What if empathy isn’t the finish line of leadership, but the most dangerous halfway point? In this episode, Chris and Mark explore how empathy, when misused, can become a powerful tool for manipulation. They unpack the difference between validation and impact, and why leaders must go beyond being “emotionally available” to actually ending the suffering of others. Mercy, not just empathy, is what separates authentic leadership from emotional control. You’ll hear: • Why “empathy is for the psychot...
Jun 27, 2025•26 min•Ep. 212
Matt McClellan knows the pressure of leadership. As a second-gen CEO of a $100M+ construction firm, he’s felt the weight of legacy, the pain of panic attacks, and the breakthrough of letting go. In this episode, he joins Chris McAlister to share how building leaders (not just buildings) has changed everything. You’ll hear: • Building a leadership team that runs without you • Facing the emotional cost of leadership • Embracing the ESOP model and planning for legacy • Real-world impact of the Sigh...
Jun 13, 2025•45 min•Ep. 211
Joe Simonds built a multimillion-dollar company while secretly battling years of anxiety and pressure. In this episode, Joe shares how letting go of fear, and finding clarity in his identity, became the turning point in his leadership. You’ll hear: • What helped Joe break free from anxiety loops • How he shifted from survival to real fulfillment • The metaphor that reshaped Salt Strong’s culture • What it takes to scale without losing your center Joe is the CEO and co-founder of Salt Strong, Ame...
May 30, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 210
Michael Nardella built a successful law firm. But after years of achievement, he found himself asking a deeper question: is this it? In this episode, Michael shares the moment external success stopped being enough, and what it took to reconnect with purpose. He opens up about the burnout, the quiet disillusionment, and the transformation that followed as he began building a culture that values people over prestige. You’ll hear: •How he balanced litigation with bankruptcy to create resilience •Th...
May 16, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 209
Mindfulness is a great starting point, but if you stop there, you’re leaving your leadership half-baked. In this episode of the SightShift Podcast, Chris and Mark discuss the secret to impactful leadership: moving beyond mindfulness to a mindset upgrade. You’ll hear real-life examples, personal stories, and actionable strategies to help you: Avoid leadership driven by validation Build a culture of trust, clarity, and purpose Take the right actions without letting insecurity get in the way If you...
Dec 02, 2024•29 min•Ep. 208
Is mindfulness really the solution to better leadership? In this episode, we challenge the popular formula of “Mindfulness = Empathy + Psychological Safety” and explain why it often leads to fragile, ineffective leadership. Instead of stopping at self-awareness or emotional connection, we introduce a more complete framework: impact equals right action plus right motive. You’ll learn how overvaluing your personal leadership strengths—or undervaluing what others on your team bring to the table—can...
Nov 18, 2024•26 min•Ep. 207
In this episode, we explore how rituals - both intentional and unintentional - shape personal identity, leadership, and organizational culture. Here’s what you’ll discover when you listen: The Importance of Rituals in Identity and Leadership and the impact of institutions and organizations abandoning meaningful rituals. How Generational Shifts Affect Work Motivation, with younger employees seeking personal growth over identity through work. Why Social Media and Video Games Replace Traditional Me...
Oct 21, 2024•27 min•Ep. 206
In this episode, we're diving into one of the most common struggles every leader faces: insecurity. Let's unpack how insecurity shows up in leadership, whether through overcompensating or avoiding key moments, and why self-awareness is the key to growth. Tune in to learn: Insecurity is universal: Every leader, no matter their experience, faces moments of insecurity. Signs of insecurity: How proving and hiding behaviors reveal your insecurities. Growth through awareness: Why increased self-awaren...
Oct 07, 2024•25 min•Ep. 205
This is part 2 of our special series, Lead for Impact: The Big Idea. In this episode, we're looking into every leader's struggle and a crucial question: Are you leading for validation or for impact? Tune in to learn: The Key Question for Leaders – Are you leading for validation or for impact? Discover how this question can transform your approach to leadership. Real-Life Leadership Struggles – Hear practical examples of leaders navigating the challenges of validation vs. impact in both work and ...
Sep 23, 2024•39 min•Ep. 204
We’re excited to kick off a brand-new podcast series that dives deep into the principles from our book Lead for Impact. In our first episode, Mark Stanifer and I set the stage for a journey that will challenge and inspire you to rethink your approach to leadership. The heart of the episode revolves around a crucial question: “Are you leading for impact or validation?” This is the question every leader needs to ask themselves. Your motives matter, and understanding whether you’re driven by a genu...
Sep 09, 2024•22 min•Ep. 203
In today's episode, we’re diving deep into something that’s been absolutely revolutionary for me in over two decades of leadership development, and I think it could be for you too. If you’ve ever hired someone and later thought, “What was I thinking?”—you’re not alone. The truth is, most leaders pick people based on temperament—how charismatic or extroverted they are—and hope that’ll translate into great leadership. But here’s the thing: that approach is flawed, and it can lead to some serious m...
Aug 26, 2024•37 min•Ep. 202
Are you driven by a vision for something that doesn’t exist yet, but you’re determined to make it a reality? Or perhaps you’re on the cusp of pursuing a significant goal and feeling that stirring inside you. Our ‘5 Stages of a Vision’ framework will help you navigate the journey from conception to completion, categorizing what to expect and providing a map for each stage. In our recent podcast episode, we delve into the Five Stages of Vision, providing a framework to help you navigate and triump...
Jul 22, 2024•45 min•Ep. 201
In this episode, Chris and Mark explore the transformative power of integrating play and fun into leadership. Tune in to: >> Discover how balancing intensity with playful activities can prevent burnout, boost creativity, and foster stronger team bonds. >> Learn actionable strategies for celebrating successes, achieving peak flow states, and maximizing your team's mental capacity. >> Uncover the essential mindset shifts that can lead to more effective, joyful, and impactful lead...
Jun 17, 2024•25 min•Ep. 200
In this episode, we’re continuing to dive into the specific challenges of leading a business where one or more family members are involved. Today we’re looking at the dangers of getting stuck in a cycle of "I know best" leadership, which can stifle creativity, innovation, and growth in your family members. Learn the five negative consequences you might face by leading for validation, and discover the three key moments that signal a healthy succession plan is in place. We’re diving into the follo...
Apr 23, 2024•25 min•Ep. 199
In this episode, Chris McAlister and special guest Mark Stanifer delve into the intricate world of succession planning within family businesses. As leaders embark on this unique journey, the challenges they face are not just about business growth, but also about nurturing the relationships that form the foundation of their legacy. In this episode, you will learn: The Importance of Openness to Change: Discover how embracing change and considering different perspectives can lead to true innovation...
Apr 15, 2024•26 min•Ep. 198
In this episode, we explore the crucial mindset shift from leading for validation to leading for impact. Join us as we delve into the concept of envisioning leadership beyond the present moment and contemplating the impact of our actions when we're no longer in the picture. Key Takeaways: Leadership Vision Beyond the Moment: Discover why real leaders think beyond the present, imagining a future where they're absent. Learn how this mindset shapes the development of leaders who can thrive independ...
Jan 04, 2024•10 min•Ep. 197
In this episode, we’re talking about the power of an identity shift for impactful leadership. Learn how a robust leadership operating system, incorporating measurement, model, and method, can revolutionize the way you lead. Key Takeaways: Identity Shift for Impact: The episode emphasizes the need for leaders to move beyond validation-seeking and embrace a profound identity shift for impact. It draws parallels to athletic achievements, highlighting the necessity of systematic approaches to greatn...
Jan 02, 2024•13 min•Ep. 196
Imagine looking back on your work life decades from now. Will it be fulfilling just because you managed your inbox and attended every meeting? In today's corporate landscape, where drudgery often leads individuals to seek meaning elsewhere, the episode challenges this escape. It prompts us to confront the deeper issue—the quest for meaning is intertwined with our identity. Work, the episode argues, is a potent context for self-knowledge and transformation. It's not merely about tasks; it's about...
Dec 21, 2023•11 min•Ep. 195
In our latest podcast episode, "Lead for Impact, Not Validation," Chris dives deep into the world of self-mastery, doubts, and motives. Key Takeaways: Discovering Self-Mastery and Purpose: Leadership thrives on self-mastery and understanding one's core motivations. By exploring the depths of personal identity and uncovering the "why" behind leadership roles, individuals transition from seeking validation to leading with genuine impact. Embracing Doubts for Growth: Doubts are not stumbling blocks...
Dec 19, 2023•15 min•Ep. 194
Welcome to “Lead for Impact, Not Validation” session 6, where we explore impactful leadership. This episode focuses on the first key component of impact – action. We challenge the common view of empathy, highlighting its role as a starting point for meaningful action. Discover the pitfalls of overemphasizing empathy and the crucial role of mercy in impactful leadership. Key Takeaways: Empathy as a Starting Point, Not an Endpoint: Challenge the traditional role of empathy in leadership; view it a...
Dec 14, 2023•9 min•Ep. 193
Welcome to Part 5 of the “Lead for Impact, Not Validation” series where we delve into the transformative power of mindfulness in leadership. Mindfulness serves as a starting point, allowing leaders to separate from overwhelming circumstances and emotions. Join us as we explore the necessity of a mindset UPGRADE, empowering leaders to engage situations with right action and motive. Learn the secrets to mindful leadership beyond validation, fostering a mindset for genuine impact. The episode empha...
Dec 12, 2023•8 min•Ep. 192
Welcome to Part 4 of the “Lead for Impact, Not Validation” series. Leadership, a continual test faced in circumstances, relationships, and ambitions, lacks a clear definition. Without standardized metrics, leaders often resort to validation over impact, guided by subjective measures of success. Key Takeaways: Redefining Impact: Impact is not a singular score but a dynamic interplay of values, actions, and motives. Leaders must avoid overvaluing and undervaluing aspects based on personal insecuri...
Dec 07, 2023•17 min•Ep. 191
In this episode of the “Lead for Impact, Not Validation” series, we delve deep into the pervasive insecurities that impact leaders at every stage of their journey. Whether you're a seasoned executive or just starting your leadership ascent, understanding and addressing insecurities are crucial for authentic and impactful leadership. Key Takeaways: Spectrum of Leadership Emotions: Explore the spectrum of sacrifice, dread, calm, anger, caring, and bitterness. Plot your current state on these scale...
Dec 05, 2023•9 min•Ep. 190
In this episode, we unravel the pervasive insecurities that impact leaders at all levels. Whether you're just starting or are an advanced leader, insecurities shape our responses. Key Takeaways: The Spectrum of Sacrifice, Dread, Calm, Anger, Caring, and Bitterness: Plot your current state on these scales to gain awareness of your leadership style. Behaviors of Insecure Leadership: Recognize the signs, from leading to be needed to fearing conflict, and learn how they affect your impact. Validatio...
Nov 30, 2023•16 min•Ep. 189
Welcome to Part 1 of our new series, "Lead for Impact, Not Validation"! In our first episode, we dissect the fundamental flaws in leadership and embark on a journey to transform validation-driven leadership into impactful influence. Key takeaways: The Core Leadership Flaw: Explore the common pitfall of leading for validation instead of making a lasting impact. Personal Insights: Gain profound insights from personal stories that sparked a shift from validation to genuine influence. Three Essentia...
Nov 28, 2023•6 min•Ep. 188
Get ready to elevate your leadership game with insights that bridge generations and secure identities. Welcome to a game-changing journey that reimagines leadership in a topsy-turvy world. Learn how leaders thrive amid disorientation, setting the stage for a brighter future. Embrace the new normal and unlock your true leadership potential. Tune in now and embark on the path to a redefined, impactful leadership experience. CONNECT WITH US: 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/sightshift ...
Nov 16, 2023•9 min•Ep. 187
In this episode of our "Leadership Would Be Easy, Except for The People" series, we dive deep into the leadership paradox that often goes unnoticed. Discover how to navigate the delicate balance between serving the organizational vision and nurturing the growth of your people. ** Explore the path to becoming a team-centric leader, committed to both the organization's mission and individual well-being. ** Gain insights into how leaders can harmonize the interests of the organization and the indiv...
Nov 14, 2023•10 min•Ep. 186
In this episode, we delve into the crucial concept of the Heart Shift in leadership. Join us as we explore the transformative journey of investing in relationships within your team, understanding that teams are dynamic entities, and shifting from frustration to fascination with team dynamics. Discover how adopting these principles can help you become a more effective and impactful leader, fostering growth and unity within your organization. We’re talking about: The Perfect Team Myth: Many strive...
Nov 09, 2023•12 min•Ep. 185
In this episode, we explore the intricate dynamics of leadership and the critical role of the "head shift." Discover why vigilance is essential for visionary leaders in protecting their organizational vision and sustaining momentum. Uncover how building robust systems can shield against the three primary enemies of a movement, ensuring continued growth and success in your leadership journey. Join us as we navigate the challenges and triumphs of leadership, providing valuable insights and strateg...
Nov 08, 2023•13 min•Ep. 184
In this episode, we explore the profound impact of defining a process for building leaders. Join us as we delve into the key takeaways: ** The Power of Defined Processes: Discover how having a structured approach to leadership development can transform your journey. By defining a process, you'll gain clarity, direction, and the ability to foster growth within your team and organization. ** Avoiding Common Pitfalls: We caution against the pitfalls of bypassing the essential aspects of leadership ...
Nov 02, 2023•11 min•Ep. 183
