After 8 years of showing up, laughing, and growing alongside each of you, we’ve reached the bittersweet moment of saying farewell. In this final episode, we take a walk down memory lane—sharing the stories, laughs, lessons, and challenging moments that shaped The Black Girl Bravado. We are forever grateful for the space we’ve built here, and for every one of you who made this community feel like home. Thank you for rocking with us, for showing up, and for being the best part of this journey. We ...
Oct 29, 2024•1 hr 10 min
Do you ever feel drained after social events, wondering how others seem to thrive in the chaos? Are you struggling to balance your need for solitude with the demands of an extroverted world? In this episode, we explore the quiet power of introverts and how they can leverage their unique strengths to succeed without compromising who they are. Whether you’re an introvert looking to empower yourself or someone who wants to understand introverts better, this episode is for you! In this episode we di...
Oct 22, 2024•55 min
Today we’re putting ourselves in other people's shoes and wondering what we’d do in their situations. It’s time for “AITA?” What would you do if your best friend said your wedding plans were unrealistic? Is it fair to block a girl on your husband's Instagram if she's flirting with him? Should you pay your sibling's rent if they only work part-time? Join us as we dissect these controversial stories and offer our own perspectives on the drama. Watch video on Youtube Support this podcast at — https...
Oct 15, 2024•39 min
How do you show up in your dating life? Are you clear about your boundaries and what you truly want, or are you settling for what comes your way? In this episode, we chat with Dating Coach Anwar White to explore the nuances of modern dating. We discuss the strategies you can implement to take control of your dating experience and set the tone from the start. We also get candid about how societal conditioning, especially for Black women, impacts how we approach love and relationships. If you’re r...
Oct 08, 2024•34 min
Have you ever questioned what truly defines a luxurious life? Is it about owning the latest designer label or driving the most expensive car? Or is there something more profound to luxury than material possessions? In this episode, we challenge the traditional notion of luxury and explore the intangible aspects that can enrich our lives. If you’re ready to redefine what it means to live a luxurious life and discover the true meaning of wealth and fulfillment, this episode is for you! In this epi...
Oct 01, 2024•43 min
Ever find yourself feeling a pang of jealousy when your partner interacts with someone else? Or maybe you've experienced the uncomfortable sensation of being the target of someone else's jealousy? Jealousy is a complex and human emotion that can rear its head in even the most loving relationships. Whether you're struggling with your own jealousy or dealing with a jealous partner, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: What jealousy is and what factors contribute to its development....
Sep 24, 2024•1 hr
Have you ever felt disappointed or upset when your favorite influencer or celebrity made a mistake? In today's digital age, it's easier than ever to form deep connections with people we've never met in person. Parasocial relationships, these one-sided bonds we develop with celebrities, influencers, or fictional characters, can be both rewarding and challenging. In this episode we: Define parasocial relationships and explore the psychological factors that contribute to their formation Discuss the...
Sep 17, 2024•54 min
Ever wondered what truly makes a relationship special? Is it just the physical spark, or something deeper? Today we’re chatting about the five pillars of intimacy and discovering how they intertwine to create human connection. From the emotional depth of vulnerability to the intellectual spark of shared ideas, we’re digging into how the power of intimacy enriches our lives! In this episode we discuss: The 5 types of intimacy: physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual and experiential Common b...
Sep 10, 2024•54 min
This week we’re playing the “Hella Awkward” card game, putting ourselves on the spot with questions that are sure to spark unexpected conversations, laughter, and maybe even a little bit of cringing. Tune in as we tackle everything from light-hearted fun to deep, thought-provoking prompts. Whether you’re ready to laugh along with us or want to try these questions with your own crew, this episode is all about embracing the awkwardness and connecting on a whole new level. Hella Awkward Card Game H...
Sep 04, 2024•49 min
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the sheer amount of stuff in your life? Do you find yourself constantly scrolling through social media, coveting the latest trends and gadgets? If so, you're not alone. In today's consumer-driven culture, it's easy to get caught up in the endless cycle of consumption. But at what cost? In this episode we discuss: The psychology of materialism and its impact on our well-being. The environmental consequences of overconsumption and the urgent need for change. Pract...
Aug 27, 2024•58 min
Ever found yourself waiting in anticipation for a friend who seems to exist in a different time zone? Or maybe you're the one who's always fashionably late? We've all been there, and it can be a source of frustration and confusion. Today we’re discussing the psychology of lateness— rather you’re a timekeeper or a time-bender, this episode is for you! In this episode we: Discuss the underlying reasons why people struggle with punctuality. Explore the negative consequences lateness has on relation...
Aug 20, 2024•1 hr 4 min
Have you ever wondered if fillers are worth the hype? Or maybe you’re considering getting them but aren’t sure where to start. In this episode, we’re sitting down with Aesthetic Nurse Practitioner, Ginille Brown to be educated on the world of cosmetic injectables. We’re getting the tea on the science behind filler, the techniques and potential outcomes. Whether you’re scheduled for your next appointment or simply curious about these popular procedures, this episode is for you! In this episode we...
Aug 13, 2024•55 min
Are you constantly putting others first? Do you feel guilty for taking time for yourself? It's time to rethink your relationship with selfishness. In this episode, we challenge the societal stigma surrounding self-care and explore how prioritizing your needs can actually benefit those around you. If you’re ready to redefine what it means to be selfish, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: Common myths about selfishness and its impact on relationships. Provide practical tips for s...
Aug 06, 2024•48 min
Tired of waiting for your dream life? It's time to become the CHOOSER! In this episode, we explore shifting your mindset from seeking validation to setting your own standards. If you’re ready to take control, get over the drama and attract what you truly deserve, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: How to effectively and confidently communicate your needs and desires Practical steps to apply the chooser mindset to all aspects of your life Ways to overcome challenges and embrace ...
Jul 30, 2024•1 hr 1 min
Have you ever felt like you're constantly walking on eggshells around others, trying to predict their moods? Today's episode explores emotional monitoring, the tendency to hyper-focus on deciphering the emotions of those around you. It might sound harmless, but this behavior can be a major drain on your well-being. If you’re ready to break-free from the emotional rollercoaster and embrace more fulfilling relationships, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss The difference between em...
Jul 23, 2024•55 min
Do you ever feel like you're constantly chasing the next thing? A new job, a bigger house, that perfect vacation? We're bombarded with messages that tell us happiness lies in achievement. But what if there's another way? What if true fulfillment comes from learning to embrace contentment and appreciating what you already have? In this episode we discuss: The difference between settling for less and finding joy in the present moment. Common misconceptions about contentment Actionable strategies t...
Jul 16, 2024•50 min
Do you find yourself saying yes when you really mean no? Or maybe you hold back from expressing your opinions or needs out of fear of upsetting others? If so, you might be stuck in a pattern of passive behavior. But there's good news! It's possible to develop your assertive communication skills. If you’re ready to find your voice and communicate with confidence, this episode is for you. In this episode we discuss: The difference between passive and assertive behavior How assertiveness can benefi...
Jul 09, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Feeling lost, confused, and overwhelmed in your 20s? Does the pressure to have it all figured out make you want to crawl under the covers? Well, what if we told you that your 20s are actually the perfect time for exploration, stumbles, and unexpected discoveries? In this episode, we'll tap into the wisdom of hindsight and share the advice we needed to hear in our 20s. In this episode we discuss: The value of setting boundaries, prioritizing yourself and your needs The importance of networking an...
Jul 02, 2024•1 hr 26 min
Do you remember the goals/intentions you set at the top of the year? How successful have you been in achieving them?? As the initial enthusiasm of the new year fades and we find ourselves in the midst of the year, it's not uncommon to realize that the goals we set at the beginning of the year might not be resonating as they once did. Whether you're experiencing a mid-year goal slump or seeking guidance on refining your desires this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: Strategies for r...
Jun 26, 2024•48 min
What do you need in order to be vulnerable and feel safe within a friendship? Today, we’re joined by part of the cast of Harlem, Grace Byers and Shoniqua Shandai, to discuss the power of choosing our love stories and how to curate our romantic and platonic relationships. In this episode we discuss: Reasons why we’re not always vulnerable in our friendship How to create a safe space for vulnerability and deeper intimacy to flourish Ways to avoid self sabotaging your relationships And much more! H...
Jun 18, 2024•1 hr
Friendships are the glue that holds life together, but let's be honest, they can get expensive. Nights out, birthday dinners, weekend getaways - it all adds up! If you’re interested in understanding the financial side of friendship and how to navigate it without sacrificing fun or your savings, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: How to talk openly about finances with your friends Creative ideas for affordable hangouts Building a "fun fund" to budget for social activities For mo...
Jun 11, 2024•45 min
Are your priorities the home, your children and your husband? Or, are you more focused on your career, goals and dreams? Do you have to choose? Or can you have it all?! Today, we’ll find out! This week Germani and Brittany are joined by their best friends, Adrienne and Kaila, to discuss what womanhood looks like for them. By now, you probably can tell where The BGB falls on the spectrum, but Kaila and Adrienne are here to discuss what it means to be traditional women living in modern times. In t...
May 28, 2024•1 hr 18 min
Ever worn the "ride or die" label in your relationship? You're not alone. In this episode, we're joined by Shanita Hubbard, author of "Ride or Die: A Feminist Manifesto For The Well-Being of Black Women," to dissect this common trope in Black romantic relationships. In this episode we discuss: The Ride or Die archetype— where it started and how it’s been woven into Black culture How to decipher between being supportive vs self-sacrificing What our role is in actively dismantling the ride-or-die ...
May 21, 2024•50 min
When was the last time you asked your friend questions like: When do you trust me? What about our dynamic concerns you? What is a mistake you think I keep making? If you’re anything like us, you likely haven’t lol After being friends for over a decade we’d like to believe we know each other pretty well, but do we really?! Today we’re deepening our unbreakable bond through meaningful conversation, asking one another thoughtful questions and providing intentional responses. This is a goodie, y’all...
May 14, 2024•40 min
Friendships are the cornerstones of our lives, but navigating them can be tricky! In this episode, we explore the world of female friendships with Danielle Bayard Jackson, a friendship coach and national speaker. Danielle, speaks about her new book "Fighting for Our Friendships," and shares her expertise on the science of female platonic connections. If you’re ready to equip yourself with the tools to build strong, lasting bonds with the amazing women in your life, this episode is for you! In th...
May 07, 2024•51 min
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May 01, 2024•4 min
Do you ever feel like you're going through the motions, but not quite sure why? Feeling lost about what truly matters to you? This episode is all about uncovering your Core Desired Feelings (CDFs) - the emotional states YOU crave most in life. These are unique and special to you, not a one-size-fits-all list. In this episode we discuss: What are Core Desired Feelings and why are they important? How do your CDFs impact all areas of your life? Practical exercises to help you identify your Core Des...
Apr 30, 2024•47 min
Do you ever feel like you're not good enough unless...You achieve that next promotion? You hit a certain number on the scale? Someone finally "likes" your latest post? We all have those nagging voices that whisper limitations. In this episode we’re exploring the concept of conditions of worth - those invisible rules set for ourselves that dictate our self-esteem. If you’re ready to break free from the cycle of seeking external validation and step into a space of self-love and acceptance, this ep...
Apr 23, 2024•1 hr 13 min
Ever feel like you "need" that new gadget everyone seems to have? Do you find yourself endlessly scrolling through social media, bombarded by friends' perfect vacations and ideal lives? You might be experiencing mimetic desire, the powerful urge to want what others want. In this episode we unpack the psychology of mimetic desire, its impact on our choices, and most importantly, how to harness it for a more fulfilling life. In this episode we discuss: What mimetic desire is and why it exists The ...
Apr 16, 2024•1 hr 7 min
Are you in a cycle of starting and stopping too many things? Frustrated that progress feels slow and motivation fades? What if the secret to achieving your goals wasn't about grand gestures, but about tiny, consistent actions? In this episode we’re exploring the often-underestimated power of consistency. If you’re ready to stay on track and finally achieve your goals, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: The surprising benefits of consistency that go beyond just skill development...
Apr 09, 2024•1 hr 9 min
