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LifeDoneDifferent.ly

Neil Witten & Ray Richardswww.lifedonedifferent.ly
Do you wonder whether there’s another way? Another, more creative, more meaningful approach to living your life. Well there is and there’s a growing movement of people from all kinds of walks of life who are proving that the way we end up doing what we do in life is often a side effect of external forces. Rather than a deliberate, conscious and authentic set of choices that have come from you and your unique needs. What are you chasing? Success? Safety? Fame? Fortune? Recognition? Have you stopped to think recently why you’re doing what your doing with your life? Are the stories that you're creating today the ones that you hope your grandchildren will be telling to their children? Are you creating your legacy?
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Episodes

Brad Carter - Raver and Michelin Starred Chef. Teach Yourself.

This conversation is with the chef, raver and compulsively creative Brad Carter. Brad’s not averse to learning from others but his energy levels peak, his boat is well and truly floated, when he has a vision for something different. From winning a pizza-making competition at school through his partying years to a surprise Michelin star, Brad seems to relish constraints using them to make things his own. This includes his restaurant Carters, the one-star doner bar, Psychedelic Jam, and much more....

Apr 23, 20242 hr 26 minEp. 40

Boff Whalley from Chumbawamba - Let it Be

Welcome to our conversation with the Musician and Artist Boff Whalley. Boff was formerly the lead-guitarist of British anarchist punk band Chumbawumba. Best known for their 1997 single "Tubthumping". Boff grew up in Burnley, in a Morman family. He embraced the art and punk scenes, experimented with different types of music, and with his anarchist mates from the squat formed Chumbawumba which became famous for Tubthumping and pouring water over John Prescott at the 1998 Brits. Chumbawumba, unusua...

Jan 31, 20242 hr 4 minEp. 39

Derek Sivers - The usefulness of opposites

Derek Sivers is a man with his own mind. To describe him as a musician, circus clown, entrepreneur, programmer, author, speaker, philosopher and Dad might whet your appetite but it would only be a part of the story. Whatever Derek does, he rarely does it on auto-pilot. He has a knack for questioning things. His beliefs are less likely to be a story he's inherited and more likely to be a useful experience. He listens to himself and when what he does fails to resonate, he notices it and explores t...

Dec 22, 20221 hr 33 minEp. 38

Steve Chapman (@stevexoh) - exploring the counter-intuitive

This is a conversation with Steve Chapman. Steve worked for Glaxo Smith Kline for 20 years, he started packing boxes and ended up in a senior management role - and then he became an artist. It sounds like a huge dose of doing something very different but it's not quite as dramatic as that. Steve has found a way to do what he wants to do and earn a living selling his art and helping organisations understand creativity and the human condition. He says "I'm at my best when I’m on the edge of not qu...

Aug 29, 20221 hr 32 minEp. 37

A Sneak Peek of a Project Neil has been working on

Better Business On Purpose is a book that Neil has recently co-authored. It's a practical guide for leaders who want to grow profit and have a positive impact on the world. Included in the book: Examples of inspiring businesses that have embedded purpose in their DNA, and who are making it work. The '7 Ps' - a systematic approach to making your business more purpose-led and profitable at the same time. The case for "doing more": why all business leaders have their role to play, and why it is nev...

Jun 29, 202211 min

Pieter Levels - Thinking and doing for yourself

Hello and welcome to our conversation with Pieter Levels. Peter is the man behind NomadList.com , remoteOK.com , InflationChart.com , rebase.co and more. Pieter is hard to describe if you’re after an old-world description. He’s most certainly a business guy and a software developer guy but he works remotely, sometimes he charges for his creations, sometimes he doesn’t. He practices radical honesty with himself and others. He’s unafraid to experiment, to play and learned as a student that doing s...

May 16, 20221 hr 39 minEp. 36

Steph Smith - Life done differently for the risk adverse

Until she went to Sweden as part of a student exchange programme, Steph didn't really question the trajectory she was on. She was going with the flow. A spell in Sweden, a different culture with different people and in particular a different educational system woke Steph up to the idea that she had led a sheltered life and that different was at the very least interesting and at very best, significantly better than the way things were done back home. The idea that there were other ways to do thin...

Apr 29, 20221 hr 28 minEp. 35

Rosie Sherry - Reckless Mother

Hi All - in this episode we talk to Rosie Sherry. Rosie is a self-declared introvert and community builder extraordinaire. She is best known for the Ministry of Testing, Indie Hackers, Rosie.land and RecklessMother.com Rosie builds communities and has done so for more than 15 years. It includes the Sherry community of Rosie, Graham and their 5 kids aged 17 to 3 - none of whom go to school. It’s not that Rosie is looking to rebel. It's just that she seems to be clear about how she wants to spend ...

Apr 14, 20221 hr 47 minEp. 34

Mills - Finding Myself

Mills founded ustwo with Sinx, his mate from school. Ustwo has become a digital product studio, a games company and an investment business. They have always worked with the biggest brands in the world. In part, Neil & I enjoyed this because Mills is from a world we understand pretty well. It’s a world that’s exploded in the last 25 years or so. A world where creativity meets technology, a world where innovation is valued, where work and play, and an excess of both, is baked-in to most succes...

Mar 30, 20211 hr 45 minEp. 32

Emile Bennett - Letting Go

Hi all - welcome to our conversation with Emile Bennett, Emile is a 37-year-old knife-maker and bladesmith but it’s taken him a while to feel comfortable with those descriptions. Previously his world was software, apps, websites and to begin with studio engineering. Originally from the UK, he now lives in Chamonix in the French Alps. Emile has spent most of his working life with the distinct feeling that he wasn’t doing what he was meant to do. This is Emile’s very frank story of his struggles w...

Mar 03, 20211 hr 49 minEp. 33

Charles Wookey - Reinvent Yourself

Hi everyone. I hope you're doing okay given the circumstances. Welcome to our conversation with Charles Wookey. Charles is the CEO of A Blueprint for Better Business, a charity that helps organisations consider their social and environmental impact alongside their financial goals. This is how I know Charles. His organisation does some great work but how Charles' ended up with Blueprint is the interesting bit. Boarding school from the age of six is a mixed blessing. It's certainly not what he wan...

Jan 28, 20211 hr 36 minEp. 31

Junior Smart OBE - Leader - Part 2

Hello hello - welcome to Part 2 of our conversation with Junior Smart. If you haven't listened to Part 1 I suggest you do that first. Part One takes us to the point where Junior is just about to be sent to prison for what turned out to be a twelve-year sentence. This is Part 2 where Junior describes the shock of prison, the meanness and the compassion of both prison staff and inmates. He describes his journey from being scared to being respected, from someone who went with the flow to someone wh...

Nov 13, 20201 hr 52 minEp. 30

Junior Smart - Getting comfortable with uncomfortable - Part 1

Junior Smart is a youth leader, an ex-offender, an academic and a couple of months ago he added father to this list. If you don't believe people can change, listen to this. This is a story about the power of belonging. A need we all have to belong to a group. A lesson in how we often attach importance to the wrong things and end up in the wrong group, the wrong Club. It's a lesson in how, with an open mind and good people in your support team, you can change beyond your imagination. Juniors leve...

Oct 16, 202048 minEp. 29

Matt & Lucia Long - I'm actually an opera singer

Hi everyone. Hope you're all okay, coping, surviving, learning, growing - it's hard to know what to say these days - we're all experiencing the same thing and whilst the experience is so shared sometimes . . . the more I talk to people the more I understand, at times, how very differently we're all experiencing it. This conversation is a good example. It's a conversation with Matt & Lucia, husband and wife, both professional singers, parents to Persephone, neighbours of my friends Caramel &a...

Oct 05, 20201 hr 23 minEp. 28

Ben Ivey - When did you feel most loved?

Hi All - welcome to our conversation with Ben Ivey. Ben is a coach to Entrepreneurs but what makes Ben interesting is that he's interested in the Entrepreneur as a person, the whole person not just as a business person. He's as happy talking about love as he is margins. He wants you to live the best life you can, one where regrets are minimised and magic moments are maximised. Ben's awareness of business was there from an early age. Both his Grandad and Dad were property entrepreneurs and this f...

Oct 02, 20201 hr 36 minEp. 27

Tom Libelt - The Reluctant Adventurer

This episode is a conversation with Tom Libelt, salesman, musician and DJ, coffee shop owner, publisher and most recently digital nomad. Thank you to Tom for a thoroughly enjoyable conversation. As you've probably noticed, our title for Tom is 'The Reluctant Adventurer'. For Tom, adventure is a reaction to boredom, not the primary motivation. It seems clear that Tom's parents and his wealth of experiences as a child played a role in shaping him. I loved hearing about the VCR and blueberry hustle...

Sep 25, 20201 hr 24 minEp. 26

Ray & Neil | Change Uninvited Kick-Off

The benefits of being forced to do something we said we'd never do Responding to change The difference between hearing a story and experiencing it The need for human connection The importance of humour Finding ups within the downs Can you build real relationships via technology? How we can all experience the same event so very differently When fear and excitement become the same thing COVID-19 as a magic wand for the environment The possibility of Universal Basic Income (UBI) The importance of t...

Aug 07, 202038 minEp. 25

Clare Farrell - Rebellion

She tried mainstream fashion but didn't fit in. Clare doesn't fit in - in so many ways! Clare's a rebel. She suggests that rebellion became a part of her when she moved schools and studied the same syllabus and sat the same exams two years on the trot. Clare, because she was bright got very bored and that bred rebellion. I'm sure that year shaped Clare but I have very little doubt that Clare was born to rebel. Her childhood was characterised by instability and change. She learned to cope with th...

Jul 10, 20202 hr 3 minEp. 24

Katey Wiseman | Why we all need a support team

We met up a few weeks later and Katey told me more. More about: The wasted years of her life and how she started to doubt people were good Noticing she was angry with herself and everyone around her The point at which she decided not to be angry How she became braver, how she started to change How the simple act of liking an instagram post became the first step of her journey The importance of her friends who act as her support team The moment when she realised she was strong Her brother's sugge...

Jul 01, 202024 minEp. 20

Damian Keyes - F**k Plan B

We have a big old natter about: Growing up in Swansea The problem of doing what you want on your wedding day - when others want you to go with the flow (one week after this conversation Damian was getting married Vegas) Moving to New York The problem of describing what he does; Musician v Builder of Businesses The creativity of building businesses When he gets bored it's time to move on Being a five-star failer Good drummers = good videographers Playing Wembley Arena & Hyde Park Meeting your...

Mar 06, 20202 hrEp. 23

Dave Cornthwaite - Say Yes More

In this episode, we talk to Dave about: the importance of articulating a vision when you're working in a team the move from graphic designer to Adventurer the move from adventurer to community leader not wanting to wait for the bad thing to happen before making changes to his life being a fortunate kid having 18 different addresses by the time he was 18 (because his Dad was in the RAF) not needing to make long-term friends because he was going to move on being physically and mentally bullied at ...

Nov 29, 20191 hr 52 minEp. 22

Kim Slade - Licking the Lid of Life

We talked to Kim about Studying the stoner's degree that is music technology Not feeling he could focus enough to become a professional singer-songwriter Swapping music tours for travelling Enjoying the creative process Going to the Happy Startup School Summercamp five years previously when first looking to leave employment On the travelling bug and finding the places that other people don't Having a Mum and Dad who encouraged adventure The importance of a 'Buddy' (Nicola in Kim's case) when ste...

Nov 18, 20191 hr 52 minEp. 21

Neil and Ray at the Cottage

We recorded this episode at Port Moor Cottage, a shack on stilts sitting on an island in Essex. It would be an understatement to say we've learned from our conversations with guests. They have been kind enough to share their stories of change and do so in some depth. In this wrap-up episode we talk about: The importance of a Support Team, positive people that have a genuine interest in you, your wellbeing and your growth The benefits of adopting a child-like curiosity to life The doors that can ...

Oct 21, 201933 minEp. 19

Mike Dicks - Who's saying you can't do what you want to do?

In this conversation we explored: Why people often apologise for the work they do The stories we tell ourselves and how they can limit our development The inevitably of the ups and downs in our lives Why he eventually got expelled from college His first job selling computers at Dixons Meeting Sir Clive Sinclair His expected life trajectory of marry, kids, mortgage His problem with authority His ability to translate the features of technology into the benefits for humans The moment he realised hi...

Sep 13, 20191 hr 56 minEp. 18

Pablo Woodward - What would you do if you only had one life?

This conversation in the Bunny Bus covered many moments in the life of Pablo Woodward. This includes the arrival of his 3 children and the Disco Bunny plus: Realising he didn't have a life he'd asked for or wanted His quest to understand himself Going from not believing in himself to doing what he does with passion Going into shock when one of his first video's went viral Being accepted His need to learn, grow and push himself His sales pitch of free positive energy, free music, free smiles, fre...

Jul 19, 20191 hr 37 minEp. 17

Rik Turner and Henrietta Jayden - What would you notice, if you slowed down?

We talked to Rik and Hen about the new life they've created and how. They talk to us about: The productivity benefits of slowing down The importance of taking ownership of how we spend our time The importance of understanding when working harder isn't working Financial security in the future v being energised and healthy now The importance of creating time in order to connect with oneself Recognising rock bottom 'Time' becoming their new currency The vicious circle of the hard working week follo...

Jul 05, 20191 hr 40 minEp. 16

Liam McGough - From big trees to Big Brother and back again - Part 2

These show notes are a duplicate of those found in Part 1. Our conversation with Liam covered many topics. He talked openly about: Growing up thinking he was the dumb one Failing all his GCSE's Thinking he has undiagnosed dyslexia Finding confidence in his quick-wittedness and his climbing ability Deciding to study climbing trees because he was already good at that Feeling part stupid, part genius His talent for doing dickish things, just to see a person's reaction Telling himself "don't be nerv...

Jun 21, 20191 hr 9 minEp. 15

Liam McGough - From big trees to Big Brother and back again - Part 1

Our conversation with Liam covered many topics. He talked openly about: Growing up thinking he was the dumb one Failing all his GCSE's Thinking he has undiagnosed dyslexia Finding confidence in his quick-wittedness and his climbing ability Deciding to study climbing trees because he was already good at that Feeling part stupid, part genius His talent for doing dickish things, just to see a person's reaction Telling himself "don't be nervous because your brain will cope when the time comes" His p...

Jun 21, 201952 minEp. 14

Alastair Humphreys - Fear is an adventure

We chatted to Alastair at the British Library. He talked to us about: His natural personality of nervousness, stress and hate of late Coaxing himself to become more curious, more spontaneous, more relaxed and more adventurous Differentiate between the things where you have control and those you don't i.e. don't get frustrated with the waves because you can't change them Confidence is built from doing things and the trick is to keep the momentum going The impact of his adventures on his life - an...

Jun 07, 20191 hr 18 minEp. 13

Hamish McKenzie - How to recycle yourself out of the system

It would be fair to say Hamish is not a conventional man. Check out The Bizarre Houseboats of Britain to see what I mean. He thinks and acts differently and the effect is certainly different. In this conversation he tells us: - Why he got rid of the TV at 18 years old - Why he rescued a shapely old Portsmouth Ferry from the riverbed - How his floating home became a reflection of his warped self - What a squircle is - The freedom that comes from a frugal lifestyle - The simple way to get a bus on...

Apr 29, 20191 hr 19 minEp. 12
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