My life has been a journey of self-discovery and this week I am contemplating what is means to listen to your genuine voice within. I've had many experiences in my life, from focusing on financial stability to moving to California, living abroad, and finally discovering my calling as a writer. Through all the challenges and transitions, I've learned the importance of embracing all parts of myself to fully connect with my authentic voice. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that ra...
Jul 03, 2025•8 min
What is the difference between having things and simply appreciating them—and how has that distinction shaped the way we see the world? Inspired by a quote from Albert Hubbard and memories of flipping through Town & Country magazines with my mother, I take a sentimental and humorous journey through antique stores, high-end jewelry I’ll never own, and lavish homes I’ll never live in. But rather than feel envy, I’ve learned to let these moments of beauty and fantasy awaken a deeper sense of gr...
Jun 26, 2025•8 min
In this episode of Now That You Ask , I reflect on a curious bit of wisdom a friend once shared: “To get clear, you need to get as still and stupid as a stone.” At first, I bristled—me, stupid? But the more I sat with it, the more I realized how hard it actually is to be still, let alone silent. I invite you to join me as I explore what it means to embrace stillness—not just as an act, but as a state of being. We’ll talk about rocks (yes, literal stones), the quiet wisdom they may hold, and what...
Jun 19, 2025•9 min
Sometimes the feeling of immense joy and gratitude can be a little like getting drunk. From serendipitous events to the heartwarming experience of attending a dear friend's granddaughter's wedding, recognizing and appreciating the beauty and kindness around us is not only important but intoxicating. Embracing gratitude and humor can also transform our perspective and enhance our experiences and I recommend you try "getting drunk" on this experience sometime. Now That You Ask is a podcast that lo...
Jun 13, 2025•7 min
This week I'm thinking about the relationship between fear and excitement. Listen in as I talk about how combining these emotions has taken me to unexpected yet fulfilling places. Through my experiences overcoming initial career struggles and facing deep-seated fears during a ropes course, I advocate for embracing both fear and excitement to lead an enriched life. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host,...
Jun 05, 2025•8 min
In this episode, I share my reflections on following the things I love, from the poetry of Rumi to my fascination with flowers, trees, art, and even vampires. Drawing connections between these diverse interests, I explore how each has uniquely enriched my life, grounding me, inspiring me, and offering new perspectives. I think it's important to heed these unexpected pulls and I invite you to appreciate how such passions can make life more meaningful and interesting. Now That You Ask is a podcast...
May 29, 2025•8 min
Recently some respiratory issues disrupted my podcasting routine. This illness of all things lead me to a simple but powerful affirmation, 'I am enough,' and inspired me to overcome my anxiety and trust in my own abilities. Then through a dream, I found joy and motivation, transforming a stressful situation into a fulfilling creative process. And now I continue to reflect on the significance of self-acceptance and how 'I am enough' will continue to support my personal growth and self-belief. All...
May 22, 2025•7 min
Join me as I explore the potent influence of words and the emotional journey of a writer. I have such deep admiration for words and how they inspire and fuel my creativity. And while they do inspire me, they also bring about some specific challenges like writer's block and feelings of doubt and these obstacles impact my creative process. But thankfully, I have my strategies for overcoming these hurdles, reconnecting with my creative spirit, and finding joy in writing. Now That You Ask is a podca...
May 15, 2025•8 min
From my childhood escapes through books, my varied career paths, and the connections I've forged around the world, my experiences have really shaped the person I am today. Listen in as I expound on how my upbringing in the South has influenced me, the lessons I've learned from living in the Middle East, and the importance of embracing life’s unpredictability. As I look forward to the future, I am making the most of my time and living with abandon. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topi...
May 08, 2025•7 min
This week I found myself reflecting on the simple yet powerful quote by Arthur Ashe: "Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can." This idea resonated deeply with me as I considered how often I overlook the tools and wisdom I already possess. Listen as I share my personal journey with starting over, the fears that come with trying new things, and the humor I find in my own missteps. Drawing inspiration from both Arthur Ashe and Samuel Beckett, I explore how failure isn’t the end—it'...
May 01, 2025•8 min
In this episode of Now That You Ask , I reflect on a vivid nightmare that led me to confront the reality of my own mortality. I talk about regrets, hopes, and the quiet truth that my time is more limited now. It’s not all heavy—there’s also a thread of curiosity, a bit of grace, and the realization that letting go is part of the journey. If you’ve ever found yourself facing life’s big questions in the quiet moments, you’ll feel right at home here. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topi...
Apr 24, 2025•8 min
In this episode, I reflect on a beautiful and haunting quote by Chief Crowfoot that I've come across many times — a poetic description of life as a firefly’s flash, a buffalo’s breath, a shadow across the grass. This time, instead of simply admiring the words, I let them stir something deeper. I explore what it means to see life not as a serious, pressure-filled pursuit, but as something fleeting and sacred — a moment to be experienced, not conquered. I speak candidly about aging, self-discovery...
Apr 17, 2025•8 min
I like the idea that being odd is what makes us special. The whimsical world of Dr. Seuss, and one quote in particular, reminds me of my childhood's limitless possibilities and I have learned that embracing my uniqueness is vital. I adopted the philosophy of "let your freak flag fly," celebrating my quirks and finding joy in being true to myself. This journey led to deeper connections with others, where moments of surprise and kinship flourish. Ultimately, I've embraced being number one in my ow...
Apr 10, 2025•8 min
Allow me to take you through my peculiar daily ritual of getting dressed. Each piece of clothing seems to 'speak' to me, guiding my choices and influencing my mood. I often rely on black for its versatility and slimming effect, but I constantly find myself grappling with the right combination of colors and patterns. It is a daily journey of trusting my intuition for fashion decisions, occasionally venturing into the unfamiliar territory of vibrant colors, and some internal debates. Now That You ...
Apr 03, 2025•8 min
What does it mean to live fully and wisely regardless of how much time we have left? Time is the only currency we spend without knowing our balance. And sure, we know we should use our time wisely, do our best to enjoy the present moment, and balance indulgence with maturity, but what does that actually look like in our lives. Listen as I share my thoughts about time lately. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky....
Mar 27, 2025•8 min
Personal style is fascinating to me. My own experience has been an empowering journey of discovering and embracing my true self through fashion. In this episode, I explore personal style through the lens of two iconic women: Coco Chanel and Dolly Parton. Chanel's minimalist elegance contrasts with Parton's bold glamor, yet both women embody the principle of dressing for oneself. Listen in as I share my journey from restrictive fashion choices in my Southern upbringing to a liberated sense of sty...
Mar 20, 2025•8 min
What does in mean to live "in the present moment?" To answer this I draw inspiration from poets, sages, and spiritual teachers. Listen in as I discuss the significance of being present, the challenges it poses, and how it has influenced my own life. I truly believe seizing the day, embracing simplicity, and being where you are is the best way to find inspiration and gratitude and I hope this episode inspires you, too. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to de...
Mar 13, 2025•8 min
Allow me to take you on an evocative journey through my breakfast rituals. From the creamy pleasure of vanilla yogurt with fruits and granola to the incomparable satisfaction of a freshly toasted slice of bread, I explore the sensory delights and emotional connections of my morning meals. Listen in as I recall the joy of eating sun-ripened cantaloupe, weekend indulgences of bacon and eggs, and the thrill of finding the best croissants and doughnuts. With a passion for good coffee and memorable f...
Mar 06, 2025•8 min
I've met many good men in my life, each of whom have helped me in their own way, but this episode is about the life of Elmo Brandon, a wonderful black man who worked for three generations of my family. Elmo played multiple roles in our lives, from running the warehouse to driving my youngest sister to school. His kindness, humility, and strong presence made him an integral part of our family. Despite facing life's challenges, including racism and illness, Elmo's gentle spirit left a lasting impa...
Feb 27, 2025•8 min
On my journey of self-discovery, I often find myself reflecting on the concept of 'being called forth' and the importance of kindness. Simple acts of kindness, whether towards others or myself, can bring astonishing joy and fulfillment. To this day, I am blown away by the interconnectedness of giving and receiving kindness and how these small gestures can shift perspectives and brighten days even in difficult times. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desi...
Feb 20, 2025•8 min
2025 is the Year of the Snake. What does this mean for me, a Fire Dog born in 1946? Wisdom, charm, and introspection are often associated with snakes and I see these traits as positive possibilities for personal growth and transformation this year. Listen in as I share my challenges and plans to embrace change, shed old habits, and stay optimistic. How can the snake's energy influence your life in 2025? Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from ...
Feb 13, 2025•8 min
A recent trip to the grocery store made me realize how much Southern culture remains a part of my life. It also got me thinking more about various Southern idioms and their meanings, contexts, and the nuances of their usage. From Southern manners and expressions of surprise, to busyness, and critique, it seems there is a Southern idiom for everything. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halse...
Feb 06, 2025•8 min•Season 1Ep. 186
79 years old. This number has me reflecting on all the poignant and humorous milestones of my life, from the excitement of turning 21 and 30 to the unique celebrations and realizations at 40, 50, and 60. I kind of love that my search for new adventures and thrills is unwavering despite the passage of time. Listen in as I navigate the complexities of aging, find humor in the inevitable, and look forward to celebrating my 80th year with joy and anticipation. Now That You Ask is a podcast that look...
Jan 30, 2025•9 min
I have a deep-seated aversion to casseroles. I also have disdain for dishes like Shepherd's pie, chicken pot pie, and tuna casserole ( but not macaroni and cheese). Childhood experiences with fish sticks and chicken pot pie may explain my selective eating habits and early rebellion against imposed food rules. I generally prefer individual, unadorned food items on my plate and in this episode I explore how this provides insight into my personality and proclivities in life. Now That You Ask is a p...
Jan 23, 2025•7 min
Why do I write about myself? These days, documenting my thoughts and experiences has become a part of who I am. From the self-exploration it enables to the pure joy of the written word, writing has introduced me to a deeper understanding of myself and serves as a powerful outlet for my innermost feelings and reflections. Listen in to hear more about the compelling reasons behind my passion for writing about my life. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desi...
Jan 16, 2025•9 min
It's amazing how quickly I can shift from gratitude to judgment. And how easy it is to judge others' behavior (especially while driving). I know this has negative effects on my well-being and I am grateful to have a wonderful coach who encourages me to show compassion towards myself and others and reminds me of the importance of understanding and empathy. Join me as I navigate the complexity of emotions, the struggle to change ingrained behaviors, and the pursuit of a more compassionate existenc...
Jan 09, 2025•7 min
Gratitude has had an undeniable and positive influence in my life. It was especially evident during this heartwarming Christmas spent with my adopted family. From unexpected happy moments to deep, engaging conversations, both happiness and gratefulness have enriched my life. This episode captures the essence of feeling loved, giving back, and savoring the magic of special moments. I hope for the same for you in the new year and always. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that rang...
Jan 02, 2025•8 min
Once again, I am confronted with the inevitability of change in life. Some people welcome change and some resist it, but either way change still happens. My father had his unique coping strategies and I have my own adaptive methods (like using tongs for toast and enlisting help for household tasks), this episode illustrates the importance of accepting adjustments and finding special ways to manage life's persistent challenges with grace and creativity. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at...
Dec 26, 2024•8 min
I wanted to share a spiritual piece for Christmas this year, but instead, I have found myself deeply moved by Dan Vasc, a heavy metal singer. His rendition of 'Amazing Grace' has captivated me with his strong voice, striking appearance, and an incredible performance. Despite my initial desire for a more traditional spiritual experience, I have found joy and transcendence in Dan's music and presence. This unexpected holiday gift has made me reflect on the beauty of hymns and the joy they bring, e...
Dec 19, 2024•8 min
Who am I? As I get older, and especially at the end of the year, I look back and reflect on the concept of identity and the winding journey that has been my life. From pondering who I was at 16 to who I've become, and the experiences and wisdom I've gained over the years, I quite enjoy the rumination. And now more than ever, I appreciate the small unexpected moments and people who've guided me and I'm determined to live life to the fullest. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that...
Dec 12, 2024•8 min
