Ben and Kami talk about what it was like to train for and run the Flying Pig marathon with a seven year old. They discuss the rules, hate, and controversy and share a touching story from the end. Kami also shares why she decided not to run. Marathon Boy Trailer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bwb2MYmXqcw Marathon Boy Documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3Nrfw0jx9k&t=1256s
May 11, 2023•1 hr 2 min
Ben and Kami talk about their biggest marriage conflict that has gone on for more than 20 years. They discuss Ben's depression, what a fight looks like, and Kami's secret notecards. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com Date Filmed March 14, 2023 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/ fightfortogetherPaypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether ...
Mar 17, 2023•1 hr 17 min
Ben and Kami discuss Kami's process in finding her voice, the importance of giving someone space when they don't know what they want, and how it changed their sex life. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com COUPON CODE: FIVEYEARS Date Filmed March 7, 2023 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfor...
Mar 11, 2023•1 hr 12 min
Good boundaries protect health and long term relationships. Ben and Kami discuss setting boundaries inside their family. Of all the boundaries they've set over the years with communities, friends and other toxic bullshit they feel like this is their masterpiece. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com Date Filmed February 21, 2023 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our...
Feb 24, 2023•1 hr 5 min
Ben and Kami discuss the most important things they've learned from their children over 20 years of parenting and the secret for how to transform any frustration into growth and opportunity. Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogetherPODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogetherFilmed Feb 1, 2022
Feb 05, 2022•1 hr 4 min
Ben and, special guest, Tim Vogt talk about what Tim learned running a multimillion dollar non-profit that targeted people with disabilities. They discuss the problem with typical models of disability that separate the inconvenient and how this relates to parenting problem children. Tim also shares his secrets of how to create inclusion with anyone. Tim Ferris Interviews Richard Schwartz https://tim.blog/2021/01/14/richard-schwartz-internal-family-systems/ No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz https:...
Jan 15, 2022•1 hr 34 min
Ben and Kami answer questions from the audience about how to deal with unmotivated teens, dealing with parenting regret, and how to make kids in large families feel loved equally. We also share the reactions of our friends when we started our riskiest endeavors. Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether Filmed Jan 4, 2021...
Jan 08, 2022•52 min
Ben and Kami discuss a fight they got in and how they learned they need to ask specifically and directly for support each other on their artistic endeavors. They discuss how to deal with feelings when your partner ignores you, the benefits of opening up a closed relational system, and how important support can be for creatives. Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: ht...
Jan 02, 2022•56 min
Ben and Kami discuss surviving COVID, Ben communicating in a disrespectful way to Kami, and what their thoughts are on the latest Christianity Today series The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill. Ben proposes three things the podcast does not address and lessons he thinks could be learned from Mars Hill. Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether ...
Dec 26, 2021•1 hr 15 min
Ben and Kami talk about how they transitioned from public school to homeschool to unschool and the learning and financial benefits they have seen. They discuss practical ideas for inspiring your children to become life long learners. LINKS Convergence Station Denver https://meowwolf.com/visit/denver Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether Buy the Album and Book [cheapest and most helpful for us] https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/...
Nov 27, 2021•1 hr 3 min
Kami and Ben talk about Kami's new pronouns and shared the story of the pain of her...uhhhh they's childhood and how they never quite fit in, what the transition has been like and how it leads to better sex. Buy the Album and Book [cheapest and most helpful for us] https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ iTunes https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-real-me/1574796778 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/album/3RdkdjdcFmxUfRs2WOUxa2 More Music on IG @kamicrawford OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/20...
Nov 20, 2021•1 hr 1 min
Ben and Kami discuss a conversation with their kids around the fire and how to create a space for kids to process trauma, change our views, and become better for the future.
Jul 02, 2021•46 min
Ben interviews Steve. A 6 figure banking executive who quit his job to follow his dreams. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com Date Filmed February 14, 2021 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether PODCAST https://youtu.be/duU53xRo2KY CONNECT https://www.facebo...
Mar 08, 2021•1 hr 30 min
We discuss a controversial bumper sticker, why we chose unschooling, and the dangers of public schools on our children's financial future. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com Date Filmed January 26, 2021 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether PODCAST https:/...
Feb 01, 2021•1 hr 1 min
OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com Ben and Kami share about their experience learning that their child might have a learning disability, how they prepared and what they plan to do about it. Date Filmed January 19, 2020 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether...
Jan 25, 2021•57 min
OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com Ben and Kami talk about what cancel culture looks like in families, the cost of excluding the most inconvenient voices, and how listening to their kids played into their most difficult and important decision on their 2,000 mile hike. Cancel culture vs. toleration: The consequences of punishing dissent https://bigthink.com/institute-for-humane-studies/cancel-culture-vs-toleration?...
Jan 13, 2021•48 min
OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com Ben and Kami discuss how you can prepare for a thru-hike, how to overcome the fear of making mistakes, and how much preparation you need before you embark on your next adventure. Date Filmed December 29, 2020 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether ...
Jan 06, 2021•51 min
OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com Date Filmed 12/22/2020 Ben and Kami share about how their book changed completely at draft 9 be sharing the story that was the scariest to tell, how they found their audience and how you can walk away from the people that are holding you back. Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether P...
Dec 28, 2020•1 hr 3 min
OUR BOOK: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV MERCH: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ Get an email when our AT book is finished: https://bit.ly/2000Together Ben and Kami share about why they used to give advice to their kids and why it didn't work. They tell the stories of how they learned to listen and why this is important to maintain a long-term relationship with your kids into adulthood. Date Filmed May 28, 2020 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting...
Jul 13, 2020•45 min
OUR BOOK: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV MERCH: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ Get an email when our AT book is finished: https://bit.ly/2000Together Ben and Kami share about how they shifted their life from primarily finding fulfillment in business to finding and creating it at home. They share why you should consider this and three things you can do to make it happen. Date Filmed May 18, 2020 Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! http...
Jun 22, 2020•40 min
Ben and Kami share about how to help kids deal with addictions and boredom. They discuss how it is better to spend our energy making activities interesting and available and some ways you can do this in your home. Unleash Your Family: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV Boy in a Band - Don't Stay in School: https://youtu.be/8xe6nLVXEC0 OUR BOOK: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV MERCH: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ Get an email when our AT book is finished: https://bit.ly/2000Together Date Filmed May 25, 20...
Jun 08, 2020•44 min
Ben and Dove talk about a year with no rules and what Dove learned by watching her teenage friends with strict parents sneak around. Filmed February 2020 Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn and The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether?listId=38GPWZDV1I6F3 We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY JOIN THE DISCUSSION ABOUT THIS VIDEO ON FACEBOOK: https://goo.gl/THhxCF Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon...
Feb 18, 2020•45 min
Ben and Kami talk about their most embarrassing moments and beliefs from their past. They share 7 things that help them to accept past realities and how it affects our children and others who are still in that same place. Filmed February 3, 2020 PODCAST YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/EowNeRD3CQY Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn and The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether?listId=38GPWZDV1I6F3 We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEa...
Feb 04, 2020•59 min
Ben and Kami share the story of how they started their podcast, what they've learned, the biggest challenges, and what the future looks like. They also tell a story and let you vote about who is the bigger dick: Ben or Kami? Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.co...
Oct 07, 2019•56 min
Kami and Ben talk about 3 lessons they learned while running the 24-hour race with kids. Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @...
Sep 30, 2019•1 hr 13 min
Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.face...
Sep 23, 2019•54 min
2019 Stranger Sex Survey http://bit.ly/2Mv8nU4 Recommended Sex books: https://amzn.to/313hfo7 Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether paypal.me/fightfortogether Venm...
Aug 12, 2019•1 hr 18 min
Ben and Kami celebrate their 19th anniversary by talking about the biggest change that happened in their relationship but it took 11 years. The War of Art https://www.amazon.com/dp/1936891026/?cv_ct_id=amzn1.idea.28NNHRN4Y4NWJ&cv_ct_pg=storefront&cv_ct_wn=aip-storefront&ref=exp_cov_fightfortogether_dp_vv_d Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.yo...
Aug 05, 2019•1 hr 9 min
Ben and Kami share about why to stop trying to change your kids and instead focus on how they can change you so that you never have to be embarrassed again. They also answer questions about guest celebrities, sex resources, and Peter, Paul, and Mary getting canceled because of #metoo. Book recomendations: Passionate Marriage: https://amzn.to/2G6rM9Q Beyond the Birds and Bees https://amzn.to/2NJyqJH A performance by Peter Yarrow, of Peter, Paul, and Mary fame, has been canceled from an arts festi...
Jul 29, 2019•1 hr 17 min
Ben and Kami talk about the biggest money decisions you can make. They discuss the sex pay gap, how awareness of negative emotions can decrease depression, and talk about the ereasing history Anchor sues news station for $10M over pay inequality https://yhoo.it/2XQzlff Teenagers’ ability to describe negative emotions protects against depression http://bit.ly/2KVdTiO San Francisco Will Spend $600,000 to Erase History The school board has voted to destroy public murals by a New Deal-era Communist....
Jul 22, 2019•1 hr 6 min