In this raw and deeply personal episode, David shares the emotional aftermath of abortion, the haunting sense of loss, the psychological toll, and the profound betrayal that left him shattered. For David, this wasn’t just another difficult moment, it was his breaking point. But unlike many men who feel unready and choose to walk away from an unplanned pregnancy, David’s response is different — more complex, more human. Continuing from part 1 of this interview, David reflects on the impact of gro...
Apr 22, 2025•1 hr 7 min
David Hundeyin shares his relationship and marriage life in this interview. He details the impulsive decisions he made with women that almost cost him everything, as well as the dire consequences of ignoring mental health cues. David shares vulnerable moments about intimate aspects of his personal love life and marital shenanigans. If you think you read it all in his book titled 'Breaking Point', wait till you see this interview. This is only the first part. Stay tuned for the second part. Avail...
Mar 23, 2025•1 hr
In this final episode of the #findinglove series, Kezia discusses why secrecy is dangerous for relationships. She also emphasises the importance of walking in love, as opposed to falling, and how the best relationships are founded on the principle of positive reciprocity. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast Slow Music credit: Fesliyan Studios...
Dec 28, 2024•33 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Remember that you are not married until you are married. Dating? Single. Engaged? Still single. So when is it safe to ‘cut off’ all others and focus on your partner? Especially knowing that the risk of a breakup is inevitable? Listen to find out. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast...
Oct 31, 2024•15 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Love is a logical decision as much as it is an emotional one. Knowing when to lower your expectations and when to be realistic with those expectations is an important step in finding love. Tradeoffs will be required, depending on the type of partner you desire. Listen to this episode to understand the tradeoffs necessary in the search of genuine and sustainable love. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/...
Oct 19, 2024•25 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Ever felt like you're the catch and your partner should be lucky to have you? It's time to check your ego at the door. Love blossoms when the two individuals recognise the unique qualities they each bring to the table. Listen to find out why thinking you’re the prize can hinder the progress of your search for love. More-so, in a world that often pressures us to rush into commitments, Kezia emphasises the benefits of slowing down and truly getting to know one another. Learn how slowing down can g...
Oct 01, 2024•25 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Is your heart's desire also a genetic match? On this episode, two medical doctors discuss the latest medical advancements and the importance of pre-relationship health screenings for genetic compatibility and infectious disease testing. Medical compatibility goes beyond just genotype. Listen to find out what else you might be missing. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast...
Sep 04, 2024•26 min•Season 1Ep. 7
When you meet a potential partner, conversations become the primary method to knowing and understanding each other. If you do not hold your end of the conversation, the potential partner may eventually lose interest and take a walk. Good conversations take two people. How do you contribute to making a conversation 'good' and 'interesting'? How long should the talking stage last? Listen to find out. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kez...
Jun 19, 2024•36 min•Season 1Ep. 6
This episode explores why taking the initiative, making the bold move & breaking the ice is important to find love. You’ll learn about overcoming shyness, effective icebreakers and putting yourself out there with confidence. By the end of this episode, you should be able to spark interesting conversations & peak genuine interest. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast
Jun 01, 2024•19 min•Season 1Ep. 5
Learn why ghost profiles & the absence of a persona in social spaces do not get any bonus points when seeking love. Strategically positioning yourself in love’s path can work in your favour, so do it now.
May 14, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 4
You want a slim thick woman when you have a sugar daddy bod? Do you have the money to match? You want a man living in his OWN home and driving his own car. Did your daddy have a house when he married your mother? Do you have your own home? Or are your standards applicable only when it is on another person's pocket? This episode drives home the importance of working towards being the kind of person that you desire your partner to be- rich, educated, athletic, compassionate, prayerful and so on. ‘...
Apr 30, 2024•13 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Don't settle for less than you deserve – it's time to define what truly matters to you in love and relationships. By crafting clear non-negotiables that filter out incompatible matches, you stop wasting time on people that lead nowhere which frees up your schedule for the good stuff! Tune in on the next episode for step 3 of Finding Love: becoming who you want to be with. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linkt...
Apr 13, 2024•19 min•Season 1Ep. 2
The importance of defining what you truly desire in a partner is that you automatically start to recognise what you don't want, guiding you closer to your ideal match and saving you precious time and emotional energy. Finding love has become painfully challenging given limited quality options, despite an abundance of people. But what if the very first step in finding love is surprisingly simple? This episode dives into the power of admitting that you WANT love, and embracing your desire for conn...
Mar 31, 2024•22 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Holding onto grudges can transform your partner into a villain, when in reality, it's your own inability to forgive that's consuming you. Grievances create a distorted view of your partner, making them seem worse than they are. But the real monster? Unforgiveness itself. Learn how to break free from the cycle for a happier, healthier relationship. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast...
Feb 29, 2024•26 min•Ep. 47
From the undeniable betrayal of physical infidelity to the subtle transgressions of emotional entanglements, I discuss the nuances of each form. Whether you're grappling with the aftermath of cheating yourself or seeking to understand its complexities, this episode will challenge your perspective and make you question the boundaries of trust. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that might just redefine your perception of cheating! Link to article referencing the research on high IQ men an...
Jan 31, 2024•33 min•Ep. 46
I discuss the privilege of genuine love - how exciting things usually are at the beginning of love, relationships and marriage - and the eventual, sometimes unintended descent into the abuse of access. One of the fastest ways to ruin the beauty of love is to take the access you have to your partner for granted. Genuine love demands that you never trivialise the privilege of access even when the relationship has lost its spark or after your partner has been demystified. Crafted with Love for the ...
Jan 01, 2024•55 min•Ep. 45
Do you have what it takes to hold the attention of the man you love? Good conversations do not happen by chance; they are the result of a willing heart and a curious mind. Listen to 4 basic tips to get you off to a good start in that conversation with your crush. He is supposed to chase after you, NOT after a conversation with you. I hope you know the difference. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/youn...
Nov 30, 2023•15 min•Ep. 44
How ‘cheap’ is your man? It sounds like all men lack control and discipline- but I would like to believe that God still has sons. Unsuspecting men falling prey to the seductive whims of women who aren’t their partners is the new order of the day. Is he safe with your wig vendor for even a day? Or will he be ‘snatched’ from you just like that? Where are the men who master discipline? Where are the men who understand boundaries? Where are the men who shun infidelity? Where are the sons of God? Whe...
Oct 31, 2023•15 min•Ep. 43
The absence of my father has influenced the way I interact with my romantic partners. The fatherless daughter syndrome is real and it manifests in more ways than we know. Constantly seeking validation, feelings of insecurity, clinginess, hyper vulnerability and a host of many others, could be signs that you are yet to heal from the psychological damage caused by a father who walked out on you as a kid. Emily (name changed) and I discuss our trauma response to absentee fathers in our relationship...
Oct 01, 2023•53 min•Ep. 42
Are you in a committed relationship but find yourself attracted to another person? On this episode, Kezia discusses third-party attractions, why they occur, how to guard your heart jealously and what to do if you already find yourself in this tricky situation. Support the Podcast on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ ~...
Sep 01, 2023•45 min•Ep. 41
Today, I put our African parents on the cross and nail them for the wickedness they display during the wedding preparations of their children. I say a short prayer for these parents, uncles and aunties as well as ‘village people’. To start this conversation with your parents, share this episode with them and leave your comments on the corresponding post on Instagram @younginlove_podcast. Support the Podcast on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://in...
Aug 01, 2023•21 min•Ep. 40
Is it really sexual harassment or an opportunity to show your sexual prowess? Where do we draw the line between sexual harassment and compliments? Is sexual harassment gender specific? Gideon and Kezia unravel the grey areas in sexual harassment of males and share real life experiences of sexual harassment and how they were managed. Leave your comments on the corresponding post on Instagram @younginlove_podcast. Support the Podcaster on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove Follow YIL Podc...
Jun 30, 2023•36 min•Ep. 39
It is true that the world has become so connected via the internet that you do not necessarily need to go out to meet new people. However, in-person interactions have an advantage that digital connections will never offer. On this episode, Miša and his fiancé, Irina, share the fateful story of how they met at the beach, Irina’s adventurous trip to Serbia and their convictions around finding and staying in love. Support the Podcaster on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove Follow YIL Podca...
May 31, 2023•40 min•Ep. 38
This is not your regular love story. Theirs is one of fate; giving love a chance against the odds stacked against them. Chika and Taiwo join me to share the challenges they have had to deal with as a couple, the boundaries they established for ex-lovers, the intriguing story of how they met and so much more. Enjoy! Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ Support the ...
Apr 30, 2023•56 min•Ep. 37
For people of faith, ever wondered if sex and prayer were compatible? Is there a safe way to 'fornicate'? Is there a guiltless way to 'fornicate'? On this episode, I am joined by Obinna to discuss the guilt from so-called fornication, and the liberty that eventually comes from having sex and being able to pray immediately after. Obinna speaks from experience and shares the absolute game-changer. Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit t...
Apr 09, 2023•41 min•Ep. 36
I look like a Crocodile but that’s gist for when you listen. He speaks German. I speak English. Is there the slightest chance that there’s a future between us? Personally, I think not and for a good number of reasons. On this episode, I share my personal experiences with being approached by men who do not speak English and how I have navigated these situations. It’s the first episode since November 2021 and I am happy to be in your ears once again. Happy New Year, #youngLoversSquad. Comment on t...
Apr 30, 2022•28 min•Ep. 36
You've got a wicked man? Say no more! You may very well be already punishing him and I share how. For those with kind men, let me tell you what you need to stop doing to enjoy those snugly cuddly nights in the arms of the man you love. To donate to Baby Chima's #gofundme, please use this link. https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-save-chinedum-onyemaechis-life?utm_source=customer&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=p_cf+share-flow-1 To get in touch, visit @younginlove_podcast on Instagram, Face...
Oct 31, 2021•22 min•Ep. 35
How far are you willing to go to prove a point? On this episode, the guest couple & I explore the rationale for sharing graphic pictures of virgin blood from their first sex and the BEHIND THE SCENES of their pre-marital life. And oh, they have a word for everyone hating on them. Enjoy!
Oct 14, 2021•49 min•Ep. 34
“Tell Me About Yourself”. For what? As who? Unto what? If you don’t gedifok😂. After listening to this episode, I hope we repent of the nuisance that that statement is. Let’s leave it for job interviews. Amen🙌🏽 Drop a comment on this episode via Podroom or Spotify. I’ll be waiting🌚🌚
Oct 01, 2021•19 min•Ep. 33
Mrs. X and I talk total sexual abstinence before marriage, how she handled pre marital sexual pressure, her first sexual experience with her husband after marriage, the challenges she currently faces and the resolution she has made. A must-listen for waiting singles and the married who waited.
Aug 31, 2021•43 min•Ep. 31
