Friendships as adults can feel complicated. Life gets busy, priorities shift, and sometimes... the people we once spoke to daily become names we whisper in prayer instead of texts we send. In this heartfelt episode of Yinka’sMuse , I open up about the challenges and the quiet joys of forming and maintaining friendships as we grow older. We talk about the drifting, the growing pains, the beauty of intentional bonds, and how to hold space for change without bitterness. If you've ever grieved a fri...
Apr 27, 2025•17 min
When life feels overwhelming, it’s tempting to withdraw — to disappear into the background and hope no one notices your struggle. But what if showing up, even in small ways, is the most powerful thing you can do? In this honest and tender episode, I share my own experience navigating a tough season — the emotional rollercoaster of job applications and rejection emails — and how I’m learning to keep showing up through it all. This isn’t about pretending to be okay; it’s about making space for hon...
Apr 13, 2025•12 min•Season 8Ep. 115
Have you ever caught yourself wondering how different your life would be if a certain opportunity had worked out? A job offer that fell through, a relationship that didn’t last, a path you didn’t take? It’s easy to get lost in the “what could have been,” but the truth is, that kind of thinking can keep us stuck. In this episode, we explore the emotional weight of dwelling on missed opportunities and why constantly looking back can prevent us from fully embracing the present. I also share a perso...
Mar 23, 2025•19 min•Season 8Ep. 114
Relationships should be built on mutual respect and appreciation—not obligation. But sometimes, we find ourselves around people who act like they’re doing us a favour by being in our lives. Whether in friendships, relationships, or even work dynamics, this toxic mindset can slowly wear down our confidence and self-worth. In this episode, we unpack the signs of these one-sided relationships, why they’re harmful, and most importantly, how to step away and choose better connections. If someone make...
Feb 24, 2025•13 min•Season 8Ep. 113
Love isn’t just about grand gestures or big, romantic moments—it’s about the little things that happen every day. From remembering how someone takes their coffee to sending a simple “thinking of you” text, love ripples down to the quiet, consistent actions that show we care. In this episode, I explore the small yet powerful ways love is expressed and how these everyday moments strengthen our relationships. Whether it’s a warm hug, a shared laugh, or simply listening without judgment, these littl...
Feb 09, 2025•16 min•Season 8Ep. 112
On this episode I talk about starting over, I share personal experiences that even though 2020 might have been one hell of a ride... 2021 is a good year to hope again and start over trusting God for miracles and testimonies on all siďes
Feb 08, 2025•18 min
On this podcast episode this week I talk about the sentence that has become more like a cliche but still very much important and relevant in our lives. I talk about the importance of paying it forward, opening the door for other people to walk in especially when you have a platform and then I also gave examples of celebrities who are currently rising by lifting others up.
Feb 08, 2025•12 min
This episode we talk about the expectations our parents place on us and the controversies surrounding the fact to some of our parents we would always be their retirement plan.
Feb 08, 2025•9 min
Should you speak out or forever remain silent when you start catching feelings ? Is it possible for one to remain in the friend zone and how can things be managed when the person you liking doesn't reciprocate the feelings. I and my friend (Adewunmi) discuss all this and more.
Feb 08, 2025•19 min
On this episode of the podcast, I talk about showing up when it matters using Davido birthday celebration as a case study. #celebration #birthday #davido #showingup #friendship #relationship
Feb 08, 2025•12 min
This episode I invited my colleague from work and we talked about how to survive as a commuter in Lagos. The skills that are needed and how to manoeuvre your way around.
Feb 08, 2025•26 min
ove should feel like effort, commitment, and care—not emotional scraps. In this episode, we’re diving into nonchalant love —what it looks like, why it’s harmful, and why you need to walk away from emotionally unavailable partners. If you’ve ever felt like you’re the only one trying in a relationship, constantly questioning where you stand, or making excuses for someone’s lack of effort, this conversation is for you. We’ll break down the signs of nonchalant love, why you deserve better, and how t...
Feb 02, 2025•21 min•Season 7Ep. 111
Friendships are one of life’s most rewarding connections, but they’re not always easy—especially during moments of loss, failure, or setbacks. In this episode, we explore how tough times can test friendships and share practical tips for navigating these challenges with grace and understanding.
Jan 26, 2025•18 min•Season 7Ep. 110
Have you ever wondered why some of your fondest memories are from the simplest moments? In this episode, I explore the beauty of small, everyday moments and how they often leave the biggest imprints on our hearts. From quiet conversations to fleeting gestures, these seemingly insignificant events shape our lives in profound ways. Tune in to discover the magic of being present, celebrating the ordinary, and creating meaningful connections in the little things.
Jan 19, 2025•21 min•Season 6Ep. 109
Feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to have everything figured out at the start of the year? You’re not alone. In this episode, I explore why it’s perfectly okay to ease into the year without a solid plan or a long list of goals. Join me as I break down the myth of “having it all together,” embrace the beauty of taking things slow, and discover how uncertainty can lead to unexpected opportunities. Whether you’re still figuring things out or simply need a reminder to breathe, this episode is for ...
Jan 12, 2025•22 min•Season 6Ep. 108
What does it mean to be truly vulnerable? In this episode of Yinka’sMuse , I explore the beauty and strength of embracing your imperfections and sharing your authentic self with the world. Vulnerability often feels like a weakness, but it’s the foundation of meaningful relationships and personal growth. From the fear of judgment to the courage to open up, we’ll uncover why letting down your guard can be the most empowering thing you ever do. Join me as I share real-life stories, practical insigh...
Jan 05, 2025•15 min•Season 6Ep. 107
On this episode of the podcast, I talk about how asking for help should never be seen through the lens of shame.
Oct 14, 2024•2 min
In this episode, I discuss "Something I Wished I Knew Earlier: The Feeling That Comes with Handling Failure." Join me as I talk about the feelings that come with handling or dealing with failure. I discuss personal experiences, not letting failure define you, and how trusting God is one of the important ways of dealing with the feelings that come with failure. Tune in for an honest and reflective conversation that will inspire you to view failure through a new, empowering lens....
Aug 18, 2024•15 min•Season 6Ep. 105
In this episode of "Yinka'sMuse," titled "Living in the Now: Valuing People for Who They Are Today," I explore the importance of relating to people based on their current selves rather than the potential we see in them. I discuss how focusing on potential can lead to unrealistic expectations and disappointments. Tune in to learn how to cherish the present moment and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Aug 11, 2024•12 min•Season 6Ep. 104
In this episode, I explore the concept of true luxury—beyond the flashy and superficial. True luxury starts from within, focusing on the things that bring genuine comfort and joy, even if they're unseen by others. Join me as I uncover how these hidden elements can transform your daily routine into a series of small, yet profound, luxuries. Whether it is finding little happiness in Afrobeats like me or just enjoying the little things of life, whatever true luxury means to you I hope you go after ...
Jul 28, 2024•13 min•Season 6Ep. 103
In this episode of "Yinka'sMuse," join Yinka and her good friend Yomi as they dive into the complex world of expectations. From unspoken assumptions to unrealistic hopes, expectations can shape our interactions and influence our emotions in ways we might not realize. Together, they explore how expectations are formed, the impact they have on friendships, family dynamics, and professional relationships, and the importance of clear communication. Through personal anecdotes and thoughtful reflectio...
Jul 14, 2024•26 min•Season 6Ep. 102
On this episode of the podcast, I talk about how we’re all hoping and praying someone takes a chance with us.
Jul 07, 2024•8 min•Season 6Ep. 101
One popular saying that’s making the round is “nobody is going or coming to save you. You’re the only person that can save yourself”. While there’s some truth to this statement as it helps to take responsibility for our lives, it also perpetuates the myth that we’re self sufficient of ourselves.
Mar 16, 2024•10 min•Season 5Ep. 100
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a friend opens up about their struggles, and instead of listening and showing support you let them know that your problems are bigger than theirs. On today’s episode of the podcast, I talk about how to be a safe space for the people in our lives, how no one’s problem is bigger than the other.
Feb 17, 2024•13 min•Season 5Ep. 99
Evaluating our love lives starts by reflecting on past relationships, when you look back on your past or present relationships, what are some key lessons you've learned about yourself and your preferences in a partner? And how are you taking those lessons or evaluations to better improve yourself? On today's episode of the podcast, I talk about evaluating your love life by taking time to see what works, what can be improved and what should be removed. Listen with a Friend.
Feb 10, 2024•19 min•Season 5Ep. 98
Starting the year on your terms means starting the year, however, you like. #startingtheyear #yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #resolutions #newterms
Jan 08, 2024•3 min•Season 5Ep. 97
On this episode of the podcast, I talk about making moves, taking steps towards a particular goal or something and leaving everything that no longer serves you. As you proceed into the new year, make a decision to keep on positively towards your goals and leave behind everything holding you back.
Dec 31, 2023•5 min•Season 4Ep. 96
When you thank God this year just thank God.Don’t thank him because calamity affected others and didn’t affect you. #yinkasmuse #thanksgiving #gratitude #yinkasmusepodcast
Dec 18, 2023•4 min•Season 4Ep. 95
Have you been asking the question, when will things change for me? When will this happen for me like I want it to? Then I want you to know that you’re in a waiting season but it gets better.Hang in there.#waitingseason #waiting #faith #trustingGod #yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #christian #christianpodcast
Jul 28, 2023•3 min•Season 4Ep. 94
There’s no better time to start something than now, there’s never a right time or wrong time, so start today.#startnow #startingnew #anewstart #business #idea #creative #newgoal #newjob #creator #yinkasmuse #yinkasmusepodcast #yinkasmuseblogger
Jul 08, 2023•2 min•Season 4Ep. 93
