This last episode in the series of Productive Conflict, has Inge and Pam walking through the steps in the practice. This information will assist you to be prepared to enter into a conflict productively. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
This week's episode is part 2 and a continuation of what it means to have productive conflict. Inge and I discuss what are triggers and how they can adversely effect your capacity to enter into a conflict productively. We also talk about ways to work with them, put them aside for the time being, or eliminate them. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Pam and Inge Michielsen discuss the value of productive conflict, what it is, and also, what it isn't! Listen to its entirety to get some good examples too, so that you can begin to practice being in conflict, productively. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
We are back with Susie Walton! The real reason we love being grandparents - be supportive vs giving advice. Establish an adult relationship with your kids and love on your grandkids. Be a resource and make it safe for them to ask you for help or a shoulder to listen. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
This conversation with Susie Walton - Parenting & Grandparenting Expert - is for parents and grandparents so that parents can have those crucial conversations with the grandparents. And, grandparents can understand you get to support your kids and grandkids rather than advise. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
This is Part 2 of my conversation with Trevor Dunn. I know I promise 10-12 mins, but this was too good to split up! He dives further into ways to conquer stress, alleviate anxiety, restore order amidst turmoil, refine mindset, gain mental clarity, and enhance decision making. He also talks about how to navigate set backs. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Pam's interview with Trevor Dunn (her son) is full of valuable information on how to conquer stress, alleviate anxiety, restore order amidst turmoil, refine our mindset, gain mental clarity, and enhance decision making capacity. Taking action is a prerequisite, so listen to Part 1 of this 3-part series and get started with actions that work. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Vulnerability is more natural than we realize. A life full of going for our dreams and having the relationships we desire, means that we will need to access our vulnerability. Let's normalize vulnerability and let's make it more natural. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
We know it takes two to tango, but how much do we know about the delicate dance of interdependence? Pam speaks about the necessary and constant balancing act between dependence and independence that we all navigate throughout our lives. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Are you pushing through and efforting when really you need a break? Pam emphasizes why it’s vital to pause and rest and reminds us of the immense wisdom and creativity that comes from slowing down. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Do you hold the common belief that hard work is more valuable than rest? Pam reflects on her past relationship to “hard work” and shares new beliefs around fulfillment, purpose, and presence. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Have you ever listened to what was being said without considering the who and the why ? Pam shares wisdom gained about the importance of holistic listening from a place of patience, curiosity, and care. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Feelings of discomfort often coexist with conflict, but does that mean there has to be resolution? Pam reveals why living in a society hooked on “conflict-resolution” does little to spark curiosity, facilitate personal growth, or support self-reflection. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Do you confuse belonging with fitting in? Pam urges us to broaden our perspective of “belonging” with the loving reminder that “you belong wherever you’re willing to risk being seen”. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Candles and baths can be gratifying forms of self care, but what if we thought about it more holistically? Pam provides tools and insights about caring for ourselves mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Do you know the difference between being grounded versus being centered? Pam shares examples of how to identify both and speaks to the indispensable value of feeling and listening to ourselves. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
How often do you truly listen to yourself and others? Pam reminds us that it’s never too late to start listening better, more effectively, and more curiously. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Do you have enough self trust to put your trust in others? Pam reveals the importance of self trust as a way to cultivate our sense of accountability, intuition, compassion, and boundary setting. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
When someone you care about is suffering, is your automatic response to try and fix it? Pam speaks to the deep tenderness we can access within ourselves to hold space for suffering. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Does hearing the word “meditation” immediately invoke visions of crossed legs and closed eyes? Pam speaks about alternative opportunities for meditation in everyday activities and the wisdom we find when we slow down, get still, and listen. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
What’s the secret to aging gracefully? Pam speaks to Mary Ann Patterson about the value of curiosity, movement, acceptance, and human connection at any age. Mary Ann Patterson is my Mom! She has approached so much of life with grace and I have learned so much from watching her navigate aging. Mary Ann is the matriarch of our family of 5 siblings, 7 children, 2 sons-in-law, 3 daughters-in-law, 19 grandchildren, 13 great grandchildren, 9 nieces and nephews. Her wisdom is shared in every word. Foll...
Do you know that your sensitivity is your superpower? Pam speaks about the wisdom of investigating your internal experience in order to connect back to the true essence of who you really are. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Information on LinkedIn Videos on YouTube...
Have you ever felt lost in a position of leadership? Pam speaks to Erik Lingvall about the unexpected gifts to be gleaned when we can assess, adapt, and advance in the midst of life’s challenges. Erik Lingvall is the Founder and Chief Talent Thrower for Catapult Acting Studio in Atlanta, GA. His ability to focus on the positive, stay grounded in reality, and create change is nothing short of magnificent! Erik reminds us that leading ourselves in our lives through new challenges will help build u...
Change is often out of our control, but what if we can work with it, rather than against it? Pam speaks to Susie Walton about embracing the changes life throws our way with resilience, presence and acceptance. Susie Walton has so much experience with change in personal and professional aspects. She is a parenting expert and co-hosts a podcast called, Raising Athletes, that speaks to her wisdom as well. Susie brings the concept of delight and acceptance to change. Follow us on Instagram Like us o...
Are you listening to the signals your body is giving you? Pam speaks to Lesley Hoffman about the important practice of tuning into your body and the considerable mental and physical health benefits of doing so. Lesley Hoffman is a Certified Yoga Teacher, former writer for an advertising agency, and has facilitated the Community in Unity Program at the elementary school level for Peaceful Project. Her vast knowledge and wisdom about the way our bodies talk to us is why we can more easily access w...
Can you look past the surface of your child’s behavior in order to truly see and meet their unmet needs? In part two of this two-part episode, Pam speaks to Matthew King about seeking deeper understanding, compassion, connection and communication with your children. Matthew King is a Certified Coach, a High School Teacher, and an advocate for children that have experienced trauma. He has such a great perspective and way of looking at behavior that fosters genuine self acceptance. His level of co...
Are you in tune with your own needs enough to effectively show up for others? In part one of this two-part episode, Pam speaks to Matthew King about the wisdom of taking responsibility for your own behavior and the importance of meeting your own needs mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Matthew King is a Certified Coach, a High School Teacher, and an advocate for children that have experienced trauma. He has such a great perspective and way of looking at behavior that fosters genu...
Can we receive the gift of growth in the aftermath of a broken promise? Pam speaks to Leigh Onorato about the wisdom, grace and personal development that can be found in broken promises, if we’re willing to stop and listen. Leigh Onorato is that person that everyone wants to be friends with because of her honesty and willingness to put her best first. Leigh can have you belly laughing one minute and crying from her care and compassion the next. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Informat...
Do you have a way to free your mind when you’re up against a wall? Pam speaks to Cindy Appanaitis about the value and wisdom of letting go of thought in order to regain clarity, creativity and self-compassion. Cindy Appanaitis is a Certified Coach for Your Infinite Life, a Teacher in the Corvallis, OR school district, Mom of 2, and a wife. Cindy lives from the motto of doing her personal best, which means she is always in learning. Her joy, commitment, love, compassion, and integrity make her a ...
Do you ever feel like an outsider looking in on your own life? Pam speaks to Stefani Wessel about the necessity of cultivating a relationship with ourselves, first and foremost, in order to show up truly present in our lives. Stefani Wessel is a Certified Coach for Your Infinite Life. She is the host of the podcast, Messy Talk. Stefani embraces life and people while loving the messiness of our humanness. She is also fun, funny, and full of life. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Informa...
