¶ Intro / Opening
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¶ Introduction to Olympic Gender Controversy
Hello, hello and welcome back to A Bit Fruity. I'm Matt Bernstein and I'm so happy that you're here. Can you imagine a reality in which you constantly have to prove to everybody that you meet that you are the gender that you say you are? Well, that's just a daily reality for trans people. But I really did write this like I'm like a.
60 minutes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, that's just a daily reality for trans people. But this Olympic Games, it became the reality for one of the best cisgender athletes in the world. That is so 60 minutes. We're going to cut to someone, you know, on location. What does it mean to get transvestigated? Who gets transvestigated? What gender are you, listener? I don't care, but J.K. Rowling would like to know right now.
I guess that's a little less 60 minutes. What gender are you? What gender is anyone? I mean, you don't have to do that. Today, we are going to use the latest global sports controversy, and I...
put that in air quotes, as an entry point for broader conversations about gender, race, surveillance, and some really weird Facebook groups. To do that, we are once again joined by friend of the show, ex-philosopher, YouTuber, someone who I admire so much, someone whose work you're probably already familiar with, but if you're not, then I'm jealous of you because you get to experience it for the first time after you listen to this podcast.
Natalie Nguyen, aka ContraPoints, welcome back to A Bit Fruity. Thank you for having me back. I am so happy to be here. This is getting a little professional. Okay, yeah, we should... What should I say? Fuck? It's going to degrade really fast. We're going to start talking about the dumbest tweets that have ever been made. We're going to be doing some light slander about mold.
¶ Podcast Support and YouTube Lore
Before we get into today's show, if you would like to support the show or you would like more of the show, you can get that over on Patreon. The link to the Patreon will be in the description for this episode. I do exclusive episodes over there every month. This summer, I have been working on a multi-part series about the bi-sister scandal. So we're having a lot of fun over there.
This is my job. I didn't know you had done the bi-sister episode. I need to go listen to that because I also am like a bi-sister scholar casually. It was so fascinating. I mean, I remember I could not stop looking at my phone when that was happening. I remember going to see.
a movie with my mom and my brother and the entire time on the way back from the movie I was like staring at my phone I was trying to explain to them like why this controversy was earth shattering they're just like what the fuck are you talking about Tati Westbrook is over party I know
i mean because it's also like so comedic it was over it was over vitamin supplements well it's like vitamin supplements and then she tried to like manufacture this like this like moral crusade right right because otherwise because otherwise no one would give a shit because oh she's That her vitamins aren't being endorsed by that. Like, like who cares? Tati Westbrook became YouTube's Anita Bryant. No, if she became Anita Bryant. Like it was over a hair vitamin.
¶ J.K. Rowling's Tweet and Khalif's Story
Sorry, I just derailed you again. On July 30th, 2024, once beloved children's author, now user of X.com, JK Rowling tweeted. What will it take to end this insanity? A female boxer left with life-altering injuries? A female boxer killed? It's Leviosa, not Leviosa. When I saw this tweet, I had no idea what was going on. Yeah, she doesn't really explain it. You're expected to be up to date on all the lore of boxing gender investigations.
especially since jk rowling's followers and she's always talking about women's boxing you know she's such an expert in that and something she obviously cares about so much until now well okay no this is a good place to start though because she attached this article The article from The Guardian that she attached to this tweet was titled, Boxers who failed gender tests at world championships cleared to compete at the Olympics. Now, I read this with no understanding.
of what was going on this is the first time i heard of this story and looking back now it seems incredibly irresponsible of a publication like the guardian to publish a headline like this Yeah, The Guardian is not necessarily known for their most responsible covering of what they call gender issues or gender debate. So I guess that didn't surprise me. What did surprise me was that this was coming up considering that I knew that there was no transgender.
athletes competing in the Olympics. So you would think that that would make you immune to having to sit through transgender discourse the entire time. But it turned out not to. That's a good opening question. How did having no trans athletes at the Olympics somehow make the Olympics entirely about trans athletes and what we think about them? That is the question.
discourse today as we do on this podcast but beforehand i want everybody to be working with the same set of facts here and so i have made a little outline for myself with some background information that you need to know to understand what we are going to talk about for the rest of this episode. So for a couple of minutes, I am going to be telling you the story of a boxer and two different boxing organizations and a little bit of Russian corruption, a little bit of Putin.
¶ The Iman Khalif Olympic Controversy
We're going to work from there. It sounds like a spy thriller. It basically is. It basically is. Yeah. Except everyone's getting investigated. Iman Khalif. Iman Khalif grew up in the rural village of Tiaret, Algeria. She grew up in relative poverty. She played soccer growing up, football there, with boys.
And boys were mean to her growing up because they were intimidated by her and she is tall. And interestingly, the way that she got into boxing was from dodging punches that guys would throw at her. Starting at 16, she would sell scrap metal to afford the bus fare to the training gym, which was in the town over. And after a few years of training, long hours every day, she began competing in international competitions for boxing.
In 2020, she competed in the Tokyo Olympics and lost in the quarterfinals, which is interestingly never mentioned in this conversation about the alleged man dominating boxing because like when she was losing. She was never accused of being a man. Right. This is a woman who's competed in the Olympics before with no one saying anything about it. No one. Literally no one.
By 2023, Iman Khalif had competed in multiple IBA World Championships. She reached the finals in 2022, and it was never a problem. The IBA is the International Boxing Association. They host all of these world boxing competitions. We'll get to that in a second. She was going to compete in the finals in 2023.
when she was disqualified for failing a quote-unquote gender test. Initially, the IBA said that she failed the gender test for having high testosterone levels, and then the president of the IBA, Umar Kremlev, more on him in a second, said that she was disqualified because the test showed she had XY chromosomes.
Iman and her representatives said that she had been the victim of a conspiracy. Notably, neither the methodology for the test, nor Iman's results, nor just like anything about what this test actually was, has ever to this date been made public. Notably, Iman's disqualification came three days after she defeated Azalea Amineva, a previously undefeated Russian boxer. Iman's disqualification restored Azalea's undefeated status. So what is the IBA?
the International Boxing Association. It's an organization that governs amateur and professional boxing worldwide, and it has long been plagued by controversy and financial mismanagement. It previously worked with the IOC, that's organization number two, the International Olympic Committee, IOC, to establish regulations around the Olympic boxing competition.
In 2019, though, the IOC suspended the IBA over concerns about their financial mismanagement. And this is before all the Russian stuff, so bear with me. In 2020, one year later... umar kremlev became president of the iba this is when the iba's relationship with the ioc again iba world boxing ioc olympic committee that's when it really falls apart Who is Umar Kremlev? Umar has long been involved in the world of Russian boxing, and he's also a pal of Vladimir Putin.
Umar made Gazprom, which is a Russian state-owned gas company, the sole financial sponsor of the IBA. So in 2023, the Olympics officially and permanently cut ties with the IBA over concerns that It was basically corrupt. It was just acting as a vehicle to promote the interests of the Russian state and Russian athletes. Now, fast forward to Paris 2024. I promise I'm almost done with the background. We're doing great, guys.
Because the IOC cut ties with the IBA, the gender test that they ran on Iman Khalif, whatever that was, it meant nothing to the IOC. And so this year, Paris 2024, the Olympics said that Iman could compete. And this is when she enters the public imagination. In the second round of the women's welterweight competition, Iman fought Angela Carini, an Italian boxer. Angela quit that match in pain after Iman hit her twice. Afterwards...
Angela Carini refused to shake Amon's hand and she would go on to say it's not fair, which she would, interestingly, within days, express regret about. But it didn't matter. The media ran with that story that it wasn't fair, that Iman Khalif had failed a gender test administered by the IBA, an organization that nobody who goes on to talk about any of the things we're going to talk about in this episode had previously known anything about. Nobody cared.
The IBA was a disgraced, corrupt organization that has become a function of the Russian state. Nobody, least of all J.K. Rowling, fact-checked.
¶ Debunking Gender Claims and Vilification
And the culture war ensued. And that is what we are here to unpack today. Congratulations. You have made it through the context. It's all downhill from here. I'm sorry to say. I mean, I think it's important for people to have the, like, before we understand what we're talking about here, one difficulty I feel like I've had trying to talk to people about this case is a lot of people are under the impression that this is...
a question of trans women competing in sports when it just isn't. No one in the story is transgender. Nobody in the story is transgender. Nobody in the story is transgender. And Nobody in the story that we know of has XY chromosomes or high levels of testosterone. Like that was the other thing is at the beginning, a lot of people were saying when the story broke, like, oh.
Well, you know, some women who are athletes especially naturally have high levels of testosterone. And there are genetic variations where cisgender women can have XY chromosomes. And that is all true. But Iman Khalif just never had any of those things. And so I don't even want to give credence. in this particular story, to the idea that, like, she did. Because the IBA has never presented any evidence about this gender test or what it was. Yes, anyone claiming that Iman Khalif is...
intersects or has high testosterone levels is basically engaging in pure conjecture. There's no solid evidence of any of that. Right, which J.K. Rowling has done upwards of 20 times. Yes. Should we talk about J.K. Rowling's meltdown? Yeah, let's just get into it. There are a number of people who are responsible for making this story something that we're talking about today. And those include J.K. Rowling, Elon Musk, Logan Paul, Donald Trump.
All of the people that you want to have lunch with. I think that JK Rowling is a good entry point because she's where I've learned about all this for the first time. Yeah. So what ignites this is this photo. of Angela Karini and Iman Khalif after their match, where Karini is crying and Iman is comforting her. And I think what really ignites this as a controversy is the visual spectacle of this feminine European woman weeping as a taller.
darker skinned woman has just won a boxing match against her. Yes. To me, Iman Khalif, what she looks like is a... professional female boxer she's tall she has long limbs she is muscular because that's what what champion female boxers look like as we've seen from a lot of the other uh women who compete in
these matches but in this picture you get the the the vibe is kind of of a damsel in distress i think and that becomes the sort of mythological framing of what happened so the first time i saw this picture was When JK Rowling tweeted it. Let's just read the tweet because I think this really establishes the tone of the discourse. Could any picture sum up our new men's rights movement better?
the smirk of a male who knows he's protected by a misogynist sporting establishment enjoying the distress of a woman he's just punched in the head and whose life's ambition He's just chatted. Hashtag Paris 2024. I did text Natalie beforehand and I was like, can you please use the voice when you read the tweet? Yeah, I've been walking around the house like doing my Hermione impression all day. Yeah, this...
This tweet gets 449,000 likes. And according to Twitter, which I believe kind of inflates these metrics, but 120 million views. And one of the things that really interests me about... this picture that you just described is that it gets circulated by all of these people, including JK Rowling. But, and it's clearly, you know, Iman Khalif is patting Angela Karini on the back, but it's portrayed as.
Because she's taller and necessarily she has to look down at Angela Carini, who's shorter than her, it's framed as this menacing, like a predator preying on their prey. Absolutely. I mean, the first I mean, the first obvious thing to say about this, right, is that like the discourse is already not even about fairness in sports. Like we're already like we've instantly moved way beyond that. It's not a question of, oh, is Iman intersex? It's not a question.
of are there heightened testosterone levels is this fairness the critics are immediately saying she's a man or they're not even they're not even using she at this point they're saying he's a man this is A smirking male enjoying the distress of a woman that he has punched. Right. That's the language that JK Rowling uses. So in a way, even though Iman is not trans, she's getting the full trans woman treatment, which is to say that she's getting portrayed not only.
as a man, but like a diabolical man, a misogynistic man who enjoys violence against women. And, you know, I just don't get that from this picture at all. Even taking gender out of it. I look at Iman Khalif in this picture and I see someone offering condolences and support. Like you have to be engaged in like huge levels of speculation and vilification to look at this and see.
¶ Boxing, Violence, and Gender Policing
quote, the smirk of a male who's, quote, enjoying the distress of a woman he's just punched in the head. Where do we even start with this, right? It's the punching people in the head competition. Right. Why is that being framed as this shocking thing? Well, that's what I was going to say. I mean, there's everything about this tweet, which really does on August 1st.
kick off this conversation that would just become only more miserable over the following week and we're going to talk about all of it but like a man who's just punched a woman in the head like first of all we are talking about boxing that's that's like if two tennis players come off the court and you're like and he was hitting the ball with the racket like yeah that's what the sport is yes it's like this weaponization and you see that over and over and like a lot of the images
shared by people who are trying to make the case that Iman Khalif was like uniquely violent against other women or something. They use photos of them boxing and it's like, yes, they are punching each other. That's boxing. Yeah, it's being framed not as unfairness in sports but as an issue of violence against women. Crazy. Male violence against women. Crazy.
And there's so much like subtext to this, like all the things that you have to kind of believe for this narrative to make sense. I mean, one, you have to believe that Iman Khalif is a man, which J.K. Rowling seems to believe based on... We're talking about someone who is assigned female at birth, grew up as a girl, who is from a country where being transgender or gender transition is illegal. Is illegal.
And these people think that they sent a trans woman to the Olympics. So one, all of that is just complete speculation based on more or less nothing except JK Rowling's gut feelings. Two, you have to think that this... boxing match which everyone agreed to which is regulated by an organization that has public rules saying what their you know standards are and who meets them and who's allowed to compete and
Everyone who enters into a boxing match has consented to this situation. And again, this is not a complex consent kind of situation. It's not like women are sort of socially coerced in a million ways to become... boxing champions right in fact usually quite the opposite you know as a woman you would have to go out of your way to go into boxing as
Khalif, in fact, did. We know from her backstory that boxing was strongly discouraged because boxing in itself is seen as a masculine activity, right? And that's kind of part of the background of this. is that the fight for women's sports has often been a fight for women to do something that is seen as masculine.
Now we're portraying it as like sort of almost equivalent. The implication is that this is sort of equivalent to domestic violence, right? Or that Iman Khalifa is somehow like... getting away with punching women because of like some little loophole in the rules like life hack want to hit a woman simply become an olympic athlete as if men don't get away with with hitting women every day
all over the world right yeah as if as if domestic violence was only made illegal within the last hundred years in many places some places it's still not illegal a sinister scheme is being invoked to explain What is a boxing match? You don't necessarily have to think that anyone involved in this has bad intentions, but the worst possible intentions are being ascribed to Iman Kalief, again on no evidence at all.
Yeah, Kat Tenbarge, who is a friend of mine who's a journalist, who is someone who I've had on the show a number of times, she reports a lot for her work. celebrity domestic violence cases. And I just remember her writing online that like she had never seen anyone care about an actual female victim of physical violence this way ever.
I've never seen it in my entire life. You would think that everybody was like actually diehard like into protecting women's rights or something the way that they approach this conversation. They don't care about women. They just hate trans people more or people who they think are trans people. Trans, gender nonconforming, the list.
¶ Weaponizing "White Woman Tears"
is expanding. I mean, compare the way that the internet has received Iman Khalif to the way that the internet has received Johnny Depp. Yes. I think that says all that needs to be said. Treasure troves of evidence to...
showed that a woman had been abused and the entire world and the entire internet fought against it to protect the legacy and reputation of a movie star. Johnny Depp, who J.K. Rowling is friends with. Johnny Depp, who J.K. Rowling is friends with. We have people like Elon Musk, J.D. Vance, Donald Trump.
Piers Morgan, Ian Miles Chung weighing in to attack this woman. Suddenly, these people who have... I mean, some of whom are domestic abusers themselves, and none of whom have ever really spoken out about domestic abuse as an issue before, are now suddenly really, really concerned that a woman was punched in a boxing match.
One thing I do want to say is that Angela Carini, the Italian boxer who... initially said it's not fair she retracted everything within like two days and then released a public statement where she was like i really wish i hadn't behaved that way and i regret not shaking her hand and if i could see her again i would embrace her and a lot of people
make her like kind of the villain in this whole thing and I understand why and there was a lot of definitely like the weaponization of the image of like white woman tears and all of that stuff I just think that like At the end of the day, in this media circus, I think that she is not the biggest issue here. Yeah, I also want to reiterate that I do not think that Angela Carini is...
the villain in this situation. I think that crying when you have lost your match in the Olympics is not unheard of and can sympathize. I mean, I think that she's been kind of a bad sport in the moment. But like most of the escalation of this into a global campaign of insane bullying, I don't think she could have.
foreseen that no in which she has denounced wait right she has condemned it to be clear yeah she has and and i think a lot of the things that people like jk rowling and elon musk have said about this have been ascribed to her but they're really just being said on her behalf without her permission And that's the other thing that really distinguishes this from a case where a woman has been abused is that usually in cases of abuse, there's a victim.
right? There's someone who is claiming to have been abused. In this case, there isn't. It's a bunch of people who have decided that Angela Carini is a victim of male violence, quote unquote, despite the fact that this is a boxing match that... she agreed to. And when she realized that she was facing an opponent that she could not beat, she tapped out.
You could argue that boxing is inherently inviolent and that we should abolish full contact sports. I mean, there is like semi-credible arguments that like abolish the NFL. Like, right, it's causing brain damage in all these men, right? Okay, but that's not a mainstream position and no one here... is saying that right no one is it doesn't seem that anyone is advocating that boxing be abolished all the attention is specifically on the fact that a woman who people are perceiving as a man based on
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¶ J.K. Rowling's Unwavering Stance
To provide a little context here, so we're moving into August 2nd, day two of the discourse, if you will. And between August 1st and August 2nd, a lot of people started to make light of the fact that like, hmm, IBA is kind of a shady organization.
We don't really know anything about Iman Khalif's biology and looking into this to the extent that people are... begging to is kind of dehumanizing and also like this is a cis woman jk rowling probably you should pump the brakes a little bit and so jk rowling famously very bad at accepting that she has ever wrong about anything digs her heels in. I don't think I've ever seen, by the way, JK Rowling admit that she has been ever wrong about anything. Not once.
No, when she did her Holocaust denial, which was the impetus for the last episode we did together, she never walked that back. And it's a habit that J.K. Rowling has that I think actually might kind of be a key to understanding her madness, right?
I mean, I'm sure we'll discuss later, like, how did she get this bad? Some people have proposed a black mold. I mean, my personal theory is that this is someone who's self-radicalized essentially through a... accelerating feedback loop of doubling down on bad takes of responding vindictively to any criticism of being love bombed by an already rabid hate movement i think that's how we've gone from
You know, some of my best friends are trans and I have a hard time thinking of them as anything but women. And, you know, saying I'll march with you if you're persecuted, if you're ever oppressed, just to like. The insane tirade that we are now in the middle of. And that we go on like once a week with her. Once a week at least. J.K. Rowling's transphobia did not fall out of a coconut tree, but here we are nonetheless. August 2nd, day two.
the idea that those objecting to a male punching a female in the name of sport are objecting because they believe that caliph to be trans is a joke we object because we saw a male punching a female so because people are like at this point have pushed back on the idea that Iman Khalif is a trans woman here. She's just saying, no, Iman Khalif is a man. And I know that because I can see it. Yeah. She's saying that. Okay.
She's not a trans woman, but she's just a man. Okay, what does that mean, Joanne? I mean, you're saying that a person who was assigned female at birth, who has lived their entire life as a woman, is a man based on...
Based on what? Speculation. I think one of the reasons that I found this entire saga around hating Iman Khalif to be like... fascinating is that to me it represents like a significant escalation in gender critical rhetoric right where as i think that most of their most vicious hate in the past was kind of directed at
Trans, I mean, initially, right, JK Rowling denied even that. She was trying to maintain a front of compassion for trans people, but saying, oh, but I just have like a few concerns about the safety of women's spaces and so on. Years ago, she moved from that to just being... openly vicious to trans people online misgendering attack just attacking random trans civilians appearance for no other reason than essentially to be a bully but now we've escalated even further to
¶ "We Can Always Tell" Gender Theory
Using the same playbook against people who are not even trans. Yeah. It kind of... is a departure from what has previously been their theory of gender, right? Because you used to see gender critical people argue that, oh, the reason that... trans women are not women is that they don't have like female socialization right you have to be have been socialized
as a woman, to have the distinctive sort of traumas that are constitutive of womanhood. Because they have this, sometimes they have a very victim-centered idea of what it is to be a woman, right? To be a woman is to suffer in these particular ways.
But here's someone who was assigned female at birth, someone who has been socialized as a woman. And yet they're saying, oh, no, that's a man and it's a misogynistic man. And we're going to misgender you and we're going to vilify you. And there was a time when... all of these people would agree a person born with a vagina could never be a man and now here we that has also been abandoned so what is it exactly that makes
someone their gender at this point it's not genitals at birth it's not socialization it's not hormone levels presumably it's basically nothing to do with phenotype at all
because otherwise they would have to say that trans men are men in a lot of cases, right? I think because of secondary sex characteristics, it seems basically to be a kind of like... royal proclamation theory of gender identity where it's like whatever her majesty jk rowling decides based upon vibes that's your gender gender assigned by jk rowling gender that's literally what it is
or assigned by jk rowling it's based on what she perceives assigned male at jk rowling assigned male at hogwarts assigned male by jk rowling and we're supposed to just accept that fucking crazy well so that was the thing that i noted with this tweet is she said we object because we saw a male punching a female we saw and it's like okay i thought the whole thing
was being a woman is about what's in between your legs. But now you're telling me that it's not necessarily what's in between your legs. It's about what I see. Who's we? Whose we object? Who gets to decide? Who sees? Right. It's now a question of subjective perception. And whose subjective perception matters? Because there's not agreement on this point. I do not look at Iman Khalif and see a man, quote unquote.
Right. So who's like who saw who saw what? Whose perception is the privileged one? But I mean, presumably it's J.K. Rowling. It's also I just want to be like really frank here. Like, what did you see? You saw a woman, Iman Khalif. who was insufficiently performing femininity, right? And you said that is a man. And you said that maybe because she was too tall, or maybe because she was too brown, or she was too strong, or she punched too hard in the boxing match, or...
You know, she didn't have on makeup or her. She had a wide jaw or like whatever it is that you think you saw. And like you saw a man. I don't even like want to give any credence to this. She's just saying, I saw someone who I thought looked like a man because they didn't look feminine enough. And that's the joke about this kind of like...
¶ Intuition, Race, and Weaponized Victimhood
feminism right because jk rowling of course she would first and foremost identify as a feminist and this is the thing is that her version of feminism trans exclusionary radical feminism this is what it comes down to And it kind of originates in this gender critical dogma that, quote, we can always tell. So the idea is that they have decided to confidently maintain that they can always tell.
the biological sex and therefore gender of a person, true gender, right? Because they believe in that, of a person. based on their own perception right they think that they always get it right and i mean obviously that's demonstrably wrong because there's we could point to a million of examples of gender critical people getting it wrong including this one
Including this one, including just silly things where someone online will post a picture of JK Rowling to some transphobic person and being like, so are you saying that this is a man? And they'll be like, yes, that's a man! Because they've been primed by...
the situation to think that the picture is going to be of a trans woman. So it causes them to perceive the woman in it as quote a man right and any woman could be anyone could be transvestigated in this way and what they're doing is they're exploiting a kind of feminist idea that like women need to trust
intuitions and we all need to trust our gut because you know there's people who will try to gaslight women and who will try to put to put it use use the norms of femininity and agreeableness to put us to put women in uncomfortable situations okay i understand that that's where this idea comes from but the problem with always trust your gut is like what if your gut is racist and it probably is right yeah and i think i feel like this is a situation where always your gut is always right
is not only incorrect, it's actually making you the dangerous aggressor. I mean, you could point to other situations like, I don't know, white women calling the police on black and brown men because, you know... They had a bad feeling about it. I mean, it's very like Emmett Till. It's very Emmett Till. Yeah, exactly. And the concept of white woman tears is a concept that originates in.
non-white women pointing out this problem with the feminism of a lot of white women, where it sort of doesn't occur to white feminists sometimes that white women may not be the most victimized class on earth in some situations right and that there actually is a kind of power that comes with being particularly a feminine white woman you know the patriarchy makes
a confined space granted but also a nonetheless almost sacred space for the feminine white woman and you know you see it in films like birth of a nation where the idea of the white woman under assault from this like dangerous dark other is invoked or in situations like the emmett till trial trial right where basically right a white woman adopting a posture of victimhood
¶ "Be Kind" and Women's Boxing
is weaponized against a non-white man or a non-white woman. It's hard not to see this as falling into that exact pattern. Yeah, yeah. So for the rest of that week, J.K. Rowling... in the face of all evidence to the contrary, continues to tweet and retweet and tweet some more about how Iman Khalif is a man. And on August 7th, she tweets this.
So I'm going to send this one to you. So the gender critical account Fair Play for Women tweets, quote, be kind, they said. And there's a picture of a women's boxing match. And then JK Rowling quote tweets that saying, quote, But not to women. They meant. Hashtag Paris 2024.
This really isn't funny, but like the pudding hashtag Paris 2024 with a little Eiffel Tower emoji next to all of her like disgustingly racist and just like ridiculous and factually untrue tweets is so funny to me. She's like, that can't be a woman. not white hashtag Paris 2024. I know there's something to tweet about using this hashtag. It reminds me of a tweet where she tweeted about her children's book, The Ichabog, and then accidentally control pasted the text of some insane screen.
about trans people and TERFs that she had been writing elsewhere. It's kind of the fascinating paradox of J.K. Rowling in general is that there's this kind of Jekyll Hyde thing where it's like, oh... children's author who writes whimsical stories about wizard school on one hand. And on the other hand, it's like these insane venomous diatribes about the transsexuals. I think it's one reason why we're all sort of so fascinated by this is that...
There's just something kind of fundamentally absurd. Be kind, they said, but not to women, they meant. And it attaches the photo.
of imam khalif punching one of her opponents in the middle of a boxing match and again it's this weaponization of like a narrative about violent men and it's literally just two women having a boxing match boxing is hitting not to sound like a broken record but that's what boxing is right boxing is being unkind i guess yeah and this like like i don't know you could take any picture of two boxers in the middle of a punch and like frame this as like wow
that's not very nice, is it? Well, don't watch boxing then. I feel like there's something else subtextual going on where it's unclear. I mean, if she thinks that what she's claiming is a man. in a consensual boxing match with a woman this is fundamentally violence and it's male violence against women which the the subtext is sort of that this resembles you know intimate partner violence and
I kind of wonder, like, I mean, I guess the subtext is that she doesn't think that it's unkind for women to punch each other in the context of a boxing match, right? Because she's not saying that. She's not saying abolish women's boxing. I mean, does she think that like women cannot commit intimate partner violence against each other? She seems to have this idea of womanhood where it's like to be a woman is to be a victim.
¶ Unrecognized Female Aggression
and to be like a kind of delicate flower or something, right? And that's not a new idea. There's an interesting book.
called in the dream house by carmen maria machado about her experience being in a abusive lesbian relationship and like one of the and like the difficulties of like how do you talk about that when it's something that one it's like you know could contribute the stigmatization of gay people there's an anxiety about that but there's also a lot of people who sort of don't understand that women could be capable of committing domestic partner violence in a way that kind of echoes the way that like
British courts 100 years ago, they struck down a law that was going to make female homosexuality illegal, because the British Parliament, I think, decided that it simply is not possible for there to be a sex act between women.
because, you know, it's missing the masculine element. I think that there's a quote from some, you know, member of parliament who said something like, without the... penetration like how could orgasm be possible um so you know it's also like you know the english parliament collectively admitting that they don't know what the clitoris is which is funny um this book that i'm talking about it echoes it like with with cases sorry i have it right here because i
wanted to mention it like there was a case in 1892 where um there was you know a incident of lesbian domestic violence alice mitchell slit the throat of her girlfriend frida ward And the court kind of couldn't make sense of this as killing between lovers, right? Because they just could not grasp that these women were lovers.
In the last century, in 1989, there was the first case ever of battered woman syndrome being invoked as a defense in a case where a woman killed her female partner who was abusive. And the judge actually... would only allow the defense if they changed the phrase to battered person syndrome because they just didn't get how a woman in a lesbian relationship could be a battered woman.
But what battered woman means is to be the victim of a man. So there's, I don't know, there's this long history of sort of not understanding that like women are capable of doing active masculine aggressive things. And I feel like I certainly think it's subtext for how women for how J.K. Rowling views lesbians in general as this kind of sexless separatist movement or something. But I also think it's how she views boxing, where she's where she thinks that.
female athletes must be sort of fundamentally dainty victims, and she sort of can't wrap her head around the concept of a powerful, aggressive woman in sport. Sorry, that was a long ramble, but...
¶ The Perils of Online Mob Harassment
No, it was good. We have one more JK Rowling tweet and then I'm going to put us out of our JK Rowling. Our misery. Only to be graced by Logan Paul coming up. It really does only get worse. It's just sinking to the bottom. You know, I want to just say like amidst all of this, like J.K. Rowling is sending millions and millions and millions and millions of people.
to eviscerate Iman Khalif online. And one thing I want to say about people who are new to celebrity as Iman Khalif is, like when this was all... kicking up at the beginning like i don't know i went to iman khalif's instagram this morning and she has almost two million instagram followers now and that's amazing and i hope not only does she sue all these people and become rich but i hope she gets all the endorsements however
When this was starting, you know, just a few weeks ago, I went to her Instagram and she had like 20,000 followers. And I'm sure I was even a little late. Like, I'm sure it was way less than that when the Olympics started. And again, outside of the boxing world, nobody knew who she was. And the thing is, we think about Iman Khalif right now as a celebrity because she has become one over the last couple of weeks. But when you're very new to being a celebrity, you don't yet have the money.
the resources, the people to stand in between you and the online vitriol. Like you don't have any of that. Even if you're at the Olympics, a lot of people don't have money when they get to the Olympics. A lot of people do sex work to make it to the Olympics. And like... I say that all of this because JK Rowling was essentially sending a very, very angry mob, which she has a lot of power over to harass ultimately an unknown woman.
with very little resources to do anything to combat it absolutely i would actually argue it's a global digital bullying campaign that actually may be unprecedented in its scope You know, people talk about, like, cancel culture and pretend that they care about that. There's been a lot of hand-wringing over the last few years. And some of it justified hand-wringing about cyberbullying. And, you know, the celebrity case of this is often...
brought up is from 10 years ago. It's Justine Sacco, who was this woman who made a racist joke, then got on a plane. All of Twitter basically decides to get this woman fired by the time she lands. Twitter is a lot bigger than it was 10 years ago. And also a lot of the people who are participating in the dog pile.
against Iman Khalif, which is also completely unwarranted and completely based on lies. Many of the most powerful and famous people in the world are joining in the dog pile. I don't know that I've ever seen someone get bullied by... this many people in power. Someone who three weeks ago, basically none of us had heard of and who could not possibly be prepared for like the psychological stress that's, I mean, it's hard to even imagine.
¶ Logan Paul Joins the Fray
Like what it must be like to be the target of this. Logan Paul. I have to skip ahead to Logan Paul. But Logan Paul. I hope I never say that again. I do have to skip ahead to Logan Paul. Logan Paul tweets.
This is the purest form of evil unfolding right before your eyes in relation to the Iman Khalif Angela Karini match where he uses the same photo of Iman comforting Angela Karini. And it's just like... this is the purest form of evil like let me go back on your twitter and see if you've said it it's like anything about anything ever yeah have you ever commented on any
kind of women's issue at all have you ever said a word about domestic violence have you ever said a word about any man who's been outed as an abuser i don't think i can recall a case of logan paul ever being a spokesperson for that okay so we're going to transition from JK Rowling to Logan Paul I love my job I mean and I think that the transition from JK Rowling to Logan Paul is kind of an illustrative example of the type of
Talking points don't just remain contained in your little field where you developed them. So gender critical feminists. I mean, I've always been amazed by how not bothered they seem by how many like right wing male misogynists seem really enthusiastic about taking up all of their talking points. Yes. I feel like if I was, had, had.
found that all of the talking points I'd used for the last five years were suddenly enthusiastically being embraced by the US Republican Party, by Logan Paul, by Elon Musk, I would feel that I must have done something very seriously wrong.
¶ No Accountability for Misinformation
I say this on my podcast a lot, but it's like if Ben Shapiro is retweeting me, like if I'm having friendly engagement with Matt Walsh on Twitter, as JK Rowling has done. It's time to go to the mountains and like meditate for three months. She will never do it. No. But so Logan Paul tweets at the beginning of this. I can read the Logan Paul tweets. I'll do my Logan Paul voice.
This is the purest form of evil unfolding right before your eyes. Stop it. I think it's pretty good. No, I love it. It's so good. It's so good. Thank you. A man was allowed to beat up a woman on a global stage, crushing her life's dream while fighting for her deceased father. This delusion must end. Okay. First of all, a lot of people have their dreams crushed at the Olympics.
Like, I think first of all, like we have to start there. Most, most people, most people lose. Like, what do you think of the Olympics is? It's again, it's like weaponizing all of this stuff that has nothing to do with like gender or biology or protecting women or whatever they're claiming to care about. But it's like. Does he want.
participation trophies. But yeah, I also think that the language, the purest form of evil, the purest form of evil is about as black and white as it gets in terms of your moral nuance, right? I mean, look, if I was, if I were a TERF.
I feel like what I would be trying to... If I were a TERF... Exactly. If I were a TERF, and I believed that Iman Khalif was, you know, whatever... turfs think the criteria for a man is x y chromosomes or whatever okay suppose i thought that i feel like what i would be arguing and like the only sensible thing to argue from that position would be that i understand the the complexity of
the gender identity of this person, and I think this is unfair and should be excluded from women's sports. I don't think I would then escalate into saying that Iman Khalif is a man, nor would I suggest that she was motivated not by, you know, wanting to win an athletic competition in a sport that she's been practicing for years, but rather, you know, a sinister diabolical desire to get away with punching women. And then escalating from even that to simply saying it's the purest form.
¶ Dehumanizing Imagery and Racism
of evil we're ascribing like satanic motivations almost well something about a lot of like the language and imagery we're gonna get into that was used amidst this reminds me not to take like a really dark term but it reminds me a lot of the way that like nazis would talk about undesirables it's it's dehumanizing it's like fascist dehumanization the purest form of evil there was an image that went viral
after Iman's match with Angela Carini that someone had illustrated, which basically... portrayed them in the boxing ring and angela karini was drawn as this kind of like wavy looking very feminine thin white woman and iman khalif was depicted as a literal beast like a minotaur goat horned like like male bodybuilding physique, boxing gloves five times the size of her opponent. And the opponent is like a, you know, a 5'2 Caucasian biological, like Barbie.
It's just this imagery of King Kong and beauty, right? The first thing that I thought when I saw that, which went viral in part because... her opponent after angela karini like her her upcoming opponent which she would go on to be would share it on her instagram page along with a bunch of other memes calling iman a man ironically those two women iman khalif and this opponent who shared all these things about her being a man they were
physically very similar in stature. Yes. I really think people should look at this picture because I think... Yeah, I'll throw it up on the screen. The distance between what we're looking at here, which is two women who have more or less the same physique, although the opponent in blue actually to me looks taller and if anything more muscular than Iman, but is lighter skinned, right? But is white.
yeah this is where like it's hard there just is no non-racist explanation for this right because what we're seeing is iman now not just being portrayed as a man but being being portrayed as like a subhuman monster Well, right. And the first thing that I saw when that image circulated was that like, oh, this reminds me a lot of Nazi propaganda about Jews and other like, quote unquote, undesirables in.
the 30s and 40s like there's this one image in particular that i'll put on the screen but it was from 1942 and it's nazis would do this like in their propaganda where they would like portray jews sometimes as like ants yeah but also as just like you know like monsters and satanic looking ghouls and beasts and like seeing trans women or just like people
who people think are trans women portrayed that way, it's like very haunting to me because dehumanization is, you know, one of the steps of fascism. Absolutely. And I have to say, as a white trans woman, I have seen white trans women portrayed.
as monstrous or as like hulking muscular men who are dangerous to women or as kind of like hideous abominations. But I don't think I've ever seen... this level of like animalization with like literal horns there's just like i said i think it's only racism explains why this imagery would be invoked yeah yeah
¶ Influencers' Transphobic Doubling Down
Logan Paul, amidst people pointing out that he has done a spreading of misinformation, tweets. He's such a fucking idiot. Tweets. Oopsies. He literally starts the tweet with oopsies. Oopsies. Are you like oopsies? Are you fucking kidding me? Oopsies. I might be guilty of spreading misinformation along with the entirety of this app. So it's like, not only did I do it, but everyone did it. We were all doing it.
Like, haha, we all we all did a little oopsies. We all did like no Logan Paul. We did not all do a little. OK, Matt, get through the tweet. Although she's been previously disqualified for failing a quote unquote gender test and has XY chromosomes. False. That's false. Some sources say Iman Khalif was born a biological woman. I stand by my sentiment. And the sentiment in question was that Iman Khalif is the purest form of evil.
exactly and then so he basically is like oopsies i made a mistake and then in following right up because the common theme with all of these people is that none of them can ever be wrong even in the face of literally just being wrong he tweets again
Is my opinion that men shouldn't be allowed to compete in women's sports transphobic? With a poll where people can answer yes or no. Because it's like, okay, well, maybe I was wrong about Iman. Maybe Iman's not trans. But hey, it's still wrong for trans people to be included. It's just like... Yeah, it's like I may have been factually wrong, but in a different, more spiritual sense, I was correct.
¶ Frustration with Unchecked Misinformation
And then he immediately pivots to like whipping up a transphobic mob despite the fact that there's not even any fucking trans people involved in this situation. I got like really, really fucking frustrated when all of this was like swirling around.
And I made this Instagram post where I attempted to dispel all of like basically the mainstream narrative that people like Logan Paul and JK Rowling had propagated at this point. And it got so much traction on Instagram, which of course I was grateful for, but like... It made me simultaneously so upset that it is like people like me, people like you. It sometimes feels like all we can do is push back that like the people like.
who create the center of these conversations are like these just like fucking idiots. Yeah, the worst people and the least intelligent and the least scrupulous and the least moral people have the hugest microphone in the world. And they're all so rich. And so well cushioned in every aspect of life that they are answerable to no one, that they're accountable to no one. All of these people spread misinformation to enormous audiences. The other tweet that I had here was Elon Musk retweeted.
Riley Gaines, who posted a picture of Angela Carini writing, I stand with Angela Carini. Men don't belong in women's sports. And Elon Musk, to the tune of 1.8 million likes, wrote, absolutely. There was never a retraction from Elon Musk. There was never a retraction from Riley Gaines, bless her heart. There was never a retraction from J.K. Rowling or Logan Paul or any of these people. They can say whatever.
they want and they are accountable to no one and they are so and i cannot stress this enough so stupid and this is really i think exacerbated by elon's ownership of twitter where or x or whatever calling it Yeah, fuck X. Yeah, fuck X. I know. No one knows what you mean if you say X. Great branding, by the way. There's no accountability in part because Elon wants this website to be...
his propaganda tool. He's basically already encouraging it. Not only is there no accountability, but there's sort of rewards for engaging in these hate campaigns. There's something like spiritually good about talking about this. I feel like I'm like... expunging it from my body well because you feel good you feel insane when you're just looking at on twitter all day and it's like literally like how can literally everyone be this wrong and this cruel all at once and like just reason and
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¶ Media's False Narratives and Apologies
published entirely false narratives about Iman Caliph. The Boston Globe published an article titled... You want to read it? The title of the article is... transgender boxer advances. That's the title. Bold. The headline. Jesus fucking Christ. And then they released an apology in the form of an editor's note. Oopsies. They didn't say oopsies, but... Can you imagine? They start their editor's note with oopsies.
They wrote, a significant error was made in a headline on a story in Friday's print sports section about Algerian boxer Iman Khalif incorrectly describing her as transgender. She is not. Additionally, Our initial correction of this error neglected to note that she was born female. We recognize the magnitude of this mistake and have corrected it in the e-paper, the electronic version of the printed globe. This editing lapse is regretful and unacceptable, and we apologize to Kalief.
to Associated Press writer Greg Beacon, and to you, our readers. And I just want to say that, like, any of the retractions that were made from anyone about publishing false information about Aman Khalif, like... they usually correctly apologize about being wrong about Iman Khalif. But I do want to clarify that like being transgender is not a bad thing.
Yeah, I mean, that sounds pretty controversial. Could you elaborate on that? But it's just like, you know, yes, it is wrong to call someone trans who is not trans. Because that's just factually incorrect. But I guess what I'm trying to say is we shouldn't treat it as belittling to call someone trans. What we should be apologizing for, in addition to, you know, the Boston Globe doing bad journalism here.
is that in spreading this misinformation, it's just ultimately aiding in this anti-trans hysteria, right? It's about who picks it up and where it goes. And it's also kind of an Overton window shift where you have even people who are trying to be allies saying stuff like, no, no, no, she's not trans. She's a biological woman. They may as well be saying, no, she's not trans. She's a real woman.
This has been one of the kind of revealing things about this whole episode for me is that I feel like even if transphobia escalated to the point that they literally like rounded up and shot every trans person, I feel like...
¶ Trump's Inconsistent Transphobia
that still wouldn't be the end of transphobia. If trans people didn't exist, they would have to invent them. And they're doing it. They're inventing trans people to get mad at. I mean, and I think some of the motivation when it's like a newspaper doing it is that it's just like, man is dumb.
women's sports is like a great fox news chyron you know what i mean it's just like for low information people who aren't gonna follow up and who just trust whatever outrage stimulating ideas put in front of their eyes i mean it's the reason why like donald trump for example will use his talking point whereas trump doesn't he doesn't talk about trans people a whole lot i think it's i think transphobia is something that he doesn't really
emotionally connect with that much like in the way that I do think he is like very passionate himself about hating on you know migrants like he's very racist I don't I don't think transphobia comes like transphobia came naturally to Ron DeSantis Yes. And it shows, right? Because DeSantis almost couldn't help himself from bringing it up, right? And that's kind of the distinctive thing. Whereas with Trump, it always feels a little forced. He seems like he often can't even really get...
the transphobic talking point straight. Like he recently did this press conference where he was talking about Tim Woltz and he was like, yeah, Tim Woltz, he supports things you've never heard of. He's big into the transgender world. big into the transgender world. What does that mean? But the one thing that he does seem to be able to get right in terms of he uses the right transphobic rhetoric is he says, I will put an end to men in women's sports.
Yeah, I think he posted that, right? Yeah, he posted and he did post that specifically about the Iman Khalif situation. Yeah, he attached a picture of Iman Khalif. So I think there's a kind of sledgehammer simplicity to this talking point where it's kind of tempting for... media and for right-wing politicians to use it because the people in the audience don't need to have any idea what they're talking about just that slogan it gets people angry and
When people are angry, they click on things and they go to rallies and they vote. Yeah, I'm looking now. He said at one of his rallies, this young girl from Italy, she did not know what hit her. It's a person who transitioned. He was a good male boxer. Like he doesn't even know how to be transphobic. He's just saying he doesn't even know how to be transphobic. He doesn't even know. Baby's first transphobia.
also like again like listen to the vocabulary choice like this girl okay a girl not a woman a girl from italy was was beaten up by like a male boxer who a great male boxer well what's interesting though is that she for she oh my god misgendering donald trump oopsie well he said he has no he said he uses any pronouns right right oh he's fluid yes in the latest with laura ingram he's laura ingram yeah
Kamala Harris in her Twitter bio, which I never noticed until this morning, states her pronouns as she slash her. What are your pronouns? I don't want pronouns. I don't want pronouns. I saw that. So you're fluid? What is that? But what's interesting is he first describes Iman Khalif as a person who transitioned. Like, gender-neutral pronouns and gender-neutral language, I think, comes more naturally to Donald Trump than transphobia does.
¶ The Illegitimate "Trans Sports Debate"
Yeah, completely, completely good for her. Good for her. I want to talk a little bit about the trans sports debate and what I think it really is about. The trans sports debate in preparing for this episode, I learned, is about 100 years old. There's a century old history of sex testing specifically in sports and particularly administered to female athletes who are accused of not actually being women because they are too good at their sport. Interestingly.
Where do all signs lead when they don't lead to Reagan? Nazi Germany. It dates back to the 1936 Summer Olympics, which was held in Berlin in Nazi Germany, which dot... Olympic cycle was also used by Hitler as a way to like promote his regime. The idea to introduce gender testing in the Olympics was introduced by a bunch of Nazi party members who basically lobbied members of the IOC.
the International Olympic Committee, we're learning so much on this episode as part of their ongoing panic to weed out undesirables, right? And these Nazis were basically able to start a panic big enough for the IOC to introduce a rule that would allow athletes... to challenge the gender of their competitor via physical examination. And this humiliating ritual was only banned in 1996.
Michael Waters wrote a book about all of this called The Other Olympians, which is really interesting. And if you want to learn more about the history of sex testing in sports, you should go read it. I don't really want to talk a lot about this episode. Actually, I don't want to talk at all.
in this episode about trans fairness in sports and i want to explain why you know not only do i not want to talk about trans fairness in sports because iman isn't trans no one in the story is trans this was never actually like should have been about trans people in sports. But also, that's not the real reason. The real reason I don't want to talk about it is because I don't think that the trans fairness in sports debate is a legitimate debate, or at least...
¶ Wedge Issue for Dehumanization
It's not the one that we've turned it into. And I don't want to give credence to what I think is a stupid conversation. And the reason that I say that is because I don't think the people who start these conversations, these debates about trans inclusion in sports actually... care about fairness in sports or trans people who participate in them. Trans people are such a small minority of the population. Trans athletes are...
even proportionally a statistically smaller group than cis athletes. This is such a non-issue on so many levels. Like when we are having the argument about trans sports and should they or shouldn't they, it's like, it is almost always a hypothetical. What I think these debates really are, are people whose ultimate goal is for trans people to not exist in public life, people whose goal is to strip trans people of fundamental rights, not just to play in sports, but health care.
being legally recognized as people they say they are, that kind of thing. I think the trans sports debate is their way to get you to like dance with them. Right. I think if we turn this into a metaphor of like dance, I think they are trying to drag you out on the dance floor of like entertaining their desire for trans people to not have human rights. And I think if they come out and tell you.
that they don't want trans people to have human rights you're going to be like well no that's ridiculous i'm not a terrible person kind of i think it's an easier entry point for them to get you at but it wouldn't be fair right if if trans women were to compete with cis women and that's like they're appealing to logic a little bit because like you have this primal way to be like oh well no but if you were born as a man and they're dragging you on the dance floor a little bit
And I think that's where they get you to think, well, no, but then trans women aren't really women. And then you're also thinking about, well, do trans women pose a physical danger to cis women? And they're like getting these gears turning into your head. And, you know, are trans women?
stealing cis women's valor and achievements or jobs and then all of a sudden you're like doing the tango with a transphobe who has fully roped you into this conversation that i just don't want to have and so i don't give this an inch Because I don't think that anyone who starts these conversations about trans fairness in sports actually cares. I don't think that's what it's about.
And you know that that's the case because most of the people who at a high level are making or bringing this rhetoric up are people who never talk about women's sports in any other context. They don't watch women's sports. They don't know anything about women's sports. interested in it but it's like you say it's a wedge issue
It's, to mix the metaphor, it's a foot in the door. You know, another reason you know is, like, I, as a trans person, am very often approached online or even offline by people who demand to have an explanation from me as to, like, okay, but... Why are trans women trying to dominate all the women's sports? And it's like, well, why am I being asked about this? Because I'm trans. I never talk about sports outside of when people approach me about this.
I don't play sports. I don't like I have no expertise on this question at all. But they're approaching it to me because, again, it's like an issue where.
It would be a mistake, right, for me to respond being like, well, the question of fairness of trans women competing in women's sports is actually really complicated, and it's going to depend on the sport, and it depends on, you know, who are we talking about here? Like, at what age did a person... transition like are we talking about someone who's on hormones like right there's all these these factors that go into it but the minute you start doing that you're kind of
you're losing. Because like you say, the point of this talking point is that it introduces a conversation about trans women taking away things from cis women and trans women being a danger to cis women. And so... I think it's effective for them as a wedge issue for that reason, because you can spring this question on normal people and not necessarily immediately come across like you're a raving bigot, which is, you know.
Probably is the case if you lead with one of the more insane talking points. You're never going to have success as a anti-trans fanatic talking to the man on the street about autogynephilia or one of their more like abstract. Like abstract, almost a cult kind of talking points where it's like, but you can't lead with that or you sound like a crazy person.
But I think you can lead with, well, I'm concerned about fairness in sports without sounding like you have an almost perverse obsession with trans people. I mean, I think often the best thing to deflect is to simply point out, like... There's no trans woman in the Olympics. Why are you talking about this? Every time a trans woman wins any kind of sports competition at any level, it becomes national news, basically. And so people have a few cases.
on hand to point to but like there's not a single sport at any level that is being dominated by trans women none yeah literally it's like yes we have the whole country talking about like a high school field hockey game It's a completely hypothetical problem. Who gives a fuck? And it's like, I know you don't care about it. And neither do I. We don't care. We don't care. We're talking about the humanity of trans people. Like, that's what this is.
And that is why I'm not talking today about trans fairness in sports. I don't care. I will say if you genuinely care and want to engage with this on like a substantive level, a friend of mine, Skylar Baylor, who is a trans man.
who swam on the men's swimming team at Harvard, who has dedicated a big portion of his career to dispelling myths and explaining all these things about... variations in hormones and depending on when you started transitioning and what you've gone through and what you haven't gone through and where that puts you in the sports conversation like he explains it in
you know, really interesting and nuanced ways. But I think the majority of people don't actually care. The majority of people certainly participating in the conversation about Aman Khalif don't care. And we're not going to talk about it.
¶ Trump's Reaction and "Transvestigation"
Okay, Natalie and I just took a short break from recording and I checked my phone and the first thing I saw was Trump in a new video from a rally he did yesterday, which I guess he did last night. after because okay to contextualize this for anyone listening we are recording this the day after iman won the gold medal and trump said in a in a rally last night i'd like to congratulate the young woman who transitioned from a man into a boxer you saw he won you saw he won she won the gold medal
He doesn't know how to be transphobic. No, he doesn't. Like, the concept of transphobia, he's actually kind of, he's trying to learn, right? He's doing his best. He's putting in the work. Like, he's educating himself. He's listening and he's learning. He's listening, he's learning. He's taking his seat.
He's trying to learn how to be a transpo, but he's still having a little bit of a hard time with it. You know, sometimes he struggles with the language and the pronouns. He's trying to get better at always calling the people they're mad at a man. He'll get there. He'll get there. It can be tough, I guess, at first, you know, but I think we should give him some time. So I said it was all downhill from the top, but the truth is we are going to have a little bit of fun.
Can I say that? Or does that make it seem too lighthearted? Maybe I should just not say that. No, you can absolutely say that. Transvestigators are fun. It's like, I mean, they're fun in the way that like, I don't know, watching like documentaries about David Koresh is fun. But...
Is that your reference point for fun? It is for me, but I'm like a sicko. Learning about the Waco siege. That is kind of what I do for fun. Like I watch cults. Yeah. I mean, this is kind of a cult. It is kind of a cult and it's kind of a conspiracy theory. It's not kind of a conspiracy theory. It's a conspiracy theory.
¶ Anatomy of Transvestigation Culture
So what is it? So we're going to be talking about transvestigation, which is a word that we've dropped a number of times already in this episode. But I think we should visit it in its most extreme form in a way that demonstrates. how the people who are kind of the biggest people like in our media culture, like Elon Musk, like JK Rowling.
are actually inching their way and actually not even inching their way. They're kind of running towards the place where they are the people in these Facebook groups of transvestigating Hollywood. So what is transvestigating? Actually, Natalie, I'm going to have you take the wheel on this one. So transvestigating is basically armchair social media behavior where you sort of, in the way that conspiracy theorists do their own research, quote unquote, quote unquote, you investigate.
the gender of various celebrities or even sometimes non-celebrities on the basis of things like the width of their shoulders.
the tilt of their eyes, the width of their brow bone. I mean, there's hundreds of... We could go on for hours about what the... They're the kind of people who... post a lot of photographs of people with like circles and arrows and diagrams drawn all over it to decide like oh hollywood has been telling us that henry cavill is a man but if you look at the hip bone to waist ratio you can actually tell that he is a
she and a biological woman right so it's this this is like the basic concept of transvestigating you are investigating whether someone is transgender on the basis of whatever you've decided are the objective markers of biological sex. I've seen some things about the transvestigation of Henry Cavill and personally I'd be thrilled if it comes out that he's a woman because that means I get to finally be a heterosexual. Congratulations.
Which will thrill the family back home, I'm sure. Transvestigating, it's basically what we've done as a culture for the last two weeks around Amon Khalif. Like, this was one big transvestigation. Yeah, right. And it frankly was just as nonsensical, albeit less entertaining, because there was someone, again, a previously random, unknown person to the world suffering the abuse through all of it.
Right. And I had the pretense of being about fairness in women's sports, which transvestigation usually isn't. It's just like, I don't know, I guess a recreational activity to these people or like a conspiratorial rabbit hole. I have joined. A lot of transvestigation, as you can imagine, takes place on Facebook, in Facebook groups devoted to this, where it's just thousands of people posting pictures of celebrities.
zoomed in to where you can see each pixel and they're just like did you guys see this like do you think scarlett johansson's a woman like um i have joined a few of these facebook groups for research purposes And entertainment, I assume. I mean, it is entertaining. It's just like these people think that everyone is trans. And in fact, I remember seeing one about Caitlyn Jenner and then more recently, Dylan Mulvaney.
where because these people are out as trans, they actually reverse transvestigate them. Like, hold on, I'm going to pull this one up about Dylan Mulvaney. Transvestigators have reverse transvestigated, reverse transvestigated Dylan Mulvaney to conclude she must have been born a woman, forcibly transitioned to male as a kid, and then transitioned to... into female in adulthood yeah so they posted a picture of dylan mulvaney in one of these facebook groups and someone named krista wrote
Possibly female to male to female. There are other body markers to look at as well. Shoulder to hip ratio. Leg to arm length. The way their stride and strut presents itself. Sometimes it is very hard because some children are being transitioned before they hit puberty. So this person is basically arguing that Dylan Mulvaney was born female.
forcibly transitioned to male in her like infancy and then later came out as a female which she was actually born as there's another comment on this post that refers to dylan as a quote possible double flipper.
is a new piece of jargon to me i have never heard the term double flip but these people are so deep in it they have a term for this when someone someone like secretly transitions twice and then presents to the media as a trans woman even though they're a cis woman who transitions to male first before tricking everyone by transitioning again.
¶ Andrew Tate and Absurdity
And that is most insane, what these people are claiming, is essentially, it's a conspiracy theory, right? Where they're saying that basically all celebrity, all Hollywood actors, literally all of them are trans, right? So Scarlett Johansson is a man. Henry Cavill is a woman. Any celebrity you can think of basically has been transvestigated at this point. It could happen to you.
Andrew Tate. And it has. Can we look at the transvestigation of Andrew? Let's do it. Let's do it. Andrew Tate was transvestigated this week. Here, I'm going to send this one to you. All right. So we have. I mean, I guess I should describe for the people not watching the visuals, what I'm looking at here. It's a Facebook post about Andrew Tate.
caption i guess she forgot to wear her fake eggplant emoji laughing crying emoji and it's a picture of andrew tate in a speedo and then perversely like zoomed into the like extreme like pixelated agree on the crotch of this veto where i mean it is like admittedly like a slightly bewildering picture to me like what like If it's a tuck, it's a good tuck. It's a really good tuck. It's a really good tuck. Like, because...
I cannot tell that he has a penis. Are we transvestigating Andrew Tate? I mean, well, that's the thing, right? It's like you start engaging with these people and now you're doing it, right? And now you're walking down the street wondering, is everyone trans?
I don't know is is is my mom trans is my like is like I don't know am I was am I actually am I a double flipper like was I born like I don't know I'm starting to question I'm questioning everything you know you you listening home could be trans like i don't know did your parents trans you when you were a kid are you on the precipice of becoming a double flipper i couldn't prove that they didn't and isn't that the same as as evidence
Maybe we are all trans. Well, I mean, maybe that's, I don't know, maybe that's what we should be striving for. If everyone's trans, then no one will be. Transnormativity. Yeah, exactly. Victoria comments, he slash she blocked me for calling him slash her a transformer. They do have so many amazing words for trans people that I don't even, they're using them as pejoratives, but like transformer.
That's kind of cunt. It's hard to get mad about being called a transformer. It's like when they call gay people members of the alphabet mafia. The alphabet mafia. I think it makes us seem a little bit too cool. It does. Why are you making it sound so cool? But...
You know, I tacked this on to my outline for today's show because even though these people, it's like... laughably insane what these people are doing jk rowling is barreling towards this it's kind of the ultimate conclusion of their rhetoric right which is that
¶ Gender Policing and Witch Hunts
Basically, you know, whatever I perceive is what the gender of a person is. So J.K. Rowling thinks that she can intuit like, oh, I just saw with my eyes a man punching a woman, meaning like she can just she thinks that she can always tell. Well. of course these people inevitably run into the fact that most people cannot in fact always tell and you know that i mean this is something that we have just attempted to discuss for a long time in trans discourse you know the fact that like
Masculine women are often casualties of transphobic witch hunts too, because bathroom panics often target masculine women. I mean, I think that probably a feminine trans woman is in a lot of ways less likely to get. confronted in a woman's bathroom than a masculine cis woman because a lot of people cannot in fact always tell and trans women are accused of like reducing womanhood to feminhood stereotype to like long hair and makeup and dresses or whatever
But a lot of these people, that does in fact seem to be how they perceive gender, right? There's been multiple other cis women in this Olympics who have been accused of being men on the basis that, you know, They're muscular and not wearing makeup because they're in the Olympics, an athletic competition. There's a video on Twitter. I should find it.
this female athlete like in tears and she's wearing like now a full face of makeup and like feminine clothing jewelry and everything to try to i guess re-establish herself as a woman in the eyes of the public because people see a lot of female athletes, they have muscle because they're athletes, right?
And a lot of people see that, and they don't see any overt feminine signifiers, and so they see them as men. All of this line of thinking that a person does not get to tell you what gender they are, you get to tell everyone else what gender they are. It does lead to transvestigation.
And in some ways, that to me is the significance of this entire story about Iman Khalif, is that this represents a kind of global mainstreaming of a transvestigation witch hunt. Right. I mean, there were... katie ledecky is another one who there were multiple like viral posts about katie ledecky not being a woman and i'm looking at this one right now in front of me it's from ian miles chong who's another genius he wrote
is this a man or a woman? How you respond will determine the strength of your character. And it's like, okay, yeah, whatever, Ian Milestrong. But what's interesting is that all of these tweets with Katie Ledecky or with Aman Khalif, like...
With Katie, they use pictures of her where she's just gotten out of the pool. Obviously, she doesn't have makeup on because she was fucking swimming. Her hair slicked back. And they choose photos. And J.K. Rowling did this, too, with Iman Khalif, where it's just women. who don't look feminine in that moment. And like, that's what this is. They choose an unflattering photo of a woman. And then that's the proof that she's a man. Right. Again, like.
As far as I'm aware, this is the first time that anyone has called Katie Ledecky's gender into question, but it's being questioned right because it's a photo of her. After getting out of the water, where your hair is slicked back, which causes you to have the appearance of a larger forehead, and she's not wearing makeup because...
You already said it. She was swimming. I don't need to explain why an Olympic swimmer might not be wearing makeup during competition, do I? Okay, but to Ian Miles Chong, you do. To Ian Miles Chong, you do. And that is where this is all kind of headed, right? The ultimate social pressure that's going to be applied is for women. in all circumstances, to never be seen without a full face of makeup.
nails, hair, you know, that's what a woman is going to have to do to not be transvestigated. And even then it won't be enough because as we can see from these transvestigation groups, you know, they're transvestiting Scarlett Johansson. I mean, I think it's worth talking about how this disproportionately affects women of color. It disproportionately affects butches and masculine women. But ultimately, there's nothing that will save you from being transvestigated by certain people.
¶ Lessons Learned and Moving Forward
It's not that men don't get transvestigated too, but I think it's most, I think it ultimately will lead to increased gender policing of women in general at all times. So to conclude, Iman Khalif, as you know, Ended up winning gold. Congrats to her. I hope she has a lifetime of peace and happiness. I also hope she sues the fuck out of all these people who lied. And considering JK Rowling is in the UK where libel laws are...
flimsier and easier to leverage. Yeah, Iman on the off chance you're watching this, England has very has libel laws that really kind of favor the plaintiff. So you might be a good place to start. And we know that she's got money. So just a thought. Iman beat out her competitors, including Anna Hamori, the Hungarian fighter who shared memes of her the previous day about Iman being a man. Last Monday, the IBA, International Boxing Association,
held a press conference led by none other than Umar Kremlev. A room full of journalists convened in person and Umar joined over Zoom. And according to the Washington Post, Umar talked in circles for 90 minutes about... testosterone and the need to protect women's sports and also admonish the olympics opening ceremony for hosting drag queens because you know why not
And when journalists asked repeatedly for evidence of Iman's gender test, because that's the only reason any of them wanted to speak to him, he said that he couldn't provide any and wouldn't provide any. And eventually, many of those journalists just left the press conference while Umar was still talking. So, Natalie, in this world of increasing transvestigation, the gender surveillance panopticon, as I call it, where do we go from here?
How do we not barrel towards a world where this becomes the norm and where like one of the most popular self-identified feminists of our time is championing the cause of making women act more feminine lest they be described as men? well i think it starts by not allowing this whole incident to be memory hold right a lot of times
bigoted movements rely on denial of their own horrible behavior or they just rely on people forgetting and moving on to get away with continuing to do it again, right? So I think maybe keep this whole situation in mind and all of its ugly consequences. the next time someone is being globally transvestigated and, you know, push back against people doing it. Remember that these people were all wrong last time. And I think that...
being aware of the way a certain type of moral panic functions can help you to kind of not get swept up into like really ugly witch hunt type of behavior. Also, you know, I think sometimes... The comedy of transvestigation can be helpful because transvestigators are ridiculous. And I think just laughing at this as like abnormal behavior in some ways is more effective than arguing against it because some people in this conversation...
¶ Legal Action and Final Thoughts
JK Rowling among them are not available for a rational conversation to be had. So what can you do but laugh at them and move on? Oh, you know what? This is where we'll end the episode. I just opened Twitter. iman khalif has filed a legal complaint for online harassment oh my god we're on the up and up kids we're ending on a high note we're winning i hope she gets a lot of money she deserves it hashtag paris 2024 hashtag paris 2024
Natalie, where everybody knows where to find you, but I have a ritual of doing this. So I must ask, where can people find you? And you should, if you haven't. Go watch our videos. Thank you so much. I am ContraPoints. That's the name of the YouTube channel. And it's also my handle on Twitter, on Instagram. I guess add me on threads too, in case we decide that, you know, we don't.
enjoy using a website owned by the kind of person who does what we've been talking about this entire episode and uh yeah thanks so much for having me on again oh my god thank you for being here if you've made it this far you're welcome or i'm sorry i hope
that you had a little bit of fun today um no that's not what i want to say if you learned something from this if you found this meaningful feel free to share it with your family member on facebook who shared some really disgusting shit over the last two weeks And I love you. I appreciate you. We are all in this together. I love you so much. And until next time, stay fruity. Cut. That's good.
