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4OURPLAY - A Swinger Podcast

Bella & Jase - Millennial Swingers4ourplay.com

Join the journey, experiences, and sexual adventures of two high school sweethearts navigating through the swinging lifestyle as millennials. Bella and Jase share their stories and conversations in a fun and candid way, making you feel like you've been friends for years. Come along for the ride. Let's play!

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Episodes

Ep 151 - A Change Of Scenery (MFFM)

In Episode 151 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a spicy story time with new friends. Unlike most of their lifestyle experiences, this one happened at home rather than while traveling. They break down how it came together and why it was so memorable. Mentioned in this episode: Bella’s obsession of the week: Sonic Crossworlds Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Su...

Feb 18, 202640 minSeason 1Ep. 152

Ep 150 - Friendships First, Play Second: What Changed Everything for Us in the Swinging Lifestyle

In Episode 150 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share how their lifestyle journey has evolved over the years. They talk about the lessons they’ve learned along the way and why shifting their focus to friendships first has made their experience more meaningful, connecting, and fulfilling. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Tripod Bella’s obsession of the week: Magnetic Pop Socket Bella’s obsession of the week: Hair Curler Where else to find us: Website: http:/...

Feb 11, 202621 minSeason 1Ep. 151

Ep 149 - The Most Frequently Asked Swinger Lifestyle Questions No One Really Talks About

In Episode 149 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into the most common swinger lifestyle questions that no one really talks about. From that time of the month to protection during play and more, listen along as they break down the questions people regularly ask but rarely hear openly discussed. Mentioned in this episode: How to introduce your partner to the lifestyle video Rules and boundaries video Mojoupgrade Quiz Jase’s obsession of the week: Shrinking season 3 Bella’s artis...

Feb 04, 202651 minSeason 1Ep. 150

Ep 148 - Everything You Need To Know About Spicy Cruises: How to Prepare For Your First Swinger Cruise | Spicy Cruise Guide

In Episode 148 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know before attending your very first spicy cruise. They cover tips and insights for Bliss, Temptation, and Desire Cruises, from parties and packing, to food, expectations, and everything in between. Be sure to watch along for a complete guide to what you need to know before your first spicy cruise! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.c...

Jan 28, 202635 minSeason 1Ep. 149

Ep 147 - All Hands On Deck (O*gy)

In Episode 147 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a story from Bliss Cruise, reminiscing about a memorable o*gy at sea with a group of amazing friends. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Mario Party Superstars Bella’s obsession of the week: No Broke Boys by Tinashe and Disco Lines Bella’s obsession of the week: High Top Platform Converse Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vacati...

Jan 21, 202654 minSeason 1Ep. 148

Ep 146 - Our 2025 Swinger Wrapped | Tier List: Swinger Vacations, Experiences, and More

In Episode 146 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase reveal their 2025 Swinger Wrapped. They cover lifestyle vacations, new experiences, favorite moments, and everything that made 2025 unforgettable! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s obsession of the week: Marty Supreme Jase’s song of the week: 4 Raws Remix by EsDeeKid ft. Timothee Chalamet Jase’s song of the week: New York from Two Strangers Bell...

Jan 14, 20261 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 147

Ep 145 - Temptation Grand Cruise November 2025 Highlights

In Episode 145 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from Temptation Grand Cruise in November 2025! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s album of the week: S o Close To What Deluxe by Tate Mcrae Jase’s obsession of the week: Zara Larsson - Up Close Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Boo...

Jan 07, 202649 minSeason 1Ep. 146

Ep 144 - Temptation Grand Cruise November 2025 Full Honest Review (Spicy Cruise Review)

In Episode 144 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Temptation Grand Cruise in November 2025. They discuss the parties, food, seminars, themes, and more! There were multiple changes to this sailing, so listen along to hear all the details! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s song of the week: Chains Of Love by Charli XCX Jase’s obsession of the week: The Hous...

Dec 31, 202550 minSeason 1Ep. 145

Ep 143 - Bliss Cruise November 2025 Highlights

In Episode 143 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from the Bliss Swinger Cruise in November 2025! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s obsession of the week: I Love LA Bella’s song of the week: Bittersweet by Madison Beer Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vacation wit...

Dec 24, 20251 hr 20 minSeason 1Ep. 144

Ep 142 - Our Swinger Bucket List

In Episode 142 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase talk about their swinger bucket list! From positions to places and everything in between, listen along as they dive into a list that’s been growing for years. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s album of the week: Midnight Sun by Zara Larsson Jase’s song of the week: Man I Need by Olivia Dean Bella’s obsession of the week: The Life Of A Show Girl by Taylor Swift Bella’s song of the week: Blue Moon by Zara Larsson Bella’s obsession of t...

Dec 17, 202549 minSeason 1Ep. 143

Ep 141 - Bliss Cruise November 2025 Full Honest Review (Swinger Cruise Review)

In Episode 141 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about the Bliss Cruise in November 2025. They discuss the parties, food, seminars, themes, and more! There were multiple changes to this sailing, so watch along to hear all the details! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s song of the week: Likey Likey by Young Miko Bella’s artist of the week: ADÉLA Bella’s obsessi...

Dec 10, 202548 minSeason 1Ep. 142

Ep 140 - Bella Squ*rted For The First Time!

In Episode 140 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a story from Bliss Cruise. They talk about a truly unforgettable night where Bella squ*rted for the first time. Mentioned in this episode: Bella’s obsession of the week: Wicked Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Subscribe to our Youtube ! Our Video Podcast Shop our swingers merch : http://4ourplay.com/shop E-mail:...

Nov 26, 202558 minSeason 1Ep. 141

Ep 139 - What Swinger Playrooms Are Really Like?

In Episode 139 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase pull back the curtain on what swinger playrooms are really like! From what to wear to how the spaces are designed and what to expect, they cover all the details. Watch along and get ready to walk into your first swinger playroom with confidence and excitement. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show Bella’s obsession of the week: Digimon Story Time Stranger Where else to find us: Websit...

Nov 19, 202524 minSeason 1Ep. 140

Ep 138 - Our Controversial Swinger Hot Takes - Part 2

In Episode 138 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share their controversial swinger hot takes. They discuss lifestyle music, swinger labels, food, and more! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Masterchef Duos Bella’s Song Of The Week: Nails Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Subscribe to our Youtube ! Youtube Podcast Shop our swingers merch : http:...

Nov 12, 202540 minSeason 1Ep. 139

Ep 137 - 5 More Things Everyone Gets Wrong About Swingers: Swinger Myths & Misconceptions Part 2

In Episode 137 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into 5 more common swinger myths and misconceptions. They unpack everything from lifestyle stereotypes to relationship myths, sharing real insights from their own experiences! This is part 2 of this series! Listen to part 1 here! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: The Only One Left by Riley Sager Jase's album of the week: Smoochies by Ashnikko Bella’s obsession of the week: Pokemon Legends Z-A Where else to...

Nov 05, 202521 minSeason 1Ep. 138

Ep 136 - BINGO! (MFFM)

In Episode 136 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase tell a story from Temptation Cruise! They share about an unforgettable night and swinger bingo! Book Your Next Cruise With Us Book Your Next Lifestyle Vacation Previous Story Time Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: t*t4tat by Tate Mcrae Jase’s obsession of the week: The Long Walk Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vacation with us: 4ourplay...

Oct 29, 202551 minSeason 1Ep. 137

Ep 135 - What We Wish We Knew Before Swinging: 5 Game-Changing Lessons

In Episode 135 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share five things they wish they’d started earlier in their swinging lifestyle journey. Listen along as they talk about changing play dynamics, embracing lifestyle vacations, and more! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Been Platt Jase's album of the week: Ich Lieb Mich, Ich lieb Mich Nicht by Nina Chuba Bella’s obsession of the week: Together Bella’s obsession of the week: The Map That Leads To You Where else t...

Oct 22, 202524 minSeason 1Ep. 136

Ep 134 - Swinger Neighbors, Grand Slams & More - Your Juicy Confessions & Storytimes!

In Episode 134 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase react to listener submissions. They share listeners’ stories about a swinger cul-de-sac, grand slams, and new fantasies. Listen along as they dive into juicy listener confessions you won’t believe! Submit your stories here: Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s album of the week: There I Said It by Caity Baser Jase's obsession of the week: Gilmore Girls Bella’s obsession of the week: Folded by Kehlani Bella’s obsession of the week: Djing...

Oct 15, 202547 minSeason 1Ep. 135

Ep 133 - 5 Things Everyone Gets Wrong About Swingers: Swinger Myths & Misconceptions Part 1

In Episode 133 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into 5 common swinger myths and misconceptions. They unpack everything from lifestyle stereotypes to relationship myths, sharing real insights from their own experiences! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Two O’Clock On A Tuesday At Trevi Fountain Jase's obsession of the week: The Guest List Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vac...

Oct 08, 202527 minSeason 1Ep. 134

Ep 132 - First Swingers Club Experience: What We Loved & Would Do Differently (First Time Files #1)

In Episode 132 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase reminisce about their very first experience at a swingers club. They share the wild stories from an unforgettable night, reflect on what they would have done differently as well as what they loved, and reveal how the club experience has changed for them over the years. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Manchild by Sabrina Carpenter Jase's obsession of the week: Madden 25 Jase’s obsession of the week: Ashnikko Bella’...

Sep 24, 202551 minSeason 1Ep. 133

Ep 131 - Naughty N'awlins 2025 Full Honest Review

In Episode 131 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Naughty N’awlins 2025. They discuss the parties, hotels, seminars, themes, and more! Mentioned in this episode: Book Naughty N’awlins 2026 with us: 4ourplay.com/nawlins Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Bella’s obsession of the week: Ninja Luxe Cafe Pro Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next v...

Sep 03, 202557 minSeason 1Ep. 132

Ep 130 - Naughty N'awlins 2025 Highlights

In Episode 130 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from Naughty N’awlins 2025! They reminisce about the spicy nights, the funny memories, and everything in between! Mentioned in this episode: Book Naughty N’awlins 2026 with us: Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s obsession of the week: Ryan Trahan 50 states series Jase’s song of the week: Vacay by Amine Bella’s song of the week: Jump by BLACKPINK B...

Aug 27, 20251 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 118

Ep 129 - A Night With New And Old Friends Alike (O*gy)

In Episode 129 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a story from Temptation Cruise! They relive a memorable night with old friends and new friends alike! Book Your Next Cruise With Us Book Your Next Lifestyle Vacation Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Polo by Kim Petras Bella’s song of the week: On My Mind by Alex Warren and Rose Bella’s obsession of the week: Cowboys Hats Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.c...

Jul 30, 202549 minSeason 1Ep. 130

Ep 128 - Swinging Lifestyle Terms - Most Commonly Used Words And Definitions For Newbies

In episode 128 of the 4OURPLAY Podcast, Bella and Jase go over the most commonly used words and definitions in the swinging lifestyle! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Family Business by Lawerence The Band Jase’s obsession of the week: Echo Valley Bella’s obsesion of the week: Love Island Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Subscribe to our Youtube ! Youtube Podca...

Jul 16, 202555 minSeason 1Ep. 129

Ep 127 - Buk*ake, Str*p-Ons & Bedroom Blunders - Your Juicy Confessions & Storytimes!

In Episode 127 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase react to listener submissions. They share listeners’ stories about buk*ake fantasies, first-time str*p-on experiences, and bedroom blunders. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Manchild by Sabrina Carpenter Jase's obsession of the week: F1 Bella’s album of the week: Beautiful Chaos by Katseye Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The Game: http://4ourplay.com/games Book your next vacation with ...

Jul 09, 202536 minSeason 1Ep. 127

Ep 126 - Sensationalized & Stigmatized: The Harsh Reality Of Swinging In Mainstream Media

In episode 126 of the 4OURPLAY Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into how swinging is portrayed in mainstream media: from headlines and court cases to TV shows and books. Are these portrayals helping or hurting the lifestyle? They unpack the sensationalism and what representation really means for the community. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Sapphire by Ed Sheeran Jase’s obsession of the week: Ballerina Bella’s obsession of the week: Friendship Where else to find us: Website: htt...

Jul 02, 20251 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 127

Ep 125 - Sexy Energy Isn’t Constant - And That’s Okay In The Swinging Lifestyle

In episode 125 of the 4OURPLAY Podcast, Bella and Jase talk about what it’s like to not always feel sexy in a lifestyle environment and why that’s completely normal. They touch on how their dynamic has changed over the years and how finding what works best for them has made all the difference! Mentioned in this episode: Love languages podcast Jase’s song of the week: Just Keep Watching by Tate Mcrae Jase’s obsession of the week: Overcompensating Bella’s song of the week: Cliche by MGK Where else...

Jun 25, 202544 minSeason 1Ep. 126

Ep 124 - A Delightful Surprise (O*gy)

In Episode 124 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a story from Bliss Cruise! They share a story about a fun filled night that ended with an extremely unexpected experience in their cabin with friends! Book Your Next Cruise With Us Book Your Next Lifestyle Vacation Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Sally When The Wine Runs Out by Role Model Bella’s song of the week: ExtraL by Jennie ft. Doechii Where else to find us: Website: http://4OURPLAY.com/ 4OURPLAY The ...

Jun 18, 202534 minSeason 1Ep. 125

Ep 123 - Bliss Cruise April 2025 Highlights

In Episode 123 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from the Bliss Swinger Cruise in April 2025! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Get on the November 2025 waiting list Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s obsession of the week: Greenbay Jersey Jase’s song of the week: Sugar Water Cyanide by Rebecca Black Bella’s song of the week: Gnarly by Katseye Bella’s obsession of the week: L...

Jun 11, 20251 hr 21 minSeason 1Ep. 124

Ep 122 - Bliss Cruise April 2025 Full Honest Review (Swinger Cruise Review)

In Episode 122 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Bliss Cruise April 2025. They discuss the parties, food, seminars, themes, and more! This was their favorite Bliss April yet, so make sure to tune in! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Get on the November 2025 waiting list Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s song of the week: Running From Myself by Caity Baser Jase’s obsession of the week: S...

Jun 04, 202546 minSeason 1Ep. 123
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