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The Messy Inbetween

Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M. This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy. In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedup Instagram handles - @tmipodcast_ @_lydiakm @murugi.munyi Get in touch with us - [email protected]
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Episodes

Propaganda I’m Falling For |Epd 185

It’s TMI Wednesdayyy! In today’s episode, we’re getting into the propaganda we’re totally falling for 100%, from romantic love and contraception, to financial literacy, zero days, and even some sexual preferences we’re lowkey warming up to 👀 Definitely an episode you’ll want to watch! What is a propaganda you're falling for, tell us down in the comments section. Tara Nicole's Video referenced in the video:https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJbPTunMjPT/?igsh=b2szeHVscGQ4ajk4 Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI ...

Jun 18, 20251 hr 5 min

Propaganda I’m not falling for…| Epd 184

Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! Propaganda is a sustained effort by a group of people to get you to believe or try something. Has alcohol overconsumption been glamorized a bit too much? What about bleaching? Minimalism? These are just a few of the things we unpack in today’s episode as we discuss the propaganda we’re not falling for. What’s one you’re not buying into? Let us know in the comments. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRA...

Jun 11, 202556 min

Canon Events in Friendships |Epd 183

What’s a Wednesday without a new TMI episode? 👀Happy Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! How are y’all doing? In today’s episode, we’re talking canon events in friendships, those defining moments that shape, stretch, or even shake a friendship. From the good to the messy. 💬 What’s one significant event that’s shaped your own friendships? Tell us in the comments! Alsooooooo, we’re at 150K on Instagram and 144K on YouTube 🥳 What should we do to celebrate? Drop your ideas below! 💕 Link to the reel L...

Jun 04, 20251 hr

The Only Child Confessions featuring Victor Peace |Epd 182

Do an only child episode!”…..“Where’s the only child episode??” You guys have been in our DMs demanding this one and guess what? It’s finally here! We sat down with the super talented Victor Peace to talk about what it’s really like growing up as an only child. From hyper-independence to the quiet loneliness, to how that has shaped his relationships… wheeew😮‍💨. He really opened up. Let us know in the comments: did we miss anything? And what other family setups should we unpack next? Victor’s s...

May 28, 20251 hr 5 min

Answering Your Questions (Part 1) | Epd 181

Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! On today’s episode, we’re answering some of the questions you sent in on IG. Situation-ships… Did we ever feel a little late in our 20s? Hmmm… you’ll want to hear the full tea. And before you come for us in the comments and DMs, Part 2 is on the way. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?...

May 21, 20251 hr 9 minEp. 181

Self-Pleasure 101 | Epd 180

Get 60% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! 🔗 : https://beducate.me/bg2518-tmipodcast Consistency queens reporting for duty! 🥳Another Wednesday another fire episode ✨ Since May is Masturbation Month, we’re diving deep into Self-Pleasure 101—solo, mutual, and everything in between. We’re breaking down: ✨ The Do’s (like keeping it clean ie yourself and your toys) 🚫 The Don’ts (yes, you can overdo it) ⚠️ The risks (addiction) 💤 And the juicy benefits (better sleep!) Whether you’re alread...

May 14, 20251 hr 1 min

The Last Born Experience Unfiltered | Epd 179

Last borns—what do they really need? They’re often the most loved in the family, so what more could they possibly want? We’ve been conditioned to overlook their opinions and dismiss their emotions but it’s time to change that. We had the most amazing time with Nelly, who didn’t just talk, she unpacked the reality of being the last born in a way that was honest, hilarious, and deeply eye-opening. From being overlooked to simply wanting to be seen and heard, she brought truth to the table. Tag a l...

May 07, 20251 hr 16 min

The Aftermath |Episode 178

Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners. We’re back, just like we promised.❤️ Before anything else—Thank you! Your DMs, your kind words, your condolences have carried us through. Today’s episode is a heavy one. As many of you know, Lydia recently lost her beloved cousin Shii—someone incredibly close to her heart. In this episode, we talk about what happened, the aftermath, how to support your loved ones through grief and answer some of your questions. If you’re moving through grief or sitting with loss, t...

Apr 30, 20251 hr 7 min

The Reality of Being A Middle-born| Epd 177

We’re officially at 141k subbies! 🥳 Thank you so much, Inbetweeners — your love, your comments, your wild takes… we see them all, and we wouldn’t be here without you. Now, onto today’s episode… middle children. The forgotten ones. The invisible siblings. Or are they? We’re unpacking the middleborn experience — do they have a place on the sibling shelf? Is this forgotten child thing facts or fiction? And does it actually affect how they turn out as adults? Let’s talk about it. Drop your thoughts...

Apr 16, 20251 hr 1 min

Firstborns: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly|Epd 176

Firstborns… breathe in, breathe out. You’ve got this❤️🥹 In today’s episode, we’re talking about something that so many of you relate to; from feeling the pressure to constantly show up for everyone, to navigating unspoken expectations at home and even relationships… Tap into the conversation and drop your thoughts in the comments! And if you know anyone who needs to hear this… send this their way😚 This episode was inspired by the newest show on DSTV’s Maisha Magic Plus, Sarabi… Sarabi is a sto...

Apr 09, 202557 min

An Inbetweener Once Said…|Epd 175

It’s TMI Day🥳🤩! This episode is a special one, we're going through some of your comments from past episodes and having a real convo about them. And wow, you guys definitely had things to say! 😂 “They’re about to end…” Stick with us as we get into it and address all your thoughts. Also, we’re listening – expect longer episodes soon with shorter intros and more of what you love. Let’s get into it! Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INST...

Apr 02, 20251 hr 6 min

The Bar Was So Low I…|Epd174

Get 60% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! 🔗 : https://beducate.me/bg2504-tmipodcast The bar is so low that even with resources like Beducated, some of you are still having a boring sex life… ☹️ Click the link above to change that! This episode is all about “the bar was so low” moments—ours and yours! And wow, Inbetweeners, we have truly been in the gutters. The bar wasn’t just low… it was nonexistent. 😂😭 Let’s get into it! Drop your own “the bar was so low” stories in the comments—we...

Mar 26, 202546 min

Signs of a Dying Relationship 💔|Epd 173

Is my boyfriend pulling away?" Google searchers, assemble! 👀 In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the signs of a dying relationship not dead, not just sick, but DYING. Yes, there’s a difference! Now, be honest… how many signs made your heart break a little? 😅 Guess it’s time to leave that baboon hunny, as Lyd says! Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link L...

Mar 19, 202555 min

Who’s most likely to..? |Epd 172

Heyyy Inbetweeners! How’s everyone doing? This week’s episode has been a long time coming, and it’s finally here! Who’s most likely…? We had you guys send in your wildest questions, and wow... y’all really came for us! Like, who’s most likely to drop a sex tape? 😭😂 Play along and guess with us! Enjoy the episode! Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia ...

Mar 12, 202551 min

International Women’s Day with Kesi Njoro | Epd 171

Happy International Women’s Day!💜 This year’s theme is Accelerating Action, and we’ve got the incredibly talented Kesin Njoro, a practicing counselor, joining us for this episode. She’s taking us through her story, and trust me, you’ll want to grab a pen and paper because she’s about to drop some serious gems! What’s one piece of advice that hit home for you? Let us know in the comments! Engage us: Instagram: @kesinjoro (https://www.instagram.com/kesinjoro?igsh=cmgwbzdyNng3MTBm) Phone: +44 7879...

Mar 05, 20251 hr 17 min

Birthday Reflections |Epd 170

Happy Birthday to us!🥳 How are we already in our mid 30s?! Weren’t we just celebrating the big 3-0 the other day? Time has really moved fast. In this episode, we’re reflecting on the lessons we’ve learned, the growth we’ve had, and how life just keeps life-ing. One thing’s for sure, we’ve come a long way, and we’re so grateful for every moment. Mid thirties gang is it lit?🤩🤩 Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE ...

Feb 26, 20251 hr 1 min

The Valentine’s Episode ft Beducated |Epd 169

Get 50% off for ONE YEAR on Beducated! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2504-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast Happy post Valentine’s! ❤️ We hope your day was filled with love, pleasure, and maybe even a little adventure. ✨ Now, let’s talk Beducated… The Beducated 2024 Sex Report 🔖 just dropped, and we had to get into it! In this episode, we unpack the findings, react to the wildest takes, and share our own thoughts. From turn-ons to the trends getting people talking (and why ice cu...

Feb 19, 202550 min

The Break, the Catch-Up & Our 2025 Intentions| Ep 168

Happy New Year, Inbetweeners! 🎉✨ How are you guys doing? We missed you sooo much, and we’re so excited to be back! 🥹 The DMs, the comments, the “When are you guys coming back?”—we’ve seen it all 👀, and the wait is finally over! Here’s our very first episode of the year! 🥳 In this one, we’re catching up on all the tea from our break and how January has been treating us so far. Plus, we’re sharing our intentions for the year, both as individuals and for the podcast. Lydia’s word for 2025 is “T...

Feb 12, 20251 hr 4 min

2024 Wrapped | Episode 167

We’re wrapping up 2024 by looking back at those resolutions we made at the beginning of the year. Did we crush them or did life completely curve us? 👀 Murugi’s been talking about going on a solo trip…but did the girl actually pull through? And Lydia’s all “one book a month before bed”—how many did she really read? Let’s get into it! This episode is all about looking back at what the year has been to us. How did your 2024 turn out? Share your highs, lows, and those curveball moments in the comme...

Dec 11, 20241 hr 8 min

Unpopular opinions about Christmas🎄🎁...|Episode 166

Get 40% off your annual fee ON Beducated! Discount is locked for life🔐 LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2447-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast 🎄✨ It’s tiiiiiime! ✨🎄 Are we excited about the holiday season?! Whether you’re packing your bags for a vacay, traveling upcountry, or planning a cozy solo Christmas, the most wonderful time of the year is just around the corner! 🎅🎁 On this episode, we’re diving into unpopular opinions about Christmas 🎄🔥—like: 👉 “Non-Christians shouldn’...

Dec 04, 202456 min

I no longer need friends who...|Eps 165

We are all T for Tayaaaddd of ghetto ass friends. You are giving jealous vibes… bye!✋🏾 You’re not respecting boundaries…bye!✋🏾 You are always in that toxic relationship dragging us in your mess only to go back…girl bye!✋🏾 We are growwnnnn. Some of your points though…😅😂 Are our friends our business partners or our friends ?👀 Are our friends our spiritual leaders? 👀 I don’t know. We have notes. Engage with us: INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_lin...

Nov 27, 20241 hr 4 min

Things we learnt from our family...|Eps 164

Things we have learnt from our family!Take a seat and a breath because…😭Okay, it’s not all doom and gloom but family with teach you THINGS! Good or bad, those lessons can actually be so helpful in other areas of life. What’s something you’ve learnt from your family? Let us know in the comments below. This topic is inspired by the family dynamics in DSTV’s new show, Mkasi. The newest show on DSTV’s Maisha Magic Plus!… ‘In a world of oil, power, and family secrets, one man's death sets off a powd...

Nov 20, 20241 hr

The older i get the more i need...|Eps 163

A few weeks ago we did the episode ‘the older I get the LESS I need…’ and you guys had a lot to say! But what do you need MORE of as you get older. Turns out, a lot!😅 More lying down, more health consciousness and more head! Always more head!😄 This episode is proudly sponsored by Beducated - the Netflix of sex. This black November, less stuff and more ooohhhhh! Meaning…more epic sex and intimacy. On Beducated you get expert advice on topics such as online dating, tantric sex, squirting and so ...

Nov 13, 202454 min

Getting INTIMATE with each other🥰....|Eps 162

Are you and your friends building intimacy ama it’s just vibes ?🤭 We played this intimacy Q&A and things got rather deep. Questions on our beliefs, our fears and friendship. We highly recommend you watch this with a friend and play along. You can share your responses to the questions in the comments below. 🤍 Products mentioned in the episode: Sex Position Cards Icebreaker Intimacy building cards The Rose Love sense water-based lubricant Order yours from Sexcessories! Instagram: @sexccessor...

Nov 06, 20241 hr 1 min

Things we should not be embarrassed about… | Episode 161

Ever find yourself cringing at the things that make you, well, YOU ? 🤪😅 In this episode we’ll be looking into some habits or some heavy situations we often feel embarrassed about that you really shouldn’t ! Grab your snack and get ready for some laughs and relatable moments and don’t forget to Like, Subscribe & Share ❤️ YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia ...

Oct 30, 20241 hr 21 min

The older I get the less I need… | Episode 160

Get 60% off on Beducated for the November deal 😍 LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2439-tmipodcast Coupon code: tmipodcast60 We would definitely not have thought the older we became the less we would need some things, and it’s quite interesting because even ourselves we are shocked 🤣🤣 We would really love to see what some of yours could be in the comments section so we can see whether we relate as well 😅 Enjoy the episode and don’t forget to subscribe! 🤪 YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - ...

Oct 23, 20241 hr 6 min

Things that we struggle to accept… | Episode 159

In life, we often find ourselves fighting against the truths we don’t want to hear or believe… yess yeesss we’re talking to ya 👀 In this episode, we unpack the barriers that keep us from embracing reality as we try offer insights on how to face the difficult truths head-on…and remember, it’s ok to struggle to accept some things ! 😌 Feel free to also share what you struggle to accept in the comments section and enjoy the episode as usual 😉 YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/chan...

Oct 16, 202455 min

Rude money habits | Episode 158

Seeing someone spoil themselves should definitely not be an invitation for you to start asking them for money 👀 yes baby that’s actually considered VERY rude and you should change that !! 😮‍💨 On todays episode we’ll be discussing rude money habits that so so many people have and if you know one point talks about you just stop it 🫢 Let’s all gather in the comment section and share your own points as well… Don’t forget to enjoy the episode! 😊 YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/...

Oct 09, 20241 hr 10 min

Relationship social media etiquette | Episode 157

Social media etiquette when one is in a relationship may seem so obvious but is it really ? 👀🫣 In this episode that’s what we’re gonna be talking about from is it ok for your partner to still follow women who post thirst traps- which is a big NO on this side🤣🤣 and many others so you better be ready cause this one will catch many of you ! Feel free to also let us know others we may not have mentioned in the comment section… Enjoy ! 💋 YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/...

Oct 02, 20241 hr 1 min

Awkward moments during sex | Episode 156

Get 40% off your annual subscription on Beducated ! Discount is locked for life 😍 LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2435-tmipodcast Coupon code: TMIPODCAST Have you ever called out the wrong name during sex or vomited while giving head ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 yesss guuuuys that’s what todays episode is all about… those awkward moments during sex !!! Issa safe space and also at least one can console themselves knowing that it didn’t just happen to you ! 😆 Feel free to share your own experiences in...

Sep 26, 20241 hr 9 min
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