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Abiding Together

Heather Khym, Michelle Benzinger, Sister Miriam James Heidlandwww.abidingtogetherpodcast.com
Providing a place of connection, rest and encouragement for women who are on the journey of living out their passion and purpose in Jesus Christ.

Episodes

S16 E17 - Counting the Graces

In this episode, we conclude season 16 by remembering with gratitude all the things God has done and is doing in our lives. We reflect on the importance of allowing our hearts to be drawn into beauty in the midst of both joy and sorrow. We also talk about maturity vs self reliance, allowing ourselves to be led by the Holy Spirit, and the relationship between trust and receptivity. Thank you dear friends for journeying with us this season! You will be in our prayers this summer and we are excited...

May 26, 202542 minSeason 16Ep. 17

S16 E16 - Life Transitions with Chris Benzinger (Part 2)

In this episode, we conclude our conversation on life transitions with Michelle’s husband, Chris Benzinger. We focus on the second and third steps in walking through transitions: releasing with trust and redeeming with hope. We talk about God wanting to redeem our past, the need to let go of the ways we’ve failed, and how God wants to do something new in the future. We also reflect on the importance of ceremony to conclude a season, the four responses to a loss, and why we should share our hopes...

May 19, 202539 minSeason 16Ep. 16

S16 E15 - Life Transitions with Chris Benzinger (Part 1)

In this episode, Chris Benzinger joins us to discuss navigating big and small life transitions. We have all probably found ourselves on the other end of a transition feeling unfulfilled or confused. Chris takes us through a reflection of Joshua leading the Israelites across the Jordan and relates it to change in our lives. We talk about why it can be difficult to move on from blessings of the past and how remembering with gratitude is the first step in walking through transitions. We also discus...

May 12, 202536 minSeason 16Ep. 15

S16 E14 - A Father’s Legacy - Pope Francis

In this episode, we reflect on the legacy of Pope Francis. We talk about how, during his Pontificate, Pope Francis emphasized joy and, through his example, helped us remember to embody this joy in our daily lives to bring others into the Church. We also acknowledge how God has used Pope Francis to speak to us through his writings and discuss which of these writings most profoundly impacted us, how we can pray for our next Pope, and share what we think will be his lasting legacy. Heather’s One Th...

May 05, 202534 minSeason 16Ep. 14

S16 E13 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Epilogue and Preparing for the Triduum

In this episode, we conclude our Lenten book study by focusing on the epilogue and sharing ideas on how to prepare for the Triduum. During Holy Week, our Lord invites us to join Him on His Paschal journey. We reflect on how He takes on our suffering, sin, and brokenness and brings them to the Father so that death may be destroyed forever. We also talk about the importance of remembering how God has transformed our lives, the call to “be not afraid”, and how our Lord is restoring our deepest iden...

Apr 14, 202529 minSeason 16Ep. 13

S16 E12 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapter Nine and Conclusion

In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapter 9 and the conclusion. We reflect on the goodness of God and why we need not be afraid even when we do not understand what He is doing or how He is working in our lives. We also talk about how the Holy Spirit is like a salve to the wounds in our life, the importance of taking the authority we’ve been given by God, and why hungering and thirsting for God allows us to grow in intimacy with Him. Heather’s One Thing - Healing Pra...

Apr 07, 202534 minSeason 16Ep. 12

S16 E11 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Seven and Eight

In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 7 & 8. We reflect on the many ways Jesus wants to make us whole, by exercising the evil out of our lives, forgiving our sins, and leading us to freedom. We also compare that to what the enemy is trying to do, make us feel alone, scatter the pieces of our heart, and bring us out of communion with each other and with God. Jesus wants to love us into healing and is waiting for our invitation. It is up to us to open the door an...

Mar 31, 202531 minSeason 16Ep. 11

S16 E10 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Five and Six

In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 5 & 6. We talk about the original roots of jubilee in the Old Testament, if the Israelites actually observed the jubilee, and how the Dead Sea Scrolls are relevant to jubilee. We also reflect on the importance of prophetic voices, the need to prepare for Sabbath, and why having an open heart allows the Lord to exceed our expectations. Heather’s One Thing - Jesus and the Dead Sea Scrolls Video Series with Dr. John Bergsma an...

Mar 24, 202526 minSeason 16Ep. 10

S16 E9 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Three and Four

In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 3 & 4. We discuss the Ten Commandments, how they teach us to say yes to true freedom, and why our voluntary yes helps us live in deeper communion with God and those around us. We also reflect on finding Eden in our Churches or homes, discovering our golden calves, and the significance of doing our daily duty well. Heather’s One Thing - Abundance of Grace Prints Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Vickie, Chris, and Fr. Patrick at H...

Mar 17, 202533 minSeason 16Ep. 9

S16 E8 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters One and Two

In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 1 & 2. We reflect on how God originally designed us in the Garden of Eden, how the lies and idols we invite into our lives strip away this identity, and how the Jubilee is a time of restoration. We also dive deep into the biblical significance of the ten plagues, why tearing down our idols is a painful process, and the beauty of hoping for a good not yet seen. Heather’s One Thing - The Festival of Praise at Franciscan Unive...

Mar 10, 202538 minSeason 16Ep. 8

S16 E7 - Our Need for Jubilee with Dr. John Bergsma

In this episode, we begin our Lenten book study “Jesus and the Jubilee” and welcome the author, Dr. John Bergsma, to the podcast! Dr. Bergsma shares his powerful conversion story during the Great Jubilee Year in 2000 and why he felt called to write a book about this Jubilee Year of Hope. We also reflect on this Jubilee year as a time of abundant grace, why Reconciliation is the Sacrament of Jubilee, and how we can engage the virtue of hope this Lenten season. Heather’s One Thing - Fathering Sons...

Mar 03, 202547 minSeason 16Ep. 7

S16 E6 - Spiritual Mentorship: Being Formed in Jesus

In this episode, we talk about spiritual mentorship and being formed in Jesus. We reflect on the spiritual mentors who have journeyed with us and share stories about the lessons that have shaped who we are today. We also talk about why comparison crushes our ability to receive, our calling to make disciples of all nations, and how the daily witness of our lives is an answer to this call. Heather’s One Thing - Fix You (Live from the O2 Arena) by Jacob Collier and Chris Martin Sister Miriam’s One ...

Feb 24, 202538 minSeason 16Ep. 6

S16 E5 - Happy 8th Birthday!

In this episode, we celebrate eight years of abiding together with you! We want to celebrate what God has done and is doing in not only our lives, but also in yours. We reflect on why we started the podcast and how our hearts still echo with a desire to help women grow closer to our Lord through communion with others. We share why we surrender the podcast to the Holy Spirit, how we’ve navigated supporting each other through different seasons of life, and what our hopes are for the future of the ...

Feb 17, 202534 minSeason 16Ep. 5

S16 E4 - Journey to Nazareth

In this episode, we talk about how we can receive graces by making a spiritual pilgrimage to Nazareth. We reflect on the Holy Family, how they teach us to love well, and how they show us how to build a family that heals and transforms its members. We also discuss the sanctification of the ordinary, how life is found in doing our daily duty well, and how to dialogue with others. Nazareth is a place of love, and we invite you to use your imagination and make the journey with us. Heather’s One Thin...

Feb 10, 202535 minSeason 16Ep. 4

S16 E3 - Rosary in a Year with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR

In this episode, we welcome Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR to talk about his podcast Rosary in a Year . He shares the inspiration behind his podcast and the importance of meditating on and understanding the mysteries of our faith. We also reflect on prayer being something received not produced, how the Rosary specifically answers the cry of our hearts to learn how to pray, and how Mary intercedes for us within this prayer. Our desire is that Fr. Mark-Mary’s podcast will be an aid as you take the next s...

Feb 03, 202534 minSeason 16Ep. 3

S16 E2 - Pilgrims of Hope

In this episode, we talk about Pope Francis’ Bull of Indiction on the Jubilee Year of Hope! A Jubilee year occurs once every 25 years and it is a year set apart and consecrated just for our Lord. We chat about what it looks like to be pilgrims of hope, especially in the places where we have deep sorrows or unfulfilled desires. We reflect on how we can bring these tender places to our Lord and let them be illuminated, so He can redeem and restore the light of hope in our lives. Keeping our hearts...

Jan 27, 202536 minSeason 16Ep. 2

S16 E1 - Word of the Year

Welcome to the season 16 kickoff with our annual tradition of the Word of the Year episode! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2025 mean to us and chat about the Saints journeying with us this year. We are excited to be back and look forward to seeing what this season will bring. Heather’s One Thing - This Strange Land Podcast Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Jubilee Yea...

Jan 20, 202538 minSeason 16Ep. 1

S15 E14 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week Four

In this week's episode, we conclude our 4 part Advent study of Heather’s new book Encountering Emmanuel. We discuss how we all have deep cries within our hearts and how Jesus coming as a baby gives voice to those longings and sorrows that we hold. We also reflect on the role of the Holy Spirit in revealing the love of God, the power of a name in calling out our truest identity, and the great adventure of falling in love with the Lord. Friends, thank you for joining us on the journey this Advent ...

Dec 23, 202435 minSeason 15Ep. 14

S15 E13 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week Three

In this week's episode, we continue with “Week Three” in our 4 part Advent study of Heather’s new book Encountering Emmanuel. We meditate on the vulnerability of Jesus as a baby and how He comes as one who is little so we can know that we are loved in our littleness. We also reflect on what it looks like to have hope, how to love with an open heart, and the deeper meaning of incense. Jesus’ heart is an open place of refuge where we find the comfort and relief we so desperately need this Advent s...

Dec 16, 202431 minSeason 15Ep. 13

S15 E12 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week Two

In this week's episode, we continue in our 4 part Advent study of Heather’s new book Encountering Emmanuel and focus on “Week Two”. We ponder the reality that we are welcomed into Jesus’ family as heirs and children of God. We also discuss the restoration that takes place in family, relating to each other as spiritual family, and the ache we experience for union with God in Heaven. Heather’s One Thing - The community at Franciscan Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Gingerbread and gingerbread cookie re...

Dec 09, 202429 minSeason 15Ep. 12

S15 E11 - Encountering Emmanuel: Intro and Week One

In this week's episode, we begin our 4 part Advent study of Heather’s new book Encountering Emmanuel and focus on the “Introduction” and “Week One”. We discuss the inspiration behind the book, the fruit that comes from journaling, and the call to recognize the voice of the Good Shepherd. We also reflect on allowing Jesus to be born in our hearts, encounter our wounds, and bring light to our personal darkness. Heather’s One Thing - Josiah Henley’s artwork for Encountering Emmanuel and the wallpap...

Dec 02, 202437 minSeason 15Ep. 11

S15 E10 - Preparing for Advent

In this week's episode, we reflect on how to prepare for Advent. During this busy season, it is easy to spend more time preparing our home than our hearts and we chat about the need for slowing down, quieting our hearts and surroundings, and becoming attentive to God’s presence in our daily lives. We also share practical ways we prepare and wait for the coming of our Lord at Christmas. Heather’s One Thing - The songs Holy Forever ( YouTube ) and The Story I’ll Tell ( YouTube ) Sister Miriam’s On...

Nov 25, 202433 minSeason 15Ep. 10

S15 E9 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 3)

In this week's episode, we conclude our three part series on the heart and Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos . We reflect on Scripture as a personal love story, how it speaks to our areas of weakness, and the awesome reality of Jesus desiring to love and heal us there. The Lord meets us where we are and He is always seeking to bring our hearts closer to His. He speaks directly to each one of us with an invitation to be loved and to love. This invitation of love requires a response not ...

Nov 18, 202437 minSeason 15Ep. 9

S15 E8 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 2)

In this week's episode, we continue our three part series on Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos . We reflect on our ache to be loved, how Jesus heals in close proximity to us, and the “science of the caress”. We also talk about how Jesus is a man who comes and finds us wherever we are and longs to open up a new place for us in relationship with Him. Will we allow our hearts to beat again with love? Heather’s One Thing - Thai Peanut Chicken Stir Fry Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Abuses in ...

Nov 11, 202429 minSeason 15Ep. 8

S15 E7 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 1)

In this week's episode, we begin a three part series on Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos (on the human and divine love of the Heart of Jesus Christ). We discuss how God, as the Divine initiator, loved us first and continuously calls us deeper into His most Sacred Heart. We also reflect on the meaning of our hearts, being captivated by Jesus’ love, and the beauty of allowing Him to set our hearts aflame. Heather’s One Thing - Man and Woman and the Order of Creation Conference at Franci...

Nov 04, 202431 minSeason 15Ep. 7

S15 E6 - Practical Aspects of Living Out Community

In this week's episode, we continue our discussion on communion and focus on the practical aspects of living out in community. We reflect on the four main pillars of building a community: intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organically. We also talk about community as a journey and that we learn to love others by experiencing the love of God ourselves. This experience brings communion within us, which bears fruit, and then we are then able to give that love away to others. Heather’s On...

Oct 28, 202429 minSeason 15Ep. 6

S15 E5 - Theology of Communion

In this week's episode, we talk about the theology of communion. Our desire for communion with others is very good and comes from God Himself. In fact, our ache for community is an ache for eternity. God desires to bring us into an eternal communion with Him and the community here on earth points towards this in a small way. We discuss what happens when we experience a broken community, the challenges faced in building community, and how community changes throughout the seasons of life. Heather’...

Oct 21, 202435 minSeason 15Ep. 5

S15 E4 - Lectio Divina

In this week's episode, we model what it looks like to pray Lectio Divina, which is a divine reading of Sacred Scripture. We begin by sharing the different ways we spend time in Sacred Scripture, how it has impacted our lives, and model how to pray Lectio Divina. We invite you to follow along and join us as we spend time reading and reflecting on John 15:5-8. Sacred Scripture is the voice of God and what He has said is alive forever and relevant to our lives in all situations. We encourage you t...

Oct 14, 202435 minSeason 15Ep. 4

S15 E3 - Suffering & Love

In this week's episode, we reflect on suffering and love. We all have deep and tender places in our hearts where we suffer. Sometimes we feel alone in these sorrows and because of this, turn inwards into our pain. But the reality is, we are never alone in our suffering; God is always with us. We also reflect on fear in suffering, suffering in isolation vs suffering in communion, and how to allow God’s light to shine into these sorrowful places. Heather’s One Thing - The Liturgy of the Hours subs...

Oct 07, 202442 minSeason 15Ep. 3

S15 E2 - Living the Mysteries (Part 2)

In this week's episode, we look back and remember both the glorious and luminous moments in our lives. We share how allowing the Holy Spirit to overshadow us has brought forth an overflowing of grace and restoration in our lives. We also reflect on how God desires to restore our voices in places where we are afraid and have become silent. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own glorious and luminous ...

Sep 30, 202430 minSeason 15Ep. 2
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