-time job and a plethora of household responsibilities. We dived deep into discussing how she can carve out those essential moments of 'me time' amidst her busy schedule. From the simplicity of a morning walk to setting realistic and supportive daily goals, we explored lots of practical advice and heartfelt insights. Jessica opened up about the challenges she...
Sep 23, 2024•1 hr•Ep. 629
This story is a bit vulnerable, but the lesson I learned felt important enough to share. If you've been a listener for a little while you're likely familiar with all of the work I've done over the years to detach my identity from my physical appearance, so that's what makes what I'm sharing that much weirder. My experience was a total eye-opener that confidence is a mindset, NOT a number. I realized that how I feel about myself has way more to do with my attitude than my weight. And let me tell ...
Sep 19, 2024•12 min•Ep. 628
In today's conversation with Julie Rose, we delved into her journey as a radio journalist and podcast host, discussing how she tackles challenging topics and leans into uncomfortable conversations. Julie shared valuable strategies on how to approach discussions around contentious issues with curiosity and empathy, rather than resorting to debates or trying to persuade. We explored the importance of setting intentions, maintaining emotional awareness, and focusing on understanding the person rath...
Sep 16, 2024•59 min•Ep. 627
This is my second year of having my garden, and I've been struggling with this morning glory infestation that I thought I had under control at the end of last year. It's like no matter what I do, it just keeps coming back. It's a constant battle, and it's got me thinking about how similar it is to our struggle with self-care. Sometimes, we neglect our own needs, thinking we can push through. But just like the morning glory, those neglected needs can eventually overwhelm us. It's a reminder that ...
Sep 12, 2024•12 min•Ep. 626
This week I dive into the four habits that are helping me show up in my life right now. These are the practices that keep me going amidst the busy fall season. Even though some of them aren't my favorite, they've made a significant difference in my daily routine and overall well-being. I believe that small changes in our day-to-day life can lead to big improvements over time. Whether it's about managing morning routines or finding joy in biking with my toddler, these habits are about making life...
Sep 09, 2024•31 min•Ep. 625
This monthly series features an episode sharing my recent highs and lows, how my habits are going, a Do Something List update, plus what I'm loving lately and my commitments for the upcoming month. I hope this glimpse into my life, my family, my work, and my own self development encourages you in your own journey. Around here the goal is never perfection, just to keep trying, even if in very simple ways. I think you'll see that with all of the big changes going on for me, taking the smallest of ...
Sep 05, 2024•25 min•Ep. 624
In this episode, I'm thrilled to air my return to Amber Brueseke's podcast and delve deep into the world of habits. We revisit our initial conversation from years ago and explore how our approaches and evolutions have shaped our current perspectives. Specifically, we unpack why habits often feel like a ball and chain, redefine what habits really are, and discuss how to create supportive habits that align with your true self. Whether you're struggling with where to begin, overwhelmed by a heavy m...
Sep 02, 2024•59 min•Ep. 623
In this bonus episode, I’m excited to share something from my private, premium podcast, More Personal , usually reserved for the Supporters Club. In this Casual Convo , I’m joined by Taylor, my longtime podcast manager, for an honest discussion about aging—where we stand personally and how far we're willing to go in preventing or masking it. When it comes to this unfiltered conversation you may be nodding right along, or some things may surprise you, but I think you'll enjoy it. If you want to h...
Aug 29, 2024•45 min•Ep. 622
Are you tired of struggling in silence, join me as I get real with Erica Djossa about the deep-rooted struggles that so many of us face in our journey through motherhood. Erica opens up about her personal experiences and the common threads she has identified through her work with women, both personally and professionally. We delve into the invisible burdens mothers carry, the societal expectations placed upon them, and the pervasive ideology of intensive mothering. Erica shares invaluable insigh...
Aug 26, 2024•54 min
Is there something that has made you think other people can do that, but not me ? This episode is part of a monthly series to convince you otherwise. These episodes feature real people who are answering the question “How do you…?” about their various passions and pursuits. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal . Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Waitlist for the next Sticky Habit Intensive Full S...
Aug 22, 2024•21 min•Ep. 620
In this coaching call we dive deep into a struggle that many of us face: balancing responsibilities while finding time for fun and nurturing our souls. If you’ve ever felt like the joy and spontaneity have dwindled amidst your daily grind, then this conversation is a must-listen. Andi and I explore practical, down-to-earth strategies to bring more joy into your everyday moments. We talk about how to make mundane tasks fun, setting aside dedicated time for activities that light us up, and the imp...
Aug 19, 2024•56 min•Ep. 619
In this episode, we dive into the allure of certainty and why it's so tempting to want a clear, step-by-step guide for every aspect of life. But here's the catch—life doesn't always work that way. Whether it's raising kids, exercising, or planning your day, rigid prescriptions can often fall short. Join me as I share why I can't, in good conscience, give you a one-size-fits-all solution. Instead, I'll offer tools, principles, and insights to empower you to craft your own path. Learn how to adapt...
Aug 15, 2024•12 min•Ep. 618
I used to be a cardio queen, until I was forced to change my habits and finally take strength training more seriously. I could not have done that on my own, and credit my personal success to several different women online. For many years one of those influences has been Amber Brueseke, who returns to the podcast to discuss the importance of strength training for women, especially as we age. Amber shares her journey and practical tips on how to get started with weightlifting, no matter your level...
Aug 12, 2024•1 hr•Ep. 617
I'm taking you behind the scenes of my 20-year high school reunion—a rollercoaster of emotions and unexpected moments. As someone who helped plan the entire event in just a month, I had a unique perspective on everything that went down. In this episode I'm diving into the highs, the lows, and the heartfelt moments that made this reunion unforgettable. From pre-reunion jitters and outfit dilemmas to heartwarming reconnections and surprising revelations, this experience was anything but ordinary. ...
Aug 08, 2024•16 min•Ep. 616
At the beginning of the summer I shared my "Summer Savers," which I can now confidently say really did allow us to have one of our best summers ever as a family. So, in a similar fashion, this episode is all about helping you and your family transition smoothly into autumn, even if you're feeling a bit overwhelmed by the changes ahead. I’ll share practical tips, personal stories, and actionable steps to reflect on what worked and what didn’t last fall, cast a clear vision for the season ahead, a...
Aug 05, 2024•48 min•Ep. 615
This monthly series features an episode sharing my recent highs and lows, how my habits are going, a Do Something List update, plus what I'm loving lately and my commitments for the upcoming month. I hope this glimpse into my life, my family, my work, and my own self development encourages you in your own journey. Around here the goal is never perfection, just to keep trying, even if in very simple ways. I think you'll see that with all of the big changes going on for me, taking the smallest of ...
Aug 01, 2024•22 min•Ep. 614
When you think about procrastination does it bring up some feelings of shame, maybe self-judgment? These complex feelings are common, so find out what your procrastination really means and how can you stop weaponizing it against yourself. By sorting out where your procrastination is coming from then you can see what your needs truly are and begin to develop healthy and supportive habits. Shirin shares her own story of perfectionism as an Iranian immigrant who relied on constantly outperforming o...
Jul 29, 2024•44 min•Ep. 613
Gabrielle Blair, mother of 6 blogging at Design Mom , co-founded Alt Summit 10 years ago and remains a champion for female entrepreneurship. Her motto could be described as dream big, then execute small. In fact, she admits in this episode that if she had known from the beginning where her dreams would have taken her she probably never would have attempted them. She opens up about the business “failures” turned important lessons, how she moved her family (of 8!) to France for years despite not e...
Jul 22, 2024•46 min•Ep. 612
In 2020 I put something on my Do Something List that I almost talked myself out of: have fun with fashion. I ended up loving the results so much that I’ve kept a version of it every year since. This year I came up with “explore my personal style.” And while I haven’t necessarily turned into a style expert, or even fashion blogger, I have enjoyed the way that exploring my personal style has helped me insert more of ME into my daily life. To be clear, your personal style should be a complete refle...
Jul 15, 2024•52 min•Ep. 611
