When do you tell someone you’re kinky? On the first date? After sex? Six months in? In this episode, we break down the pros and cons of revealing your kink at different stages of dating, how to know when you’re ready, and tips for having that conversation with confidence. There’s no one right answer—but we’ll help you find yours. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https:/...
Jul 04, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 4Ep. 226
Who says you need a Caregiver to enjoy Littlespace? In this episode, we’re busting the myth that Littles need a Daddy, Mommy, or CG to feel valid. We explore the beauty of peer-based Littlespaces—where Littles support each other through creativity, connection, and care, without formal power exchange. From craft nights and snack rotations to setting healthy boundaries and avoiding burnout, this episode is packed with ideas, emotional insights, and real talk for Littles looking to build their own ...
Jun 27, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 224
What makes a kink “extreme”? And why does that word cause so much harm? In this episode, we’re breaking down the myth that certain kinks are more real, more intense, or more valid than others. Whether your play leaves bruises or just leaves you breathless, your kink counts. We’ll explore the hidden hierarchies in the kink world, why emotional intensity matters just as much as physical, and how to stop comparing your edge to someone else’s. Because in kink, there’s no ladder to climb. You’re vali...
Jun 20, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 4Ep. 224
Inspired by a post on FetLife and real conversations with kinksters, this episode explores why both Dominants and submissives need clear, affirming rights in BDSM. We walk through the Submissive’s Bill of Rights and the Dominant’s Bill of Rights—not as rules, but as tools to support autonomy, respect, and consent in power exchange. Because no matter your role, your needs, boundaries, and voice matter. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% ...
Jun 13, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 223
CG/L dynamics are deeply personal and emotionally rich. They can offer comfort, structure, play, and healing—but only when built on a foundation of consent, communication, and respect. From bottle feeding to bedtime routines, from emotional support to power exchange, caregiving in kink is never one-size-fits-all. And it definitely isn’t just about being sweet and cuddly. In this episode, we’re digging into what healthy CG/L dynamics really look like, how to avoid common caregiving mistakes, and ...
Jun 06, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 4Ep. 222
Get ready to crack into the world of Spankos! In this episode, we’re joined by the legendary Miss Chris—Professional Disciplinarian, BDSM educator, and all-around badass—to take us deep into the Spanko community. We talk about what defines a Spanko, the unique appeal of spanking as a kink, and how this corner of the kink world builds trust, connection, and sometimes very sore bottoms. Miss Chris shares her journey, her insights on the psychology of spanking, and some of the common misconceptions...
May 30, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 4Ep. 221
Who comes first in a D/s dynamic? The Dominant? The submissive? Their needs? Their wants? In this episode, we’re digging into the D/s Hierarchy of Needs—a framework that helps make sense of how to prioritize care, safety, and power in a consensual exchange. We’ll explore what qualifies as a need versus a want, how to tell the difference, and why getting this balance right is essential for a healthy and thriving dynamic. Expect real-life examples, a dash of humor, and a few spicy truths kinksters...
May 23, 2025•57 min•Season 4Ep. 220
We’re sharing our strong (and spicy) opinions on the all-too-common idea that Dominants should “break” their submissives. Hint: we’re not fans. We’ll dive into where this harmful mindset comes from, why it shows up in kink spaces, and the real damage it can cause. Plus, we’ll talk about what ethical, empowered D/s actually looks like—because submission isn’t something to destroy, reshape, or control. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% o...
May 16, 2025•54 min•Season 4Ep. 219
We’re turning up the voltage and diving deeper into electro play! Dara’s absolutely buzzing to explore the three electrifying styles—sensual, sadistic, and sexual—and share how each one charges up your scenes in totally different ways. From teasing tingles to shocking surprises to hands-free O’s, we’re breaking it all down with new tips, tools, and zappy scenarios. This isn’t just a kink—it’s a whole circuit board of fun. Plug in, tune in, and get ready to find your favorite frequency. Visit us ...
May 09, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 218
It’s time to get wet and wild—literally. In this episode (affectionately known as The Wetpisode), we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and controversial kinks out there: watersports. This is a topic that brings out very strong opinions, and we get it—it’s not for everyone. But that’s exactly why it deserves a closer look. We explore the emotional, physical, and psychological appeal of watersports by hearing directly from kinksters who enjoy it. They share what draws them to it, how it...
May 02, 2025•54 min•Season 4Ep. 217
We're back with another fan-favorite In The News episode, and this one is packed with deliciously kinky chaos. From a steamy music video dripping in BDSM visuals to articles diving into DD/lg dynamics, modern vampirism, and the age-old question—why are people so horny for monsters? We’ve got thoughts, opinions, and our usual blend of education and sass. Grab your headphones and your holy water—this one's a wild ride. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKK...
Apr 25, 2025•59 min•Season 4Ep. 216
Dominance isn’t just about giving orders—it’s about leading with skill, intention, and heart. In this episode, we’re unpacking the essential tools every Dom should have, like clear communication, creative scene planning, emotional awareness, and the ability to check your ego when it matters most. Packed with real talk, personal stories, and plenty of laughs, this episode is your guide to leveling up your dominance and building stronger, more connected dynamics. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Af...
Apr 18, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 215
BDSM is built on trust, knowledge, and negotiation—but it can never be 100% risk-free. In this episode, we explore why the word “safe” is misleading in kink, and why relying on it can create a false sense of security. We’ll dive into better frameworks like RACK and PRICK, share real-life examples of scenes where things went wrong despite being “safe,” and give you practical tools to approach risk with honesty and responsibility. Because in kink, it’s not about being safe—it’s about being smart. ...
Apr 11, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 214
Just because you don’t have a caregiver doesn’t mean you have to put your little side in time-out! In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to explore, nurture, and fully enjoy your little space—even when you’re flying solo. Whether you're between dynamics, intentionally unpartnered, or just figuring things out, we’ll share tips, activities, and affirmations to help you embrace your inner little. From building a solo little space to managing big feelings without a caregiver's guidance, w...
Apr 04, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 213
In this episode, we’re tackling a phrase that makes our skin crawl: “non-consensual BDSM.” Spoiler alert—it’s not a thing. If it’s non-consensual, it’s not BDSM... it’s abuse. Full stop. Join us as we rant (with love), laugh through the frustration, and break down why this term is harmful, how predators use vague language to justify consent violations, and why explicit consent is the gold standard in kink. We’ll also spill the tea on a recent social media argument with a so-called educator who i...
Mar 28, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 3Ep. 212
Kink is a vast and fascinating world, and sometimes, the most unexpected things can spark desire. In this episode, we’re diving into the wonderful realm of niche kinks—those unique, specific turn-ons that don’t always get the spotlight. From the allure of beards to the thrill of shaving play, we explore the sensory delights, psychological appeal, and creative ways people incorporate these kinks into their scenes. Plus, we touch on a few other lesser-known fetishes that might surprise you! Whethe...
Mar 21, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 3Ep. 211
Get ready, folx, because we’re diving into the world of Studio 58 and their incredible Naughty conventions! In this episode, we sit down with JP, the mastermind behind Studio 58 and the Naughty series of events, to talk about how it all began, what drives their passion for creating these unique spaces, and what attendees can expect. We also get the inside scoop on Naughty Gras, their next big event happening March 27–30, 2025. If you’ve ever been curious about these conventions—or if you're alre...
Mar 14, 2025•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 210
We’re diving back into the wild, weird, and sometimes downright unhinged world of Reddit! From questionable advice to jaw-dropping confessions, we’re revisiting some of the best (and worst) BDSM-related posts we could find. Join us as we react, rant, and maybe even offer some much-needed education—because let’s be real, Reddit can be a lawless place. Whether it’s hilarious misconceptions, spicy debates, or just pure chaos, we’ve got it all in this episode. Buckle up, folx—it’s gonna be a ride! V...
Mar 07, 2025•1 hr
Submission isn’t just about obedience—it’s about building the skills that make you a confident, capable, and thriving submissive. In this episode, we’re diving into The Submissive’s Toolbox—a collection of practical and emotional tools that help bridge the gap between intention and action. From communication and time management to resilience and self-awareness, we’ll explore how these skills enhance your dynamic, strengthen your connection with your Dominant, and empower you as an active partici...
Feb 28, 2025•56 min•Season 4Ep. 208
What if everything you thought you knew about Littles in BDSM was wrong? You’ve probably heard that Littles are always submissive, playful, and eager to obey—but what if some of them prefer to take charge? In this episode, we’re diving into the world of Dominant Littles—yes, they exist!—and exploring how power, play, and authority can blend in ways you never expected. Stick around, because by the end of this episode, you might just start questioning everything you assumed about age play and powe...
Feb 21, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 207
Being an introvert in the BDSM community can feel like showing up to a dungeon party without a safeword—but fear not! In this episode, we explore what it really means to be an introvert in kink, bust some common myths, and highlight how introverts can thrive in BDSM dynamics. From finding your space in the scene to navigating munches without melting into a puddle of social exhaustion, we’ve got tips, tricks, and plenty of laughs. Plus, we share strategies for building deep connections, setting b...
Feb 14, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 206
Discover how understanding your Dominant archetype can deepen your self-awareness, enhance your dynamics, and boost your confidence. This episode breaks down common Dominant archetypes like the Caregiver, Ruler, Protector, Master/Mistress, Bratty Dom, and Pleasure Dom, highlighting their motivations, challenges, and ways to thrive. Learn how to integrate your unique style into scenes, rituals, and everyday interactions, while navigating common struggles like self-doubt and societal misconception...
Feb 07, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 205
Not all submissives are the same—everyone has their own style, needs, and desires when it comes to power exchange. In this episode, we explore different submissive archetypes and how understanding yours can help you build stronger dynamics and deeper connections. Are you a service sub who finds joy in acts of devotion? A brat who thrives on playful defiance? A Little who feels safe and cared for in a nurturing role? We break down the most common archetypes, explain their motivations and challeng...
Jan 31, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 204
Let's face it - the name 'Cock and Ball Torture' (CBT) can make even seasoned kinksters cringe a little. But this misunderstood kink isn't all about extreme pain or wild stunts. In this episode, we're breaking down the myths and tackling common misconceptions surrounding CBT. We discuss beginner-friendly techniques and explore how CBT can deepen emotional and psychological connections. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) O...
Jan 24, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 203
We dive into what it means to embrace your inner sadist. We talk about the different types of sadism—physical, mental, emotional, and more—and how they can bring intensity and excitement to your BDSM play. We also get real about the struggles that come with accepting this side of yourself, like dealing with guilt or fear of judgment. But don’t worry—we’ve got you covered with tips for overcoming those challenges and fully owning your sadistic side. Plus, we share creative ideas for adding sadism...
Jan 17, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 202
Welcome to the first episode of our newest series, dedicated to topics all about Littles! In this series, we’ll explore everything that makes being a Little special, with episodes focusing on the joys, challenges, and unique experiences of life in Little space. In this episode, we’re diving into why coloring and crafting are such beloved activities for Littles. From the calming and creative energy they bring to how they help kinksters fully embrace Little space, we’ll uncover what makes these si...
Jan 10, 2025•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 201
It’s time to pop the confetti (and maybe some paddles) because we’ve hit episode 200! What better way to celebrate this milestone than by spilling all the juicy, hilarious, and downright jaw-dropping details of our adventures in the dungeon over the past three months? From scenes that left us laughing to those that had us reflecting on the beauty of kink, we’re giving you an uncensored backstage pass to our wildest experiences. Whether it was experimenting with new toys, encountering unforgettab...
Jan 03, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 200
It’s the end of the year, and you know what that means—time to see if we actually kept those ambitious 2024 resolutions or if we, uh, “creatively interpreted” them instead. Join us as we look back on a year full of kink, chaos, and surprises (and a fair bit of laughing at ourselves). Did we meet our goals? Did we completely forget about them? Spoiler: both. But we’re not stopping there! We’re setting our sights on 2025 with fresh resolutions that are just as ambitious (and possibly doomed). Tune...
Dec 27, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 199
Being a Dominant doesn’t require having a submissive. In this episode, we dive into how to embrace and develop your Dominant side on your own. From practical tips for tapping into Dominant energy to strategies for growing your skills and building confidence, we’ll help you strengthen your identity and lead with intention. Whether in kink or daily life, discover ways to fully embody your Dominant self. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% ...
Dec 20, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 198
What’s sounding, and why would anyone want to do it? In this episode, we take a closer look at this unique kink, talking about why some people enjoy giving and why others like receiving. We’ll also cover how to do it safely because when it comes to sounding, safety is key! Whether you’re just curious or looking to learn more, we’ve got you covered with straightforward info and a little humor along the way. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save...
Dec 13, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 197
