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It's the voices of young people. All right, you have any other questions before we get going? If I sound really scatterbrained or say a lot of homes and aahs, what do we do? Hi everybody. Welcome to the voices of young people podcast. I'm your host, dr. Josh Packard. I'm really excited to be here today, with one of our interns, Donna. You want to introduce yourself? Hi, I'm Donna. And Donna told, tell everybody a little bit about who you are and what you do. Yeah.
So I've been interning with spring tide for my spring semester. Currently a second year college. And I'm a Psychology major and pass back, and we've been so happy to have you. I mean, your work that you've done the perspective you brought for us has been invaluable. Oh, stop it. I'm serious. It's been, it's been really great. Thank you. You know, a big part of what we've been working on while you've been with us is you came into sort of the middle of the belonging report which comes out
here in a few days. And there were some really important findings out of that report that I kind of wanted to talk with you about today and get your perspective on not necessarily like the validity of the findings but but more so about how you see these things showing up in your own life and and chief among those, you know, we found Is right in line with what Cigna and other large Studies have found about
isolation and loneliness. Namely, that it's impacting younger Generations more so than ever before. Our data importantly, I think goes all the way down to 13 where most study stop at 18 and shows the these. These younger Generations are more isolated than any other generation and more isolated than they've ever been there. Lonelier. They're more socially disconnected. And I'm wondering, you know, as you, you know, you were right in this target age group.
In range, you've already completed a lot of those years between 13 and 25. How do you see this showing up in your own life? yeah, I mean, I think I mean you still connect with people through technology but it's so
much easier. So if I have the opportunity to go out somewhere and do something with people or just message them through my phone, I would choose that just because it takes less effort, and in the moment I think they're both equally good ways of connection, but I know in the long run, it is not as good at Waiting long lasting relationships as doing
face-to-face. Yeah, definitely. Oh, I see what me and so what makes you feel that way, that it's not as that, it's useful, but maybe not as conducive to long-term sustainability. I mean, there's only so much you can communicate and only so deep. You can get when you're talking and saying LOL, and using emojis. I mean, you know, we have an acute emojis. Now though, Donna, I do write the ultimate way to communicate. Yeah.
It's definitely a lot more superficial than face-to-face communication is and it's also more limiting, you know, there aren't as many opportunities for the conversation to Branch out there are fewer opportunities for new people to join the conversation and I think that definitely impacts how I connect personally. It's really interesting that you brought up this that they're less when you're doing electronic Communication in a lot of ways.
It's very confined, and constrained, and it leaves less room for other people. Going talk about that and why? That's important. Yeah, so I mean I think everyone is susceptible to this but I definitely can fall into an echo chamber with who I talk to. And it's good to talk to people that you have common interests with and people, you know, you have similar perspectives on the world but that can be really limiting for your personal growth.
I think it's important to listen to people who don't think like, you and who aren't interested in what? You're interested in, hmm? Yeah, it's a really good point. The one of the things when you talk about personal growth, I mean, you know, the big focus at spring tide is as we say, you know, the intersection between the sort of religious and daily
lives or inner and outer lives. And you're talking about personal growth here with other people is that it does, that does that lack of sort of bringing in outside voices? Do you think that has an impact on the development of your spiritual life? Definitely, definitely 100% And I wish it didn't. But the thing is, once you now that that's the common way that people communicate, it's even harder to get away from, you know, technology.
I don't think I could just walk into a religious institution that I know nothing about just because I'm curious and, you know, feel comfortable with doing it, but I wish I could because it's definitely the way I talk to people. It definitely Ntly limits, my spiritual growth and I wish it didn't. What do you think would do you think that you'd be more challenged? Or is it that you think you would that you would find something that resonates with you?
I mean, what do you think? I know that you don't know but if you're guessing, what do you think that you would be missing? Yeah, I don't know. I don't, I don't want to necessarily be challenged. I kind of have such a diverse. I, such a hippie perspective on spirituality and I think, I think every religion is great and, you know, amazing and I don't really want to change anyone's mind.
I have my mind changed but I could definitely resonate with aspects of religiosity and, you know, every religion and, and I think that's a really great way to connect with people, and I feel like I'm missing out on it. Yeah, that's a really good point. I think, even back to my own college experience is like, I don't know that I like your, you're spot-on, like, in the days, you know, I'm not I don't
think I'm that old. You may think otherwise but certainly, I can Collagen like Curry, social media, and those kinds of things. And the conversations that I remember having in that very stereotypical, like, around the dorm room, you know, way that doesn't actually happen all that often anymore, if it ever really did, they weren't so much about changing people's minds, but you brought this really interesting point that I'd like to talk more about that.
There were like aspects of people's religious faith and practice that I did end up taking into consideration. Whether it was about how to pray, or how to worship and what rituals were Tonor how to be intentional and thoughtful that those didn't? It becoming now that I think about it, rick really important pieces for me.
Can you talk more about that? Yeah, definitely I mean I just think people who are more religious in general, there is this collectivistic attitude about it and I think it's so amazing that people will have a community and they all have a similar perspective and they're all there for each other. You know, like we all care about each other, you can go to their house and ask for a cup of sugar if you're making.
Cookies on you ran out of sugar. And I feel like my spirituality is very individualistic and, you know, that's good in some, in some ways but but in other ways, I don't like it. I wish I had a community of people who had similar beliefs to me because, yeah, I don't know. You just need people to fall back on, you know.
Yeah. It's a really lovely way of saying that I mean and makes me like I want that for you too, like the right, Unity of people that you can fall back on and and in some ways and this, you know, this that is what concerns me personally about. The these rates of isolation and loneliness, among young people, especially because these are such formative and important times to be finding those
communities of people. And I don't know if they're well, we know that they're not finding them, all right? You've recently, I mean, within the last few years, anyway, you you transition from high school to college. How did that impact this? You know, did you find yourself like, was it a relief to get out of high school? Or was it like, oh, there's a lot. There's a loss of community there and I don't know how to replace it. There was no police.
There was a relief because I'm both there's relief, because I was ready, you know, I outgrew the high school experience, but at the same time it is very comforting to know that I have a group of friends. And even if we're only friends because we're forced to spend eight hours a day together, we're still friends, you know? And you'll still be here
tomorrow and I'll still see you. That was there's a lot of security in that and then in college It's a free-for-all, there's there's less opportunity to meet people. Schedules are all over the place and you you really have to put in effort if you want to find friends. They don't just fall into your lap. So that's yeah, that's a really good point. Like, in some ways it's the least structured Time of Your Life between this K through 12 education experience.
And then for most people if you know obviously not everybody has a gap between K12 education in the workforce and some people are doing them. Concurrently a lot of people are. In fact, if not East. But but if, but regardless like the notion at some point, you'll you'll, you will certainly have a professional job. You're very bright, and you will have this regular schedule with colleagues that you see, on a regular basis.
But right now, you're right, like, you are in sort of the space where every day is, maybe not up for grabs, but it's a lot less structured, right? And it's when you need people, you know, it's a transitional period and it's, it's really when you need to find P. Even if you just even if you have people who you can just commiserate with, you know, you don't have those people and it's tough.
Well and not. So one of the things that we found in the study about you know it's not the study isn't just about as you know like documenting the rates of loneliness and isolation but then also what can be done about it and as we talked, you know, as I've been around the last 10 years or so, doing some research and talking with people who are practitioners in the field, I get a lot of the sense of like, what we have to be doing something more than just
listening. But you know, to young people like we have to be doing G. We have to be moving them from one state to another state of religious being or something. And it kind of sounds like what you're saying is that, at least at this time, in your life, it would be great. If somebody was just there just sit and listen.
Yeah. 100% or even just like, everyone's in the same boat when they go to college and everybody struggling, and everyone's kind of fused, and I kind of thought everyone being in that boat would sort of form these relationships and it really hasn't, because people just choose to be Confused and lonely with their phone in their hand. You know what, people need confused and lonely with their phone in their hand.
That's just such a I mean I think that's such a succinct way of putting it in certain sort of sad and, you know, as you're talking like it strikes. Me that maybe it's like it's just enough connection, right? To make you keep turning to it but it's not really enough to fill you up. Exactly, exactly. Yeah, yeah. Well, it's certainly understandable that people. You know, in those moments that they would say, like well at least I have this and they would dig further into it even if it
doesn't isn't ultimately. The thing. That's super useful, it sort of means that like adults, who are trying to reach out to young, people would do well to keep pushing for those in-person relationships, huh? Uh, huh. I think sometimes, I mean, I'm, you know, I'm, I'm a resistant when people who are older than me, you know, sort of tell me what I need sure, if they phrase it like that, me too. And I'm 40 right? You know, but people that are older than you do.
Have a lot of wisdom. And I think it's all about framing it in the in the right way and persistence and I think, I think you can get through the young people that way. Yeah. Well it sounds like even maybe taking a pause on the telling them what to do part and just sort of listening to what's going on with them, let them vent to you. Young people have so much to be sad about and worried about, you know, and they need someone to Listen and go. Yep, I get it, I get it.
I understand where you're coming from. And, you know, actually, I'm not all that different from you either. I'm also concerned about that, and I'm also worried about that, and I think that's an important conversation to have. Yeah, it's like, I'm completely
agree. Well, John, thank you for just sitting and reflecting with me for a few minutes here on on belonging the report again is belonging reconnecting America's loneliest Generations. Your work is reflected in the report and many of the things that we do at spring tide and so not just Just a thank you for this podcast, but thank you for all that you've done for us and it's much appreciated. Thank you very much Josh. It was great talking to you.
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