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Destroy The Hairdresser

Destroy The Hairdresserwww.destroythehairdresser.com
Destroy The Hairdresser is an industry podcast dedicated to helping salon owners and hairdressers salon differently.
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Episodes

Debt Isn’t the Enemy, Shame Is

Let’s talk money, shame, and why debt isn’t the dirty word the boomers made it out to be. In this refreshingly honest episode, Cyd and David get real about personal and business debt—how they manage it, why it doesn’t mean you’re failing, and how smart investments (yes, even on a credit card) can actually build your wealth. Whether you’re carrying $500 or $50k, this episode will shift your mindset, strip away the guilt, and make you want to log into your bank account with less fear and more powe...

Jun 26, 202520 min

Booked, Bothered, & Burnt Out by the Algorithm

Is your Instagram aesthetic on point but your books still empty? In this solo episode, Cyd pulls back the velvet curtain on the content circus and teaches you how to stop performing and start converting. With hard-earned wisdom, real strategies from the Social Circus course, and five actionable ways to build your books using social media—this episode is your wake-up call. Spoiler: You don’t need to go viral to get paid. You need a system. You need clarity. And you need to stop posting for other ...

Jun 19, 202522 min

The Toxic High of Overworking

In this punchy and painfully honest episode, Cyd and David call out one of the most addictive drugs in the salon industry: overworking. From idolizing burnout to using busyness as a badge of honor, they unpack how overworking gives salon owners and stylists a temporary high and a long-term crash. This isn’t about productivity it’s about control, validation, and fear. Whether you’re addicted to the hustle or just can’t figure out how to stop, this episode is your intervention. Need salon business...

Jun 12, 202531 min

Glitter, Gays & Gaslighting

In this powerful and unfiltered episode of Destroy The Hairdresser , Cyd and David unpack the glamorization of queer stylists in the salon industry—and the exploitation that often hides underneath. From being celebrated for their “fabulous energy” to being overlooked for leadership and pay raises, queer hairdressers are too often stuck in a glitter-covered box. This episode explores the emotional labor queer stylists are expected to perform, the culture of tokenism disguised as inclusivity, and ...

Jun 05, 202533 min

Hybrids, Headaches, and Hair Drama

A listener drops the tea on a messy rental salon situation: rent hikes, commission assistants in a booth rental space, unclear policies, and a salon owner watching everyone on motion-sensor cameras. Cyd and David unpack why hybrid models get chaotic fast, how leadership confusion breeds distrust, and why booth renters need to understand they’re glorified tenants—not team members. Oh, and if you’re scared of salon cameras? You might just be scared of getting caught. 👀

May 29, 202516 min

Raising Prices Isn’t a Crime But You Acting Like It Should Be

A stylist is booked out for six months, making great money, and still refuses to raise their prices. Sound familiar? In this episode, we break down why being fully booked isn’t the goal—it’s a trap. Cyd and David tackle the emotional, spiritual, and strategic reasons stylists resist raising prices, and why doing it when things are good is the real power move. From guilt to burnout to hostage scheduling, this one’s a crash course in critical thinking, conscious leadership, and why that six-month ...

May 22, 202518 min

How to Lose a Stylist in 10 Days: Part 3

It’s the final part of the series salon owners can’t stop texting their therapist about. In this episode, Cyd and David drop the last four reasons your team is bouncing—fast. From staying delusional about what your stylists actually want, to ignoring modern tech and holding your entire business together with duct tape and lash glue—this is the episode that’ll make you laugh, cringe, and hopefully… evolve. We’re talking favoritism, freedom, and why “flexibility” doesn’t mean chaos. It’s funny, fi...

May 15, 202519 min

How to lose a stylist in 10 days: Part 2

In Part 2 of How to Lose a Stylist in 10 Days , Cyd and David are back with baby co-hosts, Benz shade, and some brutally honest salon truths. They break down more of the subconscious—and not-so-subtle—ways salon owners sabotage their teams, including turning every meeting into a therapy session, offering fake "growth paths," and trying to prove how broke they are as a leadership flex. You’ll hear mic drops on emotional labor, commission structure chaos, and the infamous unreachable level system ...

May 08, 202519 min

How to Lose a Stylist in 10 Days: Part 1

Welcome to a special chaos-filled episode—featuring baby co-hosts, N*SYNC debates, and the cold, hard truth about why stylists keep quitting. Cyd and David dive into the viral TikTok trend that exposed why hairdressers really leave commission salons—and it’s not just about the money. From love-bombing leadership to micromanaging madness, they break down the toxic behaviors that cause walkouts, burnout, and booth-rental rebellions. Salon owners, this isn’t a drag—it’s a mirror. If your team keeps...

May 01, 202521 min

Astrology for Hairdressers with Josh Robbins

In this astrology-meets-business episode of Destroy The Hairdresser , Cyd is joined by professional astrologer and longtime friend Josh Robbins (formerly Astral Above). Together they unpack the real reason your business might be stuck—and spoiler—it’s written in the stars.Josh breaks down the 4 business elements (Earth, Air, Fire, Water) based on your rising sign and gives tactical advice for how to lead your team, manage resources, and stop self-sabotaging your salon business. If you’ve ever fe...

Apr 24, 20251 hr 4 min

Generational Wealth, But Make It EQ

“I finally made money… now I’m scared to spend it.” Welcome to the emotional rollercoaster of financial growth. This week on Destroy The Hairdresser , Cyd and David tackle the deep money trauma hairdressers carry—and how it shows up in business through hoarding, guilt, emotional discounting, and self-sabotage.From the fear of being perceived as greedy to the chaos of financial illiteracy, they’re breaking down why creatives struggle with wealth and what to do when success makes you spiral. Bonus...

Apr 17, 202517 min

Love Bombs, Buy-Ins, and Burnout

Is it leadership or is it a cult? Salon owners keep asking how to get their team to care without sounding like they’re recruiting for a high-control group, and we have thoughts. In this episode, Cyd and David unpack salon “buy-in” culture , the toxic love-bombing that happens in hiring, and why your team doesn’t need to care about the business the way you do.From dramatic walkouts to petty rumors and salon trauma, we’re spilling the tea on what NOT to do when leading a team—and how to turn your ...

Apr 10, 202524 min

You can be rich, kind and cunty

Cyd’s back on Threads and back on her bullshit (the good kind). In this episode, she and David talk about how social media became a space for truth bombs during maternity leave, the unexpected power of Threads, and why every hairdresser needs a place to say what they really think. Then they dive into a Hairdresser Hotline question about time-based pricing, why your clients don’t get to run your business, and why you can absolutely be rich, kind, and cunty.

Apr 03, 202521 min

From IVF to IDGAF

Trigger warning: discussion of child loss and medical complications. Cyd returns to the mic with a powerful and personal episode revealing the secret she's been keeping: she had a baby—again! In this raw and emotional conversation, Cyd opens up about navigating IVF, experiencing a devastating pregnancy loss, and the toll social media took on her mental and physical health. She and David dive deep into how trauma, parenthood, and boundaries have radically shifted Cyd’s approach to business, socia...

Apr 01, 202536 min

Your Booking System is Holding You Back (And We Can Prove It) With Special guest Lori Obiedzinski

In this episode of Destroy The Hairdresser, David sits down with Lori Obiedzinski from Aura Salonware to discuss how technology is transforming the salon industry. They dive into how Aura is disrupting outdated salon management systems, making it easier for stylists and owners to streamline their businesses. They talk about station sharing, AI in salon software, and why commission salons aren’t dead—they just need a better model. Plus, Lori shares how Aura is built for flexibility, adapting to t...

Mar 20, 202543 min

Licensed but Clueless: Why Beauty School is Failing Hairdressers With guest host Kris Centino

In this episode of Destroy The Hairdresser , David and Kris dive deep into the broken system of cosmetology licensing , the flaws in beauty school education , and how the industry needs radical change . They break down why licensing doesn’t guarantee skill , why schools aren’t preparing hairstylists for real-life salon work , and how artistry should take center stage over outdated systems . They also touch on the power of community, the importance of critical thinking in business, and why salon ...

Mar 13, 202549 min

Fear, Growth & Gratuity-Free: How Megan Harvey Transformed Her Career

In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser , David Bosscher sits down with Megan Harvey , a longtime hairdresser who transformed her career through Destroy The Hairdresser coaching. Megan shares her journey of overcoming imposter syndrome, shifting to hourly pricing, and going gratuity-free—plus the huge mindset shifts that came with it. She dives into how coaching helped her build confidence, launch her own education program, and, most recently, take over a salon. If you’ve ever doubted whether...

Mar 06, 202544 min

How Natalie Kalae Scaled Her Business with the DTH Blueprint

In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser , David Bosscher interviews longtime coaching client and salon owner Natalie Kalae. Natalie shares her journey from working in structured corporate salons to taking the leap into entrepreneurship with the guidance of DTH coaching. She discusses the challenges of moving to New York City, starting her own salon suite, and scaling her business into a micro-salon model. Natalie highlights how coaching transformed her mindset, pushed her to take risks, and s...

Feb 27, 202543 min

Going Viral, Getting Canceled, and the Social Media Circus with guest host Bek Sanders

In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser , David sits down with Coach Bek Sanders to unpack their wild ride through social media—from viral TikToks and trend predictions to internet backlash and the misunderstood nature of Destroy the Hairdresser. They dive into the emotional rollercoaster of managing online reactions, the fear of being misunderstood, and the freedom that comes with letting go of public perception. Plus, Bek shares her astrological insights into 2025, what planetary shifts mea...

Feb 20, 202545 min

Does Your Team Actually Like You, or Are They Just Pretending? with guest host Jennessa Couture

In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, David is joined by Coach Jennessa Couture, who dives into the complexities of leading a salon team and running a business with confidence. From addressing team resistance and the constant need for feedback to balancing authority and approachability, they explore the challenges salon owners face when trying to be liked versus being effective leaders. With real-world anecdotes, practical advice, and a touch of humor, this episode empowers salon owners to...

Feb 13, 202533 min

Passing the mic: Coach Kat and Kyle take over DTH

In this episode of the Destroy the Hairdresser Podcast , Coaches Kat Scott and Kyle Huntsberry take over the mic to answer questions from the Hairdresser Hotline and share insights about their podcast, You CAN Sit With Us. The duo dives into crucial industry topics like hourly pricing, the realities of salon culture, and the importance of inclusivity and autonomy in modern salons. Packed with personal stories, actionable advice, and an empowering message for hairdressers and salon owners, this e...

Feb 06, 202522 min

Commission Salons Are Not Dead—You’re Just Doing Them Wrong with Guest host Rachel Radford

In this lively and insightful episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, David Bosscher sits down with Coach Rachel to tackle salon owners' most pressing concerns, including navigating team resistance to change, the pitfalls of booth rental, and building a sustainable, innovative commission salon. Together, they share personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and hilarious anecdotes about the challenges and rewards of salon ownership. Packed with humor and actionable advice, this episode is a must-listen ...

Jan 30, 202528 min

Affiliate Freedom: How Hairstory is Transforming Retail with Wes Sharpton

In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, Cyd and Wes Sharpton discuss the evolution of the hairdressing industry, focusing on the importance of community, investment, and the changing landscape of retail. Wes shares his extensive background in hairdressing and his role at Hairstory, emphasizing the need for hairdressers to build wealth beyond their services. The conversation also delves into the benefits of affiliate links and the future of retail in the industry, highlighting the shift towar...

Jan 23, 202538 min

I'd rather go tipless than be topless

In this thought-provoking and hilarious episode, Cyd and David dive into the hot topic of tipping in the salon industry. They explore the origins of tipping, its outdated implications, and why it’s time for stylists and salon owners to let it go. The hosts share insights on how tipping perpetuates inequality, hinders financial growth, and keeps the industry from moving forward. They encourage listeners to embrace pricing strategies that reflect their worth, challenge industry norms, and create s...

Jan 16, 202514 min

Surviving It All: Beth Bradley’s Journey from Fear to Freedom

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, David sits down with Beth Bradley, a former DTH student and owner of The Collective Hair Studio in North Palm Beach, Florida. Beth candidly shares her rollercoaster journey from leaving a high-profile salon, opening her own business, and navigating life’s biggest challenges—including a lawsuit, a divorce, and the loss of her mother—all while building a thriving salon. Beth reveals how DTH coaching helped her become a confident salon owner, overcome fear, ...

Jan 09, 20251 hr 9 min

2025 brought to you by Groupon

In this lively and sarcastic episode, Cyd and David dive into a Hairdresser Hotline submission from a stylist who shares their tumultuous experience working at an Ulta salon plagued by Groupon clients, unqualified hires, and dysfunctional management. The hosts break down why discount schemes like Groupon ultimately harm salons, stylists, and their reputation. They discuss the importance of sustainable business practices, valuing your craft, and the freedom to leave toxic environments. With humor...

Jan 02, 202520 min

Down there hair

In this season-ending episode of Destroy The Hairdresser , Cyd and David wrap up 2024 with humor, reflection, and a touch of alien conspiracy. From exploring how the salon industry resists creative change to sharing hilarious moments from the Hairdresser Hotline (yes, someone asked for "down there hair color"), the duo reminds us why their insights resonate so deeply with hairdressers. They celebrate their students' achievements, challenge outdated industry norms, and promise more fun, spicy top...

Dec 19, 202418 min

Apps of the future

In this episode of Destroy The Hairdresser, Cyd and David dive into the future of salon technology, sharing the importance of staying ahead in an ever-evolving industry. They reflect on the challenges of launching their own app, the lessons learned, and their innovative solution for salon owners to create custom apps without a hefty price tag. From streamlining client communication to simplifying bookings and integrating push notifications, custom apps are poised to revolutionize salon operation...

Dec 13, 202420 min

The Retail Revolution with Hairstory’s CEO Dina Rosenbloom

In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, host David Bosscher chats with Dina Rosenbloom, the CEO of Hairstory. Dina shares her journey from Bumble to Hairstory, offering insights into the innovative affiliate model and Hairstory’s commitment to supporting hairdressers. They discuss the future of retail in the salon industry, Hairstory’s focus on staying small but impactful, and exciting updates like fragrance-free products and enhanced packaging. Dina emphasizes the importance of authenticity...

Dec 05, 202434 min

Hair for the holidays

In this lively and entertaining episode of Destroy the Hairdresser: The Podcast , Cyd and David reunite for a holiday-themed discussion filled with personal anecdotes, humor, and hairdresser insights. They dive into topics like setting boundaries with family during the holidays, how hairdressers navigate the complexities of doing hair for loved ones, and the importance of valuing your craft as a professional. Cyd shares a hilarious and heartfelt story about her long-standing dental struggles, wh...

Nov 28, 202420 min
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