Why does nothing go right when we try to get together and do a thing? Ashlyn and Che get together (pre-Corona Madness) to discuss the concept of friendship and hoped to bring some of their girls along for the ride. Two no-shows ain’t gonna stop the show though! We grade ourselves on how effective our friendship is and ask about the signs of ending friendships. Oh, and of course, there’s a quiz or two. Follow Us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: WTBTPod Email us listener letters/questio...
Apr 14, 2020•59 min•Ep. 27
Brown eyes. Check. Tall(er than me). Check. Got a job. CHECK! Everyone has a mental checklist when it comes to their dating preferences and Ashlyn and Che are no different. Some may call it vain but we like what we like. Obviously, we’re not gonna agree on everything though. That would be a boring episode...and we’d have a lot more exes in common. Speed dating anyone? Follow Us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: WTBTPod Email us listener letters/questions and Reading Nook suggestions at...
Apr 06, 2020•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 26
Dealing with depression on your own can be daunting enough but for some reason, we crave romantic connections on top of all of it. But what if they don’t understand. Che and Ashlyn know the trials and tribulations of dating while juggling their depression firsthand and woo, do we have some doozies! Naturally, you’re going to be apprehensive about letting your guard down and getting all the way real with your significant other but who knows, they may surprise you! What’s important is the fact tha...
Apr 06, 2020•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 25
The internet needs to learn where the chill button is. In the age of social media, it’s easy to get overwhelmed with trying to portray that “perfect life”. We can’t all be influencers. Ashlyn and Che tackle one of the hardest questions when it comes to adulting: How to stop being so overwhelmed! It can take a toll on your mental health and your overall success. Sometimes you just need to have a safe word to take you out of your tailspin before you end up with more clothes than you can fit in you...
Mar 13, 2020•56 min•Ep. 24
What do you get when Che has too much caffeine in one sitting? This episode! This week, Ashlyn and Che discuss how to manage your inner dialogue and how that little voice in your head can make or break your growth. Focus on the present and don’t worry about the past or future; you’re not going back there and it hasn’t happened yet. Positive thinking in the present can change everything. Follow Us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: WTBTPod Email us listener letters/questions at willthere...
Mar 06, 2020•57 min•Ep. 23
What good is having a podcast if you can't debate with your guests! We’ve got Ashlyn’s boyfriend Aaron in the hot seat this week and he gives us his takes on everything from dating to career and of course. Mental Health. You've gotta be up on your mental health if you're dealing with Ashlyn...just kidding, sorta. Follow us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Feb 28, 2020•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 22
Tequila can give anyone some liquid courage but is it enough to help you confront your fears? This week, Ashlyn and Che peel back the layers of how fear has played a role in their adulting experience so far. Careful: It gets deep. Follow us on: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Feb 21, 2020•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 21
Anyone feel like that Drake and Trey Songz track really spoke to them? Just us? This week, Ashlyn and Che discuss their definitions of success and how it measures up to that of society. Should we all just give up our day jobs and become Fashion Nova brand ambassadors? Follow us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Feb 14, 2020•53 min•Ep. 20
Ashlyn and Che reflect on books that they've come across in their past and ones that they hope to pick up soon. Nothing beats knowledge or skills you can get from a good book! One with actual pages, hopefully. Follow us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions/Reading Nook suggestions at [email protected]
Feb 14, 2020•51 min•Ep. 19
*bell rings* Welcome to Health 101! Ashlyn steps in as the teacher in the front of the class while Che feels a bit under the weather (Yes, again) but that doesn't stop her from talking sex ed. Let's be kinder to ourselves in 2020! Follow us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Feb 14, 2020•43 min•Ep. 18
No hot shots this week! We've got bigger fish to fry. Ashlyn and Che chat about the importance of self-care and how to go about dating yourself. You know you deserve it sis. Follow us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Feb 14, 2020•39 min•Ep. 17
We made it...I think. Ashlyn and Che are coming into the new year with fresh eyes but it's natural to lose sight of the resolutions that ton set three days ago. We talk how to keep your promises to yourself and build lasting motivation. Oh, and Che learns a new word! Follow us on Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Feb 14, 2020•51 min•Ep. 16
And just like that, Will There Be Tequila has made it to the end of 2019! Ashlyn and Che reflect on the past year (and the last decade) and talk the good, bad, and the ugly. With Che leaving trash relationships and Ashlyn wanting a fat ass in the new year, 2020 smells like new ideas, new adventures and new money! Putting it into the universe now. Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 27, 2020•56 min•Ep. 15
This week’s episode is definitely a treat! Although Che is still recovering from what sounded and felt like the plague, she decided to make some adult moves. This week, the girls discuss the concept of self worth and how one can feel like they have something to prove. So much to unpack... Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 27, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 14
Che has thrown candy canes and garland up everywhere in the bar and Ashlyn could not be any less happy. This week, the girls share their respective Christmas traditions and reflect on Christmas past (sans ghosts). Holiday this or that causes some divides and we may end some friendships with these questions. Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 27, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 13
What a strange world we live in! Ashlyn and Che talk double standards when it comes to sex and parents’ reaction to their children being sexual active. We don’t condone parental hymen inspections unlike SOME PEOPLE. Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 27, 2020•54 min•Ep. 12
This adulting thing is GHETTO! This week, Ashlyn and Che talk about adulting and the unrealistic expectations that come along with it. We’re just winging shit, can we live?! Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 27, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 11
Ashlyn and Che discuss love languages this week and who knew there were names for how you show your love. We talk about how our love language affects others and how others’ love languages affect us. Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 16, 2020•50 min•Ep. 10
This week, Ashlyn and Che take on one of the many downfalls of dating: ghosting. *cues up audience boo track* Sometimes, there could be other components at play when it comes to ghosting. But does that make ghosting someone ok? We take a trip down memory lane to remember all of our old ghost stories. Link to Essence.com article: https://www.essence.com/love/so-youve-been-ghosted-heres-5-tips-to-handle-the-sting-of-rejection/ Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us y...
Jan 16, 2020•53 min•Ep. 9
We got our first guest!! So what it’s Che’s little brother, we’re not talking to ourselves anymore. Ashlyn and Che (plus Darius) reflect on their respective college experiences and compare notes about the big decisions that go along with being a college student. We’ve also got HBCUConfession screenshots! Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 16, 2020•56 min•Ep. 8
Ashlyn and Che get real about mental health and when it is necessary to take a day for yourself. Sometimes, work, relationships and being functional humans in society is tiring so know when you need to take a step back before you burn yourself out! Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 16, 2020•51 min•Ep. 7
I’ve had it with the motherfucking lack of LGBT visibility in the motherfucking media! Ashlyn and Che have an important conversation about respecting pronouns, LGBT voices in politics, fashion and everything in between on the spectrum. This week is gonna be a good one! Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Jan 16, 2020•45 min•Ep. 6
So Mercury may or may not have entered retrograde because we’re just overflowing with Hot Shots this week! This week, Ashlyn and Che discuss whether power moves should be kept to oneself or if it’s okay to confide in someone before the leap. We must say, vibes play a very important role in our decision.
Dec 20, 2019•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 5
This week, Ashlyn and Che talk non-negotiables when in a relationship. Everyone has weird hang ups but will that be the end of your relationship?
Dec 20, 2019•52 min•Ep. 4
The past is the past for a reason. This week, the girls look back on some past relationSHITS experiences and how to keep those ghosts in the past.
Dec 20, 2019•44 min•Ep. 3
As the summer comes to a close, Ashlyn and Che do a quick recap to see if they made Megan Thee Stallion proud and lived up to their hot girl potential (Spoiler Alert: WE DON’T) Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]
Dec 20, 2019•33 min•Ep. 2
Hey, hello, is this thing on? Welcome to what just might be your new favorite podcast, Will There Be Tequila? In this episode, you’ll meet Ashlyn and Che as they navigate this thing called life one shot at a time! A pair of African American women from different walks of life that bond over a common characteristic: we’ve got some things to say! Listener discretion advised...DUN DUN! Follow us: Instagram: @willtherebetequilaa Twitter: @WTBTPod Email us your questions at [email protected]...
Dec 20, 2019•26 min•Ep. 1
