Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch v...
Jan 23, 2019•15 min
James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story. For support and information about HIV we recommend Terrence Higgins Trust in the UK and in the US Greater Than Aids. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an indepen...
Jan 16, 2019•17 min
Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay ...
Jan 09, 2019•25 min
#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/he...
Jan 02, 2019•19 min
Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some pretty shocking cow biology. Plus more serious stuff including an interview with the amazing Juno Dawson from our special episode A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans, and highlights from our 100th Episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in th...
Dec 27, 2018•45 min
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes for Christmas 2018. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (...
Dec 19, 2018•15 min
You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and the only thing offensive is their singing. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A ...
Dec 12, 2018•21 min
Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this 'depression stuff' James talks about just 'podcast content'? Please remember to get regularly tested at your local sexual health clinic - find out more at ASHA or the NHS or your local clinic. Plus we finally have MERCH! Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relation...
Dec 05, 2018•18 min
A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection. Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They ...
Dec 01, 2018•34 min
A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection. Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They ...
Dec 01, 2018•34 min
It's a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is WWE and hitting people for 'entertainment' just another display of toxic masculinity? And is all male BOYLESQUE basically just porn? And if you want to impress Dan, don’t get your dick out. Order pizza. 25 of them. Support the boys in this weekend's 10K #RedRun in aid of Positive East on Worlds Aids Day. If you're in London, get tickets for Briefs C...
Nov 28, 2018•29 min
How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating. Podcasters anonymous - tell us your woes: [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusi...
Nov 21, 2018•20 min
James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing James’ depression on the pod. There's also some admin and both A Gay and A NonGay clearly know absolutely nothing about vaginas. Read the full LGBT in Health Report online. - A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter...
Nov 14, 2018•27 min
We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn't even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed - A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 07, 2018•25 min
James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it's Halloween and we love a tenuous link. How long can you be 'mugged off' before you've been ghosted and is ghosting the right thing to do if someone you don't fancy keeps getting in touch? Top tip : don't have a nap if someone is waiting on a reply. Plus love and solidarity with all our LGBTQ+ Brazilian family. --- This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-win...
Oct 31, 2018•24 min
Trigger warning : this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide. James is having a difficult time and Dan knows a weird amount of Meat Loaf lyrics . Plus how do you know when it’s time to go exclusive in a gay relationship. --- This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay....
Oct 24, 2018•17 min
James tells Dan about his first boyfriend and everything takes a turn for a conversation we thought was confined to Gay & NonGay fanfic. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/...
Oct 17, 2018•26 min
It's getting cold but Dan is here with 10 fantastic reasons why you should wear shorts all year round, plus memories of the Solihull Library and Arts Complex in 2003. What more could you want? A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed L...
Oct 10, 2018•17 min
Dan reviews his queen of rock Avril Lavigne's new single at HIGH VOLUME, and there's a startling realisation about Dan & James similarity to Bert & Ernie. Plus some important information on the Gender Reform Act - please find out more and submit to the consultation here: https://www.stonewall.org.uk/gender-recognition-act A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via...
Oct 03, 2018•16 min
It's the end of Pride season in the UK and James has some upsetting thoughts. Plus Dan has a beard - does he need to keep it oiled? A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Sep 26, 2018•31 min
Happy 101st! It's business as usual as James propositions Dan for some male bonding. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sep 19, 2018•20 min
It's episode 100 of A Gay & A Nongay! Can you believe? It's a long way from 'Hello' and NonHat wearers. Listen to our centenary episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @...
Sep 13, 2018•43 min
It's a short one this week as Dan and James get ready for their celebratory 100th episode! Rule No. 1: Don't sexualise a banana 🍌 Come see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta...
Sep 05, 2018•11 min
Dan gets chatted up on the train and won't stop bringing up YMCA while James can't stop laughing at Dan's recent foray into the world of lip-sync. Come see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, f...
Aug 29, 2018•20 min
It’s official. Dan is ‘gay for pay’. Plus the boys are back from sell out shows at the Edinburgh Fringe festival where they discussed NonGay Jack Whitehall getting cast as Disney’s first openly gay character. Featuring a chat with out LA actor, star of brilliant ‘Tilda Swinton Answers an ad on Craigslist’ (see it in Edinburgh until August 26th) Tom Lenk (aka Andrew from Buffy) --- Come see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please supp...
Aug 22, 2018•22 min
We discuss James' recent DJ set at... 10 Downing Street. What should you do when politicians with questionable histories invite you round for tea? Read the UK LGBT Action Plan here. --- Come see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynon...
Aug 15, 2018•25 min
Nothing makes James laugh harder than Dan's teenage band, and Dan has finally caught up with Queer Eye. --- Come see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018 or our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twi...
Aug 08, 2018•17 min
Dan wants water, and knows an alarming amount about birds. Say hey to him if you see him at Brighton Pride this weekend, but James won't be there. Plus an announcement about our forthcoming 100th episode! Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @...
Aug 01, 2018•19 min
Dan has “finished The Velvet Rage” and is now the expert on gay men. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adc...
Jul 25, 2018•22 min
Dan's back from celebrating his first ever Pride in Seattle! The boys discuss the anti-trans protesters at #PrideInLondon, and "what kind of fresh hell, is a lad?". Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Pat...
Jul 18, 2018•20 min
