In today’s listener episode, I’m talking with Dionne, a proud Gen Xer who shares her story of a six-and-a-half-year, very on-again, off-again relationship that was marked by several breakups—some lasting just a weekend, others stretching to six months. We discuss how easy and addictive the breakup-get-back-together cycle can be, especially for those with anxious attachment styles, and the emotional toll it takes over time. Dionne opens up about the moment she finally decided to choose herself an...
Jul 01, 2025•49 min
In today's solo episode, I'm diving into the topic of hitting "rock bottom" after a breakup—what it really means, why it matters, and how it can actually be a catalyst for deep change and healing. I share personal stories and draw some powerful parallels to sobriety and recovery, discussing why so many of us avoid fully feeling the pain after a breakup and the ways we try to distract or numb ourselves to avoid that lowest point. We talk about the importance of allowing yourself to truly be "done...
Jun 24, 2025•22 min
In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by New York Times bestselling author Laura Day to dive into her newest book, The Prism , through the lens of heartbreak and healing. Laura and I talk about why breakups are so uniquely painful, what happens in our brains and bodies when we lose a relationship, and how intuition and ego both play a role in how we cope. We get into the seven centers of the ego, how the structures of our previous relationships can become both comfort and prison, and Laura share...
Jun 17, 2025•51 min
In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Judith Belmont , an experienced therapist and author of multiple self-help books, including her latest, “ 110 CBT Tips and Tools .” We dive deep into the practical side of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and how its tools can help you through a breakup. Judith shares the most common unhelpful thought patterns people get stuck in after heartbreak, like all-or-nothing thinking and fortune telling, and gives actionable advice on how to identify, reframe, ...
Jun 10, 2025•41 min
In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Isabelle Morley, a clinical psychologist specializing in couples therapy and author of the recently released book They’re Not Gaslighting You . We dive deep into the rise and overuse of “therapy speak”—think labels like gaslighting, narcissism, and red flags—and how these terms, while validating for many, can sometimes stall real healing after a breakup. Dr. Morley and I discuss why we’re so quick to diagnose our exes, the emotional pay-off behind it,...
Jun 03, 2025•45 min
In today’s listener episode, I’m interviewing Marc, a man in his early 40s from the East Coast who is sharing the story of his recent breakup after an eight year relationship. Marc opens up about navigating an incredibly rare amicable breakup and what it really looks like to end things with kindness and respect—even when it’s still deeply painful. We talk about how the loss of his mom a year and a half before the breakup was a pivotal moment that changed his perspective on his relationship, and ...
May 27, 2025•55 min
Today I’m taking you solo through a topic that hits close to home—reclaiming the things that feel lost after a breakup. Whether it’s a favorite song, a restaurant, a hobby, or even an entire part of town, breakups often leave us avoiding things we used to love. In this episode, I’m sharing stories from listeners and my own experience about what we feel our exes “took” from us, and how I learned to gently approach those triggers in my own healing process. I’ll walk you through figuring out what’s...
May 20, 2025•22 min
In today’s episode, I’m chatting with forgiveness expert Dara McKinley. We’re tackling a topic that’s come up a lot in breakups but rarely gets broken down: how do you actually forgive? Dara shares her personal story about searching for step-by-step advice on forgiveness and realizing that most resources only tell us why we "should" forgive—and not how. Together, we unpack common misconceptions, like thinking forgiveness means excusing someone’s behavior, and explore why it’s really about findin...
May 13, 2025•45 min
In today’s solo episode, I’m diving deep into what it’s really like to go through the initial shock after a breakup. I’ll share what those first days can feel like—whether you’re in disbelief, feeling numb, caught up in logistical details, or hoping your ex might come back. I’ll talk about why it’s completely normal if the deepest pain doesn’t hit right away, and remind you that however you’re experiencing your breakup, you’re not alone. If you’re feeling confused, overwhelmed, or just not yours...
May 06, 2025•20 min
In this episode I'm finally diving into one of the most-requested topics: fertility and the realities of the biological clock, especially when you're going through a breakup. I’m joined by Dr. Lucky Sekhon , an incredible double board-certified fertility expert based in NYC, who breaks down everything from egg freezing and IVF to solo parenting and common misconceptions about age and fertility. Dr. Lucky explains the latest advances in reproductive health, gives practical advice on choosing the ...
Apr 29, 2025•48 min
On today’s episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak podcast, I sit down with Katherine Rose Woller, author of " Calling It Off: Memoir of an Almost Bride. " Katherine shares her deeply personal story about deciding to call off her wedding just two weeks before it was supposed to happen. Together, we talk honestly about the pressure to stay in relationships, why it’s so important to listen to your intuition, and the emotional reality behind making such a tough choice. If you’re dealing with heartbreak...
Apr 22, 2025•41 min
In this episode I explore the raw and often hidden challenges of going through a breakup. I reached out to my Instagram followers and gathered honest, anonymous responses about what surprised them most during their breakup journey. From feeling unexpectedly blindsided and dealing with intense emotions to grappling with forgiveness and missing someone toxic, this episode sheds light on the shared yet personal nature of heartbreak. I want to remind you that you're not alone in this process—everyon...
Apr 15, 2025•22 min
In today's episode, I have the pleasure of chatting with Topaz Adizes, the incredible director of " The And " and founder of The Skin Deep . Together, we dive into the fascinating world of how deep, intentional questions can significantly elevate relationship intimacy. Topaz opens up about his personal quest for real connection, sharing how the right questions can transform negative thought patterns into opportunities for empowering self-growth. We explore the concept of intimacy as a skill that...
Apr 08, 2025•46 min
Welcome back to another episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak podcast, today I'm diving into a topic that's really personal and important—what happens after you stand by your values and it leads to a breakup. This episode, I'm sharing my own experiences and insights on what it's like when your future goals, like wanting kids or marriage, don't align with your partner's. We'll talk about the emotional journey, the self-doubt, and questioning if you're asking for too much. I want you to remember tha...
Apr 01, 2025•18 min
In today's episode, we're thrilled to have Drew Ramsey, MD, a psychiatrist, psychotherapist, and author of " Healing the Modern Brain ." Drew sheds light on the science of mental fitness and its role in overcoming heartbreak. He explains the brain's reactions during a breakup and how building mental strength can aid recovery and future resilience. We discuss the importance of nutrition, movement, nature, and connection in emotional healing. Drew offers practical tools for enhancing self-awarenes...
Mar 25, 2025•52 min
In this episode of Heal Your Heartbreak, we're exploring the concept of conflict resilience with experts Bob Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas. Bob, a negotiation and mediation expert, and Joelle, a neurology professor, have come together to discuss how embracing conflict, rather than avoiding it, can lead to stronger relationships. Their new book, Conflict Resilience , offers insights and practical steps on how to transform disagreements into opportunities for connection. Join us as our guests share...
Mar 18, 2025•45 min
Today's episode I get to chat with Mary Jelkovsky, the fantastic mind behind Mary's Cup of Tea podcast and someone I really admire for her wisdom on self-love and self-worth. We dive into some pretty deep stuff about letting love in, especially when you’re struggling to love yourself. Mary gets personal about her journey with disordered eating and how compassion was a game-changer for her healing. We also hash out the truth about self-care—it isn’t all about the fancy stuff you see on social med...
Mar 11, 2025•50 min
In today's episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast I’m tackling something we all deal with after a breakup but don’t always talk about—those "aftershocks" that hit us out of nowhere. You know, like when you see your ex’s car pass by or a song comes on that suddenly takes you back. This idea clicked for me after chatting with Suzy Hopkins and Hallie Bateman and hearing from some of you who are dealing with these feelings too. I’m here to break down why these little triggers happen and, more i...
Mar 04, 2025•22 min
In this episode of Heal Your Heartbreak, I'm thrilled to welcome the wonderful SC Perot, the author of " Styles of Joy ." We dive into SC's incredible story of discovering joy in the middle of some serious life chaos. Picture this: a pandemic hits, her career takes an unexpected turn, and she goes through a really tough divorce—all at once. Just when everything seemed upside down, SC found an unexpected source of happiness in the music of Harry Styles. Not only did she become a superfan, but she...
Feb 25, 2025•46 min
In this episode, I chat with Sabrina Zohar, host of the Sabrina Zohar podcast, about why we take breakups so personally and how to shift that mindset. Sabrina shares her journey from difficult relationships and anxiety to creating content that helps others navigate dating and relationships. We dive deep into why rejection hurts so badly from both a psychological and neurological perspective, discussing how our core beliefs and narratives shape our response to breakups. We explore the importance ...
Feb 18, 2025•48 min
In this episode of Heal Your Heartbreak, I sit down with Suzy Hopkins and Hallie Bateman, marking the first time we've had a mother-daughter duo on the show. They join me to discuss their newly released book, "What to Do When You Get Dumped: A Guide to Unbreaking Your Heart." Suzy shares her personal journey of healing after the sudden end to her 30-year marriage, and how it inspired this candid exploration of the messy, unpredictable, and often lengthy path to recovery after a breakup. Througho...
Feb 11, 2025•54 min
In today's episode I'm revisiting one of the most popular and crucial topics for anyone navigating a breakup: the no contact rule. Initially discussed on the podcast almost five years ago, I'm exploring how my perspective on this approach has evolved with feedback and new insights. I'll define the no contact rule, elaborate on why it is a powerful tool for healing, and share practical advice for implementing it effectively. Through listener questions from social media, I'll delve into various nu...
Feb 04, 2025•33 min
On this episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast we have guests Julie Kraftchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the Dateable podcast and authors of the new book "How to Be Dateable." Rather than providing typical dating rules or gimmicks, they discuss how to approach dating authentically and in alignment with one's true self. In this episode we talk about – The modern dating pitfalls that keep people stuck in unfulfilling patterns – Different dating archetypes (Maverick, Achiever, Thinker, Dreamer, Ene...
Jan 28, 2025•47 min
In today's episode I'm interviewing Meghan Keane, author of the book Party of One: Finding Joy in Your Own Company and Supervising Editor of NPR's LifeKit Podcast. We talk about Meghan's journey on writing this book, how to become your own best partner, why society works against us in accepting single people, fears around being single, how to become more comfortable in your skin (with some very practical techniques), and much more! To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click...
Jan 21, 2025•42 min
In today's solo episode I'm talking about the myth that I believe keeps so many people connected to their exes which is, being the "exception to the rule". We talk about in what ways people believe they're the exceptions to the rule, the issues that it causes, why we want to believe we're the exception, and what to do about it. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform....
Jan 14, 2025•20 min
In today's episode we have a return guest, Jenny Taitz who is here to talk about her new book Stress Resets which is full of incredible advice and tools on how to decrease stress in the moment and over time. We talk about where stress comes from and what it does to the body, we talk about why different tools help at reducing stress, and how you can build a practice of these habits to reduce your stress level over time. You will walk away from this episode with so many ideas on how to tackle stre...
Jan 07, 2025•33 min
As we move into the new year today's episode talks about how to start looking forward to your future again. Breakups can take away excitement and hope as you look forward but there are things you can do RIGHT NOW to start looking forward to things again. I walk you through multiple journaling exercises to do to build out your 2025 with some excitement and hope. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for yo...
Dec 31, 2024•15 min
In today's episode we are talking about dating mindfully which are two words you rarely hear together but our guest Dr. Marie Thouin walks us through different techniques that allow you to utilize dating apps and date in a way that feels authentic and non anxiety inducing. We also talk about Dr. Thouin's other expertise which is consensual non monogamy and the concept of compersion which is finding joy instead of jealousy when your partner experiences joy. To find out which Break Up Bestie Cours...
Dec 24, 2024•39 min
In today's episode I'm talking about boundaries, and why they are ultimately the kind thing to do for not only yourself but also for your ex and those around you. I talk about my personal journey with boundaries and how I came to terms with being able to set them, and how you can practice setting boundaries too. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO ...
Dec 17, 2024•23 min
In today's episode of the podcast I'm interviewing licensed mental health counselor and host of the Quiet the Clock Podcast, Beth Gulotta. Our topic today is hugely important when it comes to going through breakups which is the societal timelines embedded so deeply in all of us. We talk about why the clock exists, how societal norms are changing, how to change your perspective when going through a breakup where it feels like you're running out of time, and much much more! Be sure to check out Be...
Dec 10, 2024•42 min
