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Relationsh!t Podcast

Marko & Stevewww.podrelationshit.com

The weekly podcast, hosted by Marko and Steve is a vibrant and insightful exploration of dating and relationships through the lens of Black queer experiences. In each episode, they dive deep into the nuances of love, attraction, and intimacy while tackling the challenges and joys unique to the queer community. Marko and Steve bring their personal stories and lived experiences to the conversation, creating a safe, open space where listeners can relate, learn, laugh, and feel seen.

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Episodes

Cheating

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the complex world of cheating and explore how different people—and relationships—define it. Is following someone on social media a betrayal? What about innocent (or not-so-innocent) flirting at the bar? And where does kissing fall on the cheating spectrum? The guys unpack it all, sharing personal insights and challenging listeners to reflect on their own boundaries, expectations, and definitions of fidelity. There are no Listener Sh!tuations this w...

Jul 02, 20251 hr 36 minSeason 11Ep. 18

Flirting

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the flirty side of life, exploring what flirting looks like for them and how their personal styles may come across to others. They ask the big questions: Is flirting something that comes naturally, or is it always a little awkward? And when you're in a relationship—or even married—is flirting harmless fun or crossing a line? Tune in as they break it all down with humor, honesty, and just the right amount of side-eye. To wrap things up, they tackle ...

Jun 25, 20251 hr 28 minSeason 11Ep. 17

Head First

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve talk about diving headfirst into dating — and even marriage — without knowing what lies ahead. Is it bold and freeing, or just reckless? They explore the thrill (and risk) of saying "yes" to love without all the facts. Then, they’re joined by special guest Stefano Reginato Rivelli ( @chechoreginato ) of Josh and Stefano on Instagram and TikTok ( @joshandstefano ), who went viral for marrying a stranger on social media. He gives the guys behind-the-scenes ins...

Jun 18, 20251 hr 18 minSeason 11Ep. 16

Thr33somes

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the topic of threesomes and explore the gay community’s fascination with group sex. They ask the question: when did one sexual partner stop being enough? The conversation covers the rise of throuples, casual threesomes, and the cultural and emotional implications of inviting a third into the bedroom. Is it simply about fun and exploration, or could it be a gateway to something more—like polyamory or emotional detachment? The guys keep it honest, me...

Jun 11, 20251 hr 35 minSeason 11Ep. 15

Doing the Work

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve kick off the episode still buzzing from their Cowboy Carter Tour experience, sharing stories and reactions from seeing Beyoncé live. The excitement and emotion of the concert set the tone before they welcome back returning guest, Ted Smith ( @tedsmith.life ). Since his last appearance and book launch, Ted has taken meaningful time to focus on personal healing. Together, the trio dives into what it really means to "do the work" after a challenging relationshi...

Jun 04, 20251 hr 44 minSeason 11Ep. 14

Traveling While Gay

Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve reflect on their recent trip to Spain, sharing highlights from their time in Madrid and Barcelona. They humorously question why they even came back to the U.S., clearly missing the energy and vibe of their travels. The conversation then shifts to a deeper topic: traveling while gay. They discuss the unique considerations LGBTQ+ individuals must make when journeying around the world—especially when it comes to safety. From navigating unfamili...

May 28, 20251 hr 41 minSeason 11Ep. 13

Same Argument Over & Over Again

Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve dive into the all-too-common experience of having the same argument repeatedly with your partner. They explore how these recurring conflicts can lead to frustration and emotional fatigue, especially when the core issue remains unresolved. The conversation highlights the importance of genuine listening and emotional presence in relationships, emphasizing that without true understanding and communication, couples can find themselves stuck in a...

May 21, 20251 hr 20 minSeason 11Ep. 12

M@sturbation

Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve dive into the often-taboo topic of masturbation within committed relationships. They explore how self-pleasure can be a healthy, personal form of sexual expression, even when one has an available and willing partner. The conversation navigates questions like: Should your partner fulfill all your sexual needs? Or is it reasonable—and even beneficial—for individuals to maintain a solo sexual practice? They address common misconceptions, emotio...

May 14, 20251 hr 18 minSeason 11Ep. 11

Pet Names

Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve dive into the quirky world of relationship pet names, debating whether they're adorably affectionate or cringingly cliché. From "snuggle muffin" to "baby bear," they explore the emotional reactions these nicknames provoke—both positive and negative. The duo also examines whether using pet names actually deepens emotional intimacy or creates a barrier of artificial closeness. With humor and insight, they share personal stories and listener an...

May 07, 20251 hr 16 minSeason 11Ep. 10

Are You Gay Enough?

Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve open up about the common feeling of not being "gay enough" for queer culture, discussing the pressures to conform to certain expectations to fit in. They’re joined by Will, co-host of the No Ma'am Podcast , who brings a hilarious RuPaul’s Drag Race recap and chimes in on the topic for the week. Together, they share laughs, candid moments, and relatable insights in another fun, feel-good episode. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's List...

Apr 30, 20251 hr 34 minSeason 11Ep. 9

Outside Influences

Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve dive into the nuanced ways that external influences—like friends, family, societal norms, and even aspects of queer culture—can shape who we date and how we approach relationships. They explore how these pressures can show up subtly or overtly, from internalized ideals about attractiveness and gender roles to the expectations of chosen or biological families. The conversation also considers the potential harm of letting these outside voices ...

Apr 23, 20251 hr 27 minSeason 11Ep. 8

Moving at Different Speeds

Got some sh!t to say? In this heartfelt and candid conversation, Marko and Steve dive deep into the emotional terrain of relationships where one person is moving faster than the other—whether that means falling in love quicker, being ready for commitment sooner, or simply wanting more clarity and definition early on. They explore the role of communication—how honest conversations can sometimes bring clarity, but also risk ending things when both partners realize they’re not aligned, and the deli...

Apr 16, 20251 hr 37 minSeason 11Ep. 7

Unrealistic Expectations

Got some sh!t to say? In this real and refreshingly honest episode, Marko and Steve get into the heart of why so many relationships struggle: unrealistic expectations and the lack of clear, consistent communication. They kick things off by calling out the myth of the “perfect partner.” You know, the idea that your partner should just know what you need, never mess up, and always be in sync with your every mood. Then they dive into the fix: communication. Not just the deep, dramatic talks, but th...

Apr 09, 20251 hr 34 minSeason 11Ep. 6

S3x Toys

Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve are joined by a special guest from the Minoritea Report podcast to dive into the world of s3x toys—breaking down the stigma, sharing personal experiences (or lack thereof), and exploring how these tools can enhance both single life and relationship. The trio discusses how sex toys aren’t just about pleasure but can also contribute to better intimacy, self-discovery, and even improved sexual health. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's L...

Apr 02, 20251 hr 58 minSeason 11Ep. 5

Parent vs. Partner

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the tricky dynamic of "parenting" your partner in a relationship. They explore how taking on a parental role—whether through constant reminders, micromanaging, or handling all responsibilities—can create imbalance, resentment, and even emotional exhaustion. They discuss how this pattern often leads to one partner feeling overwhelmed and the other feeling infantilized, which can erode intimacy and mutual respect. Marko and Steve also share insights ...

Mar 26, 20251 hr 31 minSeason 11Ep. 4

Complacency

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive deep into the dangers of complacency in relationships and how staying complacent in your single life can hinder personal growth. They start by defining complacency as a state of stagnation, and discuss moments in their lives where they may have been complacent by themselves or with a partner, and how they got past it. Are we at all guilty of experiencing mundanity or complacency in our lives? To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation...

Mar 19, 20251 hr 27 minSeason 11Ep. 3

Social Media Relationships

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the world of social media relationships—those picture-perfect couples and "IG thots" that flood Instagram with seemingly flawless moments. They discuss how these curated posts have shaped their own perceptions, sometimes making them question what's real and what's just for show. They break down the illusion of online romance, how filters and captions hide the struggles underneath, and why comparing your own relationships to these highlight reels is...

Mar 12, 20251 hr 25 minSeason 11Ep. 2

In These Streets

Got some sh!t to say? To open up season 11, Marko and new co-host Steve dive into the realities of being single, aka "in these streets," and contrast it with married life—discussing what "in these streets" might mean when you're in a committed relationship. They share personal takes, debate the pros and cons of both lifestyles, and sprinkle in some humor along the way. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real-life dilemma from ...

Mar 05, 20251 hr 34 minSeason 11Ep. 1

Can I Please Talk to You for a Minute?

Got some sh!t to say? If you haven't listened to last week's episode - START THERE! Once you've done that, check out this interview from the newest co-host of Relationsh!t as he sits down with Marko to talk about the future of the podcast. Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT . That’s (903) 763-7448 . You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com , or email us at [email protected]. Visit ...

Feb 26, 202510 minSeason 11Ep. 2

May I Have Your Attention, Please?

Got some sh!t to say? After last season's big Relationsh!t announcement, Marko returns this week with a podcast update and new co-host ... Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT . That’s (903) 763-7448 . You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com , or email us at [email protected]. Visit Us | www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast. Donate ...

Feb 19, 202518 minSeason 11Ep. 1
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